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I don't mean to sound trite, but one becomes a good judge of character when one possesses superior character. No lists are needed because you see with clear eyes. You know what that poor reaction, flash of anger or small bad habit portends for the future. And you have the emotional maturity to be protective of your limited supply of affection. Probably could have stopped a couple sentences ago lol.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 03:35 AM
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Of course it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 11:35 PM
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It's accepted that men are the superior, logical see. Let them prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 11:34 PM
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Let's see the responses. I asked a simple question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 11:31 PM
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It's a fair question. If in colloquial conversation women are made out to be irrational, certainly there are simple logic problems they could not answer. At least one or two. Let them bubble up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 11:19 PM
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Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 11:16 PM
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My gf (7yr) likes to lean out of the door and wave me off to work. We smile and flash a little peace sign at each other for some reason. If she hears me leaving she yells wait, wait and comes running. She's an alpha female. A small gesture that says and means a lot.
/r/RedPillWives06/08/16 01:26 AM
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Naw man, your goal should be to have your shit on point in such a way that game isn't needed. What you're searching for is something I don't see mentioned here much - authenticity. Then you can be yourself without "just" being yourself. Game is a stop-gap. Don't get too attached to it.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 02:25 PM
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Hey somebody gets it. Frame is just how you choose to interact with the world-with people, things and intellectually. If one lives a self-possessed life, meaning you know exactly where you are and where you are going, in all areas, then "frame" comes naturally because you simply treat each interaction in the proper context. If you have to mentally "hold frame" then you've already lost it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/16 01:46 PM
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You are so into Instagram chicks that you actually recognized one irl? You are part of the problem. It's guys like you that give these women all the unearned attention, and then complain about all their unearned attention? How many of these girls do you follow? Why? How many would you recognize in real life?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 12:09 PM
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First, you are expecting too much. Ever have a friend who lost a loved one? What do you say? Nothing, really. You just try to be there however he needs you. You can't really relate, and to the extent that you can, you should know that you can't fix it. We suffer alone. Second, a women will be there for you when you are down. She wants to be there, because she loves you. If her attraction to you is so tenuous that the slightest lack of strength turns her off, you are probably a low value man, she…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 12:55 AM
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Allows me to keep my freedom? That doesn't make any sense. I allow her to play an incrementally larger role in my life. My freedom never gets close to being part of any equation.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 06:31 AM
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Do you even realize what you're telling me here?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 07:36 PM
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Go minimal. Certainly not a Fri or Sat night. For game three tell her you're taking her to dinner, then surprise her with some Taco Bell. At your place. For the game. Get out of the mindset that you need to impress her. She needs to impress you. Maybe skittles for desert.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 10:46 PM
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Sounds like you are scared she will know the real you and lose attraction. If this is the case, stay quiet. Completely. You have your life and if some sliver of it is worth sharing then share but share because you want to not because you think you need to. A year from now she should still be learning significant facts about you. And in the meantime, become a better smarter more accomplished man. Earn some confidence so you can approach any situation from a position of strength, not weakness.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 10:27 PM
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Not bad, but maybe in order would be a post about how to find and attract quality women. TRP men have lots of experience with sluts. Quite near a monopoly I would think.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 08:50 PM
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And that's bad how?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 12:55 AM
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Right? LTRs aren't difficult at all. Just have your shit on point. All of it. Good FR.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 11:35 PM
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Awesome man, great FR. Keep lifting, you'll need those gains to continue improving your marriage. Don't underestimate how crucial being physically attractive is to your marriage (edit) and your state of mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 09:20 PM
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Welllll there's a context. If she's travelling the word and hitting clubs without me, or interacting with hotter guys in front of me, then we have a problem, although I couldn't imagine that happening. But generally yes, men assume women have a male sex drive. TRP especially. And as it turns out they're kinda wrong and kinda right, as with all things TRP. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 12:22 AM
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What? No. TRP should not be banned. A mature version should be taught to all young lads, at least in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 12:15 AM
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I wasn't attempting to refute anything so I'm content with my lack of success. As I said, I've no problem with the premises. Hell, I just referred someone to /r/marriedredpill because I can think of no better place to go if one wants to save a failing marriage. I was asked to explain my claim of solipsism. When a bunch of dudes who cannot for whatever reasons attract good women just up and decide that good women must not exist... that is solipsism. When a dude posts a self-pitying story about ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 09:35 PM
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Sure. While their focus on self-improvement is admirable and on point, they also use any rationalization they can find to explain their lack of success attracting quality women. Off the top of my head... TRP: AWALT Reality: All the women I can attract are like that TRP: Hypergamy/Branch swinging Reality: I didn't meet her standards TRP: Women don't truly love men/don't love the way men do/Men>Women>Children>Gerbils Reality: In order to be loved you must be worth loving TRP: Must. Hold. Frame. Re…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 03:59 PM
