xxsimplyjosh Archive

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1	The Godly Texting Guide - Based Zeus interested in helping split. dm me	/r/seduction	18/06/19 11:10 AM
3	What can I say to this? She just has Aeronautical engineering in her bio LOL... i spat my tea out when i read landing strip 🤣🤣🤣	/r/seduction	22/03/19 04:49 AM
91	Women will laugh with a happy man, they will comfort an upset man, but they will run away from a bitter man. so damn true. bitter = insecure/reactive.	/r/seduction	20/03/19 06:46 AM
6	I dont go to school or have a job, is it possible to get a girlfriend? you said you’re not needy but you say you need girls in your life likewise you are needy... case in point need i explain more smh. why act in denial in the first place lol, people are telling you the truth yet you are still resisting it...	/r/seduction	25/02/19 06:09 AM
1	Tinder girl voluntarily gave number and now sending mixed signals. what do? have a solid plan no need for that wishy washy text initially esp if she gave you the number... maybe someone already gave her a specific location and time n shes prolly seeing them because he is direct and to the point	/r/seduction	25/02/19 06:03 AM
1	How long is normal to wait for a girl to reply in this situation?? just wait ... dont double text. let her reply. maybe 1-2 day later then ping again if nothing happened after your one text but imho you shouldnt be so worried about it.	/r/seduction	25/02/19 06:00 AM
2	I dont go to school or have a job, is it possible to get a girlfriend? You worried about not having a gf? she will leave you faster even if you did get one because i can guarantee this kind of behavior you speak of right now is downright needy and cringey af... and girls dont like needy guys you will become dependent on her for happiness and thats a wrong place to come from.	/r/seduction	25/02/19 05:55 AM
2	I [22M] Have Not Initiated Any Physical Contact with My Date [26F] After 3 Dates. Advice/Perspective? here r some examples where u can statt from what i done before start slow like handshake n hold a second longer than normal while maintaining eye contact. when she says funny things that you both have a laugh u can just go in for the hug and do it firmly but not flimsy if you are making a huge statement you can put your hand on her shoulder while delivering that statement at the same time now you can vary these to your liking but this is what i normally do. the main thing is be certain, and own …	/r/seduction	25/02/19 05:51 AM
2	I am suffering from envy can be anything really i just did lifting myself as a past experience and one example that ive got experience from... found the thrill of pushing/lifting iron and my bodyweight a fun thing to do when i can squeeze it in my schedule i tend to do it early in the morning obviously this what i do is nothing close to mma so our stories are a bit different but i should frame it as the general consensus of being physically active will make you feel good and give you boosts of confidence knowing you acc…	/r/seduction	25/02/19 05:45 AM
1	I am suffering from envy this lol. anyone can tell you to go to the gym but you have to make the very first move and get over the overthinking and just start doing something even though its light or not intense... build up eventually from there	/r/seduction	25/02/19 05:29 AM
1	I am suffering from envy you only need to work out 45-60minutes maximum a day. whats your excuse? instead of comparing against other compete with yourself. when you compare yourselves to other you put yourself in this stupid mentality thinking you’ll never get good because you are judging yourself through another guy... you need to compete and beat yourself only and thats it	/r/seduction	25/02/19 05:27 AM
4	I am suffering from envy lifting is so good idk why i never done it earlier you just suddenly feel damaged from the workout but when you recover and wake up you have this initial blast of confidence and accomplishment of pushing through a challenge everyone should lift even if its light, the art of working out makes you feel more alive and strong and determined	/r/seduction	25/02/19 05:25 AM
2	How to talk to girls at parties? Easy, you're at a party. Use that environment to your advantage, talk about the party. How did you know the owner? Learn about the friendly relationship they have and try to use that to expand talking to the owner too if you can. Talk about something you're passionate and interested in (hobby), convey this in a confident and enthusiastic way, they will feel your radiance. Relate it back to her by getting her to share something about her, but don't demand that too much. Give her space to actually…	/r/seduction	23/02/19 01:24 AM
