xerXXes_ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Helping an alpha widow accept reality You might be able to get her to settle for someone, but you're highly unlikely to get her to change her mindset, so it'll probably still be pretty disastrous.	/r/askTRP	13/10/15 11:15 PM
3	Self deprecating humor? Actual self deprecation hurts your image. Self deprecation jokes where you're pointing out a strength but pretending it's a flaw is fine.	/r/askTRP	11/10/15 05:58 PM
-1	Finally got laid a couple of times. Is it just me or do girls bodies look better in clothes? Usually the things that will be hidden are the gut, floppy boobs, waist, or ass, depending on which body part of hers sucks. Any fabric looseness in these areas will hide flaws. So oversized sweaters = hide a gut, flared skirts and dresses = cover the ass and leave a feminine shape, shift dresses = hide shapeless body and emphasize thinness. But also, stuff designed to hold stuff in will help the figure as well. Supportive bras = perkier, contained boobs even if they sag to her knees normally, p…	/r/askTRP	10/10/15 06:11 PM
2	Why pursue women at all? Not easy, but more like shortcut. TRP is like the slow and steady route -- at the end it'll be very natural and effortless to maintain ideally. PUA is about shortcuts and "cheating" that system -- you're faking alpha traits so it takes quite a bit of effort to maintain, but in the short term can be done faster.	/r/askTRP	10/10/15 12:41 AM
0	I was horrified when I first learned about this community/concept......and then I realized you are absolutely right! Probably the best/healthiest way to consider it is "happiness from another person". Sounds kinda bullshitty-vague, meh, but i think it's in the right direction. The thing you want to avoid considering love as is any sort of contract/commitment/binding thing. It's more of an action than anything else.	/r/askTRP	09/10/15 04:46 AM
3	The "Big Lie" is love: a copy/paste of kryptokate's amazing post. I think she's dating betas (not necessarily in appearance, though. These are probably her so called "needy alphas" lmao...) and has been alpha widowed with a messed up self perception to boot. Her hamster is on overdrive. Her message: women, if you've gotten tingles from an alpha and lose those tingles, expect to fuck a shit ton of guys trying to get your fix again and again...	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/15 12:16 AM
5	Two stories on my FB right now.how have i been so blind. This is lame. Either comment or don't comment I think he meant on his FB...	/r/TheRedPill	06/10/15 07:10 PM
0	Plates say I'm a "bad guy", "bad idea", "we really shouldn't have met" Like the other comment said, could be that they realize their decision making sucks, but i think there are other also-plausible options too: they might be cheating on someone with you and their hamster is going wild. They need to "feel bad" for that emotional plausible deniability for their hamsters... "I hooked up with him but i felt sooo bad and guilty the whole time!!" they're trying to draw out some assurance from you that you're not thaaat bad for them. Also trying to draw out some caring b…	/r/askTRP	05/10/15 01:49 PM
0	Girls who sugar coat interest in banging and then bail - aka Frosted Flakes Only thing i can think of is she wants some ego boosting. Doesn't sound like you're the type to become an emotional tampon and I'm pretty sure she can tell too. I think she just wanted to see if she could manipulate you emotionally and get a reaction out of you (you getting excited about the idea of sex with her or getting let down when she cancels) as a way to boost her ego. Maybe her goal is just to string you along and see how many times you'll try to set up something lmao.	/r/askTRP	05/10/15 05:04 AM
1	Women are like dogs. Never argue with them. Meh, the teenager/kid in an adult body interpretation is much better and more accurate than this. In this post you compared them to dogs and then went on to list four bullets, one or two of which can kinda be applied to dogs and the rest not fitting the metaphor well. It's a pretty good post for appealing to anger phase though, I'll at least give you that.	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/15 09:17 AM
1	Men are roided-up women I agree, though i think it'd be just fine if feminists who are already ugly beyond help started taking them and becoming more useful to society. :P I bet they would feel less oppressed that way too!	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/15 08:14 AM
2	There are no good looking feminists I think her appeal is in the fact that she's slightly plain and has a more young and cute vibe than mature (oldish) sexy. She's not quite the supermodel type, but she looks nice and young and has that girl next door sort of appeal. Add makeup and she's pretty enough. A lot of us here feel disgust towards the typical vapid slut and Emma Watson's image/persona she represents is basically the opposite of that, so I'm not surprised a lot of people like her.	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/15 08:08 AM
0	Is there a way to make a girl think you have lots of options even if you don't? I think OP means if he's not actually seeing any other women, not that he literally doesn't have any other options. (At least, i hope that's what he means). Anyway the answer for that is that the hamster will do all the work for you if you have high SMV, either when compared to the girl or objectively against society. In the former case the girl knows there's others who are better than her and a better fit with how she perceives (key word here) you. In the latter she just knows most girls would …	/r/askTRP	02/10/15 09:23 PM
