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Fundamentals xuhu55/r/seduction05/08/22 05:24 PM
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Fundamentals xuhu55/r/seduction22/09/22 04:20 AM
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Fundamentals xuhu55/r/seduction31/07/22 02:28 PM
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I go 4 times a week. I think I’m genetically not able to build that much mass. I’m much better at long distance like I’ve done half marathon under 2 hours. Your genetics determine if you’re a body builder or an endurance body type. Unfortunately I’m the endurance body type. Although I actually haven’t tried night game and need to try it.
/r/seduction22/09/22 11:58 PM
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I did follow the advice to change wardrobe. I am a computer science major who is working as software engineer. I got out of video games and I don’t watch porn. I check out Instagram models though. I actually enjoy outdoor stuff so I go socialize a ton when camping and hiking. I’m improving my ability to strike up conversations with strangers. I can definitely do it now. The problem is that when I just talk to girls without agenda, I end up with female friends. I have enough female friends to han…
/r/seduction22/09/22 04:52 PM
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What’s your phone number rate, date rate, and laid rate? I’m thinking of asking random strangers to record me since it’s a huge commitment from a friend to follow me around recording
/r/seduction22/09/22 04:46 PM
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Still need 1 successful date lol
/r/seduction22/09/22 04:44 PM
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Yeah that could be it. There are more white girls than Asians so I naturally hit on more white girls. Also I’m 23 and most people in the city are older and usually women don’t like younger dudes.
/r/seduction22/09/22 12:41 PM
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What makes good color combinations?
/r/seduction14/08/22 02:06 PM
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Hey I followed your advice on personal shopper. She recommended something basic and versatile. What do you think? https://imgur.com/a/gJrC0Od
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:47 AM
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Hey I got a shopper to recommend these clothes. What do you think?
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:31 AM
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I got a personal shopper to recommend these clothes. How do they look? https://imgur.com/a/gJrC0Od
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:28 AM
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I just got a personal shopper to buy me these clothes. How are they? https://imgur.com/a/gJrC0Od
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:25 AM
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Yeah I’m certain it’s lack of confidence.
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:29 AM
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You can see my link in the original post to see how I look.
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:13 AM
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How so?
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:31 PM
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?
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:13 PM
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I’m 23
/r/seduction05/08/22 10:46 PM
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Probably how to be flirty and seductive is my number 1 weakness I need to improve.
/r/seduction05/08/22 10:43 PM
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Did you go to UMD? Does it typically take 2.5 years? I was hoping to look good in months. While I have the money. I actually don’t know what to buy so usually I go to store, try some thing on, take pics, and ask r/malefashionadvice on their opinion before buying. I’m very introverted but I go to meetups and made tons of friends. Female friends included. I’m not taking conversations next level beyond friend conversations since that’s the only one I know how to do.
/r/seduction05/08/22 10:00 PM
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How do I avoid ending up in friendly conversations with them? I have only managed to make friends from random girls I have met.
/r/seduction05/08/22 09:23 PM
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I think I do better on 2 than 3. Looks like I’ll try hookups lolz
/r/seduction05/08/22 09:20 PM
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I have lots of female friends I talk to and hangout 1-1 but it always ends up friendly. Not sure how to fix.
/r/seduction05/08/22 09:11 PM
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What’s that
/r/seduction05/08/22 09:05 PM
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It works pretty well since voo never drops enough to margin call. My interest rate was 1.75% which is less than inflation. I’m payback loans with less than I borrowed. But yeah almost no one has voo on margin. People that leverage go all out on options and voo people don’t take loans. Only boglehead and r/fatFire folks would do what I’m doing.
/r/seduction05/08/22 09:05 PM
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I actually have tons of female friends. I just have trouble escalating conversations out of the friend zone. I actually hang out my with my female friends 1 on 1 a lot. But like I never say anything seductive. Not sure how to fix.
/r/seduction05/08/22 09:02 PM
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Haha yeah buying an Asian wife is always worst case option. I think a few girls in the Midwest would be racist to an Asian guy like me lol.
