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Fair enough but there’s someone for everyone… They need to just focus on themselves. Had a friend once…was short lived for this reason: He was a 5. Whenever we went out girls flocked to me and not to him. I couldn’t help that fact. Further, he never worked on himself, his attitude or body. Just sat around fapping, vid games, sponging off his parents etc. Saw him a week ago with my wife in the mall, he’s more overweight, sloppy and most likely single… I wish these guys could see THEY are part of …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:40 PM
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Another one with some smarts here. Dad bods are an excuse to be fat and lazy. Society needs to stop normalizing Homer Simpson bods and then wonder why their wives ogle 20 something’s at the beach. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:00 AM
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Someone with some smarts here. I’m in my 20s and look in my 20s…as does my wife. Age gap relationships do work though my parents were 12 years apart and had a beautiful marriage before my father passed away. Not exactly sure what the purpose of this topic is…lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:57 AM
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How about stop being so insecure and BETA SOCK BOY and just accept the compliment Been told I’m gorgeous by many women over the years and my wife says the same thing. I think she’s beautiful and I mean it, she probably does too. While it is true women will falsely puff up a man’s ego here and there, it’s not always the norm. Maybe ones who rarely get fucked put themselves that way? Guys friend zone themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:53 AM
4

Bingo. My wife and I have laughs over this subreddit all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:49 AM
3

Question to all of this… Honestly who cares whether or not a woman aims for the top tier of men? That’s like resenting the rich when you’re broke. Jealousy is human nature and it’s human nature to want to mate with the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:04 AM
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All of this is 1000% accurate. Sad really.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:44 PM
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No ofc. Women do it too. Getting a woman to have “you’re beautiful girl” on a social media post means more to her than a man saying “you’re hot” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:52 PM
2

Actually it’s been argued by psychologists it’s a combination of genetic and environmental factors claiming it’s just hypersexuality disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:59 PM
0

True. It’s a man’s fault though if a woman has an artificially inflated SMV opinion. Bisexuality is actually just hypersexuality. True. But society has made it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:41 PM
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She’s smoked.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/22 04:37 PM
1

I’ve helped guys way older than me in their 30s and 40s get puss. There’s more to charisma than just self confidence and looks, it’s a certain type of magnetism and how words are intoned….how you look, present yourself, carry yourself, your demeanor, etc. my wife admitted to me AFTER we married she was literally magnetized to me when we first met, and my deep understanding of women and how they think made her wet… for example….when I told her that I’m never just friends with women, it’s one of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:15 PM
1

Money has always gotten me places and coupled with looks, it’s bailed me out….of a lot of trouble. The OP is speaking facts here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:28 AM
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exactly bro. it’s sad. i wish there were more men out there that knew all of this. it levels the playing field.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:45 PM
4

Exactly!!!!! same with my wife. expressed interest right from now day one. in fact, she told me she loved me first when i was the one playing hard to get she was desperately attempting to cuff me. but i’m glad she did. one of the best things that’s ever happened to me was marrying her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:42 PM
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BINGO. beta boys overcomplicate and overthink. even just approaching them in the first place. my advice as a “settled down married man” having plowed thru many many women is this… if you are a 5 or above…you can EASILY get pussy. EASILY. you must evoke emotion in them and it’s done via confidence and charisma, but it can’t be canned lines, must be sincere. this skill can be learned. further, if a woman is truly into you, like truly, there are no games no confusion. she’s ready to get RAILED and …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:22 AM
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hahahahahahaha. answer to all of this… LIFT.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:34 PM
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Bingo. When they say I’m not like that or I don’t sleep around anymore….it’s a green light. What she’s really wanting is to feel respected and self respect for not being such a slave to her desires…. Which, this guy may or may not have taken advantage of 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:19 PM
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Social media and society has created beta sock boys aka blue pill white knights.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:18 PM
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Because they lack sex appeal. You can be Brad Pitt and still have zero charisma and charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:17 PM
1

