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Off Topicxiko/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 08:18 PM
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Do you think that men that weren't hurt deep by a woman can really take the red pill?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/16 02:36 AM
3

The best closure you can get is seeing how much better you are six months from now. She is cheater. It is done.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 12:14 AM
37

"Way out of your league." You are a man and she is a woman, that's all there is. Let HER decide that. You are doing good. Results take a while. How are your work/study right now? At that age you should focus on that and lifting.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 02:24 PM
6

Not in all places. I heard that in Brazil a law was passed that custody is 50% to each parent in case of divorce as default. Because the children needs the father as much as the mother.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 01:59 AM
1

That was my point. The guy is Finnish.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 08:01 PM
5

Do you know how cheap Brazil is?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 02:02 PM
1

Ask. My LTR knows she is different when she has periods and warns me.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 08:57 PM
37

Do a thread about it please.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 02:55 AM
1

It doesn't look like he cares about his career. It was interesting to read all the answers.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 02:13 AM
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Click on his nickname and read his other post. He is a "new" redpiller. All his posts are great simply because he was broken and he is learning all this stuff. It is enlightenment.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 11:40 PM
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I think that the first comment is the post itself.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 05:15 PM
13

Someone seems to be shadowbanned? I see 1 comments in thread but there are zero. Great Fr.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 04:01 PM
1

You really need to read more of the sidebar. You look like someone that needs a woman to be pedestalized to be happy. That is wrong. You don't need anyone. You focus on yourself. And for God's sake she checked out of the relationship a long ago. Stop talking to her.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 01:52 AM
0

Guys he is having FUN doing this stuff. It isn't a chore. Great FR.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 10:47 PM
0

The man will only understand the importance of woman when he had plenty of them. Abundance mentality is needed through experience to understand what really matters.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 06:19 PM
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And if you stay a bit after the end you can see that the female Teacher got the Helicopter Pilot memory as well! BE the helicopter pilot guys.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 04:02 AM
0

I was at a club that models go. There was this seventeen years old that I was chatting with no interest in having any. I asked her how many guys were trying to see her right now. She says let's look: 8 whatsup messages and 12 Facebook messages. She is fucking 17. Opened my eyes.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 02:26 AM
3

I understand when I don't want to see a plate anymore when the sex isn't exciting. Like I really don't want to do it. She gets the idea as well and we have a let's not see each other again. I use the feelings excuse which is true in my case.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 02:12 AM
0

In the message tell him to check the child's blood. If it doesn't match what he should have with his wife he should do the paternity test.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 04:37 PM
6

This Saturday Night piece will explain to you http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=f76_1323277426
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 12:51 PM
1

This exact scenario happened to me when I was young. I don't know how I managed to say no. Then once about four months later she called me kind of drunk and we had sex. The next day she told me it was awesome and I told her it was great an terrible. When she asked me why I said: "how am I going to forget you if we have sex?". No contact since and much much better.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 04:54 AM
1

Can you elaborate on slave mentality?
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 05:54 PM
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Apply boundaries. Mine are 1-dont try to hit on my friends and 2- I don't wanna know about your guys. And I do the same.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 01:31 AM
13

Did you say she had to be exclusive? I have 2 rules with plates: 1- Dont hit on my friends. 2- I dont wanna know about your guys. To have a relationship discussion there has to be a relationship first.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 05:04 PM
1

Desire is not negotiable. It doesn't work that way.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 06:35 PM
3

Just don't try to LTR the girl.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 06:29 PM
1

I went to Berlim and would live there for sure. Super cheap to take a bus to east to pass a weekend and lovely city. And the nightclubs are open monday-monday.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 01:52 PM
2

What do you want to know? You are doing everything right.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:04 PM
1

All Is Lost.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 02:20 PM
2

You can do a permanent thing to your body to raise your SMV to a specific demographic for a specific time of your life. Seriously? As the other guy said, do it for you and not for someone else.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 09:25 PM
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Are you having sex with her? Just stick in the period hole. She will relax.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 03:59 PM
1

Have you actually read the sidebar? It seriously helps you to understand everything that happened.
/r/askTRP07/02/15 03:40 PM
3

I set the boundaries. Examples: 1- Girl getting touchy in the nightclub: Girl I am not your man. And then physically moving her to her bf. 2- Girl ask me to go to a bar with her girl friend. I ask if my buddy (her bf) is going to be there. He isn't so I am not coming. I make myself very clear to my buddies gf that I am HIS friend. And if anything happens between them I am going to be his friend. Not hers.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 03:44 AM
1

When you open up it makes the other person more comfortable into opening up with you. When that happens you two create a connection that is pleasant.
/r/askTRP02/02/15 02:11 PM
7

Eating and sleeping right gives a TON of energy.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 02:46 PM
0

I have a 11 year old daughter. Actual quotes from 18-22 girls: "Whoa, she is so pretty! Nice job!" "For some strange reason it only makes me more excited." "Oh, do you play with her?" And so on. It is only an issue if you find it an issue.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 09:39 PM
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I talk to the young girls. I sabotage myself. I ask them why the fuck are they fucking guys that dont want anything with them (aka me). What is the profit of having a ton of guys? They dont know the answer and they keep fucking me. Go figure.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 04:43 AM
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I think it is GREAT when a woman self identifies herself as a hardcore feminist or stuff like that. I will easily know that she is for pump and dump only. I love to break the heads of some of my female friends by telling them that yeah, she can do whatever she wants, but that doesn't mean that I will fuck her or ltr her if she does that.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 01:26 AM
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It has been a week. You have her on a pedestal. Beware mate.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 08:17 PM
1

You do what you want to do and let them decide what they want to do with the information. I usually explain my 2 rules to my plates: 1- dont hit on my friends and 2- I dont want to hear about your other guys. If you say you are not monogamous the decision is theirs to keep hooking up with you. Stop making that decision for them.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 07:52 PM
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You are not using push, pull, you might be overusing it.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 10:44 PM
9

Recently unplugged guys need help identifying them because all the women were in a pedestal. It was a good post.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 11:31 AM
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The messenger isn't important if the message is right.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 09:06 PM
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I agree with that. I was only showing my ex-gf where her values came from. And that they are different from other cultures.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 10:21 PM
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I had to explain to a past atheist girlfriend that all her values are Christian. That she was raised with the morals of a Christian. And that has value even if she doesn't believe in God. That is what I explained to my mom as well. I follow the Christian morals and just because I don't believe in hell it doesn't mean I am going to do wrong.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:19 PM
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The sidebar is gold. Go there first.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 02:55 PM
1

Heh it will pass when you keep doing it. The way I opened for that was with sex. I started being way more dominating and not giving a shit. The girls said that what they loved most about me was the "I'm going to fuck you" eyes. If you really desire and want the girl make your eyes say that. No words will be necessary.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 04:43 AM
1

I am not saying that the girls do that. They always call me by my name. What happens is that I always use the same freaking nickname to my plates and indeed it blurs the girls. That is fucking wrong and I already told my plates that im going to call them by their name. It was fucking with my head somewhat as I couldnt remember what I did with one plate or another and stuff like that. I mixed everything.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 01:24 AM
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Closure is always for the girl's benefit. She crossed a boundary you had. No explanations are needed. Be civil when you meet there but only do that.
/r/askTRP07/01/15 09:34 PM
1

Holy shit the first paragraph. I call all my plates the same way my past LTRs. I have to stop that. Thanks a lot mate.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 05:47 PM
1

Agreed. It is the same to me. But you can have mini ltrs without being monogamist or lying to the girls.
/r/ThankTRP06/01/15 06:40 PM
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You need to refocus of WHY you want that.
/r/ThankTRP06/01/15 05:44 PM
1

My plates know before I even kiss them that I am not a monogamous guy. I lay out two rules. Dont try to get with my friends and I don't wanna to hear about your other guys.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 01:14 AM
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Can confirm it works. Did it without that specific purpose and next weekend she was way more nice and acted like nothing happened.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 07:38 PM
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You want validation from people of the Internet. You already decided what you want to do. Do it and live with the consequences.
/r/askTRP20/12/14 07:04 PM
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Heh. That comment could be somewhere here for the anti trp people. It is perfect.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 01:22 PM
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I have mini ltrs with plates. I like to go eat a hamburguer with one, to watch a movie cuddling with the other and so on. All of them know I'm not exclusive and I decided that I only wanted the good parts of ltrs. I don't feel lonely at all.
/r/askTRP15/12/14 12:21 PM
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Exactly. She only treated him the way someone should after realizing that. There is no free happily ever after like in Disney.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 12:16 PM
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I honestly don't care and don't want to know about other guys my plates might have. My only rule is to not try to get on with my friends. If she tries to gloat or anything like that I next.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 09:27 PM
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In a ltr I use the following advice: When the ltr starts talking about something I ask her if she wants advice or if she just wants to vent. It is great.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 02:33 PM
6

In Brazil a law was voted to give divorced parents shared custody as default (50-50) in time and money. Let's see if the president signs it.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 10:21 PM
3

You fuck more girls. Better ones. And you realize that the previous "one" you had was just a girl.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 06:24 PM
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The way I spin my plates are like a mini-ltr. They all know that I am not exclusive. I see each of them about 3-4 times a month. I do things that I like to do with each of them. I like to go eat something, movies, dance, cuddle in the coach and spooning, etc. I realized that I can do all the good things I liked to do in a LTR with multiple girls. And because you have plenty of plates it is harder to drop frame because you will naturally have an abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 03:06 PM
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It will pass when you realize that you can do things in a different way now.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 06:02 PM
1

