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| – | The societal expectation for men to be the protectors should be removedIt’s really easy to identify such men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 11:09 PM |
| – | The societal expectation for men to be the protectors should be removedYou won’t be able to make the deal with the majority of men. There are billions of men that either aren’t legally culpable for their actions because they’re too low IQ, or because their morality doesn’t allow it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 10:16 PM |
| 0 | Is “holiday dick” and “boyfriend dick” actual terminology that women use or am I just mindbroken by the internet?Women have asked me to send dick picks before hooking up. I assume the holiday dick girls get several guys lined up and pick the biggest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 06:26 PM |
| 1 | No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups.If women don’t screen for bad men then they are attracted to bad men. If they hook up with bad men but don’t want marry them then they still like bad men. Anything else is delusion. No matter your word count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Women dont view having access to causal sex as a benefitIt seem most the women have had casual sex. So what is your point? To condition men to not nail women that want casual sex then decide they didn’t like it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 07:08 AM |
| 3 | Does it matter what kind of porn a guy watches?Patricians like me watch MILF creampie porn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 08:44 PM |
| -5 | Men try to solve the problem, women try to avoid blameAh, a study. A study that shows women socialize blame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 10:54 PM |
| 3 | Men and women's instinctual definition of a "Good Man" are completely different.Many women don’t exclude ‘bad men’ for fun and hookups. Which is why when they want to settle down they can’t find good men. Women that didn’t malinvest their youth on bad men or non-committed relationships locked down good men. Whats left over are men that checked out due to damage, men that were never going to settle down and men that learned that being ‘bad’ works in getting lots of hook ups | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared.Why approach a woman if the odds on bet are you won’t be her first or her last? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 05:06 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: if women don't respond well to men being vulnerable, why would we push so hard for it? What do we have to gain from lying?It wears down their defenses and if the men can be convinced to be vulnerable it’s easier to exploit them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 08:38 PM |
| 1 | What are the effects of women increasingly attending college more than men and them being on the path to start earning more in the future?I expect the move away from degrees and towards credentialing will continue. If the DEI well dries up, most women will have to get a real degree and get a real job or housewife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Questions for redpillers!TRP is seeing the world for how it really works. Its an amoral strategy for increasing the quality of one’s sex life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Women have sexual needs just as much as men do if not more soWe all know women ovulate and how they act. But when you average it out women have less sexual urges. Masturbating isn’t having sex, you silly goose. If it were you’d have lost vis a vis men beating their meat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 07:38 PM |
| 1 | The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationshipsAh, you’re ‘feeling’ your way through this discussion. That explains why you can consider a situation where you are wrong. You can’t believe that things are so gynocentric that women have no long term costs to having children because of paid leave policies. Even if they do drop for a few years they can quickly return to the same rate as pay as their age cohort. The only dimension you are correct a woman that drops entirely from the work force will see reduced social security rate and retirement … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 07:19 PM |
| 2 | The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationshipsMost women job secured leave and keep their seniority and pay. My point stand in the case that they drop from the work force entirely that the pressure to advance women will get a mother returning to very quickly to the average pay for women in her age cohort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 06:58 PM |
| 1 | The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationshipsWomen advance beyond men of equal and more experience HR is populated full of women and companies want to be on the ‘great place to work for women’ lists. Do you remember the news a few years back where Google and the BBC had women howling because they did an equity review and saw that men were being underpaid so they got equalizing increases? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 06:37 PM |
| 1 | The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationshipsImagine how few women would file for divorce if a Judge looked at the paperwork and said “he’s not a drunk, he is an involved Dad, teachers speak highly of him, didn’t cheat, bills are paid on time- so he gets the house, keeps all his assets, 50-50 custody, no child support to either party” I have 50-50 custody and pay child support. How many women would get married if they were staring down the barrel of paying child support while they have their kid 50-50. Women marry up on purpose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 05:53 PM |
| 0 | The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationshipsThe opportunity cost is very high in terms of lost wages. But once women return to the workforce, they can get promoted very quickly. They’ll be in step with their age cohort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 05:45 PM |
| 1 | The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationshipsYour point is that men need to step up. But why should they when women can get the house, tax free money each month, and half the man’s retirement? Even if it’s not the plan when they get married the financial benefit to women grows as the man gets more assets and income. Each man is a scaled down mark of these athletes that get married young and the women divorce as soon as they have a baby. The average guy is staring down the barrel of getting shaken down later though, when his income and 401k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Do men tend to overinflate the importance of financial success in order to attract a "High value woman" ?Ye Gads, my ex-wife fought over money. Completely unethical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Losing attraction to my girlfriend because of her jobMaybe she wants to be a mom more than a wage slave. Ask her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 05:33 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: If men adjusted their standards could this resolve the Successful Woman's Lonliness Epidemic?The Venn diagram of successful women and women who are hard to be in relationships with damn near telescope. Its “I don’t need a man, I’m the table’ and a constant focus on how he needs to make her happy but not vice versa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 05:30 PM |
| 0 | The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationshipsMen aren’t pursuing marriage the way you want because the costs of divorce are too high. The incentives for women to get divorced and social acceptance make it hardly a concern for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 05:26 PM |
| 10 | Men who met their spouse off a dating app, did you take the first girl who was willing to go on a date with you?When I was 19, yes. We broke up when I was deployed and she got picked up at an Applebes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 05:19 PM |
| 0 | Question about financially successful women.I have no interest in a woman of that age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 05:53 AM |
| -1 | What does your ideal society look likeYou're ignoring the important part- If the man has the child half the time, they haven't dipped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Women dismiss men's relationship stress, yet believe similar complaints from lesbian/bi women.The best take. I wonder who are more likely to throw their freinds under the buss for the opposite sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Nearly every woman has been in an abusive relationship, yet they still claim they aren’t drawn to toxic behaviorI'd say you're right. Many men don't have the willpower not to cheat and a worrying percentage abuse women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 07:56 PM |
| 1 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesN=1 isn't valid. You're right, of course, but this is lacking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:34 AM |
| 2 | What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable??Its every serious relationship. Women get into a oneup competition of their own problems, or deride the man after and pick fight. My most concete thing I can relay is my mother calling me a misogynist when I talked about how unfair it is having my wages umputed when I changed jobs in order to be able to be a 50-50 dad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:01 AM |
| 4 | The issue with promiscuous men wanting non-promiscuous women is about his hypocrisy around pious conservative valuesI think you're focusing on the wrong aspect. Men are using promiscuity as a risk assessment filter. Promiscuity is an amazing proxy to filter out damged women, reduce the likelihood of cuckoldry, infidelity and divorce and subsequent rapine of wealth and absconding of children. The more parntners women have have the lower their marital happiness and the high offs of divorce. A man needs to have 20-25 partners to have the same matital happiness lows as a woman with 3-10 partners. Once a woman get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 04:08 PM |
