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xgozax/r/askTRP21/10/18 05:21 AM
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Well I would argue a man can do a lot more with his life that could lead to better the world, better your family (siblings, parents), better your community, etc but it’s all a choice. Anything that will give you a sense of meaning or fulfillment is going to be difficult and sometimes super difficult but that’s why it’s so fulfilling.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/23 01:35 AM
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Your homeboys can understand the cultural references and experiences. Your girl will understand the inside jokes and references and experiences eventually if she actually loves you
/r/TheRedPill19/03/23 10:17 AM
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And sometimes if you pass the shit test you will get real iois and still a couple more shit tests after that you will still have to pass until you seal the deal. ( these are the ones you shouldn’t waste your time on but accomplishing this is so satisfying)
/r/TheRedPill17/11/22 02:04 AM
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A stepping stone to get into bartending is being a waiter if you need to work your way into the industry or work on your social skills.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/22 01:38 AM
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I think as long as you don’t stay bitter about it and have a healthy relationship with sex workers there is nothing wrong with leading a life like this. I would just assume the hard part would be to not be bitter or mad about the way things are. On the other hand I would say life isn’t about only doing things you enjoy. There are many times you have to do things you don’t enjoy to get to things you do enjoy. It seems you are rationalizing that you would not enjoy the final results without ever g…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/22 12:11 AM
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I’m pretty sure you’d find a lot more feminine gays before you found a masculine gay
/r/TheRedPill29/07/22 12:04 AM
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In the beginning I was the second and I took full advantage then eventually it turned into both. I wanted to have fun still but if something real came around I was open to it but the couple ones I wanted to commit to were opposed to something serious. Now I’m more solid in the first camp.
/r/seduction29/07/22 12:00 AM
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To each their own. Go for what you want and don’t shame others and don’t shame yourself if you haven’t reached a goal yet.
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:55 AM
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He’s kind of a dickhead so it’s alright to clown him a bit. He doesn’t care he’s making money and still fucking cause of his fame
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:49 AM
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From that small description you didn’t fuck up except for questioning yourself. If you don’t care about this girl like you shouldn’t then it don’t matter she will either come back or she don’t fuck with you and in either case you got other plates like you should
/r/askTRP29/05/21 06:54 AM
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She is bored or lonely or both. Might want to smash, if you’re over her and want to have fun go for it if that is the case otherwise I’d stay away.
/r/seduction21/05/21 05:50 AM
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Like most said don’t live in the past focus on the present and what you want right now you can make it whatever you want it to be. It might be hard but it’s possible. Good luck my friend
/r/askTRP01/05/21 12:04 PM
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Women, like men, all have different things they can be into about the opposite sex. But I guess you could say being quirky like that example you gave shows confidence and confidence in itself is attractive to everyone. However, being genuine is also a factor so if you are pretending to be quirky but that’s not genuine to who you are then it could be off putting.
/r/seduction28/04/21 01:58 AM
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Don’t be a statistic, don’t be average. Become a high value man. You don’t have to be a millionaire to be high value.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/21 05:03 AM
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I think it’s easier to say no to that fucking hot chick when you’ve been with hot chicks before already. At least for me it was. But I guess I also had an unhealthy relationship with sex and my desire for sex that was altered by childhood trauma and after working thru that as well it helped me realize I shouldn’t be wasting my time and energy if it’s a chore on hot chicks just to fuck
/r/TheRedPill27/04/21 04:59 AM
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No doubt that’s rough my dude but you gotta accept the things you cannot change. You can do your best at giving advice and pointing her in the right way to be her highest value self but you can’t change any one they gotta want to change themselves and too much pressuring on people to change can push them away from you too so you gotta be wary of that
/r/askTRP26/04/21 04:51 AM
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This guy gets it
/r/askTRP06/04/21 05:02 AM
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Lol when did RP become all Christian and morally superior lmao
/r/askTRP03/04/21 02:47 AM
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If you are not a soy male and you don’t mess with those women then why put so much energy in being mad about it? It’s hilarious and sad how much money men spend on it but it is what it is. Just gotta raise our sons and daughters to not fall into that but we will never eradicate it.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 02:42 AM
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As long as you are not a people pleaser you should be okay but if it’s hard for you to say “no” that is a red flag you might need to be introspective and see why it is hard. Do you not realize you’re being taken advantage of at times? Do you actually have a really good group of friends that are altruistic and only ask of you when in dire need?