You should go to a meeting just to hear them out. I brought friends there that thought I had told them their histories beforehand. The idea of the thing is that it mirrors your experience. You see someone else do the exactly the same thing you do. That way you can understand yourself better.
/r/askTRP21/11/14 12:44 AM
1

My father is 20 years sober through aa.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 10:54 PM
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I have one rule with my plates: my friends are not available to you. I use condoms.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 10:00 AM
7

It seems like a world of trouble for a few bucks. I would go no contact.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 09:56 AM
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That has to be a troll, it is great.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 09:03 PM
1

Tell the truth. "I am getting serious with someone. We won't be seeing each other again."
/r/askTRP12/11/14 08:59 PM
9

Get plates. Ignore ex.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 08:57 PM
1

Only because the guy is a redpiller it doesn't mean that he is going to be a good mod. And being a mod is like a job.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 01:40 PM
2

It looks like a nuclear shit test or the biggest red flag. Not good in any light.
/r/askTRP10/11/14 09:16 PM
1

Stop completely. Your first time with your girl you will cum fast. Then you go for the second time and will last longer. Try to have a mindset to sex that it isn't a thing you do but a place that you go.
/r/askTRP10/11/14 09:11 AM
1

Are you still marturbating?
/r/askTRP10/11/14 09:09 AM
1

You have to treat her exactly the way you would if she was ugly.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 11:42 AM
2

You are playing the sms game: "hey hey sara" - answer me "good blah blah blah, are ya free in the next couple of days lets go hike blah blah blah." - can I fit in your agenda? What I don't get is why you are playing it this way when you had sex already. What I am suggesting you to do is to simply be someone she is not expecting at all. You are going to call and tell her you are going to do something great and she is coming. Check the way I phrased it. The difference is huge. I am going to use th…
/r/askTRP07/11/14 03:51 AM
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Instead of the sms game being your frame it is now hers. So what I suggest you to do is to CALL her to confirm logistics. Yes she wins the game that way but that is not important. What is important is what you want to do. "Hey, I will go to X place friday. You are coming along with me." "Hello, I am calling to tell you we are going to go do X on saturday." They are playing the sms game because you don't know how to play it right. You don't have to take your time to answer to every single one of …
/r/askTRP07/11/14 03:31 AM
1

My only rule with my plates is that they don't get to get my male friends. That is it. Do whatever you want and I dont want to know. And always wear condomns.
/r/askTRP07/11/14 03:15 AM
0

Are you completely sure that it isnt your LTR asking her to do this kind of stuff? How old is the sister? It really looks like she takes you for granted and need some dread game to respect you more.
/r/askTRP07/11/14 03:08 AM
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You are over complicating. You want to go out with her? Call her. You want to do something else? Do it. You already fucked the girl, there is no reason to play a sms game to discuss logistics.
/r/askTRP07/11/14 03:05 AM
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You can either listen to us or do your own experiments and learn from experience. If you are young I suggest you to make the tests yourself.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 06:49 PM
2

I'm talking about the way of the superior man. My example is that she is dancing for herself and for me. Like belly dancers.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 06:33 PM
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This is from the sidebar. http://therationalmale.com/2012/09/10/men-in-love/
/r/askTRP06/11/14 04:25 PM
1

That is great, you will learn by experience. Try to learn that there is a difference about complaining about something and needing to vent and telling her about a problem that is pissing you and you have a solution. The vent thing should be done with friends.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 04:23 PM
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It is never going to be easy. You can't expect to be able to drop frame and have everything.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 12:19 PM
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She is not a man. She won't act like a man does in the same situation. Realize that you won't have the kind of thing you want with a girl and go talk to your male friends if you need it.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 11:35 AM
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Feminine energy. It fuels me. Get a girl that likes you to dance and you will understand.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 11:30 AM
1

I think it is for the best. You have been an orbiter for a long time. They are going to be surprised to see the new you but won't accept it fast. You would lose a lot of time showing the new you.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 07:23 PM
2

marry me?
/r/askTRP04/11/14 05:33 PM
2

I think you have to cum at least once in a month for health reasons anyway.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 12:36 PM
2

First of all read the sidebar in trp. All of it. Then you write the whole thing down here.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 12:22 PM
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Lawyer up man.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 04:16 PM
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It doesn't make a difference that you have a child together. You are learning it live instead of reading about it.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 03:02 PM
1

What are the results that you are expecting?
/r/askTRP31/10/14 01:27 PM
3

Just sai Hi and nothing else. That is it.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 06:48 PM
1

Sidebar about onetits. That is it.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 05:02 PM
1

And do they respond differently? I think that the girl should be more confortable with you if she did more things than just fucking and going home.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 09:24 PM
2

What are you doing after you fuck them? Do you sleep with them? Do you have breakfast in the morning?
/r/askTRP27/10/14 08:08 PM
3

Use we are going to my place instead of we should do something.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 09:05 AM
1

It is not about standards. It is about reality. Like the girl if you like what she is. Not her potential or what you think she is.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 11:21 PM
2

Im 30 and my plates are 20-22-22. When ANYONE tries to shame me I answer: "It her body and she can do whatever she wants with it." It is great to see their heads exploding.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 02:48 PM
2

What forbidden mark? My plates are 19, 22 and 22 and I am in my early 30. They told me they prefer older guys because they know what they are doing.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 04:05 PM
3

What it happens is that is just a lot easier to be hard.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 01:27 PM
2

There are plenty of hidden layers in art of seduction. It is great to reread a year after you are done with it.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 03:41 AM
3

And the run to like your things "first".
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 03:39 AM
3

You could have been stronger. The idea of no relationship is for hook-up. She loved the kiss and you can be way stronger in the next date. Try to make an adventure for her. Say meet me at x hours and do the stuff that you would want to do it without her anyway.
/r/askTRP27/09/14 11:34 PM
2

There are ways of doing that that means connecting instead of playing the victim. Re-read that chapter. I did manage to connect with more than on girl in less than 30 minutes doing that. They usually show their vulnerabilities as well. It feels really good. Try to go on a date with a girl you don't want to fuck and try to connect. You will understand.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 09:48 PM
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I went to a couple of dates with girls that looked thin and were fatties. You can connect like a friend does and it is good. At the end of the date say it was fun (if it was) and never talk to her again.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 03:25 PM
2

This whole thing is you playing on her frame. I don't see the reasons to do it.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 05:54 PM
2

The 4th date is not going to happen. Are you letting her pay for the drinks?
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 05:19 PM
2

Why are you still on a ltr with her?
/r/askTRP20/09/14 04:37 PM
1

Need more information. Your age etc.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 04:36 PM
1

If you want to be single, do it. If you want to slay pussy, do it. The good thing about having a lot of pussy is the abundance mentality. Bottomline it is just pussy and honestly it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 04:39 AM
1

I don't know why everyone is talking shit about this. He is going to do something that we know is bound to fail and post the results. Good luck mate and keep us posted.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:37 PM
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The most important thing to learn from this is to stop having conversations that aren't live. The only point of sms and stuff like that is to make a date to meet and send funny shit. Nothing more.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:26 PM
1

Liking a girl and being monogamous aren't exclusive.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 03:35 AM
2

Yes you can but that is so end game. Read the art of seduction.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 02:58 AM
1

Vulnerable isn't the same as whining. Go read the chapter about honesty and vulnerability again.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 06:30 AM
1

Are you using one the fits? I thought I had a problem until I tried some larger one. My problem was girth, not size.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 11:20 PM
1

Actually he can. He can say he isn't going to be exclusive but she has to. She can accept ir or not.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 02:35 AM
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You have to want to change.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 07:36 PM
2

That last phrase is perfect. Answers the question. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 12:59 AM
2

No. I tell them before even kissing them that I'm not monogamous and I am not looking for a girlfriend. I do fun stuff that I want to do with them. Going on a weekend to a beach with friends. Do a party in my place and stuff like that. I think that because I am not commiting and neither they are the amount of shit tests I get is ridiculously low.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 04:33 PM
2

She apologized. You don't have to do anything.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 01:36 AM
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Nope. They can deduce by Facebook pics though.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 07:17 PM
1

You only have to be polite. Say hi. You don't have to talk to her. That's what I do when I see my ex. I say hi, I am civil but I don't talk about anything with her.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 04:37 PM
2

There was an update on Brazilian sites about this. The news are fake and there are man living there as well.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 04:28 PM
2

Are you not interested in mini ltrs? You can spin plates that way. I really enjoy that.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 04:22 PM
4

I say we aren't exclusive and I'm not giving details.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 01:38 PM
2

It is a great excuse to fuck in the bathroom or shower. I really don't mind.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 01:11 PM
3

And I think you have to have the experiences. If I read trp when I was 20 I wouldn't accept it. After the failed experiences I can see the way the world works with trp.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 02:04 AM
2

I do things that I would do anyway but I invite them. Going to the beach with friends? Bring a plate. Party at my place? Call a plate. Park in the Sunday to have fun with friends? Bring a plate.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 10:52 PM
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I think you are in ltrs because you think either that it is the right thing to do or you are looking for something that will complete you. They won't. You are resenting them because they aren't changing your life and it will never happen. When you get single again try to understand why you need ltrs. Also take a good look at your life and see if you are happy with yourself without a girl.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 12:05 PM
1

