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there’s no way you’re still going on ab this with another user…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 04:32 PM
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That’s not the cause of the robbery. The cause is whatever motivates the person to commit the crime. Abusers can identify weak points, that doesn’t mean it’s what motivating them to abuse in the first place. It’s easy for me to steal from Target. That doesn’t mean I’m going to steal just because I can. I’m not motivated because I easily can afford the things I want to buy. Now if I was starving there’s my motivation. Identifying a target with weaker security doesn’t mean they caused me stealing,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 11:07 AM
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Yes you are still responding in anger and defensiveness and I am calm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 12:38 AM
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Okay. I never said preventative measures are bad. I said they are not key to addressing why abuse happens and minimizing the cause of abuse. It’s not a “cause” of a robbery because you didn’t install cameras. The cause is the person who wanted to rob you and why they were motivated to rob you. Also what do you mean by known abuser? Can you show me the database you use that logs all known abusers that is accessible to the public and can you record the amount of time it takes for you to go through…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 12:37 AM
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Yes because that is not the key. The key point to stopping abusers is identifying and minimizing the cause which is: entitlement over others. Preventative measures do not guarantee anything, they can and will fail many times especially when abusers are watching and subsequently planning to bypass or get around them. That’s a strange statement. Explain this to me further. How does lack of preventative measures prove that a man is innocent? What are you trying to say is inherent to guilty people? …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 12:20 AM
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No you are just defensive. I never said not to avoid abusers, I said that does not address why abuse happens and it is easy for all abusers to simply adapt and continue to abuse other people. Therefore it is not an effective strategy to addressing why and how abuse happens. You don’t have to agree. Statistically people can do everything you said and still be harmed. There’s no guarantee you can avoid abuse by following a set of rules. Laws are put in place to keep order and they protect your wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 12:08 AM
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So just had a conversation with another typical ppd male who believes that victims of abuse and rape and whatever crimes disproportionately affects women, are seeking it out and that’s why they get hurt. That if they “follow the rules” and “date the proper men” and “don’t seek out traits that abusers have” and “don’t drink or go out late or dress immodest according to their standards (meaning she has to meet the standard of what every man finds provocative), then abuse and rape just wouldn’t hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 12:00 AM
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Yes that is correct. No matter what you do, the perpetrator still has to decide to commit a crime. Idk what you start to spiral into, it doesnt mean that anyone who sees a prostitute is violent. What I said is that perpetrators have targets. When all people change the behavior they target, abusers will shift that and target something else. So the key isn’t to avoid what abusers target because they will just target you another way. It’s very stupid approach. The key is to see the motivation for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:29 PM
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That’s a bizarre response. Yes, there are tons of reasons how and why people choose partners and sure, there are traits more common in abusers. I don’t see how that causes abuse, because the cause requires the abuser to choose to abuse someone. Does that make sense? So a more efficient approach to whatever scientific method you’re trying to use to study abuse, Would be to look into why abusers harm people, what motivates them to commit this crime, and how they do it. Abusers have even answered t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 11:02 PM
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uhhh I think ur just projecting ur own anger because u keep escalating when im responding pretty calmly towards u.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 10:23 PM
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When you implied they were asking for abuse and should’ve been able to predict behavior with imaginary knowledge you assumed they had based on …nothing. Ive worked in family law specifically in a restraining order center. What I can tell you is that victims don’t choose their abusers. Abusers choose their victims. I don’t think it’s helpful to ask why victims choose their abusers in order to have a “gotcha” on them, that seems particularly cruel and asking specifically female victims appears tar…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 10:22 PM
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I think you’re doing the most tbh and im just responding to the op broski
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 09:54 PM
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Then you should reread your own post. No, I am just following your post that specified an example towards female victims of abuse. I think people can have whatever relationship boundaries they want in a relationship because it’s personal. I would tell a woman in that situation that she should date men who have those same boundaries. When a man feels like men should dictate what women wear, that is not personal and is misogynistic. But in a relationship, if a man wants a woman who does not post s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 08:58 PM
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Men who hate women victim blame and men who don’t hate women, don’t victim blame them. It’s hateful because the motivation for making those statements come from hate and believing women “invite abuse” or “must have wanted to be abused” “can see through all forms of abuse” or “are asking for it”. Good men don’t believe women are inviting abuse just because they are women and should “always know better”. Good men and non hateful men can use nuance, context, understanding, logic, and empathy. Misog…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 08:53 PM
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Idk why you’re fuming at my comment. Sure women who are being hateful to men hate men. Did you think I’d disagree? Do you believe you have authority over what I think because you are a man? What…was that supposed to achieve? Yes it’s that simple. Hateful people don’t act hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 08:25 PM
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This is what I’m saying. Because I know non hateful men, that’s how I can compare these groups. The non misogynistic men who don’t hate women do not speak like this. Therefore they don’t get called that LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 08:23 PM
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Not really, you’re asking and starting a debate on why these guys are identified as hating women and I’m saying it’s because they hate women. I’m saying when men do NOT hate women, they don’t behave like this. They’re not interested in victim blaming women who have been abused, they don’t insert themselves in other peoples’ relationships just to dictate the female partner’s instagram posts, and they do not diminish the hard work of the parent that stays at home. Therefore, they don’t get called …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 08:23 PM
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Did you read the post or are you responding to imaginary statements in ur head?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 08:17 PM
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Tbh men who don’t hate women don’t act like this. Men who act like this hate women so that’s why they get the criticism. It’s really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 06:24 PM
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How is that preying on women u make no sense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 06:01 PM
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I’m banned on tinder and im not getting banned anywhere else so u can learn how to have charisma hahaha. But I have slept with two women before. Wasn’t so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:53 PM
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Stop I was thinking exactly this. The rhetoric is insanely close to incel language. But the difference is that since it’s bisexual people in general pushing it, it must be okay and it’s not the same. I’ve been thinking that for a while and it’s weird to hear people push for it so hard. Just move on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:50 PM
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Yeah probably. I am not autistic and fairly charismatic, people person. I don’t think it would be that difficult for me because I don’t struggle in the ways that sexless men do in terms of relating to people and attracting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:47 PM
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It used to not be so bad! I was on the same injection birth control method for like 4-5 years before I took some time off of it. And it was great because it stopped my period and cramps and a lot of other side effects of a period. But when I restarted it the hormones flooded and took me out 💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:46 PM
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Hahaha I know im thinking of switching to an iud actually. In college I was going to get it and watched a video of what happens and got so scared I cancelled my appt haha and then got on the injection. Condom sex is fine but sometimes I have reactions to them which isn’t fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:35 PM
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I don’t feel well and there’s nothing I can do it has to run its course and it just sucks. I only said I wish I were a man bc then I wouldn’t have to take birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:33 PM
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I am so intrigued by this conversation, thanks for respondingg. I do think it is weird to fixate on having women add more men to their dating pool simply because men want them to. I don't get it. And bisexual women were hopping in full blast saying that there are no reasons that are valid or not biphobic for a woman to reject a bi man. It's just insane to read because with any other preference, I feel like people are much more chill? I also was baffled by that! I don't understand at all how thre…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 12:07 PM
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you can’t see it cus im too dark but im blushing rn usernames? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 11:52 AM
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This discourse has been insane. The bisexual men are raging at straight women for not considering them and it’s exhausting to read. Like no one has to consider anyone bruh. And another bisexual man was like well now women are making DL men and that’s on them🤷🏽‍♀️and everyone has a responsibility to make people feel comfortable with their sexuality. And the whole dating pool thing is just so manosphere, why is it always on straight women to ensure men have the amount of sexual options they’re hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 11:51 AM
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I’d wife u up :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 11:46 AM
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I hate being a woman like why did I restart my birth control and it’s the exact same type…but now im getting hormonal acne, spotting, dizziness, and seriously decreased appetite. I had the worst nausea ever a few weeks ago and could barely keep down water. And the weight? Like I could be 10 lbs lighter just by not taking it. ALL SO ME MAN CAN CONFIDENTLY NUT IN ME? sigh. Just for one day I wanna be a man and not deal with being a woman. I want my body back. I want to be regulated. It’s the same …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 11:45 AM
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These men literally have no lives so they make themselves feel better by complaining about the same damn things every day every hour to keep themselves occupied. None of them are even consistent in their beliefs either it’s all j unnecessary drama bc ppl don’t have IRL lives or friends
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 06:33 PM
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Ah okay so if he has a desire to act and isn’t then he is passive. And if he doesn’t have a desire to act because she needs to earn it or whatever then I would call that disinterest and I think it’s fair to move on. There’s no obligation for him to perform or whatever imaginary scenario you’re trying to create either way it’s still disinterest and she’s right to move on. Yes so it’s disinterest not passiveness. Cool. She should move on. No I don’t think it’s thinking you’re the prize it’s just m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 02:47 AM
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Sure but the point is that she’s not rly attracted to sit around waiting for interest or pursuit or reciprocation. Many men talk about this too and how it’s unappealing to them and feels much better to be dating someone who puts effort into you. a lot of people aren’t fond of passive behavior🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 12:23 AM
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No this just means he’s uninterested or he’s passive with her due to lack of interest or whatever other reason. Makes perfect sense to go for men who make it clear they are interested and want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 11:10 PM
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HAHAHAAH wait that’s spot on What’s ur type?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:19 PM
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What’s his bmi?🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:18 PM
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Hahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 03:14 PM
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Many men here are severely ugly and genuinely believe still they are above ugly women… despite not being able to pull better. For this to work, men need to stop overrating themselves and also most men are non committal and the uglier he is the worst it is because he pedestalizes sex and wants to use women vs have a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 02:03 PM
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No literally why are they all obsessed with pretty gay men? Sometimes I just think incel types are just closeted and insecure homosexuals
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 02:00 PM
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Yes now men here need to hit the gym and practice social skills instead of regurgitating the same points and being chronically online and socially abnormal. What is the point of all u men posting the same things and acting the same and looking the same every day? When was ur last haircut?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:59 PM
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Yes they are the normal socially adjusted ones that go outside and act like a normal guy. They usually get girlfriends fairly easily and meet women or date within their social circles. The other half of Gen Z men are chronically online and socially awkward and have no idea what a decent hair cut is or how to dress even remotely trendy. A lot of guys are weird. Also men overrate themselves a lot and will look a mess and think they are still fashionable even tho everyone’s telling them they look a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:57 PM
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I’ll share with you and then you tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:52 PM
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Is that my looksmatch?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:50 PM
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Oh really? Prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 08:01 AM
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Which ppd guy is my looksmatch?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:03 AM
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Plus plus plus I love my bfs forearm tattoo I hope he gets more!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:59 AM
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Wait yeah what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:54 AM
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Girlll most men who have kids don’t want kids let alone show up for them at all. Childfree women will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:27 PM
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If he’s staring me down and being inappropriate I would just distance myself and end the friendship. I’ve been interested in men who were mutual friends that I see at house parties and get togethers who were not interested in me. I just treat them as normal and idk they do the same to me. I don’t cry about my “lust” or “attraction” or ever make it his problem. I act respectful, kind and normal and typically the feelings fade and you focus on someone else. I’ve never understood grown ass adults w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:38 PM
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There are no simps. Men would rather put a g*n in their mouths than do something nice for a woman..esp if he doesn’t get sex in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:21 PM
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All men pursue casual sex. They want harems of 18-24 year olds they can use and discard. Has that not been made clear by the millions of men who say that on a daily basis? I don’t think they care what society thinks or what women want. They can put whatever they want on the apps, they lie all the time to get sex. Men have been dissing commitment, relationships and marriage since the beginning of time. They hate being tied down. it’s a breath of fresh air just to find a man who’s truly open to a …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:53 PM
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I don’t understand how what you got from these conversations as an old woman is limited to “DID U LIST WHAT U ARE GRATEFUL FOR?”. That’s not even proving your point. I’m grateful for a lot, you’re trying to shame people into having an attitude that isn’t even helpful for them. I’m leaving it because you seem out of touch with reality, lady. I’m grateful for my amazing life. I am not grateful for people like you who are dismissive, rude and belittling towards people’s experiences. I think you sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:55 PM
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No it just means you’re angry at being hurt like a normal human being. You can exist beyond their control by doing things to make yourself happy and fulfilled, not by trying to dismiss ur natural reactions to harm as something u should be grateful for. I would say don’t be grateful for harm, don’t associate positive emotions where they’re not warranted. Use those experiences to put emphasis on goodness positivity and optimism for things that bring u joy. I have no idea why u even introduced such…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:46 PM
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Oh I saw your response and what you were responding too idk why you’re trying to play this moral high ground game as if ur better than people who acknowledge negative feelings. This isn’t twisting your words, you’re uncomfortable with the fact that anyone could have a different interpretation than you. That your words have more impact than your intention. That YOU didn’t think through what you said. No, no one has to be grateful towards an abuser. And no that attitude is not helpful to anyone. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:43 PM
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Autistic approaches to dating do horribly. Challenge yourself to develop traits that will help. Dating is not a math problem and people aren’t formulas to figure out. It’s unattractive to be so systematic about, focus on connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:38 PM
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Why are you saying this in relation to women having no choice over who they are repeatedly forced to wed and be raped by? What is the moral high horse you’re trying to stand on here? Yes child brides get a place to live and food when their elderly husbands allow them to. No, I do not think they should be grateful. Just because we dont think child brides shouldnt exist doesnt mean they shouldn’t be grateful for the food their rapists offer them! How wonderful! Jesus talk about privilege. Who says…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:31 PM
