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How is it impacting her school and family life?
/r/seduction11/09/17 08:29 PM
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Posted this the other day but still relevant. Finding relationships is like the airline safety announcement. Help yourself before helping others. Find things that interest you. Travel. Take a rec class. Make friends. If you're feeling that way, you need to work on making you happy before finding a partner to make you happy. Only you can make you happy.
/r/seduction24/10/16 01:26 PM
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Trying to find a relationship is a lot like those safety videos you hear on an airplane. Help yourself before helping others. Find a hobby, recreational league sports, hang out in the workout room of your building, go to the gym, make friends at work. You really have to be whole before giving yourself to others. Focus on what makes you happy.
/r/seduction22/10/16 03:50 PM
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I know I'll get downvoted, but here you go. Endorsed contributions support the belief that women are holes to fuck, support marital rape, controlling a relationship by cutting off the girl from her family and friends, and sometimes, straight up abuse. It's a sub that seems acceptable on /r/seduction due to some notions of "self-improvement", but not something you want to be associated with IRL, and you never want to tell a girl you're after that you're a RedPiller.
/r/seduction07/11/14 04:39 AM
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The life of the party is always sexy. It's the type of guy you wanna be around and be seen with. It's what makes everything fun. Good job.
/r/seduction10/09/14 12:22 PM
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Ignoring the fact that the subject of the inquiry greatly matters: 1.) Women can give men dating advice everywhere else, especially IRL--just not on TRP. Who better to ask than a girl's best friend for what she likes/hates? Doesn't matter whether you're male or female; if you're not in with the friends, it's not going to last. Asking for others' opinions is an easy way to be endearing and make friends easily. 2) You should ask for dating advice from intelligent, rational people or those who have…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/14 12:44 AM
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A claim to which I have agreed with multiple times. I merely pointed out that not reading led you to make a false observation. Please don't construe it as a personal attack or a cap to your potential. No internet stranger should make you feel negatively about yourself. Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/14 12:16 AM
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You can't do a good job refuting something you didn't read. I agreed with you on the limitations of the sample as an incomplete representation. However, I also pointed out that TRP often advocates hurting others, and that these are topics that are frequently brought up on TRP. What's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/14 11:48 PM
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Sorry, that's incorrect. Check again. There are 123 screenshots without ANY comments in the negative. (This is also not including screenshots of threads with heavily upvoted comments, and instead, counting them as "downvoted" due to one comment in the negative.)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/14 10:25 PM
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Uh....Most of them are still positive votes. I don't know if they're "heavily downvoted," if they're not negative in downvotes. (The red in RES is from a user that probably posted these screenshots to Imgur. This is not my OC btw.)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/14 10:16 PM
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Grammar is sexy. This sub never talks about it, but intelligence sans pretension is hot.
/r/seduction12/07/14 06:02 PM
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Bro, your game is weak
/r/seduction05/07/14 12:09 AM
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I got this
/r/seduction04/07/14 08:50 PM
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This is really true. It's the worst thing ever when a guy does the "Aww that's so cute, C'mere" thing and puts his arm around me. It's really cringey and I can't get away. It's awkward and uncomfortable. Dancing, on the other hand, is more natural and has a lot more potential to escalate. You can just skip the creepy stuff and get straight to it. You seem more confident if you ask a girl to dance instead, too.
/r/seduction04/07/14 08:44 PM
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Just like most people don't like friends that try to sell them things all the time. Hey, you're getting somewhere.
/r/seduction01/07/14 09:09 AM
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Well, it doesn't sound that bad to guys, but it's bathroom talk for the girls. Pretty much any "lines" or stringent PUA is pretty cringey to some of us. I've been subbed here for a while because it helped me understand why some guys do the things they do. Approaches that are like cold calls are strange and awkward and only really effective if her girls are gone and she's drunk. OPs post is really spot on for how to approach girls pleasantly and effectively.
/r/seduction30/06/14 10:25 PM
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It made me want to evaporate.
/r/seduction30/06/14 09:04 PM
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Improv teaches you to think very quickly on your feet and forces you to work with what you have. Go to some improv theater. It's really funny. Improvisation is just making things up on the spot and performing a scene. I went to a Shakespeare improv recently, and it was amazing how the actors freestyled in iambic pentameter while performing a scene about an all out war in the frozen tundra.
