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As someone who gets this question a lot, my answer is usually a variation on "absolutely not. I believe in equality and human rights, I'd never put my name inline with a hate group"
/r/MensRights26/07/26 10:08 AM
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"boys are inherently worse, I can't look past his gender, to the point where I hate him before he is even born" and "I teach my daughters that women are naturally more emotionally and mentally intelligent" being in the same post are levels of delusional that are rare to see in the wild. That teaching is where you get women with massive superiority and entitlement complexes
/r/MensRights22/07/26 03:12 AM
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The government includes politicians. Like are you really this obtuse or just trolling? You're ignoring political pressure. There doesn't have to be a direct order to impact organizations like sos.1523. when our directors are getting calls from Stefano and Elly, it doesn't have to be an official order. Or do you really not know how political influence works? And here you know historic context. For decades, support for men has been attacked, shut down, blocked, etc. The "gender neutral" options ha…
/r/MensRights18/07/26 02:20 PM
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I worked with sos, I'm pretty sure I understand it. It was a private line, but the Italian government pressed us to shut down after a massive harassment campaign against us and hundreds of thousands of letters, emails, and calls to the Italian government from feminist organizations. Edit: bumped post before I finished As for "we all know it would be used mostly by women" that's a bunch of crap. Tons of men called in and were looking for help. The only reason that "women get more help" is because…
/r/MensRights18/07/26 12:42 PM
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After the way the Italian government butchered sos.1523 because of the backlash of supporting male victims, i have doubts, but I'll reach back out to some co-workers in Italy and find out more from them.
/r/MensRights18/07/26 11:50 AM
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Because misogyny is often just used as a word used to describe, "if men acted like women"
/r/MensRights17/07/26 12:43 PM
2

Third comment, "they are sitting, while the disabled person who should be sitting is standing".
/r/MensRights12/07/26 11:34 PM
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I think my favorite part, is where the people saying the men should have given the seats, are saying that being a woman is a disability, but somehow not thinking that, is misogynistic. The irony is fucking loud
/r/MensRights12/07/26 12:35 PM
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What is "soft" in this context? Like, you're trying to use it as an insult, but it makes no sense. Just like your "women aren't the problem". No one here talks about women like we are a monolith. They address specific women or specific systemic and social issues men face. Like, are you just a bot, a troll, or an idiot?
/r/MensRights10/07/26 02:56 PM
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The og, and while I wouldn't doubt some are involved in the sub, it is mostly the Western ones on there from what I've seen
/r/MensRights04/07/26 01:23 AM
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Western 4b just took the name. Like a lot of westerners, they don't care about there history, they just take it because feminists lack imagination. Especially online ones
/r/MensRights04/07/26 12:53 AM
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4b is interesting. It started as a radical feminist group in South Korea, that said it was for "decentering men". But in action, they advocate for eugenics(sex selective abortions), are well known to be heavily homophobic, xenophobic, and transphobic. They are so aggressively hateful that feminism as a whole in South Korea has finally started to die out. If it was just personal choices and not trying to force others to follow their desires, I would support them Tldr: they are feminists who say t…
/r/MensRights02/07/26 10:22 PM
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My husband first wife stabbed him because he didn't want to have kids. The amount of women who say he is the one on the wrong is wild
/r/MensRights29/06/26 12:42 PM
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They need men to be evil, because it allows them to justify every shitty evil thing they do. For this specifically, from someone who is married to a man who is a widower, it's very interesting. He was told he should divorce his wife over and over by medical staff. He was told that they recommend it to all spouses with partners who are critically ill because of the native debt that can come with death and make illness, and more specifically, they heavily encourage husbands because wives will ofte…
/r/MensRights03/06/26 10:55 PM
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Which is the irony, since men often carry the majority of emotional labor in relationships🤷‍♀️
/r/MensRights03/06/26 03:38 PM
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It's a common thread that's been around for generations, "boys not performing or providing in the right way is a failing on them and they must change to become better at carrying the emotional and official labor of society in silence."
/r/MensRights03/06/26 03:31 PM
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This isn't a bug, it's a feature. Feminists cultivate these lies as a way to justify being horrid people. It's why they fight so hard to use the "dictionary definition" instead of addressing the actual actions and impact of what feminists do.