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Look where you are. The type of men here complain that women don’t ever look at character. That all women date bad boy chads and if she’s with a good man she’s settled for him because she couldn’t lock down a man hotter. Don’t lie to my face like I don’t watch these comments spammed on the sub. These men would rather get laid than be a good person so they don’t care about character. They actually feel resentment being a good person bc they’re mad they “never would have had to care about personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:28 PM
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I see them right now. Lying doesn’t help your case
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:25 PM
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ah you were born yesterday. give it 10 more mins!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:06 AM
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how u gonna say “not all men!” All the time and then fail to be an example..?💀 and better yet, as a misandrist, how do I know more good sexually successful men than u??? Wth. 🤦🏽‍♀️ how u gonna let a misandrist show u up in ur own game? my body count consists of more good men than these dudes know in their personal lives 💀 this why I don’t take these fools srsly. how am I soooo “misandrist” and a better MRAdvocate than u? have higher moral expectations of men than u?🤨be so fr
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:05 AM
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Boy please lmao. These men don’t care about those women when they’re idolizing their fucking abusers and calling them “successful” or commenting “oh well at least he got to hit”. If u care about women being hurt, you don’t prop up the people who traumatize and brutalize and violate them. wtf is that. If they wanna break the cycle, break the damn cycle. Be the change. Idolize men who represent the change. Support men who are the change. There are so many hot sexy rich and amazing humanistic incre…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:48 AM
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There are no good men or women who coerce people to have sex. There aren’t any exceptions or excuses for this 🤷🏽‍♀️. Coercion is literally illegal. If someone disagrees they can take it up with a judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:37 PM
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Depends on the guy. Some do and some don’t. Some are selective some are not. It doesn’t really matter it just opens the conversation to get to know another person. That’s a positive trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:51 PM
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And you are better…why? You haven’t even made an effort to say hello so why does any of this matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:39 PM
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It doesn’t need to be. That’s what getting to know each other is for!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:38 PM
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You don’t know anything about him. He showed interest and showed up consistently so she could get to know him. She got to know him and liked him so she dated him. What is confusing to you? You didn’t get to know her so you didn’t end up with her. Your primary interest in women and that woman, is sex. If you’re not going to put any effort, that’s fine but accept your results and move on. You weren’t even interested in getting to know her so you didn’t. Stop whining about it. You can easily go pay…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:10 PM
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You get to know him? You use words to have a conversation? Is this your first day on earth?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:05 PM
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What kind of dumb ass question is this? Why would I pursue a man who is turning his back on me? What reason would I have to do that especially over a man who’s literally saying “hey I like you I’m here and want to spend time with you?” Are you feeling ok? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:04 PM
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in another world redsand and I are in a lavender marriage :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:11 AM
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In reality it changes based on the person. Weird is subjective and sometimes some guys are only lonely because they are looking in the wrong places or live in an area where it’s hard to date or aren’t in a good group of people. You have to be able to realize people are not math equations or formulas. Generalities are just that, generalities and people aren’t as simple as you make them out to be. Clav goes out all the time and cels claim he’s TheChadtm and he gets rejected all the time. Everyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:05 PM
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I mean you can’t knock it off, but we all have our things 🤷🏽‍♀️I think it is strange to talk about dating and attracting others and being a people-person as if there are no skills involved. There are such things as people skills and as a recruiter I see people who have them and who don’t alllll day long. I read feedback on people all day long. I’m literally reading evaluations right now! Men who don’t develop these cannot be shocked they don’t perform well in social settings. It’s like taking a …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:57 PM
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yea u act a little less weird when ur not desperate for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:24 AM
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Lmao stfu
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:16 AM
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me because it keeps happening to me every time I don’t want a man I get in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:16 AM
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YES FLARED PANTS I hope ur pillow cold tn
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:16 AM
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I’m depressed we don’t talk more. I’ll use the voice 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:15 AM
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Hm i think it is more that sexless men are often inconsistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:43 PM
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Yes it can be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:39 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:35 PM
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I think that’s just some random misogynistic fairytale ur spinning. Women did not say people can’t abuse each other. Ur just making stuff up LOL. Men and their little fantasies. What? No look it up cels are actually considered terrorist threats. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-65829240 - “A judge has found that a deadly 2020 attack on a Toronto massage parlour was an act of terror inspired by the incel movement, Canadian media report. On Tuesday, Ontario Superior Court Justice Suhail Ak…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:19 PM
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My unpopular opinion today is that 90% of romantically/sexually unsuccessful men are that way because they are weird/antisocial and/or autistic. I believe almost all of them, if they were socially normal and funny and cool, would be able to pull women. Source: I’ve met no unsuccessful men who baffled me because he seemed “normal”. None who seemed easy to talk to, down to earth, funny, or charming. I’ve seen unsuccessful men I would have sex with based off of looks alone but none that have person…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:55 AM
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I’m constantly baffled at the egos I see here from men who quite literally haven’t had a single person ever interested in them. They think they’re perfect for just existing…like god I wish I had that ego I’d be invincible
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:27 AM
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Expand?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:22 AM
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Okay? Average on average crime. Both. Most sexless men will refuse a woman they find “below” their looksmatch which is basically some arbitrary standard they set. See men always told me “u are what u pull, u are who u can get a relationship with”, but then men don’t apply that to themselves lmao. Also maybe a dozen sexless men have called me ugly. I’ll even show u a pic of myself if u want but I’m pretty average looking. Yes sexless men claim that they have nobody interested in them (bc the obes…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:22 AM
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Right? Like what do I get a nice hammer?💀he has a lot of them bc he used to work construction. He loves Home Depot and home projects lolol. That’s true I should definitely keep a list but idk he doesn’t come from a lot so he genuinely doesn’t want or expects anything. Hm I feel like there was some expensive thing at Home Depot he wanted but I can’t remember what it was..I’ll keep thinking on it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:42 AM
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What’s not to understand? Yeah if u ask for advice and fuck it up or don’t follow it or get defensive about it or bitter or whatever, it’s on you. General advice isn’t bad just because it doesn’t perfectly fix ur situation nor is it bad because u don’t like it. Sure I mean you’ve made that clear no? But if u don’t like how people are responding to u complaining like that then complain in another way or keep it to yourself. I’ve seen tinder and bumble and hinges profile review pages and people ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:57 AM
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Then don’t ask for advice and then complain about it. Men can just finally stfu and figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:42 AM
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Why is it so hard to shop for men? My bfs birthday is coming up and I just want to get a few gifts but his mom already gave him the nespresso or keurig thing he wanted GRR. Now I am back to square one…his interests are food and CONSTRUCTION TOOLS smh. I already taking him out to dinner but I want to give him a gift he will use often. I already got him a new owala he loves and a massage machine and a hat and some shirts …hmm maybe shoes? He wants clothes but that’s a given and too easy. I want so…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:36 AM
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People have sex all the time in relationships that makes them feel desirable. I had sex w my current bf the first date and now we’re dating and the sex is fire ngl. You are just noncommittal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:31 AM
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I think it’s great and women should definitely value, appreciate, cherish, and develop independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:23 AM
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Is this about circumcision?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:08 AM
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u and ur dad jokes 🙄but true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:07 AM
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Ok preach
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:07 AM
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And then when u ask them this they say women should care about sexless men because these same men will kill women and rape them and collapse society. And these are the “good men” who supposedly would treat women better than “chads”. Chad ain’t ever threaten to collapse society man, he just moves on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:58 PM
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I wanted to expand on this because today I saw these fat men hating on a fat woman for saying she wanted to be taken out on a date…like?? Then, more cels came on and I saw they were minority men…hating on minority women. Ur not sexless man if u filter out every woman of color heavier than a size 4. THESE MEN WITH NO OPTIONS!! They call women entitled for having high standards and yet they are MEN WITH NO OPTIONS lecturing women on what they should do to be with THEM. They don’t even have anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:57 PM
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Why are ugly men so entitled and rude? I would think if you’re desperate for women you’d be on your best behavior but I keep finding that less attractive men have severely poor personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:56 PM
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wdym easy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:01 AM
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You’re not using it for dating because you’re not that type of man. I’ve met both my current and previous boyfriends on dating apps. Stop projecting your horniness and refusal to commit or seek deeper relationships 🩷hope this helps!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:01 AM
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And i love it😛i pulled a good one 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:46 AM
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What? There’s no repenting you just pick a guy who doesn’t care and be a slut for him I like sex i like my man so i just combine the two and rock his world
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:30 AM
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I like when men say it it’s cute
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:25 AM
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all men do is validate the narc in me sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:22 AM
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i like u
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:12 AM
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Hell yea
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:06 AM
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It’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:12 PM
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So? U should still be the primary parent that’s why it’s called that. Pawning ur kid off on someone else is crazy and irresponsible but not shocking for a man bc god forbid they have any personal responsibility for anything smh Yeah idk how they never managed to learn how to use condoms smh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:12 PM
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Parents are responsible for their own kids. A man being a male doesn’t guarantee him a support system, in fact women probably have more close ones to help out with child care. Also a man shouldn’t feel entitled to dump his kids on the women around him that’s poor behavior I have no idea why you’d encourage that. Telling though. When men ask for custody they get it like 90% of the time. The problem isn’t that men aren’t getting to see their kids the problem is that they don’t want to. Only 4% of …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:26 PM
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no ur post yesterday was meaner I don’t approve ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:07 PM
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hurry smh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:03 PM
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In my opinion??? Zero. No single dads im not dating someone with children because I don’t want them yet A lot of men are mature cute and groomed, please
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:39 PM
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Yea how can I compare as an average woman if even the most undesirable men view me as ugly? I’ve always been attracted to average dudes but they find me unattractive 👿
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:21 AM
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100 RAHHHH beat that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:20 AM
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Agreed it’s tough out here as an average woman😫who’s telling the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:55 AM
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lover boy have u turned to the dark side??😫😫
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:36 AM
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I am an average woman and today more sexless men called me ugly. Why do sexless men who claim to be desperate have such high looks standards? I find more men attractive than sexless men find women attractive for both sex and commitment. So insane to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:34 AM
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LMAO wtf is that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:33 AM
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Disappointed in you today. Do better tmr
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:32 AM
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They both abuse each other and have drug problems. What are u harping on about? Amber had no support and was in the wrong and lost her job which was well received by the public. Shes a nobody now as she should be. Tiktoks from a 19 year old insulting men is not a hate group. Incels are a terrorist group recognized in multiple countries because of how poorly the manosphere has behaved and people they killed with disproportionate anger towards women. These are the facts. The rest is emotional mano…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:00 AM
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No one is saying that. Watch the movie “he’s just not that into you” that’s what if he wanted to, he would means.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:30 AM
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Based on my comments what’s my rating? We can do a comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:32 AM
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hell yea😛my bf finds me cute so that’s all I need
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:32 AM
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Yea it’s true im ugly and i like to crap on the sexless 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:49 PM
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It’s bad if you only focus on false accusations that went nowhere per usual. Amber heard received a ton of ridicule online and lost her job. She didn’t have support, she just had people who rightfully claimed Depp was also at fault for bad behavior which he was. No one was upset she lost her roles and there’s videos of her looking like she just snorted coke where everyone’s humiliating her. She’s not the face of any movement. There are no hate groups against men you’re in wonderful position as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:14 PM
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That’s all normal blue pill advice. Redpill introduces “female nature” and misogyny which feels good to a struggling man to give them someone to blame and a revenge fantasy (now that I’ve worked on myself like a normal person for once and get attention, I have the right to treat women bad! Look how they were when I was ugly!!). Blue pill advice gives self help under the guise that the advice are normal things people do regularly to improve for themselves. Redpill pretends being sexless is the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:34 PM
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I don’t dictate society the manosphere doesn’t only get criticism from feminist women. Lots of people disagree and dislike cel and manosphere culture. It’s hateful like quite blatantly … Oh all the time! In fact crimes against women even with evidence are thrown out or dismissed or not taken seriously because of a “young man’s future”. All of our behavior is scrutinized because “what if men don’t find that attractive?” “Men don’t like loud women, career women, ambitious women” “men don’t like bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:23 PM
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No all the commotion online from men about basic social behavior is causing a fight. I find it pretttty unwarranted 90% of the time. We assume the worst of them because “expressing themselves” lead to the manosphere and cel servers where they advocate for terrible behavior towards women. If they want to have a normal conversation and don’t result to “WOMEN SHOULD SUBMIT AND LOSE RIGHTS BC IM HORNY”, like yea I think more people would hear men out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:10 PM
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No I don’t, I use common sense. Plenty of men I know find it fairly easy to express frustration in a normal manner. It’s only a subset of men who have no clue how to deal with their emotions and find rape threats an appropriate reaction to feminism. Maybe you need a spreadsheet to figure out “how do i use appropriate language to express myself”, but the vast majority of men seem to figure it out ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:07 PM
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Tit for tat im glad we all can agree people can have issues 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:04 PM
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It’s overly dramatic, immature and leads to psycho behavior and violence. What they’re describing is how every 14 year old feels. Im sooo ugly and everyone hates me! It’s teenage angst people grow out of. It’s inappropriate for full grown adults to play into that instead of growing up, maturing and finding responsible coping methods for their feelings. It shouldn’t be mainstream because it’s ridiculous and HS teenagers can handle more stress in life than these adult blackpillers. It doesn’t accu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:23 PM