0	Calling girls bruh and dude As long as you're not sexually interested with her then it's fine. It's pretty effective at communicating that you see her as a friend. Otherwise you should be showing your interest... Why would you help friend zone yourself or try to be ambiguous? The only way this might work the way you're thinking is if you successfully frame it as a joke/tease but idk... Don't see much point in saying that.	/r/askTRP	02/10/15 09:10 PM
1	Is this all there really is? Don't adapt to women. Lay down some rules, be alpha enough, and she'll adapt to match you... Even if it means "supporting herself" is done by outsourcing work to a few beta orbiters.	/r/askTRP	02/10/15 03:11 PM
2	Here, in video form, I present to you the young American women of today. It's only annoying when they don't know their shit though. Otherwise it's pretty nice when your girl automatically gets into your hobbies and stuff if it's done right. I don't think it's a bad thing for her to want to match you, it's a good sign when a woman follows you and adapts to you if she puts real effort into it. I think the idea that this is bad comes from projecting because it's beta and pathetic if a guy does it but for women who are supposed to naturally follow, it's normal and a good…	/r/TheRedPill	02/10/15 08:00 AM
1	Girl I'm dating giving ultimatum's we aren't exclusive Which, if you're doing it right, OP, means you fuck other chicks too. At the very least if the relationship is not exclusive you should be dreading her and showing there's other women in your life, because if it isn't exclusive and you one sidedly act like it is, she's gonna have 0 respect for you. You claim it's not exclusive and yet... She doesn't want you to take dance classes... Because you'll be dancing with a random chick? You did something wrong here, OP...	/r/askTRP	02/10/15 07:47 AM
14	Men aren't taught how to be attractive. Women are born into it. I know a girl who was not taught how to be attractive, and she's pretty much a bitter feminist. She's Asian and her mom is extremely paranoid about her going off with a guy before she finishes college (and is very controlling in general) and her family is poor, so she doesn't have nice clothes, doesn't wear makeup, and has short hair. She's also not allowed to hang out with people (even other girls sometimes) without her mom present. Thus, she's not attractive, closed off thanks to her parents, …	/r/TheRedPill	01/10/15 10:40 PM
25	How to tame a fox In a way, this piece also shows the possibility of abundance mentality though. (Although the prince doesn't actually apply it because there's no reason to; his rose hadn't pricked him yet.) He does however realize that his rose is only special because of his investment... Therefore any rose he picks and puts time into could be just as special to him.	/r/TheRedPill	01/10/15 04:45 PM
3	What are some of your personal, less common, red flags when it comes to girls? Yep, some are more logical than others under ideal conditions, but throw any feels into the mix and suddenly all the logic is thrown out the window.	/r/askTRP	01/10/15 12:48 AM
2	Wife jealous of daughter Haha, this is completely bizarre to me since my mom always wanted my dad to be more involved with kids. She would be happy in a situation like that. You could just call her out on her shit. That 1) shouldn't she be happy you're spending time with your little girl? What kind of mom is she to be unhappy about that. and 2) If she wants attention from you she's better off not getting pissed.	/r/askMRP	29/09/15 11:52 PM
1	Marriage counseling and women's self-defense courses. She hits you, you're the jerk. She learns how to hit you because you're the jerk. Shrinks are for mentally abnormal people looking to be "normal" (BP). Obviously if you're RP then it looks like mostly bullshit. Some aspects of being "normal" are healthy though, like not having actual mental disorders and like you said not having weird chemical imbalances in your brain. That's where they tend to be alright. But other stuff like managing relationships and other gray areas is where normal is not necessarily healthy or desired, which is why therapy for that stuff is closer to bra…	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/15 06:45 AM
13	Never let a woman disrespect you because you upheld the rules. You're technically right, but i would say doing stuff like that just gets you more unnecessary shit from plates. They're way more likely to try to pull crazy shit to try to get you to commit. Pretty sure this is how crazy sperm-jackers are made lol.	/r/TheRedPill	22/09/15 09:49 PM
2	A unique story I suppose... No, if you actually married her things will change. You would not be able to coast. You'd be giving her the only thing she's been chasing: your commitment. If you think she'd keep doing all those things for you after you give her marriage, you're wrong lmao	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/15 08:40 PM
2	How To Be "Alpha" In The Male Social Hierarchy Independence, freedom, and access to social circles totally different from her own. They also tend to be perceived as someone with the ability to give her the best sex of her life, since they are usually seen as more sexual compared to the more sophisticated "high class/career" alpha. The "attraction" tends to be temporary though because usually spoiled princess realizes she can't live her lifestyle on Chad's wallet. Then it's off to find her beta bucks! (That or continue to use daddy's credit c…	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/15 08:36 PM