I once went down on a plate and fucker her a lot. Afterwards she told me: can you believe I didn't cum? I replied with: "you don't have to cum to enjoy it a lot." She agreed.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 10:35 PM
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There are no problem with sluts. The problem is being a slut and trying to have a committed relationship.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 02:47 PM
1

I actually make the girls laugh when I'm in bed. When I'm not on the mood yet or something like that I really enjoy doing silly things and laughing about it. It makes both of us comfortable. I have been told by more than one of them that they love the hungry face that I do while fucking them like a neanderthal afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 12:07 AM
5

Don't mention anything but work. If she suggests you guys to do something say you are not interested.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 04:06 PM
1

We need more info. My plate got really drunk last sunday and I simply didn't fuck her. The next day I was like "wow you drank a lot yesterday and slept in 5 minutes." Tuesday she told me she wanted to fuck this weekend and I simply said: "Ok, no alcohol this time."
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 11:45 AM
1

I realized that gays are born this way because I feel no sexual attraction to males. My life would be so fucking easy.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 11:36 AM
3

I had a conversation yesterday with some friends and a plate who is a 9 about men and women friendships. She asked me if we would still be friends if we didn't have sex anymore and I told her that I am not friends with someone that I want to have sex with. I said that I have plenty of friends and don't need a platonic friendship with someone. She actually agreed with me and told me my friends are awesome.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 12:30 PM
1

The way I spin my plates is interesting. Everything that I liked to do in a LTR I do with them. Travelling with buddies to the beach? I take one of them. Want to watch X movie? Take another one. Want to go to a concert? Take another one. It IS strange. I was always monogamous. The difference now is that I only do things that I want and they are for the ride. All of them know they aren't exclusive and they are actually happy with that. I also have a lot of time for myself now and I'm content. I'm…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 10:03 PM
1

She is right. She is talking about the sexual marketplace. Which at her age there aren't any willing to commit with her.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 12:56 PM
1

Read the book that Tyler linked. You are feeling threatened and should chill and see what the reality is before doing anything. If he is temporary you should learn from him.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 01:55 PM
6

It means too long didn't read. Great story mate.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 11:07 AM
1

Remember that actions speak louder than words.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 11:41 PM
2

Are you both competing for promotions?
/r/askTRP10/06/14 11:14 PM
1

The only time you shouldn't use a condom is when you don't care if she gets pregnant.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 10:44 PM
1

I have a couple plates that I have rough sex and cuddle afterwards as well. You can have both. I realized that I don't have to have a LTR to enjoy LTRs activities. One of the girls I will take to see XMEN, the other one to a new bar that I want to try the drinks etc.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 07:42 PM
6

When you are not pretending anymore it is a lot easier and a natural way to do it.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 02:02 AM
1

Might be my subconscious saying I didn't make her pregnant and to do it again. I know it works.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 07:23 PM
1

There is another thing that is happening for me. If I come inside the pussy I am going to be lazier afterwards. But when I come in her ass or tits etc I am not satisfied. I will want more. That is a simple one to try.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 01:34 PM
2

You are only concentrating on the act itself, that is why it doesn't last. Focus on the dominance, say some shit, make her change positions a lot. Try to see more than the penis into vagina thingie and see if you enjoy it.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 04:57 PM
2

Have sex more times? I literally don't care how long I last the first time. That one is to take the need away. The second one is for having fun.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 12:53 PM
18

The one that asks for the condom is the one with more to lose.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 08:46 PM
1

I used that as a shortcut to what she believes now.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 03:32 PM
2

My last Ltr was one and a leftist as well. Over time I teached her how to think for herself instead of what she was feeded in university etc. She is now a first or second wave feminist instead of the third. I'm kind of proud of it.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 10:38 AM
1

I can't. If we are both drunk we go to bed and sleep it off and simply have sex in the morning.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 06:47 PM
3

Nah I like to do both. I fuck them like a caveman and like to spoon afterwards. The most productive thing I got from trp is that I do things that I want to do and not things that I think I'm supposed to do. And they love me for it. If I could be back in time to tell something to myself when I was 15 I would say that everything is going to be fine.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 12:47 AM
2

I said to all my past GFs that I wanted a princess when meeting my parents and a whore in bed. And I would be the same thing. That kind of problem I never had.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 09:09 PM
2

Ask her to do something. A dinner or a card that she has to spend some time doing.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 03:18 AM
1

My brother didn't know shit about programming. He decided to make an online system and learn programing. After two years he made it and made money from it. He got great jobs and after 7 years he is happily working at SoundCloud. Get a goal and do it.
/r/askTRP24/05/14 12:30 AM
1

He is a pua who made the book I said. He has a blog too. Google fuck yes mark Manson
/r/askTRP23/05/14 12:43 AM
1

One thing that helped me a lot recently was the phrase that she isn't the person that she was anymore. And neither are you. One thing you have in favor for you is that you are very very young. Good luck in the future.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 12:41 AM
2

One thing that I am doing after reading models from Mark Mason is to not feel fear of having polarizing opinions or attitudes. That is the way you are and if the person doesn't like you it doesn't matter. At least you found it out sooner than later.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 10:27 PM
1

Did you choose your women or are you choosen by them? A huge thing that happened after my last ltr was that I started to pick my girls instead of being picked. The same strange thing happened with my last ltr. Everything was fine but she ended it. I think they are too young to be able to commit like we do.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 10:17 PM
2

I would answer yes for both. If she didn't like the answers she should not ask.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 10:10 PM
5

While smiling. That is enough.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 02:52 PM
1

The conscious part is to not do most things automatically and actually think what I want to happen in the situations I am in. Not in sex though, I just let my caveman get over and do what I want. That part is fucking great now and very different of what I used to do.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 02:58 PM
1

I was like you. The difference was that the girls I committed were ltr material. Now they aren't and that is not a problem because I don't want to.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 12:28 PM
1

I am pretty sure I am a plate to my plates. And sincerely it doesn't bother me at all.
/r/askTRP18/05/14 06:42 PM
2

Your quote about sex and relationships is so perfect. It is true!
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 02:49 AM
1

So you are planning your future on your kids surviving and taking care of you?
/r/askTRP15/05/14 07:08 PM
1

The way I do you can say I have multiple girlfriends. They all know they aren't exclusive and I do enjoy going out to dinner/dance etc with my plates. The thing is that I realized that I can get everything that I liked in a LTR with multiple plates.
/r/askTRP14/05/14 08:12 PM
1

It looks like you covered what needed to be covered. Do you want to get other girls? That is why you suggested the fuck buddies thing?
/r/askTRP13/05/14 06:56 PM
3

Fuck. Eye opener indeed.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 07:23 PM
1

I am pretty sure that is what happening with my plates and honestly it doesn't bother me at all. Should I be worried?
/r/askTRP10/05/14 05:33 PM
2

I didn't know it was like that for them or for me. I am 30 now and life couldn't be better.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:17 AM
4

Say you are a garbage man. I am an it guy. My company makes subway planning and it is actually cool. What I answer is "I help build subway stations."
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 04:20 AM
1

And this is the correct answer for myself in all those past failed ltrs.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 02:09 AM
4

Read the material in the sidebar of trp. You are doing stuff to have affection back, this is not going to work. I suggest you to read no more Mr nice guy.
/r/askTRP03/05/14 03:20 PM
3

I sincerely hope you have more plates. That is why they are there.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 06:50 AM
1

I am still on the amazed phase. I didn't think my life could be this way. Everything seems so simple now.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 04:05 AM
1

More of them are willing to fulfill your fantasies if you go out and try.
/r/askTRP30/04/14 01:57 PM
2

So she is increasing her SMV and has no problem going to a hotel with a new guy?
/r/askTRP30/04/14 01:41 PM
5

I like Tucker Max question about it: "-If you told your dad how many cocks have been in your mouth would he say you are a slut?"
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 08:21 PM
4

Sometimes I want to watch a movie cuddling. Sometimes I want to make food with a girl. Sometimes I want to go to dinner and talk about nonsense. I do all those things randomly with my plates. I don't have to have a relationship to do the good things I like in a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 08:18 PM
1

I dont see any advantage of having that discussion with girls.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 11:26 AM
2

Not necessarily. I don't have lots of free time so if I am going to a party and still want to bang the plate latter I simply take her with me. I introduce them like: "hey guys this is X." If someone asks what kind of relationship we have I say that she is with me and that is it.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 05:43 PM
29

This happened this past weekend. I was showing something on my cellular to my plate and suddenly "Tinder Match!", "Tinder Message!". I simply ignored what happened and kept showing her the pics. Then later I was showing her something on Facebook and suddenly a message from a girl pops "Hey there gorgeous, are we going to see each other this weekend?". AT THE SAME FREAKING TIME another girl: "It has been too long and I miss you, when are you seeing me?". My insides were melting but I managed to s…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 02:11 PM
2

I was at a model's party and I asked this 18 year old gorgeous girl how many guys were trying to go out with her NOW. Her: "lets check the facebook, 10 guys." Me: "What about whats'up?" Her: "35 unread messages, I won't even see them." Then I asked the same to this 17 year old and there was 8 guys at that time. 5pm on a SUNDAY. Of course they were 9-10 but that put things in perspective to me.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:42 PM
1

