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Ah yes, good old "No True Scotsman Feminist" argument. But that version of feminism isn't REAL feminism!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:31 AM
4

Compared to the "Protect Trans Children" movement? Absolutely not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:30 AM
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I can't remember the last time I saw a woman on here arguing in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:28 AM
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Exactly, they always say gaslighting stuff like "Feminism is about equality - we care about men's issues too!" Then it's absolute crickets or just the usual "Those problems aren't real" or "You're a misogynist" as soon as those men's issues are brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:25 AM
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No, because a man who becomes trans isn't really a woman and a women who becomes trans isn't really a man. Slowly but surely more people are waking up and pushing back against the charade.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:05 AM
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I'm sure you've heard and discounted the reasons because it's easier to just blame "The Patriarchy" or something
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:02 AM
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I found Hillary Clinton's reddit account! "Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat." Definitely not a misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:58 AM
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I already believed that most men are invisible to women, but my short time on this sub since coming back to Reddit has all but proved it. The gaslighting comments I've seen are insane - from suggesting that men in any way have an advantage in dating to outright implying that any man struggling with romance is struggling because they're a bad person. The frequency with which any point of view criticizing women is just responded with "You're a misogynist" (and that it fucking WORKS, both here and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:53 AM
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If dating were like going grocery shopping, women would be upset that they keep buying moldy bread - meanwhile men are locked outside looking through the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:18 PM
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I suspect you're gonna be crucified because your comment is unpleasant to hear but it's spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:55 PM
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Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:44 PM
5

It's obvious from your responses in this thread that you were looking for anti-male validation more than wanting to facilitate an actual discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:56 PM
4

This is literally just proof that women don't even treat undesirable men as human. I mean talk about gaslighting - you struggle with your dating life? It's obviously because you're a complete piece of shit person!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:52 PM
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I knew a guy in college that was born with no arms or legs. Maybe you should read before you write.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:23 PM
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It only makes sense they'd think this way - their dates come to them just for existing. They can't fathom that it doesn't work that way for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:50 AM
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Holy shit, someone with the balls to say it straight up. I'm so tired of hearing about how lower-middle class young men like myself have been oppressing women because feminists don't know what Apex Fallacies are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:46 PM
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One minute it's "It's never okay to assume a woman is pregnant", the next it's "Men ignore pregnant women because they know they can't fuck them." Anything to blame men, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:04 PM
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But remember folks, women are the more empathetic sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:57 PM
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I honestly can't stand when women make condescending remarks at the expense of (unwillingly) single men. Like they get all the attention they want just for existing pretty much. They have no idea how invisible us average guys are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:26 PM
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Men don't have the luxury of having romantic chances come to them - if someone they're with is "good enough" it's not worth losing them looking for that perfect someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:44 PM
2