4	How To Be "Alpha" In The Male Social Hierarchy Women are attracted to assholes because that's one of the manifestations of social power. But only lower class women will be attracted to them. Women who come from higher class families, as long as they're not rebellious types (those rebelling against their family will see those kinds of assholes as having power because he has what she wishes to have), will more likely go for a man who shows power in a socially acceptable way for her own social standing. OP is describing that guy. He's describin…	/r/TheRedPill	20/09/15 07:07 PM
2	What do you think of destroying the game instead of playing by its rules? I agree with you except for the methods of removing her independence/connection to the outside world. The only thing that you should need to get her to bend to your wishes is your disapproval. None of this logic/rationalization stuff. Because for this to work, she has to both need you in an extremely codependent way and also respect you. So her reason for not doing this stuff is because you just "don't like it" and she needs you more than she needs those things. Basically you're setting up the r…	/r/TheRedPill	19/09/15 10:51 PM
4	She wants to be the only girl in the world - [WOMEN WHO KEEP ONLY/MOSTLY MALE 'FRIENDS'] Girl with reasonable girl friends > girl with no girl friends > girl with crazy feminist girl friends	/r/TheRedPill	18/09/15 08:14 AM
3	Are Women “Underpaid” in Their Traditional Roles? Half the work is for her own benefit too since she fucking lives in the place for God's sake. They're just children complaining about not being paid enough for chores that need to be done anyway.	/r/TheRedPill	11/09/15 01:43 AM
0	Couldn't perform the last two times, do I play it cool or say something? If you say nothing, it's highly likely that she'll think it's her and not you. She'll also be more likely to forget about it once you get back to normal if you don't say anything and don't make a big deal out of it.	/r/askTRP	05/09/15 12:31 AM
1	How to conceal your intentions with women? Aspies naturally have an easy time not giving a shit and a few other behaviors that fit as alpha, but they suck at observing, reading, and adapting to social situations, which i would consider as something pretty important. So you'd have an advantage until something socially weird/uncommon happens and you're unable to read it and improvise.	/r/askTRP	05/09/15 12:23 AM
2	Male human asks for advice about his cheating girlfriend... Even r/relationships agrees he's a doormat. Yes, my last paragraph said exactly that... -_- I was saying the differences in interpretation are from the two different viewpoints... YOU are just looking at the text itself, OTHERS are making (probably accurate imo) inferences about the guy based on his other actions to interpret the text. We know he's a beta bitch, so we interpret that paragraph with that in mind. Both conclusions are correct, though. The interpretations used to get to them are just different.	/r/TheRedPill	05/09/15 12:13 AM
1	I don't understand women and their use of social media sites (primarily Facebook since that's what I see). Do they spend their whole lives on there? Validation is a big part of why women continue to use it, but i think the reason why they start in the first place is natural instinct. A woman's place in her tribe would be based on her social status. Besides her looks, her social status is one of the few other things that determines where she stands. Unlike a man, who can be totally asocial and still have worth to the group, an outcast woman has a much more difficult time. Social media is just one of the outlets that this instinct to be social…	/r/askTRP	04/09/15 11:31 PM
4	Male human asks for advice about his cheating girlfriend... Even r/relationships agrees he's a doormat. Maybe if you examine those words specifically, yeah, but i bet in person the way he explained it reeked of low self esteem/"nice guy"/loser. I'd be willing to bet it wasn't "if this relationship doesn't work for you, leave" it was "heyy if I'm not good enough for you and you find super Chad and that would make you happy well all i want is your happiness feel free to leave m'lady.". I think you're looking at the words themselves and others are interpreting them based on what we know about this gu…	/r/TheRedPill	04/09/15 10:22 PM
3	Women have better communication skills? Bullshit! Not doubting that it's real but it has different factors that affect it. Face to face interaction, which is what influences the social skills we're talking about, is not the same as online. There's more shame in approaching an ugly woman in public ("irl") than online, which is private. Face to face approaching requires more balls in general, beta men are less likely to, and they're the most likely to settle for an ugly chick. As for that askwomen thread, the obese women may be getting most of he…	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/15 09:13 PM
1	Women have better communication skills? Bullshit! Maybe online, but definitely not irl.	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/15 08:17 PM
1	Where to find marriage-quality women? It seems like the younger they are, the better. They will have less likely been riding on the CC and are generally more malleable. It seems to work based on some of the success stories I've read both in TRP and other subs. If you've ever read stuff in r/redpillwomen, it seems like the older the woman is when she discovers and tries to accept TRP the less success she has. (She try "changing" but still can't quite relinquish control, still has a bitchy demeanor, etc) Also, if you find someone prom…	/r/askTRP	14/08/15 06:24 AM