xsplat Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	2013 AMA Series – xsplat	Meta	xsplat	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 06:20 PM

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1	You don't need girl friend. I hear you saying that YOU don't need a girlfriend. I would disagree that this is a universal human nature truth that applies to absolutely everyone. I know myself and can say with confidence that I absolutely and always need a girlfriend. Major source of personal happiness and satisfaction. Undeniably the absolute most important thing, after food and water.	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/20 11:12 AM
2	The real role of a father Wow, that youtube scene was horrid. I didn't get along all that well with my Mom, but my Dad and I got along very well and I like him. I can't say I understand what you went through, but I feel for you anyway. That shit would be way too ruff for me. As a sensitive kid that would have fucked with me.	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/19 02:35 AM
1	I know the redpill isn't too warm about prostitution, however, given the extreme double standards wouldn't it make sense to destigmatize and legalize it? This type of deceptive Machiavelianism is nearly charming in how mutually immoral it is. Or perhaps actually it's immoral deception vs amoral transactional sex. Ya, maybe that's why lower tier guys would be more likely to view it as fairplay pay back. How dare you not fuck me for who I am! I'll trick you and you deserve it, because you-be-a-hoe! I think higher value guys get a bigger kick from win-win situations compared to win-lose situations.	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/19 08:38 AM
1	I know the redpill isn't too warm about prostitution, however, given the extreme double standards wouldn't it make sense to destigmatize and legalize it? So what these guys do is they exploit this dynamic. On the naughtynomad forum a few years ago it was debated if all the girls in the Philippines were putting out in secret hope of getting married. Some guys took the position that no, the girls were complicit in playing the exact same game for the exact same reasons that men play it. For sexual fun and sexual profit. I'm not saying that girls are either whores in it for money or completely marriage minded. But I do see that the instinct to pair b…	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/19 08:27 AM
1	Just a Quick Field Report of Screening at night I like how you've picked up on and expanded the idea of the touch-transaction-economy and the cultural limits of it. There are communities where transactions of massage are allowed. The culture of massage-therapy and body-work is very advanced.	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/19 08:05 AM
2	Shit Tests As An Ejection Button From A Relationship I think I get what you are saying about lazy submissive women. I find that women can be submissive in a way where they still have a voice. It depends much on the skill of the man, to be able to both lead and listen. It's a mutual respect dance, a partnership with a leader. It takes quite a bit of trial and error and practice to gain these paternal leadership skills. Guiding the woman to have her own voice is also part of the man's leadership skill; it's simply good parenting. As is listening to …	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/19 07:47 AM
2	Shit Tests As An Ejection Button From A Relationship Being talented at managing tornadoes is a mixed blessing. I have a far too long and involved history with dating women on the cluster B spectrum. That makes for much practice and education in frame control, boundaries, and expectations. But something is wrong that I have so much talent. That I have such a high tolerance for drama. It took a few more healthy relationships for me to no longer need to maximally flex and stretch my frame control talent. With a healthier mate, the super strong talent…	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/19 07:42 AM
10	Study: Only 3% of Straight People Are Willing to Date a Transgender Person To paraphrase, you see a corporate/media collusion. If we include some government collusion in the mix, then you are seeing facism and an attempted control by elites to maintain their power. I see the same thing. It gets tricky knowing who are the sheep and who are the puppet masters though. There is real propaganda that is created for deliberate reasons, however some people choose to buy into it for unconscious reasons that happen to coincide, usually, with some of their best interests. So the …	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/19 07:30 AM
1	AMA - Prostitution in South America. Legal, cheap and of quality. It seems to me that a lot of guy think there is some virtue in "getting it for free," but mostly they are just paying with a different kind of coin: time, energy, money invested in clothing and appearance, education, etc. So basically, they want to turn regular women into "free" hookers, I think this evaluation fails to take into account emotional variables. It tries to reduce the human interactions to financial interactions, and so comes off as near nearly psychopathic or autistic or at least h…	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/19 07:06 AM
2	Yes, Video Games Are Terrible For Your Personal Development I'm reading through some of your comment history. Very high quality comments. Do you have a blog or twitter account? You have quite a lot of good material.	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/19 06:47 AM
2	Two points on loneliness, family, and evolutionary biology : "Suicide rates for [..] older guys have been going up for a long time[...] Younger guys can learn game and get laid (the way is hard but it can be done), while older guys without families don’t have that source of meaning." booster Well said. I prefer the integrated approach as well. It's not a matter of first be an island onto yourself before you can interconnect. We are born interconnected. It's a matter of pruning and improving the connections. Women are an integral part of the process of becoming better with women. On the other hand, monk mode can be interesting and good. I used to do things like live in isolated mountain forests and meditate all day, and I think that overall helped me to be more social, as par…	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/19 04:25 AM
