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Red Pill Theoryxerxes3/r/TheRedPill25/01/20 03:12 AM
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xerxes3/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:00 PM
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LTRxerxes3/r/TheRedPill28/01/20 06:28 AM
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Came here to say this. Women all love instagram and social media. Especially so when they are in a new relationship, they want to show it off. If she's not showing you off, there's a reason. Same thing happened to me. Was pretty pissed when I found out, but I'd say her fiance was probably more upset. Count your blessings!
/r/askTRP23/08/20 02:47 AM
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There's a saying, I forget from who: ​ Some women make good wives; some women make good weekends. Know the difference. Sounds like one weekend was enough to know.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 07:13 PM
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Hypergamy / AWALT makes it likely you'll be cheated on or left.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 02:47 PM
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Cat/mouse theory. Old school Mystery Method concept. Shove the mouse in the cat's face. Cat walks off. Pull the mouse away, cat chases it. Women have a similar mentality. Which is why the "false takeaway" or "freeze out" (in today's terms, the "soft next") is so effective at re-igniting interest.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:29 AM
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Even if it's not real, there's nothing else like love. Love really is a surrender of all your Red Pill instincts. Total vulnerability. Complete, really unjustified trust. Valuing someone else before yourself. Odds are, you'll get burned in the end, one way or another. The oldest Red Pill truth of them all, said by Mystery, is that attraction is not a choice. We don't choose who we fall in love with. We don't choose when to fall out of love. The heart wants what it wants. All you can do is choose…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:26 AM
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Something similar happened to me recently. Found out my "girlfriend" was actually engaged to someone else, living a double life. Told the fiancee and compared notes, we both cut her out. Took me a long time to get over it. Part of it is the sting of rejection and the pain of loss; the mystery of how you can fall in love with someone so horrible; and anger at yourself for seeing all the red flags but looking past them anyway. But eventually, you get over it. And it helps to go completely no conta…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:10 AM
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If only there were a sidebar post on this
/r/askTRP13/05/20 12:13 AM
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Based on your description it sounds like she's just reciting the truth that dick is cheap and available. Women don't need to "look for sex." Women are offered sex explicitly or implicitly 20 times a day or more. Everywhere. So they don't need to prioritize finding sex. They can have sex whenever they want it. What women can't always find is a man of value. When she uses buzzwords like communication or connection she really means she's looking for a high value man who JUST GETS IT. There's a scar…
/r/askTRP13/05/20 12:10 AM
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Yeah this is never a problem. It's an invitation for rounds 2, 3 & 4. She was just shit testing you with the line. Say something like "you should be more worried when I don't cum for you" or "what can I say I appreciate good work". In the future, follow the rule of first and last. Make her cum first, make her cum last. The number of orgasms you have in between is academic. If you had already made her cum she wouldn't be clocking out in the middle of your performance. But don't let it get you dow…
/r/askTRP13/05/20 12:00 AM
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1 - not clear that it makes you less attractive. See Robert Pattinson, Pete Davidson, etc. 2 - Nivea has a good roll on moisturizer
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:56 PM
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To steal from Roissy, just pass the JumboTron test. Don't say or do anything you wouldn't say or do if it was being broadcast on a JumboTron for all the world to see. If you were going to share pics of yourself snorting crushed candy off a stripper's ass in Ibiza, think again. If you were going to share a tasteful yet high value pic of yourself surfing, getting drinks with friends or with your arm around a gorgeous woman - and you can see that playing in center field Yankee Stadium to a cheering…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:50 PM
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Just ask her about sex. "What's your biggest sexual fantasy?" Now you are talking about something you both want to talk about, and she is giving you the cheat code to rocking her world.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:43 PM
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https://youtu.be/JYlPhFj_3T0
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 10:40 PM
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Yes I notify her by hi priority email
/r/askTRP15/04/20 03:51 AM
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Why are you advertising yourself as stubborn and resentful? Cut at "am"
/r/askTRP15/04/20 03:50 AM
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Lmao king troll
/r/askTRP15/04/20 03:34 AM
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Message another guy or two in your friend group. Ask if you've ever done anything offputting. If they agree and give specifics, it's on you, tighten up. If they don't know what you're talking about, he's white knighting. Signs point to the latter, as men resolve these things by doing - either fighting you or just ignoring/cutting you out.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 03:27 AM
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/r/askTRP15/04/20 03:17 AM
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It's just a shit test. But if it happens "often" why LTR her? Is it gonna be in your wedding vows? "I wasn't sure about her, but after she kept saying how she'd definitely cheat on me with Ryan Gosling, Brad Pitt and Andrew Cuomo, I knew she was the one." I'd probably silently demote to plate. In the future when you hear this, here are some responses: -Yeah let's call him up now. I'll pay him to take you off my hands. -Really? I think zack galifianakis (insert any ugly guy) is more your type. -H…
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:01 PM
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I don't agree with the comments like "40 hours is nothing" or "you just need to be better." No, work sucks and it's supposed to suck. Having to work to make someone else rich just so you can scrape by is demeaning. This is the fundamental problem of capitalism aka wage slavery. Feudalism was a system wherein the serfs gave up most of their time and fruits of their labor to a lord just for the right to be a tenant on his land. Unless you have equity/capital, you are by definition a serf, and capi…