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:58 PM
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Also my conversations always end up being friend kind of conversations. For some reason the things I say aren’t flirty. Not sure how to fix.
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:57 PM
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Thanks.
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:54 PM
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Congrats on $5million. How’d you get it?
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:54 PM
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Ah boring shit index funds like VFIAX. I actually take out loans to buy VOO which is a crazy risky strategy. Not sure why I can risk 50k Margin loans but have trouble risking rejection by girls lolz. What do you invest in?
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:51 PM
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Would outdoor activities count as cool hobbies. Hiking, backpacking, and camping are cheap but I enjoy them. They are also huge in Seattle where I’m in. I’m not a big fan of beaches which people of high game typically like. For clothes I actually never look at the price or brand shop. I typically get a shirt and take a pic and share on Reddit to see if it looks good. For international travel, I can probably have enough time for 2 of them a year. My limiting factor is pto and not cost.
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:47 PM
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I would say I have drive and passion. Still working on the game lol
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:44 PM
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You assumed when I said savings, that I was putting it all in a literal savings account. I invest 90% of my money. Anyways I have slightly over 300k net worth
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:38 PM
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What’s the difference?
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:33 PM
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I could buy one rn lol since I’ve been saving my money for 2 years. So do I just drive around and they’ll try to carjack their way into my pants?
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:31 PM
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Looks like a millionaire in a lambo with no status will be picking up no one in Miami.
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:26 PM
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I still think I should learn confidence. It only helps. You make a good point about standards. I tend to avoid unattractive ones since I can’t feel more than friendship with them. I also got rejected by ugly girl and it stung more than rejection by a hot girl.
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:23 PM
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There you go. You admitted being rich isn’t enough.
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:17 PM
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I still have to learn how to game before I can tell them.
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:12 PM
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I didn’t get a private message. I don’t plan on buying coaching services unless I’m super desperate and have exhausted other options.
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:04 PM
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I don’t think you’d pull that off easily as a millionaire as you think. Not bragging but I could save money and be a millionaire before I’m 30 but still stuck where I’m at if I change nothing else. The whole point of this thread is money doesn’t help. Otherwise I wouldn’t be asking anything.
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:02 PM
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Yeah I have friends. Unfortunately tech friends have the same situation as me.
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:55 PM
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I actually think I have more to improve on with game because my game is far below my looks. Particularly your step 6 is most relevant.
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:38 PM
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Haha yeah the YouTube comments say a wallet is all that matters but I bet if those same guys had big wallets, they’d up like me. Thanks for the recommendation.
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:36 PM
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Would you say (looks and style) or (game and confidence) matter more?
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:28 PM
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You know what. I’m going to shop around with my shopper next week. Once that’s done, I’m going to go cold approach with that mindset. I’ll let you know how it goes.
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:25 PM
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2 years ago. Is this something checked on annual checkups?
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:02 PM
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I don’t know. Is there an easy trick to know if you have enough without going for a medical?
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:55 PM
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I don’t watch porn but the other 2 are ones that will work.
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:51 PM
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I’ve never been to a club before. I suppose I should figure out how to get laid but a gf is probably easier for me given my attributes.
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:47 PM
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So I can improve on 2 or 3 and possibly both. I’ll probably work on both but hypothetically between 2 and 3, which would have biggest impact if I worked on that?
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:37 PM
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What’s the best method for indirect game.
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:23 PM
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Ok so it looks like I need to both decrease fear and increase horniness. Decreasing fear is mental but not sure how to increase horniness.
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:19 PM
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I’m mostly meeting them in person. I usually have trouble getting the guts to ask for more than friendship. Problem is that I’ve had assumed a girl was interested but she turned out not be which makes me cautious. For example she’d ask me to a dance event but then drop she has a boyfriend. Therefore I play it safe by waiting for them to be more clear but that hasn’t happened. As for how they learn of my high net worth, check my edit in original post.