Ah yes, the old "Feminists care about men too!" BS. No they don't, they never have and they never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:09 PM
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Calling two paragraphs a "rant" is unhinged
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:49 PM
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I just don't see any possible way for someone to have written this comment without being a midandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:45 PM
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Classic "Teach men not to rape" energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:52 PM
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AKA women will blink three times fast and be convinced that they clearly communicated they were interested
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:47 PM
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I can attest to this as well. As a teen I had overwhelming feelings of shame and guilt for being sexually attracted to girls/young women, and it actually played a major part in my mental health issues during that time because it made me feel like a piece of shit who didn't deserve anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:08 PM
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And here we see another woman who has no perspective on what it's like being a man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:38 AM
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For fuck's sake... "medical misogyny" I just can't with this. Y'all will call anything sexist won't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:57 PM
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Men have constantly been told we're not good enough, we need to do better, keep working on ourselves, etc. It isn't motivating at all to be honest - it's gotten old and beyond patronizing how it's always the man's fault. Meanwhile all women are 10/10 queens 👸
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:21 PM
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Here's an anecdote to counter your anecdote: I also graduated last year, and there was a girl in my class I would talk to sometimes who was very pretty. About a month before we graduated, I overheard her talking with a friend who was teasing her for sleeping with two different guys (who were friends with each other) in the same week. Her defense was: "Well I'm graduating in a month and I won't see them again so whatever." There, now our anecdotes cancel out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:24 PM
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I definitely feel this - I've rented an apartment with my best friend for a few years now, and we do a lot of things together but we're both bachelors. When we're hanging out in public there's often undertones of, "So you two are just friends, right?" Like yes we actually are just friends and sharing an apartment is simply a logical choice in this economy...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:49 PM
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That's one hell of a gaslight
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:44 PM
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I'd happily pay for a prostitute if I could be sure we was clean and it wasn't illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:48 AM
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People choosing to follow a tradition doesn't make them dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:40 AM
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To me this is fundamental - I will never be open-minded about feminism and how "oppressed" women are as long as they continue to downplay the significance of forced conscription. Hell, even in the U.S. where realistically a full-scale draft probably won't happen again, women's exemption from Selective Service requirements juxtaposed with all the rights men forfeit by not registering is fundamentally unjust.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:14 PM
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Someone on here made a comment (incorrectly) explaining what The Wall is and criticizing it for being misogynistic and "not wholesome". Like, it's biologically true that women in their 40s generally aren't turning heads like they were in their 20s. Biology doesn't give a fuck about being "wholesome". But of course stating the obvious is misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:01 PM
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It's hard to know the exact number but yeah pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:49 PM
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Someone bought the feminist kool aid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:15 PM
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Are there really women who can't understand that they have their cake and eat it too when it comes to society's expectations and how coddled they are compared to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:00 PM
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I actually agree, we all need to be more skeptical of sources and "research". There's tons of surveys, studies, etc. that can be weaponized to drive a narrative and it isn't hard to find some that support your preexisting viewpoints. Just remember that it works that way for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:08 AM
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Please remind me to print more Flirtation Permission Slips I can have them sign before I talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:42 AM
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I just want to say I feel so relieved reading another man hit the nail on the head so perfectly. Men are never good enough meanwhile the average woman is a 10/10 no matter what. And we wonder why so many of us have given up...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:19 PM
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Bumble was never for sex. And you just devalued everything else you wrote by insisting on such an L take.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:14 PM
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You've got to be pretty deluded to truly believe that "nobody pays attention" to the average woman. You'd flip out if you ever had to spend some time as an average man and discover how invisible we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:20 AM
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Absolutely no shot that women have an equally hard time getting into relationships as men. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:31 AM
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The classic feminist argument: "It's not my job to educate you, go read the same propaganda I did and then you'll understand."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:30 AM
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You've already done quite a bit of mental gymnastics by defining the Wall as "Women are useless after their prime fertile years." It's about looks fading, and let's face it - a woman in her 40s is generally not turning heads the way she was twenty years ago. This is biological fact, and reality doesn't care about being "wholesome" or afraid of being called a misogynist. It must be nice to be able to throw out that term anytime you're faced with an unpleasant truth, by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:24 AM
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Thanks for some realist advice. My question is: are men's issues just doomed to never get attention? Men are too busy/too conditioned to be stoic and never talk about what issues they're facing. Since women don't give a fuck about our problems (and they make up more than half of the voting population) can we even do anything to push back against society's apathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:58 PM
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There's one main ex, and many small interactions that have added up over time, combined with how naive of a hopeless romantic I used to be until the illusion was shattered. The main ex, in a nutshell, became romantically involved for a short time after I told her I was interested in her. She took my virginity and things were great for like a month. Then she grew cold and distant - turns out she was cheating on me with her ex, and when I discovered beyond any doubt that's what was happening and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:47 PM
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Enjoy your double-digit body count and wondering why no man will commit to you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:58 PM
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That's the narrative that's been painted for decades, yes. Female sexuality is stunning and empowering until the moment a man acts on his attraction to her, then it's objectifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:14 AM
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For men, dating is a job interview. A job interview that he's expected to pay for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:54 PM
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Part of the high single-motherhood comes from the "Strong and independent, don't need no man" ideal convincing women that they can raise a baby without a second parent around. That selfishness puts their ego above what the child truly needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:38 PM
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I guess you missed the part where Depp was assumed guilty until proven innocent, and even after being found not guilty and winning the defamation lawsuit, his reputation has still been damaged. But poor Amber Heard, I know...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:40 PM
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Okay but men are the ones scrutinized for their every action, where one woman might find his actions endearing and another might find them sexist. Individuals are free to be different, but men get the short end of the stick for not being mind-readers about each and every situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:16 PM
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No offense to you, but this is also part of why so many men are involuntarily single these days. Dating apps suck, you can't meet people at work because it'll almost always be seen as inappropriate, and you can't go up and talk to strangers anymore. So how are we supposed to meet new people?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:49 PM
