but then what are all the other people called in society. like they are adults in age, but clearly they aren't handling their business/life and real fuckups too. never got passed like age 15 in mentality.
could be asexual, though i think that sort of either or logic is a bit limiting. to clarify on the guy though i wouldn't say pushover, more so like.. imagine like a cool but quiet artistic type dude, but though he's quiet he's also kind of ''easy come easy go'' in personality, go with the flow, he's not really dramatic and i don't even think he'd chase her if she left him. that kind of guy. it seems like he has a dismissive attachment style and she has a secure one, so there's not much drama hap…
why do they assume that ambitious/powerful/successful people are these ''alpha chad'' caricatures/personas, though? That's not the case in my experience. Idk maybe I'm wrong here, but anytime I see someone talk about being alpha or whatever they are always a jackass. Maybe they have muscles or something, but mentally they are stupid and going nowhere in life, especially in business or whatever, they'd get laughed out of the room.
yeah but the opposite is true also, if they blame themselves they never get out of it ''Why am I like this, what's wrong with me, I'm defective'' that kind of shame is terrible for a person. And considering theyre a result of their environment, it's wrong also. You have to do both things to move on in life.
one red flag I noticed is that if someone calls all their exes borderline personality crazy women or narcissistic/sociopathic abusive men that's a bad sign.
Well, I'm not actually looking at all. I'm very casual person. I have zero need for others company really. if it happens, that's fine, but I'm very detached lmao. But just curious about this, i definitely notice these people are rare. that's why they stand out to me when i encounter/think about them.
I know the kind of women you're talking about and I don't usually find them very mature, but this woman in question isn't that way. She doesn't describe herself as anything, she's like a real life example of what those women claim they are. But without all the narcissism, and you know, doing actual action not just talk lol
he is passive, but these replies are pretty ridiculous, he's a cool guy in a lot of ways though but compared to her he's not very proactive of a personality is what i mean. As far as her having to be lesbian because she didn't date immature ''alpha male'' type guys, i think that's a bit weird to have that logic. I went to school with these people so I know the kind of guys who would hit on her, and she was more like their older sister or mother even in mentality, very mature and driven beyond fe…
Its weird how some of the replies on here assume that she just couldn't get with any of the ''alpha chad/high value men bc they wouldn't put up with her'' which isn't the case at all lmao. She had no time for their jackass behavior. She is attractive, so was hit on a lot, but yeah, I grew up with these people, so I know them. I went to school with them. Anyway, not to rant but it's weird to find this down to earth/in reality reply in a sea of crap.
So having boundaries and being assertive is bad? I never claimed she said that stuff, I said that's how she is. No time for immature crap. Not self-described that way, though I do know some women who do that, and I can tell you all those are full of crap. And not like this woman at all.
Not true though, the guy in question was also pretty cool and had options but he's certainly not similar to her in personality. She also had guys similar to her hit on her and she's not interested in them ''Chads/HMV'' how youd describe them, I suppose. Other athletes, for example. And none of them got anywhere with her. Again, probably because many of them were jackasses in behavior and she was more like their mother in comparison. Way beyond them. she is hot, though, so I'm not just talking ab…
But I feel like when someone self-describes as that it's a sign they are immature and not like the woman In my OP at all. just been my experience. Maybe this is a real life example of that in action, for real, tho.
Really? I find it rare to meet one. Every adult I know, well maybe not EVERY one, but a lot, have serious issues being immature and never evolving or being driven to do anything.
well anyone I've ever heard refer to themselves as a queen or self-describe themselves as queen or independent strong woman or whatever, was a childish immature person. so that's kind of weird.
well anyone I've ever heard refer to themselves as a queen or self-describe themselves as queen or independent strong woman or whatever, was a childish immature person. so that's kind of weird.
i don't think that's true though, i don't find that ''bad boys'' go along with other like super strong personality women. In fact like i mentioned in the OP, it seems opposite is true. At least in my experience. A truly confident and driven woman doesn't really have time for some childish stuff like men who want to act like teenagers still. I don't actually like that term bad boy, though. It's always been stupid to me. Ive known some actual 'Chads' tho, and they were pretty cool and chill. For m…
for me it is, i won't say it's extremely rare but i definitely see more insecure people around. not that theres anything wrong with being insecure, but i mean women who are like to the point that their insecurity is also harming others and themselves, that kind.
Could be but I have a pretty regular looking face lol. I'm just wondering like why stare at someone if you aren't interested. I don't really even care about other people or pay attention to them. I have goals in mind usually when I'm out and about
I wasn't staring at her I was minding my own business I noticed her staring at me. I am sort of similar to you though, wouldn't say I walked like a badass though. But I wore a slim shirt, I'm tall and wide shoulders, etc. You say so what to your experience but you don't wonder if like maybe they thought you were hot? I guess it doesn't matter but why stare at someone if you don't find something unique about them or whatever.