| 3 | If TRPillers were honest with what they´re saying, they would have 0 issue with single women, cat ladies, sluts etc.Repillers are aware of women's hypergamous nature. Some are very disappointed men that have been gaslit by their moms and SO and get bitter, some quietly MGTOW to varyiny degrees and some apply it to pick up artistry. While it may be trite, they aren't a monolith. I think your issue is many redpillers are telling women what women's plan A should be, which is the same as Men's best plan A. Date intentionally and monogamously. Men that hit the anger phase or take themselves out the game are on pla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 03:56 PM |
| 1 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyMost hobbies cost money, this hobby makes money. I've checked the estimator for some YouTube channels, and a lot of them are making 30-200k thousand dollars a year. Not bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 12:19 AM |
| 1 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyIts pretty bad when so many podcasters can get rich dunking on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 12:06 AM |
| 2 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyIts toxic all around. This guy seems esp amoral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 11:47 PM |
| -1 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyA large portion of TRP is nice guys who found out the rules they were taught didn't work and now are working with rules that seemed to work. These rules that women follow with men, from the former Mr nice guy perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 11:41 PM |
| 0 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyTRP is explicitly amoral. Moreover the largest complaint seems to be alpha fuck, beta bucks where women give their best to Chads and then are stingy and entitled to their beta males. This example is human in nature- as social norms fall apart a large swath of people are only as loyal as their option. Take it as a guy thats had several married/cohabiting coworkers FB me for trysts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 11:08 PM |
| – | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeOaths before Gods and men mean so little. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 11:02 PM |
| -1 | Caring about women's orgasm is beta.I support your conclusions. Being a good lover doesn't void the principle that the 'person that cares the least has the most control. Making my ex-wife cum during foreplay and sex didn't inspire to treat me well, not when she threatened divorce and split custody | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 06:59 PM |
| 2 | There are 2 harsh truths that men and women have accept sooner or later.They both lack game. The men could do very well with classmates and coworkers if they had conversation skills. Hobbies only serve to give men the opportunity to meet women and maybe have a shared interests. Most guys that lack the skills for every day tit-for-tat chat can engage in this chat during hobby talk. You can have the same guy and have him do door-to-door sales and he will level up his convo skills. The women need to bring value to the men they want to court them and most of them are th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Telling women that they are the gatekeepers of sex and relationships reinforces women’s need to have high standards.The problem, from what I've discerned, is that women can very high standards, but social media can connect them to dozens of men that meet these standards. It wouldn't be a surprise if a woman had a double-digit n count and all her partners were over six foot. If she went to a major uni in a populated city she may have been with PhDs, D1 and pro athletes, and Michelin star chefs. These women are meeting demographic standards. Things we can plot with distribution curves, like height. Income, educ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 10:44 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI don't get into serious relationships with women that carry on business in sleep or athletic attire. That means yoga pants, cuffed/bunted sweats pants, bonnets, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 10:24 PM |
| 3 | There are enough single men that women never have to beg for orgasm.You admit to wasting in a year and a half on him. Which proves my larger point that women waste time with big dick guys. I still maintain that women shouldn't sleep with a man until he's made her come at least once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you continue seeing an attractive woman if you found she was previously battered? Why or why not?I'd be very hesitant. My last x was abused and became an abuser herself- of course she blamed it on the trauma. Then there is the time she punched me and went for my gun. No treatment, no relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 06:41 PM |
| -2 | There are enough single men that women never have to beg for orgasm.This just tells me that women are attracted to the selfish, dark triad type. I have discussions with women on my more PC profile where I reply to women in advice subs. Women that don't exclude selfish assholes that meet their attractiveness, height, dick, and status requirements often wind up with shit lovers As a teen reading GQ and Cosmo to today in my 40s I keep reading about women that say the guys with the biggest dicks are the worst lovers because they're all about getting blowjobs and pen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 06:38 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Real Men arenot still bitter over how girls treated him in high schoolThese well adjusted men aren't holding grudges. Higher n counts correlate to higher divorce risk and dating single mothers is fraught with problems. That could be not measuring up to a widows dead man, not being able to correct the child without angrying the mother, babdy daddy drama. It makes like easier just making single mothers either a no go zone, or for fun only | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 06:30 PM |
| 6 | How to reconcile: [Lying about sexual past] X [Men who care are not worth relationships] X [Sexual past does not matter]?I think we need to up the definition of safe sex to 'mutually tested' and I say that as a guy that was using condoms to sleep with a woman and woke up to her riding me raw. The infection cleared up with pills, non-permanent. I'd been seeing her for a while, but would never have unprotected sex with her. The condoms gave me a false sense of security and allowed me to engage with riskier partners. I've adjusted my definition of safe sex since then. I find unprotected sex with a tested partner infi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do men believe sex is degrading to women? Or they want it to be?Women never have to establish maternity, so we think differently. Men's programming is to avoid putting resources into children that aren't theres and so we use promiscuousity for a screen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Why do men believe sex is degrading to women? Or they want it to be?People don't value what they don't have to work for. There is a sense that sex is supposed to be special and intimate and its not. Take for example this woman- the guy he's sleeping with never had to work for it so he doesn't respect her. Women need to realize men judge them by the easiest they've ever given it up. So if men get a sense that a woman was permiscious before they'll keep her in that bucket. Even the guys that say they like experienced women. They aren't likely to ring them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Men, would you choose love or sex?it sound like being in a relationship with a woman who thinks i'm a great guy but not attractive enough to want to have sex with regularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Men, would you choose love or sex?I'd take the regular sex, especially if she's want to have 11 babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: What goes through your mind when you hear "The sexiest thing a man can do is XYZ"?Its because they are lying to themselves and men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 05:39 PM |
| 7 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIts no different than women that go to parties, raves, clubs and hook up with sundry men and then want to marry nice guy provider type. They don't think fuckbois are relationship material either. Not all RP males are promiscuous. Lots of them hit the anger phase and go full Pygmalion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 05:04 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADBecause they usually are just good for short time fun because instead of having LTR skills they have adaptations to emotional damage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Men don't want empathy, they want powerPeople said the same thing about Rome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Men don't want empathy, they want powerApologies, I was speech to texting and some onr walks up before I can finish my edits. Have a read | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 09:29 PM |
| 0 | Men don't want empathy, they want powerI'm in complete disagreement with the idea that people could be drafted but not able to vote. I would agree with your notion that people being unwilling to fight for their country is really bad and we should rely on volunteers if we hadn't pumped tens of millions of free loaders into this country since the 1960s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 09:08 PM |
| 0 | Men don't want empathy, they want powerYour lack of martial Valor is why they're saying you shouldn't vote. Increasing female standards to achieve equality of the sexes is hateful to you so you would rather lower the standards for men. Your proposal leads to invasion, male slaughter, women taken as booty and your vote removed with extra steps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 08:06 PM |