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This, along with some of the other poll results, shows me that the indoctrination centers public schools are doing what they're designed to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:40 AM
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Men want women who enhance their life and bring peace, not actively make life harder. Based on your comment alone it's clear that would be hard for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:56 AM
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It's not that it's a compliment, it's that having access to physical intimacy anytime you want is inherently better than the months or even years of absolute loneliness that many men experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:53 AM
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Who the hell could forget you need to buy groceries? The prices alone make it impossible to forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:56 PM
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And then they get an inflated ego/sense of expectations, and after being pumped and dumped by a man who was never interested in them long-term they go on to lump all men as pigs meanwhile some 80% of us are completely invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:44 AM
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Your comment is a perfect demonstration of why women's reputation as the more empathetic sex is total BS. Men bring up their problems and you compare it to a toddler crying over candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:35 AM
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Here's another comparison you probably won't like: dating for men is like trying to get a job interview that you're expected to pay to attend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:26 AM
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This exactly. Women tend offer no empathy to this problem - just spouting out the same "nobody is obligated to date you" rhetoric. They tend to take for granted the advantages of having offers come to them and picking the best one, meanwhile the average man these days gets nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:11 AM
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I actually agree in taking issue with both terms, but the point is it would take the popularizing of calling out "Toxic Femininity" to make society realize it's gone too far with its parallel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:49 PM
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I'm not optimistic there are many women out there who would agree with you, but thanks. It makes me feel a little better to know that at least some see it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:36 PM
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In the wise words of Dave Chapelle, "If y'all can kill the motherfucker I can at least abandon it."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:25 PM
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I don't see any way for things to get better without getting way worse first, as long as society remains as gyoncentric as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:34 PM
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It's incredibly obvious from your demeanor that you had no interest in being part of this discussion in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:17 PM
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Yes, it's totally a made up fantasy that thousands of men have had their lives destroyed by contracts that award one party cash and prizes for breaking it. That's never happened in reality to a single person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:16 PM
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Here's a thought: maybe to the 99% of normal men out there who don't go around harassing and groping women, choosing the bear is incredibly hurtful and disrespectful. Any time a man makes such sweeping generalizations about women based on the bad ones he is labeled a sexist, but when it's reversed it's totally acceptable to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:47 PM
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#FuckTheClintons
/r/MensRights14/11/19 08:07 PM
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There is no rape culture
/r/MensRights21/08/19 11:31 PM
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Bottom line is that, ultimately, people should be free to sexualize and be sexualized to an amount of their choosing. Not everyone is always on the same page, unfortunately, but that doesn't mean it's right to try to assign an across-the-board standard for everyone.
/r/MensRights18/08/19 09:36 AM
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As someone who studied choral music education in college, fuck anyone who demands that all choirs be mixed, and that goes both ways. You wouldn't demand that an electric guitar be allowed in a classical orchestra, nor would you demand that a drum kit be added to an a capella group, and something like this case is no different. Men and women have different voices (boys and girls slightly less different, but still), and that means music for an all-men's group isn't necessarily commutative. The sam…
/r/MensRights17/08/19 05:04 PM
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I expect that he's telling the truth. But I do in fact believe in due process, so I always maintain a level of skepticism until more facts come out. Hopefully that's the way most people here see it.
/r/MensRights13/08/19 03:24 PM
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And send you the bill for the whole experience. "If your first suicide attempt fails, we'll make damn sure you wish it didn't!"
/r/MensRights07/08/19 12:18 AM
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Yeah, tbh I'm kind of disappointed to see such short-sighted and bitter comments being agreed with here. It's not doing anything to help our case for sure
/r/MensRights01/08/19 09:37 PM
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I've had a group of friends since high school (8+ years), all males. Sometime this year one of them started telling us that he loved us. At first it caught me off guard, but when I realized he was serious it really hit me hard. I've been struggling to feel loved for years, kickstarted by the abusive fallout of a relationship, making me feel like an unlovable piece of shit. Then I was reminded that I had a group of people that did indeed love me even during one of the darkest times of my life. I …
/r/MensRights12/07/19 10:13 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean. Anyway I was just recounting an old memory from middle school, it's not like I've gone to therapy over that specific situation.
/r/MensRights25/06/19 05:39 AM
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First off, dropping out != failing. Second off, you're an ass.
/r/MensRights25/06/19 05:36 AM
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I remember getting a bad grade on a math quiz that literally wasn't even math, it was just taking word problems and breaking them down into if -> then statements. I did everything correctly, except for the fact that I omitted the word then (E.g. If I have 10 apples and proceed to eat 2, I now have 8.) I did every single problem this way and she marked them ALL wrong. Maybe that's why I've always been so adamant about recognizing what someone actually means and not just the words they use.
/r/MensRights25/06/19 05:31 AM
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I had a legitimately sexist teacher in middle school. Gave me a straight up F on a project while talking down to me about how little I must have cared to turn in such a bad project. I told my parents and they basically bitched her out until she gave me a C for it. She was also just generally rude to every guy in the class, and whenever she'd talk about which students were doing best in the class, they were all girls. Fuck you Ms. Monahan.
/r/MensRights25/06/19 05:27 AM
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Your argument is fair, but my ultimate point is that it's subjective rather than fact to label the term as used only used by neo-nazis. It's like the Pepe the Frog controversy: just because certain hateful groups have made anti-semitic Pepe memes doesn't mean all Pepe memes are anti-semitic, to which my point is that it's unreasonable to start telling people "you should stop making Pepe memes, it makes you seem racist." And while I know you using it for comparison's sake, there is absolutely a s…
/r/MensRights24/06/19 09:40 PM
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No. How about we ignore idiots who label any common thought they don't like as "extreme right" in an attempt to shame away conversational discourse?
/r/MensRights24/06/19 05:57 PM
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Right Wing Politics is anti-Male What? You also realize Prager U has other videos talking about the Wage Gap Myth and other misinformation used by those with political agendas, right?
/r/MensRights22/06/19 11:37 PM
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That's nice and all, but that's not how the term gets used. It's often used when criticizing the actions of an individual, blaming those actions and that person on the fact that he's a man, and implies that men across the board are simply incapable of avoiding such behavior. It assigns gender-specific blame while refusing the understanding that individuals are the ones responsible for their actions, instead blaming it on masculinity as a whole. E.g. a man who commits sexual assualt being said to…
/r/MensRights22/06/19 11:30 PM
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No it isn't. And who gives a fuck what Neo-Nazis are doing; the whole point is to ignore them completely because they don't deserve attention.
/r/MensRights17/06/19 03:30 PM
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I mean it shows success in the fact that they're making a pretty comfortable living in their field of study, which is a pretty commonly used measure of success.
/r/MensRights17/06/19 06:25 AM
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When I was in college I studied under professors with PhDs who still complained about being victims of the wage gap and the Patriarchy.
/r/MensRights17/06/19 03:31 AM
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Excuse me, you've just described the general Male preference in romantic partners which is misogynistic because it implies that men are allowed to want things in return from their princesses
/r/MensRights16/06/19 12:25 PM
0

