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Cold approaches or OLDs?
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:41 AM
1

You a girl or gay person? And what area are you in? How did you two meet?
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:45 AM
8

Right, let me be specific, More young ppl or more old ppl?
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:09 AM
31

Young or old?
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:59 AM
7

How did you find two model gfs to do OF with you?
/r/seduction14/07/22 03:16 AM
10

What if women hit on you instead during lessons?
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:20 PM
2

What are the bets we put on table? Probably, time, money
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:36 AM
0

So you are saying it’s easier to bring a wingwoman lol
/r/seduction24/06/22 09:02 PM
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Train her. Stop her when she talks too much. Did you try that? Maybe get angry superficially to see if she becomes more responsive. Or see marriage or relationship counselor. Did you try that?
/r/seduction22/06/22 07:35 PM
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Did you marry her or not? How are you two raising the kid?
/r/seduction22/06/22 07:34 PM
1

Then you should tell her that. Show your dissatisfaction like a man, don’t just cue anymore, tell her directly. Tell her she’s annoying
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:42 PM
0

So you wanna break up because she just doesn’t listen lol
/r/seduction22/06/22 11:56 AM
6

Whats friend’s age?
/r/seduction22/06/22 11:51 AM
3

How do you approach?
/r/seduction19/06/22 04:47 PM
1

My first pass was that I learned I should treat myself better. I deserve to be treated better. And most of the examples provided in the book are married men who are not satisfied with their marriage. So I think you should take what applies to you. For example, it talks about men growing up with no bad father figure. While my case is having no father figure. Regardless, I was drawn to reading such a book though. I learned quite a bit and reflected a lot on my life.
/r/seduction24/05/22 10:36 PM
1

Op should’ve said that in this flex post, don’t you think ?
/r/seduction23/05/22 04:40 PM
7

Yeah dude saying he hadn’t had sex in 2022 lmao https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/st6vw4/i_havent_had_sex_in_2022/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:48 AM
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Does attachment ever change according to the theory?
/r/seduction16/05/22 01:43 PM
0

Beauty and beast right? And what are the crazies like?
/r/seduction16/05/22 01:42 PM
1

You should try the DAs with relocation feature to test out waters. Even among the same race groups, there’s alpha and beta, or style differences
/r/seduction16/05/22 01:34 PM
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Lmao what makes her crazy?
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:10 AM
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What type?
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:45 AM
2

Find a provider
/r/seduction15/05/22 04:12 AM
1

That’s inspiring.
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:00 PM
1

Maybe you don’t need to read it after all if you don’t have the specific nice guy problem
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:55 PM
4

Yeah read the book No More Mr Nice Guys, it features bunch of nice guys who dated and married, but hated their relationships
/r/seduction10/05/22 05:59 AM
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Midwest?
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:38 PM
5

But why so many women are with poor bad boys
/r/seduction06/05/22 08:11 AM
4

As an average height 5'10" Asian, I often thought many short Asians' faces look really nice. If you are to rate yourself based on your face, what would you give yourself? Height is one thing, but maybe girls like how your face looks.
/r/seduction05/05/22 06:59 AM
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good point!
/r/seduction05/05/22 06:57 AM
2

What if the girl isn’t that talkative and expect responses from you but you aren’t that eloquent or quick witted or funny?
/r/seduction05/05/22 03:21 AM
5

There are graduate students, phds, postdocs, staff people, so you aren’t old lol
/r/seduction04/05/22 10:04 PM
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I’ve heard many men who worked til their 40s to start finding love because they were so busy in chasing the dreams whether they succeed or not. I don’t want that. I want it to be more balanced.
/r/seduction04/05/22 07:27 PM
2

Did you get highend clothing?
/r/seduction02/05/22 07:33 AM
1

I don’t get lol
/r/seduction02/05/22 07:17 AM
1

What are you outfit styles ?
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:24 AM
1

What’s the best way your construct your cold reading sentences? I just started learning about it and I’ve always started with “you must like/love ...”
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:24 AM
1

Are the girls you met in Las Vegas mostly local people or tourists?
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:23 AM
1

They even track sim card ?!
/r/seduction28/04/22 11:03 PM
2

Did you also try having dating coach do your profile and having photographer taking pro pics?
/r/seduction28/04/22 07:41 AM
2