6	Stages of mating applies only to a small percentage of a small niche of over-educated feminists. XPLAT "And isn’t it [..] a gamma socialist entitlement? “Those girls are doing it wrong, waiting for their epiphany phase [to marry]. They should marry younger, like before! They’ll be sorry one day!”" you could damn well be near 50 by the time it comes up. I'm 53, and have been living with my girlfriend, who is 30 years younger than me, for 1.5 years. It's the first time in my life where I haven't had the urge to date other girls at the same time. Many times in my life I've had more than 1 GF, sometimes yes even if I had a live in. That's just my very personal life story - that could never be a prescription. But I really enjoyed my life - all the ups and all the downs. I don't see dating as a…	/r/TheRedPill	16/06/19 02:29 AM
3	Stages of mating applies only to a small percentage of a small niche of over-educated feminists. XPLAT "And isn’t it [..] a gamma socialist entitlement? “Those girls are doing it wrong, waiting for their epiphany phase [to marry]. They should marry younger, like before! They’ll be sorry one day!”" Yes, I've always been happy to get the extra traffic. I don't make any money from that blog. One of the many reasons I write is out of social concern. I have found some pleasures and pitfalls in life, so I talk about those.	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/19 02:41 PM
6	Stages of mating applies only to a small percentage of a small niche of over-educated feminists. XPLAT "And isn’t it [..] a gamma socialist entitlement? “Those girls are doing it wrong, waiting for their epiphany phase [to marry]. They should marry younger, like before! They’ll be sorry one day!”" I disagree with your premise that quality of relationship is random chance. I believe that there are variables that directly relate to quality of relationship that are under control. However most of them take years of personal development. I don't believe that this is an egalitarian state of affairs, where all men and women have an equal shot at the 10%, and all they have to do is keep gambling until they get their 10%. I think that's completely the wrong end of the stick to grab; the exact oppo…	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/19 02:30 PM
2	Stages of mating applies only to a small percentage of a small niche of over-educated feminists. XPLAT "And isn’t it [..] a gamma socialist entitlement? “Those girls are doing it wrong, waiting for their epiphany phase [to marry]. They should marry younger, like before! They’ll be sorry one day!”" Can anyone explain to me why MGTOW guys are attracted to post on TheRedPill? It seems to me that MGTOW guys are looking for nothing other than companionship of fellows who share their point of view. They are antagonistic to tips for how to have passionate pair bonded relationships, and dissinterested even in applying self improvement strategies that could up their socio-sexual status and ability to attract girls for whatever type of relationship they might find interesting. Don't the non-MGTOW g…	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/19 12:22 PM
5	Stages of mating applies only to a small percentage of a small niche of over-educated feminists. XPLAT "And isn’t it [..] a gamma socialist entitlement? “Those girls are doing it wrong, waiting for their epiphany phase [to marry]. They should marry younger, like before! They’ll be sorry one day!”" I'm of an older generation than a lot of the guys who post here, so I suppose I was socialized differently. The way some people talk here would have been frowned upon even by my high school friends. A term like "supposedly amazing young thots" when talking about a guys live in girlfriends. Hmm. That would have been frowned upon and considered a bit anti-social in my day. I haven't been active on this forum in a while - I guess 6 years. I recently read a comment that people who are active in foru…	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/19 11:12 AM
7	Stages of mating applies only to a small percentage of a small niche of over-educated feminists. XPLAT "And isn’t it [..] a gamma socialist entitlement? “Those girls are doing it wrong, waiting for their epiphany phase [to marry]. They should marry younger, like before! They’ll be sorry one day!”" My live in girlfriend's female friend was lying on the bed with us, and asked how it is that we became so close so quickly after meeting. All I could tell her was that "it's complicated". Because I could see that she didn't have the type of personality that was suitable or ready yet to understand fast and healthy pair bonding. She'd have a great deal of inner work to do, just to be able to understand that she has a great deal of inner work to do. Just because there is 10% of long term couples re…	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/19 10:51 AM
5	What is The Red Pill? Also, in order to see things from a viewpoint of an experienced and skilled man, one must first go through stages of development and learning. That can't be done with philosophy or books. One would have to follow prescriptions of several kinds just to begin to learn what it is that one doesn't know yet.	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/19 04:34 PM
29	What is The Red Pill? "We talk about spinning plates, mtgow, pickup, and even LTRs. None of these are the same goals or strategies but they all utilize the same underlying philosophy." More and more I'm seeing that there is no one correct view point that describes, even in the most general terms, how the sexual marketplace works. What I'm coming to see is that there are different sexual marketplaces, depending on ones position in various hierarchies. To be black and white about it, betas are treated differently than …	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/19 04:31 PM