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Why do you need a spreadsheet to know how to appropriately express emotions? Perhaps men need to speak to mental health professionals if being told it’s inappropriate to make rape jokes causes this much distress and leaves them clueless of how to put words together to express frustration
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:19 PM
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No it’s just that men are not opening up they’re causing a fight where they expect to win instead of having a conversation. Be vulnerable and genuine and responses will be more likely to mirror that. Be mindful of your audience. Yes when being emotional you’re still expected to behave appropriately. If someone cuts me off it’s normal to be upset and complain people sometimes suck on the road. It’s not normal to fly off the handle stalk them verbally abuse or accost them when they park and then j…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:17 PM
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I don’t care tbh it’s not my job. I come here because I like to debate these topics because other ones on Reddit don’t interest me. Besides, most men know what they need to do and the chronically single types are all the same. I’ve never met an outgoing prosocial happy neurotypical man doing well for himself that had zero options. Those types do the work and meet women regardless of if they’re an 8 or a 4. Life is simple it’s a bunch of choices the men who’ve been here for years want to be here …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:10 PM
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The me too movement was great and addressed a lot of sexual crimes against children and brought them to light which is awesome to pursue justice in those cases and harm against people in this country. Amber heard was fired from her roles and got lots of deserved hate. Depp also had lots of evidence against him and it’s great he’s laying low after his poor behavior. I’m not mad at all that amber got public flack for being crazy. Men don’t give sympathy so they don’t receive it they even shame boy…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:52 PM
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This just proved to me that the “nice guys” spend all their time chasing aloof disinterested women who make them earn their affection. She’s not kind at all and blatantly rude and showing it as obviously as possible… And she has a man chasing after her doing everything he can, another man who’s interested in a fling with her, AND even you said yourself you don’t like her but “need to spend time with her”. It sounds like the key to a great boyfriend is to treat them carelessly and then just not c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:25 PM
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Can I be ur obsession 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:25 AM
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Thank you. I have had lots of casual sex and did not feel bonded to a majority of them. Also a fuck ton of things cause spikes in oxytocin. In fact I frequently got post nut clarity where I would like them less after the feel good sex hormones are gone and would want to be alone or do something else…😐 I feel bonded to men when I feel heard, understood, emotionally safe, and through humor, quality time and feeling as if they are reliable. Closeness. Sex would never be enough to bond me with anyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:23 AM
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Exactly, agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:15 AM
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Only idiots create the manosphere in response to feminism and then cry they’re not getting any interest. Like you’d have to have a melted brain for that to make sense. How u gonna make it harder for urself to date and make women hate u then complain about it? 💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:49 PM
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u have sisters and still out of touch? 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:04 AM
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ur still here so I must get it pretty well :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:17 AM
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Again men don’t know the lives of average women. We’re not all influencers dude and OF thots most of them try and make no money. Wake up and pay attention to the women around u not just the hyper pretty model types on ur screen my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:14 AM
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Try using a bit of critical thinking it helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:31 PM
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Then you must not mean average women The average person in America cannot afford a $500 emergency expense. What fantasy world are you people living in? Get off ur phone for 5 minutes!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:31 PM
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Great then you should be perfectly aware of how important it is that children be born in planned, positive and healthy environments with parents who have a strong relationship with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:27 PM
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Nobody I know is fucking a dude with a boat and a 6 pack. We’re all young working women dating young working men. STOP USING INFLUENCERS AS REPRESENTATION OF AVERAGE WOMEN. Why is every man here porn sick and addicted to influencers? None of you go outside. Everyone has problems finding the right person to date at the right time. If women notice a pattern, like they’ve always done in history, they will just try something different. That’s called life. Are any of you working adults at all who goe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:51 PM
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I’ve never seen any of these men complaining and saying all this misogynistic bullshit that was a good person let alone a good romantic option. If they’re the ones lonely and suffering I legit do not care. I’ll care when they behave properly and treat people with kindness. Until then it’s not a loneliness epidemic, it’s a consequence of their actions. Most men grow up and learn personal responsibility and make a life for themselves. These are the dudes who failed to thrive and now must make ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:35 PM
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I wasn’t a social worker I worked out of a domestic violence and restraining order center. How have you gotten involved in your community?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:25 PM
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No that makes total sense. People of all attractiveness levels can commit any crime. But yea they believe ugly guys are victims who either get persecuted more or don’t have the opportunity to harm women in the first place because they aren’t ever “chosen”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:39 PM
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I worked in social services for a while. I’d just want to be really confident before having a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:37 PM
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You’re circling your argument. Let’s start here. You said women are the selectors and women have lots of options. Now let’s bring it back to the core argument of who’s abusing and raping women. Is it the selected men or the unselected men? Yes or no. You said women are only manipulated by tall hot chads that she selects for. Is that true or not? Are ugly men behaving this way or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:15 AM
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Try being a woman you might change ur mind. The girl power camaraderie online and irl is nice. But when shit goes down ur always the first to blame. It’s a quiet rage u feel, men don’t get it because we don’t externalize it and take it out on men physically like they do us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:13 AM
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These dudes just hate women. When you accept that like truly accept it it’s much easier to deal with their hate. Idk when things will ever change but men’s absolute hatred for women runs strong. So much so I genuinely am pleasantly surprised when one is not like that. I think it helps sm though to have my partner. He is quite literally the most thoughtful kind hearted man I’ve met. Like it’s truly incredible how patient he is and he’s been thru a lot. And a lot bc of crazy women!! And yet still …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:11 AM
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Ha well you should’ve seen me when I was a young child in the internet sex crimes unit getting humiliated by cops (surprise surprise who also threatened me because I was “not cooperating” when I couldn’t remember my Snapchat password) when they were investigating the grown men who hacked my phone and threatened to leak photos if I didn’t do degrading sex acts for them on camera. Weirdly not a lot of sympathy in the room. Figures. Whereas boys alwayssss got the benefit of the doubt and sympathy f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:07 AM
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The baby would be his
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:50 AM
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There’s not an expectation. Mentally ill men come online and say there is therefore this is a good rebuttal to their mentally ill claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:24 AM
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You said women are choosing tall and good looking men, those are the ones selected so those are the ones hurting women. “This man should have been in the same as incels” indicating these tall and good looking selected men right?…and they are the ones abusing and raping women? Women don’t have a sixth sense and men are idiotic for claiming that as if women ever said that. Women are just saying it’s possible for men to come off creepy and it’s possible for men to be ugly and both are possible ways…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:23 AM
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I am terrified of being pregnant and getting birth so bad like to the point I would forego it all and adopt. I’ve always worked in social services and with kids until now so I’d be happy to make a home and make a family for a kid in need. Regardless of if I have blood children I want to adopt tbh. But having a child is commitment and responsibility way beyond 18 years. If he is doubting if he’s even the father and doesn’t even trust me to have been loyal to him, I think it would be fair to termi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:17 AM
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Thank you for this laugh today!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:46 AM
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No women are reciprocating the attitude of men. And it doesn’t feel good does it? I am so happy every day that men are feeling these growing pains. Maybe it’ll improve their character to struggle for once and not have everything handed to them. Some personal responsibility is good for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:44 AM
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Claiming that unattractive men are never criminals and only chads harm women is incorrect and a sign of a severe psychotic disorder. There are multiple men who are sexual predators who are 5’6 in my area. Being tall and attractive doesn’t make a man a good or bad person. If sexless ugly struggling men were all good men overlooked, quite literally the manosphere wouldn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:41 AM
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We don’t get it from men. We never got it. We don’t expect it. We’re just calling it out when men play “nice guy” card as if he’s not just like you or any other man commenting with zero sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:36 AM
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This wasn’t an expectation. No one expects men to be sympathetic. They never were in the first place, is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:34 AM
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Men are picking autistic women as easy targets for abuse? Only attractive men abuse women? Send me the first 5 photos of sexual predators in your city. In America we are required to report due to Megan’s Law and their photos and information are listed on a site. Show me the first 5 you see and explain to me in paragraph form (5 sentences each) how they are all chads. Despicable comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:21 AM
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Yes, there is no other person who suffers more. Learning about that possibility makes their feelings feel…invalidated so they get even angrier or deny it. It’s a depressive form of narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:16 AM
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They dont. They come on and screech online all day on their $1000 iPhones because not having a dating profile that gets matches is the worst thing that’s ever happened to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:49 PM
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Yes. Welcome to real life, not Reddit cel fantasies. Not everyone has a prince or princess charming coming to save the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:44 PM
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I’ve always said that these men completely ignore average women or any women not in their target sexual demographic. The women you listed literally don’t exist for these men. They’re glued to watching instagram influencers and assume we all live that life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:37 PM
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I think this take is ignorant, gross and people who think like this have never struggled a day in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:05 PM
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They are speaking for themselves as the question asked lmao. This is literally basic reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:50 PM
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IM VERY REAL☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:31 PM
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I can guarantee you a hug 😭come here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:37 AM
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Are you dating anyone right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:33 AM
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No but I agree there will always be the manosphere because men are anything but humble.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:26 PM
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That’s not even generalizing to the average dude. It’s just saying there’s a lot of men like this similar to a shit ton of comments you’ve written about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:33 PM
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I know
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:12 PM
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What why would that be uncivil? Then if the men are not traditional they shouldn’t be with non traditional women. Most couples split bills though usually using proportions that make sense for their income. Most Americans cant even afford a $500 emergency expense so men aren’t really being used for anything. They can’t even afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:06 PM
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I’m not trying to break your ego I’m just on my lunch broski
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:27 PM
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I can tell you need someone to talk to <3
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:17 PM
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Hmm sounds like some good ole fashion projection going on here bud
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:08 PM
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Then give me more words to go off of. I think the manosphere in general is quite obviously anti woman and relationships. Men who arent a part of it surely speak differently, but the men in this realm think quite similarly and tbh say it a lot worse and rougher than I just laid out
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:06 PM
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By women who are stable, can have kids on their own, and live in a society where it’s more acceptable to be single and childless? Hmm idk bud. I’m sure there are some crazy women out there but I don’t think this is why people are partnering up. And men report being happier when in relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:04 PM
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Why would I be resentful? You’re the one trying to convince me im unhappy💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:02 PM
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Says the man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:00 PM
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And what are ur findings hunny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:25 PM
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Hmm what are you reading? I’m happy because he’s coming home today after a week trip in Arizona :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:25 PM
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It’s not palatable to women sure but it’s more honest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:24 PM
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I swear! Also happy Wednesday
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:23 PM
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You and ur dad jokes. Hi lift happy Wednesday!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:22 PM
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Used for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:17 PM
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There’s no just world fallacy that’s sexless men nonsense. I am using their own words I’ve observed over 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:11 PM
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Omg how long did it take to heal?? I hope it wasn’t too horrible a process I know the swelling and pain are just awful for a period of time. So glad you are feeling better!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:36 PM
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I would argue most men talk about a lack of options for sex more than a lack of connection. Many often explain in detail the things they dislike heavily about having to be a good partner. They don’t like to be vetted for even basic things like financial literacy or being husband material. In fact most single men are allergic to being called that and there’s a huge amount of disdain for doing romantic acts for women. Yes in your case I definitely think sex is the biggest priority. We’ve talked a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:36 PM
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No of course not I would never!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:25 PM
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Good morning! I’m doing great, how are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:25 PM
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So a fuck buddy who is cute. What would be your best traits as a boyfriend? Why should a woman date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:24 PM
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But I’m happy and I’m posting here Are you happy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:22 PM
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I already do. I never date low n or virgin men and I pick men who treat me well and they don’t struggle in dating. That’s specifically for the reason that struggling men do not make good romantic partners. Do you have a rebuttal or should I take this as agreement? 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:18 PM
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You don’t know anything about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:17 PM
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What does love mean to you? The first thing you pointed out was her attractiveness, which is so on script.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:16 PM
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I’m in a relationship. The point is that no one can convince me otherwise because I’m right. Struggling men aren’t lonely they are horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:15 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:07 PM
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CMV: women are not missing out on anything by being selective as most men struggling to date are not good options who are interested in real relationships with a lot of depth and emotional connection, they just want sex and cuddles and Chad status. I have seen very few pieces of evidence of struggling men actually desiring heavily to be good boyfriends or husbands, let alone great. 90% of struggling men just want multiple sex options and the manosphere would disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:05 PM