That’s a brilliant suggestion. Very good reasoning! Appreciate it!
/r/seduction28/04/22 07:37 AM
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But some of them are probably the hottest and most capable and most charismatic women out there
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:53 PM
1

Nice, I see how showing vulnerability can work!
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:51 PM
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What are some BS’es you had to cut through?
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:51 PM
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Top notched profile. This is a great example of 80% girls going for that 20% of guys.
/r/seduction27/04/22 03:13 AM
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Wow nice distinctions! Many replies here only mentioned the second type! How did you even recognize the first type? I’m certainly attracted to the first type too
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:54 PM
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are you not up to the challenge? haha
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:25 PM
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are you not up to the challenge? haha
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:24 PM
1

ikr
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:24 PM
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Why deleted the post, it was a good question
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:27 PM
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Yeah strong and opinionated women
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:22 PM
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I’m intrigued based on your experience lol
/r/seduction26/04/22 01:26 PM
1

You might be able to speak Chinese to Vietnamese girls, some of them do speak it, I heard simple English can make Vietnamese laugh like crazy too
/r/seduction26/04/22 02:38 AM
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Which videos? Does he have a YouTube lesson or something?
/r/seduction21/04/22 07:10 AM
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Hahaha either way, girls having bf not telling you they have bf, or girls who don’t have bf not telling you they have bf, you are good at this
/r/seduction17/04/22 05:50 PM
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So you became attractive enough for girls to cheat hahaha
/r/seduction17/04/22 04:32 PM
2

There’s private karaoke room type
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:35 AM
1

Each person can match with tens of hundreds of people, for example if you’ve seen people posting Tinder stats guys match with 500 out of 50k girls so 1% or less match rates.
/r/seduction06/04/22 11:37 PM
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Probably survivorship bias, there are probably trillions of no matches, and billions of wasted hours from apps lol
/r/seduction06/04/22 07:27 PM
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Maybe the lesson just wasn’t good enough, don’t blame yourself too much
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:47 AM
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How do you even endure it
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:26 AM
0

If she had just a little more faith in you...
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:04 AM
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That’s good observations of some mental maturity! I’m impressed. your mindset is totally the better one than the typical age-reflected maturity mindset.
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:55 PM
1

Where did you find so many of them willing to date you?
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:36 PM
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That’s freaking cute. Did you guys break up due to age reason or related issues?
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:35 PM
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Did you guys break up due to age reason or related issues?
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:33 PM
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Where did you meet?
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:33 PM
0

Did you guys break up due to age reason or related issues?
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:31 PM
1

I kinda get it. But the net part needs clarification, but I guess it’s just the typical things discussed here.
/r/seduction28/03/22 02:55 AM
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I’m eating at around 1200 for sure. I think my metabolism is just slow, I’ve only lost 30lb in the past 6 months with CICO and IF. Probably still 70lb to go to see abs.
/r/seduction27/03/22 05:23 AM
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I'm doing intermittent fasting, but 6 packs is like whole another level
/r/seduction27/03/22 03:39 AM
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I'm doing 18:6 IF too but doing IF def isn't getting me 6-packs easy.
/r/seduction27/03/22 03:38 AM
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It’s like saying just to get rich lol sounds easy
/r/seduction27/03/22 12:42 AM
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Did you guys ever meet irl? And by talking 2-3 times do you mean talking in person or in phone or in text?
/r/seduction18/03/22 05:52 AM
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I didn’t even start watching much yet, so I am just starting. Plz let me know some good ones.
/r/seduction17/03/22 10:29 PM
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Why not? Genuinely curious
/r/seduction17/03/22 10:27 PM
1

What are some good yt videos you watched?
/r/seduction17/03/22 08:40 PM
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Any update?
/r/seduction16/03/22 02:54 AM
1