1	Problem with women Humor gets people laughing, but it also shows you don't take things too seriously and are also up for a fun time. If someone was serious 99.99% of the time it'll get too tense really quickly.	/r/seduction	23/02/19 01:20 AM
1	Problem with women You're self-qualifying... Throw that shit out. That's what kills your game and attraction with women lmao.	/r/seduction	23/02/19 01:18 AM
1	Problem with women One takeaway from this, you feel you aren't worthy. So they'll think you're not even worth their time because you don't respect yourself. Change that mindset asap... All the other advice I would have suggested would mean jack shit if you can't fix that first. Because it's about respecting yourself. Not trying to get others to fulfil your void.	/r/seduction	23/02/19 01:17 AM
2	Got my first ever number today Congrats on the number/snap close you got over he initial shyness and are able to catapult yourself in the danger zone... keep it up. Remember don't talk too much over snap otherwise she'll toss you as a snap buddy and not a potential sex worthy god. Get her out asap once she's like feeling a bit turned on or more invested in conversation on a date. Some people will tell you r/seduction is for loners/losers, don't believe them... it's a very good sub feed and the advice is legit AF.	/r/seduction	23/02/19 01:06 AM
1	I don’t understand how people meet women in college. College is easiest way to meet women, you have a similarity to go off to (doing the same class) - easy to go conversation off with. But obviously don't go on about this forever, start expanding further into other topics and ping (if she's interested in that topic or not) and go along with that. I don't know how to simplify that any further...	/r/seduction	23/02/19 01:02 AM
1	Feels like I'm putting all the work and they are not even putting any effort to get to know me/ask me about my day. fulfil yourself first. only you can make yourself happy. do stuff you like and find interesting, share a few of your achievements. after a few attempts people may start to notice and will be willing to ask what you’re doing and u can go from there you should not be dependent on others to “ask you” xyz to feel that validation, the validation should come from within YOU and only you tl:dr give some value to others through sharing your experiences. i was a loner/anti socialist back in my days doing…	/r/seduction	22/02/19 06:36 AM
1	How Do I Get Over the Fear of Touching? its more of being able to calibrate and being aware to know whether she is comfortable or not. this is something you just gotta try and be certain about it. what i like to do is assume she is into me rather than “what if i touch her this that omg im freaking out” because if you have the what if xyz frame you subconsciously tell urself u are not worthy of touching her and that will show in your body language , she will sense you are nervous about even going for the touch and SHE will feel it. by …	/r/seduction	22/02/19 06:33 AM
2	Pretending to be confident has.. skyrocketed my confidence. probably the most important one of all. this should go to the very top over all other things	/r/seduction	19/02/19 05:23 AM
7	Pretending to be confident has.. skyrocketed my confidence. i think its the art of practicing (aka faking it till u make it) that eventually sub communicates that this is your default state. and then you just do it naturally after overcoming many instances of messing up till you’re in shape most ppl outside this sub would disagree with me as they’re oblivious but this sub has helped me alot in every way possible.	/r/seduction	19/02/19 05:22 AM
1	Got a girl's number last night be free from the outcome. whatever happens you are stillPERFECTLY fine with who u are and nothing has changed	/r/seduction	19/02/19 01:58 AM
2	Hi guys,Im a 22 Male I never had a girlfriend before.. get your life on track first, be self fulfilled , self amused then start looking for a girlfriend... because if other people could force u into a state of depression you are being reactive to the environment and arent controlling your surroundings well enough. aka no self confidence/passive fix that first, because i can guarantee that girlfriend who gets with you is going to leave fast if she senses you are using her as a filler for the void in your life. also some tips freedom from outcome (out…	/r/seduction	18/02/19 03:36 PM
1	Is she playing hard to get? or she just likes the attention? change her emotions/mood, not her mind. i have a feeling the jealousy bit was more of a shit test to see how you’d react or respond to the congruency test.	/r/seduction	18/02/19 12:33 PM
