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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	10 small yet important lessons an extremely toxic relationship taught me Honestly, it could be that you were the toxic part of the relationship.	/r/seduction	28/03/26 04:46 AM
2	For those of you that have had a vasectomy I like what Athol Kay has to say...except wrt vasectomy. It's not supported by any evidence I've seen. I think his view comes from the notion that you might have fewer options in terms of attracting a new spouse...and that might affect your current spouse's attraction to you. But, this is balanced by the fact that fewer worries about birth control often leads to more sex. Frankly, I noticed no difference before v. after except that my wife was able to get off the pill.	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/09/14 08:28 PM
1	Absolutely speechless - Woman admits she doesn't love her fiance but will marry for money anyways What an absolute pile of shit she is. After she has a couple of kids, she'll be on her way with alimony and child support...likely blaming him the entire time. For those saying they don't blame her...that's just the way it is...I disagree. Hypergamy is real...marrying for money is real...that women often fall out of love once they get what they want is real. With most women, though, they don't even understand what they want in the long run. So they'll get married thinking the beta is what they w…	/r/TheRedPill	18/09/13 04:34 PM
2	The pill is on my tongue and I'm ready to swallow but I'm really sad about it. I felt the same way when I started thinking about these things. Actually, I felt a bit angry about it. I was generally TRP except when it came to my wife, lol. I thought she was different. Turns out her brain, of course, functions just like all female brains. Things got much much better when I read Married Man Sex Life Primer by Athol Kay. I'd already started moving down that path, but his book and forum gave great advice. So, to you: marriage isn't the equal partnership so many think it is. It'…	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/13 02:47 PM
12	Why don't guys just stop pandering to girls every whim and desire and reinforcing their shitty behavior? (story/rant) My approach is slightly different than many of the comments. Generally, I dislike the whole "society / media / etc has created this illusion and now we have battle it." It sounds too much like the feminists blaming patriarchy for creating their allegedly crappy situation. My take on this issue: She's correct that other guys are willing to act this way and they are your competition. It's a market, and you have to offer up a more desirable product...or lower your price (e.g. go after a less desira…	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/13 02:19 PM
38	Asking women for dating advice is like asking trout for fishing tips I think the real issue is: what women think they want is often not what gives them the tingles. And they respond to the tingles. So, they'll tell you all about wanting to be "caught" by a beta guy who is super nice, etc. And they're being honest with you. In real life, they go for the guy who gets their chemicals fired up--usually masculine / alpha--but they don't know it until he gets them fired up. So, it's not really an issue of domain knowledge, it's an issue of how the female brain works: c…	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/13 01:42 PM
16	Empowered woman way past the wall tries to understand why she's single. Hamstering ensues. WTF did I just read? The headline to the article: "Why Are Some Of The Best Baby Boomer Women Still Single?" At first, it appears a mystery to her... I am wondering why us boomer babes stayed single. Then she goes on to describe how she rode the carousel during her prime years using guys as her toys. And now she's too old to get the good guys...all of whom in her age bracket can get younger/prettier girls who haven't spent 20 years banging. Her answer to her single plight: Maybe that's it! We ha…	/r/TheRedPill	04/09/13 03:00 PM
2	She lives through YOUR reality I think you misunderstood OP...he said nuking the hamster is not the way to go...	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/13 03:43 PM
1	What's better: "Would you like to get dinner sometime?" Or "Would you like to get dinner this weekend?" Two comments: First, more alpha less beta...be specific and tell her what you want her to do (e.g. "have dinner with me Saturday" is much better than either option above.) Calling the direct approach old school is an excuse to reduce your chances of outright rejection. If anything, "old school" is the direct approach. Women like confidence. Second, forget dinner...when I was dating (before marriage), I made that mistake repeatedly. Don't do dinner until at least your 3rd date. Instead, ask her t…	/r/seduction	25/07/12 04:42 PM
1	Sexual framing. How do you make the conversation sexual? I like it	/r/seduction	24/07/12 03:29 PM
1	What did I do wrong? IMHO, you're being too nice/needy. Rephrased: She says "maybe, I'll see...depends if I have something better to do" and you say, "great, I'll keep my schedule open for you."	/r/seduction	24/07/12 02:14 PM