Holy shit how do you do it?
/r/seduction16/03/22 02:53 AM
1

Cheat code for contact grabbing? What do you mean?
/r/seduction16/03/22 02:43 AM
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She probably fetishizes virgins lol
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:37 PM
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I’ve never done it, I have anxiety even thinking of going lol , where do you find a place to sit, if there’s no one around what do you do? Play with your phone? Are you planning to walk up to other women next time you go? What do you say to chat with a random guy?
/r/seduction13/03/22 07:06 AM
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How did you get from having mental issues to be this good? What’s one practice you did that helped you the most?
/r/seduction11/03/22 08:35 PM
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Doesn’t sound like it’s in the US haha. Way too cheap
/r/seduction10/03/22 12:22 AM
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What pics do you put there? Just like your OLD profile?
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:29 AM
0

You buy into that?
/r/seduction07/03/22 05:42 AM
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Top of social hierarchy? What did you read here?
/r/seduction07/03/22 04:42 AM
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I don’t get why your first brief cold approach turned out so well. So you got her ig and hung out later?
/r/seduction07/03/22 03:58 AM
1

How long were your first and 3rd interactions?
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:23 AM
1

So what’s the cat string theory?
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:57 PM
1

Do you also find the patterns of what types of girls fell for you and what types of girls that you liked but never liked you? If you point out the patterns, maybe it’ll be more helpful
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:56 PM
1

What do you talk about after the opener?
/r/seduction06/03/22 02:59 PM
1

Did you use English to talk to them? How well do your matches communicate and flirt?
/r/seduction06/03/22 02:49 PM
1

Wow, that’s another way to succeed! But it’s probably unattainable for common folks like me to have such social circles
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:44 AM
1

Thanks for doing this! Dm’ed
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:16 AM
1

Would love to read more about your experience if you’ve written any long write ups
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:56 AM
1

40lb from what?
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:33 AM
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You forgot /s
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:51 AM
1

What BMI did you start getting lots of dates? My target is 25, which is 177lb for me, but I feel my chubby face still looks chubby at that weight.
/r/seduction05/03/22 11:17 PM
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What score do you give to yourself?
/r/seduction05/03/22 03:09 PM
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Do you have to be pretty fit to do well in dance class? Or at least normal BMI?
/r/seduction05/03/22 08:23 AM
1

Most likely she’s just being friendly lol and medical professionalism most likely prohibits such relationship and she’s most likely married lol
/r/seduction03/03/22 05:11 AM
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You are coming up with too much drama in your head, you gotta cool down a bit lol
/r/seduction03/03/22 05:09 AM
1

That took so long! How did she respond? Only laughing? Did you ask her for coffee at least? And sounds like she’s at least 40 no? Because of her position
/r/seduction03/03/22 01:08 AM
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It looks like a typical business exchange, and she probably got that a lot lol. Did you call her later?
/r/seduction03/03/22 12:41 AM
1

I don’t see flirting
/r/seduction02/03/22 11:09 PM
1

That’s inspiring. Now I just think about how I view self love and love for friends and families, and I’ve been too critical of everyone, and I should change into what you wrote above. Basically I think I’m just unloved for so long and don’t love anyone, which in retrospect is extremely sad.
/r/seduction02/03/22 09:55 PM
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I’m in this process to get this mindset, but while you are doing self-improvement to that point where you can love yourself, this period is very difficult mentally, at least for me
/r/seduction02/03/22 04:14 AM
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That’s so difficult
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:32 PM
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Hmm idk, I mean if it’s funny I’ll keep it in my brain. What I’m saying is OP’s mindset doesn’t convince me
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:25 PM
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I just think you did great on improving yourself to this point!
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:23 PM
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So it’s like you spent 3 years to better yourself and bang! your friend got you a girl and she liked you a lot because of your hard works!
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:15 AM
9

