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| 1 | Last name change?As others have said, I don't see why you couldn't just keep your nickname regardless of what happens with your maiden name. Nicknames don't really need to have "context," so I don't think it would be weird for even new people to learn your nickname (and, if they were really curious, it would take all of a couple seconds to explain to them that it was derived from your maiden name). I was in a similar situation to you -- I love my maiden name, and I also had a nickname derived from it (though it … | /r/RedPillWives | 27/02/17 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Last name change?It depends on the situation, but having two middle names usually isn't an issue for legal documents. Having a particularly long or hyphenated last name can be, though. It depends on how long your individual last names are. Something like "Jones-Smith" would almost always be fine, but something like "Huckleberry-Wadsworth" would probably be too long in a lot of cases. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/02/17 06:25 PM |
| 2 | I need some help motivating my husband.They are real conditions, and people who don't have them often see the symptoms as "laziness." Some of the things OP has mentioned in her post sound like issues beyond just "this dude is looking for a sugar mama" -- for example, the fact that her husband has a degree and had an apprenticeship, but keeps losing motivation to follow through. Someone looking for a free ride will usually have a "career" in mind that they're "definitely working toward," not several things they started (with real inte… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/02/17 12:52 PM |
| – | I need some help motivating my husband.I'm going to assume that he's got redeeming qualities that have kept you with him for six years. To be honest, it sounds like he might have an undiagnosed mental health issue -- the inability to prioritize tasks, especially, sounds like adult ADHD, while the lack of commitment toward a definite career path sounds like depression. There are certainly issues that need to be addressed aside from mental health (even if it is a mental health issue, that's not a blanket excuse for him to not make any … | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 03:59 PM |
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