I agree that this is the right thing to do. It sucks that there are people out there that would take advantage of the situation though.
/r/MensRights23/05/19 07:14 PM
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It's the same thing as women going around calling each other queens and whatnot. It's not for everyone but I can respect those who do so.
/r/MensRights22/05/19 05:37 AM
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Might wanna tag NSFW/L
/r/MensRights21/05/19 05:27 PM
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Sounds depressing
/r/MensRights16/05/19 02:41 AM
2

I think there's a middle ground between "we can't convict the accused because the evidence isn't good enough" and "we have evidence that the accuser is a lying bitch". Though if someone is raped and they do the things they should to report it, the evidence should be more than enough.
/r/MensRights09/05/19 05:24 PM
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Was he fully prosecuted and convicted or simply charged? Because there's a big distinction between the two.
/r/MensRights01/05/19 07:09 PM
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Yeah I honestly wanted to immigrate to the UK for a long time, but the political state is just too much for me to still want to go.
/r/MensRights01/05/19 06:30 PM
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Absolutely nothing, which is what you are about to become.
/r/MensRights16/04/19 09:09 PM
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That's true, and in an ideal world stopping genital mutilation of both sexes would be a non-partisan issue, something even devout feminists and devout MRMs could team up to fight. However, I'm pessimistic that we'll find that level of unity anytime soon.
/r/MensRights07/04/19 04:54 PM
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The people who take their faith in God a little too seriously, which can manifest in various ways. The most common characteristic is that they "know" God is real and get really offended by the existence of non-Christians. To be fair most people are not that extreme.
/r/MensRights06/04/19 06:00 PM
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Children being murdered is sad though
/r/MensRights06/04/19 05:48 PM
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Maybe he's Australian? Either way the words people use are less important than what the message they're communicating.
/r/MensRights29/03/19 11:21 PM
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To be honest I can't support this particular post. I've always been a critic of the witch-hunting power of the #MeToo movement and I think it would be hypocritical to change my tune this time around. I know almost nothing about the recent controversy surrounding her so if there's more legitimate evidence to prosecute then go for it. But this really is just he-said she-said.
/r/MensRights29/03/19 02:35 PM
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Thank you for reminding me that people like you exist and that I must be diligent in not generalizing the entire left. Signed, a reluctant Trump supporter
/r/MensRights11/03/19 07:04 PM
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Not to mention when you try to have a serious discussion about the gender-specific issues men face, and you even provide sources proving your point, and they still just accuse you of lying, cherry picking sources, etc. because you're obviously just a misogynist. Feels > Reals, and women are always right.
/r/MensRights08/03/19 07:45 AM
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I mean about half of those links were to academic papers to be fair. I know sources like HuffPo aren't respected as well as they used to be but I really did pull all of those links from the very first results page. And yet I still got called a cherry picker...
/r/MensRights06/03/19 06:28 PM
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Let interactions such as these be proof that many people literally just don't give a fuck about the issues men face. It's absolutely pathetic. But on the other hand, people like these are doing us a favor. They provide us evidence as to how much of a shithead they can really be, and validate the fact that we are right to be angry.
/r/MensRights06/03/19 09:45 AM
1

Some of these other answers aren't 100% accurate. In the first part of the movie he's in a heterosexual relationship, then that relationship fails after a few things (his sexual curiosity, the life of a touring rock star) and the rest of the film focuses primarily on his homosexual ones. (The main focus overall isn't actually on his sexuality, but it certainly is a significant theme.)
/r/MensRights05/03/19 09:01 PM
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Just to let you know, although the movie does contain scenes depicting Freddie's sexuality, they are done tastefully and aren't really the focal point of the film. While Freddie is the main focus of the band, the rest of the members are important characters who are more than just supporting characters to the bisexual guy, if you know what I mean.
/r/MensRights05/03/19 08:58 PM
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Ugh it really bothers me when these things happen and people eat it up. Like when the creators of a show or movie or video game brag about their character being gay, for example, and then proceed to pat themselves on the back for how "progressive" they're being when its obvious pandering. Like the character's sexuality never even becomes relevant to the plot; its just a bullet point the creators brag about to earn brownie points. And then some people call me a homophobe when I say I don't buy it…
/r/MensRights05/03/19 08:53 PM
2

Disney Star Wars also applies
/r/MensRights05/03/19 08:50 PM
3

a hint of /r/ABoringDystopia as well
/r/MensRights04/03/19 03:50 AM
27

Congratulations, you are a terrible person.
/r/MensRights01/03/19 04:06 PM
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I'm not one for witch hunts but if this stuff is public knowledge, then why not initiate a public boycott of all Gilette products until she is removed from her position? Maybe I'm being naive but that seems to be worth attempting.
/r/MensRights01/03/19 04:05 PM
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That's part of the double standard - if you insult a woman for having small breasts or anything comparable you're a shallow asshole, but society still makes fun of how large your penis needs to be to be "manly". I know better than to pin this one purely on some feminist regime but that double standard has always pissed me off.
/r/MensRights01/03/19 04:02 PM
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Good to know at least one party involved is reasonable.
/r/MensRights16/02/19 08:49 PM
1

After the release of the Red Pill Documentary the term really shouldn't be seen as forbidden anymore.
/r/MensRights19/01/19 06:25 PM
4

I was afraid to even ask a woman on a date for two years after a bad and damaging relationship, because I no longer felt like I had "permission" to act on my attraction to someone... I'm just now getting over that feeling.
/r/MensRights19/01/19 04:48 PM
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Congratulations, you have proved one of the many points of the article.
/r/MensRights17/01/19 03:17 PM
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Its really funny how 1st and 2nd wave feminism were generally sex-positive and encouraging of individual agency over one's sexuality, and modern feminism is now being so outraged any time a woman voluntarily does something sexual that it actually represses women's freedom to make their own sex life choices...
/r/MensRights17/01/19 12:12 PM
2

Good, at least it's something. I was worried this piece of shit would get off scot-free.
/r/MensRights06/01/19 06:56 PM
0

Well pardon me for attempting to clarify then
/r/MensRights29/12/18 05:57 AM
-2

He's describing physical strength, the most common identification of "strength", and then saying that someone without that specific form of strength can still have strengths.
/r/MensRights29/12/18 04:12 AM
1

Total speculation, but as a philosophy minor I can say that my studies have given me benefits very similar to the study of Psychology (not the same types of courses, but they complement each other pretty well.) I would say a philosophy degree would make someone pretty good at management positions, since being a successful philosophy student requires being open-minded, thoughtful, and patient. (I say patient because a lot of philosophical works cover extremely abstract concepts that can easily be…
/r/MensRights23/12/18 06:24 PM
6

I agree, i couldn't even finish the first half of the chart it was so bad
/r/MensRights20/12/18 05:09 AM
5

