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Question For Menxxfukai/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 01:02 AM
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Ah okay. I’ve just never seen in myself in several years.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 10:25 PM
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It’s actually MORE telling to me that women initiate the majority of divorces. To me that says that the men who aren’t actively pursuing divorce are complacent, abusive, ignorant, or malicious in their intentions.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 09:56 PM
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I’ve actually never seen this claim made genuinely. I have, however, seen posts and comments from men considered conventionally unattractive, aren’t wealthy, are short, or one of another number of things y’all talk about on here.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 09:50 PM
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Trust me my height has very little to do with how my relationship is going, it just seems like you’re giving up before you even try. And yes, things are going well for us. We’re engaged and getting married probably soon after I graduate from university.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 04:25 PM
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I don’t really understand why it matters if random women are attracted to you tho, I used to feel the same way and I felt that way because I was deeply unhappy with myself. I’m a lot happier, more confident, and my self esteem is better. I don’t care what random women think about me now.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 10:25 PM
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That’s a grim outlook bro. That’s not healthy. That’s also a lot of assumptions about my relationship. You only know that I’m 5’1” and male and literally nothing else. Sorry you’re feeling defeated bro
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 09:46 PM
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Definitely all luck and not my other traits like kind, compassionate, intelligent, funny, witty, empathetic, slow to anger. None of those things for sure
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 09:45 PM
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Sure but think about why I’m an exception? Just trying to think about objective information here
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 08:27 PM
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In my 20s.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 08:26 PM
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I’m 5’1” and I’m in a long term relationship, what explains that?
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 04:48 PM
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Damn. This is wild, when did you last get your neurological functioning tested?
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 03:17 AM
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Right, I feel like I need a bag of popcorn
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 03:17 AM
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The war that’s going on is awful, I truly feel for the innocent civilians who have nothing to do with it and are caught in the middle. I’m sorry life is so rough man. I hope it gets better, you’re never alone. There are people who care. Depression is a horrible disease and you don’t deserve to fight it alone. Godspeed brother
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 12:14 AM
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You know how you’ll see people out in public and you’ll think “wow they’re really pretty/attractive/etc” people definitely think that about you but just don’t say anything. It’s statistically highly unlikely that no one sees you in public and thinks you’re handsome or good looking. Humans are bad at telling each other nice things. It’ll happen bro.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 12:13 AM
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Oh that’s odd. I’m sorry that happened to you man. I hope there’s resources you can look into. There’s no shame in needing help brother
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 12:10 AM
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Therapy definitely doesn’t work for everyone, I’m trying to figure out the best method myself. There’s lots of different types and also different types of providers with different levels of education. Some therapists are honestly just bad at it. It could be that their style doesn’t work for you either. But then again, like I said, it’s not the best option for everyone
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 09:44 PM
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Oh god, that’s awful. I’m not religious by most people’s standards, I have my own beliefs but they’re more based in my heritage than an official church. I would absolutely not want to hear that if I were calling for mental health support. Is your country very religious? Seems unethical.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 09:30 PM
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Different groups of people have been treated in different ways in different places throughout human history
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 03:17 AM
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Hm. I just think it would be better to agree to disagree. I don’t think we’re going to agree on this. I wish you the best.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 03:17 AM
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I definitely think this is a result of ableism and the way autistic people are treated in society. Misogyny and ableism interacting probably affects the way autistic women are treated too, they’re diagnosed a lot later in life than men. Autistic people definitely need to be treated better. I really only date other people with either ASD or ADHD because they understand me better
