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| 2 | Have feminists actually directly killed people like other groups?I am all for humanising "incels" and other people with severe mental health issues, and with not criminalising and stigmatising the unattractive and the awkward, but there have been at least two incel mass killers. The guy with the nice car who made a manifesto and shot a bunch of people, and I think a guy with a van. They identified themselves as "incel", I think. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/12/21 08:02 PM |
| 11 | I wanted to take a moment to deconstruct these comments. How they confirm our distaste towards ideas like "toxic masculinity" and the feminist approach to men's issues.I subscribe to both this sub and that one. I have found things I agree with on both, and like to see both perspectives. However, over there, I have also seen a user unironically refer to himself as a "Low Value Man" and saying that he was aware of being one and that was his lot in life. This interiorised hate of ourselves does not help us become "better" to anyone. I think it is a way to keep men from achieving class consciousness, and some of that branch of discourse includes regressive, counte… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/21 01:44 PM |
| 6 | Women’s liberation vs FeminismMy ex is a prominent researcher on the plight of "the disappeared" and their families - the people who vanished without a trace, generally killed by organised crime or by right-wing governments in Latin America - An issue that greatly increased in Mexico in 2007 with the "war on drugs". Most of the activists here are mothers or widows, but there are also priests. A majority of victims are male, but not a huge margin of difference. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/06/21 05:16 PM |
| 2 | I guess men’s rights are considered “dangerous” and “harmful”What "help" and "support" do they offer? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/03/21 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Should we stop punching nerds? - a surprisingly in depth look at the disconnect between the experiences of different intersectional groupsI love this so much. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/02/21 02:40 PM |
| 1 | How feminist shaming tactics needlessly cause lasting sexual repression or guilt in a subset of men most sympathetic to feminist concerns.I appreciate your thoughts. The fact that I saw much of myself here pretty much proves what I have to do. Self consolation really does not help. It has been long enough. I am done. I greatly appreciate your help. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/20 04:24 AM |
| 6 | How feminist shaming tactics needlessly cause lasting sexual repression or guilt in a subset of men most sympathetic to feminist concerns.Oh no. Welp. Then that part I did not like. This being said, I will take action on myself next year so I guess my ending is better. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/20 03:26 AM |
| 2 | How feminist shaming tactics needlessly cause lasting sexual repression or guilt in a subset of men most sympathetic to feminist concerns.This hurt to read. I didn't really understand the ending though. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/20 03:18 AM |
| 2 | How feminist shaming tactics needlessly cause lasting sexual repression or guilt in a subset of men most sympathetic to feminist concerns.Your sharing this is just right. I hope.you can get out.b It does me no good at my age. But will they wash their hands when I am gone? Before I take action next year, at least I feel pretty vindicated I found this community. I wish something like this had existed in my twenties. I watched everybody around me build families. Find love. Struggle through tough times with a partner to lean on. All the while I had nothing. Because nobody was expressing interest in me and I was terrified of doing so f… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/20 02:54 AM |
| 3 | The issue of involuntary single men, addressed on a more or less neutral siteI used to teach history of literature. Campbell, Jung, and the hero's journey were a good thing to give to the younger generation. It was a better time for sure. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/11/20 12:45 PM |
| 2 | The issue of involuntary single men, addressed on a more or less neutral siteYeah, well. They still won and I won't just live like this as a useful tool. I will at least tell everyone off before the big day, not that they'll care that they made this happen. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/11/20 02:42 AM |
| 4 | The issue of involuntary single men, addressed on a more or less neutral siteThere is none anymore. I am out of time, never lived what I wanted, and I'm turning forty alone in a world that hates me. I do want to go to my favourite place for a symbolic sendoff, and that needs the pandemic to end. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/11/20 02:39 AM |
| 3 | The issue of involuntary single men, addressed on a more or less neutral siteWhich is why I have until some time next year. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/11/20 01:37 AM |
| 27 | The issue of involuntary single men, addressed on a more or less neutral siteHoly shit. An article that doesn't hate me, call me a rapist, or want me to die and doesn't tell me to kill myself or that I am worthless for feeling sad that nobody wants me. Almost science fucking fiction. I mean, I'm still going to kill myself next year, but hey, not everyone was against me. I've got that going for me, which is nice. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/11/20 12:05 AM |
| 6 | Article: Why are we are trying to change masculinity rather than create male-friendly services?Some specific men get to "open up" as part of their privilege. The rest of us, man up, work, die in silence. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/10/20 02:26 PM |
| 19 | Is there any explanation for why so many women say they want male vulnerability, yet so many feel disgusted at men sharing their feelings?What I read on another sub was "women are not there for your emotional labour" and if you have problems, you have to solve them on your own, or you are being abusive. And yet I also read that you should be open and share yourself. I believe what they want is for some of us to share a bit of ourselves and look cool doing it, and other of us to shut up and/or kill ourselves. The variety of recommendations as to be a good man, but also solve our problems within, and be fair and live happily has lef… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/08/20 01:28 PM |
