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Generalxerxeshordesfaceobli/r/MensRights14/03/26 10:48 AM
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Interesting,thank you for sharing.Is she also Jewish Orthodox?
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/26 10:50 AM
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Who filed first and what was her explanation for the affair.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 10:30 PM
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How old are the kids and how do they feel about him.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 10:27 PM
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Why are so many BF or Dude Affair Partners weird like this bro.Try to interject themselves and assert unnecessary dominance
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 10:24 PM
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What do you mean she likes women?And also what do mean when she finds a woman she has chemistry with?
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 10:00 PM
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Totally understand thanks for sharing
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 09:50 PM
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Is this a thing?
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 09:44 PM
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Was that BF the affair partner?
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 09:42 PM
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What happened with your ex?
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 09:39 PM
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What financial decisions has she made that have cleaned you out and what scams has she fallen for?
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 09:38 PM
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What has become of her?
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 09:37 PM
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What are major bad milestone events in your marriage do you think lead you guys here OP,and was your wife like this during dating?
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 09:36 PM
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In your opinion and analysis going back to the dating stage...why is your wife like what I'm reading. Has she always been controlling and manipulative and "I must get my way" type of individual. And would you say that she changed after the marriage pretty quickly?
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 09:34 PM
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I would document any instances of abuse,physical or verbal and more and of you cn get it on video with audio even better. Worse case scenario this will be turned back on you Is your wife also Jewish Orthodox and what have Orthodox counseling sessions gone like if you've had them? Sorry to hear about this man.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 09:31 PM
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Did your wife cheat and what in your opinion are the top 3 reasons that led to a divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 09:30 PM
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I honestly believe the entire data point of women receiving more attention is not their fault. Like not at all. As a matter of fact when I put myself into a woman's shoes and think about this dynamic it's not a whole lot different from when men (whatever position in life gets them there) get boat loads of attention. You really have no involvement in people who approach you either online or in person,unless you tailor yourself in a way on purpose to receive attention But here's the thing: Having …
/r/MensRights21/03/26 02:46 PM
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I think that those are real factors.I see more and more in the public zeitgeist that dating especially among Gen Z is on a downward trend However I am forced to confront that about 2 million marriages happen a year. Which means 4 million men and women get paired off and married. I think the stat for first marriages is 40% and when you average 2nd and 3rd it's 50% but yes its true women do file 70% of the time(for various reasons but all lead most of the time to the same court system) I do think …
/r/MensRights15/03/26 07:20 PM
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I agree that we need to be consistent if what we are asking for is what you yourself are,that is super fair and I agree with your comment. In other words it is sensible to be or try to be what you're asking for before demanding it Here's what confuses me 2 million marriages happened last year and the year before. That means for the past 5 years or so,10 million marriages have happened which means 20 million men and women got married. So what's happening?
/r/MensRights15/03/26 07:14 PM
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The Age Gap probably explains a lot. A 29 year old woman dating or married to even a 31 year old is not going to show up in the data. That's fair.
/r/MensRights15/03/26 03:16 AM
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I think complaints on both sides that are about behaviors and expectations and ideas that are actually harmful to the nature of a relationship are warranted and should be considered. Being 100% honest putting myself in a woman's shoes as close as I can,I'm very happy for you that your experiences have been overall very positive and represent a super encouraging anecdote of what can be out there anomalocarus,seriously that's wonderful to hear and I hope all youre experiences are terrific in the d…
/r/MensRights15/03/26 02:54 AM
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Mmmmm I see where you're coming from, it can't be true 100% of the time in every way (modern dating hurdles for men or women) considering over 2 million marriages happen a year which is 10 million people, but this topic has reached pretty high levels of notoriety and is prevalent somewhat at least in the West. I had a family member visit for the holidays who lives up north on the west coast and describes the exact same problem of men not approaching or participating. Partially from a guys perspe…
/r/MensRights15/03/26 02:25 AM
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Yeah sorry to hear that,I can't speak as a woman but I'm sure you're probably not overjoyed your options based off who approaches you are probably close to or over double your age. What I'm referencing is that these trends seem to be occurring increasingly so but also there is about 2 million marriages in the US every year so I'm confused what's happening
/r/MensRights15/03/26 02:02 AM
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I'm aware of the don't approach and against your favor atmosphere as far as approaching goes as well as the honestly craziness in term of expectations and standards just to "qualify" I'm aware of women matchmakers saying their is a problem in the market with unrealistic dating expectations in regards to height and income and lifestyle among their women clients What I mean is I'm seeing those trends and despite all that,2 million plus people 99.9% of them being man/woman marriages are happening e…
/r/MensRights14/03/26 12:09 PM
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I would like to hear the stories if you could PM me.
