xjulesx21 Archive

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4	Why is there so much conversation about the amount of effort( or lack there of) that men put in when it comes to dating? I’m not sure you truly listened to what was stated in this comment. ask any woman and they’ve dated someone who who started out a good man, but ended up manipulative, lying, abusive, lacking in equal help in the relationship, or all of the above. and yes, of course there are women like this too. but women are disproportionately affected by it. but considering there’s so many past bad experiences with men, we have to be more selective. we have to be much more concerned with our safety and livelih…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 01:56 AM
1	Standards are not a sacred covenant. other people’s standards don’t affect me, so I can only have my own. so I truly don’t think or care what other peoples standards are, I won’t change mine based on someone else’s opinions. it’s important to have boundaries on what you will or won’t accept in life - why tolerate being unhappy? I think some communities/people in general become a bit obsessed with standards and it consumes their mind. if it works for them and they’re happy then cool. but I think of my standards as boundaries, becaus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 04:40 PM
-3	Would you rather date a woman who has a very successful OF but virgin or a woman who's had many partners? I agree. it’s rare that someone has one sexual partner their entire life, many are curious what sex with other people is like. people who have had sex with multiple partners usually know what they like and want from sex, and have had enough bad sex to not want to hookup with random people again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 08:13 PM
1	Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice? not to mention women couldn’t even open up their own bank accounts in the US until the 1970s. men were previously needed for a woman to function in society so many women settled, but now we can choose more freely and won’t settle for men who don’t treat us with kindness & respect (and as if we’re actual humans lol).	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/22 09:35 PM
0	Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice? bingo!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/22 09:33 PM
1	Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice? right, we can’t help it as women that so many men simply don’t put effort into their personal well being or the relationship. many of us thought we were getting with great men, but they proved us wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/22 09:33 PM
5	Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice? this exactly. my boyfriend and I work out so well because were both emotionally mature and don’t rely on each other for our own happiness. it makes our love (and sex life) amazing because there’s no toxicity in any way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/22 09:26 PM
0	Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice? 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/22 09:23 PM
2	Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice? if a man is attractive but not emotionally secure, I’m simply not attracted to them in the slightest, and I wouldn’t pursue him. the most attractive thing about my boyfriend is the fact that he’s secure in himself and we can just bond as people. it makes him even more physically attractive. and no, it’s not a “female type of intimacy” (whatever that means lol), I have friends who are woman for that but emotional connection isn’t really dictated by sex, in my opinion. and my man and I have been t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/22 09:22 PM