xpuddinpopx Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I'm my own person, not an extension of a man!	RANT	xpuddinpopx	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/05/21 01:06 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Let’s suppose this is true, this type of “encouragement” harms so many women around the world. This is a dangerous pickme I JUST saw this and was on my way to post about it! You can't convince me this isn't some weird dude roleplaying as a young woman. Or at least I very much hope that's what is happening, because if not this poor girl needs some better attention in her life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/21 01:27 PM
3	A hard part of FDS for me has been seeing the LV behaviors of my male family members I've been having similar issues. Especially in regards to my step dad and my sister's long term boyfriend. I just do my best to disengage if they start to push a boundary or is mom/sis start to describe a situation or conversation that examples their LV behaviors. With my sister though I do voice an opinion on those things about her partner when appropriate, and she normally agrees tbh. Mom gets upset so I just disengage the conversation and try not to add fuel to the fires.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/06/21 01:16 PM
68	A scrote blocked the sidewalk with his car in order to flirt. This ^ this is what I do too. Mainly because when I was a teen (freshly 17) i moved on my own and walked the big city of my state alone to find jobs. I was chased by no less than 2 trucks, a car, a man on a bike, and once a huge group of men on foot. And when i say chased, i mean it 100%. Half of those started out chasing me, the other half began the chase after i politely rejected them. This isn't even to mention the times I've been pursued through the woods or a country backroad. I now take no…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/06/21 08:19 PM
9	I saw a post shared from this sub onto Facebook, with a horribly over exaggerated scenario trying to paint women in a terrible light. Thankfully everyone in the comments knows that hateful men try to constantly discredit us. In case you didn’t know, be aware of fake subs where men try to imitate us! I came across this sub the other day. It's funny cuz I had been seeing a lot of posts looking like they were from FDS (with the group names censored but the titles saying FDS) with some extreme posts, with crazy over the top scenarios and exaggerations of some of our content here. I'd been wondering if they were just photoshopped til I found that group. It's OBVIOUSLY a bunch of angry scrotes, roleplaying as the "evil feminists" . And so many comments are convinced they're ACTUALLY connected to …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/06/21 02:41 PM
3	How do you dress at home when living with an SO? Do you feel pressured to dress for his “male gaze.” Does he complain or suggest things? Y’alls experience? I'm just genuinely curious why this comment is getting down voted? Is it the makeup part?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/21 12:05 AM
3	The "Nothing To Hide" Feint. Yes, it really is an absolute nightmare! Like, honestly before the discovery I wouldn't label him HV, but I thought he was a good man with a good heart. We had issues, believe you me. But never in 1,000 years would anyone have ever been able to convince me he was a closeted pedo. I saw it with my own eyes and could barely believe it. I'd seen him interact with children. We planned to start trying soon. And planned to adopt. Never had the slightest suspicion. It has shaken how I perceive all men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/21 07:24 PM
62	The "Nothing To Hide" Feint. I now endorse "snooping". If it wasn't for snooping I wouldn't have ever discovered my husbands hidden files containing his "black book", proof of infidelity, screenshots of his grindr profile, and CP. Digital privacy was always an off and on topic throughout our 2+ years of marriage and the 5 years total of our relationship. When I snooped I was looking for signs of cheating to be honest. And found a damned nightmare. (Obligatory yes, I reported it and disappeared) Snooping may make me feel gui…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/21 04:23 AM
7	(kinda) Red flags for dog owners Dude my roommate does the "alpha" thing, and I immediately rolled my eyes. He also gets mad at the poor dog for not listening and has "trained" it via intimidation and basically locking him in a crate for 80% of the day. Like, why do you even have a dog. That is a "certified support" animal to boot. Everything where his dog is concerned is a parade of red flags. It's what I get for rooming with a man.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/05/21 11:12 PM
2	If you're really married, how come you're on FDS? I found this sub while I was married (separated now). Literally, it opened my eyes to SO MANY red flags! It helped me realize part of my problems with myself were stemming from some of the power balance and manipulation in my relationship. It also opened my eyes to behavior being unacceptable. In those red flags I found so much horrible truth about my husband once I saw the signs and investigated. FDS didn't break my marriage, it helped me protect myself from what I wasn't seeing. And it continu…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/21 01:54 PM
3	I don’t want to live on this planet anymore Things like this are why I don't think I want a child of my own. There's something so, so wrong with people. And the society that accepts this shit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/21 01:54 PM
6	Guys who have a problem with sex during your period are LVM I'm TERRIFIED of an IUD. I literally know 3 women who had complications that resulted in surgery, so now I'm too petrified to ever get one. But not having my awful periods sounds like a dream!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/21 10:37 PM
9	Men are complex creatures....what? "Joy and respect" lmao uh-huh. I definitely show all my close friends the respect of barging in their bedroom unannounced.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 03:45 AM
3	So true. Well initially she yelled at me, told me I'd die early and made me cry. Then she realized what she'd done and how badly she affected me. And started prepping me snacks of vegetables, making me extra sides of healthy options, would teach me portion sizes, she'd exercise with me. We learned badminton and volleyball together. Shed also stay up late to stop me if I tried to binge in the night time. She'd allow me to have carrot sticks or celery at night instead.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 12:30 AM
18	So true. Too true! Grandma was always very weight conscious and would typically not eat very much. Respectfully though, she always made plenty of food for her family. And she saved me from near childhood obesity when I struggled with stress binging, with some tough love and helping me make healthy choices.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 04:46 AM
28	Maybe I'm old, but I just don't understand. Why send nudes? CP. Not arrested yet. But they're working on it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 12:14 PM
104	Maybe I'm old, but I just don't understand. Why send nudes? I used to be all about sending nudes. The validation fed my ego and I was ignorant. Recently left my husband because of things found on his flash drives. There was a PLETHORA of nudes. From every ex, every hook up, only fans, one of his teachers, all meticulously labeled and organized. Including mine. That only scratches the surface of these files. All the drives I found were seized as evidence, so I dont have to worry about him ever having access to them again, unless its saved elsewhere. But t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 01:32 AM
2	The Reality of “Pop Back Up” Season I dont know. In my personal experience with various LVMs, it can be hit and miss. Approximately 75% of my exs will eventually reach out to me. Sometimes it only takes a few months, often it'll be a few years. But a lot do pop back up eventually. Particularly when I go through periods of being active on social media platforms.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/04/21 02:39 PM
6	Are men actually good at hiding that they are pedophiles? Thank you , he's not behind bars yet but authorities are working on it and I'm not going to back down. Hopefully they'll have him put away sooner rather than later.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/21 05:11 AM
13	Are men actually good at hiding that they are pedophiles? I recently left my husband because of CP I found on his files. Don't worry, I turned him in. But, there were and weren't red flags. When we first met, I was 19-20 he a year older. So his attraction to teenagers seemed fine to me at the time. Then he was 23, in trade school and I found out he was dating a 15-16 year old girl. Her parents knew 🤢 Please dont ask me why I didnt leave then, I was disgusted and made the mistake of talking to him. I was convinced it was purely nonsexual. He cried, show…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/21 04:55 AM
42	What are physical insecurities that a man has drilled into you? Small breasts and so many men have called me thick I have a complex about it. Everyone says it's a compliment. And it can be, but hearing that at a size 6 made me feel like I'd never be thin enough. I'm a tall/broad woman, that alone urges the comments.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 04:09 AM