/r/MensRights27/05/26 10:24 PM
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It's only "against feminism" if you ignore what feminism is about. A way to attempt to insult men for displaying even the slightest humanity. That's very on brand for feminism
/r/MensRights12/05/26 12:07 PM
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He is right. Why do you think he is a Democrat and why does that matter here in the slightest
/r/MensRights12/05/26 11:53 AM
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There is all the information you want, but like most bigots, you'll ignore it. I don't play that game. I gave you examples and info on all of them, in good faith. But just like when I point out to a Nazi all the examples of Nazis being shit, you'll come back with more excuses. If you want to genuinely engage feel free, you can sealion to yourself otherwise
/r/MensRights01/05/26 05:53 PM
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Here are some good starting points for you Sos.1523: Italian call center for male victims of IPV. My husband worked with them. They received calls and letters from over 1000 different feminist organizations and non profits, as well as women's shelters, totaling in over 100,000 points of contact to the organization, the Italian government, and the family's of the employees. These ranged from harassment, doxxing, to death threats. My youngest daughter got hate mail from N.O.W. because her father w…
/r/MensRights01/05/26 05:45 PM
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But that is the general way that the majority of feminists think. It's been consistently shown over decades of well documented actions. I'm going to go off actions and impact, not a sanitized dictionary definition that doesn't represent those actions
/r/MensRights01/05/26 04:49 PM
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Why? Generalizing social political groups happens all the time? I generalize Nazis, skinheads, magats, etc do you see an issue with that?
/r/MensRights01/05/26 03:54 PM
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I'm a woman, and get anti feminist. There is no honest way to support such a hateful and destructive social political identity unless your a shitty person.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 03:53 PM
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Because the people here are genuinely supportive and empathetic. On feminists spaces, if I mention my husband, or God forbid he is a survivor of sexual assault from a woman, the rape wishes, death threats, insults, etc come flying from every direction
/r/MensRights29/04/26 12:39 PM
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I've known a few men like this personally. There are two types. The ones who do it because they are obsessed with licking the boot and the others, who are just generally hateful people and will go to whatever group allows them to be as out and proud of a bigot as they can be.
/r/MensRights26/04/26 02:26 PM
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Feminists and men aren't equivalent groups. One is an inherent identity, one is a social political identity that you choose to embrace. Bad comparison. your claim in all feminists denying male rape victims is just false. And there you go acting right out of the feminist playbook. "If you experience bad things from feminists, you are lying or those aren't real feminists someone someone no true scotsman". It is men like you who give feminists a bad rep Anything but accountability, huh? Feminists g…
/r/MensRights18/04/26 02:28 AM
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Becoming? It's been that way for a long time
/r/MensRights17/03/26 10:25 PM
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It's also interesting, as mgtow existed before 4b, and where mgtow is about decentering women 4b is about attacking and demonizing men.
/r/MensRights17/03/26 12:51 AM
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It isn't. It's the fact that a man is expressing happiness and positivity. That completely destroys their worldview of men as barely human monsters, so they have to attack it
/r/MensRights15/03/26 05:30 PM
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And? Why would that make that sentiment ok at all
/r/MensRights14/03/26 12:30 PM
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Exactly this
/r/MensRights07/03/26 10:23 PM
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Wasn't there just a guy who was sleeping in his house naked when a woman broke in and recorded him, then accused him of sexual assault and he was facing charges until his ring came footage was shown? I have daughters and I wouldn't have any issue with a boy or man heading a camera for his safety. Same as I wouldn't if my daughters wanted one for theirs
/r/MensRights07/03/26 06:36 PM
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As a woman, I love this idea. Id have maybe respect for a man who suggested this
/r/MensRights07/03/26 02:53 PM
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Would love for you to provide some data to back that up
/r/MensRights25/02/26 12:50 PM
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Wow, just reading the "examples" is like a list of every excuse you hear from feminists, and completely devoid of an interaction with a real man.
/r/MensRights21/02/26 03:45 PM
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"misandry just hurts feelings"
/r/MensRights15/02/26 03:36 AM
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Got it. So, just ignoring that's completely false, let's say you're correct. Does that make it totally ok?
