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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 78 | Spotted one in the wild.I would buy this book haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 10:43 PM |
| 123 | Men start looking for reasons to hate/intentionally misunderstand you when they realize you’re smarter than they expected?Thank you I seem to forget this. Reminds me of the quote “no amount of pretty can save you from the patriarchy.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 05:53 AM |
| 80 | Men start looking for reasons to hate/intentionally misunderstand you when they realize you’re smarter than they expected?Reminds me of my LVM ex who would fight me to the death over easily-google-able facts if I let him. I still cringe when the oddly specific topics come up lol. Totally relate to that feeling even though obviously not worth the loss of sanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 05:12 AM |
| 275 | Men start looking for reasons to hate/intentionally misunderstand you when they realize you’re smarter than they expected?Sounds like his one outing that year | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 04:10 AM |
| 123 | Men start looking for reasons to hate/intentionally misunderstand you when they realize you’re smarter than they expected?This was beautifully said | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 03:04 AM |
| 256 | Men start looking for reasons to hate/intentionally misunderstand you when they realize you’re smarter than they expected?Lmfao you can tell it’s bad when it feels mean just to think about reversing the question. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 02:41 AM |
| 28 | How police officers cheat and vetting strategies to get the truth.You say he’s not trying to sleep with you but I think he is. This over sharing is how they get you close and feeling special that they opened up to you. They want you to know that they would lie to anyone but you which obviously is not true. Anyway as you said it’s therapeutic for him to get things out. You’re his cute neighbor friend who’s very interested in his life that he talks about sex with and the parts of his life that excite him to brag about. Not to shame or anything just to put it in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 01:08 AM |
| 52 | Some of these aren't even dates 🤦I read “panic at the lake” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 11:31 AM |
| 30 | That time I walked out on a date after his first sentenceHello I love u 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 04:24 PM |
| 116 | Don't let any entitled male tell you that you need to be desperate for male attention. This mess is Exhibit A for what they want women to believe about their chances of meeting a man. Don't lower your standards.Imagine there being 7.43 million more women in the USA and not one of them wants you. Must sting. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:44 AM |
| 17 | Your male friends WILL masturbate to you, and it’s not their fault. Here you have it Queens, If you are friends with men, they will masturbate to you, because they can, and because it’s private, and none of your business.Thank you!! This is so true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 03:40 PM |
| 19 | Your male friends WILL masturbate to you, and it’s not their fault. Here you have it Queens, If you are friends with men, they will masturbate to you, because they can, and because it’s private, and none of your business.Fear response like fear of being alone? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 03:25 PM |
| 9 | I had no idea you ladies are so hated. I’m curious what other subs I’ll be auto banned fromYou just have to go read their rules to see it’s made by men specifically about how the mods will shoot themselves if you post too much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 05:11 AM |
| 4 | I had no idea you ladies are so hated. I’m curious what other subs I’ll be auto banned fromMowt? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 05:07 AM |
| 260 | He lied to this woman (and pretty much everyone else) for TWO YEARS and, of course, she's the problem.There’s no way he’s even 5’9 if he threw 5’8 in there lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 02:08 AM |
| 248 | No second date, so he wants moneyThank god. How embarrassing for him. I bet he felt a power trip sending that like he won. They’re always saying they would rather we just tell them we’re not interested rather than ghosting yet turns out you lose either way! Classic lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 08:27 PM |
| 89 | What are warning signs that the man may become physically abusive?Literally any other kind of abuse or disrespect. It all builds from there. Stay safe and trust your gut. If it feels wrong it is. No need for a second opinion in whether or not he is mistreating you. If it helps to separate yourself from the situation, imagine your best friend/sister/mom/daughter ANYONE else going through the same thing and what you would say to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 05:04 AM |
| 13 | How are men so obsessed with sex and yet still SO BAD at it??These comments get me TRIGGERED every time lol 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:24 PM |
| 47 | How are men so obsessed with sex and yet still SO BAD at it??🤮🤮🤮also chances that number is even close to being real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 03:35 AM |
| 161 | How are men so obsessed with sex and yet still SO BAD at it??He blamed it on your height?! 💀💀💀 their excuses are absolutely wild. The confidence to even come up with that shit. I’m so sorry you went through this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 03:24 AM |
| 93 | How are men so obsessed with sex and yet still SO BAD at it??Not disagreeing with you about porn not helping but I’m not convinced they were any better in pre-internet porn times either :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 03:20 AM |
| 83 | Flip the scriptExactly this the longer I have existed around men the more their idiot tactics trigger me. Like bruh whyy do you think this isn’t working for you?? Surely not your approach! /ss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 03:49 AM |