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 03:16 AM
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Yeah you’re probably right. I guess I just saw so many posts (not all of them, some people are more extreme in their frustrations than others and end up being a dck about it) that really just seemed like they were getting down on themselves and internalizing all the bad things they see on the Internet or w/e. I know a lot of guys (including myself) might go days without being asked how their day is by someone who’s genuinely interested. I thought I would at least try to change that for a few guy…
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 03:09 AM
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Hey man I’m sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 03:07 AM
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I feel like it’s probably less rare than you think it is. There are definitely some people in general who have ridiculous expectations for their partners. They’re honestly just immature and they’re never gonna be happy if they can’t consider options outside of their shallow expectations. You’ll find love one day bro. Godspeed.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 03:05 AM
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Is there a help line or something you could call and ask about how to get insurance and get started with that and stuff? If you think about it, even if it is 4 years from now, those 4 years are gonna pass anyway, so it would be better to not put it off even longer. I wish you the best bro
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 03:04 AM
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I’m sorry to hear that. I hope things get better bro
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 03:02 AM
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Hating women because you can’t get laid is in no way comparable to systemic injustice and you’re well aware of that.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 07:44 PM
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I’m sorry man. I hope it gets better for you.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 10:23 AM
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Yeah I saw that. But that doesn’t really prove your point. Having less children doesn’t equate to having less sexual or romantic partners, and there could be tons of other factors that affected men having children in that time period overall
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 10:22 AM
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Ok then :)
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:52 AM
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I’m a university student too and I see a lot of people on campus who are definitely older than me. I don’t think 26 is too late to go back, it’s better than never going back. Good on you! And everyone is on their own timeline. The whole idea of finishing university in the 4 years following graduating high school is such a sham. Most people aren’t like that. And honestly I’m sure your height is fine. Men of all heights date and find love. And if cosmetic surgery is something you wanna go for one …
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:51 AM
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Have a good day/night wherever you are. I hope it gets better for you. Doom all the time isn’t good for the psyche.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:45 AM
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Yeah man. I think you should do the same. Focusing on everything that’s negative all the time just kinda sucks. Life is weird and the universe is just organized chaos. Idk, find something you’re passionate about
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:42 AM
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I mean yeah I didn’t ask to exist either. I’m just kinda here and now I have to pay taxes and shit. I got a load of mental problems that I didn’t ask for among other things. That doesn’t mean that I can’t do what makes me happy while I’m here.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:39 AM
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I’m not really sure how births of people who are now elderly in Sweden is relevant…?
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:37 AM
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Do you have a source? Genuinely wondering.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:27 AM
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I don’t think it’s too late for anyone tbh. I think a lot of men feel that way. But I hope your surgery is able to help you feel more confident. I’m sorry about the failed relationship man, sounds like she just wasn’t the one.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:25 AM
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Suffering is a characteristic of life, sure. Life has many facets and experiences. I’m sorry you feel like you’d rather die than live. I used to feel like that too. I don’t personally feel like I’m allowed to decide who lives or dies in any context, including myself. Life is weird and chaotic, find something you love and cling onto it for dear life.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:24 AM
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I don’t understand what you’re insinuating. I’m a short autistic man that’s planning a wedding. Those things seem particularly important to incels, but when I point that out, they continue to shift the blame onto other things. So I’m not quite sure what’s clicking. I guess I would say that I’m funny and quite a caring and understanding person, so I’m sure that’s very attractive to some people.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:22 AM
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You keep replying tho?