| 2 | The fear of AF/BB is really about insecurity and validation.It doesn't 'make you feel' emasculated, she is emasculating you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 07:59 PM |
| 4 | Misandrist is justifiable. Misogyny isn’t.Misandry is women's hatred of men's excellence and virtue. Misogyny is the natural consequence of this misogyny being inflicted on us. How do you square women being the default parent and most of the teachers during men's formative years but misogyny being so wide spread? Because we see the way our mothers favor our sisters, and Grandmother's our cousins. We see what our dads went through, we see how teachers downgrade boys and HR favor women. Misogyny is the wages the pornocracy reaps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 07:31 PM |
| 0 | Men don't want empathy, they want powerShouldn't be allowed to vote without being obligated to sign up for the draft. Its an important distinction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 07:24 PM |
| 3 | The real pill that explains modern dating in the WestBack in the day, men paid for dates with virgins. Most women want to have a good time and a 'date' is an ick because these women have bad habits like dance, drink and dick being their schema, not dinner, talk, walk, connecting, make love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 07:23 PM |
| 4 | The fear of AF/BB is really about insecurity and validation.Hard disagree. The 'anger phase' all about men being mad they were lied to, that women really don't like these 'toxic' behaviors. It's 'may I have some oats, brother'. These men are being fattened up for the slaughter in family courts and we are trying to tell other men how to avoid that, learn from our mistakes and people just write it of as 'insecurities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 07:19 PM |
| 14 | Did gaining muscles improve your looks as much as redpillers claim ?Yes. Women shameless grope and then act like it's normal. I've gone from fat to built to fat again. Alpha fux is completely validated. Get the body then troubleshoot if you aren't getting hookups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 06:45 PM |
| 4 | Does Pete Davidson prove that size actually does matter?He doesn't have soulful eyes. Hisbags and sallow skin makes him looks like a junkie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 06:42 PM |
| -3 | I believe women have a personal motivation to lie about their desiresAre you going to participate in the debate with a counterpoint | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Men of PPD, why would you leave someone who genuinely loved you only to end up with someone you can't stand?They probably got tired of all the little bs. The expectation to be a mind readers, unhappiness with the ladies sexual pass, double standards, she says she's not hungry then wants half his meal. So he leaves for better, but AWALT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Would you still be interested in a woman that sleeps with you on the first date?No. But I've gotten wise to the 'more commitment and resources' meaning more sex. Women that visit one overnight a week will sleep with me 3-5 times, but moving her in means week to month dryspells. Which is odd, because I'd imagine the strees of not having to pay the full mortgage and bills being relieved would reduce stress and make her hornier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Would you like to get flowers from your girlfriend?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 07:36 PM |
| 5 | Men, what negative dating/relationship experiences have you personally had with women?I have yet to meet a woman that didn' cheat, instigated breaks where they slept with other men or use my 'niceness' against me. Treating the average woman good seems to give her a complex where she either can't accept it so she runs, or see how much she can get away with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do men demonize women over 30 so much?The women that eshew the sacredness of Motherhood or orders get all the respect and privileges of their job. Whoo. You now get treated like men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 11:59 PM |
| -2 | Why do men demonize women over 30 so much?You may find yourself saddled with a man child that wants you for your income first and stings you along. Like John Hamm. Or a Justin Timberlake type that bullies you into an abortion if you get pregnant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 11:52 PM |
| -1 | Why do men demonize women over 30 so much?Why do you think you future husband would want you to help financially and not focus on mothering the children and making it easier for him to work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 11:38 PM |
| 4 | Why do men demonize women over 30 so much?To the first point, I disagree and believe your answer is cope. To the second point, no. Nuns get a pass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 11:36 PM |
| 33 | "No" man fails to get into a relationship because of his personalityHenry probably has a higher n count than the others, put together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 11:18 PM |
| 0 | Why do men demonize women over 30 so much?Do you plan on having babies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 11:13 PM |
| 6 | Why do men demonize women over 30 so much?Its not women. Its a subset of women over 30. Men aren't demonizing happily married women that have several well adjusted kids and stick by their man. Its also entirely reactionary. Women slander men, from 'where have all the good men gone' to #kill all men and when men push back in the slightest, women fall to the ground and roll around until the ref cards their opponent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 10:30 PM |
| 3 | CMV: when dating, the burden should be on males to prove themselvesDisregard them. Not a mod. What benefits package do you have available for someone that interviews well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 01:03 AM |
| 5 | CMV: when dating, the burden should be on males to prove themselvesBy whom? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 12:57 AM |
| 3 | CMV: when dating, the burden should be on males to prove themselvesWhat does compensation look like to you? To a man who's applied and passed your test | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 11:21 PM |
| 7 | Blue Pill men: Would you be happy being the marriage material or someone she would have casual sex with?You write about people being 'only good for hook ups and fwb', but seem to gloss over that you've created too buckets, that the guys are either or. Then you talk about porn stars. The man in the OP probably wants to be viewed by his woman as both. As a sex object and a relationship object. She almost certainly had hookup and FWBs with many men before him because she saw them sexually in a way she doesn't see him If they break up he's very likely going to transform himself into a FWB/hookup type … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 09:21 AM |
| 12 | Blue Pill men: Would you be happy being the marriage material or someone she would have casual sex with?Because women like to take fuckable men and turn them into providers and most of them start treating their man worse. There is a tipping point where they take things for granted. Which is why a lot of men avoid cohabitation for as long as possible until their 'settling down' in their late 30s or 40s to have children. Getting laid is hard enough for a lot of guys but I think a lot of guys break up when they realize they'd be getting laid more if they were single and hunting verus with their curre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 09:11 AM |
| 1 | If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman?Family Minded men, yes. if you want to have a roommate who's happy for you to go out and work and pay half the rent then you can go find that too. But some kindness and nurturing would go a long way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 09:12 PM |
| – | I think I know the root cause behind the "men who hate their wives/gf" trend. Do you agree?In high school I went out with the chicks on the debate team and in the church group Because they were the girls.I had stuff in common with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 08:58 PM |
| 0 | If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman?The things you mentioned are things that women value in men and they expect men to value them in women, But we tend to value traits that show you'll be a good mother | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 08:23 PM |
| – | Hookups by pulling girls into Uber / dragging home 27mThis is why anciebt3 cultures had chaperones, mahrams, or gaurds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 05:15 PM |
| -2 | Women on average have more power in romantic relationships than men, and more often than not, they are abused.The power dynamic is why less men are willing to get into relationships with western women. Men have more power before they get into relationships. Until the laws of the west change, redpillem will tend to be single or emmigrate. The amount of men that are either purple or red pilled is going to increase as we continue to build the body of evidence of how bad marriages for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Men don't actually care about sex. If they did, they'd strive to be better at it and actively learn about female anatomy.Your expected to sit still at your barber tho. Most women pillow princesses/star fish then complain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 02:19 AM |
| 14 | Men say dating has gotten “harder”. Harder than what?It was way easier to use online dating back in the Aughts and Teens. Now it's all bots, scammers, sex workers and single moms online. However I'm asked for my number and get far more look ups and down from women as a fitter man in my 40s. So I conclude it must have been amazing for men in their 40s back in the Aughts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 07:16 PM |