2	How to deal with a bad infield day? this. every bad infield is an opportunity to learn and grow. dont think negatively about the bad infield but think positively what good things have happened from that “bad infield” when we get into negative thinking we end up fking ourselves even harder and doing worse on next set. always have a positive/winning mindframe	/r/seduction	18/02/19 07:31 AM
1	Need advice on holding her attention when another guy joins the conversation. the least reactive man in the convo is the winner. whoever reacts is losing tjeir frame and is losing power. is there a girl nearby you or a guy? start talking to them and show you arent reacted by the “guy” joining and stealing the show	/r/seduction	18/02/19 07:30 AM
1	I have no urge to talk to women anymore? change your mindset to i just want to know them and have great conversations. freedom from outcome helped me overcome this shitty fear i had when i was so objective i got fixated on the so called agenda which fucked me so many times before. but after i hd freedom from outcome and nothing to lose mentality in place it seemed effortless. try this and see if it does help	/r/seduction	18/02/19 07:26 AM
1	Advice for guys: don't take the friend zone as a forever situation and don't disrespect the girl friendzoning you. use the friendzone as an opportunity to improve yourself or expand your social circle. either one is a win win who knows maybe she will start to take u out of the friendzone if you’re successful with girls on a higher echelon than them... and will start vying for your validation to their advances	/r/seduction	18/02/19 06:17 AM
6	Casual Vs. Flirty just go with the flow... that was a good moment! if she did not like you she wouldn’t be that close to you 🙈😂	/r/seduction	09/02/19 07:03 AM
2	what do you do about a girl who texts but never offers to hang out? you have to offer the hangout . women afaik from my experience love a man who can lead and set the tone...	/r/seduction	01/02/19 12:41 AM
6	Is this a good sign? that was a good sign by all means........ offer a reschedule dont just leave it on “i hv work on monday”	/r/seduction	01/02/19 12:39 AM
1	Help advice needed men who take risks are seen as desirable because hes confident and not afraid to put himself out in the danger xone if u play it safe and are so worried about the touch then no women is gonna like you because you are hiding your true intentions. and this insecurity is what drives them away. a simple task is touch her arm on the outer area while conversating like when you launch a statement on a positive high note (eg she said she knew i was into photography and she was also into that kind of hob…	/r/seduction	01/02/19 12:37 AM
9	The mentality one MUST have in order to do game: The Abundance Mentality think of it like jumping into an ice cold shower. similar concept except even approaching girls isnt that tough you just got to like above have an abundant mindset (if i mess this one up no worries theres another one on the block) when you say its hard its because you are living in fear of rejection and scarcity mindset . embrace it if it happens and be positive about it	/r/seduction	01/02/19 12:15 AM
1	What women expect you to do in the first date? always have a positive vibe. even if you are real inclined to let it out there are ways to express that negative experience in a positive uplifting tone... nobody likes to go out with someone who is negative since its gonna suck as a first impression. i also learned this lesson deeply. the gal blocked me after i messaged her instant lol but im like whatever i can get another one no big deal... ^ that mindset of you can get another one is what helped me get over rejection easily. eventually it ha…	/r/seduction	21/01/19 02:55 AM
6	What women expect you to do in the first date? a definite form of ESCAPISM. (for some if not most)	/r/seduction	21/01/19 02:51 AM
2	Girls foot kept touching my leg, but she hardly looked at me. Only a few times. they need to do it subtle because of the society and the bullshit mainstream labelling them as s**ts if they expressed sexuality open in public...	/r/seduction	17/01/19 08:22 AM
6	Tinder sucks now? apparently some girls have been reported having 5000++ potential matches on tinder so the game is very high at the moment... i personally dont use tinder because of the low success rate. had better luck actually going to the venue because they are more open and personality/confidence can be shown in real life easier on first meet... rather than texting only initially without any form of meet	/r/seduction	14/01/19 07:56 AM
1	How do I define my boundaries and not just be a SUPER nice and accommodating guy? How do I change myself? sometimes you gotta be a little bit selfish to not compromise your defined values. i think people respect you more and desire you if you behave and showcase yourself in an authentic manner. that means whatever you are not keen on, you speak about it with confidence without being borderline aggressive or passive. think: its okay to say no in certain situations. if a girl told me no i dont need your help when i offer a request i would say understood and acknowledge and respect her response rather …	/r/seduction	14/01/19 07:41 AM