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:20 AM
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I’m not really there to meet women though. I’m there to have fun. Get dressed up and a few shots in and I’m sure you’ll be able to talk up a woman too
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:20 AM
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That’s true, but sometimes it’s small steps to realize fulfillment comes within. When I was in a very dark place I would live for my favorite songs or my favorite snacks even. Just continuing steps and improvement.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:19 AM
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Cochino
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:17 AM
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I’ve done a lot to improve myself over the past several years. I’ve been in therapy since I was a teenager and I’ve gone through a lot of periods of self discovery and learning self acceptance and how to love myself for who I am. Sorry that’s not a super great answer, but my fiancée is autistic as well. I have a hard time even being friends with people who aren’t autistic.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:17 AM
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Hell yeah! That sounds awesome. I hope you have a good time.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:14 AM
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It’s just an expression. I just hope you find something in life that’s fulfilling and makes you happy. You just don’t really seem like you’re chillin I guess
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:46 AM
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I’m not sure how I was being passive aggressive? I’m just telling you that I hope you find something that makes you smile.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:33 AM
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:)
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:30 AM
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Yeah life is full of a lot of ugly things. I have to focus on the good things though to not be miserable all the time. Being miserable and depressed just sucks. But there are good things, I’m sure you’ll find something that can make you smile.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:30 AM
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Oh okay I guess… lol
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:29 AM
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You have a point. Just sucks to see so many people so sad about so many things. I hope it gets better for you.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:27 AM
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Lol HR is definitely not my goal. HR is full of assholes. Have a good day/night though, I hope you’re able to deal with whatever is bothering you.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:26 AM
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As I said to you before, you truly don’t know anything about me. I’m sure your life is very hard. There’s definitely things you can do to even slightly improve your situation tho.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:26 AM
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I’m a manlet too bro! 5’1” or 155cm. I’ve always wanted to go clubbing alone actually. I’m not very good at socializing especially with strangers tho, so the idea of just drinking and dancing by myself sounds awesome. I like to get all spiffy before going out too. The women I’ve met at clubs though are usually really nice and open to a casual chat.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:25 AM
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My answers aren’t fake. I’m putting a lot of effort into trying to actually be helpful. You seem really upset though. I know y’all all have a lot going on, it just seems unhelpful to always bring each other down and constantly talk about how ugly you are or how awful everything is. It’s a vicious cycle.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:23 AM
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Always, man. Life is exhausting
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:21 AM
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Getting medicated isn’t that hard! I’m not sure where you’re located but in the US you can look up what clinics around you are “in network” with your insurance, then schedule an appointment with a medication manager and they should be able to get you fixed up. Not gonna lie I understand the feeling of impending doom tho.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:20 AM
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Well then I hope all your days are good for your sake!
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:19 AM
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I hate that feeling. I think a lot of it is capitalism honestly. Karl Marx’s theory of alienation really resonates with me and it seems pretty accurate. (I’m not a communist for the record) I hope you’re able to do something fun or fulfilling soon.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:18 AM
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I know very little about the person I responded to just as you know very little about me. That’s how the Internet works.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:17 AM
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I didn’t realize being kind to people was considered political. You seem really angry though.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:16 AM
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I’m not trying to come across as patronizing. Just seems like a lot of guys in this space that are dealing with a lot mentally and not going about it in the best way.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:16 AM
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LMAO ok not gonna lie this got a smirk out of me
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:15 AM
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I’m sure your face is just fine man. Everyone’s face is different and someone one day is gonna think yours is awesome.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:14 AM
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I don’t think those are the only two options. I think white supremacy has a lot to do with it. And men have historically set the bar for what is and is not considered attractive for men and women.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:14 AM
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Can’t tell if these are song lyrics but either way sounds like you’re having a tough time. Do you have any friends you can vent to? If you take medication have you been taking your doses? Do you have a therapist you can contact? It might be good to fill your time with activities that are fulfilling too. I’ve been listening to audiobooks recently on my long drives.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 02:40 AM
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I hope your business succeeds man, Godspeed. I get depression, I also struggle with it. I hope you can pat yourself on the back and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small they are.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 02:38 AM
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I mean sure. It starts with you though. You have the ability to treat people the way you want to be treated. Everyone alive makes up a portion of the entire world’s social ecosystem. Just by being kind to other people and being outspoken about how the world could be a better place, you really could make a difference, even if it’s just in your little pocket of the world.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 02:27 AM
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Oh whoops, I guess I did say the banned word. I didn’t realize. Note taken!