/r/askTRP05/03/21 09:00 AM
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I’m not top 10% but I would assume at the top it’s still a numbers game because the higher in the game you get the better/hotter women you will want and they will be top of the women category as well so rejections will always be a constant
/r/askTRP15/02/21 12:19 AM
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I mean they are pretty much like most straight guys. Beta guys I guess they would be labeled. Similar to the ones who friend zone themselves with girls in hopes that they can turn the friendship into a hook up or relationship eventually.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 12:43 AM
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and to add to this sometimes after fucking i realize it was really a 0 and I made an error in my calculations and I learn for the future
/r/askTRP11/06/19 02:21 AM
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no he’s an OH daredevil and the sex is way better when there’s a thrill of catching aids
/r/seduction11/06/19 02:10 AM
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You’ll get used to the amount of alcohol you consume and crave a slightly higher dose to feel the same effects and that starts a slippery slope. I know from experience. Additionally drinking goes against TRP principles of living a healthy and productive life.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 05:01 PM
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they are all sluts my guy, the girl you will fuck tomorrow and the girls you have fucked and your mom and your sister. we are just biological creatures that like to fuck to procreate.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:36 PM
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AWALT
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:34 PM
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I mean if you really open your eyes most of the world is like this. Everything is a facade. Everything is a spin.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:34 PM
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that is what i wanna be some day
/r/askTRP06/03/19 10:07 PM
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keep em busy for us
/r/askTRP13/02/19 11:41 PM
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It’s fine when playing games is a hobby but for some it’s an addiction. For some smoking can just be a hobby but that is a very fine line to walk because I can also get lost in complacency if I don’t discipline my smoking. Pretty much if you have tendencies of an addict anything can become a negative. If it’s manageable you just gotta learn your own triggers and learn discipline.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 06:28 PM
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there’s no plan greater than my pride
/r/askTRP27/01/19 05:39 AM
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It’s funny I know men that can’t start their day without coffee, but you said it right just let it be a small part of your day not make your life revolve around it
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 06:23 PM
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Is it a red flag if she took a lyft and was dropped off by a male driver?
/r/askTRP16/01/19 07:10 PM
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You can’t make people change. You can try to put them on to the right things but there’s always a point with some where you realize they don’t want to elevate and you can’t force them too.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 11:09 PM
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Abnormalities happen in biology, but they are rare. So yes it is real but odds are she is not asexual. It is like the lottery yes you can really win but odds are you will not.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 07:40 PM
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I think in the real world there are people that are definitely born gay and some that are molded by their environment. I can’t say which is more prominent though but I have come across both.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 10:45 PM
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If you’ve heard this before maybe try working on doing more things that will make your stories interesting that you actually enjoy, watch some stand up specials, try something new separate from women, just work on yourself. If you haven’t heard this before then maybe she just didn’t vibe with you and forget about it.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 11:24 PM
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abundance mentality and make sure you dont suffer from limerence
/r/seduction31/12/18 09:39 PM
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Is this a younger thing? I don’t think Ive ever met anyone pretend to be depressed to be interesting. But sometimes people are sad and incorrectly call it depression if that’s what you mean.
/r/seduction31/12/18 08:12 AM
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How is he saying it is ok to be lazy?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 09:55 PM
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Weird observation from my small data set, I slept with a girl taller than me by a couple inches and she had the smallest vagina compared to the shortest girl Ive slept with. I definitely think that had to do with the fact the short girl was way more sexually active than the taller girl was tho.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 07:49 PM
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I heard somewhere 15 min was avg so you be above avg. I think the window is anything between 10-30 min depending on how y’all feelin
/r/askTRP25/12/18 10:19 PM
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There’s a difference if you bump into her and it’s just small talk or if you bump into her and she enthusiastically is trying to see how you were and if you want to hang soon and blah blah blah. If it is the second scenario you definitely can state your feelings on how she treated you, but if it’s the first just keep it short simple small talk answers and keep it moving if you really don’t care about this person. If she is not interested in you she might still engage in small talk but she won’t …
/r/askTRP24/12/18 12:14 AM
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the horror indeed, hahah yeah it all depends on dude if he enjoys the shy girl loosenin up every time a little more until she fucks. I have had times where I enjoyed this type of girl and times I haven’t and just next her.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:56 AM
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I mean growing up I was told that I was so great, and so kind , and so understanding , and caring , and loving. And then I find that that means pretty much nothing. Can confirm. I was told the same growing up then learned that at least in the dating department all of that works against you.