4	Stepped out of my comfort zone and approached a girl in my class Congrats, you did something that 95% of the guys wouldn't do due to fear of "rejection".	/r/seduction	13/01/19 01:10 AM
3	No seriously, how do I talk to that girl? Nothing to lose mentality, just go up and say anything you want to as long as its not creepy and u can give off a positive confident vibe. Any “perfect” opener imo is stupid and does not exist... i dont memorise that i go with what i had in mind at that specific time and let it flow naturally so im not stifled	/r/seduction	10/01/19 08:05 AM
1	Technique doesn't matter if you're a mess. Fix yourself or don't bother. Technique is just an extension of who you are... fix the problem within you (mindset look approach to seduction etc) and it will follow when u execute them techniques. You fail a few and thats fine. Its not the end of the world	/r/seduction	10/01/19 07:38 AM
3	Too often I see don’t hit on a girl at the gym...but damn some of these girls eyes are saying otherwise Don’t be sad just use this as a learning lesson, buckle up and enjoy the approach. It’s never too late. You just were tuned in to approach and take action at a different timing. There is no “set rule” on what age or such you must be to approach etc.	/r/seduction	06/01/19 12:52 PM
3	Too often I see don’t hit on a girl at the gym...but damn some of these girls eyes are saying otherwise Timing is really important because some have tight schedules... my suggestion is to initiate eye contact first and gauge from that. Just play it cool and dont stare her down (obviously) but have a relaxed gaze and see from there If she is inviting you in someway and appreciates your eye contact then only then is worth making the approach. If she flips immediately away then most likely she isn’t interested and you can just move on and continue your routine	/r/seduction	06/01/19 12:50 PM
3	I’m scared of getting into a relationship because of the potential breakup. Any advice? Always put yourself first, you deserve the most self respect and the money and time should be spent well on you first. That business work on it until you got it established well. Be upfront with your intentions. “Hey lets have a quick chat, Im personally not ready for a relationship yet because i still have a list of goals i really wanted to achieve still and such” something along those lines be direct and honest, she will follow and understand your decision. If she tosses an angry fit u take a …	/r/seduction	04/01/19 05:39 PM
2	I achieved true abundance through expanding my social circle and Instagram & Snapchat As much as i think high follower count can be some sign of high social proof, it can be somewhat faked by buying them followers (some even do that afaik from some exposure) so i dont place great emphasis on that. The best is instagram story since you really can’t fake it as its live almost, like snapchat stories. Also i think the content of the instagram is far more important since people don’t just connect for no reason there is always an underlying purpose behind it. Usually thats buying high …	/r/seduction	04/01/19 05:31 PM
2	I achieved true abundance through expanding my social circle and Instagram & Snapchat Those who are against social media are using it wrong and usually the ones who say “social media is bad bad it sucks ur life away get off it”. When social circle game done right can expand your options faster than raw cold approach without it. It also helps because now with instagram stories ppl can see what u are like in real life situations (party club bar) with other girls and that clip is enough to showcase you are high value	/r/seduction	04/01/19 03:59 PM
4	Tips for first date? This also if u notice she pulls back drop a statement of empathy, and pull back to show yes im aware of your feelings and i acknowledge/understand it by complying... This usually makes the interaction better since she can see you are aware of these subtle moves	/r/seduction	04/01/19 03:56 PM
2	How do I ride the line between showing interest and making her chase me as well? I think direct works well only if she is somewhat emotionally invested and is high. At the start i like to put in a bit of joke and banter and tease to make her feel positive emotions before i go in for anything direct. Cos sometimes if u go too direct on first go it can be quite too upfront and may scare her abit (ie no comfort at all)	/r/seduction	04/01/19 03:33 PM