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I’m not a nerd, nerds don’t like me at all, and I usually don’t like them either. I’m highly social and main stream and I like my life like that. Nerds often don’t like my hugely fun social life and going out being around lots of people. I’ve tried dating nerds and they’re completely uninterested in my life so I gave that up and I’m not usually interested in their hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:34 PM
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Loneliness doesn’t equate to a lack of sexual success. Your premise is wrong and you are projecting your own feelings. You feel lonely only when you have no one to fuck. So find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:00 PM
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Have u tried displaying competence in dating? And treating the women u date well?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:19 AM
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That’s not even demisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:17 AM
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She shouldn’t cheat but men don’t hide that they find their girl ugly. Men are not good at that I’d bet a lot of money she could tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:16 AM
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They aren’t doing that that’s why these dudes are single. But yes that helps I agree not much of this matters to men about women until they are past the initial stages of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:14 AM
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That is literally not true. 40% of men are taken. That’s just 18-24. Half of this age group are recent high school grads in college or working, give them time they literally just became an adult. About 20% aren’t even looking to date. The others are actively dating and haven’t found a match or commitment to the point of saying they are no longer single. Men who get zero attention are bottom 10% tech bro types who are socially awkward, unattractive conventionally and do not dress well or have a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:10 AM
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Work hard in what way? Creating online groups that hate women? Yes I agree men are stricter with looks in terms of not being very influential. They either find u attractive or they dont and theres minimal things that can change whether they find you attractive or not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:17 PM
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Seriously!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:53 AM
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I want a house husband and 99% of men would completely fail to do it correctly and efficiently. And the economy makes it hard on one income so I settle for a 50-50 kind of relationship and appreciate the money we can both contribute to the relationship. Men like to provide financially and struggle often to provide in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:12 AM
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No do not ever put us in bad uninformed positions like this again. It is helpful to be aware of the effects of alcohol including impairment and blacking out. No young person should be barred from this knowledge because you don’t think they deserve people’s caution and extra safety. It is always better safe than sorry, always. I have been drugged before and I appreciate any time and every time someone looked out for my wellbeing. Every time even if you or anyone has thought their caution was unne…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:58 AM
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Most men just need to be more assertive and charismatic and get a flattering hair cut. 1/3 of sexless men are literally like autistic and most others are probably undiagnosed but have some social inhibitor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:00 PM
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It’s not the entirety of young women it’s just the average age gap of couples over the span of all ages. And 20 yo and college ages arent the only ages where people date. And people have more than 1 partner on average. Making a dollar more at Panda Express or Marshall’s doesn’t mean they’re more successful. Besides men are dropping out of college more and making less. And what does age have to do with fitness Yes on average men of all ages prefer to date down. I see that all the time. When peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:41 PM
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Both are true. These men just want sex. Not everyone is dealt the cards they want. You make do with what you got. Men would get farther in acquiring sex and using women for their own sexual based ego if they had that mindset instead of trying to change everything else. We have control over ourselves not other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:35 PM
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If you care about sex so much and devalue relationships to this gross extent, be honest about it. Sexless men are bad romantic options who shouldn’t be given a chance because they’re only after casual sex and a chad fantasy. They’re emotionless with little care for women’s desires and use women to boost their ego and feel better about themselves sexually. That being said they can achieve this by becoming more attractive rather than lying to women they should give these men a chance because they’…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:22 PM
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Perhaps you don’t know how long a decade is. All of these ages are common on a college campus. It’s a pretty small difference. Better at life meaning completely one more year of college? One more year at an entry level job? Im not buying it and men also date down and like to date younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:18 PM
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The manosphere was created because men weren’t getting the women they want despite having no options. That doesn’t sound like knowing their place at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:12 PM
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You’re spiraling for no reason. The first decade of your life you aren’t having serious romantic relationships. People aren’t dating and selecting partners at 10 yo and it’s strange to say that. School being a common place to meet a partner is college where you’re mixed with a lot of different ages especially within 1-5 years of hour age. It makes total sense for 2-3 years to be a common age gap. And college means you can meet completely different people than your hometown, no ones walking aroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:58 PM
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Sure, how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:00 AM
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Hands down experienced men. Both bfs I’ve had/have are high n and better at sex, like women more, and put more effort than any inexperienced man I’ve ever known. They like women and dating. They like giving pleasure. They put the effort to create good experiences in these things and meet women because they actually care lol. They acc want to do it. Theres a lot of players out there too but I just find experienced men who are sick of casual they commit pretty fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:59 PM
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Men are not more motivated to please women sexually when they have no experience. The majority of men on here are sexless and actually say they want to pump and dump and give as least amount of effort as possible in every regard including sexually. The partnered men especially but also the men who have casual sex here have literally detailed their effort from being single and alone going on dates and then having sex with women. TLDR the men who put forth effort are the men with the results
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:52 PM
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Yeah looks don’t determine character. Plenty of ugly men here have proved that. We aren’t the ones claiming to go for the ugly one. Men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:49 PM
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We don’t have these conversations because we are working and have bills to pay. We aren’t unemployed single young men dropping out of college at alarming rates and refusing to get a job so much they make a name for it NEET. We are at work just to be splitting bills with our lovers if we have one, living paycheck to paycheck like the majority of other Americans with not enough money for a $500 emergency expense. The average age gap is 2-3 years most couples have both partners working and they spl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:47 PM
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Tbh men don’t really go out of their way, that’s why they have the reputation they do. I dont think they do or need to do anything extra, but i totally see why people are more wary including other men. I get approached by enough good men and approach enough good men for my liking. Men can continue to do what they wish i wouldnt expect anything different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:25 PM
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It sounds like you just hate fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:48 PM
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Oh ofc I see women do it too. But sexless men are the ones with no options and complain the loudest, creating an entire manosphere built to shame women into lowering their standards ..and have nothing to show for that as these men aren’t good options either. Women can back that up. I’m of the weird personal belief that I don’t rly want to be bigger than my man, but I can’t judge anyone for doing that if they can find that. Who cares? Same with age gaps. I would never and find them gross but if a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:47 PM
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They have the most kids
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:31 PM
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I just don’t get why these r the same men who complain about men having a bad reputation. Like if even the “nice” guys are rapists what reaction do u expect ???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:31 PM
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You’re a man you don’t know literally anything at all about the female dating experience that’s probably why.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:28 PM
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Oh so ur fine ok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:24 PM
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Eh I think incels overrate themselves a lot and they don’t know what their looksmatch is Many incels wouldn’t even date fat women or women of color especially black girls, and want a partner more attractive than them they’re j not objective enough and think every man in a relationship is hotter than his gf when that’s not true they just overrate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:11 PM
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We all struggle, my question was towards those who actually struggle with dating entirely, like little to no options. Being single doesn’t always mean struggling with dating either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:54 AM
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Ur married????
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:53 AM
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Interesting so that’s what flagged something to you that maybe you’re not really connecting with others? Do you talk to women irl or on apps and does it feel natural?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:53 AM
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However the guys on here mean struggle, like basically no options. Well the whole point is asking if ur autistic but since u didn’t clock that and instead wanted to specifically define what “struggle” means in this context, maybe the answer is yes 💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:52 AM
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Please don’t pmo rn
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:50 AM
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How many of you actually struggle in dating and are NOT autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:32 PM
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Become socially competent. Social skills are skills, some people are born without them. It doesn’t mean there’s a crisis or the world is ending or that it should be appropriate to go proposition random women for sex inappropriately. All of these autistic nerds did great in math class guess what? I struggled. But I didn’t flip a lid about it and complain about how unfair the world is and wish to burn it down. I just learned enough math to pass the damn class. I studied harder than maybe the avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:31 PM
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I feel that there are no men on the right who aren’t exactly where they want to be. I’ve never even seen a man on the right who wasn’t exactly what they preach lmao. I do not feel bad they feel excluded when newsflash they don’t even agree with any ideals we hold. The only thing i will say to this though is that even with all these men who are right wing pretending to be excluded from the democrat lunch table, we totally should’ve ran a different campaign because there’s more to the democratic c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:14 PM
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You must live at home and have no bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:36 PM
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Literally no one cares tbh. Most people aren’t whatever mental illness this post is and just gravitate towards those similar to them. Do what you want. No one is crying over men who look like ogres getting women with their wallets just don’t be a dick about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:52 PM
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Yes I heard you the first time. Point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:45 PM
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No if ur a struggling male stop doing socially weird inappropriate autistic things like this and then complaining people report you and don’t want to be around you. 99% of men struggling men are just weird and don’t want to behave socially normal. The direct and accurate response to that is negative social responses. Stop doing stupid shit like this or even thinking in your head to ask dumb shit like this. Behave socially normal or admit to the world you actually like being sexless and strugglin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:45 PM
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Much of men’s effort was not to starve. They didn’t always have the smart phones like u and I are texting on and most certainly had worse things to worry about than being a sexless virgin. Everyone knows men don’t do crap to appeal to women otherwise theyd be good at it instead of askinf what women want, blah blah blah trying to guess what’s attractive. Clearly men have never and will never listen smh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:35 PM
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Why do men always threaten their “life long contribution to society”? I’ve never heard a woman say that. I don’t pay taxes to contribute to society it’s mandatory. Jobs and money are mandatory. Men are normal selfish human beings who work to survive. Men do not sit around doing cost benefit analysis bullshit on how to be more educated for women’s sake. Men don’t really do anything for women’s sake. They work to eat and afford their rent and hobbies like everyone else. I’m sick of hearing that. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:56 PM
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What who
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:53 PM
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Most dads are ugly avg height bald and low earners lmao and so are most husbands. Go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:49 PM
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You have an addiction and attraction to bad women if you know zero women applying morals to their dating behaviors. Most unselected men are not interested in good, average women who are selecting good men. It happens daily. If you (gen) know none, it is because you (gen) are not a good person or fixate on bad people. Attraction is not amoral for people with morals. Unselected men consistently seem to have none as they don’t know any good person in the dating world and do not pay any attention to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:51 PM
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you’re talking at me like I haven’t seen hundreds of average, ugly, below average, fat, dysregulated people dealing with these cases. Believe what you want idrc because 90% of men aren’t here to change their mind it’s a bitter echo chamber. But majority of people I helped were average to below experiencing abusers and having these intimate relationships that turned violent or abusive or manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:48 PM
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Yes it’s super dumb. There are so many modern ways to be respectfully and safely traditional and so many ways to structure a relationship. There’s no need for women to put themselves in a bad or lesser role.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:05 AM
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No it’s more that abusers, attractive or not, love bomb people as an in If you want to make it about looks and assume ur perfect otherwise, be my guest ur man number 10281911440 saying the same thing screeching about looks matches and not wanting ugly or fat women. Otherwise it’s the same men that tend to be single, awkward weird antisocial tech bros who either cant have a convo to save their lives or can attract women but bad at escalating. It’s your life you choose how to live it but everyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:47 AM
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A facade. Abusive people put on a facade and use it to confuse you, manipulate you, erode your self confidence, scares you, destroy your sense of normalcy until you’re forgiving things you wouldn’t. It’s not just women that end up in abusive relationships either. When I was working in a domestic violence center, the most common thing i ever heard was “It wasn’t always like this. They weren’t this way in the beginning”. From hundreds of different people that didn’t know each other, almost verbati…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:04 AM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:41 AM
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Stay on topic. She doesn’t need to make herself clearer when you failed to read the title of the post. Type less, read more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:32 PM
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Why men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:30 PM
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there’s this thing called overlap that exists here <3 hope that helps
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:17 AM
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AWWW
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:45 PM
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thx
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:37 PM
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it’s the truth. when i see different I’ll call it different
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:37 PM
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Assertiveness and self advocacy are 100% part of that equation as well. If men think being kind only means being passive and weak, well they should accept the consequences of making that mistake as a grown adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:35 PM
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i know it’s horrible but I just can’t tie him down 🤧
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:33 PM
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sure maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:18 PM
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Well yea they are when half r preventable. Well yeah best behavior doesn’t work if you don’t do it LMFAO. None of those guys are nice I’ve met fuckboys and man whores willing to do more for me than half of these fools. They don’t know if it worked they’re all shut ins, antisocial, or have no self advocacy skills. They didn’t show off any niceness they just opened a door for an old lady once then lashed out at the world for not having a woman fall out the sky onto his dick with lust that he did s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:17 PM
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Sure. All sorts of things can catch attention u can be covered head to toe and still catch attention for many reasons. Wearing bright colors, having a nice smile or super white teeth, falling down a flight of stairs, wearing mismatched shoes. Anything can catch attention and in no way is it an invitation to make them uncomfortable. That should be easy for non idiots to understand and apply to women they find attractive as well. Most people outside of the manosphere (including other men) were tau…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:05 PM
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she’s smart asf yk how much rent is????
