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I think it's ridiculous to have to constantly police your female partner to make sure they are taking their birth control perfectly I don't think most people "police" their partner. And with that, if there is a mistake, they are relatively forgiving. Mistakes happen, even when they have significant consequences. That said, this wasn't someone "not taking their birth control perfectly". She didn't take it at all, did so intentionally, and didn't tell him. She essentially had the goal of getting p…
/r/MensRights01/12/11 12:10 AM
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Stop telling young guys they shouldn't take responsibility for their reproductive choices. He didn't have a choice. That's kinda the problem. She took it from him.
/r/MensRights01/12/11 12:00 AM
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If they don't want to be lumped in with those hate-mongers, then it's up to them to change their movement into something that they are proud of, because their current inactivity implies consent with misandry. Isn't this advice both sides need to take? It's the advice I'm taking. And I start now.
/r/MensRights05/08/11 10:49 PM
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It's a pretty impossible position for those who've been burnt by feminism though, how to attack it without mistakenly hurting some random well intentioned feminist. Not even considering both the bad and the good can be in the same person. Which is why it's important to attack the issue at hand - not the person or the group. Attacking the group feels good, but attacking the issue itself is what makes the attack constructive. So which would you rather have; success or something that just makes you…
/r/MensRights05/08/11 07:32 PM
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How much of your experience with feminism is based on the internet? The rank-and-file of feminism is often not that radical at all. A relative of mine for example - is a feminist. Always has been. She also spent the past year lobbying our state government to make sure that minors(generally men) did not end up on the sex offender registry for life when they committed minor offenses like flashing someone at a pool. Her partner on this? Another feminist. They came really close to success too. If th…
/r/MensRights05/08/11 07:14 PM
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And 'write' the laws; And are in the media. I hate to burst your bubble, but that's all that counts. If you want to count as well, you can't do it alienating a good 30%+ of the population. It is worth our time and effort to find allies on the issues where we can, and that requires not doing blanket denouncements of people who may agree with us. Words matter, and people's opinions of MRAs matter. You're not going to get support from politicians if supporting you is the same thing as a denouncemen…
/r/MensRights05/08/11 06:49 PM
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Shame then that they have absolutely no influence within the feminist movement. Here's the thing though: Feminism is much, much larger than the active feminist "movement". There is a habit here of misconstruing the feminist authors of today(or in reddit's case, /r/feminisms or /r/anarchafeminism) with the "average". Most women who consider themselves feminists do not keep up to date on the literature available. For them it's a general position indicating a support for the general tenets. These p…
/r/MensRights05/08/11 06:25 PM
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Unreasonable feminism. Not all feminists are the same. There are many(including some relatives of mine) that have no issue with anonymity for the accused.
/r/MensRights05/08/11 06:07 PM
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I'd also talk to a lawyer and consider getting a restraining order against mom. After all, she's already done what amounts to a home invasion. Maybe even get a small handgun for protection and seek training and a CWP. Do not fucking hit the hornet's nest if you don't want to get stung. Do not make her go to court when you are trying to stay out of court.
/r/MensRights04/08/11 09:29 PM
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Their default is to go "I'm gonna need you to leave." Have to ask, what's the response to that? Even staff at restaurants and bars will do this sometimes. ...especially if it's the staff?
/r/seduction09/07/11 02:04 AM
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"It's not sexism if it hurts men." Errr...the female feminist was advocating splitting the bill. And actually made an incredibly eloquent argument when confronted with the wage gap. Emily: I agree with your premise, Hugo, but not your conclusions. It’s true women make less on average than men, but I don’t actually think we can apply that general rule to dating. Extrapolate that further, and you start to run into some sticky situations. For example, on average, white people make more money than b…
/r/MensRights04/07/11 02:01 AM
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IMO, the more broad hate of Rights4Men makes it more "extreme" than feminisms. I can understand this perspective, but have a question(involving some context shuffling). Let's say there are 2 white supremacist groups. One hates the blacks and the mexicans, believing in "whiteness". One hates the blacks and the mexicans and the jews, believing supporting only "Aryan" whites. Is the second more radical than the first?
/r/MensRights04/07/11 01:48 AM
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I upvoted you to counter the undeserved downvote, but I have to disagree with a few things here. 2XC and OneY are least extreme. They are simply forums for members of a gender to congregate. They are not associated with any movement. I see 2XC and OneY as being associated with the movement, just not an exclusionary movement. They are the 2 places that will(to a degree) advocate without advocating against their counterpart. Feminisms is more extreme than mensrights That's why I equated feminisms …
/r/MensRights04/07/11 01:15 AM
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I scanned through. It's not that bad at all. I thought 2X came under a lot of criticism for being some radical feminist subreddit, this doesn't seem to be the case. I may have got some bad information. The feminist/men's right's equivalence table. 2X=OneY Rights4Men=feminisms MensRights hovers somewhere in between the two, depending on how the stars are aligned.