What happened between 20-26?
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:24 AM
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Thanks for clarifying. But then I won’t say funny stuff just to please the girls
/r/seduction28/02/22 11:26 PM
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I don’t get it. If I don’t focus on the girl, I won’t even want to talk to them, they are just like passerby to me. And my RBF will drive people away.
/r/seduction28/02/22 09:34 PM
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Hmm Ive lurked around that sub a bit but haven’t posted anything. I’m now changing my lifestyle but I think it’s too slow, for me it started with weight loss which already went on for 6 months but only lost 25lb. And I also chatted with girls online just for practicing, mostly platonically. And other parts of improving dating like seduction skills haven’t even started yet. I’ve been only reading Models and No More Nice Guys. I don’t know what perspectives you see, but I’m all ears if you wanna s…
/r/seduction28/02/22 08:43 AM
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You know there are people in 50s looking like they are still at their 30s and you are probably at 20s for you fitness age
/r/seduction28/02/22 07:22 AM
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Yeah most likely based on statistics comparing to others from research. Of course I don’t use it as some golden measure. It might be a better measure than BMI because it factors in VO2MAX and other factors. “A new study of fitness and lifespan suggests that a person’s so-called fitness age – determined primarily by a measure of cardiovascular endurance – is a better predictor of longevity than chronological age. The good news is that unlike your actual age, your fitness age can decrease. The con…
/r/seduction28/02/22 07:01 AM
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https://www.garmin.com/en-US/garmin-technology/health-science/fitness-age/ Hope you learn something new
/r/seduction28/02/22 06:21 AM
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https://www.garmin.com/en-US/garmin-technology/health-science/fitness-age/
/r/seduction28/02/22 06:21 AM
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How fit are you? Have you measured your fitness age? Just curious because that seems to be pretty important to keep up to attract younger girls.
/r/seduction28/02/22 04:53 AM
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Chinese, Korean and French
/r/seduction27/02/22 11:15 PM
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Probably cognitive bias, especially survival bias, you should search for the people with same names but just not as good looking.
/r/seduction26/02/22 03:31 AM
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That’s fantastic thank you!
/r/seduction26/02/22 02:47 AM
2

Yes, but there are intricate details there on what and how I read
/r/seduction25/02/22 10:34 PM
1

How long have you been on abstinence?
/r/seduction25/02/22 06:26 PM
1

How do you master the art of not making yourself looking like a fool while being alone outside? I feel if I go to some places myself, the staff there will give me a pity look lol
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:02 PM
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Thank you for the encouragement!
/r/seduction25/02/22 03:34 PM
3

Post a pic without your face
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:58 AM
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Better at conversing, yeah, but also having better mindset so I don’t feel intimidated.
/r/seduction25/02/22 03:58 AM
3

Ask her back
/r/seduction24/02/22 07:24 PM
1

That makes it like you are depending on mother too much doesn’t it?
/r/seduction24/02/22 05:14 PM
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gotcha, you aren't wrong. I also recently started thinking about this and stopped all my other hobbies that wasted years of my life like gaming and geeky stuff, and have been focusing on improving myself.
/r/seduction24/02/22 12:33 AM
1

so you are saying men spend less efforts in all those, so they can do more of other things? or men do less but can get more different women?
/r/seduction24/02/22 12:26 AM
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Better choice in what?
/r/seduction24/02/22 12:08 AM
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I just don’t get it, this sounds unreal. You gotta be like above a 7 to do what’s described here right?
/r/seduction23/02/22 10:13 PM
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Does he look like a celebrity or something
/r/seduction21/02/22 11:33 PM
1

During those days I realized me about things like "oh mi life is very focused on my career, what about my personal life? it's like a slow enlightenment to me too. How have you improved so far the past four months or so?
/r/seduction21/02/22 06:20 PM
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that's a good perspective, but big city has lots of competitions, so is living at big cities really that helpful? And I was thinking if the places are expensive, there tend to be less women. Anecdotally, SF Bay Area is where there median income are way above the rest of the country, but men-to-women ratio is high.
/r/seduction21/02/22 06:06 PM
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I am reading Models and No More Nice Guys. Good books. I heard many people succeed here after reading. And I just started reading them myself. The details are all in the books, and you turn them into action plans on your own.
/r/seduction21/02/22 06:04 PM
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therapy, self-help, stoicism, better health, etc
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:16 PM
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Take one step at a time, solve issues one by one, mental, physical, financial, but for yourself.
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:04 AM
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Show a sample of your voice or gtfo for trolling
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:35 PM
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Maybe she will be too drunk to remember what she said lol
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:50 PM
1

Maybe I can start my day game at places you suggested
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:18 PM
2