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:58 PM
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showcasing other traits or doing the work to not be a late bloomer. yes there is. sexless men aren’t lonely, they’re horny and sexually frustrated. we have a horniness epidemic of men who want to be chad act like chad and experience the “chad” life and feel so entitled to it they gave their horniness a glorified name. if they were lonely they wouldn’t have created a gender war and would be on their best behavior. clearly that is not the case, so positive attn is definitely not what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:55 PM
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leave my bf alone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:46 PM
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male virgins/low n shouldn’t lie but they do a lot to ride the pussy carousel. There is no “loneliness epidemic” it’s just a big lie to guilt women into making “chads” out of sexless men, who have no options and claim that has made them into “relationship material”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:45 PM
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love u
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:42 PM
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Exactly bye
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:39 PM
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hmm maybe ur one of the well behaved ones. don’t prove me right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:39 PM
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I miss u bbyg. Yea im shit flinging today bc I hate reading sexlessers claim they want relationships but hate any aspect of being a good partner to a woman. I think most sexlessers idolize bad boy chad, and never seek out positive or healthy relationships as goals or role models. I think they are lying about their intentions to get laid and then get mad when it doesn’t work bc they believe they should get laid by LARPing as a “relationship guy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:38 PM
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mine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:36 PM
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Oh I don’t spare sex having men either. But this is a space full of sexlessers who wrongfully claim they want relationships, so they get the heat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:35 PM
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Yall be complaining about not wanting to be trad and pay for $5 coffees or approach and use words, pls spare me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:34 PM
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I dont feel assured. I see these fools posting and theyd p much all make awful boyfriends. Blah blah useless stats. You underestimate me then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:33 PM
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it’s the afternoon :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:24 PM
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no women do not have to live in fear and spend their whole lives inside to “prove” to chronically online losers, that rape and sexual assault are serious, prevalent problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:00 PM
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reminder: don’t give a sexless man a chance he just wants to mistreat u like “chad”. Sexlessers hate women and are repulsed by the idea of being good romantic partners to women. choose better!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:53 PM
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Yes because men don’t do these things unless they are gay. Most women don’t go this far either being interested in their same gender unless they are gay too. But women are a lot closer to their friends and admire each others looks and clothes and confidence and social interactions more, yes. You got cheated on by a bisexual woman. Sorry broski, but life goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:52 PM
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Yes men act like they don’t have issues at all and women are to blame for everything. Yes many of them most of them are pretty terrible bad men. They openly admit to it on a daily basis. The personal attacks are lame. I don’t have issues because you are obsessed with defending the bad behavior of sexless men. The day men take some personal responsibility I swear will be the day hell freezes over
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:47 PM
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How sassy of you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:44 PM
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Oh no im fine! I have a man. Im just saying acting like sexless men don’t have their issues is crazy. They can also be picky like i said and often shoot out their league. I wouldn’t say morally neutral. The same way men wouldn’t say it’s morally neutral to use a guy for foodie dates. i totally think it’s great to even the playing field that way, and i still wouldn’t call it morally neutral, it’s a crappy thing to do. Ghosting isn’t always that shitty imo. Kind of natural. I am admitting bad thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:51 AM
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And what does that prove? I can acknowledge some women suck or are evil or have terrible standards or are maladapted or choose wrong or give into relationships or idealize specific relationships bc of trauma or whatever. I can also acknowledge sexless men are often evil fucking pricks who glorify all sorts of horrible shit and they HATE the idea of being a good partner. It’s disgusting how they demonize being a good husband or being a good boyfriend or god forbid being a man who’s not fucking a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:45 AM
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AYO whos “you?” Sexless men have called me ugly bro and rejected me bc im a black woman. I really don’t give a fuck that they dont get their pick of the litter on tinder and cant be the asshole chad they envision when they’re having their homoerotic fantasies at night during fap time. Fucking a fat woman you find repulsive to look at ain’t a virtue - it’s evil behavior which furthers my claim that sexless men especially but including those ugly men who “fuck down” are deplorable. Guys who have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:40 AM
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I have experienced it many a times. It’s uncomfortable bc many people are super understanding of themselves but don’t get how they are perceived by others or why they receive the responses they do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:34 AM
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We are not agreeing though. No, the literal title of the post includes sex acts she DOES NOT LIKE. Please learn to read. Doing something before doesn’t mean you like it. I’ve had beans before in my life, doesn’t mean I like beans. “Doing something before” is not consent to do it again. Gross. Before you respond think critically and read thoroughly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:32 AM
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why r u even mad it’s true men r broke we all r. I’m not fat or entitled. I worked to be attractive and I worked harder than most incels bc im not a crybaby
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:30 AM
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girl I have no idea. I couldn’t even dig for gold in this sub even if I wanted to 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:31 PM
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monthly reminder: Sexless men are bad men who bat out their league, have severe autism but expect social script perfection from others, and hate the idea of being good boyfriends and husbands. Choose the man who likes women enough to put in a semblance of work to date them. Sexless dudes don’t even want to lift a finger to get a job for themselves, let alone lift one to get a decent hair cut to attract women or do something nice for you. Don’t give him the chance he’s begging for, give another g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:29 PM
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Its okay. Incels are only incels because they don’t bat in their league. The uglier the man, the bigger the ego. Some end up wanting a relationship and become realistic to get it. The rest prefer to stay single 🤷🏽‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:26 PM
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Consent is required every time. Performing a sex act before doesn’t mean consent to the same sex act again at a later time. Were you not taught this? I strongly think that in any bdsm context, consent is required and there is no such thing as “you did this act before, so you must do it with me or something is wrong”. If you desire a sex act a partner doesn’t want and it’s a dealbreaker, then you part ways. What you don’t do is say “but you did it before so you must not be attracted to me”. That …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:18 PM
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not a concern tbh bc men are poor asf.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:02 PM
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I prefer men who don’t pressure me at all to try unwanted sex acts. Hasn’t been an issue, attracted to the men, and have lots of great passionate sex all incels are horrendously jealous of. Believe it or not, there are many amazing men out there who don’t believe doing unwanted sexual favors is an act of showing interest and attraction. Many men LOVE enthusiastic sex and they’re a blessing to have in the bed. I am lucky and grateful and have lots and lots of sex ur NOT having and never feel forc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:50 PM
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Yes! I have a boyfriend, we just started dating. How about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:48 PM
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Many women don’t want this dynamic regardless of what her friends or other women think. For example, I have zero interest in a trad relationship even though I could still have it if I wanted. It doesn’t sound like a good dynamic where I get anything out of it and it’s a huge risk. I’m happy to work instead. If a woman still wants to be trad she will find her traditional man. The rest of us will find a non trad guy who fits whatever kind of relationship we want to. Women should and do have the ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:42 AM
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Men should choose better and choose women who they like the sex with. I’ve never had this conversation with anyone as to “did u have better sex with the person before me?” I find that kind of mentally ill and insecure to make a conversation. I just have committed to men and they’ve committed to me because we both like the sex + other reasons. Your post is a really odd situation because it’s not a socially normal thing to like “find out” or talk about. Most people date people they like the sex wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:37 AM
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whats ur experience microdosing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:29 AM
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one time i got the ick from a cute guy because he stuck his tongue out in a photo and then when i was riding him i saw his unclipped toe nails and had to dump
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:28 AM
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I wish. Men I’m not super into love me so bad. It’s like the more avoidant, slightly bitchy, and distant I am, the more texts I receive. There was one guy I chased for years and then when I put my foot down and moved on, I kid you not he calls me and asks for a relationship leading to marriage. My phone also gets blown up a lot by men I’m not very responsive to, I could even show you the texts lol. In fact, men actually made it an insult for women to be “easy” LMAO. The more men you are “easy” f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:38 PM
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It’s literally just a rape fetish. Most men aren’t rapists and don’t think unwanted sex is a form of showing love nor is it attractive to them. Unwanted sex acts are unwanted so, it doesn’t happen. This isnt normal, it’s a rape fantasy that makes rapists feel “special”. Most men want women to enjoy sex and only do sex acts they want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:54 PM
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But she tried it and didn’t like it. Do you eat food you don’t like at all at different restaurants to keep seeing if you’ll still hate it over and over? Or do you just eat the food you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:39 PM
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Ur right that’s bad advice because it should be a given. If u feel pressure to perform, then perform. Clearly running around like a chicken with its head cut off and acting socially awkward and autistic is not working. Stop doing what’s not working? Be socially normal for once. Why haven’t men tried that? You don’t have to relate to someone in dating experience to treat them normally. If you can’t treat women normally or respectfully or like a human, you deserve a crappy dating life. I am an ave…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:37 PM
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I’m sorry are you starting a separate conversation about dv or responding to my figurative statement about “hitting first”?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:17 AM
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Justifying what? What consequences of patriarchal societies would you like to know about? Which aspect of women’s suffering interests you today?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:16 PM
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What? No it means if ur a man with trad expectations of women u should also fulfill ur role. most men can’t but still be trad or larp as trad. as if men didn’t work for…their own comfort and convenience LMAO. right. they lived to serve women and that’s why we had patriarchy and all sorts of horrific things happen to women solely for the basis of being women. to this day all men are alive because a woman had them. Independent men are a larp.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:58 AM
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What obligations should we have towards a man bc he goes to work like his offer letter asks him to? Men arent even providers anymore they’re just contributors like most women. That’s if they’re living together. Men are not holding up their end of the trad deal so why would women? Men complain over $5 coffee nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:04 PM
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Because basic knowledge of language lets you know it has been acknowledged. If someone says this test was hard and I say “it shouldn’t be”, it’s implied I also think the test is hard. Where are you getting confused? What do you think I mean when I say “the test shouldn’t be hard”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:17 PM
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I don’t understand the level of social incompetence it takes to be a grown ass man and not have figured out there’s no one size fits all approach. Like what kind of dumbass post is this? Well duh different women have different opinions on different approaches. Why do men need that to be explained? I’ve approached men more than half this sub has approached women. Guarantee it. Some men have responded positively, some were totally not interested, some were outright rude, some were even racist towa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:58 AM
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Feminism is a reaction. Misandry is a reaction. Misogyny is the default and has existed for centuries. Men hit first and then cried bc women liked them less. It’s actually insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:00 AM
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Men have hated women for all of history. They’re just shocked at the idea they could ever be hated back. For some reason men think they are perfect and all issues women face are caused by women. Men can do no wrong. It’s annoying exhausting and endless. Luckily there are a few good ones. They get taken fast and I feel extremely lucky to have found some. They are actual true gems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:58 AM
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You frame the post as a negative quality of women and then you use your female friend as an example of this, boasting how you don’t need to call that much and you only speak about the positives. Directly insulting her approach to the friendship. You seem to not even like the women you’re around and felt comfortable belittling her. You absolutely come across as feeling superior to her. If not I’m happy for you to give me her phone number and I can send her your post and ask if she feels this is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:02 PM
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Since when did men ever care about feminism? Most men here are anti feminists. They’re disgusting. So I’m tired of this pretend play as if men ever cared about feminism and didn’t vote and create ideals based on what benefits themselves. Men already don’t care, so they should butt out and fix their own issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:37 PM
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I have seen incels on this sub complain there are only
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:07 AM
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I made my point, the analogy isn’t meant to encompass every possible issue in dating. The analogy was supposed to point out the perception of options. What you may see as viable, someone else may not. Vice versa. 99% of men in relationships are not perfect looking. There are men in relationships on this server who are fat, conventionally unattractive, short, etc. But the point is that shaming women into lowering their standards is an ineffective stupid approach. It doesn’t work on incels who don…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:28 AM
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I don’t think anyone thinks they’re looking for perfection. The point is we all have a baseline of what we’ll accept as an option, no matter what others perceive SHOULD be our baseline. Women want to be chosen, not accepted or thought of as “you’ll do because I can’t get laid” similarly men want to be chosen and not accepted or thought of as “you’ll do because I couldn’t lock down Chad”. There’s no point in trying to make women satisfied with less if they won’t be satisfied. A smart approach if …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:20 AM
