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3	Q4M: What are your thoughts on childfree women and infertile women? I agree… some days I just have to keep myself from looking. I hope you’re doing well regardless. ☺️	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 10:53 PM
3	Q4M: What are your thoughts on childfree women and infertile women? As someone who will struggle with infertility and wants to be a mom so damn badly… this thread really hurts to read. I really hope that someone would find joy in the journey of battling my degenerative disease. It’s a big ask, but I just want a little bundle of joy. Thinking about it makes me cry quite a bit. I hope my value isn’t attached to something that is completely and entirely out of my control. I hope some of you maintain grace for those who have chronic illness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 07:31 PM
–	How has body count discourse affected women? My reading comprehension flew out the window. Sorry for misunderstanding you, thanks for clarifying	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 12:35 AM
–	How has body count discourse affected women? I just said I’m a low N.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 12:13 AM
–	How has body count discourse affected women? Who said I wanted a relationship with a virgin? What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 12:05 AM
–	How has body count discourse affected women? Thanks so much, seriously. I appreciate it. Turned 28 this year and the closer I near 30, I feel sick. I just feel like I failed at something along the way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 10:45 PM
–	How has body count discourse affected women? Thanks—appreciate it. I’ve been trying really hard to see both sides of the coin, but it sucks to be told you’re a skank by these huge influencers. I’m useless because I don’t have kids, because I have nice tattoos, I’m useless because I’ve had long term relationships that ended, useless because I have a graduate degree, or my hair isn’t long enough. It fucking sucks	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 10:20 PM
–	How has body count discourse affected women? Conflating what exactly? Does sex with a boyfriend not count as sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 10:01 PM
–	How has body count discourse affected women? Free of disease and STIs	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 09:54 PM
–	How has body count discourse affected women? Yes I agree. As a woman and someone who tries to maintain a healthy life, it’s important to keep myself clean. I do think that, if one is to judge their partner on their body count, then it should go both ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 09:51 PM
–	How has body count discourse affected women? I see. I’d say 10. But it depends on your partner. Each of my former partners have been in my life for long periods of time. I just think it’s too nuanced of a situation to slap someone with the conclusion that they’re a whore	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 09:47 PM
–	How has body count discourse affected women? Not sure I understand what you mean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 09:43 PM
–	How has body count discourse affected women? I’m curious what the definition of a partner is—one night stands or a long term sexual relationship? Edit/ highjacking my comment to say that the majority of men reported 15+ sexual partners versus the majority of women reporting less than 10. Seems 5-9 is the true median.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 09:35 PM
–	How has body count discourse affected women? Makes me feel like shit. My number isn’t even high, but it’s like I’m not allowed to have a relationship with some guys. I’ve even been told that I’m lying about my count. Why tf would I lie. Like if you think I’m a dirty slut, leave me alone. They all want high-value women until they meet their match and then they grasp at straws to make you feel like shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 09:34 PM
8	What would a society in which all men are red-pilled look like? Women would figure out right quick how many men truly abide by chivalric code. Assuming their partners aren’t deadbeats or Crowder 2.0s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 05:38 PM
1	Women base their entire dating lives on a dodgy initial sales pitch, while dismissing men who would make better long term partners because they are no good at that As a librarian… no	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 04:01 AM
1	Why are women often bothered by male attention, but men absolutely love female attention? I’m not denying that in any extent. I know some women who greatly appreciate being catcalled, just as much as I know some men who abhor the idea of being on the receiving end. I suppose it also depends on the definition of unwanted sexual behavior. I find compliments are the most kind gesture without being sexually charged.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 04:21 PM
4	Why are women often bothered by male attention, but men absolutely love female attention? I wasn’t stating that they don’t respond differently in certain situations. It’s certainly not insane to think that both genders don’t appreciate unwarranted sexual behavior in some degree. Please reread my above comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 04:07 PM
12	Why are women often bothered by male attention, but men absolutely love female attention? It’s a super dangerous presumption to make that all sexual attention is gratifying to some degree. It can be welcoming in some cases and degrading in others, but one gender does not appreciate it more over another. Just let people exist for the sake of existing and stop seeing them as purely sexual objects.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 03:46 PM
17	Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a man Sure—guess I’ve never equated fuckboy to having a sexual attraction to someone, just my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 11:53 AM
60	Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a man My impression of the term “fuckboy” isn’t a guy who gets laid constantly, but someone who is emotionally immature, lacks empathy, and has no enjoyable personality traits. I think the sleeping around part is fine or whatever, but the whole point of a fuckboy is that they typically /are/ an asshole about things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 11:41 AM
1	Do Women have higher standards OR are we failing as Men? Right. It’s very frustrating, and the dating game is hard to navigate with these implications. If it works with someone I enjoy, I’m all in. My parents were engaged within six months of meeting each other, and they’ve been together for 30 years. Of course, the men I meet have nuances to them, just as every person does. But I’m more aligned in doing the work to make a good life for myself than most, which can be intimidating to some.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 06:26 PM
0	Do Women have higher standards OR are we failing as Men? In my eyes, absolutely nothing. In their eyes, they see it as “conforming” to a “draconian” way of life. In specific feminist circles, matronly/motherly roles are seen as cowardly and dangerous ideologies, therefore inherently anti-feminist. I disagree with this sentiment. I find it empowering to be able to decide what life I want for myself, and people are not good/bad for wanting a specific way of life that conform to traditional societal roles. Being a mother is the highest honor and I look f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 05:08 PM
5	Do Women have higher standards OR are we failing as Men? For me (28f), personally, I think it has to do with being raised in such an independent way that it’s actually toxic. Being able to hold my own self is a positive trait in some ways, but it’s difficult to want to rely on someone else, which is ultimately what men are looking for. Combine that with societal pressures for women to remain single (e.g. the pop culture phenomena of serial killers, anti-men tropes played by musical artists, third wave feminism). On top of this, I am often shamed by ot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 03:27 PM
2	If you had a son and he asked you how he can become a man, what advice would you give him ? This is why I take pride in helping raise my brothers. I taught them to be loyal, stand your ground, family first, and don’t compromise your happiness for someone else’s benefit. Never lay your hands on a woman. Never tolerate abuse from a woman. Be honest and genuine. Be able to live your life on your terms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 07:59 PM
1	The conservative advice given to women, that tells them to be housewives while letting the men bring in the money, is flawed and downright harmful. Ha! I’m definitely a traditionalist as I’m learning more. Thanks for the advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 01:53 AM
3	The conservative advice given to women, that tells them to be housewives while letting the men bring in the money, is flawed and downright harmful. This is what I want to learn more about. I’m just now realizing how unbalanced dating is. I just met someone who I vibed really well with—we had great physical chemistry, same morals/ethics, same stance on families. But he just wouldn’t believe that I am a demure, gentle, kind and family-oriented woman. Flat out denied it. Said I was lying to him about my body count and more (why would I lie about that?) It’s just odd. I’m trying to understand how men feel in the “life partner” arena. I understa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 01:29 AM
1	The conservative advice given to women, that tells them to be housewives while letting the men bring in the money, is flawed and downright harmful. I agree with this. Wish I could find someone who felt the same, or a man who will commit	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 01:18 AM