/r/MensRights25/02/26 04:58 AM
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Towards the end of the marriage what were signs (in retrospect )that she was checked out and was going to file.
/r/MensRights25/02/26 04:55 AM
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Is she denying she ever did anything and how's it looking,? Hopefully you're getting out of this unscathed
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/26 08:05 AM
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In all ways I can express,I'm sorry man.Definetelt not a good wife or individual to be having an affair especially while your husband is on deployment. Did your second wife want a big wedding and impressive ring when the conversation came up and how did you find out she was cheating if you don't mind me asking And hopefully no alimony or pensions or 401ks were taken from you post divorce...right?
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 11:56 PM
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The 2nd wife too?
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 09:58 PM
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Guy in his 20s surveying the scene of marriage in relationships in this era
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 10:32 AM
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You did the best you could and I think you're right about Social Media...it has warped reality,brains,and psyches in real time.Bad financial management is sure to be a blight on any marriage especially if calling it out is deemed "financially abusive". In your experience do you know men who live similar lives who are married.That they essentially have to be an ATM of sorts and allow the uncontested use of their cards,credit,etc,etc otherwise they're in trouble? I ask just to get a point of refer…
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 05:08 AM
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Sorry to hear that man can't tell you how many times I've seen your story
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 04:56 AM
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Do you know the dude?
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 04:51 AM
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So she was in contact with the dude while still married?
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 04:50 AM
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Bro what?? Her dream home and complete control of savings? How old is this lady?
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 04:41 AM
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This is insane you're like the 7th person on this post
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 04:37 AM
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What prompted her wanting an open relationship??
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 04:29 AM
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Examples if you're able to...of things she says is your fault.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 04:25 AM
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That sort of defeats the purpose and intents of marriage vows
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 04:10 AM
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Does she essentially justify affairs and cheating?
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 04:10 AM
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Congratulations man from alot of the stories I've read divorce for the man is like sending in a poodle to a lions den...could the poodle escape..maybe but highly highly unlikely. Seriously,and I hope she has a moment of reflection I've read scenarios like this all over the Internet Im trying to get a perspective here...forgive me if I overstep.. Is Husband life or being a "Hubby" as far as you can tell from other men you're aware of or friends with pretty much letting your wife use your card for…
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 04:07 AM
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Sorry to hear about the kid situation especially your son...hopefully he comes around and realizes you're in his side given time. Do your former in laws know she cheated?And did you ever go into a situation where your cards were maxed out because of her?
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 02:23 AM
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Not trying to raise up a stereotype but the never apologizing or coming to grips face to face over lying in court is so demoralizing to hear. Why did her affair partner leave and I feel bad for her to a degree....she really thinks she's the most reputable person to give relationship advice? And can't you use the ring camera footage as evidence for a better court standing or reduced alimony?
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 02:21 AM
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Did your ex cheat and has your children expressed in private that they at least like being around you? Either way it's a rough go man sorry you're going through that.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/25 08:04 PM
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What a character...finds out your spouse has cancer and gets mad?? How did your daughter react to finding out her ex bf slept with her mom? And what is your ex's status at the moment
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/25 07:56 PM
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I'm not going to hold back....this system is incredibly criminal. No one who cheats should get paid by the spouse who was cheated on
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/25 07:52 PM
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Examples if you don't mind me asking hombre of your 2nd wife's narcissism and insecurity
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/25 07:48 PM
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Is your current marriage good as of now?
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/25 07:45 PM
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Were you cheated on?
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/25 07:42 PM
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Was their another dude OP?
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/25 07:38 PM
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Dang I'm sorry bro,and I'm guessing she denied it? Has she at least apologized?
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/25 07:28 PM
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Half of the business account? The one that is used to pay employees of the company??
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/25 12:30 PM
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What does that 6 figure settlement amount to?
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/25 12:05 PM
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Dang man,sorry to hear that.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 06:27 PM
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What were their reasons why?
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 06:01 PM
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Why did she say she's leaving?
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 05:40 PM
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Is her boss married.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 05:38 PM
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What would you say are her flaws that make guys bolt?
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 05:33 PM
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Is the BF her AP?
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 05:32 PM
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Who was the affair with? And what has this country become...file for divorce when you're the one cheating with plans to get bankrolled for life?