Sounds like my ex
/r/MensRights20/12/18 03:59 AM
11

Ugh thanks for reminding me of that quote. I don't care what anyone has to say about it, that quote and her political platform under it is what made me vote for Trump.
/r/MensRights15/12/18 12:50 PM
2

Which is also why I stand my ground when people perpetuate the lies that fraternities are just "rape clubs". I've been involved in a fraternity for 4+ years and not a single brother of mine has ever committed anything close to sexual assault nor would they, and I speculate that's true of at least 95% of all men in all fraternities. Men need commradery with other men as they're developing; unfortunately a few bad eggs have ruined the reputation of fraternities.
/r/MensRights15/12/18 12:48 PM
1

Thank you for the response. I admit I was a little vulnerable after reading your comment and I may have misinterpreted the tone you were going for.
/r/MensRights20/11/18 07:03 PM
4

This is such a toxic and unhealthy perspective to be forcing onto other people. Crying is a perfectly natural response to bad news occuring, and there is nothing wrong with doing so. Maybe it isn't productive. But human beings are not meant to be productive 100% of the time. People cope with things in their own ways, and for most people crying is included in that process. How dare you imply that the only reason a person would ever cry is to seek attention?
/r/MensRights20/11/18 05:30 PM
1

I love how Whataboutism still seems to be an effective discussion silencer in 2018...
/r/MensRights19/11/18 08:45 PM
8

I still think even that's two black and white. You ever heard those old married couples' stories about how the man asked her out 6 times before she finally said yes and then they ended up together for life? Is he a sexual harasser, or just a bit more persistent than today's societal norms? Obviously I'm not saying there's some objective perfect amount of "chances" to woo someone, but it shouldn't be a strike two = you're in legal trouble system either. These things are really subjective and cont…
/r/MensRights30/10/18 07:39 PM
5

Most school systems (at least the one I grew up in) prohibit teachers from having their own children assigned to their class, though obviously they still have more immediate access to their children than most parents.
/r/MensRights30/10/18 07:35 PM
3

He didn't say that's the course of action most appropriate. He's saying that even a suspension is preferable to legal action.
/r/MensRights30/10/18 07:33 PM
33

I don't give a fuck. There is NO FUCKING REASON for a 9-year old's "love letters" to end up in any form of legal dispute. The worst case scenario should be the teacher intervening by speaking with him after class, then a conference or phone call with the parents. The principal shouldn't even have to be involved in the first place unless those prior steps didn't work for some reason. And besides, how the fuck are the parents supposed to know about everything that their child does at school? Durin…
/r/MensRights30/10/18 06:33 PM
2

I literally got my first girlfriend back in middle school because she gave me a love letter on her birthday. I'm triggered as fuck that this is what society has come to.
/r/MensRights30/10/18 06:29 PM
2

Advocated for killing the abuser because they didn't have faith that the police would do anything anyway. I think it was tongue-in-cheek but obviously not something we want to support.
/r/MensRights30/10/18 06:19 PM
17

What the fuck, can we not say things like this
/r/MensRights30/10/18 07:38 AM
1

Not if you believe in a person's ability to reason and thus have their mind changed. Which you should; otherwise why are you bothering debating them?
/r/MensRights23/08/18 12:33 AM
4

I can also say with regret that I now know what it is like to be cyber bullied. Not only have I been threatened but so has my family. I hope that this will clear things up a bit. Classic. Someone says something you don't like, attack them and their family.
/r/MensRights06/08/18 07:55 AM
7

Which is why Romeo and Juliet clauses exist
/r/MensRights01/08/18 10:25 PM
1

Holy shit I didn't think Reddit had anyone left who was brave enough to be logical
/r/MensRights13/07/18 02:48 AM
3

What is with people like you and unwarranted hostility towards a person
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:35 PM
3

As a fat man, it's a delicate balance. I don't want somebody to try to convince me that I'm not fat (I am), but I do need convincing that I'm still valuable and that trying to lose weight is a worthwhile and achievable endeavor. I don't really have the strength to go through it on my own, due to my mental health.
/r/MensRights18/04/18 05:37 PM
3

Thanks for flairing my post mod team, I completely forgot to do so.
/r/MensRights17/04/18 05:56 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/nonononoyes/comments/8cmnjg/hockey_player_try_to_give_a_puck_to_a_young_girl/ There's a link to the comments with no context provided. If you look at the replies to the top comments, you'll see what I linked.
/r/MensRights17/04/18 05:29 PM
6

If men actually flirted like that they'd be called creepy stalkers
/r/MensRights07/04/18 11:23 PM
3

Tone it down on the pretentiousness just a tad
/r/MensRights24/03/18 05:38 PM
3

Kindly go fuck yourself
/r/MensRights11/02/18 12:59 AM
4

How long have you gone through life without realizing that you can't just cherry pick a select demographic and decide the entire population is like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 04:56 AM
4

To some men. Don't let him speak for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 04:52 AM
9

Why do you come here
/r/MensRights04/01/18 02:06 AM
1

Fuck you Ms. Monahan. I'll never forgive your sexist ass for the shit you pulled in middle school life science
/r/MensRights29/12/17 03:18 AM
2

Well I don't know the term but you get my point. He has years of training on her and it didn't matter at all.
/r/MensRights27/12/17 07:49 PM
1

POTENTIAL SPOILERS BELOW I liked it better than TFA for sure. I can agree with complaints about Rey being a Mary sue especially in the first movie when she holds her own against an actual fucking sith lord, but I'm not opposed to her being successful after more time and training from probably the most impactful Jedi of all time. The "SJW" stuff already happened with the first movie's characters; now that they're established I can overlook it since it's not thrown in my face. I'm also not going t…
/r/MensRights27/12/17 05:57 PM
2