| 3 | I was stabbed and nearly killed by a woman, then shamed for it.Yes. I agree with you on this one. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/07/20 07:24 PM |
| 8 | Is there a place to share anecdotes of being discriminated against as men?Off My Chest will ban you instantly, not without a bunch of responses blaming you. True Off My Chest has kind of had a very strange bias lately. More than half of the posts for a while there were like "I am X race, and let me tell you why I hate X race too", and "I am X sexual preference, and let me tell you why I hate X sexual preference as a community". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/07/20 02:02 PM |
| 10 | Is anyone getting tired of the feminist trolls trying to bully this sub into being explicitly pro feminist?Dworkin is the least friendly of the feminist framework, perhaps just under Solanas, to have anyone read as a way to feel welcome or introduced to the movement. Many would feel very alienated with her work, and that would hurt the movement more than attract more people to explore it. I think Lamas would be a far better reading for either side, or to those on the fence. But I don't think she has been translated to English. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/07/20 03:20 AM |
| 2 | I really don't think women understand the dating experiences of young menYou get it, comrade. And if it helps you any, I get exactly what you are saying. In the end, can we truly stop being who we are? And if we could, is there a reason we should? I think not. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/20 03:03 AM |
| 3 | Does Concern For Boys Put You In the Alt-Right? (ARTICLE)I understand this. However, he could just have asked "Why are you a communist?" without resorting to direct attacks. I would have loved to answer that, in a friendly manner. I have done so to many people in meatspace. He did not come to argue in good faith, and it showed with his second comment. I saw the man's profile after this, and it came clear the kind of person he was. However, I shall let it go. I thank you for your response and attention. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/20 02:50 AM |
| 2 | I really don't think women understand the dating experiences of young menI forgot to thank you for wishing me the best. I hope you are well also. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/20 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Does Concern For Boys Put You In the Alt-Right? (ARTICLE)Asking with direct aggression, calling yourself "better than you". Beatiful hand you are lending. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/20 02:38 AM |
| 2 | I really don't think women understand the dating experiences of young menI am fortunate enough to have a field of work in which my "freak flag" can fly freely, since I work in academic contexts. It has taken me a long time to get here, but I have learned to "hide my power level" so to speak, regarding these issues, so I can actually pass as neurotypical, at least enough to survive as a professor or a translator. This helps me interact socially as well, within my own limits. The world today is very difficult to navigate, even in normal circumstances, though. I feel li… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/20 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Does Concern For Boys Put You In the Alt-Right? (ARTICLE)Who the fuck are you to ask me what I am or not? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/20 02:31 AM |
| 6 | I really don't think women understand the dating experiences of young menAs a man in the spectrum who suffered with this throughout this crap life and just recently lost his primary relationship of 9 years and has problems navigating the shitfuck world of 2020, I have to say that you nailed it directly. This is what it feels like. Fuck. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/20 01:34 AM |
| 7 | A new proposal will give women free screening and coverage for anxiety under the American ACA. Men will be excludedNawh, bruh. You are just lazy and weak. Man up! Also: "Why don't men just open up" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/06/20 02:20 PM |
| 11 | A new proposal will give women free screening and coverage for anxiety under the American ACA. Men will be excludedMen can't have depression, anxiety, or fibromyalgia. I know, because that's what I was told when I had my hours cut almost to none at a very humanistic university. This decision was taken by a woman, who had had depression, anxiety, and FM, just like me. She did tell me to seek help with the psychological department at the university, though. That sure would help me recover my work and livelihood, right? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/06/20 12:59 PM |
| 4 | Does Concern For Boys Put You In the Alt-Right? (ARTICLE)I can agree with this. I am an older POC queer Communist from Latin America. I have actually lost jobs for not forming part of the right wing local parties. I have been discriminated, arrested and abused more than once. I am banned from some socialist, not even communist, subs, with no previous warning, for not being "left" enough, or because my ideas "sound like Elizabeth Warren" (Whom I started watching after the comment, by the way. I was expecting Ann Coulter for this to be an insult). I mea… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/06/20 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Handwringing over a female abuser’s suicide just before her trial.When our children fear any mistake they make will ruin their lives and are living on anti-depressants and spiraling down a path of self destruction. Yeah, this has been my life so far. Here's hoping I don't fuck up and at least I can kill myself and die alone without actually being accused of something. Yay. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/02/20 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Girl gets in trouble for wearing shorts because it violated the school's dress code. Somehow it was because of body shaming and sexual objectification. What??Did the boys punish her? Did the boys make the dress code? I work in a high school. We had no dress code until we hade a very bitter female principal (think Mrs. Umbridge in her early 30s) complain about girls' outfits and boys' shirts. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/14 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Buzfeed article about Man rating app Lulu starts off with "[l]et’s all agree—just for the sake of argument—that men are a lesser, subspecies of human, possessing below-average abilities in nearly allI see what you did there. ;) | /r/MensRights | 19/05/14 08:47 PM |
