I hope this isn’t inappropriate or anything. I just got the urge to vent a little. I don’t understand how a guy could only want sex like 2-3 a month. Like I physically don’t understand how that works. I could do it 2-3 times a day. And this is something that is hard to talk about because people think that you’re bragging or something but that’s not the case. I actually envy your husband. I feel like a slave to my constant desires. It’s untenable. I feel the way you do when my wife and I do it 3-…
I don’t know if she’s for or against what I’m for. I didn’t listen long enough. Frankly, I don’t care. All I hear is an obnoxious person whose opinion I don’t want.
There’s also a chance that if you leave him he will soon after realize what he has lost and he will change his mind. I’ve seen this happen a bunch in my own life. All might not be lost. Just in the last two years I’ve been to three different weddings where this was the case, and they are all very happy couples. He might just need to realize that he can’t live without you. But you don’t know that until you know that.
Is it a better lifestyle though, trading in being around your family for a cubicle and a boss and work politics? I think it’s a version of hell. And who cares what you’re driving in hell?
This is what I hate about all these. If you want someone to wife you up it should be before you have a kid. And these profiles always seem to go on about how their children are the most important thing in the world to them and yet they weren’t important enough to keep their father in their life.
The “I haven’t healed yet” part is what cracked me up. Can you imagine what a little bitch a guy would be perceived as (and rightfully so) if he said something similar?
We all have preferences. I’m over 6 ft and I prefer someone smaller like her and definitely no taller than 5’4. If someone doesn’t fit my preferences, who cares. There’s plenty of other people to choose from.
A male brain isn’t fully mature until at least 25. He acts exactly how a 21 year old male acts. And nobody is perfect. It’s weird how so many hopelessly flawed people expect perfection these days.
I know this isn’t what you’re asking, but, biblically speaking, you’re basically already married. You live together and I’m assuming you’ve consummated with sex. The government had nothing to do with a couple’s marital status until around a hundred years ago. They should have very little to do with what we do or don’t consider official marriage.
Who cares if he likes to orgasm 3 times per day? I’d like to orgasm 25 times a day while in a one guy (me) versus ten girl orgy. There’s a lot of things I’d like to do. Doesn’t mean I should do them.