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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	It wasn’t entirely your fault. Adultery should never be forgiven. Details please.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/06/26 10:42 PM
1	It wasn’t entirely your fault. Adultery should never be forgiven. Nah things can be fixed but it takes work and two people wanting to https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-to-do-after-an-affair/ the divorce rate would be a lot higher otherwise. “Overall, about 20% of married men and 13% of married women admit to having sexual relations outside of their marriage. When including emotional affairs, these rates climb to roughly 45% of men and 35% of women.” https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america https://www.affairhealing.com…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/06/26 10:40 PM
5	Tough times Agreed two people have suggested it. Terrible advice.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/25 08:15 AM
8	Tough times Mods need to sticky this, you nailed it.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/25 08:14 AM
11	Tough times Never go full scorched earth without talking to a lawyer, moving out could be seen as abandoning the marital home and children for example. Don't think with your dick or emotions, keep a cool head, find a good therapist (try a few) and seek legal counsel as soon as possible.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/25 08:13 AM
0	Why do I keep getting pulled back in after infidelity? Why not try to open the relationship up or at least get her permission to stray while you work on intimacy with her?	/r/Divorce_Men	27/12/25 11:26 PM
3	Help me understand why A lot of women you are paying are trafficked. That alone is enough for me, but: I have a daughter. We are not entitled to sex. Picking up women is fun, I do it for the love of the game.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/25 09:47 PM
3	Its Over How is the ex-wife doing?	/r/Divorce_Men	23/12/25 10:22 PM
0	No one is perfect, we're all work in progress. Have you ever tried to fix things rather than change the current person for a "perfect" person? 😂😂😂 he and his family do and your advice sucks a fat one. Relationships can be fixed as well, but it takes two people to work on it. Look at Jay-Z and Beyoncé. Listen to 4:44. Listen to him be accountable. Then listen to Lemonade and learn to never make a woman feel like that ever again. Is my relationship fixable? I’m 95% sure it isn’t but that doesn’t mean all of them are doomed. I’m sorry someone hurt you but your comment is just flat out wrong.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/25 01:15 AM
0	No one is perfect, we're all work in progress. Have you ever tried to fix things rather than change the current person for a "perfect" person? Get your head out of your ass. I wasn’t there to support their journey and autonomy. They said they were a broken addict. We solved the problem and ended the pain by hitting the gym. The help came after their addiction was gone.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/25 12:53 AM
2	No one is perfect, we're all work in progress. Have you ever tried to fix things rather than change the current person for a "perfect" person? lol I fix my friends all the time. I helped one quit Meth for example. Conflict is a part of most deep relationships, it's how/if you resolve it that matters.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/12/25 10:38 PM
1	Caught between my ex’s family and my current relationship Eh it's his GF not his new wife.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/12/25 10:39 AM
12	Dating apps over 50 (or 40) Yeah, i've had women who wanted "long-term" fuck on the first night. For the most part they don't know what they want, they just know how they feel. It's a part of the reason we are all on this sub.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/12/25 03:45 PM
2	Dating apps over 50 (or 40) Yep. My partner has filed but if we go through with it i'm hitting every dance and painting class I can find. Luckily i'm in shape, sober, and look a lot younger than I am.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/12/25 03:43 PM
3	Dating apps over 50 (or 40) My assumption is they feel like they’re running out of time.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/12/25 02:02 PM
5	Why do so many women refuse to be accountable and/or accept fault? I am in a similar boat. I have two toddlers but I grieve my first son who had to be aborted to ensure my wife’s life. Our marriage started falling apart immediately after he died.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/12/25 12:17 AM
2	Thoughts on Situation It's good feedback except for "you can be sure to someone always needs to be serviced by someone". I wouldn't assume this is the case. I did and I am paying the price after losing my patience. Asexual people and women going through peri-menopause and menopause exist.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/25 12:10 AM
2	Mental health has left the building It takes a while to get it right and it’s trial and error. Speak to your psychiatrist so they can change your dosage or give you something stronger for “break glass in case of emergency” type situations. Godspeed brother you got this.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/12/25 07:39 PM
1	Mental health has left the building If you are not, get medicated ASAP.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/12/25 07:28 PM
17	She cheated but I stayed Don’t be a dipshit, do the paternity test. You don’t have to divorce her but not making sure it’s your kid is asinine.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/12/25 03:09 AM
1	The perception from people when she leaves you "I have never been more trapped and hopeless than being with a girl who doesn't bathe. She would like wipe herself down with wipes." Holy fuck.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/12/25 11:24 PM
1	Day 1 If you walk into the woods take some mushrooms first, you’ll feel better, and you’ll walk out better off.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/12/25 10:46 PM
3	Looking for Advice – Missing Intimacy and Connection After 25 Years Together Similar situation for me, but throw in 2 year old toddlers, and my assumption that at 40 she is experiencing peri menopause. Don’t be me: I cheated (thinking she gave me permission) and now she’s going to file for divorce soon, our marriage counseling is about becoming good co-parents, and now it’s a shit show as we are visiting my family for Christmas. Just end it amicably, maybe starting the process will wake her up.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/12/25 10:44 PM