/r/seduction12/12/18 03:49 AM
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Its only her turn
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:02 AM
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I think a lot of men wear condoms more to prevent pregnancy and everything else is secondary benefits
/r/askTRP27/11/18 04:02 AM
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that’s a great time to learn trp and work on it. It take longer for some than others to be able to do this. I’m still working on this after 5 years but the progress shows and fuels me to keep improving
/r/askTRP02/11/18 12:03 AM
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I Agree with everything except the music part. Music is at its best right now because there is a plethora of artists you are able to listen to because of the internet. There is amazin music out there if you put in the time to look. Not saying that’s convenient as a listener that doesn’t want to be that invested in finding good music but to me the fact is there is great music this era. Now if you want to edit your statement to “Mainstream music was better when...” then I would agree.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 07:06 PM
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I somewhat disagree. Sex is one of my favorite things to do but it’s not something that should have been special or some shit. I had the same mindset of trying to find the “right” one when I was a virgin but I later realized I was brainwashed by my family’s religious ideals. That made sex a bigger deal than it should have for me personally.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 04:01 AM
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I would say refer to abundance mentality. Your last sentence makes me infer that you are kind of putting her on a pedestal in your own mind because you find her of higher quality than you are used to. Hold your frame. If she’s not responding to playful snaps like she used to and especially if u texted already and she didn’t reply ice her.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:37 AM
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it didn’t bring out something in you, you were already fucked up you just used substance abuse to cope and avoid which is beta.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 07:10 PM
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I don’t know what he was trying to say but what I would say is your marijuana use was a symptom of a greater underlying cause within you. It was your coping mechanism. At this point in time perhaps it’s developed into an addiction but very well could have started to avoid something subconsciously. At least this scenario is a very common occurrence but perhaps for you you just real liked weed that’s also a possibility.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 06:50 AM
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I have had a girl like this, they exist. However, doesn’t matter what the real reason for the flaking was I would give it one more chance and if she flakes again hard next.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 12:44 AM
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And to add to this take this opportunity to really learn how not to care. It was just your turn.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:23 AM
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I think setting the bar high though helps people reach their personal best
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 03:16 AM
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I think a lot of people confuse the idea of equality with the idea that people should be treated with decency. Just because I acknowledge that men and women aren’t equal doesn’t mean I won’t treat that woman with decency.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 09:57 PM
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Thanks gonna practice this
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:02 PM
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Do you believe saying something like “I thought you looked cute so I felt like meeting you” in the beginning of the interaction but then never go back to validating her would still be too much validation? I use this because I feel like it is bold and fits the frame but I’m wondering if maybe I should try something different.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:18 AM
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yea man and if she walks away you won’t get in that pussy and it’s her loss but at least you gave her the opportunity . When you don’t say anything it’s 100% chance you won’t get in that pussy every time all the time.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:09 AM
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... to the woman you are hitting on.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:53 AM
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this should be top comment
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 10:14 PM
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I agree with every point in this post except the subtle point at the end that Obama did a disservice to the country. Honestly he did the same exact shitty job Bush, Clinton, Reagan, Carter, etc did for the people of this country. But that’s a political point though that I guess doesn’t relate to this sub.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 01:48 PM
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Simply put its about balance
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 01:06 AM
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Definitely gotta find yourself a level 3 helmet and vest then bro
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 08:51 PM
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I think this could definitely happen but the rating is probably incorrect for sure. In my opinion it could happen with a 7 at most.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 02:38 AM
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you can sacrifice 3 hours of study time to do something interesting once a week don't kid yourself.