Updates?
/r/askTRP23/04/14 10:35 AM
1

I don't like you anymore is the best thing. You don't need a reason to break up. Watch "I hate single people" from Louis ck on YouTube.
/r/askTRP21/04/14 11:15 PM
4

Ignore, go to the early date and don't mention what she said.
/r/askTRP21/04/14 11:08 PM
5

I wouldn't go. The possible drama isn't worth it.
/r/askTRP20/04/14 11:36 PM
1

The same thing happened to me. I simply stopped doing things because I "had" to do it and simply do what I want to do. 3 different girls told me that they love the way I look when I am taking their clothes.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 06:07 PM
1

Define a intense relationship for me.
/r/askTRP18/04/14 12:37 PM
1

Of course the personality does. But it does zero for the initial attraction that makes me want to go to the woman and say hi and see if I like her beyond the looks.
/r/askTRP18/04/14 12:36 PM
1

The problem of being that way is that you are not being honest with yourself. You put everyone else's prioririties above yours. Everything clicked for me when I realized that I was sabotaging my needs and wants. If you are doing things expecting people to reciprocate you are not being honest with the others. All of this clicked after I read models from Mark Mason.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 11:52 AM
1

Yes this happen. And time will cure that.
/r/askTRP16/04/14 10:36 PM
1

The initial attraction is very important to me. 22 years old are way more appealing than 30 years old. Less entitled as well.
/r/askTRP16/04/14 10:29 PM
1

It really doesn't compare at all. If you are real active and dominate the bedroom and do what you want to do instead of what you think you should do the experience is amazing.
/r/askTRP16/04/14 09:28 PM
2

If you do double enters it will make a paragraph. Like this. Please edit the text.
/r/askTRP15/04/14 02:14 PM
2

I took a plate on a friends birthday on purpose so she could see what the 30+ couples had as a "life". She was horrified at how tamed all the guys were.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 06:16 PM
1

It is interesting that when you are applying the trp concepts the set of problems that appear are so different. There is a holiday this Friday and my problem is to choose who I want to bed each day of the holiday.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 06:12 PM
5

I think it is liberating that no one but you can be the instrument of change in your life.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 06:11 PM
11

Sexual market value. Read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 04:55 PM
5

What happened in my case wasn't cheating but things ended exactly because of the "wanting to see the world" reason.
/r/askTRP14/04/14 12:09 AM
10

You can only change something that wants to change. He doesn't. Stop.
/r/askTRP09/04/14 04:24 PM
1

I am new to this as well. I am like the way you are but when a situation emerges that I have to be alpha I do it. My girl friends even commented what a change that was and I explained that certain situations demand certain actions.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 01:22 AM
0

The woman used to marry virgin on that time. So you have to think about the advice and apply on our timeline.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 01:05 AM
1

Why does the general public matter?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:27 PM
12

Act like nothing happened and try to keep the frame. You can tell your problems IF you already have answers for them and is working on it,.
/r/askTRP07/04/14 12:35 PM
8

There is a nice button called "save" beneath the post or comments. You then can go to your profile to see them all.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 12:03 PM
5

The most effective and destructive thing you can do to someone is to ignore him/her. It shows that you don't care a bit about that person.
/r/askTRP05/04/14 10:47 PM
2

That is the thing, only you can answer that. Depending on the answer we can elaborate more on the why you want whatever that is.
/r/askTRP05/04/14 10:46 PM
1

What do you want to happen?
/r/askTRP05/04/14 03:10 PM
3

I have seen it happen with a past GF. There was a party and someone from TV was there and he was into my GF. ALL of her female friends told her to do it. She didn't.
/r/askTRP03/04/14 11:42 AM
1

If you both are working for it as it seems to be I don't see the problem in keeping her.
/r/askTRP02/04/14 02:46 PM
9

He didn't. He went to another girl. Isn't that like some form of dread game for her?
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 01:13 PM
1

Yes but you aren't going to be a true friend. You would still want to have her. You are deluding yourself.
/r/askTRP31/03/14 07:26 PM
2

It is strange to be able to have everything that is good in a ltr without being in one, isn't it? It seems so easy. A friend of mine asked my 1st if she didn't want to have a boyfriend or children someday. The expression of disgust in her face was awesome to see.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 07:18 PM
1

Until she starts talking about her new flings and you just wasted a lot of time that you could be using to do stuff to yourself. To op: It is a lot less painful on the long run to cut contact, period. It doesn't matter what you look like because you are doing stuff for you that needs to be done. Tell her that if she wanted to keep in touch you would be together and you have no interest in having her as a friend.
/r/askTRP31/03/14 07:08 PM
2

What exactly do you want her to do?
/r/askTRP31/03/14 02:58 PM
1

Works and it seems I can't edit. good. The talk page should have this post linked.
/r/AlreadyRed31/03/14 02:39 PM
1

When I try to see the wiki I get a: forbidden (reddit.com) you are not allowed to do that — may_not_view. And I am subscribed here.
/r/AlreadyRed31/03/14 02:23 PM
11

So if I like to eat them I should do it after I cum?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 02:13 PM
1

I just read the Darth bane trilogy. A lot of things clicked.
/r/AlreadyRed28/03/14 11:31 AM
6

It can be a ton of different things you have no control over. Relax, stop contacting and next. In case she comes back at you then you go out with her again.
/r/askTRP25/03/14 03:45 AM
1

If he wants to engage he does in his terms. Not hers.
/r/askTRP24/03/14 09:19 PM
2

But she was right.
/r/askTRP24/03/14 08:38 PM
2

Your female friend is very smart.
/r/askTRP24/03/14 01:41 PM
1

Man you dodged a real bullet there.
/r/askTRP24/03/14 01:10 PM
15

In cases like this I like to make a date in a place I want to go myself anyway. If she flakes it is her problem because I'm going to enjoy it anyway.
/r/askTRP20/03/14 11:36 PM
1

You can only achieve that when you are willing to lose her and be true about it. The frame thing is powerful. But you can have that with other girls, it doesn't have to be her.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 07:31 PM
1

You can have that with a man, not with a woman. You can either believe this now or go through lots of LTRs and years and learn that what you want is a fantasy. Source: The past 10 years I was in LTRs for 9 of them. Monogamic all the way.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 04:31 PM
1

I assume you are young. Why do you want her for the rest of your life? What do you want to do with the girl that you have to be in a LTR to do it?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 04:15 PM
1

What exactly do you want with the girl? Cuddle? Watch a movie together? Realize you don't have to be in a LTR or monogamous relationship to have it.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 02:20 PM
1

Yes you can cuddle, yes you can have dinner etc but you don't have to be in a LTR for that. The problem is that you are looking for something that doesn't exist. You are still conditioned to do stuff in a linear way of getting to know the girl > like her > ltr her. You don't have to do anything like that to get what you already have.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 02:18 PM
1

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dp_R4cIIaAI
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 02:12 PM
1

Im 30. My filter on tinder is 18-23. The girls that I go out in the 20-23 range look for 25-35 in the app.
/r/askTRP20/03/14 02:02 PM
9

Yes and I am concerned on the genes that the next generation will have. All my smart friends don't want to have children.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 08:28 PM
2

This is great. Now he has to reevaluate what he thinks of it.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 12:37 PM
1

In the past 10 years I spent 9 in ltrs with different girls. Unless I want to have children there are zero excuses to have a ltr. I have 2 plates and do all the fun stuff of a ltr without having to be in one. I am a new redpiller and all of this is weird but they are very very happy and so am I. Edit: I was monogamic in all of them.
/r/askTRP14/03/14 11:07 PM
0

Yes, it IS strange at first. When you start getting 2 regular girls you will realize that you are doing everything that is good in a LTR without all the hassle because you can walk away anytime. It does get less weird with time. I suggest you to speak less online and more live. I only use msgs etc to plan for the next day we are going to see each other.
/r/askTRP14/03/14 09:06 PM
1

If you still want other girls why would you be in a LTR?
/r/askTRP14/03/14 12:33 PM
1

I want to understand if he wants to go MGTOW or something like that. It looks like sex isn't in the equation for him.
/r/askTRP13/03/14 05:32 PM
1

Are you interested in having sex?
/r/askTRP13/03/14 02:44 AM
2

You will still think of her but the rational part of you will see that your life is much better and that you actually don't need her.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 07:57 PM
1

Yes. Scarcity does that.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 05:56 PM
11

Do what you want to do.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 05:26 PM
2

First you have to realize that it is simple. Then you just say that you don't want to work on the relationship anymore and you want to be single. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x81M3g3zjXc
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 01:37 PM
1

This can easily be solved by asking your friend if he want advice or if he just needs to vent. I do this technique with women. Work wonders.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 02:41 PM
9

The one being fucked gets more. It is the same in gay porn.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 12:05 PM
1

I had a girl do that in front of me and the match disappeared.
/r/askTRP28/02/14 11:53 AM
2

If she deletes the app she won't show up as well.
/r/askTRP27/02/14 08:25 PM
2

And the new guy dumped her anyway.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 11:29 AM
3

You are right and so is redpillschool.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 12:37 AM
21

Why are you still with her?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 11:22 AM
2

You can mold the younger girl's minds. They do have some stuff you can talk about but you have to dig for it.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 11:14 AM
1