1	I fuck up the approaches I care about the most U jus gotta keep getting rejected or “messed up’ until you are substantially numb and conditioned where rejection is no longer a big deal. Its a journey not means to an end	/r/seduction	04/01/19 03:31 PM
2	I’m scared of getting into a relationship because of the potential breakup. Any advice? If you are scared of break up most likely you are not ready for a relationship even. Relationships are not easy its a lot of ups and downs and if u cant thrive through the downs you WILL flop and fall quickly, because SHE will pick that up you fear something and u may become the people pleaser instead of saying what is your right and wrong. (And then leave) But my biggest advice is: “Build up your own life thats positive and self fulfilling, when you’re satisfied with the point you’re at, then s…	/r/seduction	04/01/19 03:26 PM
74	What do you do when you still miss someone years after seperation? Train your willpower to be strong and forget it and move on... Do something productive and self fulfilling where you can validate YOURSELF. Then you’ll realise damn u feel so much better because you have fulfilled the most important thing: You.	/r/seduction	04/01/19 03:20 PM
1	How to Meet Girls in Coffee Shops Trimmed is good rather than fully shaven. What i dont like as men and i seen this is freaking messy beards out of control ... to me it looks like dude doesnt even give an ounce of time to puff up his physical facial appearance	/r/seduction	04/01/19 08:36 AM
5	Don't be afraid of beautiful women. This is true, most guys think that these "beautiful women" are out of their league and never approach, yet they still go to bars and clubs. Aka they lack self-confidence and the audacity to just do it... they usually tend to stare from a far distance from what I seen and ogle/stare at them for fear of being rejected by distancing. Any guy who approaches a lady confidently and starts a conversation has it in the bag for the most part. Even if it was to be rejected, eventually it'll condition it…	/r/seduction	02/01/19 01:24 AM
4	Went to the mall today for more practice. This is true its not what is the best line its how you say it. I can have the best line ever but still have shitty body language and it’ll mean fk all because body language is the most important aspect of communication especially in the non verbal scheme of thing	/r/seduction	21/12/18 07:42 AM
10	How to tell the difference between a shit test and a girl just being rude to you. How often do you guys talk? Is there some form of teasing push pull flirting involved? I personally think this is a shit test because it sounds so ridiculous “orange?” Normally i hear the words apple tomato strawberry aka blushing/red cheeks often here in Aus but ymmv. Chances are if you both have been playful with each other n done any of the above 2nd question line its most likely a shit test because girls wont shit test u if they did not like u in anyway... it was purely to test how confident…	/r/seduction	10/12/18 05:25 PM
12	Asian guys, how do you deal with feeling like shit in the dating game? You just have to go out and approach, have strong body language make direct and solid eye contact and open with something simple... as much as this line sounds stupid its somewhat called conditioning. Take a few rejections along the way and learn. If you view rejection as a positive lesson you will get better. View it as negative and it will hit u harder back down to the point u lose all motivation. Its not about what u say its more of how you say/deliver your message across. Being an asian myse…	/r/seduction	07/12/18 11:01 AM
1	I always get frustrated/jealous when a girl i like meets other guys. And the i stop pursuing her. What to do instead? Freedom from outcome is another way id put it... when people are so focused on outcomes it fks their natural flow and they become weird and too perfect (aka no agendas)	/r/seduction	05/12/18 09:34 AM
1	I always get frustrated/jealous when a girl i like meets other guys. And the i stop pursuing her. What to do instead? This feeling is usually associated if you only talk to one girl and are too invested before she really show signs... i used to be addicted to one girl but after i tried talking to other girls and being honest about it instead of suppressive, it made them like me more because i am able to have fun without being so uptight. Being suppressive is just a sign of lack of confidence. I maybe start to worry if she thinks im a player or whatever because “i mingle with other girls” and i am cheating etc..…	/r/seduction	05/12/18 09:32 AM