/r/seduction27/11/17 11:16 PM
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but everyone will say the matrix
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 06:42 PM
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I agree it's the hardest for ugly people out here but there's so many ugly people enjoying being victims of circumstance on this post instead of embracing someone trying to help them.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 06:14 PM
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I'd give her a strong 6 max
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 05:56 PM
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There you go spewing hate speech from the most racist man we ever known, Gandhi. /s
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 01:03 AM
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I never knew a brown man like myself was actually a white supremacist. Damn life is a trip.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 01:01 AM
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If it's in person I have usually said something like "damn ok playa I see you!" and then if they just own it and say something like "yeah well you know how i do" I'd say ok calm down you're not that special in a joking manner and change the subject. If she asks about how many I'm talking to or something I say "I lost count", and then change the subject. There's no point in discussing how many people you each are talking to because if you are just meetin or casual it's normal for people to be tal…
/r/seduction27/10/17 05:18 AM
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I agree but some people sweat profusely when they get nervous. That's what happened to me a lot in the beginning and even now at times.
/r/seduction27/10/17 05:12 AM
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and the ones that aren't are damaged. I mean I am too but damn lol
/r/seduction27/10/17 05:09 AM
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I think he felt too infatuated after two dates which he felt turning into oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 08:01 PM
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This sounds very similar to what happened to me with a co worker but I fought the urge to talk my way back to her. That talk definitely communicates that you care too much and can be seen as neediness. I just moved on to other girls and ignored her. Eventually she came back around when I stopped giving her attention and we fucked. However, after we started hooking up occasionally I somehow still ended up developing oneitis with her. I was able to not show the neediness just enough to seal the de…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 09:51 AM
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I think OP mentioned don't get married if she's pressuring you to do so that's a red flag, which I interpreted as that being the part where he fucked up at. I agree with you though it would have been nice to hear more of like a field report thing.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 10:24 AM
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I just learned this on my own recently by being the guy you describe as using words instead of actions to display non neediness. I have come to the same conclusion and really appreciate your post! One thing that's been hard to wrap my head around is the fact that clear verbal communication has always been taught to me to be the mature way to handle any social situation and just ignoring someone after you see them cross your boundaries without explaining to them first what your boundaries are see…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 10:11 AM
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Well I think it's possible to be alpha but then make errors at times and lose frame and fall into a beta state for a while.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 12:51 AM
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agreed. I've had 5 plates before and ended up getting oneitis with one of them. i knew better.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 09:57 AM
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can you be red pilled and be an orbiter at the same time?
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 07:41 AM
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It's never too late man!
/r/seduction26/07/17 10:26 PM
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Thanks bro this is what I needed to hear! I definitely had most of these concepts already in mind but seeing it written down really helps haha By the way, you said I should flip her attraction switches when we are hanging out, do you mean like turning her on casually and then continuing into something non sexual?
/r/seduction26/07/17 09:36 PM
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yeah dude i'm only 27 and i realized it recently. Well i mean you slowly feel it creeping up but then one day you just say nah I can't do this with anyone i don't vibe well with. However, I do think there are some men out there that have a high enough sex drive where they don't care and might never care and that's dope you know. To each his own.
/r/seduction26/07/17 10:11 AM
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tip 5 is definitely after you have fucked enough girls u weren't that interested in and realize it's not worth it anymore haha
/r/seduction25/07/17 06:07 PM
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Yeah the 7 11 dude should not have gone and hit her with her purse or whatever in the beginning when the fucked up woman was leaving. Working late nights you kinda have to accept stupid fucked up humans are going to make a mess sometimes youre gonna have to pick up.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/15 10:32 PM
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Doesn't really make em white Knights. Maybe white peasants?
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/15 10:22 PM
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I have had better luck on Twitter and Instagram than on tinder
/r/seduction29/01/15 09:53 PM
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Trust me I was ready to comment "you're ugly but you can still get a chick" but honestly after seeing the pictures you are a normal looking fell bruh. I would suggest styling your hair differently. Hit some weights , exercise helps your confidence. Have you ever seen the movie The Room? That lead actor has a fucked up face in my opinion but he even still gets women. You don't have a fucked up face at all so imagine what you can do.
/r/seduction29/01/15 09:48 PM
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I hate these academic definitions. It is the same way with racism. You can't be racist against white because racism is prejudice + power. (I'm dark skinned btw) It's some bullshit quibbling over semantics. Technically the correct term is prejudice against men and prejudice against whites. EDIT: changed text book definitions to academic definitions.
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