I can vouch for this. I dated a girl for a while who talked a lot about her abusive history with guys and I felt really sorry for her. She was engaged with a guy before deciding she didn't want to marry him anymore so she broke it off. We dated for a few months afterward. Changed her mind and got back with her fiancee, and blamed me for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 01:18 PM
3

? I'm not sure if you're in support of my comment or if I need to explain what I mean.
/r/MensRights03/12/17 10:55 PM
14

This isn't the kind of thing we should be upvoting here.
/r/MensRights03/12/17 08:46 PM
5

It's not a good look to be perpetuating such "jokes", even if you know it isn't serious.
/r/MensRights01/12/17 01:26 PM
0

Okay, go ahead and pretend that being one of the many straws that broke the camel's back is defensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 01:08 PM
2

When someone commits suicide, you can't deny yourself of any responsibility after you've been a complete ass to them. Well, you can, if you're a complete ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 12:33 PM
1

You're an absolute piece of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 12:32 PM
3

They'll be aware if they're looking at you telling you to leave
/r/MensRights20/10/17 04:18 PM
1

Unfortunately I can already hear all the lobbying against a candidate that supported such a thing.
/r/MensRights09/10/17 03:40 PM
82

She made someone a prisoner...
/r/MensRights09/10/17 02:41 PM
5

What the fuck
/r/MensRights08/09/17 06:51 PM
1

I mean it was just a hypothetical example off the top of my head. I wasn't specifically saying that exact thing has happened.
/r/MensRights17/08/17 12:11 AM
27

That's what I don't get about these people. Characters that do shitty things doesn't mean the cast and crew of the show are shitty. You could have a character who goes around calling black people the N word and wanting them executed, and that makes him a piece of shit. But he's supposed to be a piece of shit. Stop calling for outrage for character building.
/r/MensRights16/08/17 03:58 PM
1

That's racist
/r/MensRights13/08/17 05:08 PM
17

Apparently our world
/r/MensRights11/08/17 03:27 PM
1

Wtf
/r/MensRights10/07/17 05:00 PM
1

Politicians take them seriously. At least they take their votes seriously.
/r/MensRights10/07/17 04:52 PM
1

It's a crime in NYC? What?
/r/MensRights10/07/17 04:51 PM
34

I think my phone needs glasses
/r/MensRights06/07/17 01:58 PM
2

What
/r/MensRights23/06/17 10:20 AM
4

Agreed. Nothing good comes from calling someone out on Facebook like that
/r/MensRights23/06/17 10:18 AM
2

The whole point of the movie is that the fairy tale trope of love of first sight didn't work out. That's what the movie is about. That's not her dumb "female judgment"; it's the fantastical ideals of fairy tale love being turned upside down in this movie. That's not a female thing. That's a people thing. And again, it's a 100-minute Disney film. I think you're scrutinizing it too harshly.
/r/MensRights14/06/17 03:14 PM
1

Why is it poor "female" judgment??? Anna and Elsa are characters in a fucking Disney movie. The decisions they made are part of a 100-minute film primary made for children. If you wanted a gripping series of intense scrutiny before making a decision you're looking at the wrong genre. And why do their actions have to be "female judgment"? Let them be individual characters instead of assigning them to be representative of their entire sex.
/r/MensRights14/06/17 02:12 PM
1

Yeah I love Frozen and I think it's kind of a stretch to have such an impression of the film. Hanz and the old rich dude who's name I forgot are just undesirable characters in their own black-and-white ways because it's a Disney movie with like 100 minutes of screen time. Who watches a Disney movie and gets upset that one of its characters makes men look bad?
/r/MensRights14/06/17 02:09 PM
198

I don't think that's what she means but I'm not sure what it does mean
/r/MensRights12/06/17 09:19 PM
2

Fucking pressing charges on a 9th grader. That's insane man
/r/MensRights05/06/17 08:48 AM
6

Teach women not to rape /s
/r/MensRights28/05/17 03:12 PM
4

Wow, we've come full circle.
/r/MensRights28/05/17 03:12 PM
37

I'm pretty sure that's not how it works
/r/MensRights26/05/17 02:27 PM
24

Okay well you're just doing your best to be an idiot at this point
/r/MensRights05/05/17 10:38 PM
48

Here's a tangible way: as a college student, I am ineligible for federal financial aid unless I register for the selective service. But none of my female peers had to fuss with it at all.
/r/MensRights05/05/17 10:36 PM
1

you need a Master's or a couple other options of comparable qualification I guess my entire education and the structure of the program at my university is a lie then.
/r/MensRights18/04/17 05:59 PM
1

I live in VA. And yeah, that's the requirement to be a certified teacher here, even for elementary schools. Though it's worth noting that this is a requirement for public schools; if a private school is willing to hire you on a Bachelor's then that's fine. And as to your last point, maybe that is true, but I don't think his particular comment is in alignment with that sentiment.
/r/MensRights18/04/17 04:00 PM
6

So why did you choose teaching instead of a STEM field? Just so you know, that's not usually how that works. At least in my state, you aren't certified to teach on just a bachelor's degree alone: you need a Master's or a couple other options of comparable qualification. This means that it's more common for people to study a specific subject (perhaps STEM, perhaps not) as an undergraduate and then pursue an education Master's degree. And they don't just let you teach a subject without you first b…
/r/MensRights18/04/17 01:40 PM
3

Here's something shocking: Different people want to do different things with their life.
/r/MensRights15/03/17 01:07 AM
1

All I see is armchair life experts all over this thread
/r/MensRights15/03/17 12:27 AM
2

I'm incredibly disappointed that you believe the only possibility for someone becoming a teacher is that they "couldn't make it"
/r/MensRights15/03/17 12:26 AM
16