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 01:55 AM
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There’s unfortunately a lot of hateful people in this world and racists are everywhere. In my cultural background it’s kind of an in-group stereotype that our men are controlling and abusive. I had to learn to stop thinking that because that’s what I was raised to believe. And I’ve met plenty of other men in my ethnic group that aren’t like that. It’s def possible that women of your ethnic group are scared because of the things they see happen all the time. It might be better to just quietly mak…
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 01:55 AM
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No I didn’t, I’m not sure what triggered it honestly
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 01:27 AM
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Circumcision is a horrible practice. I hope it is eventually banned everywhere. I know that if I have a son I will not be putting him through that. I’m so sorry that happened to you.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 01:27 AM
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Hey man that’s good! Working out is great for stress relief too.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 01:26 AM
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It sucks that so many women feel that way. Society overall is still pretty homophobic. That doesn’t exclude people who claim to be progressive. I definitely agree that refusing to date someone that’s bisexual for the sole reason of the gender of their previous partners is homophobic and biphobic. And gay is definitely not an insult. The people who use it as an insult or a gotcha are just aholes. If you’re bisexual you’re great and I hope you get a steaming hot partner
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 12:57 AM
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Capitalism sucks bro. I hate being broke. But there’s no reason to get down on yourself. Poor people, disabled people, brown people, people with trauma can all learn how to improve themselves and live their version of happiness. It’ll get better man
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 12:50 AM
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I’m autistic and 5’1” and I’m engaged, it’s not impossible bro. People are always growing and changing. There’s things about themselves that everyone in the world could work on. Make small steps and be confident. You got this
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 12:47 AM
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That can definitely be the case I think. Being conventionally attractive pretty much means being appealing to the dominant culture which in a lot of places is white. I’ve seen a lot of people in spaces like this specifically dislike their ethnic features simply because they’re ethnic. It’s sad actually… men of all colors and ethnicities can be handsome.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 12:44 AM
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That’s silly. I was just saying racism causes people to loathe themselves or hide parts of themselves to seem more appealing.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 12:42 AM
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Sounds like you’re having a rough time man. Have you thought about seeing a mental health specialist? It sounds like you’re externalizing your self hatred onto people who didn’t do anything to you. It’s okay to be rejected. That doesn’t mean you’re subhuman, it just means you’re not compatible. Human connection is pretty dope. I have to have my alone time too but humans can be pretty neat when you find good ones.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 12:40 AM
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Why are you blaming women of color for being conditioned to be self-hating? It happens to men too for sure. A lot of people of color are shamed into hiding any of their ethnic features or characteristics that are seen as undesirable or unacceptable.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 12:38 AM
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Hey now, I know i overproduce earwax but it’s not that bad :( and idk what else I have, eczema?
/r/AllPillDebate13/05/23 12:30 AM
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You probably smell like roast beef and regret
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 11:08 PM
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I’ll tell my psychiatrist next time I see him thx 3>
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 11:06 PM
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TLDR; please wash your ass
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 06:09 PM
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Well the op is dumb as hell. Put in effort when you’re dating, sure. But also put in effort every other time because taking care of yourself is a great way to alleviate depression. Don’t completely change who you are for a woman, but effort is good and appreciated. But as for your comment, it’s not superficial to want to be with someone who puts in effort into their appearance and their personal growth. And acting like someone you hypothetically would be dating is going to fuck you over is prett…
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 06:09 PM
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Yes, everyone believes me all the time because I’m perfect! Glad we agree
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 06:35 AM
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Nah, I’m not lying, I’m just also dumb as hell and love making idiots mad
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 06:34 AM
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Arf arf arf
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 06:30 AM
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My last sentence was sarcastic if you didn’t catch that, I’m certified to perform social research, I work in sociology. I know more than you :)
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 06:19 AM
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No, the findings are statistically significant, but for a study to be valid it has to have a decent sample size (2000~ people for social research surveys) and the questions have to be comparable in a way that will actually show the reality of the findings. The methodology sucks because it’s self-reported, the questions aren’t objective. Better findings would be like, “67% of men versus 83% of women report receiving unwanted sexually suggestive or explicit messages on dating apps.” That would be …
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 06:15 AM
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Please wash your ass
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 05:58 AM
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The methodology on this kinda sucks. Needs to be more objective.
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 05:53 AM
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