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I have been a Greyhound driver for four years. I read online that tour bus is difficult to get into, like toubjave to know someone who knows someone. Is this true? How bad is this shortage?
/r/askTRP26/05/18 05:36 AM
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I see. I always thought I looked homosexual in flat shorts. I will try a pair and see how it goes, andkeep cargo shorts around for lazy days and fishing.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 09:57 PM
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Out of curiosity, why no cargo shorts?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 09:07 PM
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I will tell you this empathetically. I too was cheated on. 14 year marriage down the tubes. Red flags were up before we even fucked 15 years ago, but I ignored because I was beta and I could "fix" her. You can't. Ever. You can only ever fix you. I came here a year ago, trying to fix my marriage. Read side bar, started lifting. I caught on to her cheating shortly after, and I reverted back to beta and did the pick me dance. It doesn't work. Trust me. And for me, it wasn't even the sex she had. It…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 01:16 PM
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In the words of a small little known band from Austin, TX: You're not the one with all the problems, no you're not the one with all the problems. She's the one that's full of shit! So just pick your head up, boy, and walk away. Walk the coolest walk that you know. I know you know that in a month or two the bitch will call you...You gotta...hang up the phone!
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 10:50 PM
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I don't like blocking people. But my advice is to block until you are sure you are 100% idgaf over her. Because one message is all it takes to pick open the scab on your heart. Once you are sure you are healed, you can unblock if you so choose, but still don't contact.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 07:33 PM
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Come to think of it, when I do listen to podcasts, I am not in my head like I am when I listen to music. Time to find more podcasts!!
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 10:27 PM
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I get as much work as I can done. I am only have one day off, and outside of that am home three days a week for 12 hours. The house is never going to be perfect, so I have decided that instead of trying to be perfect, I will do what is on my list, and then take some me time. Finances are fine, as in I am now settled into a budget that allows me to pay off our debt.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/17 07:22 PM
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Not yet. Maybe one day
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/17 06:12 PM
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Alright buddy. LOL I don't feel like typing up a formatted thesis on my phone in the short time I have to take a breather from my schedule, therefore I will always suck at life. Have fun with that.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/17 09:24 PM
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Yep. Had this issue with my wife. I got bitched at incessantly because I: -Didn't wash clothes properly -Didn't wash dishes properly -Didn't sweep properly -Didn't mop properly -Didn't vacuum properly -Didn't put things away properly -Didn't clean properly -Didn't dress the kids properly -Etc etc Then get bitched at because I made myself scarce when she was doing those things, because no matter how I did it, it wasn't done properly (never mind that the definition of "properly" is constantly in f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 09:13 PM
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Positives: Not being so needy anymore, and I am getting better at pushing the hamster out of my head on my long drives at work. Finished a week at the gym. No n00b gains showing yet. lol. The soreness feels good. Taking care of the home as much as I can. Haven't played vidya in awhile. I might play a few hours this week, as that is one of my hobbies (along with fishing). Finances are okay for now. Still clawing my way out of CC debt, but it will get there. Went from a strict no touching her poli…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/17 10:36 AM
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The e-cig is gods gift to smokers and I vape to this day at a low nicotine down from 20mg. Otherwise, go cold turkey and just do it. I have a vape mod. Cigs are more convenient. I will leave for work today with just the mod. Why do you struggle? Because that has been the basis of our relationship. I do good stuff, and she puts out. I don't, and she gets mad and withholds sex. It is just a 16 year habit that I need to break. Its your domain, your responsibility, own it. You do things because they…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/17 11:21 PM
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I like the Art of Manliness videos on proper lifting form. The trainer explains very well, but also explains WHY it is done like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/17 09:04 AM
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OMS Started lifting yesterday morning. Got back to town at 5AM and went straight to the gym. I am doing GreySkull+Arms. Was very self conscious, but hopefully that will fade away. Had no issue with bench press or curls...too little weight, but I know I will be getting my ass kicked in about a week. Squats though, good lord. Just the bar left my legs like jello, and I am taking the stairs in the house like a grandma. LOL. Also started keeping track of my food intake. I keep buying cigarettes. I n…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/17 08:50 AM
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I think my only problem is self consciousness. I will be starting with just the bar, and will probably fail that. I did join a gym the other day, and I start tomorrow when I get back in town.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/17 11:42 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/askMRP29/07/17 09:42 PM
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These things suck.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/17 09:39 PM
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I checked on my peanuts. No sugar. Just spices to make them spicy. Also the label warns that my bag of peanuts contains peanut ingredients. 🤔 A cooler is a grand idea. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/17 09:38 PM
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I am new to MRP. I think our situation is a little unique (we are both long distance bus drivers), so some ideas I have read here might need to be modified a bit. But I will play it by ear. The worst that can happen is that I set myself back a bit. Just started to fake it till I make it. The wife always wants to draw me into arguments. Shit tests. I have passed a few and failed a few. I am getting a few unsolicited "I love you"'s, which is nice. Some I kind of ignored, and some I respond back. D…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/17 12:05 AM
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No, it isn't. I don't plan it to be either. Right now I am letting what ifs go, because I don't have any ground to stand on. I can't have a logical argument with her, and so the only option is throw divorce into the mix, but at this time I can't handle that. So I do what I do, until I can kill nice Guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/17 01:58 PM
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Do you think I should read WISNIFG before TRM? About a month ago, I started eating right. Right now I am doing basic abdominal stuff, trying to get rid of the fat on my belly. Crunches, heel touches, leg lifts, planking, etc. Save for one short lifting stint about 12 years ago, I haven't done shit since high school. I am familiar with barbell lifts, though. And no mobility issues. I am about to leave to search for a gym. I have a few that I want to check out. I am hopeful that the one a few bloc…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/17 01:53 PM
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Yep. I am scared. I don't have the mental fortitude for that shit just yet. I just barely started playing alpha. I LOL because our relationship has turned into something ridiculous. I had taken to laughing at her blow ups, because that was the only way I could deal with it. Habit. We don't usually text while in the same house. I can't remember the last time that happened, actually. But getting a sorry out of her is equally as rare. Usually shit was shovelled under the rug and we would continue o…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/17 01:41 PM
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I agree, but I think there is a misunderstanding. The constant phone calls and wall texts and emails were from me doing beta shit after the fact.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/17 01:24 PM
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We both work for the same company as drivers. She is taking a month off right now to get some college courses in. We don't have a computer at home, so she sometimes stays late to use computers at the college. I am just rationalizing it as an emotional affair, because she said it was "just friends", and the thought of more sickens me and makes me crazy, so I am going with that, because at this point in time, I can't mentally deal with that.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/17 01:19 PM
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I downloaded the app last night. Will be using it soon!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/17 01:10 PM
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Not about logistics. Good point. I was debating on answering her or not. I did wait about 30 minutes before responding. So there is that. Usually I was instant with texting back. Yes. Going a gym tomorrow. Should I start working dread immediately or after I have worked into better shape?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/17 04:01 AM
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Incoming puke Throughout the first five years of our marriage I still was playing the game, looking and finding women. those are always thrown in my face in every argument. She has been petty and bitchy since the beginning, but I was beta and low self esteem, as I said before. So I just dealt with it and let her walk all over me. I went into my shell and did what I do to escape (drinking and video games). I ignored her the whole time, but also ignored me. She has said many times over the years t…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/17 03:55 AM
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No Rambo here. It takes time to turn a ship. Just doing what needs to be done right now, and trying to purge Mr. Nice Guy. We have been married 15 years. So that is 15 months. I haven't started lifting yet. Going to go tomorrow and join a gym.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/17 02:20 AM
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