Part of growing up is deciding between two very hard choices. Both of them are going to make you sad in a way but you really have to choose a path and stick to it. I am still a rp noob and my opinion is that if you desire the single life you should be honest with yourself and do it right now instead of marrying the girl and start cheating on her on conventions, etc.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 11:01 AM
2

It can be 1 minute. Most guys won't talk anymore and that is a good difference.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 05:27 PM
1

Serious question. Are you on the pill?
/r/askTRP18/02/14 02:25 PM
3

A girl I had over was on her back when I was taking her pants and I said: "Hmm I think Im gonna go down on you". She turned her head back and said: "You do whatever you want to me." So I didn't go down and she had way more fun than if I had "obligatory" oral.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 12:55 AM
2

The messenger is not important.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 11:19 AM
15

If you are a plate spinner and she knows it what is the problem? If she wants him just for herself she is going to be nexted anyway.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 03:44 PM
10

This surprisingly works.
/r/askTRP11/02/14 12:45 PM
1

A female classmate brought you here? Tell us more about her.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 12:33 PM
1

It is a form of entertainment.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 12:31 PM
1

You are past that phase already. Keep doing what is working. You are going to introduce dread game only if needed. The girl is yours now.
/r/askTRP10/02/14 09:36 PM
2

It is life focused. Can be used in any social setting, including work.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 06:45 PM
1

I think we need more examples. Is this only about when you are going to see each other? I am a trp noob that is applying the principles and I try really hard to control the frame when I want to see one of the girls I am seeing. There is a HUGE difference to ask her out in a needy way or in a total control way.
/r/askTRP10/02/14 06:41 PM
3

Do you want her to do it? Why?
/r/askTRP10/02/14 06:23 PM
2

You next her.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 01:41 PM
1

I suppose you learn a lot of things while trying to get these goals. That is useful information when trying new ones.
/r/becomeaman03/02/14 11:44 PM
4

I have a friend that was just like OP regarding game and changed in a ton of good ways after reading models. It changed a lot in me as well. Can't recommend it enough.
/r/seduction31/01/14 06:06 PM
3

I know. I was reading the book and that passage felt the same way.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 01:54 AM
1

Being bi-polar means that half the time the crazy stops. No so much with some girls.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 01:16 PM
0

I do a dont ask dont tell policy. They do know that I am not exclusive to them.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 05:29 PM
3

No. They reap what they sow. As did I.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 01:24 PM
5

Let's just be friends.
/r/seduction26/01/14 03:17 PM
1

I make a lot of grunting noises if I'm pleased. My friends call me the lion because when I cum I do roar.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 01:00 PM
1

It looks like an expectation problem. What do you want with the girls? Just get laid? A relationship?
/r/seduction26/01/14 12:41 PM
3

I don't think that being a ladies man will ruin your image. See Berlusconi. I don't know about networking though.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 10:43 PM
14

Didn't she want to fuck all the time?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 03:38 PM
1

You didn't connect with them. You might have the connection done easier with some girls instead of others but you can connect with anyone.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 09:53 AM
3

You weren't born alpha or beta. It is something that you do. If you have lots of alpha behaviors that is what you are going to teach to your child.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 09:51 AM
4

I think it works both ways. I have a big tattoo on my chest and I attract more tattooed girls.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 05:32 PM
1

It is too soon. Do you really want to get back with her? Why are you even talking to her?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 04:10 PM
5

The problem isn't the fapping. It is the porn. I actually stopped both but if I want to masturbate I use my imagination with a girl I would want to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 02:21 PM
1

Put yourself in the first place, do what you think is right for you. And those answers you are the only one that can answer them.
/r/askTRP17/01/14 12:31 PM
1

I think it is easier to make a list of things you don't want. It is easier.
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:29 PM
2

After 9 years of LTRs with 5 different girls and perfecting my skills I though I had it perfect. The last one ended with her saying "I think I am crazy, we have the perfect relationship and I want it out." I was doing everything that was supposed to be the best thing in a LTR. I leaded in some places etc but bottom line I was doing everything wrong and worst of ALL, for the wrong reasons. I thought I had to have someone in my life to be happy etc. I was so wrong about that. The rational male was…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 11:09 AM
1

Why did you want to build a relationship with them? What you would get from her that made you look needy? I am on the stage of questioning my intents to understand why the fuck would I want a relationship. I am happily spinning plates and actually connecting in a way with the women that I have never had. It is incredible when you talk to a new girl and you know that you actually don't need her and the entire interaction is much more pleasant.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 11:01 AM
2

Hah you kept both? Did they have you different days?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 11:10 PM
1

Your personality type: ENTP. Strength of individual traits: Extraversion - 75%, Intuition - 38%, Thinking - 24%, Prospecting - 27%.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 08:08 PM
2

I have pictures with different girls in my fb profile. I tell them that I don't want anything serious on the first date . Be honest with yourself and you will be more honest with everyone else.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 07:54 PM
1

The book models from Mark Mason really helped me to be honest with what I want. Seriously suggest you to read it.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 01:34 PM
1

Why do you want a LTR? I dont care about the answer. Do what you want to do but know why you are doing it.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 01:10 PM
5

People come here by themselves and when they are ready to do it. It wouldn't work for me 6 months ago.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 12:38 PM
2

If you made the ultimatums and didn't comply it is going to be a lot harder to have her respect you.
/r/seduction10/01/14 03:14 PM
1

I'm 1,80m and I have 58kg. That is not an issue at all. I started to wake up everyday at 6 and doing exercises everyday. I'm on the path.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 09:43 AM
1

Why can't I save a reply. This was perfect.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 09:36 AM
3

I dont disagree with that at all. I will have to have a very good frame when I enter a long term relationship to have children.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 01:43 AM
1

He said she was a good wife and the kids grew up. Doesn't seem bad. I do want to pass my genes away.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 08:08 PM
5

Exactly. Sad and true at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 07:26 PM
3

It works because we see reality. Even if you leave your eyes are open now.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 04:06 PM
2

This is the best answer I have read by far. It makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 01:55 PM
3

If you let her. Yeah.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 09:13 AM
3

And if it wasn't for the pua experience I would never have found trp or be ready for the concepts because I wouldn't have the experience with woman.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 08:38 AM
8

This is some next lv stuff. You have to be whole for this to work. When you directly approach a girl with true confidence not caring if she likes you or not you are going to be way more attractive than most. You went there because you wanted to. I like the 3 second rule: if you see someone you want to talk you have 3 seconds to go there and say hi. That way you won't undermine yourself with the 'what ifs'.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 02:35 AM
6

It felt like the art of seduction. He says in the book that you can only seduce someone that is broken. You will fulfill the brokenness with a fantasy. The game is ultimately seduction. Trp is a different beast.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 02:32 AM
10

If you want a ltr yes. You are going to act different in the beginning. But the core ideas of trp still stand.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 06:41 PM
1

I am a sysadmin but what my company does is to build subways so that is what I tell people. I think that the place I live matters a lot more than the job I do.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 04:36 PM
1

I think that there are so many single women around that I simply don't want to risk any kind of problem. If she has someone I simply say that it is okay, nothing is going to happen and I next her. Once a girl that I had told me on the 3rd time we saw each other that she was still dating and had lied she was single. I ended that thing on the spot.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 04:27 PM
6

Forget the label. Start being someone who doesn't care or let other people control how you feel. This isn't easy at all. Edit: you are supposed to be good enough for you. It doesn't matter what other people think.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 03:51 PM
3

Why did you care about what the 2 ex-plates did or didn't? They don't matter anymore. What do you really want? It seems you were doing the stuff you did for reasons that weren't right. Do you seek validation from sex?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 03:29 PM
1

Try to use this technique. http://marriedmansexlife.com/2013/09/the-red-yellow-green-sexual-communication-tool/
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 11:07 AM
2

The best thing about the book is that he says to be honest. I applied that concept with 2 girls after reading the book and had a more meaningful connection in 30 minutes of talking than I had with some people I know for years. Bottomline when you are truly honest with other people you are being honest with you and what you want.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 09:34 AM
1

You are labeling trp only by this post. That is misguided as well. Inside trp there are plenty of different things including ltr discussion.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 09:16 AM
4

What is the problem on being in a ltr? Plenty of principles apply.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 12:14 AM
1

You take what you want from it and ignore the rest. That is what I do. But why are you here if you don't like it? What is your intent?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 08:25 PM
1

I don't know how much experience you have with relationships. I dated for last 10 years different girls and the stuff that is said here definitely would have helped me. It resonates with a lot of stuff that I was doing wrong and my expectations. I think that trp is for people that had been damaged in relationships and expectations and here I can actually see reality as it is.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 07:52 PM
1

Did you see it happening in real life? I am on the same situation as you and now I am able to see the reality as it is. There is so much cringe worth stuff happening in my friends relationship.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 07:42 PM
1

There is a free Kindle book that you can read in your pc. It is called flinch. That book made me realize the fears are all the same and you are not going to die when you face them.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 04:15 PM
5

You can take the parts you like and ignore the parts you don't. I take everything here with a grain of salt and don't have the hate most people here have. When I started swallowing the pill I realized that what I was doing was not going to work and I was undermining myself. I was very angry with myself. Now I am on the path to self improvement and I know that in the end the women will prefer the man I will become instead of the man I was.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 03:52 PM
2