/r/seduction30/06/14 07:04 PM
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A mature comment calling out a lot of closed minded doctrine on this sub. Agree. Definitely not a bad thing to like someone after a personal connection. Badasss squeal AND get the girl.
/r/seduction29/06/14 08:48 PM
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I appreciate this post so much. My girls and I were approached in the most cringey ways possible last night. It's rare for guys to treat you like a person and talk to you normally in these sort of settings. It speaks volumes and shows that you're a confident, genuine, fun, and friendly person if you can just...be normal. It's rare, but it's really nice when I don't have to be on the defensive around someone I just met. Everyone can just have a much better time and it's great to meet new people i…
/r/seduction29/06/14 07:26 PM
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Perf. But actually, mild resemblance actually goes a long way. It's a lot more interesting than, "Hey I just had to stop and talk to you." It's entertaining.
/r/seduction22/04/14 07:58 PM
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As a girl who doesn't use Tinder, I actually think this is so awesome. Instant attention grabber. If you prepared a profile pic of a hot girl that looks mildly similar...you're so golden. Good on you, /u/BadAtParties.
/r/seduction22/04/14 11:25 AM
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Sigh. The driving force for the selectivity of women is stems from social norms and public shame. A male with multiple partners is considered to be a great thing, while the woman with multiple partners is shamed and "dirty." Your "evolutionary" example is lacking and insufficient. It is contradictory of evidence in neuroscience such as the effect of D2 type dopamine receptors on partner preference. Consistent with actual evolutionary theory (not to be confused with trp pseudoscience/armchair psy…
/r/seduction06/04/14 04:13 AM
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Homo sapiens have existed for 200,000 years. "Basic primal sense" is often contrary to civilized society, and not entirely applicable to relationships today as they were hundreds of millenia ago. Otherwise, you're pretty much concluding that everyone on seddit is trying to get girls ultimately for reproduction. Which is absurd.
/r/seduction06/04/14 01:08 AM
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so nothing (no attraction) would happen once he finds out you dont have a desire to create offspring. You're joking, right? Apologies if I missed the sarcasm. Impotent men can still be attractive to females and vice versa. By this logic, adoption would not exist as an institution in our species. Reproduction is a requirement for the continuation of the species, but it is not an individual biological requirement. Some studies show that couples without kids are happier anyways.
/r/seduction05/04/14 07:25 PM
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You're confusing correlation to causation. High testosterone does not cause one to be polygamous. This is a lifestyle choice. For example, high libido associated with high testosterone levels could be mitigated with frequent sex with one partner. It does not refute biological human nature of partner-preference.
/r/seduction05/04/14 06:35 PM
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I'm saying that his reasoning is faulty. By all means, strive to be attractive, athletic, and wealthy, but this is an extreme oversimplification of the psychology of attraction. I never said that social norms don't exist--I actually stated that they drive much of what we value, moreso than his reasoning of "evolutionary psychology" behind the motivations of women. It's to gently correct his oversimplification, as it is a superficial understanding of psychology. It's quite arrogant and incorrect …
/r/seduction05/04/14 05:05 PM
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I feel like your post is really applicable for people in college. It's the appropriate way to go about texting if you're in a high social environment (or if you're just a very social person). And honestly, it's the most natural. Other comments that say that girls overanalyze, well, it's really overanalytical to be hung up on "excited to see you." Its positive, and Ill probably wake up a but earlier to spend more time getting ready. It's hard to give advice in this subreddit because we're all loo…
/r/seduction22/03/14 06:25 AM
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She probably didn't just fall for your voice... I'm sure you have other charming qualities that she appreciated as well.
/r/seduction13/02/14 10:20 PM
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I can't deal with awkward silences. I think it's because I did improv growing up, and it was mortifying at times not being able to think quickly on my feet. I'm a girl, but I feel the need to entertain and engage if someone starts talking to me. Thanks for your comment though. Made me feel slightly less anxious haha.