| 51 | OLD Red Flags and Field Report: Catfishing, Heightfishing, and more.All I can say is Fucking Yikes @ this man. I cannot 🤮 My sympathies that you had to deal with this bullshit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 05:29 PM |
| 74 | Hey look! Somebody got a picture of my ex!“Everywhere you go, there you are.” Saving this one, really well said! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 04:17 PM |
| 48 | Stop fake laughing at men’s unfunny jokes. They really aren’t that funny...Reminds me of a guy who interviewed me on his podcast, was confused about what I was saying and instead of trying to understand just gaslit me the whole time and never posted the episode. He had asked me to choose the subtopic and I had sent him a bunch of readings on it beforehand. He clearly didn’t look at them bc he thought he knew everything there was to know about the topic I guess. After never posting the episode (which to be fair was insanely cringey with his reactions to me) he never spo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 08:06 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-in🏅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 10:42 AM |
| 6 | How to Be Successful Without Hurting Men's Feelings 101 - the double standards are real!Do you know the source for this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 02:56 PM |
| 4 | LIST OF SIGNS HE IS A DEPRAVED CHEATERI think she meant not working... but yeah idk I think the most important thing is to trust your gut and not gaslight yourself when something seems off. Don’t confront them about it and give them an out to convince you otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 04:40 PM |
| 42 | Equality only where it benefits men. This is why we don't pay on datesOk but instead of the sapphos-witch-gf comment at the bottom once again attacking women for doing what they can to survive with the information and experiences they have had, maybe we can focus on the male-centered culture that made this all possible and STILL has the ‘woke’ woman not seeing the hypocrisy of shaming them for participating. ✨and here I am attacking her✨idk man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 12:04 PM |
| 132 | You deserve to have high standards even if you are overweight.Please take my poor woman’s gold 🥇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 01:17 PM |
| 4 | Trauma will keep you in a loop of your past‘When you are thirsty enough you will drink salt water’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 12:47 AM |
| 87 | How the Hot Girl with boundaries suddenly becomes invisible ✌️ You become unattractive as soon as they realize they can’t control you with their cheap ‘validation’ and no longer have a reason to lead you on. You are more than enough on your own.Lose-lose bc their manipulation if they ‘get you’ is dangerous but so is their resentment if they don’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 09:05 PM |
| 3 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏5’6 —> 6’1”??? Insanity lol. They are so delusional. I dated a guy who claimed to be 5’8 but was shorter than me and even a year later held onto his lie. Should have dropped him from day 1 lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:03 AM |
| 44 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏Exactly! Like I’m not down for guys who arent taller than me now, but when I would date guys the same height or shorter 100% of the time they’d also be making up numbers and gaslighting me about how tall I was | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:58 AM |
| 80 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏They focus on height as the singular flaw women must hate about them because it’s more convenient to be able to hyper focus on that rather than to improve who they are as people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:17 AM |
| 72 | Best one I’ve seen yet 😂Ive been wanting to post this to my ig but idk if I’m prepared to be labeled as an angry man-hater yet lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 05:43 AM |
| 7 | I'm always wondering about this based on my past experiences with LVM. Men who do this, why do you insist on lying to women you KNOW want monogamy?Exactly this. They lie because they know you wouldn’t put up with them if it weren’t for the manipulation. Edit: also even if theoretically they think you would be down for NSA sex, it’s better for their egos to lie and have you ‘obsessed’ with them thinking you’re in a relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:17 AM |
| 49 | Nice to be reminded sometimes!!Lolll wtf sounds like a grade-A narcissist. I don’t think anyone who is in a genuinely happy relationship would care about rubbing it into their ex’s faces for validation. Imagine being engaged to him and finding out he was texting this to other women! Congrats on dodging a serious bullet. Edit: typo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 12:11 AM |
| 48 | They will ALWAYS find a way to blame women for their misogyny.“Ok!!! 😀😀” never comes back outside | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 03:59 AM |
| 226 | They will ALWAYS find a way to blame women for their misogyny.There is no winning with being shorter either, when I was younger I always wanted to be taller and ultra-thin because you could only be a model at 5’8”+ they said, but now at this age, as a non-model (lol) the goalposts have shifted to shorter and more curvy. Ultimate objectification. The trick is keeping all the women insecure enough that they can swoop in and pretend to save us from the problems they created. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:08 AM |
| 10 | Reminder to hold onto your power with no sex until commitment because they will pull this Every Time no matter how ‘great’ they seemThey feel hella emasculated/insecure if they feel that 'their' girl can play the field better than they can lmao. They like to pretend they don't care but you can see their egos take the hit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 12:10 AM |