/r/seduction05/08/22 05:31 PM
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It costed me $83 at https://buckhorn.love/ Yeah I got paste. I’m not sure if I’m styling it as well as I should have. For example I feel my hair keeps falling forward.
/r/seduction02/08/22 02:34 AM
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Hey I got this haircut https://youtube.com/shorts/ltP2zYCw3Zg?feature=share I took a shower and tried to do my hair but it looks different from when I just got it. https://imgur.com/a/3h1E365 Anyways what improvements remain
/r/seduction02/08/22 02:13 AM
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Hey I got this haircut https://youtube.com/shorts/ltP2zYCw3Zg?feature=share I took a shower and tried to do my hair but it looks different from when I just got it. https://imgur.com/a/3h1E365 Anyways what improvements remain
/r/seduction02/08/22 02:12 AM
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Hey I got this haircut https://youtube.com/shorts/ltP2zYCw3Zg?feature=share I took a shower and tried to do my hair but it looks different from when I just got it. https://imgur.com/a/3h1E365 Anyways what improvements remain
/r/seduction02/08/22 02:12 AM
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Hey I got this haircut https://youtube.com/shorts/ltP2zYCw3Zg?feature=share I took a shower and tried to do my hair but it looks different from when I just got it. https://imgur.com/a/3h1E365 Anyways what improvements remain
/r/seduction02/08/22 02:12 AM
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Hey I got this haircut https://youtube.com/shorts/ltP2zYCw3Zg?feature=share I took a shower and tried to do my hair but it looks different from when I just got it. https://imgur.com/a/3h1E365 Anyways what improvements remain
/r/seduction02/08/22 02:12 AM
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Hey I got this haircut https://youtube.com/shorts/ltP2zYCw3Zg?feature=share I took a shower and tried to do my hair but it looks different from when I just got it. https://imgur.com/a/3h1E365 Anyways what improvements remain
/r/seduction02/08/22 02:12 AM
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Hey I got this haircut https://youtube.com/shorts/ltP2zYCw3Zg?feature=share I took a shower and tried to do my hair but it looks different from when I just got it. https://imgur.com/a/3h1E365 Anyways what improvements remain
/r/seduction02/08/22 02:11 AM
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Good point. Let me do both.
/r/seduction01/08/22 05:34 PM
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Hey I tried out some clothes over the weekend. Would you say they are well fitting? I want to check before I go back and shell $$. Shoes Shorts Athletic wear Summer Wear
/r/seduction01/08/22 05:20 PM
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Haha. Let me change the description I gave for my booking appointment to more accurately reflect that.
/r/seduction01/08/22 05:16 PM
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Hey I went shopping this weekend and took some pics. I held off on buying them until I could make sure they actually looked good to outside observers. Do you think they fit or should I shop again? shortsAthletic WearSummer Wear
/r/seduction01/08/22 04:58 PM
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Hey thanks for you well written and thoughtful response. I am willing to make the changes necessary; I was just surprised earlier when you mentioned how many haircuts required. However I'm willing to do that many haircuts to improve myself. Anyways I tried to book a personal shopper and a haircut over the weekend but couldn't get an appointment so I booked them for the weekdays and I'll post more pictures this week. Fortunately I was able to go shopping and get some photos yesterday. I wanted to…
/r/seduction01/08/22 04:45 PM
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I had no idea that existed. Let me try that out.
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:13 PM
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Yeah my biggest problem is actually making a move.
/r/seduction31/07/22 06:27 PM
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Is there a reason for black barbershop over nonblack barbershop?
/r/seduction31/07/22 06:27 PM
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How do you find a personal shopper?
/r/seduction31/07/22 06:26 PM
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I’m working as a software engineer in big tech so it’s not a problem. However I’m surprised that you need to haircut that often. I assumed you go every few months.
/r/seduction31/07/22 06:25 PM
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Ah nice observation.
/r/seduction31/07/22 06:24 PM
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Budget is not a problem for me but I am curious how you know lol. What do you mean by gaming?
/r/seduction31/07/22 05:53 PM
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