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Dude needs help, not criticism.
/r/seduction17/02/12 01:14 AM
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read "feeling good" by David Burns. I think you could benefit from it. Also, something you need to REALLY understand, and something I struggled with a lot: Once you get women, NOTHING will change. Sorry, I know in your head it feels like once you start getting women EVERYTHING will be different and you'll just be this happy, awesome guy, but if anything you'll just get sadder, because you'll be disappointed. You need to accept this and realize that getting women isn't that huge of a deal, just f…
/r/seduction17/02/12 01:03 AM
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Part of your problem might be that you see them as numbers, or that somehow a hotter girl might be "different". Just see the girl for who she is and forget about how she looks.
/r/seduction15/02/12 09:44 PM
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This reminds me of something Tyler once said, about how tapping into raw attraction will never ever not work. "Avoid people that introduce themselves! They might have read 'The Game'!"
/r/seduction14/02/12 08:14 PM
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Dude. This was your FIRST approach ever and you're focused on that you didn't get the best possible result? That's such bullshit. You gave her your number. on your FIRST APPROACH EVER you gave her your number. keep approaching people, you'll start to notice where your lacking, and make adjustments accordingly. Until then just focus on the positive.
/r/seduction12/02/12 05:34 AM
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I meditate sometimes, doing like mindful body meditations, thinking about your body feelings and whatnot, so I understand that. But what I don't get is, what are you supposed to be doing while staring at the wall? What kind of thoughts should you be focusing on? What's the mindset I have? I don't really get what I'm supposed to be learning or focusing on in meditations like this.
/r/seduction10/02/12 04:31 AM
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You're learning these things so that you can create initial attraction and women can have the privilege of meeting an awesome guy like you when he might have just been lurking in the background before.
/r/seduction09/02/12 07:45 PM
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It's always best to be clear from the start. Just let her know that you're not interested in a serious relationship. If she ONLY wants a serious relationship then you should probably just move on.
/r/seduction09/02/12 02:56 AM
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What I've found about relationships is that people usually think of you however you are now and they rarely focus on things that happened in the past. If you just start acting a certain way without coming across as you're 'trying to be different' you'll be surprised how quickly the old you will be abandoned.
/r/seduction04/02/12 12:03 AM
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I wish he wouldn't have just shown a bunch of random clips and shown a couple of full interactions. Still a great video and I love his talk at the end, makes a lot of sense and summarizes the whole RSD mindset a lot clearer than Tyler sometimes complicates it.
/r/seduction25/01/12 08:34 PM
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What do you mean 'whats going on there'? He was just joking around and having a laugh with everyone.
/r/seduction24/01/12 07:18 PM
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Based on how you talk I don't think you've ever watched anything he's done.
/r/seduction24/01/12 12:31 AM
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I like that this subreddit is focusing more on inner game lately. I feel inner game is ultimately what will change you for the better in EVERY SINGLE aspect of your life, not just women. Good post.
/r/seduction24/01/12 12:22 AM
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Hahaha, oh wow. Why are the attractive people always insecure about their looks, it's weird. You have NOTHING to worry about dude, maybe just work out a little bit. Focus on developing core-confidence. Confidence from within yourself, not attached to external things.
/r/seduction23/01/12 10:35 PM
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i turn on some Wu WU-TANG CLAN AINT NOTHIN TO FUCK WIT
/r/seduction23/01/12 10:17 PM
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Just simply say, “If you show up wearing panties I’ll be very disappointed in you, and I’ll make you take them off in the restaurant, see you at eight.” ಠ_ಠ edit: I could see this being really effective if she's into kinky shit and really playful, but I wouldn't pull this on most girls.
/r/seduction23/01/12 06:52 PM
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Yeah. I don't think a girl would respond that positively if she didn't like you that way. But girls will be girls and she probably won't pursue you at all next time you see her because she expects you to. Speak to her honestly about what you want and what your intentions are and be direct. She should respond positively, and continue to escalate. If not, then there's billions of other girls.