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I'm neither pill. Or all of them, not quite sure. I have a lot more sympathy for TRP men than I did a few months ago. Through life I've always just assumed that lesser men still got laid, just with lesser women. In time those men fell from my social circles, but I still figured they were doing ok. But to find out how difficult it is for a significant swath of men was eye opening. Now I don't think TRP men are quite representative of the "average" class of men. Probably a little lower than averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 10:03 AM
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That's fair. But that's not what Whisper is saying. That last 10% for you is probably how she was in bed, your sexual compatibility, right? What he is saying is that men, or at least men of his class, are so blinded by lust that they are unable to determine if she has the qualities and virtues necessary for something serious, until after his lust is satiated. And then I guess they are again blinded 6 minutes later when they are horny again. I wonder, in Whisper's mind, how many "tests" does it t…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/16 03:48 AM
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He is a man, as am I. The "test" he is referring to is your sleeping with a man you are attracted to, as soon as possible, in order that he may see your qualities objectively without the distraction of desire. In order to even take the test you must sleep with the man, and since you should know if you are compatible (at least from his perspective) sooner than later, you should sleep with him sooner than later, to see if you "pass." This seems to benefit the man more than the woman, who would qui…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/16 03:28 AM
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Whisper, you seem to be obsessed with convincing RPW to sleep around more, and I'm beginning to doubt your motives. For this reason: the "horny goggles" never come off for more than a few minutes. You should know this. Therefore your advice to women to sleep with the man to discover his true motivation is a crock. How many men keep GFs they aren't particularly attracted to, and which mostly annoy them, because of their "horny goggles?" Because they give them sex? Their goggles allow them to look…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/16 02:14 AM
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That's great and well done, seriously. But what the fuck, he had to whip ass two days in a row, at 7? Where does he go to school? Compton?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/16 06:16 AM
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I'm pretty sure TRP's ideal man has a mix of the alpha traits discussed already as well as beta qualities such as intelligence, virtues, creativity, etc. It's not all alpha all the time, although that's the most efficient way to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 06:42 PM
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90% of the time it's a big red flag. For the other 10% it's just a way decorate their body. I decorate with muscle and style, to each their own.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 01:11 PM
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The women I go for generally aren't sleeping around, so LTR/monogamy is really my only option. Plus I don't have time any more to always be on the hunt, I've got too much other more important shit going on. Plus I tired of sluts years ago. There's something to be said for an emotional and intellectual connection with a quality woman.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 01:03 PM
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Who do you think TRP is for, exactly? Men who are already successful in the SMP?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 11:54 AM
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Heh. Guess my q might sound a little creepy. Bombastic means flashy but without content. Trying to imagine what that means irt style. Probably being too literal. I guess a little slutty looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 04:22 PM
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I'm having trouble imaging what "aggressively bombastic" looks like. Could you explain a little more?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 05:36 AM
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Yes you should most certainly pursue women you don't find attractive. Are you trying to ask why you can't find any quality women?
/r/askTRP17/03/16 05:31 AM
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Agree. My life at times be much easier if more men would just own their shit and be men. It's good for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 04:39 AM
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Was she serious, with vitriol, or was she just teasing?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 04:35 AM
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You are correct, but it comes at a great cost. A man must have mastered his life; at ease with himself, the world and his place in it. Only then can he enjoy the luxury of such frivolities as benevolence and generosity. It is the same in a relationship. He can be kind only when he has mastered her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 09:12 AM
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Low quality women don't make me any more prejudiced than low quality men.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 03:40 PM
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The objective is to become a higher quality man so you can attract higher quality women and never have to worry about dread. Or frame for that matter.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 11:08 PM
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Well done. Fucking sluts is a good first step.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 10:11 PM
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34 and just started drinking. I'll let you know how it goes.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 08:33 PM
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We only text when necessary, which isn't very often. Think long term. Do you want to be obligated to text often for years to come? No.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 09:54 AM
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That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 09:07 AM
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It is flawed, and even if I were smart enough to phrase it more elegantly, it's still flawed. But it illustrates a point, yes? Edit: Illustrates not demonstrates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 12:46 AM
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Still waiting. It's fine, I'm a patient chap.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 06:17 PM
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Why is it impossible for a woman to do this? Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 06:15 PM
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C'mon. This is yours and the RPers chance to show the true nature of woman. All the AWALT and hypergamy and the rest. If women cannot do or understand or comprehend certain things, show me. Yes, I know AWALT is a heuristic. Yes, I understand hypergamy. Yes, I know more about women than most men. I could answer my own OP in three different ways. But you cannot. Harness allll the TRP knowledge you have digested. This is a test. Because if you can't even construct a single scenario where women nece…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 05:58 PM
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/thread. Or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 04:24 PM
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Looking for specific examples, not what you wish was true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 04:23 PM