| 5 | Men don't actually care about sex. If they did, they'd strive to be better at it and actively learn about female anatomy.Former point- no, I'm saying if more women focused and on dating for character, not height, income and attentiveness they'd have a better rapport and be more likely to orgasm. As to the latter point: how many women engaged in hookups, partt sex, or the like? The orgasm gap isn't all women. Its roughly half. I bet if these women vetted better while younger and didn't give themselves hangups the orgasm gap would lessen. Also need to mention much like men get death grip, women are also giving thems… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Short version: Men are not slobs. Husbands are not slobs.There is also the Happiness Gap. Women will divorce their husbands if their husbands are happier than they are. Its important to note this is even if the women themselves are happy. Their husband's happiness makes such women feel like they are on the losing side of the marriage https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0167268112000042#:~:text=The%20effect%20of%20happiness%20gaps,less%20happy%20than%20their%20husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 06:38 PM |
| 2 | If the government passed a law saying all premarital sex had to be prostitution (even for only a small $ amount), I think men would lose all interest in itIts men of middling attractiveness that care about being good at sex. The really hot guys get to be selfish because women want them because they are hot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Men don't actually care about sex. If they did, they'd strive to be better at it and actively learn about female anatomy.I think if women built better relationships then they'd be more comfortable and confident and able to climax. But most women don't want to spend the time, they rush in, get their feelings hurt, all the while slandering men that tell them look after there hearts as patriarchal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Men don't actually care about sex. If they did, they'd strive to be better at it and actively learn about female anatomy.Or, women are projecting. Most of them own dildos and vibrators because they lack the knowledge or endurance to comfortably get themselves off. Men don't need all that stuff. But women blame men for having trouble doing things they themselves have trouble with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 06:26 PM |
| 2 | In 20 years, will women blame men for allowing their sexual liberation?Women that are walking away from dating aren't being celibate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 06:40 PM |
| 1 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyDepends on enforcement, its a felony not to and felons can't vote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 05:12 PM |
| 1 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyYou think that, but I think letting people with Y Chromosomes box in what was intended to be an X only league is crazy. That same crazy is in Congress and the DOD and will soon enough see women sign up for the draft. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 05:12 PM |
| 0 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyIf so few women are fit to train, then surely we should ust disenfranchise them and enfranchise those that serve. Notable women like yourself. I'd be happy to see the draft abolished and denfranchise everyone that doesn't/hasn't served. If the draft comes back then enfrancise only those subject to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 04:01 AM |
| -1 | Are men the employer or employee of relationships?Employer before marriage, employee after. Courts are the HR sods that ruin everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 03:55 AM |
| 2 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyI don't accept your premise. I don't need to show suffering, or have an odds based prediction of if/when there will be a draft. The simple fact is that most feminists only care about 'equity' and only play lip service to equality. Women repeatedly let me down when it comes to talks about parental leave or draft parity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 03:49 AM |
| 2 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyEquality is an attack to you, huh? My | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 03:41 AM |
| -2 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyHow about a compromise - only the draft eligible, or active service, or veterans that pay tax get to vote? Really narrow down the electorate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 03:40 AM |
| 2 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyWhy should the electorate be able to vote for politicians without sharing in the risk of draft? Right now, half is insulated, and one half is not. The picture you paint seem like the military would be directly appointing senators and Presidents, forgetting that each state has elections and we don't have the Generals making decisions the Sec Def is still appointed by the Senate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 03:38 AM |
| 1 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyIf its such a small thing for men the surely its a small thing for women to do as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 03:31 AM |
| -2 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyI'm not reading that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 03:28 AM |
| 2 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyNo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 12:06 AM |
| 0 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyWe all love playing Civ IV on reddit like we are running things. In my idea world the military service is voluntary, but only people actively serving or veterans get to vote for Senator or president. If we have a mandatory draft in place then only those subject to the draft get to vote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 12:05 AM |
| 6 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyLuckily, I don't need to convince you.The department of Defense is working to correct this injustice. Keep voting democrat And eventually, it will come to be. You act like women aren't capable of passing boot camp.They've been passing boot camp for decades.That means they should be serving and obligated at the same level as men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 11:52 PM |
| 8 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyWomen should be drafted without the luxury of male physicality because they get the vote for people who declare war | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 11:41 PM |
| 6 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyThat shouldn't excuse you from the draft. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 11:27 PM |
| 7 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyI'm encouraged that the Department of Defense is looking at gender discrimination in this category. The arcof history bend towards justice and soon women will be reduced to equality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 11:24 PM |
| 5 | Redditors really live in a bubble, that's why I would take people's takes here with a grain of saltIt's worse, 20% of high school graduates are functionally illiterate, defined as able to read, but they can't follow with instruction manuals. Given that not everybody graduates high school, it must be worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 11:09 PM |
| -1 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyI'm still in the 'forced to carry' afterglow to be mad at conservatives. They are slowly coming around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 11:05 PM |
| 0 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyHumankind isn't good enough for you to be right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 10:57 PM |
| 4 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyNeighboring states will just take advantage; your outcome is pie the sky, impractical. It seems like at long last Congress is looking to address this injustice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 10:56 PM |
| 5 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyGetting rid of the draft is never gonna happen, period, but you could get you forced to sign up for it. Edit- I can't tell if the above post was removed or if they blocked me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 10:25 PM |
| -1 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyI don't want to organize a march against the draft, I want you to have to sign up for it. That's equality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 10:23 PM |
| -5 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyBut men have been and almost certainly will be forced to again. But women are more interested in making rich men money by murdering their own unborn embryos in order to alienate their labor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 10:06 PM |
| 38 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyWhen it comes to voting, Women should have all the rights and privileges as men. Which is to say they need to sign up for the draft or loose their right. Same for student loans and grants Every woman I've had this talk with has disagreed. So, they seem to think I'm unreasonable and a misogynist and I think they are hypocrites | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Women should avoid inexperienced men.At the very least you can establish habits to evaluate. Were they cheaters before or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:28 PM |
| 6 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingBut most women want to hook up too. If the women didn't make it so easy men would do more work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 10:23 PM |
