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3	Tried to map the main process behind the Game... feedbacks welcome! You have to ignore exceptions when you try to simplify something, otherwise it won't be easy to understand. OP's graph is meant to be a zoomed out view that highlights major themes, not some kind of intricate play book.	/r/seduction	20/10/13 07:54 PM
-2	Is admitting to a female friend your feelings showing weakness? Is admitting to a female friend your feelings showing weakness? No it is not. In fact it's the opposite. Being honest and sharing your feelings with someone is a demonstration of the strength of your character and it shows that you trust the person with your most private thoughts. However, this is assuming you do it in an appropriate way and can handle the potential criticism or rejection. If you come off as being needy or if you lash out when you don't get the response you wanted, then it does …	/r/seduction	12/07/13 06:47 PM
23	To all the non-believers, and especially those that like to be vocal about it in the comments inbound link from a large sub or something That thread you're referring to was filled (easily the majority of the posters) with people from /r/cringepics. Here's the thread from there. It was also posted in /r/thathappened. Linky to that thread too.	/r/seduction	08/07/13 04:18 PM
2	Hypnotic Seduction - How It's Done example of how hypnotic rapport works. No. That is a not-very-good example of rapport. Just rapport. It's not hypnotic rapport. You do this your guide as well. Most glaringly in part 6 where you talk about conditioning. You keep trying to throw the word hypnotic onto everything as if everything is related to it. What you're not seeing is that if I'm able to remove the word "hypnotic" from something and nothing changes, then its a useless word. Also, "normal" pickup models work, this model works,…	/r/seduction	13/03/13 08:39 PM
1	Hypnotic Seduction - How It's Done I don't know why you're talking to me about "attention" when I was specifically talking about NLP and hypnosis, so I'm going to ignore all of that stuff because I don't care for it. I'll address this though: citing the NLP wikipedia article as a credible source of information [...]. I don't know where you're getting your information from Yeah, that's exactly what I didn't do. I showed you where I got the statement from, which was from a nice summary of many criticisms. I didn't claim it was cred…	/r/seduction	13/03/13 06:07 AM
3	Hypnotic Seduction - How It's Done What I meant by new and different is the hypnosis and NLP stuff you talk about. While it's not technically new, it would be to most people here. However, I am familiar with those things, which is why I mention they are not good. A newbie or someone impressionable, who stumbles across your guide without the ability to separate good information from bad information, is going to think hypnosis and NLP are some kind of jedi mind tricks that they can use as a shortcut to getting women, which they are…	/r/seduction	13/03/13 12:29 AM
3	Hypnotic Seduction - How It's Done The things that are good in this guide are not new, and the things that are "new and different" aren't good. I don't think a newbie, or really anyone, should read this stuff. You'll walk away more confused than you started.	/r/seduction	12/03/13 10:40 PM
2	How do I stop putting every girl that shows interest in me, on a pedestal? Asking her on a date isn't showing too much interest, but it can if you're pushing the date too hard or asking her too often. Also, I don't think it's possible to escalate too much, assuming the girl isn't rejecting it and you're doing it appropriately. I need to qualify that though: what I mean by appropriately is that your escalation is appropriate for the situation both of you are in. You don't want to be escalating on her in front of her friends and family, for example. Showing too much inte…	/r/seduction	11/03/13 07:30 PM
3	How do I stop putting every girl that shows interest in me, on a pedestal? "aloof" is a confusing word that people around here use. It has two meanings usually: to not be overly available, and to not "show your hand" to the girl, so to speak. A lot of "beta" (I really hate these words) people will instantly drop everything to reply to a girl's text or to meet up with them, and that's a bad thing. It shows that your too eager to please and it suggests that shes the only exciting thing in your life. The other thing they do is show too much interest. You want a healthy am…	/r/seduction	11/03/13 08:08 AM
7	Tips from a ~$6000/wk "dating coach"/former model The value is in the feedback and moral support. People are terrible at judging and criticizing their actions correctly. A coach can pick up the slack there and help improve your learning/performance curve dramatically. This applies to any coach/mentor, not just seduction gurus. Take a personal trainer at a gym as an example. Body builders and athletes don't hire them for their factual knowledge, they hire a trainer help make sure they are doing their exercises correctly (its really easy to get b…	/r/seduction	08/03/13 04:07 AM
5	Tonight I realized I need to change my behavior a lot. I can only really point out one thing for you. I've had a couple of girlfriends (I'm 20), and honestly a few of them started out as fans of my music. These girls were into you before they even met you because you play in a band. All you had to do was not fuck up to get them. This was not the case with the journalist-girl. However, it'd be impossible for anyone to tell you where you went wrong with journalist-girl since we weren't there to see the interaction. If I had to take a shot in the dark,…	/r/seduction	22/02/13 03:57 AM
