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| 2 | Has any1 else noticed the Playboy label being plastered all over “trendy” clothing brands… it makes me so uncomfortable this is being marketed in an already porn saturated generation. Both PacSun and Urban Outfitters proudly promote these products despite historical misogyny. It gives me the ‘ick’.Not PlayBoy but just as gross: one of my college classmates wore a PornHub T-shirt to class… She often wears E Girl makeup and kitty ear headbands, and while the cat ears are cute or whatever; I think “kawaii fashion culture” may be infested with this kind of thing. Like when you look for sweet or gothic Lolita fashion, and DD/LG stuff comes up. Our class was working in groups and I complimented another girl’s shirt next to her, then looked at her and quietly gasped “omg your shirt…” and the two… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 07:47 PM |
| 25 | Scrotes and their effects on your lifestyle: FDS observations in the wildI love how you broke that down, it makes a lot of sense. I’ve had two long term relationships, and both times I gained about 40lbs just from comfort eating. Tbh I don’t mind weighing more if I’m still comfortable doing what I need to do like work, dance class etc. With that said, knowing the affect LVM have on my body makes me even more repulsed by the idea of being with them. It’s sad- so often they ruin in me what they were originally attracted to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 03:54 AM |
| 7 | Lurkers Stay Mad: Reported For Posting Violent ContentThings that happened when I got a hormonal IUD in high school: - worst pain of my life getting it inserted - dramatic increase in depression - spotting for 5 months straight - gained 50lbs And my boyfriend (who I got on it to sleep with safely): 1.Suggested he keep bc pills and give them to me everyday- like a child- because I wasn’t “responsible” 2. Stopped spending time (outside of sex) with me because I was “a downer” and he didn’t understand why I was so sad 3. Was convinced by his friend I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:17 PM |
| 0 | Is there a cure for pornsickness?My experience with porn has essentially been grooming. I spent 2nd-6th grade in private catholic school which taught sex is only for procreation, and I thought only men could have orgasms. Fast forward to age 14, when a girl I was friends with who sexually harassed me often, accused me of masturbating- which I didn’t know was possible. She also showed me hardcore BDSM porn, and did things like expose my breasts in front of others, blindfolded and tied me up with rope and duct tape at school, spa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 04:42 AM |
| 22 | scrote tried to neg me online, I used his words on himFirstly, good for you for roasting him, we love to see it. Secondly, there was a recent post about men draining energy, which is why they’ll try to provoke angry or sad reactions in women. I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately, I think when people project like that it’s a way of roping the other person into their negative life script. Maybe they want to see another person act out the anger they feel inside so they don’t feel so emotionally isolated. It’s an effort to avoid growth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Looking the same after babiesTbh, I think the stress, lack of sleep, and pouring all their attention into caregiving keeps mothers from looking healthy/happy as I would say. The “bouncing back” 100% is unrealistic, but taking care of a man-baby as well has got to make things worse. Btw I don’t have kids, but if/when I do I’ll make sure it’s with a man who cares for me and the kids so I can care for myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 07:58 PM |
| 10 | The idea that men peak in their 30s is a male fantasyI used to be friends with a classmate, who developed a crush on me, and I thought he was okay- until I watched him chainsmoke cigarettes- gross. We were getting groceries one day and he said “once I get started I just can’t stop”. Uhm… ok? Then he went on say “I was going to make a move on you but (our other mutual friend) likes you.” (Weak) I changed the subject, and I stopped seeing him after that. I thought it was so weird how he confessed to me and rejected me in the same sentence. :/ It was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 02:26 AM |
| 33 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 44 - Billie Eilish & How The Media Groomed A Generation of GirlsI really enjoyed this episode, and it made me reflect even more on how porn has directly and indirectly impacted me; which has been on my mind for months since finding people who are anti porn. I’m glad this is gaining publicity, because I didn’t ever hear an anti porn argument until summer 2021 (I’m 24 btw, in a very Liberal area). I hope it is stigmatized soon because I have been saturated in it and it’s sickening. I’ve been thinking about sharing a specific story here, but I’m gonna hold back… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Pretty Privilege is Real, But False and Fleeting.I’ve had a similar experience as well. As a child I had serious eczema, and gained weight from emotional eating. That, plus not knowing how to style my naturally curly hair, led to most people I met being extremely cruel to me. Eventually I found skincare as a way to stop compulsively picking my skin and to heal my eczema, I learned how to do my hair, and I started crash dieting so I lost about 30lbs. The difference was dramatic. I went from being completely ignored to being harassed and obsesse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 10:24 PM |
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