/r/MensRights15/02/26 03:35 AM
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Except men aren't inanimate objects.
/r/MensRights13/02/26 11:21 PM
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Ty
/r/MensRights13/02/26 05:44 PM
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I want the source for this
/r/MensRights13/02/26 03:29 PM
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Correct, thank you for the catch
/r/MensRights08/02/26 04:30 PM
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The difference being that mgtow is just looking on decentering women, while 4b is looking to eradicate men. But somehow, they see mgtow as worse
/r/MensRights08/02/26 03:10 PM
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"I'm going to invent a hypothetical person who does bad things and use them to justify me doing bad things, because I have no critical thinking skills, empathy, or integrity" Oh wait, using your thoughts, that means people can say that about women, because women say that about men, right?
/r/MensRights07/02/26 11:55 PM
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It's not just "radical" feminists who behave this way or have this impact on how men are treated. Radical is just a term they use to try and say "oh those feminists aren't real feminists, those are radical feminists". Which is ironic, considering most feminists hold all men accountable for the actions of any man. Something something double standards
/r/MensRights06/02/26 01:21 PM
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u/Ok-Pear5858 that's easy, two of the top of my head is what happened up Erin Pizzey and the workers of Sos.1523.
/r/MensRights31/01/26 08:45 PM
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This is very accurate. I mean, you bring up anti feminism. Like feminists literally send death threats and murder the pets of activists for trying to help domestic abuse survivors, it's totally valid. People say they are against that, Reddit says "being against that promotes hate". It's literally seen as hateful to say that men are people. That's the baseline in society that people who care about men's issues are up against.
/r/MensRights31/01/26 07:29 PM
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That was nearly 20 years ago. I mean, I work with a lot of people. It could be in the thousands some weeks. I've seen plenty of individual bias in people. Most people have some. But to a level of impacting careers on a large scale, not about gender I haven't.
/r/MensRights30/01/26 09:20 PM
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Taken more seriously no. Well, that's not fair, I had a boss at one of my first jobs in highschool, he was pretty damn sexist, but that was a small town and a single owner. Outside of that, I've never seen any kinda systemic gendered bias against women, only individual biases.
/r/MensRights30/01/26 08:41 PM
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I work in market research. So my job varies a lot. In my corporate office some days, work from home others, quite a few out visiting the corporations that hired us, both their offices and brick and mortars where applicable.
/r/MensRights30/01/26 08:33 PM
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I work with men and women both, and have done so in a few jobs. I don't find men to be extra dismissive to women as a group. I have seen the same as you bring up. There are people who are dismissive to others, but they seem to do it to everyone. I can't remember a man who was extra dismissive to women specifically
/r/MensRights30/01/26 02:47 PM
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As a woman, I think you're very correct. This stems from the fact that women are seen as individuals, while men are typically seen as a collective. When a man is rude to a woman at work, it's often seen as "men are this way". Me personally, I've met rude people of every identity but personally find men to be over all more accepting.
/r/MensRights30/01/26 01:33 PM
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This is the academic answer. Look at the backlash from X men apocalypse. Mystique, one of the most influential and important characters had a moment where she was held up by the bad guy. They still ended up winning, but the fact that a woman was hurt by a man, despite many men also hurt throughout the movie, it was labeled as sexist. It's the galbrush paradox and companies are aware of consumer trends and how to follow them.
/r/MensRights27/01/26 01:03 AM
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I feel it's a general attitude in academia in all the places I've been. South Korea did stand out as more anti men culturally, in my experience.
/r/MensRights26/01/26 01:36 AM
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I studied in Egypt, South Korea, and Italy, as well as in the United States.
/r/MensRights26/01/26 12:26 AM
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I'd honestly be surprised if it wasn't used at some point.
/r/MensRights23/01/26 01:29 AM
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I've studied in non Western universities in non Western countries as well. As a woman, I was othered for not seeing men as lesser. The way misandry is not only accepted but encouraged disgusts me
/r/MensRights22/01/26 01:09 PM
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As someone who works closely with a lot of hr and executive level employees in the corporate world, this is a very common occurrence. The gross level of sexism I've heard and seen from women is crazy. Yet when I ever mention it, there always seems to be women who rush to say that "it's against men, so it's not an issue."
