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| 8 | Any other men here feel like you were left for dead?THIS!!! A bunch of bitter old bags started the snowball rolling. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/26 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Ex brings homewrecker bf to my kids' events on my days with them.Just had the same experience at 2 months, which brought me to the realization that I had been cheated on. My post combat PTSD rage and the pain really fucked me up for a while. Then I started thinking about it. I then understood that she had been gaslighting me for the past year and a half, and that I wasn't crazy. My gut instinct HAD noticed, and I was in denial that it could happen to me. Then I knew that nothing I had done would have worked. She had already written the ending and was just del… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/26 02:10 AM |
| 1 | I’m Floundering BoysSame. 💯 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/25 07:09 PM |
| 8 | The real fight in divorce isn't about the money or the blame. It's the internal shit no one talks about.The lack of communication, and unwillingness to even speak about the feelings that she was going through, is what is destroying me. Ive spent 25 years with this person, through many combat deployments, working in LE for years. I did all the hard shit and work to provide and make happiness. In the end none of that work has been worth anything except sacrifice and pain for me. Not even a heads up, just...gone. I really can't even wrap my mind around it, and the lack of humanity has obliterated tru… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/25 04:35 PM |
| 4 | The real fight in divorce isn't about the money or the blame. It's the internal shit no one talks about.I feel like a failure despite giving my 100%. My lesson is that effort does not equal happiness for another person. Sometimes you just can't make it work, if the other person has quit. The setbacks financially are brutal, and for me, even more, it's the " what if's" if I hadn't chosen her. It's hard for me to do, because I love my son more than anything, ever. Im bitter that the best outcome for that is 50% less time seeing him. I struggle with the limitations of the area that I must live, so th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/25 04:25 PM |
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