He means that raising a child is expensive as fuck and generally is intended to be supported by a family, not a single parent.
/r/MensRights26/01/17 12:29 PM
2

I mean I don't know whether she is or isn't but there definitely are people who think and act that way Source: my Facebook feed
/r/MensRights11/01/17 12:07 AM
37

Okay. But do you see my point? If a BLM protest were to come to my city, I have no way of knowing whether or not it will feature the people who want to harm me because I'm white. It's pretty frightening to support a group when some of its members would enact violence upon me if given the chance.
/r/MensRights20/10/16 08:19 PM
47

Regardless, when even a portion of your group are starting fires in the streets, turning cars over, and spouting messages to kill white people, I'm going to have reservations about supporting you.
/r/MensRights20/10/16 06:43 PM
0

Alright, let me give you an analogy. Let's say I'm a slave owner in colonial America. After owning slaves for 10 years, I realize how morally wrong it was to do so. I decide to write a paper describing how slavery is wrong, and that people need to stop doing it. You're suggesting that, because of a mistake I made in the past, my change in morality should be disregarded and I'm stuck being a terrible person the rest of my life? You're also suggesting that I would actually still be racist because …
/r/MensRights21/09/16 05:02 PM
1

Are you capable of understanding that the girl in the video never actually hit her boyfriend, and that the scenario she described was hypothetical just to make a point? What am I saying, of course not.
/r/MensRights21/09/16 03:56 PM
0

I never said an absolute. You're implying I said all MRAs are like the way I described, which is not what I said. I said there is a portion of the total subscribers here who behave in the manner I described. You providing evidence that it's not everyone does not disprove my point. If I post a comment saying that some turtles are green, then you post a response with 15 examples of red turtles, it doesn't prove that there are no green turtles.
/r/MensRights20/09/16 11:40 PM
-1

No more slapping - Why I stopped slapping my boyfriend in the face https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mLQ4_GKXN3o Many of the comments on the reddit post were calling her a selfish bitch who wanted attention for not being a terrible person when the entire point of the video was that hitting your boyfriend isn't okay. Also they were upset that she would ever hit him in the first place, when the scenario she described was purely for demonstration.
/r/MensRights20/09/16 09:56 PM
-1

This literally doesn't have anything to do with my comment though. All I said that some people on this sub like to be angry about things without participating in critical discussion. I didn't even mention the content that gets posted. What exactly is your point?
/r/MensRights20/09/16 08:57 PM
82

After the comments in that PSA to stop slapping your boyfriends, I've realized that many people in /r/MensRights are only interested in being pissed off at things instead of thinking logically and having rational discussion.
/r/MensRights20/09/16 03:40 PM
1

I know I'm gonna get downvoted even more for saying this, but there are some people in this thread who are too busy being upset about nothing too think logically for a moment. That's why I'm at -9.
/r/MensRights15/09/16 11:54 PM
0

That's literally not even close to the point of the video, but I've accepted that I can't hope to reason with you.
/r/MensRights15/09/16 11:33 PM
0

Because you're wrong. She never was an abuser, this entire scenario is purely hypothetical to demonstrate her point, a point that is in favor of us. You're simply too busy being upset over invalid reasons to realize.
/r/MensRights15/09/16 11:27 PM
0

Yeah, I agree completely. Unfortunately so many people here are just looking to be upset about something that they miss the point. Really hurts the credibility of this sub IMO.
/r/MensRights15/09/16 01:52 PM
-8

No, this video is very obviously not a factual scenario, even if there are real ones that happen similarly.
/r/MensRights14/09/16 09:49 PM
-3

Sorry, this particular comment may have been fine. But there are a lot of comments in this thread that are legitimately upset because they can't realize the scenario is just for demonstration.
/r/MensRights14/09/16 09:43 PM
3

Have you ever heard of a dramatization? It's pretty obvious the scenario she described in the video is just a demonstration.
/r/MensRights14/09/16 09:39 PM
4

You can hate that, but that hate doesn't belong directed at the video. The video is an attempt to change the fact that society thinks it's normal.
/r/MensRights14/09/16 09:37 PM
1

It's a lighthearted PSA, sure, but it's still a PSA in support of our issues. Stop being upset just because it's not super fucking dramatic.
/r/MensRights14/09/16 09:36 PM
14

Yeah this thread is pissing me off. Some people here are legitimately upset because a PSA in support of an issue we face uses an accessible title and a lighthearted tone. The "slap" she gave her boyfriend, and acting surprised that he didn't like it, is not serious, and it really is obvious if you spend more than 5 seconds thinking about it before getting upset.
/r/MensRights14/09/16 09:35 PM
4

Jesus Christ, this is a PSA. How the fuck do you guys manage to be so offended about something that's actually in support of us?
/r/MensRights14/09/16 09:33 PM
123

It's fairly obvious that this line is tongue-in-cheek. Can we stop over-analyzing every single minute detail in a video that's actually serving as a PSA for a very real issue we face? We need to be grateful that videos like this even exist instead of being offended that she included a small joke.
/r/MensRights14/09/16 09:31 PM
35

Can we not encourage this kind of whiny attitude? The video is a PSA. It's incredibly obvious that she didn't actually approve of slapping her boyfriend, nor was she actually surprised that he wasn't okay with it. It was a hypothetical scenario created for the purpose of demonstration. We need to stop being offended about something lighthearted when it's actually in support of the issues we face.
/r/MensRights14/09/16 09:29 PM
7

Like literally how can a single celebrity even claim to be non-priviledged, you make like $50,000 a day. You don't get to say you're oppressed at that point.
/r/MensRights07/09/16 07:34 PM
3