/r/MensRights21/01/26 01:43 PM
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And that was still a long and hard fight
/r/MensRights21/01/26 03:35 AM
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I believe that neither is an accurate idea of the phenomenon. I attribute it to the socialization and societal norms of women in Western society. Over all, empathy isn't a trait that is instilled in women. Sympathy can be, but empathy, most certainly not. It's why you see such divisions along different intersections of women.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 11:06 PM
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Again, personally I feel there is nuance there, but simply put, I agree with you. I voluntarily choose to call out the more egregious examples I see, but it is definitely correct that it isn't something that should be expected of, or more importantly, be given the responsibility of, to any group as a whole
/r/MensRights15/01/26 01:54 PM
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Some, and to various degrees. I do make it a point to have friends who are good people, so my personal circle might be a bit skewed. However, outside of my circle, very few women I've met personally seem to have empathy for men outside of how they are personally impacted.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 01:27 AM
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Hello, a woman married to a man here. It's very, very uncommon to see general compassion for men in other women, and still pretty uncommon to even see compassion from women towards even specific men. Since I focused my views on seeing men as people, the common and accepted dismissal and belittling of men I see on a daily basis just makes me feel anger towards society
/r/MensRights15/01/26 12:59 AM
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There is a very simple reason for that. Those women want to keep pursuing that kinda man. This allows them to vent any struggles they face onto the shoulders of someone else, while continuing to not address their own choices in any form of accountability. If it's not a double standard, they don't want it
/r/MensRights14/01/26 06:45 PM
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I love that I'm called an incel for pointing out these exact points often.
/r/MensRights14/01/26 01:16 PM
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Women like that disgust me. Violence that women experience doesn't negate or justify violence that men experience.
/r/MensRights13/01/26 09:48 PM
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Feminists - "men who talk about evil actions of specific women are just perpetrators of patriarchy and misogyny. So what if she stabbed, robbed, raped, murdered, etc, he was a man so it's ok" Also feminists - "all men should be killed or locked up like breeding stock. Aborting male fetuses because they are male is a healthy choice. Misandry doesn't exist."
/r/MensRights08/01/26 02:46 AM
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I could give a dissertation on this subject. The first key is understanding who you're dealing with on the other side of this subject. They don't see this as something to understand and improve for society but as a battlefield to win. It's why they use emotionally charged language, vague and inaccurate assumptions, and character attacks. The only way to deal with people like that is to ignore them or to stand firm in holding them to addressing the actual issues and subject, without devolving int…
/r/MensRights07/01/26 04:00 PM
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"misandry only hurts feelings" meanwhile, some women are doing eugenic ass shit like this
/r/MensRights03/01/26 06:34 AM
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As a woman, in a successful marriage, there are some ways to protect yourself. Don't get married. The only reason we did was for insurance and that's after lots of conversations and being together for a while. Don't share what you have. Say you rent, don't flash a lot of money, just be yourself and be happy being you. Don't lower your standards, but make sure they are good standards. Looks can and will change. A good person who brings peace to your life means way more. Don't get an image of what…
/r/MensRights31/12/25 02:36 AM
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Except that's the entire issue. Men are looking for real relationships. Most women view relationships as transitional. Acknowledging that isn't endorsing it. Men saying "if my options are to be alone or be viewed as something to use, I choose to be alone and happy" isn't a negative on men.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 02:08 PM
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Oh boy. While I have no problem admitting that the majority of violence crimes are at the hands of men, I also can acknowledge that the vast majority of all people don't commit crimes as well as the fact that using "crimes", or statistics from justice departments, is a terribly flawed premise for accuracy. Just like marital rape wasn't a crime against women until 93, and wasn't included in the "crime" statistics, I'm also aware that marital rape of men today is still not considered a "crime" and…
/r/MensRights02/12/25 03:32 PM
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So are you an idiot or a troll? Feminists and progressive aren't the same thing. Mra's care about victims regardless of identity and addressing social issues men face. Feminists like to try and make caring about men equivalent to hating women, because that's how that "care about women", by trying to demonize men
/r/MensRights02/12/25 01:47 PM
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This isn't it. She is free to feel like she missed out. But trying to speak for other women isn't helpful
/r/MensRights29/11/25 05:58 PM
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Having actual empathy for victims, not identities.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 07:50 AM
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🤦‍♀️ ok👍
/r/MensRights16/11/25 10:06 PM
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Ok, I'll trust that. Your first point. "People who perpetuate this belief cause harm to men, isolating them." I think that's correct, despite you not intending it to be. People acknowledging that an issue exists and it's not ok aren't the ones "perpetuating" the belief. So many men have heard and experienced this, and people like you that are more than willing to dismiss those lived experiences because that don't fit your personal biases, are the ones who enable the people who hold those beliefs…
/r/MensRights16/11/25 09:28 PM
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Oh boy. Do you really not understand this topic, or are you being disengenuous? I have no problem talking to someone who is being genuine, but don't really deal like wasting time with someone who isn't.