| -1 | Student Suspended For One Year and Stripped of Full College Scholarship for Hugging TeacherBoy, am I glad I don't live or teach in the States... My male students, high school level, generally shake my hand. Would that alone land me in prison? So do many of the females. However, I have had quite a few unsolicited hugs, among other displays of friendly affection. I take two steps back all the time, but I'm still hugged and patted on the back and handshook. Hell, it's customary, in Latin America, to have a lot of physical contact (kiss on the cheek, even!), and while I consider it a bit … | /r/MensRights | 16/12/13 05:40 AM |
| 4 | Question for MRAs: What is your "ideal world"?In my ideal world, gender is an outdated social construct. You are a human and have exactly the same rights and obligations - date whoever you want, do whatever job you want, and be the person you want to be. Gender is not correlated to graduation rate, or to science - because we no longer really see gender as an issue or as a set of instructions. Either gender can take power, and either gender has the same responsibility, because we no longer prejudge based on gender. Everything in this world i… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/13 06:50 PM |
| 6 | i pay $2,500/ mo to my ex-wife for 1 kidThis, a thousand times. I once had a great partner who started having contact with really shitty, shallow, and overall trashy friends. And some of these friends really wanted to fuck her. So they gave her "advice" and completely ruined many aspects of her. Her life really sucked for a while after this (dropped out, became a bar-hopping "party" lady, went astray overall). And just because she was easily influenced. She is an awesome human being, and is slowly recovering from this, though. At leas… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/13 06:07 PM |
| 1 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsI am always open to a good wall of text, comrade. It might be adversity that finally brings humanity to a new level? I both like and fear that. And you are definitely well versed in Star Trek. I recall one of the problems in the IVth movie is their lack of cash or a culture of using said cash. That detail stuck with me back then. About hard and unpleasant jobs, I could think of Japanese culture, which being collectivist, has cooperation with others, and the greater good, as an ingrained concept.… | /r/MensRights | 24/07/13 07:39 AM |
| 2 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsI am not precisely a young liberal either, sir. Wish I were. And what's with the accusations of plagiarism this guy is spouting? And what's with the "college reading" straw man? Heh, though I'm kind of glad someone sees me as a young one. Thanks for standing up for old liberals, comrade. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/13 02:45 AM |
| 2 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsAh, I sort of see this now. 1) I thought you were saying I was not a true communist, like that "true scotsman" argument. I bungled the nationality. Damn geography! 2) I am a reasonable communist. For me, the ideal is true communism, but we will not get there before the hybrid version. Being reasonable, not totalitarian, is a sort of "new" communism. 3) Post-Scarcity, in my very idealistic point of view, would be a lot like earth in the Star Trek universe. Or like the ideal communism that Marx pr… | /r/MensRights | 24/07/13 01:26 AM |
| 1 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsNot an Irishman either. I believe the ideal state of the world, post-scarcity, is a naturally communist society. And also, that all progress should aspire to that goal. I also believe in taking steps towards that goal. If for now, the first step towards true equality, and towards escaping capitalism, is the hybrid system, then I like that system. It has my beliefs and those of the people who oppose them. I don't think that a violent, radical overthrow of the current capitalist system is a viable… | /r/MensRights | 23/07/13 11:20 PM |
| 4 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsStalinist socialism failed for a variety of political reasons, indeed. The fact that the Soviet Union collapsed, however, is not the end-all be-all argument in favour of unrestrained capitalism. If we go to that extreme, capitalism will fail also. I think we should take communist, socialist, and capitalist ideas, and turn them into a system that permits individual growth without sacrificing the wellbeing of the whole of society. And, well, I believe the objective of any and all political and eco… | /r/MensRights | 23/07/13 10:04 PM |
| 2 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsDid the bad educated elite scare you? If you equate "growing up" with giving up knowledge or becoming conservative, you are probably the type of American that sees me as "the other", to be feared or mocked. I, on the other hand, see you as a person with different ideas that could have something interesting to say, other than insults and "witty" remarks. This being said, I wish I were a sophomore in college. You kids have awesome technology that I wish I'd had back in the day. Joking aside, we're… | /r/MensRights | 23/07/13 09:38 PM |
| 2 | /r/bestof no longer accepts links from /r/mensrightsI'm not an MRA but I simpathise with their plight. I'm a communist, which is what you can call an extreme left liberal. But I really like to hear comments from all sides, conservative, liberal, feminist, MRA, neutral. Otherwise, how is one to expand their mind? | /r/MensRights | 23/07/13 08:49 PM |
| 8 | HOLY SHIT. Woman allegedly sends ricin letter to Obama, tells the FBI her husband did it. Why? To win at divorce.The 4 jurors who voted not to execute did so because of the domestic violence claims. "She was obviously a victim" was the actual quote from one of them, according to CNN. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/13 12:01 AM |
| 5 | I've understood that attractive females are being nice by being mean to us.Are you a troll from Buzzfeed, and will you use this idiotic post as a proof that all of us defending men are like... like this? Is this Poe's law? | /r/MensRights | 28/04/13 10:05 PM |
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