| – | Vogue dating columnist casually admits that women have it hard in dating because they need to compete for a minority of menI remember cringing at the misogyny in literary classes in high school in college. They curated lesson plans. It literally betafied me and mad it harder to get women. No I agree with him, fully hide it and do astounding with women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 06:28 PM |
| – | Vogue dating columnist casually admits that women have it hard in dating because they need to compete for a minority of menUsing red pill terms basically tells women that you're not going to commit. You can have the entire conversation using different terms.And they'll think that you're insightful and you get it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap.Women don't mention that when they talk about the orgasm gap, they focus on PIV. Educate yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Does clubbing automatically mean being sexually active?The beta part mean doesn't mean that he doesn't have access. It means he's has to qualify himself with things other than physique and status | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Hidden competition among women?Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap.I don't take the orgasm gap seriously. Most women fall into to starfish or pillow princesses categories until their 30s when their inhibitions fade. Maybe if they did more than lie thier or post up in doggy they'd have orgasms. Lets also not forget that men are told to fix their death grip and porn addictions but when we talk about toys and porn with women they go on about men controlling women's bodies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:33 PM |
| 7 | Does clubbing automatically mean being sexually active?She slept with a friend. He probably spent far more time qualifying himself to her than would be possible at a club. A guy thats successful at picking up chicks while clubbing would have more sucess than OP. Also realize that woman that OP slept with likely had several partners in that time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:30 PM |
| 4 | Hidden competition among women?The ideal outcome for any single member of a cartel is to agree to production pricing and quantity scheme, and then they alone violate the terms on the black market while the other memembers abide by the terms. Which is why so many women present some what modestly while having sordid backgrounds. These same women will shame women that openly behave the way the chameleons move covertly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:26 PM |
| – | Q4men who believe in the 80/20 rule: What's unfair about casual sex only being available for the top 20% of menMost the men are merely economically unattractive because bs DEI/EEO initiatives that overpay women that underdeliver. We fix women's wage market place over pricing and a lot more men that are women's looksmatch would have families and kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 05:56 AM |
| 0 | What non-anecdotal evidence do we have that women are happier in marriage now than they were in historical retrospective?Or they are taking the kids and money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do people act like modern women are “easy” or that all they want is to hook up? Most women are not interested in casual sex whatsoever.I actually can't and know I can't because almost every study on the topic underscores everyone lies. The assertion isn't as inelegant as most women have high body counts. That given in any age range the highest body counts will be held by the most promiscuous men, followed by promiscuous women, then average women then average men. These quantities for promiscuous and average are not the same. There wil be a larger pool of incel men than women and a lot of voncel women. But while most studies tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Why do people act like modern women are “easy” or that all they want is to hook up? Most women are not interested in casual sex whatsoever.Most women that become anti-hookup become so after hooking up; likely well beyond the number of past partners average men have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 01:33 AM |
| 7 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.My problem has always been that all her issues with me, let's say socks, are super important but when I have problems 'why does this bother you/ this is what men are supposed to do, or we aren't talking about me now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 02:04 AM |
| 0 | How the "situation" would be if males had the same libido as women?Don't women have an equal or higher drive/desire for variety? In terms of median sexual partners the top would be porn stars of either sex, followed by the fittest most successful top 2% of men, then 90 of women then something like the 80% of men. A man has to be a stud to have 15 partners by graduating college, but that's probably just high average for women. Like top 10% of men and 50% of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 06:10 PM |
| 1 | If women want sex as much as men, why do they consider it “being used,” make men wait, and have the ability to go without sex for extended periods of time?Every woman I've had the prior partner count talk with has had more priors. So I think your premise needs reworking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 10:50 PM |
| – | Why do so many women ask to be choked? Is it because they believe men enjoy this?I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 02:20 AM |
| -1 | The way TRP describes female submission makes 0 senseKevin Samuels defined submission to one interviewee as 'live peaceably with a man'; she asked 'You mean, let him be the man?' and then shook her head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 07:11 PM |
| 1 | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantWomen's relationship standards are way higher than their hookup standards. Most men that have enough to worry about losing it have standards that prevent them from getting with promiscuous women. In short, the women aren't thinking the same as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Why are men so anti marriage nowadays compared to 100 years ago?It can, but usually not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 08:42 PM |
| 0 | Why are men so anti marriage nowadays compared to 100 years ago?They were chaste and counterpoised with tales like Guienevere and Lancelot, or Arthur's transgressive incest which was his downfall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Why are men so anti marriage nowadays compared to 100 years ago?Women have a right to their sexuality. Aside from Nazi consorts getting their heads shaved in WWII I'm not sure of any widespread violation of women's physical autonomy that hasn't been sactioned. It just that men don't want to marry such women and if you ask us to use single words to describe such women we use terms like 'slut' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Why are men so anti marriage nowadays compared to 100 years ago?Courtly Romance? Other novels of sacrifice and true love. Not reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Question for men: is the madonna-whore complex real?Yes. Some men can't see themselves with 'pure' or motherly women so sleep with prostitutes or other easy women. The womanly version is where the women have uninhibited casual sex but are frigid or prudes in long term relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 01:10 AM |
| 6 | Do women understand that not all misogynists are incels and not all incels are misogynists?I've had women call me a misogynist and tell me 'I know you have no bitches' just because I think men deserve equal paid paternity leave and until men get it men are the ones that need equal pay for equal work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Is there ceiling to women's sexual hypergamy?Everyone is fine telling men reliance on porn ruined their ability to orgasm during sex with women, but the women get super mad they've vibrated their way beyond satisfying sex with men. Of course they blame the men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: Why is the % of men/women who have ever had a biological child so low and delayed? Is this a reflection of the changing dating market and sexual behaviour of people in USA?People with babies. Thats what welfare is for. For poor women it increases cash flow and standard of living. For women in the middle class having a baby decreases the standard of living | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 05:41 AM |
| 2 | What public figure would you choose to be a role model for the opposite sex?We made nuclear waste for decades before the DOE. No need for it then. But you knew that. You also know that all the sundry regulations that the dole out make things more expensive due to red tape and higher costs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 01:21 AM |
| – | Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young womenMy perspective as a single dad in my 40s is that single moms of any age are acceptable. People always ask 'what do people 20 years apart have to talk' and if you're a DINK, or similarly situated you'd be blindsided by the answers 'our kids, parenting & co-parenting, stress with the exes. Then of course the same thing every relationships talks about- what to do on date night, etc' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 01:14 AM |
| 1 | What are some examples of Blue Pill Media that lied to you about women?Of course. First came living and working with women and then having these writers confirm all my own findings. I will admit I'm more of a dilettante than a rigorous scholar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 04:00 AM |
| -3 | What are some examples of Blue Pill Media that lied to you about women?Not just mine. You can look at Briffault's Law, Schopenhauer's criticism that they lack justice, how many women will break up their families to get money in the form of child support and alimony, the way its been established female teachers penalize their male students in grading, how 3d party reviews of major firms like google and the BBC in England found women were getting paid more for equal work and the way the women howled when men got raises even when the women didn't loose anything, the a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 03:40 AM |