It isn't about getting laid. It is about being a good man for the women out there. I would love to have good men for my daughter instead of the fucked up men we have now.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 06:29 AM
2

Why do you personally care about the long term outcome for men? I was answering this. I think my daughter will be fine.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 06:22 PM
3

Some mod please stick this for ltr guidelines. Amazing.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 04:51 PM
3

Because I am one and my future sons are as well.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 04:43 PM
1

You are planning the ltr with her, right? Do you have plates or and does she think you do?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 11:43 PM
5

Why are you giving her traffic?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 06:39 PM
1

Easier for people with English as a second language. But thanks for the links as well.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 01:59 AM
1

There are some very good points here: http://www.therapycanwork.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=category&layout=blog&id=49&Itemid=99
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 07:25 PM
2

Make sure you are not doing anything that is written here: http://www.therapycanwork.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=category&layout=blog&id=49&Itemid=99
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 07:08 PM
1

Go to Brazil and live in Porto Alegre. They are all blonde.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 06:17 PM
9

The entire article is here: http://online.wsj.com/news/articles/SB10001424052702303997604579240022857012920
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 05:43 PM
11

You were a noob once. I think the point of this is to help who wants to be helped.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 01:26 AM
-1

Check his comments in this thread.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 12:44 AM
3

It is about the frame. He conquered her by 'being himself'. And he is so red pill. The thing that attracted me a lot in this fr is that he got the girl fully. He wanted a ltr and he has the lady fully devoted to him. It is awesome.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 12:24 AM
4

This was amazing. Did you make more of them besides the link here?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 07:42 PM
13

Read models from Mark Mason.
/r/seduction27/12/13 03:38 AM
2

I won't. It is very very hard to see what you want. Keep the relationship if you are doing for the right reasons for you. You are the most important person in the world.
/r/seduction26/12/13 10:46 PM
1

She doesn't seem committed mate. You have a lot of work to do to yourself.
/r/seduction26/12/13 10:34 PM
2

That the effort to change both of you when you are dating are usually useless unless both are committed to the relationship. And there is no reason to have one unless you are both planning on going for a really long time.
/r/seduction26/12/13 10:28 PM
2

Yes you should expect that. The problem is that when you are dating it is just it. You are not going to be with that person for life. The other person doesn't need to do that because being single or changing partners is easier than fixing or doing something that ultimately is going to end. If she was just the fwb you would probably get what you wanted because she wouldn't take you for granted like she is now.
/r/seduction26/12/13 10:11 PM
1

She will never be the same thing as you are. That is the main issue. You are a man and she is a woman. You can't expect her to love and feel the same way a man does.
/r/seduction26/12/13 07:40 PM
3

Make yourself the first priority in your life. Say "I love myself" like a mantra. Realize that you are seeking something in another person and you should not. You should be REALLY happy with yourself and not need someone else. When you are truly happy and fulfilled with yourself you will have healthier relationships because you will know how to make the boundaries. I am on the path as well, it is HARD as fuck because I did this kind of shit my entire life and just now I realized that I don't nee…
/r/seduction26/12/13 07:39 PM
3

You need to ask yourself why you are with her instead of single and happy with yourself. Do you need her to be happy? I dont need the answer but truly ask yourself that. You are doing way too much stuff expecting her to act like you do and that is not going to happen. Woman has a inner sense to see the intent of the actions. I have read this article today and it really made me realize a lot of my actions when I was in a LTR: http://www.therapycanwork.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=categor…
/r/seduction26/12/13 06:49 PM
3

You do what you want to do as long as you know the intent of what you are doing. If you are doing to receive it back it is not going to work. Why are you in the relationship? How far are you guys? Do you plan on be with her in 1-2-5-10 years?
/r/seduction26/12/13 06:23 PM
3

When you are in a long term relationship your consciousness starts working differently. You are not the same guy that got her. You will have to make her feel attracted again and it isn't the way you are doing. Try to be more like the guy that got her instead of the guy that has her for granted. Your girlfriend doesn't work the same way you do.
/r/seduction26/12/13 06:08 PM
3

You want to feel wanted. It is different than revealing vulnerabilities. But shit man, the compliments thing is like you need her validation of you and that show some issues you have deep in you that wont change at all unless you work on them.
/r/seduction26/12/13 05:44 PM
2

What is your intent on revealing them?
/r/seduction26/12/13 04:27 PM
1

I have been single for 2 months and discovered the rational male and this sub. The amount of slaps in the face in form of truths I have been having are incredible. Great article.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 03:56 PM
6

It isn't only the University. It is the whole city. They don't have options in the city they are living so the rules change.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 11:30 AM
2

This makes so much sense. I am a trp noob but this really feels right.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 11:53 PM
1

The onion?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 03:59 PM
2

Is there a place where it is written? English isn't my first language and it is hard to keep up.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 01:56 PM
50

I think you are disgusted by them because you still think that they should behave in a way you think is right. They don't and won't. Accept the fact that they are what they are and enjoy yourself and life.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 01:54 PM
1

Women are like that. They are going to test one way or another.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 01:50 PM
1

Why do you want to stay with her?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 01:47 PM
2

I have been asking some questions only. Indeed it WILL take time to really have it inside you. The most amazing thing is that the veil is gone and I can see what it is.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 01:39 PM
2

It seems you don't want to have the ladies. See the intent of what you are doing. Are you only interested in knowing you could have them instead of actually having them?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 01:37 PM
1

I learned that I was doing a lot of things to make a relationship work instead of doing the things I needed to do to myself. The relationships weren't bad but they felt hollow.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 12:56 PM
1

I am new here but I don't understand that. I really like to have girls that know what they are doing but how are they going to do it if they didn't learn it?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 12:14 PM
1

Try to see the intent of your actions. If you like the intent of your gift for the professor, do it.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 01:07 PM
1

You can have that without a relationship. That also can last for a year and don't have to be forever.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 01:31 AM
2

One thing that I learned here and that I used to believe is that to be truly happy you need another person by your side. That is not true and I used to live to make that relationship work instead of looking at myself and improving myself.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 09:05 PM
3

You seem to think that to be truly happy you need a relationship. That is a lie.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 12:03 AM
2

Say this reply you made out loud and then say the previous one you did. You will understand the confusion I am having.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 12:30 PM
1

Why are you still with her?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 12:16 PM
3

I do the noporn. I still masturbate but not even close on the amount I used to do.
/r/seduction11/12/13 07:02 PM
3

It is amazing how the same story happens. The same thing for me but with multiple GFs.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 02:02 PM
2

Wow. Stick material.
/r/seduction06/12/13 12:19 PM
6

One thing that I learned very very recently was that I was in love of the idea of the long term relationship. I realized I was afraid of being alone. I am still terrified but giving it a name helped.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 10:48 AM
0

But then she is paranoid. No problem.
/r/seduction04/12/13 09:53 PM
6

I think that woman can really see past the words and see the intent. Im focusing on the intent of what I do. It is amazing.
/r/seduction04/12/13 12:20 PM
3

The idea is to focus on the now instead of past / future that you can't change. Do it in a way that works.
/r/seduction03/12/13 03:40 AM
3

One way to control it is to see the intent of your actions. 'why am I going to do this?' And then you decide if you do it or not.
/r/seduction03/12/13 03:10 AM
3

Sorry but the answer is to change friends :( you are going to be something new that they 'won't recognize' because you are actually becoming a new person. I use the 'I don't do that stuff anymore'.
/r/seduction03/12/13 03:07 AM
3

You are not doing the thing for yourself. You are playing a part to get what you want. You really sabotage yourself doing this. Source: I did the same thing.
/r/seduction03/12/13 03:06 AM
4

Stay quiet and alone for an hour. If you start to have thoughts about the past or future acknowledge that you are using a 'time machine' of thought. Try to focus on the present. Who you are grateful for and stuff like that.
/r/seduction03/12/13 03:05 AM
1

How long did that relationship last?
/r/seduction01/12/13 06:34 PM
10

because now she feels like a "slut," and our relationship isn't going to lead anywhere. Even after all the talk it looks like she thinks she should have sex with someone when she is in a relationship with that person. EDIT: formatting/typo.
/r/seduction27/11/13 04:13 PM
47

The problem seems to be that she is expecting a relationship.
/r/seduction27/11/13 11:11 AM
7

Or you not wanting to be alone. That was very deep for me and it was perfect.
/r/seduction17/11/13 11:42 PM
5

You don't have to care. 'I don't need alcohol to have a lot of fun'.
/r/seduction15/11/13 04:42 PM
2

It made me realize how different males and females are. It actually helped me.
/r/seduction04/11/13 12:04 PM
1

I bought an Xbox controller for my pc so we can play GTA together. I gave her limbo and she loved it. The next thing is to buy a nintendo 3ds so she can play the new pokemon (she loves it) and I can play Professor Layton with her. There is always a way.
/r/seduction15/10/13 04:58 PM
3

You didn't read the whole post, right?
/r/seduction14/10/13 02:06 PM
6

What are you talking about? I actually told girls that I didn't even kissed that I am a huge nerd that plays magic the gathering and in the end I GOT THE GIRL. That I would play tournaments etc. As long as you are passionate about what you speak it is fine. EDIT: It is not about the content. It is about the purpose in your life.
/r/seduction14/10/13 02:04 PM
1