That’s so true
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:37 AM
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What my real worry is, talking about such hobbies early scares potential dates away, but if I talk about them late, then it will come off as I didn’t present myself openly at first
/r/seduction17/02/22 06:46 PM
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Thanks! She must be a super rare find haha
/r/seduction17/02/22 06:39 PM
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That’s how I felt, and I’ve told no one in real life I like anime really lol except very few male friends. I’ve not spoken to many girls irl, but online like gaming or anime communities I’ve told girls what I like, they are accepting although they would not be my dates ever because it’s very hard to turn online friends to real life friends.
/r/seduction17/02/22 05:37 PM
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I think AB for dating and seduction things is hard to do because the goals aren’t achievable and small
/r/seduction17/02/22 04:09 AM
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Thank you
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:07 AM
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Which particular posts did you get most help from? Or it was mostly questions you asked got good answers?
/r/seduction15/02/22 08:58 PM
1

I got the book but haven't yet to read it, what's HVD?
/r/seduction15/02/22 01:55 AM
0

How?
/r/seduction12/02/22 05:59 PM
1

How about 30s?
/r/seduction11/02/22 10:18 PM
1

Where do you think those types though?
/r/seduction11/02/22 10:15 PM
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So that means if we don’t feel attached or obligated to take care of their children, then single moms can be good starters for some of us who are successful financially and perhaps a bit old but not very good at dating?
/r/seduction11/02/22 06:48 PM
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How do you find single moms specifically?
/r/seduction11/02/22 06:12 PM
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The badass artist vibe is different than the loser vibe though
/r/seduction11/02/22 02:01 AM
2

Did you tell them that you live your dad and don’t own a car? How did they react?
/r/seduction11/02/22 02:00 AM
1

How about being out of shape even obese?
/r/seduction11/02/22 01:58 AM
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How about simultaneously?
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:40 AM
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Physical attraction
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:04 AM
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What weight were you and what is it now? What’s the best techniques that work?
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:27 AM
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Did you have a post somewhere documenting your journey? I just started reading not too long ago, and curious what a success story looks like
/r/seduction09/02/22 02:58 AM
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So a 10/10 like you can also fails? 🤔 or you are just too confident about your looks, what metropolitan area are you in anyway, maybe the demographics has issue
/r/seduction09/02/22 02:54 AM
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Money making skill
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:20 AM
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Someone like your fwb
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:18 AM
1

Still unclear how to get such a friend lol
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:00 AM
1

Thanks for sharing
/r/seduction08/02/22 05:55 AM
1

How did you find out she’s married?
/r/seduction08/02/22 04:28 AM
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Why though? And this must be super rare case, you know you can’t take exception as a counter example, like your friends most likely don’t
/r/seduction08/02/22 04:22 AM
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How many fat dudes do you date?
/r/seduction08/02/22 04:08 AM
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But it’s just girl friends, it’s not like I’m saying I am dating other girls, is it revealing having many other girl friends really help?
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:37 PM
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So if she ask if you have many girl friends, then should you just admit it?
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:36 PM
1

How did it go?
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:00 AM
1

Japanese women can be just as open as western women if you don’t know already
/r/seduction07/02/22 12:01 AM
1

if she doesn’t respond to “you are cute” etc does that mean she just wanna be friend? I got a girl like that and a little frustrated
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:02 PM
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How do you not bring up the gender? It’s like you need to say he or she, or their names which would make the gender clear
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:11 PM
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How did It go?
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:03 PM
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When they ask you that, is it because they want your exclusive attention? Like they are gauging your interest in them? So if you tell them about other girl friends, do the interests usually go up or down?
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:01 PM
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You answered it perfectly! You sound like an alpha guy women wanna introduce to their circles and have their friends bang you haha
/r/seduction06/02/22 04:25 AM
1

What’s the most useful and transferable skill?
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:01 AM
1

They told you they don’t use dating apps? What country and area are you based in?
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:59 AM
1

Good luck sounds like you got a good chance
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:54 AM
1

Maybe that’s what she wants
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:48 AM
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Did hanging out with female friends get you more girls?
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:44 AM
0

How are you making her your fwb?
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:43 AM
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Cuz you aren’t interested lmao
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:19 PM
1

Maybe they thought you were asking for and tried giving you pity sex lol
/r/seduction05/02/22 06:57 AM
1

What pro sex techniques from your pornstar experience are good for laymen to learn?
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:04 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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