/r/MensRights16/11/25 09:08 PM
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All, no. A large majority, absolutely correct. People like you who pretend that this phenomenon doesn't exist just enables the people who act that way
/r/MensRights16/11/25 08:42 PM
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Exactly this.
/r/MensRights17/10/25 06:14 PM
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This^ and it's so important. Most of the men my husband is friends with are just focusing on themselves. Walking away from dating and just spending time with friends, on hobbies, just enjoying life.
/r/MensRights02/09/25 12:15 AM
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Men - "I think your hair looks great today" women - "omg, men are such creepy pieces of shit" Also women - this post. The double standard is wild
/r/MensRights30/08/25 02:50 PM
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No, women represent 51% of the population, which in a country the size of the US, is a significant number. However voting power is even more of a difference, as things like refusal to sign the draft, something that only affects men, as well as many felons, which are much more likely to be men, not having the ability to vote means that discrepancy is even larger. Not to mention voting turn out rates. Women have controlled the majority of spending power for a long time, and is well documented. Den…
/r/MensRights02/03/25 06:53 PM
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Ok, let's try again. In the USA, women control the majority of spending and voting power. 28% of Congress being women, is the result of a voting system that women have control of. So ask women why they made that choice
/r/MensRights02/03/25 06:03 PM
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You're very inaccurate. Men and women face sexual violence at near identical levels. Women are far more likely to be the preparators of IPV. My statement isn't misleading at all, it's very factual. It is, however, something that goes against this broad narrative you have. No where did I say "women bad" or try to make it a competition. However, you did try to make it a competition if who has it worse. I'm interested in how I have resentment towards myself? As a woman, the way you're out of touch …
/r/MensRights02/03/25 01:29 PM
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Except, on a global level, men face harassment, abuse, assault, and murder on a much higher level than women do.
/r/MensRights02/03/25 10:18 AM
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Omg, enlightened one, please, explain how it's different? How is viewing one as subhuman animals based on their inborn identities different from viewing one as subhuman based on their inborn identity?
/r/MensRights01/03/25 11:39 AM
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Seeing as women control the majority of voting power and spending power, and are half of, it feels like you must have a disgusting view on women to think they have no influence.
/r/MensRights01/03/25 04:26 AM
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That's like saying a sub talking about medicine prices is weird for criticizing big pharma. While feminists aren't the root cause or sole cause of every issue we talk about here, it sure has a large responsibility. The only reason you use "complain" is to try and use an emotionally charged word to dismiss the valid criticisms. I wonder why, instead of calling out the shit behavior that is brought up, you instead feel the need to try to invalidate those talking about the issue. It's almost like y…
/r/MensRights23/01/25 11:50 AM
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This kinda shit is way too common and accepted by society. That was attempted rape, and then gaslighting to avoid accountability. That's also exactly the kinda woman that feminists defend. It makes me sick. My heart goes out to you, and your frustrations are valid.
/r/MensRights04/11/24 10:25 PM
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The sick part is, even if cardi came out and admitted she raped the men, they would still support her. Women didn't care about rape unless it's a man on a woman. They project their own sexism so hard onto everyone else
/r/MensRights23/10/24 01:59 PM
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It's very common. I've been banned from multiple subs for the same thing. Even ones I didn't post in, just followed to stalk. It's ridiculous
/r/MensRights03/10/24 11:24 AM
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