If she is going to dump you or cheat you she is going to do it anyway. Be the guy for her and she will not to go outside your relationship to get something.
/r/seduction16/08/13 05:32 PM
3

This was posted today on another thread: "The secret to confidence is familiarity. you build this by putting yourself in stressful situations and learning from them. you're confident you can walk because you practiced. sure you crawled at first and fell on your ass a lot, but you kept getting up and kept at it until you mastered it. you practiced at your favorite video game until you're confident you can master it. Nothing in life is different, and everything is a learning experience."
/r/seduction28/06/13 06:02 PM
1

Then be someone worthy of having these things said. If you are going out with a ton of women with the purpose of only having plenty of sex that is what you are going to have. If you want to connect more with the girls then start doing it.
/r/seduction05/05/13 09:51 PM
2

It does look like onetitis. You have to realize you don't own anyone. If you want to spend time with someone it is because you actually want do it and hopefully this happens with the other person as well. The way you are doing it seems like a chore and you are having dates etc because you think you are supposed to be doing that. It also looks like you are only interested in this girl because she is "harder to get" than other girls. Try to connect with girls that you actually give a damn and vice…
/r/seduction05/05/13 09:38 PM
2

Read the way of the superior man.
/r/seduction23/04/13 08:12 PM
8

Exactly. And remember to be silly and to make her laugh. And when she is venting ask if she wants you to help or if she just needs to get it out of her system. These are the top 2 things.
/r/seduction20/04/13 04:18 AM
101

I keep seducing my GF. Just because you are monogamous it doesn't mean that the fun of seducing your significant other has to stop.
/r/seduction19/04/13 06:11 PM
5

I have way more fun at a gay club than a straight one. The songs are better, the ladies are funnier and it is actually really easy to score. The gay try to hit on you and you say you are straight and to get him to show his girl friends to you.
/r/seduction10/04/13 06:00 PM
3

I dont live with my mom anymore. The good thing about our discussion of it was that the bottomline was that I was giving a better time to the girls and to me. I actually cared more.
/r/seduction29/03/13 08:15 PM
4

When I was gaming I just going over a lot of girls to find one that I really clicked and enjoyed. The good thing about seduction is that you can use the tools to see what the girl is and if she clicks in the areas you want. I am dating this one for 6 months and I have been really happy. Before seduction I was settling for less because I didn't have the abundance to choose the one that is right.
/r/seduction20/03/13 07:49 PM
1

29 / male
/r/seduction16/03/13 07:18 PM
1

Is she flakes twice stop trying to go out with her?
/r/seduction15/01/13 03:43 PM
2

You have a pc and internet. Go to codeacademy and start doing online stuff. My brother has no university or courses in either programming or english but he knows both. He started studying HARD by himself. In 2 and a half years he got a solid job. Now (6 years later) he is a senior programmer in Soundcloud and he is living in Germany.
/r/seduction20/12/12 09:38 PM
1

When something similar happened to me I said. Thank god you saved us both the embarassament of my little dick. I ended up K#.
/r/seduction20/12/12 04:54 PM
2

You are too young, after school or if you save money you will have more oportunities to move to another city.
/r/seduction20/12/12 04:53 PM
2

Yet.
/r/seduction20/12/12 01:39 AM
3

And it saved both your time and hers.
/r/seduction20/12/12 01:27 AM
5

Why? You will know a lot faster if you enjoy her naked and if the sex is good. To me is a better incentive to get to know her if I had a good time together.
/r/seduction15/12/12 09:28 PM
2

Details?
/r/seduction15/12/12 08:18 PM
2

|Me: I would love to be bi, shag all the things, but unfortunately not, I'm straight. You? This was golden. I am stealing this. The good thing about going to gay bars is that everyone is friendly. The music is usually better and you don't give a fuck about your dancing. I love them.
/r/seduction13/12/12 02:08 AM
2

It is called "Halo Effect".
/r/seduction13/12/12 01:41 AM
3

It depends on context. There are true tests and stuff that aren't tests. I would pick up the books that a friend dropped for example and I don't consider it a test at all.
/r/seduction10/12/12 09:29 PM
3

No I didnt. English isn't my main language heh.
/r/seduction09/12/12 03:26 PM
5

?
/r/seduction09/12/12 04:42 AM
-1

I ended a relationship with a hb 9 that I loved because I realized that I have fucked up the last equation. I was not hunted at all and that didn't give me any pleasure. Lots of learned lessons and we broke up without problems and we are friends now.
/r/seduction09/12/12 01:55 AM
1

Exactly. I didn't finish yet exactly because of the nerve part.
/r/seduction02/12/12 04:03 PM
2

What do you want to happen?
/r/seduction24/11/12 10:58 PM
2

Stop caring about the outcome as well.
/r/seduction14/11/12 11:37 PM
5

Yes there are lots of information. Some stuff works for some and doesn't for others. You filter everything but the end goal is the same: "Be the best version of yourself." And it is fucking great.
/r/seduction02/11/12 02:07 AM
1

Just slow down everything. Have a lot of pre-sex. Go very slow instead of hammering the girl. When you get too excited switch positions. Don't focus only on the pussy, ass and breasts. Try to touch everywhere while you are fucking.
/r/seduction21/10/12 10:11 PM
1

What happened with me was exactly the opposite. 10 days without fapping or watching porn and I had an hour long sex session. My flatmate was a month without and reported similar results.
/r/seduction21/10/12 10:09 PM
1

That was very entertaining. Please write the next FR. I am not sure how you are going to top that!
/r/seduction18/10/12 07:07 PM
2

My father has a great saying: 'the problem of running all from your life is that you are going yourself to the destination as well.' Instead of looking for a gf try to meet amazing people. The game allows you to choose between them instead of being chosen. You NEED awesome friends in your life. Both men and women. I recently broke off a perfect relationship because I didn't want to go further with her and now I am really finding myself.
/r/seduction16/10/12 01:20 AM
2

How did you fail to change yourself? What bond are you looking for? A GF?
/r/seduction15/10/12 08:58 PM
7

It made me start thinking about it. Then I read the way of the superior man, the red queen hypothesis and the art of seduction and I changed how I viewed men/women. I started to connect much better with people in general and then I got a GF which was much better than anything I have ever had in all areas. I think the game is a journey about improving yourself and I have not stopped since I read it.
/r/seduction15/10/12 07:32 PM
1

I dated a girl that had heavy gothic style all the time and I used jeans and tshirts and it didn't matter at all. She said she didn't need someone to dress like her and that liked her guys to be assertive and congruent in their styles. She was a hb9.
/r/seduction11/10/12 06:42 PM
1

I am very skinny, 5.9 height and 127 pounds. All my past GFs and all the girls I approach thinks I am gay. The good thing is that there is no Bitch Shield because she thinks I am harmless. Then when they ask if I am gay I simply say no or I joke like: "tried 17 times, didn't like it", with a big smile.
/r/seduction11/10/12 06:40 PM
2

Or girl. It is on both ends.
/r/seduction09/10/12 12:04 AM
9

That isnt true. There are PUAs that are looking for that girl to settle.
/r/seduction08/10/12 09:55 PM
9

This smbc comic inspired me. http://www.smbc-comics.com/index.php?db=comics&id=2722#comic
/r/seduction05/10/12 09:57 PM
1

I see where you are going. The problem is that I would ignore these flaws and later I would get very mad at them and the lady but I KNEW these flaws are there. I am no shrink or father.
/r/seduction05/10/12 09:40 PM
1

It is a different mindset. All these traits are "no-no". If she has any of these I will not pursue. If she doesn't have them my mindset changes to get to know her better and have an awesome time.
/r/seduction05/10/12 07:32 PM
1

Experience. You will only know if you dislike something when you experience it. My list so far: Too clingy, needy, wants to be your mother, needs a father, needs a shrink, too jealous, not fun, not smart. Edit: Was on the phone, was supposed to answer OP.
/r/seduction05/10/12 08:25 AM
1

I make a list of things I don't want and just go from there.
/r/seduction05/10/12 07:46 AM
3

Holy Jesus that dress. I was thinking it was way better than that. Very very very balsy. Loved the fr.
/r/seduction05/10/12 07:44 AM
2

You are the poster boy for seduction. Very nice read.
/r/seduction05/10/12 07:35 AM
3

Just a heads up. It is "says". Good post nevertheless.
/r/seduction04/10/12 12:36 AM
1

I thought she was simply thirsty.
/r/seduction03/10/12 03:39 AM
3

It was a test, it seems op passed it.
/r/seduction01/10/12 04:33 AM
-3

Be honest before the sex. "So do you want to be my 4th GF?". "What do you mean?". "I have 3 GFs, do want to be the 4th?".
/r/seduction22/09/12 08:09 PM
4

When you are in a club that is the only place where you can actually talk to ladies. I dont smoke anymore and it is still the place to have conversations.
/r/seduction20/09/12 06:24 AM
-10

"smoke area."
/r/seduction20/09/12 06:11 AM
3

That actually happened to me. I was kissing this lady and she said: "I know what you are trying to do, you are trying to have sex with me." My obviously much smarter brain than myself answered: "Is that a problem?". It was my 2nd time having sex in my life. From that day I don't know how I answered that, I was in awe.
/r/seduction25/08/12 08:46 AM
1

Agreed but the question and answer were both good for the viewer.
/r/seduction25/08/12 08:45 AM
1