| -1 | What are some examples of Blue Pill Media that lied to you about women?That may have worked on me if I haven't spent my entire life working with and in relationships with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 03:04 AM |
| 0 | What public figure would you choose to be a role model for the opposite sex?You lost me at DOE and the DOE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 02:37 AM |
| -5 | What are some examples of Blue Pill Media that lied to you about women?Women as a whole rank lower in moral development. See: Kohlberg. Women are critical of Kohlberg for being justice focused and rule based. The main riposte was from Gillian who advocated for an 'ethics of caring'. I, of course, agree with Kohlberg. To much of a deontologist to do otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 02:29 AM |
| -2 | Do You Think It’s A Good Idea, To Split The Gym By Gender?Not me. I'm all for Christian Sharia. Not so much so Islam Sharia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 08:42 PM |
| – | Lying or failing to disclose your sexual orientation to your partner is sexual coercion and falls under the same category as rape and assaultI totally agree. Women should be upfront with their sexaul partners from the beginning so I don't waste time and resources on them. Getting emotionally attached and everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Why aren't large age gaps the norm in relationships?I bet a lot of women have an age gap fling in their closet. I watched my 45 year old boss that made a quarter mil a year have a grand time after his divorce with women half his age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women?These women don't seem dysfunctional to other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 06:28 AM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?The women that don't care about a man's salary are functionally unicorns. They dont have a problem because they are already married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 02:31 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Men struggle in dating because women don't marry for love. Women marry for resources | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 03:47 AM |
| 9 | As a woman your best bet for finding a pleasant male partner is making sure he was your friend firstThe longer I was with my exes, the more they let slip. Now, years later YouTube is full of shorts and ask women reddits where women will say exactly what I said. They make the men they think are relationship material wait and the other guys get sex. So men learn not to be relationship material | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 08:33 AM |
| 19 | As a woman your best bet for finding a pleasant male partner is making sure he was your friend firstThe chances are very high that women have hooked up with guys when they didnt think it would go anywhere and made men they like wait. Which means that while she's learning to like you she's fucking other guys. If you don't understand why men oppose this then I can't help you. Your advice only works if your not a promiscuous woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 04:52 AM |
| 1 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanIf you watch those snap chat q&a vids almost all the gym bunnies say they met their bfs at the gym. They like the men that have the confidence to approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Discussion : Am I wrong in saying I’m noticing more attractive men settling for less attractive women these days?That makes sense. Most women are far larger than women their age from decades past | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Are men are more emotionally fragile than women ?And if the men were hit by women I'm sure you'd not care that they could easily beat them, but felt they had to take it because institutions favor women. You'd just feel disgusted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:29 AM |
| 12 | Are men are more emotionally fragile than women ?These men are all learning not to confide in women. They are learning that while women's feelings are valid, men's are not. You are teaching them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Are young men seen as less desirable than their female counterparts because society tends to equate youth with femeninity?No, age and experience in men creates deferance from women. I'm treated way better by women while in my 40s than while I was in my 20s. Women at work really don't like being peers or subordinate to men their kids age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 05:09 PM |
| 1 | How is it that some people see being used for sex as sexually liberating?Quanify 'many'. I can say 'most women' and one can counter 'many men' but 2x as many women are doing it as men; but both are correct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 05:06 PM |
| -1 | How is it that some people see being used for sex as sexually liberating?Thanks. I think I'm pretty level headed, but I keep getting Reddit Cares Messages and called a misogynist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 06:46 PM |
| -2 | How is it that some people see being used for sex as sexually liberating?They enjoy casual sex with men that enjoy casual sex, but usually try to pivot to men that don't enjoy casual sex. Then many shame the 'marriage material' men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 06:26 PM |
| 2 | How is it that some people see being used for sex as sexually liberating?Lack of bonding because both parents worked, plus likely most of them had alienation from their dad so they didnt have a good role model. So they hook up chasing affection. the men they find attractive get their pick of promiscuous women so they dont see a need to stick around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 06:24 PM |
| – | "You should date women your own age, because they'll want you for who you are"Lots of older women try to police the dating habits of their male peers and younger women. The comment was a counterpoint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 04:56 AM |
| 2 | "You should date women your own age, because they'll want you for who you are"Its the opposite. Older men shouldn't date or sleep with younger women unless they are seriously vetting for marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 06:49 AM |
| 5 | Where do you think this new push to call men pedos for being attracted to 18-24 year olds is coming from?Haggard old biddies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 12:11 AM |
| 3 | A man starts a conversation with you outside of a club/bar/festival venue, what do you assume about his intentions?Being all around flirty in general really helps. Women don't want to feel like you're grasping and they are the straw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Have you hooked up with someone for non-sexual reasons?They'll tell the truth on Reddit. It's not like they're wanting to make deep, trusting lasting relationship with anyone here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Since the dawn of time women were berated for being promiscuous. But I never understood why.Sorry, i speech to text a lot and then look for red squiggly lines I missed that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Since the dawn of time women were berated for being promiscuous. But I never understood why.Most people are too PC to admit it but Women in Florida would inherit their husband's wealth, leading to extremely wealthy women that dominated politics. https://youtu.be/ppGCbh8ggUs?si=mK60kjhwpwRkT007 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Since the dawn of time women were berated for being promiscuous. But I never understood why.Most people are too PC to admit it but Women in Florida would inherit their husband's wealth, leading to extremely wealthy women that dominated politics. https://youtu.be/ppGCbh8ggUs?si=mK60kjhwpwRkT007 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Since the dawn of time women were berated for being promiscuous. But I never understood why.It's more than matriarchies don't amount to anything. The reason that Sparta fell into obscurity was their inheritance laws | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Since the dawn of time women were berated for being promiscuous. But I never understood why.And I'm sure there are peoples were famous for seafaring and space exploration | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 06:47 PM |
| 3 | I've always said this and will continue to, a lot of these Anti-RP creators are very "do as I say, not as I do".An intellectual understanding of the way the world works but weak-willed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 06:45 PM |
| 3 | 50-50 doesn't work because men actually have to do more than the woman in order for the relationship to surviveIt seems a lot of women feel disrespected if the man doesn't do things the way they want. You'll see a lot of men talk about giving up on housework because of dominerring women when they get done a certain way or a certain day or in certain weather | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 01:46 AM |
| 1 | What causes dead bead bedrooms in your opinion ? and are they preventable ?My point is if you don't use the lingo you don't turn people off, you come under the radar. Another p*** aspect is I'm most successful talking with people that I have report with and they view me as a credible and discerning person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 01:37 AM |
| 2 | What causes dead bead bedrooms in your opinion ? and are they preventable ?I'm able to have these conversations without the Redpill lingo and have women agree. Especially women of 40 and up where they don't have any interest in maintaining the charade. Women can hookup with their husbands but decide not to. But a single mom will have the kids, job, and FWB that needs to contribute next to nothing. At 40+ and divorced I'm the FWB | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 12:51 AM |