/r/seduction23/01/12 03:18 AM
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Any tips for how to get yourself in the right mindset?
/r/seduction23/01/12 01:29 AM
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I don't know anything about his history, or much about him period. All I know is that in the Blueprint he very clearly lays out some very advanced social dynamics concepts and explains a lot of ways to basically forever change your inner game, and if you really take the concepts to heart, your life. If you're going to dismiss all of that because of something he did in the past and probably regrets then it's your loss.
/r/seduction23/01/12 01:19 AM
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Sounds like a successful night. You gained a lot of experience that you can take with you for the rest of your life now. However, some advice I would give you would be to pirate The Blueprint. You need to work on your inner game. You seem to have some basic understanding of pickup lines and you use all of these gimmicky PUA shit, what you should be striving for is really developing core-confidence from within yourself, not external confidence in some pick-up line.
/r/seduction22/01/12 09:11 PM
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Just a quick FYI - quite is spelled quite. All the 'quiet's were distracting.
/r/seduction22/01/12 08:00 PM
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I'm picking up a very chode vibe.
/r/seduction22/01/12 07:08 PM
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you're missing the whole point of the video. The point isn't to show off some cool pick-up moves, or that somehow literally picking up girls (I mean literally) is some cool new tactic or opener. Actually, the fact that you're thinking ahead and trying to force this into your interactions shows how much you're missing the point. The point is that he's living in-the-moment, he's in the 'zone', he's completely relaxed, dominate, and living outside of his head and not overthinking things. He's showi…
/r/seduction22/01/12 07:04 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Ixn9zPaja8 IN THAT SHART...............IN THAT SHART.
/r/seduction21/01/12 08:06 PM
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Rejection hurts so bad because you're outcome-dependent and you feel like if this girl that you're talking to is REALLY important that you make a good impression. Stop caring about the outcome, just be a fun guy that's having fun and let her see that without worrying about impressing her.
/r/seduction21/01/12 05:30 AM
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This is the mindest you should have. Don't think "damn, I didn't get her number", and focus on the things you DIDN'T do. You obviously are pushing your comfort zone and making improvements, so it's great that you're focusing on the positive improvements you're making rather than focusing on the half empty glass.
/r/seduction18/01/12 06:56 AM
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Left/right brain is a myth? What are you talking about? All those links just say that we don't literally have 2 independent brains and that they are dependent on each other, which is completely true and I know is true. It's been proven we have 2 brains that basically that work with each other in processing information. The right brain and left brain think and function differently, and together they form our normal consciousness. However, I say that you should focus on the right side more as a ge…
/r/seduction17/01/12 06:29 PM
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Some people are recommending hobbies. Sure, that's one way, but I don't think having a hobby is going to fix the core, fundamental part of his personality that he's trying to change. Part of being a fun, interesting person is simply a mindset that anyone can obtain, focused more so on using the right side of the brain rather than the left. My advice? Fake it till you make it. Smile. Complement people, make them feel good. Say whatever stupid shit is on your mind, do whatever stupid shit is on yo…
/r/seduction17/01/12 08:26 AM
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It's because before you sucked up to everyone and tried to please them. I know, I used to be beta as fuck and I would always try not to "offend" everybody, so everybody liked me. She thinks your misogynistic because you said that? You don't need her. She's a overly sensitive and you deserve better if she won't talk to you because you said that. It's just part of your personality/lifestyle change that you need to get used to.
/r/seduction16/01/12 07:13 AM
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I came here to say this. Weed makes me really relaxed and comfortable with myself. I don't fidget at all and my whole body language comes across as so much more relaxed and go-with-the-flow. Weed makes me fucking awesome at socializing and I feel blessed that it doesn't make me antisocial like I hear a lot of other people saying it does.
/r/seduction26/11/11 05:47 AM
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