/r/seduction13/02/14 10:16 PM
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Trigonometry, calculus, and physics explain natural laws, but it's not a neural process. Your brain isn't calculating inverse sin/cos/tan when catching a ball, and it's not calculating the trajectory using physics, with respect to gravity/acceleration, initial velocity, initial position, etc. Catching a ball is learned by spatial relation acquisition and trial and error during childhood. (Which is arguably amazing!) But it's quite silly to think that your brain is doing some Jimmy Neutron Brain …
/r/seduction10/02/14 04:07 PM
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Just have fun. If you want to work out, do it because you want to improve yourself, not for 'getting girls' to be attracted to you. when girls get drunk and start acting on their more primal instincts that I just keep getting passed up for not being big, tall or strong enough. That's probably not what it is. Your friend's probably obviously enjoying himself more, or acts more confidently. Just show that you're enjoying yourself, have fun, be confident, be friendly, be approachable and they'll do…
/r/seduction01/02/14 09:50 PM
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I never said they weren't douches. They just really know how to work women. The most recent story is about my friend who was hitting it off with a military guy after meeting one night at a bar. She hadn't slept with him but they went on one date, and they both established that they didn't want anything more than to have a good time because he was being deployed in a month...Last week, he went to her house for dinner, and they cooked together (relationship stuff, right?) and they ended up fucking…
/r/seduction30/01/14 06:26 AM
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Yes, but they approach/treat girls completely differently than most guys do. It's more about how they carry themselves. Some guys were even a 4-5, objectively speaking, but became a 7-8 when they opened their mouths. Most girls won't think, "Oh you make more than I do as an undergrad, so I think I'll have a one night stand with you."
/r/seduction29/01/14 09:01 PM
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In Denmark There you go, haha! Europe generally doesn't have retarded views of sexuality like we do in the US, so I would think that you wouldn't get as much trouble as you do in the US. I read a paper about MPAA ratings and how Europeans thought that movies like Saw were worse than seeing a guy's dick on screen, but one would be rated NC-17, and the torture-gore film would only be R. Shouldn't have assumed that OP was also from the US either, you're right.
/r/seduction28/01/14 08:37 AM
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I'm a girl but thanks!
/r/seduction28/01/14 07:46 AM
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Learn how to palm-read. I don't mean to literally look at the lines on a girl's hand, but you should be able to notice the little things about her, or make statements that seem specific to her, but are actually very general (like a horoscope). Ex: "Oh so are you analyzing me right now?" 1) "Yeah, actually. You talk confidently so I can tell that you're really driven and motivated." 2) Or notice a feature that's unique or stands out to you the most, and make something up "deduce" something about …
/r/seduction27/01/14 09:59 PM
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"OMG you study Psychology? What am I thinking about right now?" "Wouldn't you like to know..", "I know; I was wondering if you knew..." "OMG you study Psychology? What am I thinking about right now?" "make a guess" "Make a guess...about what I'm thinking about?" "OMG you study Psychology? What am I thinking about right now?" "many dirty things.." "Actually, I was thinking about mozzarella sticks."
/r/seduction27/01/14 09:43 PM
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I really feel like interest in public sex generally dwindles after you've experienced it. It seems kinda overrated, and it doesn't seem as hot once you've done it (getting caught naked by bright police lights and a knock on your car window is pretty mortifying for the girl, too.) What age group is OP? Public sex after high school is kinda ehhh. By then, you're old enough for cops to be assholes about it, and you can even be a registered sex offender. (I guess car sex is technically illegal in my…
/r/seduction27/01/14 09:35 PM
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Military guys have such a good understanding of this. Went to school with a big population, and most of my friends--from the prudish, never had a boyfriend type to the very sexually enthusiastic girl--have gone home with a charming military guy. Being sincere, seem genuinely interested in conversation, and being courteous is low-key ridiculously effective.
/r/seduction27/01/14 09:08 PM
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1) Pick the "average income for an American household" (mean or median or whatever you think is statistically more relevant). 2) Pick the 60th/75th percentile if you feel like you want a littleee bit more. 3) Write "$0--all you need is love" 4) "$1,000,000,000,000,000.00--Dream big"
/r/seduction27/01/14 01:13 AM
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You took her to Diddy Riese and it still didn't work out?? Don't worry, and don't listen to everyone else telling you that you fucked up. (You could have handled it differently, but) ultimately it wasn't your fault. It just wasn't meant to be :|
/r/seduction27/01/14 12:55 AM
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It really depends where you're at. Some events where you're with people your age group (college ragers, parties, events, availability of drugs/alcohol) that may fly, especially if you hit it off and the girl also made some advances. But idk...if I'm with my girls at a bar/club and you're a rando, I'd feel pretty violated.