24	Girl checking me out. I look up; our gazes meet, and we both smile. I walk up and... get blown out. Why? she has a test in half an hour, she's busy and has to study That is your answer, quit over analyzing it. She was under pressure and had a time constraint. She probably blew you out because you pushed too hard and that was the quickest way she'd be able to get back to studying. You had bad timing. That's all there is to it.	/r/seduction	25/01/13 04:36 PM
65	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/24/2012 (please upvote - zero karma) "Showing attraction towards someone is the highest compliment I can give them." Also, girls will forgive you for moving too fast, but they won't forgive you for moving too slow.	/r/seduction	24/12/12 10:35 PM
1	I need help on keeping the conversion interesting when approaching someone you don't know I agree that it is a bad question, but that is why I used it as an example. There is potential in even the most bad and cliche questions if you know what you're doing.	/r/seduction	16/12/12 04:25 AM
87	I need help on keeping the conversion interesting when approaching someone you don't know During a conversation you need to think of the person being a completely blank character/canvas, and your goal is to find out what kind of character they are so you'll know how they'll fit in your story (your life). You do this by asking thought provoking and personal questions, and a side affect of that will be a deep and interesting conversation. So, what questions are personal and thought provoking? Well, they are questions that hit on one of three things: 1) emotions 2) motivations 3) charac…	/r/seduction	15/12/12 11:51 PM
3	Girls are so silly (and predictable) Despite what Pafon thinks, smileys aren't a big deal and won't make/break you and they serve a purpose when used >sparingly<. That purpose is telling the girl how to interpret the message you're sending her. They're like punctuation marks. Look at the difference they make: Wear something sexy vs Wear something sexy ;) The winky face can signify flirting and can lighten the tone of your message, where as without it: the message looks flat. In reality there's probably no difference in how the girl…	/r/seduction	05/09/12 05:24 AM
1	I am 24. She is 19. Have a date. Thoughts? If you take her some place to eat, and they ask if you want smoking or non-smoking, ask her then. I can't be with a smoker either because of health related reasons, and I find that being the best time to ask.	/r/seduction	20/08/12 06:37 PM
2	First date in 2 years, dinner + movie, have a few questions. but what are some other cues I should be looking for? You shouldn't be looking for anything. If you have to stop and think about your next move or end up waiting for a sign to make a move, then you'll end up second guessing yourself. Have high energy, act on impulse (within reason), and be self amusing. If she's into you, then she'll reciprocate and give you her full attention. Assume attraction if you're both having a good time. Treat it like a date unless she says otherwise. Don't be afraid to…	/r/seduction	10/07/12 09:23 PM
4	Dressing well yet not giving a fuck: Paradox? Think of it as a pendulum that has to swing back and forth. There are times when not giving a fuck is a bad move and there are times when you shouldn't give a fuck. The trick is learning when its appropriate to care and when not to. I can give you examples if you'd like, but they should be pretty obvious.	/r/seduction	10/05/12 05:29 PM
2	Trying To Incorporate Some Push-Pull and Humor Techniques Into My OKCupid Profile...What Should Be Fixed/Removed And What Is Gold? I'm going to be blunt with you man, ~60% of your profile is pretty generic and cliche. Girls judge guys very quickly on dating websites because they get flooded with messages. You have to avoid cliches in order to sound unique. You need to cut out things like: I’m really good at Cuddling! I've been told I'm great at listening, empathizing with others, making people laugh, and seeing things clearly. I can cook too. And not just stuff found in the freezer isle. You should message me if You are hon…	/r/seduction	09/05/12 09:05 PM
3	Does alcohol seriously make everything so much easier? The relevant highlights from this video: Anchor your confidence in yourself and not to alcohol. You want to be able to summon your confidence at will without requiring a drink to feel comfortable. If you don't know what you're doing, then the potential benefits of alcohol can peak very quickly. If you take drink after drink, then you're going to become sloppy after the first hour or so. Alcohol can help get you into the ideal state where you don't think too much and second guess yourself, but yo…	/r/seduction	27/01/12 04:22 PM
8	22/f here, just thought I'd let you know some things that have worked for me recently if anyone's interested ಠ_ಠ	/r/seduction	16/01/12 04:32 PM
6	Text game.. I really enjoy text game. I don't take the minimalist approach that a lot of people suggest here. Instead, I text girls a lot and really have fun with it. Here are some things I've learned: 1) If you can't tell if a message was meant in a serious or a joking kind of way, then assume she's joking around and respond accordingly. Example: Her: "I feel so fat right now!" Me: "You've got nothing on all these fat, lumpy whale rolls I have." In a situation like this, you can't tell if she's fishing for…	/r/seduction	08/12/11 05:46 AM