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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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9	Do we just say anything now to get men to like us? Couldn’t agree more. People give libertarianism such shit because of its association with “men’s rights” movements and pandering to men, and girls like this are only hurting the cause further. It’s the reason I started specifically calling myself a libertarian feminist - so people understand that my definition of individual liberty is very different from the blatantly misogynistic leanings of the mainstream movement.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/20 02:05 PM
35	If you're a male lurker here, and you're triggered by the content, its because you're the definition of LVM. Thank you. This whole thread of comments wasn’t sitting right with me. It especially irked me to see her comment on how women are “acting these days” because like... that’s a blatant male dog whistle for being uncomfortable with the fact that women are finally exercising sexual autonomy. Meanwhile women’s subs are like, “my boss grabbed my crotch in a meeting and I asked him not to do it again, am I the asshole?” So, yeah, not even the same ballpark.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/20 02:51 PM
66	If you're a male lurker here, and you're triggered by the content, its because you're the definition of LVM. I really fail to comprehend why you commented in defense of redpill/MGTOW men, or why you were upvoted for doing so. You can go literally anywhere else on Reddit and find men making excuses for other men who adopt this thoroughly toxic and harmful ideology—we don’t need that here. If you don’t know or have lost sight of how these men view us, take a look at the TRP sidebar. “Women are children” and “how to manage your bitches” are a couple titles that come to mind immediately. These are core ten…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/20 02:23 PM
49	Poly/Open Relationships: A Rant Thanks for being so willing to hear my perspective!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/12/19 02:38 PM
118	Poly/Open Relationships: A Rant This “different biology/wiring” is redpill shit, not to mention inaccurate. It’s been proven several times over that men are in fact more talkative and tend to dominate conversations when there are women present despite perceiving women as more talkative. The last thing we need to be doing here on FDS is perpetuating harmful stereotypes about women being tHe EmOtIoNaL sEx who can’t keep our mouths shut, in contrast to the Strong Logical Doer Men. I would argue that most of the women on this sub …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/12/19 02:35 PM
1	Being "submissive" doesn't actually help you attract or keep a man and is advice that benefits the man, not the woman. I imagine it made you anxious to think he may use things from rp to abuse you with? Not anxious; I know I'm far from helpless to defend myself in such a case, and I made it very clear from the beginning that I would not tolerate abuse (and that he could expect the same from me). More so distrustful of his motives. In my ideal relationship, neither partner would be playing games with the other or "keeping score" in any way. This would, of course, require a good deal of self-awareness and consciou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/17 04:33 PM
1	Being "submissive" doesn't actually help you attract or keep a man and is advice that benefits the man, not the woman. That's like me saying women are (fill in with negativity) because they take shits. Ew, blasphemous. Knowing that we take shits too. It just doesn't seem fitting for a debate or any intelligent discussion. Exactly what I'm trying to say. It's hypocritical of redpill men to criticize women for not knowing what they want from men when, in many respects, they don't know what they want from women either. I'm not passing judgment on them for a characteristic (that would be stooping to their level) so …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/17 03:01 PM
2	Being "submissive" doesn't actually help you attract or keep a man and is advice that benefits the man, not the woman. Never said they didn't. I was simply pointing out a prime example of the hypocrisy/lack of self-awareness that permeates the redpill ideology.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/17 12:42 PM
1	Being "submissive" doesn't actually help you attract or keep a man and is advice that benefits the man, not the woman. Your SO is open about reading rp material? Yep, and he used to contribute pretty regularly too. Told me about it several months back and I damn near broke up with him over it. Still not quite sure why he let that on; were I in his shoes I most certainly would not have done so. The Red Pill Constitution Thanks for the rec, have already read that and much of the sidebar--at this point I'm more interested in hearing what individual users have to say. rp merely levels the playing field for men by ex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/17 02:04 AM
1	Being "submissive" doesn't actually help you attract or keep a man and is advice that benefits the man, not the woman. My points of view about stuff in general or in this thread specifically? This thread! I don't claim to know anything about you beyond that. It's not you in particular that's the issue, either; it's redpill in general. I'm really trying to understand what exactly redpill is getting at, though (know thine enemy?) because it's been a long-standing point of contention between my SO and I that I'd like to get to the root of... hence all my questions for you. Do you find my situation to be common? Fro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/17 11:56 PM
1	Being "submissive" doesn't actually help you attract or keep a man and is advice that benefits the man, not the woman. Okay, I do believe I understand where you're coming from now, though I cannot agree with many of your points of view. Thank you for taking the time to explain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/17 11:34 PM