/r/seduction27/01/14 12:40 AM
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Approaching the friend is actually a really brilliant way because it makes you sound like a sweet, considerate, refined guy. Be polite and respectful to her friends, you have an in. Unless there was some sort of pre-existing circumstance (boyfriend) then I don't really have a reason to say no. It's charming when you're going after one girl, but acknowledging and respecting all of her friends. Super important
/r/seduction15/01/14 05:58 PM
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Thanks. I try to give genuinely helpful, concrete tips here and I've always thought that--if it helps at least one person in their endeavors with women, or feel more confident/provide reassurance--then it's worth it to me. Most respond positively and some have PM'd me to ask follow up questions or even taken their time just to tell me that they appreciated my advice. Some members of the community are very positive, kind, and welcoming this way, but others, such as this post make me very disencha…
/r/seduction14/01/14 04:07 PM
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Making them approach you is more "advanced game." It's more difficult, but it's more effective. Simple.
/r/seduction14/01/14 03:46 PM
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This is a really great post--thank you! As OP says, never let your confidence be defined by how many girls are in your life. A healthy self-image most important first step in being sex-positive. People that are more content with themselves are generally happier, (and even better at interacting with women.) 10 is very important. Be active, go out and do the things that you love/things that make you a better person and enrich your own life. Girls will see that you just naturally kick ass and that'…
/r/seduction14/01/14 03:38 PM
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Because you're showing her a greater degree of respect. "Hey, what time do you finish, lets have a coffee together?" This is something that my friends/ boyfriend text me, and it's kinda presumptuous for a stranger to think that they're already on this basis, just it's part of my job description to be nice. Sounds extremely entitled, as if you somehow have the right to my number/time after work. As a girl that's worked in retail/customer service/waitressing, I can tell you that /u/Siddly's commen…
/r/seduction14/01/14 12:02 AM
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/u/Siddly is correct. In my humble female opinion, it's also very charming that you respect her enough to make that gesture, and it shows that you're intelligent, too.
/r/seduction13/01/14 11:27 PM
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If a girl even hints to me that "the guy should pay for everything.." I walk. Is it wrong to assume that the one who asks pays? I'm a girl but always cover when I'm the one that asks--coffee or dinner. If I'm broke, invite them over for dinner and cook :| Not trying to say that "Oh you're the guy so you automatically pay"--I just always thought that it was polite to pick up the first one if you're the one that asks. No intent to offend/make some sort of gendered statement, innocent question.
/r/seduction13/01/14 10:54 PM
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If a woman says the equivalent, /r/theredpill would be ALL over it. OP could have been a bit classier about it :| He could have said that he enjoys the finer things in life and that he would be happy to share his experience with getting the girl, instead of getting her to "share her wealth with you and pay for things." Sure, it's a nitpicky point, but is just sounds completely different and not potentially patronizing to women. :| I'm also particularly doubtful of AMAs without proof, especially …
/r/seduction13/01/14 06:11 PM
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but they are just as much a person as a western girl. I commend your observation, but perhaps this wasn't OP's intent. Poorer nations are more likely to exploit their women for sex tourism. Gendered discourses of labor are more prevalent in poorer nations, and sex trafficking is also a serious problem in many parts of the world (second and third world nations especially). I don't think it's a statement on Thai women, just the state of affairs in many SE Asian nations.
/r/seduction11/01/14 08:21 PM
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"You'd like to know, wouldn't you?"
/r/seduction11/01/14 07:49 PM
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Don't want to be a downer, but I think it's important to remember not to get too drunk because you legally can't consent in many states. Just wanted you to be safe. Have a great time!