/r/askTRP14/04/20 09:07 PM
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Barnett = Alpha, has 3 women after him, and they can tell he's alpha just from how he talks (tease, tease, tease) Mark = try-hard beta, pushing for commitment shows he lacks options, mega DLV
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:44 PM
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Was just talking about Gatsby being the ultimate red pill example. Gatsby makes Daisy the prize, not himself. Doesn't matter how rich, handsome, connected he is, by chasing her for years he puts her value over his. Tom couldn't care less about Daisy and openly carries on affairs. Ofc she chooses Tom.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:43 PM
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Women re-write history all the time. Admitting that she ONCE loved you and now does not would be admitting that she made a mistake in judgment. A woman will almost never admit that. Better to rationalize by convincing herself she NEVER loved you. Time machine logic(TM): A woman will convince herself that what she believes now is what she always believed and will always believe. Take a cue from her and live in the now, not the past.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 08:46 AM
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Counterpoint I rarely lift, have a gut, and date 9s you can too
/r/askTRP07/02/20 01:52 AM
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I think about this too. It's not realistic or useful to hard next lots of people in your life. But you can step back. Not seek them out. Give a reciprocal effort. They'll either notice and adjust accordingly, or fade away. Either is a favor.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/20 05:22 AM
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Im gonna take a different tack from most comments. If she were one of a dozen plates and/or you had hit on other women at this party to dread her....would this have mattered or even happened?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:51 AM
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Both are signs of lowered inhibitions and therefore a good time. Ideal plate material.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:42 AM
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"Ill probably be the reason your relationship ends" winky face and then ignore her until she booty calls you, which will be soon
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:41 AM
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In the future if a girl pings you for not texting this is good, an IOI. Her "are you playing hard to get?" You "easy to get, hard to keep" Her "are you playing hard to get?" You "new phone, whos this?" Her "are you playing hard to get?" You "you must think that a lot"
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:38 AM
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Disappear for a few days. That's all you need to do. Probably 3-4 days. If you don't hear from her first, after 4 days reach out and say you're doing x at y time and she can join if she behaves herself
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:34 AM
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Day game. If you're not good in a going out or online dating environment, try talking to people when you're going through your day. Laundry, coffee shop, subway, whatever it is. The bar is higher for day game but easier to be heard and take a less energetic pace.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:29 AM
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Your ex became a prostitute, and you had her for free. You win
/r/askTRP16/12/19 12:04 AM
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Men want to date their mothers. Women want to date their fathers. We can only get mothers love from mother. So when you open up seeking reassurance from your LTR you will not get mothers love. And she will see you are not daddy, but a little boy. Act like she's a bratty child, not your mother.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 12:01 AM
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3 second rule. Approach within 3 seconds of seeing them or you blew it. Smile, walk over, doesn't matter what you say if you say it with confidence. As you approach more 3sr is easier. Ever been in line for a game with a rowdy 45 year old dad who talks up strangers embarassing whomever he's with? Where's his approach anxiety? Be like that. Your attention is a gift.
/r/seduction07/12/19 10:44 PM
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Lose the gut. Get game. I guarantee these two things will boost your options by 150%. No one dates by resume. Your accomplishments are just one factor in your value among many. Looks and game play an overriding role.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:40 PM
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Game is timeless. Ask Ovid, Cassanova, etc.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:37 PM
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Get more options. Then when a girl is laying down conditions and not meeting yours, you will not hesitate to put her on the back burner or walk away entirely.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:35 PM
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Just like any other girl, theyre open to whatever their attraction is driving. It's just another way to meet. Like meeting a girl at the bar, except you've already cleared part of the attraction phase because she swiped right on you. Qualify her, light comfort, number close and set up a date. She'll let you know what she wants with her actions. Skip past the haters saying women just use tinder for validation. If youre high value enough, she won't just be swiping for validation. But dick is cheap…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:20 PM
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Lack. Of. Options.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:10 PM
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Arnold after someone threw eggs at him during his first campaign for governor is the most alpha reframe of all time: "Now he owes me bacon"
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:08 PM
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It's never too late to better yourself. Lift and diet to lose the flab. Not only will you look better, you'll feel better. Bald isn't a choice, but shaved is - heck, the ROCK is bald (read: shaved) and is the most followed guy on social media. Don't sweat the cheating on your self esteem - AWALT. Last thing- your age is a benefit. Studies show the most desirable men on dating apps are 50 years old. As Patrice O'Neal said, women age like bread but men age like wine. You can be a fine wine brother…
/r/askTRP04/12/19 11:06 PM
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