I kind of just want to know like tears up why me? It doesn't really make sense. A quote from the girl. Sounds like she wouldn't care about a rape case that didn't involve her. Edit: I would like the mods to be aware of the fact that I received this message as a response to my comment. While my comment may have been disagreeable, such a message is unacceptable.
/r/MensRights05/09/16 08:01 PM
12

So you don't think that many things posted here are legitimate problems? (This isn't so much)
/r/MensRights05/08/16 04:00 PM
5

Lol
/r/MensRights25/07/16 06:28 PM
6

Lol
/r/MensRights25/07/16 06:27 PM
96

Jesus fucking Christ, the article cites two anecdotal stories from two women about how "being in prison sucked". Gee, no wonder prison isn't a very fun experience, better change it so women don't have to go there, it's bad for their mental health after all! The sense of entitlement is stunning.
/r/MensRights28/04/16 11:36 AM
2

As someone who is currently in school to be a music teacher, this article really got me thinking about things.
/r/MensRights23/04/16 09:42 PM
1

It's no longer accessible on Imgur... that's odd to me. Does anyone have a mirror?
/r/MensRights22/04/16 07:02 PM
2

It's a joke about the wage gap, only 78% of a million.
/r/MensRights09/11/15 01:44 PM
11

Hey everyone, OP here of the original thread here. I want to say that I appreciate the support. To clarify my intentions, I was not trying to incite some sort of war of the sexes. I've struggled with mental health for over 5 years now, and although I'm usually fine, sometimes my depression comes back. I had never really posted on /r/depression and I figured it would be a supportive, safe place to vent out my feelings. Since it's a safe assumption that many users there have experience with depres…
/r/MGTOW21/10/15 02:07 PM
6

I didn't even know that sub existed; I'll keep it in mind for next time.
/r/MensRights28/09/14 04:53 AM
25

Plug for /r/nottheonion
/r/MensRights24/06/14 05:38 PM
1

I don't entirely agree with you, but I see your point. I'm sorry about the downvotes. You don't deserve them for contributing to the discussion
/r/MensRights04/02/14 09:47 PM
3

Lol yeah, I'm surprised people can recognize it by the flyer alone.
/r/MensRights04/02/14 03:00 PM
4

I've always heard this quote intended as a joke, with the punchline being that instead, "we'd just have a bunch of angry countries not speaking to each other". When used as a joke, I feel it's not offensive to either sex, at least not one more than the other.
/r/MensRights02/02/14 02:49 PM
2

If you haven't already, you could x-post this to /r/PussyPass (I would link it but I'm on mobile)
/r/MensRights01/02/14 02:33 AM
1

Absolutely. I plan on reading more of it over the weekend. I find it very fascinating.
/r/PussyPass10/01/14 01:48 PM
1

I completely understand, and agree. Just today, I directly referenced your point about stereotypes versus racism, that a stereotype is factually based and not necessarily racist (I apologize if I'm not speaking very coherently; it's almost midnight here). I also borrowed your correlation versus causation argument - perhaps the best explanation of a point I've previously failed to explain - when my friend mistakenly called a stereotype racist (impeccable timing, I know). I think I need to be goin…
/r/PussyPass09/01/14 04:45 AM
1

I read about one page the other night when I first discovered it, but I haven't had time to sit down and read anything close to the majority of it. I do find philosophy fascinating, even though I have no formal (or even informal) education on it. The post I recall the best was about the woman who accused a Facebook image of being racist, despite not having any mention of racist. I've seen that image before, and while I was smart enough to understand that it was not racist, I'd never before consi…
/r/PussyPass09/01/14 04:29 AM
1

I can't say I can relate to your drug problem, although I do understand that many people struggle with it. At the very least, I know you're very intelligent. I don't feel I can really change the way you feel about this, but I want you to know that even though I don't know you (other than what I saw in your post history), I care about you. I'll never meet you, as I live in the U.S., and I may not ever communicate with you ever again, on reddit or otherwise, but the thought of you hurting yourself…
/r/PussyPass09/01/14 03:15 AM
1

I know exactly how you feel. Trust me. You're not alone in feeling this way; if nothing else I say to you matters, at least listen to that. As far as being forcefully taken to a "loony bin", I cannot deny your claim, as I do not know you or your life, but I can tell you my experience. When I was in high school, my depression was controlling my life. Every day I went home and cried myself to sleep about how badly I wanted to end my life. I made stupid facebook posts about how terrible my life was…
/r/PussyPass08/01/14 02:46 AM
1

I'm not sure if anything has changed for you in a month, but if I can still reach you: you're NOT a freak. You seem to exhibit symptoms of clinical depression, a disorder I've suffered from for over 4 years. I'm not a therapist, psychiatrist, etc., but I've been to them, and they really do help. If you truly believe you may harm yourself or others, I highly recommend, in fact I ask of you, to call someone, perhaps Suicide HotLine. You can remain anonymous if you so choose. If you are a student, …
/r/PussyPass06/01/14 11:18 PM
1

Yea, I see that point. It's a bit hard to explain, but I was in a music theory/lecture class, and the teacher was working with another student privately, trying to help improve one of their assignments. I wasn't working because most of that class is listening and taking notes, which there wasn't anything to take notes on at the time. I think you're right about striking versus restraining, but I admit I'm not perfect and acted out of frustration.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 05:45 PM
1

I think in general, this can pertain to the quality of the date in general. (Sorry for the redundancy) Taking a woman to McDonalds surely couldn't be as pleasurable as, say, a common $10-$15 per person dine-in, regardless of who/how you pay. I also don't have any problem with treating a woman to a dinner or drinks or etc., so long as I'm doing it because it's a nice thing to do and not because I'm "supposed" too.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 03:40 AM
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