| 47 | I’m a big fan of doing what you want, but stepping back and seeing the rising amount of $ made off of women to fit popular beauty standards is unsettling when you think of where these ideas are coming from in the first place.I think this also goes along the lines of gay men being excused for being horrible to women and bullying them about how they look/dress or making sexually inappropriate comments about their bodies. I think people are scared of being seen as homophobic for calling it out when in reality it's just the same as anyone being mean to another person. I feel like they get away with it bc it's quirky and gets excused as men 'making jokes, lighten up' if you confront them when women saying the same things… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:59 PM |
| 47 | I’m a big fan of doing what you want, but stepping back and seeing the rising amount of $ made off of women to fit popular beauty standards is unsettling when you think of where these ideas are coming from in the first place.Right like the way people are shocked at how ‘good’ I look when I’m out of my ugly work uniform as if I’m this whole new person they suddenly respect/value more is insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:31 PM |
| 86 | I’m a big fan of doing what you want, but stepping back and seeing the rising amount of $ made off of women to fit popular beauty standards is unsettling when you think of where these ideas are coming from in the first place.Also, the idea that you really ARE perceived as 'better' by society and given more opportunities once you fit these constraints. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:50 PM |
| 10 | In search of FDS approved snappy retorts to this Tinder scrote!! I saw this and immediately laughed - can’t wait to read what the queens suggest to reply with :):)an unmatch! lol. but if you're dying to see him freak out just leave it and don't ever respond | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:23 AM |
| 27 | New standards in your platonic relationshipsYea, I’ve stopped ‘forgetting’ the shitty things they’ve done. I am hyper-aware now of how much I do not deserve to be treated this way and how much time I am wasting trying to ‘make it work’ with them. I’d much rather make space for new friends, invest more into the good ones, or myself. Finally my solitude is sweet enough that I am embracing my boundaries and truly good on my own. I have also realized how cold I can be when I try to stay but am resentful of people for treating me poorly whethe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 05:49 AM |
| 9 | Strategic Incompetence: Journalist Admits to Doing Shit Housework so Wife Takes OverI'm happy to see attention brought to these things, but it always fills me with such despair | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 01:47 AM |
| 8 | Can we get a thread of body-shaming things LVM have said to us?Favorite part abt this is that he’s your ex thank god | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 02:19 AM |
| 6 | Can we get a thread of body-shaming things LVM have said to us?ugh i could write a book on this. I once had a guy tell me that usually, he liked Asian girls, but I was okay because I looked so young. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:01 AM |
| 6 | Can we get a thread of body-shaming things LVM have said to us?eyes like this make peoples carriers though! eg Allison Harvard runner-up cycle 12 ANTM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 12:01 AM |
| 27 | Can we get a thread of body-shaming things LVM have said to us?YIKES. This is so gross. I'm sorry. Reminds me of my HS volleyball coach who ordered everyone's uniform tops a size down to 'motivate us to watch what we put in our mouths.' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 08:44 PM |
| 26 | Can we get a thread of body-shaming things LVM have said to us?gotta love those overly-specific projections lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:28 PM |
| 27 | Can we get a thread of body-shaming things LVM have said to us?this is the worst, like when you show up to a date and you KNOW(feel) you're the hottest one in the room, and every stranger seems to appreciate this, but somehow not him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:14 PM |
| 40 | Can we get a thread of body-shaming things LVM have said to us?ooo pre-annoyed is such a good term rather than the gaslight-y 'bitter' they always use | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:11 PM |
| 16 | Advice needed: Setting boundaries on an engagement/marriage timeline.Just wanted to say 4 months seems wayyyyy to soon to me. I think if you’re talking about marriage you should let him know, but only once. If he understands it’s important to you and he wants to keep you, he will. Do not potentially waste years bc you are not wanting to be pushy!!! Maybe this is a deal-breaker conversation. Decide if you are ready for that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 06:06 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Hi Ladies, SO there's this guy I've cut off who I haven't seen since March. Over a month has passed since I ghosted, but he still has my earrings that were a gift and I genuinely want them back. Is there a protocol that would be ideal for getting them? I was thinking about asking him to bring them to his work for me to quickly pick up while I'm nearby. It also just seems like such a bad idea to try this at all. Has anyone had success with getting their stuff back post fall out? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 08:46 PM |
| 6 | Ladies Do Not be Afraid to Block- ANYONEa couple weeks ago i decided to clean out my following list to only people who's stuff i WANTED to see. I quickly realized i'd be down to like 100 people at best so i decided to just deactivate maybe till the end of time or until i get the balls to do it. I just feel like a dick for having what would be such an extreme ratio | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 09:42 PM |
| 7 | What would happen if all women using dating apps... stopped? 🤔I don't like how on OLD it has the feeling that the guy has already 'gotten' you since he thinks he knows you're attracted to him since you already matched. The idea of having to win you over is quickly gone bc they think they've already won. Depending on the person maybe not fully, but it definitely changes the dynamic if they think they know you have a crush on them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 08:23 PM |
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