| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 123 | Engaged Since 2010 | #JustLVMThings | xoMorgan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 08:35 PM |
| 109 | Husband spends $30,000 transforming attic into his wife's dream walk-in closet | WHOLESOME CONTENT | xoMorgan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:05 PM |
| 100 | If he wants to, he will! | How-To High Value | xoMorgan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 08:55 PM |
| 14 | "You wish you could sway my attention." 🎶 | FDS ANTHEM 🎶 | xoMorgan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 06:54 PM |
| 1 | I’d rather be 50 & alone | NAH, SIS | xoMorgan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Even a broken clock is right twice a day | LEVEL UP | xoMorgan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:13 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | I’d rather be 50 & aloneI’m tired of being alone being seen as a death sentence. I’ll always prefer my own company than being tied to a LVM/NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 04:39 AM |
| 26 | I need help.I feel worthless and like I’m setting the bar really low because there’s not much to pick from out there so he’s the best I can do. Why are you attaching your self-worth to a man? You need to completely break up with him, block him everywhere, and get therapy. There is no "strategy" to get him interested, you need to learn to love yourself. | /r/askFDS | 23/02/21 06:21 PM |
| 124 | Just another disappointment...Another LVMHave you broken up with him? When a man wants to break up with you, you let him go. He's a LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:45 AM |
| 68 | Queens, I need some major encouragement tonight. I broke up with my bf of 3 years today.Write down all the terrible things about him. Whenever you feel like crying, going back to him, feel bad about breaking up with him, you go read that list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Just don’t ask me out and act like you are interested in me when you knew you might disappear after a few dates. Please do not make me confused. I am sad.You clearly haven't read the handbook. Go read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:48 AM |
| 3 | ❤️Completely agree! Whenever I've had to ask a boyfriend to accept my standards, they always made it seem out of the ordinary and impossible (opening doors, being a provider, coming to my house on time, etc.). It wasn't until FDS that I figured I was asking the wrong people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:50 PM |
| 142 | How pickmes look 🤡 after “giving the nice guy a chance” 🤮Lol, I remember being so embarrassed to be seen with my LV ex. He was morbidly obese and having childbearing hips didn’t help. I can’t believe there was a time when I thought looks didn’t matter. I’m never giving a “NiCe GuY” a chance ever again. 😷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 04:23 AM |
| 16 | Y’ALL! I was dating a guy who treated me the best I’d ever been treated. He then told me he’s on the sex offender registry! Worst part is below...Mr. Number Lookup & Call Block | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:38 AM |
| 84 | Y’ALL! I was dating a guy who treated me the best I’d ever been treated. He then told me he’s on the sex offender registry! Worst part is below...Always do a background check! It’s very easy and plenty of information will come up. When I was dating, I would put their phone number in an app and their real name would come up. Then, I would do some simple Google searches and check NSOPW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 10:33 PM |
| 10 | Meeting my needs is an obligation? Okay, bye!I agree with you. Once you need to tell a man how he should treat you, the relationship is over. He'll fake for a few hours/days/months, but he'll eventually go back to his ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 01:20 AM |
| 92 | Pandemic = level up timeI don't understand dating right now. There aren't many places open, which means LV dates and a higher abundance of LVM/NVM on dating apps. Any HVM would be focusing on himself during this time than risking his health. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 12:25 AM |
| 51 | There is no honeymoon period just healthy vs unhealthyExactly! Before I discovered FDS, I would call my LV ex at the same time everyday without fail. After discovering FDS, I wanted him to initiate and he wouldn't call me for days. What was his excuse? The "HonEyMoOn PeRiOd" ended and we knew everything about each other. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 05:16 PM |
| 108 | Apex Redditor... 😂 #goldMy LV ex believed humans are "naturally programmed" to have sex after arguing. I'm so glad even in my pickmeshia stage I quickly shut that down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 03:42 PM |
| 10 | What if you wanna pay sometimes? For empowerment reasons?How do you get empowerment from paying? Go learn some skills, learn a new language, discover hobbies, join a club etc. I don't believe spending money on a man is empowering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 03:36 AM |
| 5 | anyone else think men have been telling on themselves a lot more lately?I love when they do this. Keep up the good work, scrotes! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 05:03 PM |
| 115 | No.I tried fixing my obese ex by helping him go hiking, teaching him about calorie intake, telling him not to eat certain food. They will never change! His family even thought I was his personal dietician and would ask me why he hadn't lost weight. Eventually, he told me he would never lose weight unless I moved in with him and cooked all his meals. 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 02:04 AM |
| 105 | More women need to hold men accountable for their hygiene. Men are always so quick to judge our bodies and hygiene and expect us to be freshly waxed, freshly this but will marinate in their own filth and expect us to be okay with it.I was thinking about this today. When have men ever worried about how they smelled and created concoctions for sex? Never. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:09 AM |
| 116 | Just another day of women being treated like garbage in r/relationships...This is just sad. I used to go to that sub to give advice, but I quickly learned that not everyone wants to be saved. The majority will make excuses and probably never break up. They have to want better for themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Women who don’t make the first move are worthless 🙄When he thinks he’s the prize. 🤡😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Dating during COVID, how to avoid going to their places?I agree, no HVM would be dating during this time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:25 PM |
| 7 | Ladies I messed up. I discovered FDS too late and now I have regrets. How can I overcome these?Forgive yourself and invest in yourself. Your situation could have been worse if you stayed with him, but you acknowledged that you deserve better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:21 PM |
| 16 | Am I too sensitive?Keep him blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 05:09 AM |
| 60 | Patrick & Spongebob as ParentsThe 50/50 men want 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 10:18 PM |
| 19 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 23 2020Personally, I would choose the art exhibition and a restaurant after if everything goes well. The walk around a park or having lunch during his break is low effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 01:56 AM |
| 42 | During initial dating phase, when should you expect some emotional labor from men?When someone shows you who they are, you need to believe them. He’s already shown you he’s not an empath. When he was able to text you, he went straight to work being busy than sending you kind words. Sis, I wouldn’t expect him to change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Is this a red flag of a LVM?He’s definitely a LVM. That’s something he should’ve kept to himself. My LV ex would say the same thing to guilt me into hanging out with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 04:01 AM |
| 167 | Let him go be with someone on his level.Yeeees, I had to do this with my ex boyfriend. After I discovered FDS, he kept telling me the expectations I had for him were unrealistic and he had to be let go. 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 08:13 PM |
| 49 | Truly abhorrent. Okay Sis 🤡Some women are willing to put up with anything if a guy has money. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 06:48 PM |
| 31 | Thoughts on this? We matched on OLD and had a few text conversations over a week, asked for a quick phone call and he said no?If he wanted to talk to you, he would have stopped working or told you he'll call you at - o'clock. He's not a HVM if he wants to risk your health by meeting up in public. You should definitely move on from him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:27 AM |
| 12 | Should I tell him that he hurt my feelings or should I just tell him now that this isn't going to work out?Just block him. Stop going to stranger’s houses, get an STD test, and read the handbook. In my pickmeisha days, I did something similar and was such a clown. You can only learn from this and do better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 03:14 AM |
| 9 | LVM needing to be bribed with favors to do basic chores, and he still finds a way to abuse it.The perks of being married to a man child. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 03:59 AM |
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