Sounds like a beta sock boy move. You need to just quit over thinking this shit and just MAKE THE MOVE.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:15 PM
1

Boom. I killed it in my clubbing days. Never left without a number except once. It’s all just being able to read people and body language in a very very quick amount of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:11 PM
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Bingo. I usually knew within the first few moments if we vibed or not and then that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:09 PM
1

At least twice a month if not more but the same partner or multiple.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:08 PM
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Uh…..most of them are now
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:07 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:05 PM
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boom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/22 11:31 PM
1

I feel bad for this guy….sad. Women these days are just…well…this sums it up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/22 11:04 PM
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But isn’t it funny how almost all single moms seem to have nothing but hatred toward the ex and it was “all his fault” which spills over into the next “relationship” and yet any attempt at setting boundaries on their silly behavior is labeled abusive and controlling? Blows my mind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/22 10:57 PM
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LOL true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/22 07:19 PM
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I’m 8”/5.6 and fat thighs cause a loss of penetration. Period. It’s definitely not my size… Lol run up? Dude common… Why is society normalizing obesity?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/22 05:15 PM
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Sometimes women who have thick thighs or are overweight decrease the length of a man…if you catch my drift ;)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/22 02:33 AM
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Was she overweight ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/22 12:29 AM
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But what if you’re like me packing 8”/5.6” ? lol then they be REALLY struggling to trash me about lol. (when you look in the garbage, all you’re ever going to find is trash) #damagedgoods
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/22 12:28 AM
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She’s Ugly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/22 05:04 AM
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Bingo dude. Bingo
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/22 04:38 AM
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She needs to crawl back to the gutter. As a man who could and can afford that type of ring, my wife got my dead mothers engagement ring (parents were married 31 years) and she loves it because it’s sentimental. Never takes it off even though it’s only a 1/2 carat. I wouldn’t buy that bitch a fucking Cracker Jack ring. Not worthy of even that. The filth I see these days blows my mind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/22 04:37 AM
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Bingo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/22 04:29 AM
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Yep. Spin plates is the best option. Funny too women spin plates better than men but accuse MEN of being the problem. Pathetic. Just gotta hold frame and keep on keeping on lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/22 04:29 AM
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Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:59 AM
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How old are you? 16?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:17 PM
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That’s not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:12 PM
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If you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:04 PM
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Exactly. My thing is if they are age of consent can drive and hold jobs. They are legally and mentally capable of deciding if they wanna fuck even a 50 year old or not let alone a dude in his 30s If there’s an attraction and it’s legal. Who fuckin cares. PERIOD.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:23 PM
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Yup. 100%. I’ve had both happen as an attractive guy, the female gets jealous and sabotages AFTER setting us up, or doesn’t bc she wanted me and I didn’t. I just used her to get to her friend lol lame. This whole trope is lame. Friends with women is a beta thing anyways. I learned my lesson Lonnggggggggggg longggggg ago. There’s no reason to even talk to women unless it’s a workplace, or you plan to fuck them, or move forward into some kind of sexual relationship, dating, marriage etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:21 PM
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Pitiful. Boring. Degrading and a waste of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:11 AM
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🤷🏼‍♂️ doesn’t make a difference to me whether you doubt or not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:10 AM
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1000% agree. As a dude consistently rated 9s and 10s by women since I was a teen, the attention is indeed a mixed blessing. It’s caused lost friendships. Fucked up relationships. Moral here: grass is not always greener.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:36 AM
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Table scrap puss 😂😂 dead
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:35 AM
2

I banged my teachers aid hahaha. It’s about magnetism, attractiveness, and charisma. My friend is attractive (like a 7) but he struggles bc his confidence doesn’t match his looks. Whereas me, continually rated 9s and 10s by women since very young, rarely have issues pulling girls. Now that I’m married, my wife gets annoyed by the female attention I get continually so I definitely don’t egg it on out of respect for her. She’s my soulmate. My best friend and I’d never jeopardize that regardless. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:33 AM
3