2	I always get frustrated/jealous when a girl i like meets other guys. And the i stop pursuing her. What to do instead? talk to more than one girl is my solution. As weird as that sounds if you only are focused on one girl and everyone else is void what is going to happen if she leaves you? You end up crumbling and falling because you put yourself in a scarcity mindset. As long you are confident and honest and dont take her shit tests (remarks) too seriously you will be fine. The bit where she touches you and laughs at everything you say even if it may sounds dumb is her testing your confidence in a nutshell. If …	/r/seduction	05/12/18 09:29 AM
1	Where the hell do you find the confidence? Confidence is not an overnight thing you gotta practice and cop the rejects till the point where you’re numb to it (and improve on every interaction and learn) Better to fail a bit and learn and get better than to not try and remain neutral or moving backwards... #actiontaker	/r/seduction	04/12/18 09:04 AM
1	[FR] Began approaching recently, to some extent, just some things to do and to avoid. Just some advice for making yourself comfortable approaching people/girls another tip is know when to end the conversation. Dont let it drag out too long and be the one chasing cos that puts you in a bad spot (from the males perspective) also have zero outcome. When you predetermine an outcome it messes u up a little bit because you’re having to make sure that everything goes right and you end up being too perfect rather than chill/in the zone or present.	/r/seduction	03/12/18 03:43 AM
1	Need help reading signals [M17] Give it a few days but for now do something you love/passionate about and if u have social media n u know shes following you somewhere eg snap fb insta, you can use that to your advantage and showcases places or accomplishments you’ve done while being not available If she does surf your stories often chances are she will want to cash in on the thing you’re doing and getting shit done and she will probably chase you to get in the action... cos if she has rejected your invitation to hangout 2-3 ti…	/r/seduction	03/12/18 03:40 AM
5	Need help reading signals [M17] you need to be decisive. also convey it in a “we frame” rather than “do you wanna go to the movies” frame it simply like “lets go to the movies , new marvel release coming out at 8pm friday night” by saying “do you” it seems albiet too much pressure cos now you are making her decide when its suppose to be your task to make decisions & be direct about it This was just the stuff i was reading previously in the wall of text. As for the idk bout friday bit im not entirely sure but my tip is to be a …	/r/seduction	03/12/18 03:26 AM
2	What to do after picking a girl up, before you've gotten home? another good tip k is to talk about the hobbies in a passionate & confident manner. They dont care what the specific hobby is (im talking about you video games), you’re conveying a positive experience that is special to you such that she feels privileged to be a part of and thats all that matters.	/r/seduction	03/12/18 03:22 AM
3	What to do after picking a girl up, before you've gotten home? This is a good question and you shouldnt feel shameful asking it because thats how you learn and get better than yesterday. Honestly the three things i need to remember sre this when i pulled a girl. 1) she MUST be comfortable with you at all times. If she sense something weird she will bolt out w.o a sound. 2) keep her emotions up. just playfully tease her a lot but dont overdo it, do inject some genuine statements or two in to make sure shes feeling you and not a bunch of teases stacked on top…	/r/seduction	03/12/18 03:19 AM
10	What do you actually say to start a conversation with a girl in a club? You just have to improvise on the spot honestly, trying to know decent openers to me DID NOT help because you start planning way too much and that sense your nervous scale up. Anything works literally as long you are smiling and have good body language as u approach afaik most girls havent shoved me away hard. Use your surroundings (a common thing happening) as an opener is my best bet. Also good body language is vital even if u had the best line but u mess up eye contact and good posture it mea…	/r/seduction	03/12/18 03:12 AM
3	Assess this texting convo: what went wrong? you dragged way too long lol, texting should be used only to set up schedules for hangout not to go long-winded chat because imo these things are better in person as there's more emotion, body language conveyed and seems more meaningful rather than boring.	/r/seduction	01/12/18 07:46 AM
1	You're not getting any younger. Three words in a nutshell. Just do it Or in complex terms take risks because even if u fail u still learn from it. If you take this failure too seriously and hurt yourself emotionally then you aren’t doing yourself a favor. You’re making excuses which is petty just take action and figure out what happen.	/r/seduction	27/11/18 05:23 AM