| 2 | How do red pillers explain the average guy being in a relationship?The pill answer is 'beta bucks'. Average guys pay for dates and pay the lionshare of expenses and even do more houseswork. The more 'alpha males' are able to hookup with women with next to no investment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 12:47 AM |
| 2 | 50-50 doesn't work because men actually have to do more than the woman in order for the relationship to surviveMy ex-wife would get yelling mad that I wouldn't load the dishwasher the way she wanted. She would start off talking, but I'd explain 'I'm the one loading it, its clean at the end, so I see no reason to change' then she'd start yelling that I didnt respect her. When I explained this isnt a yelling matter her answer was she had to try yelling because talking didn't work. This happened over many topics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 12:44 AM |
| 2 | What causes dead bead bedrooms in your opinion ? and are they preventable ?Men failed to instil dread. Most the guys were getting sex before they were married then it dissipates because the women don't have to worry about him leaving. These women would start sucking and fucking as soon as they are single. They'll get on tinder and or arrange a coworker for a FWB and will have sex with little to no effort from the new guy. All the hoops that hubby had to jump through will be gone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Earning more and getting fit isn't always the solution for romantic relationships.. understanding a woman's emotional needs is."The worst thing a man can do for his financial future nowadays is get married. It used to be the best thing he could do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 12:15 AM |
| 5 | Do most age gap relationships form deliberately because of the age gap?There's subreddits dedicated to it and it's all voluntary, from both sides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 03:12 AM |
| 5 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentIf they have custody then yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentI think we should make the woman's family pay child support; he grandparents Uncle's aunt's older cousins | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 01:35 AM |
| 4 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentWhy do you want you and the rest of the taxpayers financially supporting the result of some dudes nut when he is fully physically capable to supporting it himself, that's silly. Never wrote that either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 01:29 AM |
| 4 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentYou should use "y'all" in policy discussions. Just because I'd tolerate something being legal doesnt mean I condone it or pratice it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 01:20 AM |
| 7 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentBecause women will lie about being on birth control or when they had their period to baby trap a man. You also have to consider the man who will berate and wear down the woman until she gets an abortion- it's not good for her mental health a financial abortion keeps the baby alive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentDonate sperm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 01:01 AM |
| 2 | We need a modern mythos of "the Average Man"You're against hiring people for wages? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 09:00 PM |
| 2 | We need a modern mythos of "the Average Man"All those listed items were owned privately for a profit, Explain how that isnt capitalism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 08:42 PM |
| 2 | We need a modern mythos of "the Average Man"A farmer owning their land is capitalism; barkeeps, lawyers, store owners etc, all capitalism. You need to be mad at soft monetary policy, reckess deficit spending, low skill immigration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 08:38 PM |
| 0 | We need a modern mythos of "the Average Man"Rubbish, we can raise wages by limiting immigration, sn Smart tarriffs and harder moneyary policy. Requiring people to work 20 years to collect Social Security will help immigration and fund social security | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 08:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The reason why most women initiate breakups/divorces is because they are physically unattracted to their partnerA lot of guys get divorced and end app having more sex than when they were married. So much so that when I got divorced most of my male and female co-workers were expecting me to have a hoe phase and I did. Co workers, neighbors, And at least 1 person off of every social media app except for LinkedIn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 08:14 PM |
| 6 | Earning more and getting fit isn't always the solution for romantic relationships.. understanding a woman's emotional needs is."That sounds pithy and good to your ears, but men not getting married, donating sperm,or going overseas is how we are planning on being successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 07:44 PM |
| 0 | American woman in Australia feels ugly because she doesn't get free drinksMy woman doesn't bring her wallet when we go out, she doesn't drink and doesn't pay. But we are both single parents and it's our appointed smash night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 07:41 PM |
| 4 | American woman in Australia feels ugly because she doesn't get free drinksOf course her name is Tate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 07:36 PM |
| 11 | Earning more and getting fit isn't always the solution for romantic relationships.. understanding a woman's emotional needs is."If men set the tone in the culture they wouldn't have to fly to foreign countries to get suitable brides. Women are setting the tone and men aren't considering upping the emotional intelligence for what is being offered. The rate of never married or divorced women isn't at all times high because men have set the tone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 07:30 PM |
| 15 | Earning more and getting fit isn't always the solution for romantic relationships.. understanding a woman's emotional needs is."Women are doing everything that men can do, but many don't want to do the things that men can't do, Like have kids or breast feed. Why should I care if a woman can earn money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 07:25 PM |
| 5 | Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it?Good on you. I was almost 20 before I had sex and women started getting creeped out or wonders what was wrong so I had to pretend I had a some hookups on my past to get a gf. As a woman you don't n3cehave the same problem- you'll have guys with cherry popping fetishes or want to wife you up and get you preggers asap. So think about what you want and why you want it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 09:47 PM |
| – | Corporate Success vs. The Love of a WomanI'll take corporate sucesss over the Love of a woman. Unless she's got her V card | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Why is the sub have at least some men telling women what they are attracted to?Pretty basic guideline would don't do things with hookups and Bfs that you wouldn't do with your husband. If you've learned that you don't like such things and hubby never go to do it then he gets a hall pass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Why is the sub have at least some men telling women what they are attracted to?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1re589/found_my_wifes_old_sex_tape_now_our_marriage_is/?rdt=37257 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Why is the sub have at least some men telling women what they are attracted to?You're right. Most women want to feel safe. But many want excitement and so they'll have damaging relationships until they are ready to settle down with safe men and then in the words of the famous reddit post 'be whores that fuck like prudes' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 09:05 PM |
| 4 | Ideal Scenario for Men and WomenIts constant struggle and series of shit tests dating the average woman, so ask them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 09:01 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis not quite a troll post. Manoshpere guys talk about needing to be x4 the man your grandfather was to get 1/4th the woman. This woman probably had 4 children and one partner. So men would be getting one kid from woman with 15 exes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Is there truly someone for everyone?