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When men consider the women that use them for foodie dates as options we can have this conversation. It’s the same complaint as women saying men use them for sex. If you are down to be used by me right now (while I lie to you that im interested) to get used for a $200 dinner date and then ghost afterwards…. and you would consider me an “option”, I’m down open to hearing ts. Otherwise i am not. If you are down to seriously date and fuck women you find yourself physically repulsed to, we can chat.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:19 PM
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Ty they say the same shit for 5 years like get it tf together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:22 AM
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You’re being dramatic tho and it’s neurotic behavior like this that turns women actively off of men. Men are falling behind because they can’t just be a sole provider anymore and need to show value in another way. Men should prioritize haircuts and dressing TRENDY (not just “well” aka 2016 sneakers and a t shirt and cargo shorts like ur mom dressed u), and being socially competent, funny, engaging, charismatic, personable, and chatty. Most men who struggle have autism or social anxiety. They’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:21 AM
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and now men don’t want to work 🙄what’s new men don’t want to do anything you tell a man to get a haircut he cries about looksmaxxing and now he can’t get his ass up to clock in? The manosphere is so ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:23 AM
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Do you have anything you’d like to debate on? I can’t really respond to your subjective bias and alternative reality that this doesn’t exist. If you think that doesn’t happen, you can argue with a wall instead or continue about your day. I’m saying it does happen and it has influenced the way people see male virginity and men’s venting about their dating experiences. I assume if men wanted a different reputation, they’d present different behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:37 AM
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I don’t know anything about you. My comment was directed towards the OP as an explanation why people hate on struggling men who comment due to broader cel/pill/manosphere culture bexoming mainstream, popular and encouraging hatred/violence/NiceGuy/misogynistic behavior towards women. Obviously doesn’t make women feel motivated to date men and completely dissipates empathy, understanding, and desire from women. If you want dating advice you’d need to tell me a lot more about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:35 AM
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Yes, I am. I’ve been here for like 5 years and have noticed a common theme over the years. Everyone’s noticing a common theme of “struggling men” being entitled and gross there’s all sorts of content coming out about the manosphere, it’s gotten increasingly common and popular. Sure. Part of the reason it’s ascribed beforehand is because the majority of comments and post of men venting are bitter and entitled. That’s how this “stereotype” came to be. Bringing up women is just you trying to evade …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:52 PM
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this sounds evasive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:42 PM
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Agreed. They aren’t kind that’s why it feels like a performance, a lot of effort, and an act to them. It doesn’t come naturally bc they are hardly ever kind in the first place. No they do not. It’s something men convince themselves of to use women sexually and satiate their nasty fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:15 AM
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Absolutely. It’s no big deal when they get to use a woman’s body and it’s a huge deal if she has sex with anyone else. But god forbid I use a man for a foodie date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:13 AM
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I think Wtknight put it fairly well and spoke generally for men. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:10 AM
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Sure as much as he assumes villainous characteristics don’t exist in these men’s complaints without proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:01 AM
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Ofc it doesn’t because he’s purposefully ignoring that all these posts are written through a lens of entitlement. It’s like if I beat the fuck out of you by punching you in the face but then told everyone that I accidentally grazed your cheek and then acted like i don’t understand why you’d be mad at me. He’s asking why these “innocent posts” catch heat and I’m telling him it’s because they are not innocent and do include the things I listed in my original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:28 PM
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I agree. People whine all day and where it’s relatable, people relate. These dudes get hate because they spew vile shit towards women and expect $80 roses back bc they haven’t used a female slur in 24 hours. The glorification of replacing women with see robots, of putting women in their place, threatening to collapse society if they don’t get to cum when they want in who they want, portraying dv victims as women who love to get beat and choose abusers, taking all personal responsibility away fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:24 PM
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Absolutely it’s constant contradictory statements that they are the good options who’d love a woman right unlike Chad… But also hate doing anything nice for a woman even paying for a $5 coffee is insulting to them. God forbid they’re asked to act like a boyfriend or women want to take it slow. Each day they reveal over and over (which i guess isn’t a reveal anymore) that their main pain point is not getting access to sex when they desire it and they’ll lie out their ass about wanting a relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:20 PM
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Yes it’s ludicrous. I don’t understand this constantly attempt to reframe men’s vitriol towards women as “innocent sad venting out of loneliness”. They shame women for everything under the sun on a consistent basis and then wonder why they get a negative reaction. Yet if I regurgitate their stupid points back to them gender swapped they react similarly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:18 PM
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Easy, because most of these men are entitled. They say stuff like “I deserve my looksmatch which isn’t the fatties on tinder that swipe on me”. “I deserve better than my options and because I’m not getting what I want, it is women’s fault for having too high of standards and removing me from their dating pools”. Men feel they deserve (solely for having a penis and existing) any options they want. They call women ugly and mid all the time and want to be in their dating pool because they have no o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:02 PM
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You, little lady, need to get out more. Come visit me!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:13 AM
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Why did you actually prove his point tenfold? This sounds scary, unpleasant, unkind and absolutely bleeds IRL. If it would “be nice to feel desired and desirable as a man for a change” maybe act like someone people want to make feel that way? Ofc people aren’t treating you like that, look how you treat them. You chose this life and this is the result. Change or stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:12 AM
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ngl desperate, insecure men are often scary af and unsafe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:04 AM
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I’m not sure why men think constantly discounting women’s experiences is the correct approach considering what u just wrote, that men are the ones desperate for women’s attention. If I were in a man’s shoes id avoid any talk or rhetoric even close to discounting, demeaning, belittling, ridiculing, etc women’s experiences. The more the manosphere progresses, the more men are openly saying “we want, agree with, and actively desire to fuel our sexlessness and loneliness”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:55 AM
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I want more options, stop being nerds 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:28 PM
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Well I’m 24…but hold on, what r u doing on the women’s tea app?🤨 secondly the tea app isn’t rly used for boring dates its more abusers, liars, and men up to no good. boring dates go in the group chat ie “eh the date was okay, he just wasn’t very cute/interesting/funny/fun/etc” I found it lowkey lame and hella ugly dudes getting away with too much shit on there. AND too much baby mama drama, gross to read so i deleted it. you should too…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:10 PM
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yes as a matter of fact - i am. if ur going to complain about literally no one being interested and u haven’t even tried it’s like why complain? You know what to do🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:08 PM
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valid complaint - I’m very basic and normie and i LOVE it😫
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:08 PM
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I know!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:06 PM
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if u weren’t gay….smh😫
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:06 AM
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why r incels always nerds smh they’re not funny either. compensate mfer! how r u gonna be ugly and lame, pick a struggle fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:05 AM
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Yes turn him down girl u can do better! Always choose a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:04 AM
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Oh my god that’s horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:21 PM
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The abuser is always to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:07 PM
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Pick mes usually put other women down for male validation and actively work against all women for their own gain to appeal to men. It’s exhausting and has real life consequences. If you want to appeal to a man, do that yourself, don’t make it something where “women should be xyz” because ur value as a woman depends on how men see you. Idc how men see me. Stop trying to force me into some caricature as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:42 AM
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The thing these men have in common is listening to other struggling men about how to date. These men have never listened to women. They’re all the same techie software engineer OR neet, autistic, socially weird, antisocial, introverted, hate partying, hate socializing, hate people types. I’ve never even met a social, extroverted man with lots of female friends who’s fun and friendly and talkative that didn’t “score” multiple times in dating. Socially awkward, autistic, non-assertive, neet or tec…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:36 AM
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this would make sense if the men ur talking about ever cared at all about women or their issues. They don’t?? They don’t feel any guilt or any responsibility, not even for their own actions. You’re talking about an entire group of men who are specifically anti-woman, anti-society a majority of the time, anti-community (can’t stand ever be told to make more friends or create social groups and if they have them, they devalue them), anti-women’s issues, anti-male responsibility, anti-marriage, etc …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:31 AM
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I’ll offer it to you rn, you can live under my control. Yea but normal people don’t use that as an excuse to justify leveraging someone’s wellbeing lmao. Most people don’t find pleasure like you do in taking advantage of the homeless. Most people just want their conditions to get better so they can choose the life that makes them happy not choose a bad option to avoid worse. Even you would prefer a good option to a bad one, right? You’d like that choice over a bad option compared to an extra bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:58 PM
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Both my ex and current boyfriend we hooked up first date and then made it exclusive after date 3. When a man really likes a woman, he commits pretty much immediately and wants to lock it down and hone in on her. This only really changes if a man and woman are like long term friends who didn't see each other that way, then maybe it would take more time. But other than that, he either commits to you after date 3/4 or He's Just Not That Into You. And if women really desire a relationship or commitm…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 04:03 AM
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No I want to adopt my children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:57 AM
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Omg who's this bae?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:55 AM
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Righhht love this coercion here. And yet you’ve never been in her position have you? I’m not sure that’s what they would say behind your back. But I’m sure lots of homeless women would butter you up. And I’m even more sure lots of homeless women would want better than that, they just can’t get it. That’s because you can’t see yourself as a bad option. You’ve justified this for yourself not realizing that having to make this offer to homeless women may say something about the desirability of what…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:14 PM
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you forgot who you’re talking to🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:04 PM
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Because you are diagnosed with a significant mental health disorder and don’t understand that “any means necessary” is not a normal proper or even moral in some cases, way to secure a relationship. It’s trade without choice. Picking between a rock and a hard place is not something anybody wishes to have. It’s a terrible situation and no one envies being in her spot. Surely you have no semblance of understanding for the emotional side of it, but logically you should know that two very undesirable…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:03 PM
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Most people don’t want your prisoner model relationship. No thank you. That sounds abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:16 PM
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hahaha I’ll give you that if i was going to be someone’s secret fan, I’d be number one. be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:14 AM
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hahaha that’s a lot of words for not caring
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:40 AM
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wait why do u care at all what I think of u
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:13 AM
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how do u know if u don’t even try and then why become pilled/manosphere knowing for SURE it would just make women even more male-repulsed? I don’t get why men love making dating harder for themselves. It’s already hard, maybe don’t make the other gender hate u💀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:55 AM
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I never called you ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:54 AM
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That she’s not very independent herself or she’s super into her family and could imagine living with them until marriage because she has no interest in living on her own. Or the guy is just doing that temporarily and it’s normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:00 AM
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I’ll take her from you, easy. Like candy from a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:56 AM
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You are single because you use the word maiden unironically. I’ve learned every struggling male deserves it. Never met one who was actually normal or cool. All struggling men need to do is act normal and they will find sweet cute 19-21 bmi women like myself. It’s literally not even hard. Male dating struggles are so self inflicted and easy to fix it’s weird they complain sm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:55 AM
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Far right is too dumb to take over and if they did they’d just kill each other. The left is just such a breath of fresh air. Everyone on the far right gives “couldn’t even get my GED” vibes. I used to respect republicans growing up but now they’re just so distastefully uneducated and suck up and suck off the rich. What a waste of a party.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:48 AM
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You ever notice ugly men never have anything nice to say but always claim that as a trait they have? Like seriously when was the last time an ugly guy did something nice for you or someone you know?🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:46 AM
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No I mean research shows virtually no abortions happen late term and if they do it’s because the mother will die. You can look it up yourself. You can’t be murdered if you don’t exist. Wdym come on? You’re comparing me, yourself and all other living people that we’re comparable to a clump of cells. It’s unacceptable and in no way can be applied reasonably in any sense as a justification for harming and killing women. No it offers a pretty clear way to define citizenship. Black people are living …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:15 PM
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A fetus hasn’t been born yet. Over 90% of abortions happen before any feeling or any resemblance to a human being. You can’t get citizenship unless you’re born either so not even the government recognizes a fetus as a citizen. Just a bunch of psycho religious fools who like to play God and kill women. I worked in family services. Your privilege has led you to believe an entire life is just “convenience”. People don’t have the privileges YOU did. When you struggle to eat because your parents can’…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:06 PM