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 05:30 PM
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Is your ex essentially crazy?
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 05:29 PM
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Who was she cheating on you with?
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 05:18 PM
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Do chores after separation?? Am I missing something? 80/20 on your part and you do the bare minimum??
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 05:05 PM
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Who was her AP if you don't mind me asking?
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 04:53 PM
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How did she get caught?
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 04:50 PM
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What made it cruel.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 04:49 PM
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What actually happened if you don't mind me asking
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 04:48 PM
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What do you mean she thought it was normal? Like a minor inconvenience?
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 04:41 PM
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Its like the same mechanism you see on social media when women say in regards to relationships "Why doesn't he know" or "I shouldn't have to ask" and also Showing what they believe flirting is and it'll be the most ambiguous,can be confused for anything action their is.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 04:26 PM
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I am extremely sorry that this is happening to you man Do you think she was seeing someone else and was the Boutique successful? It seems like no matter how much you do it's just never enough and it's actually a method in order to find fault to craft a narrative of wrong doing on the other party.....crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 04:23 PM
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I dont understand this.If a man clean and cooked and did all the necessary domestic duties at home before getting married... how is he a toddler?
/r/MensRights13/11/25 10:14 PM
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I think I've seen this story on a another forum but from the girl perspective. Just sounds SUPER familiar
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/24 09:48 PM
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This is going to sound crazy but does your ex wife have a reddit account This story sounds familiar....
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/24 09:47 PM
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The entire point is that man nor woman is supposed to have a basis of comparison for security experience except with your spouse. Your supposed to "not know what you're doing" Where does one "learn" to do "sex" You can commit yourself to someone you've never been intimate with because intimacy transcends serial intercourse. There is a heart/mind soul bond formed in real meaningful intimate relationships and I believe you don't need intercourse (man or woman) to experience that. Introducing inter…
/r/MensRights21/08/23 11:27 PM
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Literal murder?
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/23 11:06 PM
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Became friends 😉 with a 19 year old?
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/23 10:48 PM
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What forum if I may ask?
/r/MensRights13/08/23 02:41 AM
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I suppose if they where even the least bit educated, they would know about the infamous feud between St. Peter and St. Mary Magdalene, the latter of which Jesus Christ loved more than his other apostles, and had a child with. Any supporting literature or historical documentation for this I've personally never heard of that.
/r/MensRights07/08/23 11:24 PM
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Aren't your parents your brothers parents too....does he hate your guys' parents or something
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/23 04:51 AM
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OP what happened to the Biological father of your step daughter if I may ask and I am sorry for your situation.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/23 04:41 AM
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"There is no solution either for inceldom or for the free choice of women to choose who they want to be with" Are you saying that you believe in the "blackpill" and there is zero cure for incels?
/r/MensRights03/08/23 02:19 AM
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I'm curious....what is pinkpill exactly? Isn't it like the red pill but for girls? I'm asking you because I trust your explanation.
/r/MensRights01/08/23 10:27 PM
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1.From what year to what year did this marriage take place if I may ask. 2.What state do you flip houses in I'm interested in REI.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 03:54 AM
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What was your daughters reaction to the fake CPS report about m0lestation and were you by any chance being cheated on?
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/23 11:16 PM
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I HOPE TO EVERY STAR IN THE UNIVERSE...... That this is a fake story. OP do you live in the USA?
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 03:43 AM
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Yes they will do that...Ive toured the Christian dating field on reddit for 3 days know...they are SSSUUPPERR sensitive about that...
/r/RPChristians12/03/22 03:56 AM
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I think its important to clarify that not every man is into extreme red pill mantra and ideology.Instead its better to say men who believe in red pill are taught "such and such".Realize men and women in this day and age are fed lies via social media and false ideologies. Female Dating Strategy.Is the female extreme left version of The Red Pill.There is not 2 positive things I've ever seen on that subreddit.They HATE men and I mean with a seething rage and yet still want to date them and have rel…
/r/ExRedPill03/11/21 07:57 PM
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I used to be heavily in RP content but even coming across Fresh and Fit they are the worst and I mean absolute worst charlatans in that entire sphere. Myron literally reached out to a fitness girl and suggested they collab and said unless they date and f$!& he is not collaborating with her.Simply for the fact that "attractive women are common" and "high value men" are not. The RP 95% of it is toxic.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/21 07:45 PM
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Im terrified hearing this...could you possibly give some exposition on this?Thats crazy yo.
/r/MensRights05/09/21 10:36 PM
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