1	Arousal doesn’t come in discreet laser focused packets "A man’s sexuality is a fire. Not a laser beam. If you succeed in tampering down his fire and get him to self regulate looking at hotties while you are both out, you won’t get fucked as much." Reading comprehension much? Categorization of Alpha Beta is a pre-occupation of underclass.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/18 01:37 PM
2	2013 AMA Series – xsplat I've done parallel monogamy twice so far. Once for two years in Thailand, and a few years ago here in Indonesia. Some call that spinning plates, or multiple long term relationships. I'd keep two or three girlfriends that I felt affectionately bonded to, plus sometimes have an extra fuck buddy on the side. There is more drama in that lifestyle, and also more reward. If one girl is lacking in one area, another can balance it out, so the amalgam of women makes for one great all around girl. In Thai…	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/13 06:47 AM
2	2013 AMA Series – xsplat It's where stuff gets made at unreasonably cheap prices. So you make a bunch of stuff, ship it out, then market it for sale.	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/13 06:41 AM
4	2013 AMA Series – xsplat Advice about how to do what?	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/13 06:38 AM
2	2013 AMA Series – xsplat It has varied, but lately ya - I mostly work and use the internet for socializing. It's been a pattern for me to mostly just hang with whoever I'm dating - be it one girl or four. But I have it in mind to change that, in the near and longer term. Some guys are coming out to live and work on my businesses, and later the idea is to shift away from the computer and allow some time off to socialize more among the expats in China. I don't really do vacations - I just live in different places. So far …	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 09:21 PM
1	2013 AMA Series – xsplat I've heard most about Shanghai and Chengdu. Shanghai would be best for socializing with expats, and Chengdu is cheaper and we stand out more there.	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 08:38 PM
3	2013 AMA Series – xsplat Embarassingly, no.	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 08:23 PM
2	2013 AMA Series – xsplat Ya, China is a good location for business. My main reasons to be in SEA are 1) It's less expensive 2) I can date younger women here than in North America. 3) In some areas I get a major status boost, and so can date prettier girls too. I'm curious about Hong Kong, but have heard that it's quite expensive. Japan is of interest too. Perhaps at some other life stage.	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 08:22 PM
2	2013 AMA Series – xsplat Burma. Wow. I've never used the word intrepid before, but I figure a guy would need to be that to really get to know Myanmar. When I last researched it about 10 years ago it was not very open to tourists, and there was no internet access, so I couldn't run my business from there. I imagine that in no other country would a western guy get better rock star treatment though. Of the three countries I've lived in, each have their pros and cons. I prefer Filipinas for their open sexuality and humor, T…	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 07:57 PM
7	2013 AMA Series – xsplat I've heard of grandmas looking in the mirror and feeling like the mirror is full of big fat lies. Old people don't usually feel old, on the inside. Emotionally we are are still young. And my taste in women doesn't age as I age. I still prefer them in their prime. Every few years a fresh crop of talent shows up in the discos, and it's always the fresh crop that interests me most. I know that "so far so good" is what people say as they are falling from a skyscraper, but I'm only a few years away f…	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 07:33 PM
8	2013 AMA Series – xsplat The trick is to get the girl so addicted to you that when she pulls her brinksmanship maneuver and demands commitment or else, you just tell her no. No, I'm not going to marry you. Do what you will. It's not going to happen. If you are into the girl enough to have the inspiration to continually weave your magic web around her, she'll be stuck. She'll sputter and moan and complain, and then finally just give in. At least that can happen some of the time. So it's usually me that leaves the girl, a…	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 06:57 PM
5	2013 AMA Series – xsplat How to deal with a woman trying who is trying to make the man feel small? I've heard guys talk of two approaches. One is to ignore them, and just shrug it off. The other is cut them to shreds verbally and make them feel even smaller. Both approaches are no longer even about getting in the girls pants, but are about maintaining your testosterone levels. About feeling like a man. The advantage of just walking away is that you don't get all riled up, and so can remain cheerful for the next chance e…	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 06:52 PM
2	2013 AMA Series – xsplat An online business and SEA can be a great combination. Rather than have a financial safety net you can have the safety net of living extremely cheaply, so that way you can stubbornly plug away until you eventually find success. Yes, some bars are going to have high percentages of pros. I've met girls online in the three countries that I've lived in out here that hadn't dated westerners before. Even a few virgins. Chance encounters in internet cafes, or on the beach, or through social circles hav…	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 06:39 PM
9	As requested: My field tested guide on breaking in your woman I enjoyed this post. I agreed with it so much that it felt like I was reading my own thoughts.	/r/TheRedPill	13/01/13 02:53 PM