/r/seduction11/01/14 07:44 PM
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/r/TheRedPill promotes unhealthy relationships and abuse of women. It's one thing to be smooth and confident, it's another to think that all women are beneath you, and you should treat them as such. It's very difficult for me to think that any of these red pill guys have any game in real life. It's a clever psychological tactic to get other guys to jump on the bandwagon--just gloat on the internet that you get so much action--all from just treating women like shit! You can't possibly question my…
/r/seduction11/01/14 07:30 PM
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Thanks for explaining my post better than I did. I agree completely. Sometimes, I feel like the road to hell is paved with the best intentions on this subreddit, but thanks for your comment!!! :) It actually did make me feel good about trying to help here!! You're so awesome thanks for understanding!!!! :)
/r/seduction11/01/14 03:51 AM
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Haha, I'm not the one that's upset at all. It just seems like you're continuing this because you're mad a woman is undermining your credibility, in saying that your methods are questionable, and could be perceived as douchey, judgmental, sexist, and just downright rude. You're actually the only one that's made this into a dichotomous gender thing; most people on seddit appreciate simple advice, but I did criticize your first comment enough to anticipate a not-so-pleasant response. Hey, bro, I di…
/r/seduction10/01/14 07:50 PM
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Go out and hit on 500 women this next year and come back and make some suggestions. Most women are hit on hundreds of more times than you've tried. It happens every. day. Most women have a much greater sample size than you, and can tell you in general, what's successful and what's not. It's a more efficient way than to just go do something 10 times, and report to an online forum, and it's easier on your confidence. But you're obviously a honed expert, so forgive me for my insolence! Go get em, y…
/r/seduction10/01/14 07:35 PM
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then you lack some of the credibility that would cause me to want to listen to your advice and legit run with it. I'm not trying to convince you to somehow change your ways or to alter how you personally go about picking up women. It's what you do with your life, and I'm not personally invested in your successes with women either. I'd like to see everyone on this subreddit be happy--but, oddly enough, I guess my female voice have no value when I somewhat disagree with a guy teaching another guy …
/r/seduction10/01/14 07:18 PM
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I've heard all your suggestions on 1-7 IRL but you really have to be naturally charismatic to pull them off. I act amused and interested--obligatory giggle--but let's face it, those are pretty dickish things to say because it's all pretty damn rude. I could explain why for each one, how to fix it, but you probably don't want to hear it. Instead, guys that can tell a story are attractive. Please, have my number if you can tell a good story. Skip the 1-7 completely, just tell me something interest…
/r/seduction10/01/14 06:47 PM
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FB is strange. Have you seen inbetweeners? Fb and IMing are so cryptic! I'd talk to her casually, assuming that you talked last quarter and you're on that basis. Invite her to a party see how that goes.
/r/seduction10/01/14 05:13 AM
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Also, I believe that some of what you're saying is subjective. As a matter of fact, all of it is subjective because you asked for my opinion :) Just trying to offer a girl's perspective, because it might be of some help. Most of what I said in the previous post was about qualities that charming AF guys all had in common in my experience. I said it was rare, but they really understood how women felt and could work it. Damn smooth. Personally, I wouldn't start off with explicitly stating sexual in…
/r/seduction10/01/14 04:46 AM
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I am getting laid still (with other women, who are into casual sex), Do they know this though? I also think that's important. You should also be up front about being in open. I've done this with fuck buddies in the past, and it helped in being a BIG deterrent to ever have any sort of attachment towards each other.
/r/seduction10/01/14 04:27 AM
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It also all depends how you want to come off and what you're going for exactly. Are you going for classy or aggressive? Charming or direct? I don't believe that there's a one-size-fits way to pick up girls. It greatly depends on who you are and what you want. Here are some better ways IMO. I'm not laying down my intent early on that I'm sexually interested in her. Isn't that a little impatient? What's wrong with getting to know someone and discovering that they're taken? You just had a conversat…
/r/seduction10/01/14 04:12 AM
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Plot twist: She has a pimp cane. Going off of that though, here's what I personally think is the least threatening, classiest way to compliment a girl with the "I like your style," method. First, notice what she's wearing. Cut-outs, bodycon, oversize baggy cardi, lace, etc. Now, tailor your words carefully. If she's wearing something that's deliberately sexy, don't flat out tell her that she looks sexy/hot/smokin, etc. Tell her something like, "I like your style. It's edgy." Whatever it is, just…
/r/seduction10/01/14 01:16 AM
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"You're pretty" has a bigger chance of coming off creepy. Personally, my red flag words are "pretty," "beautiful," "absolutely gorgeous," etc. I make up a quick lie that I have to be somewhere else. And run. It's never a good sign, because no matter how pure your intentions are, it just sounds to me like you see me simply as a potential lay. If you're trying to pick up a girl, street harassment, isn't the way to go. It may work for some other women, but keep in mind that street "compliments" are…
/r/seduction10/01/14 12:15 AM
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