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 04:13 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHeresy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 03:57 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDoesn't need to. Women like men with experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 02:34 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe comment I replied too didn't mention women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 02:20 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadVery | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 02:19 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen that put out before they have a ring know what they are doing and men are getting passports to find low to no body count women. Your trying to reduce this to the point of absurdity but even when you do so it still holds out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 02:18 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPeople say Pygmalion was a misogynist because he hated 'the inequities of women' because he lived on an island of temple prostitutes. He didn't beat them or call them names. Just MGTOWed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 02:11 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCorrect, but when that number gets higher and higher the less likely that she's suitable for marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 02:05 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh, you don't think BiPoc can learn Latin or Greek? Just bar bar bar? Truly it is you who is the racist. I'm classicalist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 02:03 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe ratio helps identify 'practice girls'. It also helps women be mindful of their ratios | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 02:00 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf the cuck doesn't put his peepee in a veevee he doesn't add to his N count. Same for the women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:59 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm sorry. It needa to be greek or latin to be valid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:58 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe-Shed was from a home insurance commercial | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:56 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy isnt it practical? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:55 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes, obviously men should have a harem of sexually loyal women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:54 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMost do. As man I'm ashamed I have more sexual partners than reddit accounts. I've either been too permiscious or not spent enough time Red Knighting on Reddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:52 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThanks, Biden | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesWhat do you have to say about his reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:48 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIts more of a guideline or ratio men look at for choosing partners. Best for women to start at 0:0. Women with 3 kids but only one partner that find themselves divorced or widowed would have an easier time finding husbands than a woman with 30 prior partner and 1 kid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:47 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSpittin facts. Men arent afraid of commitment, they are afraid of penury. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:44 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadN Count theory: women should have more children than sexual partners. Shows why Mary, Theotokos was so impressive. The average woman completely fails this guideline | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:41 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe cuck likely already has some maintenance sex prior, so thats a nil impact on his n count. Unless he has bi sex with the bull | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:40 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLike a She-Shed? Or a drawing room contrasted with a mans study? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Why take the risk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesMyron is a clown, but he's right about most things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:34 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?I assume the women divorce them because they failed a shit test so hard they ended up neutered | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:25 PM |
| -6 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Because I've seen far to many men remarry after getting a vasectomy and can get it reversed. Its a shit test. Then they need a sperm donor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:23 PM |
| -5 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?I wouldn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:20 PM |
| 0 | Why do we always hear about "unrealistic female beauty standards" when male beauty standards are far more unrealistic?You're cute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:16 PM |
| -5 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Insurance covers getting her tubes tied too, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesBeing a dad and uncle has made me far more successful with women because I have a lot of experience Treating children like children and I apply the same skills to women. Picking where to eat, paying etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:44 AM |
| 17 | Who do you consider icons of Misandry and why?I have external misogyny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:33 AM |
| 15 | Who do you consider icons of Misandry and why?Talking to women at work about the double standards they benefit from always makes me mad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:47 AM |
| 9 | What could be the reason to talk as woman in detail about former sexual partners/encounters?Lack of emotional intelligence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:25 AM |
| – | How has body count discourse affected women?No, I want a monogamous relationship. If she were in town for 3-4 months on business then I may do something casual. No hookups | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 01:47 AM |
| 5 | Are men making their best offer?You've got it backwards, women are a risk to man's prosperity so men won't marry them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 01:38 AM |
| 39 | Who do you consider icons of Misandry and why?Women,at large, have internalized misandry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 01:30 AM |
| 0 | Women shouldn’t be demonized for doing sex work but they should understand why guys are jealous and bitter about it.It's not even being bitter; it's about realizing your values aren't going to match a lot of men. It's not just sex work. Women who spend their younger years running around getting high body counts with guys who also have are getting high body counts shouldn't expect to pivot towards low body count men because theý're 'relationship material' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 01:26 AM |
| 6 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesThat seems to set up the argument that is better to be an a****** and have kids then be a nice guy and not have children. From a odds basis and success rate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?Some president. Soon enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a mediocre woman?I married one. Not doing it again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:42 AM |
| 1 | "just be skinny" doesn't workThey are average. If they want an average man they can have a great life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?I don't think President Clinton and Secretary Cuomo actually intended things to get that bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?Do you mean when we cratered the housing market by giving subprime loans to minorities to improve home ownership? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?Most women are mid, but get their egos fluffed like they are awesome. So long as equity is more important than meritocracy men will suffer. So they have to focus on being fit, well socialized and interesting. Many men may have to wait date 10-20 years down until they are older and more established | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?Men outnumber women below 95, women outnumber men 95-115 and men outnumber women 2-to-1 over 120 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?Your goal of helping men without hampering women is a non-starter. The problem is that women have got such an institutional advantage despite being physically weaker And being outnumbered 2 to 1 with IQ's above 120. Which leaves us with men intentionally Being a traditional male | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 09:15 PM |
| 11 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?Honestly, a proper war which 25% of the men die would make things better for the men that remain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 08:35 PM |
| 9 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?Evidently the average man has far less Testosterone and more body fat than a man 60 years ago, maybe if todays average man fixed those items he'd be more desired | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 08:30 PM |
| 1 | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societyYou had replied to me. I thought the context was self evident | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:31 PM |
| 4 | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societyNo, I was referring to OP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:20 PM |
| 6 | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societyThe double talk is strong in this one. Deep under this guy's social conditioning that supports female sexual liberation is the classic male disgust with promiscuity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:10 PM |
| 10 | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societyHow can you support sexual liberation but look down so much on women that have sex, or men that commit to them when they aren't virgins? It's like you say all the words women want to hear to have sex because your afraid to tell them what you really think and still want to get your dick wet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 06:24 PM |
| 0 | Evolutionary Biologist David P. Barash Ph.D. theory on how preferentially-polygamous humans became monogamousAll shit shows. Which shows why it's Adam and Eve. Laman cheated Jacob and Abraham got Hagar after he was cucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 01:31 AM |
| -3 | Evolutionary Biologist David P. Barash Ph.D. theory on how preferentially-polygamous humans became monogamousThe Bible showed us how to do it right. Adam and Eve. Not Adam and Eve and Abigail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 01:09 AM |
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