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So you think the women leaders were efficient, or tolerated? I'm still waiting to hear of that scenario where women are inherently incapable of leading or whatever. I WANT to think of women as the weaker vessel, so bad. It would b soooooo convenient. I would feel soooooooo superior and great if this were true. Help a brother out! If I could just casually discard these women, it would be so great, and good for my career. Women can't lead, can they? Sure they may be smarter, but doesn't the fact t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 09:58 AM
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I just might read it, thanks. But I don't think I need to. Perhaps I will write it. Because my judgements are congruent with my goals, which weigh heavily towards TRP, or Randian ideals. Rugged individualism. Thinking on this, I realize I'm the most judgmental, snotty and even racial person there is. Yet this is good. It's good to have standards, and silly to begrudge others theirs. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 07:30 AM
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Hm. So you are saying we all shit test but it's just not obvious. Interesting. I'm inclined to agree. Certainly I implicitly or explicitly assess and judge people. It's instinctive, automatic. There's a class of people I won't dip below. Hm. Thinking this through, I probably shit-test more than anyone, it's just not verbal and explicit and obvious. But it's there, and my standards are high, so if anyone could be accused of shit-testing it's me. Shit. TIL.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 06:57 AM
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Interesting, especially coming from a woman. If there is blame to be had, for the testing, do you place it at the foot of the woman or the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 06:14 AM
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I guess that's kind of apt, but I'm looking for more specifics. The Egyptians had many women leaders. Their failures, such as they were, had to start with first principles, no? Give me a specific situation where the women brain necessarily resulted in failure. Where the woman brain simply is not up to the task at hand. Necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 06:09 AM
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Sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 03:59 AM
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The OP was meant to distinguish those scenarios where men with our awesome logical brains would necessarily fair better than every women with their women brains. So far you haven't demonstrated this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 03:34 AM
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I like you, drok. I like your posts, they contain much honesty. More than one man has benefitted from your wisdom and experience, and that's more than the average guy can make claim to. But you are failing me here. Sure, women are more emotional. They are.... what they are. Any experienced man knows this. But you are not answering my question. Demonstrate to me how women are INCAPABLE of whatever you are claiming they are incapable of. Spell it out. I'm fairly versed in psychology and philosophy…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 03:25 AM
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How about the times they emotionally and intellectually handle a situation with more maturity than you? I'm looking for absolutes, not your pathetic life stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 03:03 AM
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Describe a scenario where women, intellectually and due to their evolutionary ills, could not not intellectually grasp and respond to a situation as successfully as a man, with his man and not woman brain, could. Discounting the obvious physical benefits a man has over the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 02:38 AM
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You are assuming emotions come into play. Is this a valid assumption? Re-read the question. Just because you cannot separate emotion and logic does not mean everyone else cannot. Re-read the OP. Are you making the claim that you as a male are privy to some truth women cannot fathom? If so then present your evidence and convince me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 02:25 AM
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Do you think we mastered the sabertooth because of our superior physical prowess or because of our superior intellect? If the latter then demonstrate how women could not outthink the sabertooth, how men can, and why.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 01:19 AM
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Re-read the OP. I'm looking for some vague idea about how women may or may not be better or as good as a man. Give me hard data. Show me a scenario where men, with their rational minds could objectively assess and address a situation that women could not. This shouldn't be hard, considering the significant shortcomings women are born with. Edit: spelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 12:17 AM
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There are lots of professional women athletes. They are probably all better at their sports than you are. Assuming you are male, how does this make you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 12:03 AM
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You're boring. Go away.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 10:50 PM
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LMR and rape intersect at times but are not the same thing. Surely you must know this.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 10:39 PM
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So you were just trolling and I wasted 3 minutes of my life on you. Good stuff, SR EC. Quick related question, SR EC: rape is a valid sexual strategy. Why isn't it discussed more on TRP? And try and make this 30 second investment worth it.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 10:28 PM
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Wanting to rape is not an emotion, it's the apparent result of your feelings. If you like I can provide a fairly comprehensive list of emotions, but you can google too. What emotion did this post arouse? It would be what you felt before you decided rape is the best response.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 10:11 PM
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The question was how does it make you feel. We can kind of deduce how it made you feel by your post, but it would help if you spelled it out as the OP requested.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 09:51 PM
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Sorry to break this to you but shit tests are the province of weak men and women and the company they keep. Mature, elite people do not concern themselves with the weaknesses of their fellow travelers. They are only interested in their strengths and virtues. Only weak people search out weakness in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/16 05:35 PM
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Your anger is generated by fear. If you conquer your fear you never have to deal with its consequences.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 01:33 PM
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Probably the best way to view TRP is as a support group for men. They are not there because they have a clear understanding of sexual dynamics, they are there because they do not. AWALT and No Unicorns and the like are just coping mechanisms... little systems to allow men to deal with unfamiliar situations with minimal ego bruising. Baby steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 06:38 AM
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