I have higher standards to date a girl right now. I use it to filter the woman to find a girlfriend. And it worked, im dating for 7 months now.
/r/seduction18/08/12 09:22 PM
1

No one is going to win this one because everyone is unique. And every other girl cant compare to the one you have on the pedestal.
/r/seduction12/08/12 05:40 AM
3

You are too worried about the outcome. Do the game for fun and sometime you will find a girl that you will actually like. You have no idea who these woman are, you have a vague perception. You have to start doing it over and over and if you REALLY need an objective use the "I want to meet new interesting people" instead of the "I want to fuck all of them". You will improve a LOT more and have way more results and interesting people in your life. And jesus christ about the risks. What is the risk…
/r/seduction10/08/12 09:56 AM
2

Prepare to make the dst tests, seriously.
/r/seduction08/08/12 09:00 PM
1

Everytime I have tried to contact my ex I would fap first. Seriously this helps a TON. "Oh it was just sex, nvm, I wont call her".
/r/seduction07/08/12 12:31 AM
2

Too many points straight in the ego in the first 2 chapters. I know.
/r/seduction24/07/12 03:22 PM
8

That is how I reward something that I like. I give the author money so he can make more good stuff.
/r/seduction24/07/12 05:55 AM
1

After 6 months with my actual GF she stopped doing most of the things when she realized I was solid. She does like to challenge what you say you are and what you do on a regular basis and not just with me. To me that is freaking attractive.
/r/seduction24/07/12 05:53 AM
11

At first i was going to downvote because of piracy. Then I started reading and simply bought the book on kindle. Thanks.
/r/seduction24/07/12 01:34 AM
20

I think this is the kind of thing when you are dating someone and is faithful. "Why is everyone hitting on me now and not when I was single? " you start treating people as people and just don't need anything from them. Suddenly you are the prize to them. edit: spelling.
/r/seduction17/06/12 06:23 AM
2

It acknowledges it and it shows that you don't brag about it. I think it is the best answer for any compliment I receive.
/r/seduction10/06/12 07:35 PM
1

It backfired on me with a past gf. Brought her home but we were drunk and I just wanted to talk about a lot of things, we were really connecting. Me: I don't wanna have sex, we are drunk. her: Why don't we just get naked in front of each other and be done with this problem? I failed to see a problem with her reasoning and it was amazing. One of the best GFs I have ever had.
/r/seduction10/05/12 04:26 AM
1

Go to the next levek and use humour just like semantics said. You will show that you know her game and are calling on it but you are twisting it to your game/frame. And with humour!
/r/seduction01/05/12 02:21 PM
2

I really like to frame it in a way that she is invited to my awesome world and even if she didn't go I would have fun. In your case you can play with the "I'm husband material, I even know how to cook to my women." And then you can do the prove it part.
/r/seduction28/04/12 07:44 PM
3

Not if you do like this: "I am cooking tonight for some friends and you should come, it is totally awesome. Bring a wine." And actually have the friends there as well.
/r/seduction28/04/12 07:22 PM
29

Learn to cook at home and start day game at parks, museums etc.
/r/seduction28/04/12 04:39 AM
2

I use the same search on google and add "reddit".
/r/seduction27/04/12 02:28 PM
5

Relevant My past 3 GFs were sure I was gay before I kissed them. I simply don't care and it won't matter at all.
/r/seduction24/04/12 08:33 AM
1

Does it really matter?
/r/seduction11/04/12 03:23 AM
4

I was moving places and didn't see my GF for about a week. About 4 days in of trying to move I told her I was very anxious about the move and trying to make it happen and told her to chill that this would be over soon. After I moved she was still pissed and sending messages that I was late for our date. I meet her and simply ignored all the whiny msgs etc and hugged her and gave her a lot of kisses. About an hour or so later I explained to her that I can't give a time to meet when there are thin…
/r/seduction19/03/12 04:56 PM
-1

I'm gay.
/r/seduction15/03/12 06:42 PM
7

I think smbc nailed it here: http://www.smbc-comics.com/?id=2507
/r/seduction17/02/12 06:56 PM
3

Call one of them and meet somewhere else. Give a nickname to one and your real name to the other.
/r/seduction13/02/12 04:46 PM
1

Get a new hobby/interest and start interacting with these new people and form a new friendship.
/r/seduction04/02/12 12:28 PM
2

Go look for new people who aren't accustomed to the former you.
/r/seduction03/02/12 05:21 PM
1

Keep doing this and you won't even need to ask for the number. Just enjoy it mate.
/r/seduction03/02/12 04:31 PM
24

Get out of your comfort zone. Go alone and make new friends and start being something new.
/r/seduction03/02/12 04:25 PM
1

"Don't worry, our kids will go to Harvard." I don't remember where I have read this.
/r/seduction26/01/12 02:37 AM
1

Yeah but for people who had zero experience getting girls in the first place it is good training. The way I see it is that when you have some experience in getting girls the PUA stuff helps cutting the edges of your bad game and realizing why some of the stuff you did works. At least that is what happen in my group.
/r/seduction23/01/12 11:13 PM
6

I realized this before learning all this. What do I want? A princess to show to my parents and go to the mall etc and a whore in my bed. What do girls want? The prince charming that really fucks her in bed. That way no one needs extra lovers.
/r/seduction23/01/12 04:56 PM
1

But what I've written is correct. "A girl" is different from "THE girl".
/r/seduction17/01/12 08:06 PM
1

Here is a good definition of "I love you" in a relationship and is the one I use. "I know that I am going to find people that are prettier, smarter and more intelligent than you and I am willing to dump them all even before I meet them because I want to be with you."
/r/seduction17/01/12 06:20 PM
1

You were the prize. I don't think it have ever happened to her. The I really don't care about you is very powerful.
/r/seduction17/01/12 06:07 PM
1

How I meet my past girlfriend: I was out clubbing and after some kissing etc we went to my house. We were drunk and kissing and then we started talking for like 2 hours. I didn't want to fuck because I said it would be awful as we were both drunk but then she said to me: "Why don't we just get naked and do it and take this out of the way?" It was the best relationship of my life. I have the same issue as you. If I don't connect it simply feels like masturbation.
/r/seduction17/01/12 06:00 PM
3

I know seddit is about getting girls, not A girl. Wrong. I am going through a lot of women to find that girl as I have a much higher standard now after having some long term relationships. Seddit helps me to go and look for her instead of settling with what appears. And to your problem. i fixed my onetitis by going out with her clubbing and not paying attention to her and hitting on other girls. When I kissed another one my onetitis vanished.
/r/seduction17/01/12 05:52 PM
3

Timing. As someone said earlier she doesn't want to be his mother or therapist.
/r/seduction16/01/12 10:17 PM
28

"When I try to joke around and have fun." Are you making fun of people or yourself? To be told you are disliked means that you are fucking something up.
/r/seduction15/01/12 04:44 PM
3

The training is important because when you meet that special lady you are able to get her because all the stuff is internalized and you don't even realize you are doing it.
/r/seduction15/01/12 03:36 PM
188

The most beautiful ladies I got in my life happened when I didn't care to get them and just enjoyed the company and had fun.
/r/seduction14/01/12 10:54 PM
20

I grab both of them and I will open groups with both and try to have him score someone. At least to have a new group where he will be comfortable. I do this as well if she has a girl friend, I will try to get her to meet more people and score as well. EDIT: And in the meantime the girl you choose realizes you could have virtually anyone and that you are the prize.
/r/seduction14/01/12 06:17 PM
15

A married man in another topic had a deal with his wife. Anytime she started talking he would ask "Do you want to vent or to get advice?" I am using this method with great results.
/r/seduction14/01/12 03:22 PM
2

TL&DR It really wasn't until I resolved into myself that the dissolution of our relationship only meant one thing - the dissolution of our relationship.
/r/seduction14/01/12 01:56 AM
3

Some GREAT tips about the kissing but I don't think it is only about that. It would be the equivalent of how you thrust your penis. I make the kissing experience a preview of what I am going to do in bed with her so start the slow kissing and with one hand grab the back of her neck pull just a little bit (it won't hurt her). Never have your 2 hands in the same place of her body. I do slow and calm without the tongue while caressing the side of her head and put my hand slowly around her ear and t…
/r/seduction25/12/11 07:49 PM
-5

I look at her right in the face and with a smile I ask: "Is that a No-No or a No-Yes?" Is she doesn't say anything or just smiles back just keep going.
/r/seduction21/12/11 01:10 AM
3

And it seems the OP wants more. Change the approach? Make you harder to get?
/r/seduction17/12/11 08:58 AM
2

I will always make a joke, always. I will try to set up a bar to discuss these things but try to make the most amount of jokes about the workshop as I can. You can loose her up a bit and then get to learn a bit more about here.
/r/seduction15/12/11 09:13 PM
3

Don't play around with others in front of them at least. When she tries to get close etc you can say you two had something that was very good, a good experience and that you simply can't stay with one person. Don't neglect the thing you had but point it out it was a one thing only that can happen again but no strings attached as it was good.
/r/seduction15/12/11 08:57 PM
1

So what you want to do now? Have fun and see how it goes or you want some rapport and get the girl? Seriously, want her as a friend or something more? EDIT: I love the "all men get scaried" kind of woman
/r/seduction15/12/11 08:54 PM
1

What did she say and you said when she exchanged numbers?
/r/seduction15/12/11 08:31 PM
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