2	Being "submissive" doesn't actually help you attract or keep a man and is advice that benefits the man, not the woman. What, then, is in this for you, aside from having your food cooked and your home cleaned? Sex? A feeling of control? An ego boost? You could get those anywhere. Surely your life would be easier without having to guide your submissive woman through the trials of life, and surely you could find better companionship in other men than in a lowly female. Perhaps you love her, but you ought not to, as the one who cares less has the power, and an unhealthy imbalance of power is crucial to a relationshi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/17 11:07 PM
8	Being "submissive" doesn't actually help you attract or keep a man and is advice that benefits the man, not the woman. Ha! The worst part is that you're not even a little bit wrong. Ah, the sweet aroma of hypocrisy...	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/17 10:45 PM
5	Being "submissive" doesn't actually help you attract or keep a man and is advice that benefits the man, not the woman. What have you done to deserve a wife that is devoted to you above even her own success? What kind of life is that for the woman--and why should she comply? Do you consider the fact that you are likely sacrificing any woman with ambition/personality of her own by having this expectation, and does that concern you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/17 10:42 PM
3	Who's the most feminine woman on PPD? Sure, good question. I think you'll find that the answer lies in the wording. Notice that I said traditionally masculine values; these are stereotype-based and include "courage, independence and assertiveness" (Wikipedia) to name a few. They are correlated far more strongly with what males are taught from a young age than with males themselves--indeed, such traits cannot be tied to any one gender. Unfortunately, too often TRP and TBP (I'd say both pills are equally guilty of this) make that hast…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/17 10:15 PM
11	Being "submissive" doesn't actually help you attract or keep a man and is advice that benefits the man, not the woman. They complain when we're needy, complain more when we're independent, and still have the balls to say women don't know what we want? That's rich.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/17 09:42 PM
2	Who's the most feminine woman on PPD? Oh geez. That's just straight-up disrespectful to you. Glad you're out of there now!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/17 09:21 PM
3	Who's the most feminine woman on PPD? Your self-awareness is on point. Related to a good deal of this, too. Much respect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/17 08:54 PM
4	Who's the most feminine woman on PPD? Yyyyyikes. Can definitely imagine how that would get old fast. I feel like it's just common courtesy for anyone in a relationship, regardless of gender, to follow through on that sort of thing--especially when their partner is prone to anxiety about it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/17 08:52 PM
4	Who's the most feminine woman on PPD? I agree: in my opinion, it's not feminine any more than it is masculine. Almost all humans seek that kind of validation to one degree or another, and I've met (hell, I've dated) many a guy that cared far more about the emotional connection than I.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/17 08:42 PM
3	Who's the most feminine woman on PPD? -Age: 19 -Pill color: Blue-ish. A nice indigo, perhaps. -Femininity score: 34/120 -MBTI type: INTJ -I have a decidedly masculine personality--self-reliant, assertive, emotionally stable, etc. Essentially, I'm exactly the kind of female on whom RP seduction tactics fall flat, because I simply don't think in the way they expect. My personality is a bit much for certain types of men, and I'm perfectly okay with that; I've had plenty of luck with dating. I suppose a bit more femininity wouldn't hurt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/17 08:14 PM
2	Men only choose "girl next door" types as wife material because they have to introduce her to their mothers. Of course, and my opinion remains the same regardless of gender of child or parent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/17 07:38 PM
2	Men only choose "girl next door" types as wife material because they have to introduce her to their mothers. I was being sarcastic; I have no doubt that you are correct in that assertion (though if a man is truly misogynistic it'll often surface as a hyper-masculine effort to "protect" the females in his life rather than feminism).	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/17 07:36 PM
3	Men only choose "girl next door" types as wife material because they have to introduce her to their mothers. And that's a good thing--provided she's not demonizing said girls and setting her son up to be overtly misogynistic. I agree that parents should advise caution to everyone navigating the sexual marketplace, but there's a difference between that and encouraging him to distrust every female he meets.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/17 07:30 PM
5	Men only choose "girl next door" types as wife material because they have to introduce her to their mothers. Agreed. Marriage is one hell of a commitment and marrying anyone with a drug problem puts stress on the relationship from the get-go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/17 07:26 PM
5	Men only choose "girl next door" types as wife material because they have to introduce her to their mothers. Maybe, but I'm inclined to believe that a large part of the reason is that the girl-next-door type is, on the whole, easier to force into submission. An overtly sexy 'bad girl' would be more likely to be aware of her superior SMV, rendering herself more or less immune to shallow terp attempts at establishing control... and that scares the living shit out of them. (And besides, what motivation would they have to impress their mothers? Mothers are feeeeemale. No respect for feeeeemales.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/17 07:10 PM