xclaner Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Why Do Guys Think That Beautiful Women Are Harder To Pull Than Average Looking Women? Where is your source for more attractive women being hit on more often than average ones? Or is that just internet speculation? Even if so, the frequency of being approached is not the only factor that impacts how selective a woman will be. More attractive women are more rare and can attract more men and higher quality men. If she has had any dating experience, it’s reasonable to assume her standards are higher. That’s not to say the scenario you described can’t happen, but it’s probably the exc…	/r/seduction	16/06/26 11:32 AM
1	A lot of men are constantly contradicting themselves when they shame a woman for doing OF or being a porn star What exactly is your argument here? You just made an observation (which is true). People are hypocrites all the time, irrespective of gender, and for all sorts of subjects outside of porn as well If you are arguing that it’s wrong for men to be hypocrites on this matter, then it just becomes a subjective opinion. There’s nothing to debate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 11:27 AM
-2	Most of women's dating issues are due to the fact that they are all chasing the same top 5% of men. Change my mind. Apps are for profit but the subscription model prevents them from taking advantage of it. They need to actually provide real consistent value to keep a subscriber. Most people (men) aren’t dumb enough to stay subscribed month after month with no results.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 12:56 AM
8	Most of women's dating issues are due to the fact that they are all chasing the same top 5% of men. Change my mind. Women have a tendency to under-rate men. Often perceiving above-average men as below-average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 12:49 AM
2	What Is the cause for lack of empathy for men's dating problems? This is actually a great answer as it shows why women don’t understand - they think they go through the same dating problems as men. It’s a complete lack of awareness. Women generally suffer from lack of good options. Most men suffer from having no options at all. Doesn’t seem too different in theory but the distinction is crucial. It’s the difference between not being able to find a good job vs not being able to find a job at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/26 02:57 PM
3	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about The entitled woman is just someone asking for more than we think they deserve. Don't try to justify it by blaming men. If you're upset that a stranger doesn't want to spend more money to meet you for the first time, that's entitled. We can make a similar argument that women created low effort men. That after years of paying for dinner dates and getting nothing at the end, men realize that more expensive dates does not equal better outcomes. That a high-interest woman doesn't need an expensive da…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 10:08 PM
16	Best way to get a FWB as an average guy? The implication here is likely that as an avg guy - it’s not easy to find high quality fwbs - so upon getting one - you’d like to maintain it for longer	/r/seduction	22/07/25 05:37 PM
1	Why is this sh*t so hard? You probably haven’t improved your appearance enough - I didn’t get results until I locked in and went all out	/r/seduction	04/07/25 06:55 PM
1	Girl lost interest after I asked for a kiss Don’t read too much into it. There are a few different scenarios that can lead to this outcome and you really don’t know which one it is. She may have already not liked you from the start - and was being receptive to be polite - but kissing may be where she draws the line - (possible but not likely if she was genuinely interested initially) Asking for the kiss - especially for one on the cheek - lacks assertiveness and shows a lack of confidence on your part (this may be a turn off but if she li…	/r/seduction	15/06/25 04:54 AM
1	Friend broke up with her boyfriend If she is happy when she sees you she is ready for you. 😂	/r/seduction	13/06/25 06:54 PM
2	This question is for everyone about personal experience what do you consider obvious signals that someone is attracted to you and there's no doubt they want to make out, fool around, have sex with you? I’m going to assume this is man initiating on woman. There is no clear signal. You only know in the moment and people can change their mind in an instant. I’ve had girls that I hooked up with on the first date change their mind and want to take it slow on the second. I’ve had girls that came back to my place that ended up not being dtf. I’ve kissed girls at the end of a date that ended up ghosting me afterwards. There are signals that increases the likelihood though - typically they involve phys…	/r/seduction	12/06/25 10:05 PM
1	Are spontaneous daygame same day lays possible? As many have said - it’s possible - but cold approach is inherently inconsistent. The type of girls you’re looking for exist, but you really need to put in the hours and effort to find them so it certainly won’t be an efficient or consistent process by any means. Especially if you avoid pre-filtered environments like bars/clubs. If you’re not attractive and if you’re not looking in the right places for these women - you’re not going to consistently find them.	/r/seduction	05/06/25 08:28 PM
0	Are there many examples of looks taking a backseat? Looks are one attractive feature - but there are many other attractive features. Some women don’t care as much about looks. But basically all care to some extent- just some will weigh it significantly less than other factors. If you’re concerned about height - you’ll just be limited to girls that don’t care about height as much - they do exist but they are in the minority. You will still need to be discerningly attractive to her in some way though. Whether it be through muscles, money, personali…	/r/seduction	05/06/25 06:58 PM
1	Should I try to reschedule dates with girls who flake? These girls are probably on the fence about you - which is pretty typical - making it likely for them to realize they’d rather do something else than meet up with you when the time comes. And if you met these girls at the club or on dating apps they probably have other prospects that they are more interested in seeing and canceled on you to see them. The more I like a girl - the more chances (flakes) I will give her because she may genuinely have scheduling conflicts or things may turn around on…	/r/seduction	23/05/25 04:49 PM
3	Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7? Ratings are subjective. I’ll assume what is really being asked here is if it is possible for mildly conventionally attractive men to get highly conventionally attractive women. Of course it is possible, but it’s highly unlikely and I don’t think it is consistently reproducible. If anyone tells you otherwise - they probably have different/lower standards for what a 9/10 woman is. So when does it happen? When the 9/10 views the 6/7 as the best option for her at that time - and this can be due to a…	/r/seduction	20/05/25 07:58 PM
3	What’s the general rule of thumb in double texting? 3 is excessive as there has only been one exchange. 2 depends on her vibe. 1 is safe. The context and content of the double texting matters more than the timing. If she is not texting back quickly, she is either not highly interested, occupied with something else currently, or she saw your message and forgot to respond. If it is the first two cases, your odds of meeting up are pretty low regardless and honestly the timing of your double text won't change things. If it is the third case, timing a…	/r/seduction	24/04/25 05:08 PM