Turn your sexual energy towards pursuits that lead to Enlightenment. Meditation. Creative hobbies. Pets. Travel. Gym. Gardening. Being in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:27 AM
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Lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:00 PM
2

Exactly. My wife is MORE ATTRACTED to me NOW than when we first got married because I know how to deepen the love. Most men don’t. Congrats you found a great man which is successful in doing so with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:52 PM
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Wow another beta post. I’ve been with very attractive women who masturbated twice a day before getting into a relationship with me. Where fucking twice daily was WANTED by them more than I did. Women control the sex and men control the relationship. It’s YOUR job to keep the spark alive not hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:51 PM
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Beta post. No man needs a woman. We carry the life essence. PERIOD.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:49 PM
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I would love for humans to go extinct actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:45 PM
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Simple solution. Stop wasting your time on “finding a woman” and “dating” and work on yourself to become a high value male. Period. Edit. And YES it IS a waste of time trying to find someone. Because a love that has to be forced is a love that will never be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:57 PM
1

Yes. Social media is the cause of many many problems and until society wakes up and sees that. We are all in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:18 PM
3

Nothing has changed. Look at beauty mags.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 10:02 PM
2

All of this is old news.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:11 PM
2

It can go both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:10 PM
2

Not personally, but my best friend unfortunately….until I pilled him right up. Now it happens much less.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:04 PM
4

She does this for many reasons….one to keep orbiters, two in a weak attempt to boost her already low self worth, and three, because she doesn’t see a future with mr fast whereas maybe she does with mr has to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:01 PM
2

Why are American men and boys angry? Hmm because they get treated like shit and feminism that’s why. Plain and simple concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 01:03 AM
4

Tough pill to swallow….but EVERYONE is replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:48 AM
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Boom. This dude has it. The amount of times I get checked out or hit on by taken including MARRIED women isn’t even ego boosting anymore. It’s actually pathetic and a true insight into female psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:37 AM
1

Generally I find that girls who go after bad boys have major daddy issues. Abusive fathers. Rough fathers. Men in their lives during prominent years who acted like boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 07:13 PM
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They sure do. It’s been postulated that beta males and below have high amounts of: cortisol, estrogen, progesterone and prolactin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:27 PM
2

Hm yep I’d agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:42 AM
0

Whatever you say beta boi.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:25 AM
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3 things females want. Time and attention. Money and resources and Your seed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:48 AM
0

Look into your relationship with your mother and or any other female who was prominent during your childhood. Most men are raised these days this way and it’s pathetic (by design no fault unto their own) Thus in turn once you’ve examined this relationship, you need to start improving your own self worth and realize as a unique MAN you have a lot to offer (some would even say more than a woman given we carry the life essence) than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:48 AM
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Anyone, I repeat ANY gender who doesn’t believe in teamwork is a fuck up. Plain and simple. Edit: whatever that looks like depends on the couple and what works for themselves. If both feel equality in whatever duties then fuck society stereotypes. A man can still love protect and provide and a woman can still nurture and care. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:53 AM
1

It can become an addiction. It takes attention away from them. Generally gamers have lower social intelligence. Higher social intelligence and prowess makes a man more attractive to women. /end
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:42 AM
1

100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:49 AM
1

Men aim to be a title of “high value” if they are perceived as “less than” and it’s BS. The way society functions is a joke. Creates separation and prevents people from see their true value. And for guys in the “high value” status….not all of us have a peachy life. THAT’S what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:37 PM
1

By this definition I’d be considered “high value” in addition to looks, but I’ve realized in life we need to be careful what we wish for. The grass isn’t always greener on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:18 PM
2

Hoes can’t be housewives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:57 AM
1

I’d give her a hard 4 and would never touch with a 10ft pole. The husband is beta as fuck. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:53 AM
1

Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:49 AM
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@
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:32 PM
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I agree with you. It’s unfortunate. I’ve never had this problem, but that doesn’t mean I can’t empathize. Society is really to blame and it’s not by accident either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:30 PM
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Bingo. It’s KNOWING he’s the better deal is the ticket, you must BE the better deal, but also that’s not enough. You must KNOW. There’s PLENTY of fish in the sea.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:04 AM
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This post sounds so beta. No offense OP…but it’s going to depend on… Confidence and appearance What you bring to the table insofar as quality Your integrity. Before getting married my body count was so high it was almost embarrassing and I’m grateful my wife didn’t judge me for it (never had an STI either). Point being here - have you given yourself a strong evaluation….what are your strengths? What are your weaknesses? Can they be improved? An attractive man with no confidence will have an EVEN…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:55 PM
1

Knows whether she’s attracted in the first few mins? Lol try first 30 seconds in person and instantly on dating apps. Attraction is never a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:03 PM
1

Boom. Because I fit the mold of bad boy and have been with many many girls before getting married but guess what…..did it all without tats 😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:08 AM
0

Sounds like me (minus the lying part) before I cleaned up my act and got married. Problem with me was a fear of commitment and avoidance of intimacy was driving my abilities and ambitions to blow thru tons and tons of girls and in the process hurt a few good ones which I feel bad about, but at the end of the day, married life beats a so called player life any day. And honestly, what’s more alpha than banging loads of girls…? Commitment. Being a real man. Being loyal. Being a good dad. Having a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:06 AM
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True. I’ve been consistently rated as a 9 or a 10 my whole life, yet in my early days before getting married was rejected occasionally here and there by entitled girls who were a hard 6 at best. It’s really quite hilarious and sad. But what’s your point here OP? Feminism and the massive subversive plot to emasculate men has created this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 04:35 PM
4

Yes it is. Tattoos means she’s easy. In my extensive experience in dating. Dispute it all you want. There’s a reason why tats mean she’s a slooot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 04:33 PM
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fwb?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:07 PM
0

When a woman says I don’t do that, it’s a shit test. Lol. This is because ALL women want to be seen as unique, special, etc. and shit tests vary in degree of severity. Remaining calm in life regardless of women or not is vital to maintaining a sense of dignity and self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:52 PM
0

Behind everything pessimist is a disappointed and deeply let down optimist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:48 PM
2

Bingo. This is so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:47 PM
1

I guess but I’m a believer in life that 98% of things are overcome-able
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:05 AM
1

Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:39 AM
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Yea I did. But appearance isn’t everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:54 AM
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It matters regardless…..and here’s why…. As a guy who’s rated physically as a 9 and 10 consistently by many many women of all ages, that’s not an automatic ticket to intimacy with her. Being blessed with good looks….doesn’t mean shit There’s been many times when I’ve flopped picking up girls especially in my early dating days. Finally when I turned 21, I asked a girl who turned me down and we remained friends….why and she said, to me, if a guys attractive his confidence has to match his appearan…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:41 PM
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Exactly. I don’t tolerate a girl who’s friends with any exes, when I got married my wife purged her socials of past “boys” and she knows my stance on the matter. Besides who wants to be burned by the same flame twice?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 07:00 PM
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You’d be a rarity…ok?! You have to understand that in 2022 more women play the game better than men do for one and for two, there are men out there who see right through it (me being one of them) I’m not saying that’s you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:02 PM
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Silly. You’re asking for trouble. At least of them still wants to hit it. Friends with exes is nothing more than a self esteem boost. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:58 PM
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As a man…these are FIRM dealbreakers. Cheating Lying (I despise dishonesty) Flirting with others / keeping orbiters Poor hygiene and unkept body (not fit) Poor money management Drug and alcohol consumption Physical abuse during arguments Lack of respect and appreciation Messy Acts entitled and spoiled Insults to my character A body count above 15. Hoes can’t be housewives. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:57 PM
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