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I don’t find women losing their lives funny like pro-lifers do. Pretty evil and terrible group of people tbh. I would rather a fetus be aborted than a living breathing human being dying from a lack of healthcare while completely preventable. It’s not a fraud, that’s someone’s life. Happened to my mom. She wanted a 4th child and the baby died and she had to have it “aborted” so she didn’t die of sepsis. According to you the fetus is worth ripping away my mother from 3 other kids, her husband, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:21 PM
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It’s because you’re creeping women out. Your post is really gross and yes we notice your staring to the point you can’t even have a regular convo without creeping at our boobs and becoming awkward It’s really gross, please behave yourself. Tons of men do it all the time and I never feel uncomfortable around them. The struggling men are ones who are really creepy, weird and socially abnormal which isn’t women’s fault. Act normal!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:25 PM
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Women aren’t telling men to abstain from sex they’re just making it clear they’re not responsible for whether a guy has it or not. That is in no way similar to pro lifers who believe women do not deserve control over their bodies and would gladly kill them off for a fetus. Pro lifers are evil murderers who justify harm against women because they have no respect for them. Women are just telling men if they want to have sex, the other person has to be willing. We’re not telling them they can’t hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:31 PM
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Would you date a bisexual man or woman? I probably would date a bi dude but idk. It’s already hard enough to please a hetero man idk if i want to deal with the drama of not being enough for a bisexual man bc he wants dick. Also men dont get tested as much as they should statistically and a bi man with male sexual partners gives me hellllla pause cus that’s compounded sexual irresponsibility. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:21 AM
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Trp is harmful because misogyny kills people. It’s not a product, it’s a mindset that is sold to make men addicted to hating women so much they actually forget to self improve and start a cycle of self hatred and woman hating. Men act on this and actively harm women. Many men here even believe in marital rape because of it, condone harm against women and actively have posted their own acts of treating women terribly after consuming the content. Porn is not exploitive to me because you have to se…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 08:23 AM
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You’re my favorite person
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:20 AM
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How does this guarantee happiness and attention to her specific needs? Are you married? Perhaps you’ve just learned your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:19 AM
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Why wouldn’t men make themselves likeable, palatable, and attractive towards women? They don’t do it because they want the struggle and competition. Otherwise they’d have a great reputation or the “men are wonderful” effect like how women do. But men don’t want those social connections they just didn’t think there would be consequences for that until they harshly learned it in the modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:18 AM
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Sadly it is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:16 AM
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It’s been studied numerous times. It’s not funny. It’s traumatizing and painful for the woman. Unpleasurable sex can lead to tearing of the vagina and dryness causes friction and pain. It is a stranger because he chooses you, you don’t choose him. You just get used to the trauma. It’s not cool. That’s because ur imagining a woman of you choice. It’s a male privilege thing tho. You can’t even imagine putting yourself in an unsuitable situation. Typical man, no struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:16 AM
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That sounds miserable and women get microtears and pain from unwanted sex. It’s not just unappealing it’s painful gross and traumatizing. Getting used to trauma doesn’t lessen it. But thanks a lot men😒
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:13 AM
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Oh wait why
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:11 AM
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why are men here so obsessed with rape and forcing women to do sexual favors for them? i swear men love making it harder for themselves to date that’s why they act so terrible. Incels don’t want dating to be easy, no man does. I don’t get this obsession with making ur reputation as men so fucking horrible as a group that u push ur own dating prospects away. Women would neverrrrr😝
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:56 PM
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Three ways you guarantee the happiness of your partner. Let’s go. Meaning you will ensure 100% her happiness does not dip. How do you do this without her freedom? Guarantee required.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:54 PM
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Unwanted sex leads to extremely damaging trauma that becomes similar to symptoms of rape which clearly doesn’t seem to bother you. Hm I wonder how fun it would be for straight men to live in this world with gay men. Food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:53 PM
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No I just know myself. I would just resent a cheater and no longer treat them well. Cheating is a sign of disrespect and hatred for me. Might as well just find someone else who doesn’t want to disrespect me. They can be with the woman they cheated with no?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:37 PM
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I’m 23
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:35 PM
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I would hope cheating is not “random shit” they do and it would annoy me after 2 decades for them to just up and decide to cheat. What’s even the point in staying with someone who disrespects ur 20 year marriage so bad? They must hate u
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:26 PM
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You would think!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:20 PM
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I’d resent them more with time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:19 PM
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What do u mean
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:18 PM
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nah no reason to stay with a cheater..it’s just disrespectful, someone would have to literally hate me with no love in their body for them to cheat on me I hate lying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:17 AM
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The concept of being a woman and having lower standards than incels
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:09 AM
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It’s insane how gay men are so much more observant and knowledgeable about straight women’s sexuality despite having zero motivation or experience with it, in most cases. maybe it’s just that gay men aren’t horny for us and that allows them to stop pedestalizing sex to an unhelpful degree in dating, but gay dudes ime just “get it”. Most of them could probably finish my sentences half the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:52 PM
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It’s not dumb it’s just paying attention. There’s no correct approach you live and you learn. It’s obviously about competition and you literally prove it with men using nothing as a filter except “oooo who’s the hottest woman?”. It’s juvenile. And any good husband has more filters than that lmfao. Are you single? Good husbands don’t lead with the wrong things. Yes men need it to be hard which is why u say they’d kill other men than just compromise or work together. Literally proving my point LMF…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:53 AM
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Because I watch what men do not what they say. And men’s behavior shows favor towards competition and getting a “catch” of a woman solely regarding to sex with little emphasis on genuine connections and compatibility. There’s evidence all around you. Like how rich men will choose young hot models who find them abhorrent to look at just to have a prize to show off to other men, when he really could be more compatible with a woman his age. It means he’s a horrible husband because he’s leading with…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 09:55 PM
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Tbh I keep reading men’s posts here and the weirdest part is that they’re all chasing after highly attractive, high maintenance women who have lots of demands. I can’t even imagine barking at a man to do manual labor. I’m so lazy I don’t even have anything that requires labor I would do. Lmao. Anyways if someone doesn’t like your boundaries, move on. I’ve been used to men responding very poorly to my boundaries since I was 11 years old. It’s nothing new. People are crazy sometimes. Women stop ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:33 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:31 AM
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That’s not a sacrifice. Men get the benefits of taxes. Unless we should take men off of those benefits since they aren’t being applied already right? Let’s test that out. No You pay the same taxes we all do, stop whining and go to work. This is called being an adult. If men wear condoms and practice safe sex and get tested and do what they are supposed to do, that also helps the numbers go down for “poor reproductive decisions”. Have you taken responsibility for anything in your life? Modern men…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:29 AM
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I said just. Women say just. When men behave differently their reputation will change. It IS a competition because men frequently talk about it like that “oh she did this with him? She better do that and more with me in bed!” It’s disgusting and if women did this, men would trip. Imagine I require every man to keep an itemized list of what he bought and did for another woman and held him to that and more. It is superficial because men don’t vet for anything important which is why all their gfs a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:27 AM
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Yea like relax? It’s crazy how they blow everything out of proportion too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:21 AM
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No I get that and it’s understandable. Again it’s just never been in my favor when he wants to split the bill, it’s always just him politely declining another date lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:15 PM
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I don’t think it’s a great sell that men just want women because another man has fucked them. Again proving my point that men in general but particularly men who struggle with dating, are lying about being lonely and wanting any sort of genuine connection. It’s a competition against other men to “conquer” women and treat them like prizes, trying to see who can get it the easiest, whos the “best” at getting laid. Women are like trophies to men esp struggling men and it’s gross. It’s superficial a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:22 AM
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No but I was just sharing my experience. You may split because you dint want to be an idiot but I’ve never had a guy split the bill who liked me and wanted to see me again so I consider it a rejection. Ofc I would never say anything or trip just something interesting I noticed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:27 PM
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This generation is just full of porn addicted brain dead men obsessed with sex. Very few want to and know how to connect with women and most men are superficial to the max. Another reason not to go for incels, they are only seeking sex. It’s a validation thing and a waste of women’s time. Sex comes naturally in a relationship, men’s hyper fixation on it is not normal and not a good foundation for a genuine connection. You gotta pick one of the very few who are looking to actually date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:17 PM
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Depends on how hard average joe is trying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:43 AM
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Agreed- definitely seems to be a combo. Many men have told me outright it feels good to treat a woman they really like. I’ve learned that splitting the bill is men’s way of politely rejecting women they don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:14 PM
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I don’t have any expectations. I ask if they want to split and let them answer for themselves. I don’t see the point in expecting or forcing a man to pay. I find it uncomfortable. Most times a man says no, he will pay for it, there is a second date and he is usually more interested. Every time a man says no, it is a rejection and they do not want to see me again or continue dating. I’ve never split the bill for a first date and had the man follow up to ask for another. I’ve never split the bill …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:12 PM
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That’s the interesting thing about men. They’re terrified of gold diggers but spend a lot of money on women they’re interested in the most. In fact I’ve never met a man who was super interested in me who didn’t pay for the first date..and multiple others afterwards. It has never happened. The men who want me the most have always wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:32 PM
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No thank you Okay cool
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:23 PM
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THATS what u remember? 🤨 Anyways r u still dating that girl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:12 PM
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damn
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:12 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:12 PM
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Mmmmhm okay steakman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:51 PM
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Men have already always worked against women’s interests. Many men hate women and this new wave of manosphere incels and incels adjacent and autistic men is no different. What im grateful for is that there are groups of rare men who are actually pretty respectful of women and see them as equals. The misogynists have always existed. It’s nothing new and most men don’t really fight against that anyways. Men will always hate feminism because men are not very community oriented. They like competitio…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:51 PM
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I mean it solves the problem 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:46 PM
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oh it’s you…eugh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:45 PM
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hmmm how old r u
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:45 PM
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If the problem is a woman isn’t sexually attracted to you, the solution is to pick one that is, right? That would avoid all of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:44 PM
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HEY BESTIE
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:54 AM
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close…so close
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:53 AM
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PERIOD KING !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:53 AM
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How many men here even work full time and have a decent hair cut?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:24 AM
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This is because you are obese in terms of BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:23 AM
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You have not made any personal sacrifices. Relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:17 AM
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She can have sex on her own timeline. Focus on yourself and why you have repeatedly been in relationships with no passion, which has caused an abnormal obsession with constant fast sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:15 AM
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Stop dating women that don’t find you sexually appealing. Then it’s not an insult to be husband material. I genuinely cannot with modern men. They’re all clueless children who put zero effort in anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:10 AM
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Well for one I do love a wedding and random internet men do not get a say, sorry. You’re not paying for it so ur mouth stays closed about it thanks. But either way I don’t mind cooking and cleaning and doing domestic work because I am an adult and do it anyway. I’m happy to help out for a partner as well. But im not over exerting myself after an 8 hour work day because a man wants to do nothing at home. I enjoy working and i enjoy taking care of my home. I enjoy taking care of a partner. I can d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:00 AM
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The entirety of gender problems is not on them. For sure. In fact they hold very little responsibility in society’s eyes at all for gender issues. That has been placed solely on women especially in dating, all content almost is geared towards how women should be fucking ugly broke socially inept men to make their dating lives easier. If you are not fucking a broke ugly man and simultaneously thinking he’s hot enough for immediate sex and should never pay for a date, you’re literally failing as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 11:01 PM
