xgwen18 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Girl I am seeing playing mind games, showing some interest and then not showing any at all. Rollercoaster 😂😂😂	/r/seduction	31/12/21 08:21 AM
1	If I'm only avg height should I include it in my dating app profiles? That’s such a gross mentality. You don’t lie to people you care about, point blank. If you’re looking for anything at all serious, you don’t start things off by lying. The truth will come out. My most recent date was with a guy only an inch taller than me. We’ve already been on a few dates and I’m sure there will be more. Of course, you’re probably just going to take that and call me a liar because all anyone on this subreddit wants is to be told that they’re not “dateable” for factors outside o…	/r/seduction	30/12/21 04:58 PM
2	If I'm only avg height should I include it in my dating app profiles? If you need to lie to someone to meet “their standards,” why do you even want to be with them? Being dishonest is a bigger dealbreaker than height ever could be.	/r/seduction	30/12/21 03:46 PM
1	What's the deal with girl rejecting but still crying to keep the guy as friend. You can value someone’s friendship but not want to have sex with them.	/r/seduction	30/12/21 03:43 PM
1	The concept of alpha/beta/sigma males is bullshit. Independent, self-assured, centered men don’t care about labels Aragorn is an “alpha” man but he’d never call himself that. He can also kiss another man’s forehead and sing at his own coronation. Strive to be Aragorn	/r/seduction	30/12/21 03:37 PM
1	Girl I am seeing playing mind games, showing some interest and then not showing any at all. Rollercoaster It sounds like she felt you weren’t really that interested in her. If she was super into it at the beginning and you were too, why would you hold back and limit communication and interaction? I like a guy who makes me feel wanted, not one who pulls away just to act “cool”	/r/seduction	30/12/21 03:25 PM
1	(Need as many opinions as possible) Asked a girl if she ever sees us being more than friends The context that you guys haven’t actually met yet is super important to this. I’d have a hard time giving a solid yes or no answer to someone I’ve never met before either. I’ve met up with some people who seemed really great online but we just really didn’t mesh in person.	/r/seduction	30/12/21 03:20 PM
1	Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy? Reread what I said. I said generalizations such as “men are better/clearer communicators” are sexist. Don’t try to twist my words.	/r/seduction	30/12/21 02:39 PM
1	Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy? The sender and listener are both responsible for communicating their thoughts on a matter. Men are not inherently “better” or “clearer” when it comes to communicating, and such generalizations are sexist.	/r/seduction	30/12/21 02:07 PM
2	[deleted by user] Probably for the best	/r/seduction	28/12/21 12:17 AM
3	[deleted by user] Seduction, not obsession.	/r/seduction	27/12/21 08:50 PM
1	Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy? Oh I see you don’t understand the articles you linked at all 🙂 You’re in over your head, buddy. None of your arguments are actually scientific, you’re just misinterpreting the statements.	/r/seduction	27/12/21 06:42 PM
1	Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy? Bro that’s literally sexism 😂 You’ve literally already cited examples of women adopting male-leaning communication styles. Why are women expected to be the only ones to adapt their communication? Why are men not expected to adapt to women’s communication? If women are so bad at communicating and men are so great, why do men not adapt to compensate? Just because you refuse to adapt to different communication styles that women use doesn’t mean they’re bad communicators - it means you are. Communic…	/r/seduction	27/12/21 06:33 PM
2	Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy? Different communication styles are ideal in different settings. One is not superior than the other, and saying “women are terrible communicators” is sexist. You should try and actually understand the science before you try and use it to defend your opinions.	/r/seduction	27/12/21 06:21 PM
1	Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy? Cite your sources 🙂	/r/seduction	27/12/21 06:14 PM
0	Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy? Man this is sexist as hell and just plain wrong. There’s no scientific evidence to suggest men are better communicators than women or vice versa.	/r/seduction	27/12/21 06:08 PM
2	Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy? At least in that scenario it sounds like she’s struggling with balancing her wants/wishes with her anxieties, especially if she struggles with alcohol the way you describe. Personally I’d keep my distance too, just for my own sanity, but it doesn’t seem like an actual issue with you imo	/r/seduction	27/12/21 05:11 PM
2	Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy? Lack of self-awareness The guy is clearly looking for a mother, not a girlfriend Doesn’t have a good balance between confidence and humility Speaks over me or mansplains things to me Doesn’t express any interest in what I’m saying/isn’t an active listener Says things like “not all men”, calls women “females” but calls men “men” instead of “males” or other subtle sexist or racist things Our morals and/or interests have no overlap Is too quiet (I’m an introvert and prefer to date extroverts) or ca…	/r/seduction	27/12/21 03:34 PM
2	Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy? Number 3 is seriously such a big one for me. I don’t mind helping my close friends and romantic partners through tough times, but they need to be willing to help themselves and do the work.	/r/seduction	27/12/21 03:22 PM
3	Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy? I’m absolutely not speaking for all women, just myself. Just because I’ve enjoyed sex with someone before doesn’t mean I want to continue to have sex with them on a regular basis. “Dialing it back” at least for me means I don’t want that person expecting it to happen again or thinking we’re more than we are, even if they’re just thinking we’re FWB. If it does happen again that’s cool, but I don’t want to feel any obligation to fulfill a “role” as a FWB or something.	/r/seduction	27/12/21 03:20 PM