/r/MensRights03/07/11 11:04 PM
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You stop caring about being rejected by women when you realize how dangerous it is to be "accepted": false rape claims, sexual harassment claims, STD's, paternity fraud, "I'm on birth control" (nine months later you're hit with child support payments), cheating spouses/partners, 70% of divorces initiated by the woman. Oh come on. Those women exist, but they are outliers. The average woman does not claim you raped her. The average woman does not try to get pregnant or lie about it. The average wo…
/r/MensRights01/07/11 10:48 PM
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yeah, those darkies shouldn't be allowed to rent here, this is a white neighborhood! Though I'm not on board with anon715, let's turn this on it's head: Should a black business owner be forced to sell to a KKK member in full garb?
/r/MensRights29/05/11 01:21 AM
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And so it shall be done
/r/MensRights17/05/11 07:32 PM
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Too stupid to be worth conversing with then. Alright. Here's what happened, play by play with your comment: Honor is an abstract -- the closest thing to an objective sense of honor we have in a psychological sense is a measurement of one's moral reasoning ability. Here's where you insert your own definition, separate from what was being discussed. Though you only declare them honor and morality be "the closest things" to each other initially,from here on out you treat them as if they are synonym…
/r/seduction12/04/11 07:20 PM
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Some valid reasons there, I think. Maybe noobs focus too much on the vocabulary and less on the content. Because you can't understand the content worth a damn if you don't know the vocabulary.
/r/seduction31/03/11 03:48 PM
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I'd agree with you except for that doesn't seem to be the case. http://www.guardian.co.uk/media/2010/dec/17/julian-assange-sweden According to the statement, Miss A then realised he was trying to have unprotected sex with her. She told police that she had tried a number of times to reach for a condom but Assange had stopped her by holding her arms and pinning her legs. The statement records Miss A describing how Assange then released her arms and agreed to use a condom, but she told the police t…
/r/MensRights21/12/10 04:28 AM
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That's because it's impossible to prove a negative. We won't know for sure until the end, but so far it looks like you're incorrect.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 04:26 AM
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check my conspiracy link in the sidebar. You don't have to agree with it, but the UN's undeniably involved: men's rights = foreign and domestic policy. It would appear the cables (so far at least) disagree. It has not been brought up at all. There are elements of the UN that are focused exclusively on women. But they're pretty much powerless. Most of the things they can do amount to "urging" member states to do something.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 01:14 AM
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Someone can withdraw consent during sex. She was effectively withdrawing consent until he put a condom on. He complied after a while but for a while there he was in the problematic middle ground. He should have just put on the condom and continued. That being said she did want to have sex with him. When she wanted him to put one on, he did. The "problematic middle ground" was she thought he "did something" to tear it intetionally, which makes approximately zero sense.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 12:02 AM
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Has he released any cables directly related to mens rights? Cables=Mostly foreign policy. Men's rights=Domestic policy.
/r/MensRights20/12/10 11:54 PM
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Mastercard, Visa, and Paypal are not prosecutors. Doesn't make sense that way. And the message (now deleted) is translated by Google to "MasterCard, Visa and Paypal - belt you, now!"
/r/MensRights20/12/10 11:53 PM
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Stop paying her. Stop seeing her now. You are her business model, as are other people like you. This shit is the rule, not the exception. This is work and not play for her. Her having a "more enjoyable" time isn't going to affect anything. But acknowledging you're not going to pay attention to that: Try to hang out with her without paying, but without fucking being a requirement. If she says no hopefully it should convince you that she sees nothing in this past your wallet.
/r/seduction23/10/10 02:34 AM
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Pay her more.
/r/seduction23/10/10 01:48 AM
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Young men are not necessarily faster than the young women. I believe the point here is to have equality...Whoever can save their ass has the right to do so. No need to bias it in favor of men. If we're faster, it will show in the results.
/r/MensRights09/10/10 04:24 PM
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And why should anyone really care what your writing philosophy is? Read it or don't. If your precious virgin ears can't take a naughty word or two, I can assure you that point isn't significant enough to warrant a comment.
/r/seduction29/09/10 07:59 PM
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Wow. Ordinarily I'm not a fan of random youtubers editorializing, but this was quite good.
/r/MensRights06/11/09 04:27 PM
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Ok, I get the Men's rights angle and all. But I just don't give a fuck about Jon and Kate.
/r/MensRights03/11/09 07:11 PM
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We can accept people don't have money for health care, but not accept they don't have the money for a lawyer? I think anyone in this situation knows to lawyer up. They just want some pointers until they can.
/r/MensRights18/08/09 12:47 PM
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It is hard to argue with your conclusion. Perhaps that's the best way to leave it. haha.
/r/MensRights20/07/09 03:27 PM
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Go go gadget hive mind
/r/MensRights20/07/09 02:21 PM
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No, he's too far away. I had to watch it a few times. But I'm pretty sure at this point it was a hitting gesture from too far away to make contact
/r/MensRights20/07/09 02:21 PM
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