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Yes no normal man who has a decent social life speaks like that even online. It’s telling of a chronic, consistent, extensive amount of time online and a refusal to assimilate into normie town. Yes absolutely. In any other setting this would be a cause for concern. PPD has popped up several times on more normie servers and scared the crap out of people. Women AND men have commented how they’ve seen hate speech here and blatant misogyny that’s completely abnormal to them. These dudes aren’t ur av…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:51 PM
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I mean im just saying 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:48 PM
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Men who say the “value of vagina” are social failures and deserve inceldom. Seriously, most men who are incels or struggling are just weirdos refusing to behave socially normal. Our value isn’t declining. Some men just refuse to act like normal adults are facing the consequences of that now that women aren’t forced to deal with them. This consequence has not been applied to them before because men have always gotten what they asked for in terms of women so they come up with all these reasons tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:35 AM
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Incels have too high of standards and the 4 rejected me over looks, ironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:23 AM
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No, I get rejected by incels and sub 4s as an average woman. The men who nobody would even look at, don’t want to look at me. Can u believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:56 PM
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They called me ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:55 PM
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Will do!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:55 PM
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4 separate incels…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:55 PM
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Most incels r fakecels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:31 PM
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No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:30 PM
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I got rejected by 4 incels today 😔😔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:35 AM
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Or maybe that’s not their fucking looksmatch and they need to stop being delusional if literally no one wants them. And women do NOT need to abide by arbitrary looksmatch rules that incels create in their heads. Like do you realize how delulu it sounds for incels with zero interest making demands on who is their looksmatch and who should be attracted to them??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:55 PM
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you can talk to yourself ab balls all day I still don’t respect u <3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:15 PM
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Then she’s not messiest
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:14 PM
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defeat? were we fighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:14 PM
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ur comments may be a little too lame for moi
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:42 AM
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oh pls she’s harmless and adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:42 AM
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why would I respect u if u call urself sub human?💀 yea no bye
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:42 AM
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Lily have u not met me like ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:40 AM
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apparently I haven’t fought with enough bitches here 🤨so who’s the messiest on the sub rn? 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:49 AM
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They’re so good omg I love them!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:56 AM
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because some men are wonderful and amazing partners - im not missing out on that because of some bad eggs tf 🤨. A good man is a blessing, I’d be grateful to have one I could call mine and would consider myself very lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:23 AM
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yea I need to put this on a billboard or something 😭🙏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:59 AM
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How do I tell men a simple “hi” would suffice?🧍🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:38 AM
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I hate being approached sometimes bc it’s so painful. The weirdest way a man hit on me I guess was when he ruined my birthday and ripped my dress (and he’s like visibly off drugs btw) because he thought I was a prostitute. He kept coming over to me and insisting I take this $100 bill. I say no, he says im so beautiful I should have it. He refuses to take it back so I keep it. He then comes back and demands his money back because I “stole” it so I give it back, no worries $100 is a lot to be givi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:21 AM
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daily reminder that incels are evil
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:47 PM
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Undesirable men are extremely deluded. Being the bottom of the barrel with literally no one interested, demanding (from entitlement and immaturity) that women need to change solely for their benefit, Is delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:13 PM
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Who is not accepting the trade offs? Traditional men will choose traditional women. Anyone is free to end relationships they deem unsatisfactory because someone is not meeting their end of the deal. So what exactly, be specific, is the change you want to see in women that would solve their issues (since this is apparently our problem)? What would development in “maturity” this way do for us and the men we date? I don’t see any benefits in catering to men, especially young men, when they have rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:11 PM
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What are you talking about? Why are you shaming someone for not being with someone of YOU choice? Enough. Quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:16 PM
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No, that was correct. Not wanting to date an arrogant, socially off, mentally ill druggie is pretty fair. Those things not holding a woman back from dating is men’s low standards. Nothing about shooting higher than that is extremely complex and only a person with serious mental issues would think that. Men have issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 08:17 PM
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I have some thins going for me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:45 AM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:43 AM
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why do men say women r hypergamous? I literally can’t even find a guy better than me🧍🏽‍♀️and why r ugly guys so mean nowadays? Aren’t they supposed to compensate w something?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 11:38 PM
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But I’ve found good men and tbh this isn’t a moral judgement it’s j highlighting tht men and women have different dating strategies and styles Men overwhelmingly lead with looks and sex. When I see different I’ll say different and it doesn’t mean all men using this strategy are horrible. It’s j different to how women date
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:21 PM
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I guess I don’t really count the self hating one, true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:20 AM
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I’m not sure I believe that anymore. Sorry bro. Incels just shoot out their league
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 12:22 AM
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Girl i know too many, it’s scary. Many are also psycho with mental problems….incels are never just average dudes either 🫩
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:39 PM
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you misunderstood, i don’t think i could date a redditor
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:46 PM
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Love that for you babe! I hope you had a wonderful Valentine’s Day with your partner 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:58 PM
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Very few men have low libido. So no this is not a concern. I’d be grateful he’s one of the few men showing not just a vested interest in me, but literally withholding from sex which apparently is such a basic human need it kills men not to have it, just to show me how much he would rather build a connection. It’s admirable. But then again like I mentioned I also vet men after sex like they do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:55 PM
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That’s what I said! But apparently not. I agree i think there’s a lot of inflated egos and circle jerk behavior. I feel like many men I meet are totally capable and even good at what I listed. Thanks! 🥰he’s great I am just being wary of love bombing. I got wonderful flowers I need to find a vase for and im hoping to see him again soon😍 How are you??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:46 PM
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PERIOD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:44 PM
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I don’t believe in withholding sex personally it’s just not my thing and im not hurt by having sex and it not working out. But I would be pleasantly surprised and impressed at a man who prioritizes an emotional connection and relationship before sex. Less than 2% of men in the world do this lmao. Most want both at the same time or just sex. So I would really appreciate a man who for once in history, actually turned things around and wanted to get to know me deeply before sex. I might even get hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:30 PM
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Everyone be hating on Lift but he’s lowkey based 🤔. But anyways more nonsense from men today claiming that men are not able to identify ways to integrate themselves socially and improve. Apparently all average men are broke losers who cannot hold a normal conversation and will short circuit if they have to find out how to use words to flirt. Idk what that is or why that happens. But regardless, I went on a date and it was very fun. But he might be moving too fast so we’ll see how this goes🤨. Wis…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:12 PM
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IM CRYING. but idk any incel who hasn’t rejected a woman and that makes me chuckle sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:10 PM
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Men have not reached the social intelligence yet to know how to market their desires and needs. They tell women things women hate because they are stupid, instead of finding common ground that can appeal to women and also satisfy whatever it is they’re looking for. It’s a huge issue with men and idk why they are not working on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:09 PM
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why would I repeat men’s behavior and mindset when it’s worked out terribly for them? Men are the dumbest demographic ever. Like please think about the stupid shit they do. They want sex so bad they shame women OUT of giving it to them to create competition and feel some type of self esteem by “winning a woman”. Who does that? That’s like if I wanted my favorite sandwich so I petition to have the sandwich shop move 1500 miles away so I can walk the 1500 miles to “earn” the sandwich and feel bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:36 AM
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They don’t because that’s who they are. I can’t extend understanding and care to men who want to literally cause me harm. There are plenty of other men for me to interact with and care for that at least aren’t that fucking mean, let alone aren’t horrible slut shamers. I’m good off them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 06:59 PM
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You mean groupies???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:06 AM
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Well there’s many factors you kinda dismissed and I think that’s where men just refuse at this point to understand where women are coming from. It doesn’t feel like a power imbalance to have so many options because that is an illusion. My inbox is not full of men, it’s empty and im a thin average looking woman. So we don’t have as many options as you think, we are compared to the lives of insta super models or mini influencers and it’s uncomfortably unrealistic. The illusion of options also come…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:37 PM
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Some. Yes, it is harder to find your own way with lots of freedom. But restriction comes with a price. You’re not asking for direct communication which people can find now by sorting through their options. You’re asking for rules and rules can be broken and broken rules have consequences. For women this is often costly in ways it isn’t for men. no ty
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 06:53 AM
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So? Being a black man doesn’t save you from ever engaging in racism. The fact that I called it racism proves I find this behavior racist. It does not mean I think white people have to prove allyship by fucking black people or that anyone has to have any sexual contact with anyone. Like I just said before.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:08 AM
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No. Men have no personal responsibility and women would end up doing all the work. Men tried this whole courting process and it led to rampant sexual abuse, coercion and all sorts of hugely negative consequences for women - per usual. I do not trust men as a group to ever make any “rules” for women again. They just keep hurting us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:06 AM
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Well the studies say gay men receive a lot more support from heterosexual women and feel much closer to them. But I will agree with your point there is always more work to be done and performative support exists. I do I think it’s natural for men to want feminine women. I’m not going to feed into whatever racism boner you’ve got going on. But I agree that no one should feel forced to sleep with anyone. Men who want low body counts too, and I should see a vast push for men to meet those women’s s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:03 AM
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Women can be confident and assertive they’re not male only traits. Men aren’t leading in dating they can’t even approach and use their words. Women don’t need to prove their anti homophobia by having sex with bi men. Women can like masculine men who that comes natural to without forcing other men to share the same physicality or traits. Stop coercing women to have sex with more men until YOU are satisfied. They should do what they want. Women are huge supporters of the lgbtq+ community with rese…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:29 AM
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no I wasn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:29 PM
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obese men are a menace to society
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:24 PM
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to hit the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:22 PM
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That’s not what your comments sound like. It sounds very critical of women not wanting sex all the time and it’s not cool to read. Women do not slut shame me, men do. It’s confusing to women and it’s hurtful. I don’t understand why men are like this - they make everything a game of balance and it’s tiring. Just sleep with women you like and who you would want to enjoy the sex you’re having. Sleep with women who don’t make you angry at them not wanting sex every hour of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:22 PM
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what 🧍🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:18 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:17 PM
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They have never accounted for me when I was hurt or any other woman🤷🏽‍♀️. Why do I or women have to endure men lashing out because they chose wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:32 AM
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What negatives? How are they hurting themselves or others? Reality may not care about my feelings, all I would ask is that a man im having sex would. It’s so sad that even in 2026, men don’t even want women to enjoy sex and want sex. It is just something we are supposed to do for them. It’s really hurtful tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:30 AM
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Talk to me ab running when u can serve bodyyyyy like I can😝 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:34 AM
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It’s not selfish, he can leave any time. I don’t think it’s selfish at all to have sex when you want it and not when you don’t. I’m not sure why you think that IS selfish. You did you wrote paragraphs detailing the negatives of women having sex on their terms. I think that’s sad, disheartening, destructive, and gross. You can think whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:19 AM
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Riiiight that’s why my sizes fluctuates between 0 and 2. Yea totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:18 AM
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I am confused why you feel so negatively about women’s choice and freedom being granted more often by society. That’s disheartening. I love it. I am in love with the idea of love born from choice. I chose wonderfully my first time dating a man seriously and I fully enjoyed being in that relationship. I might even date him again in the future, he’s so wonderful compared to the rest of the dating pool and esp compared to the “struggling men” who are so disrespectful. I am forever grateful my ex wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:43 AM
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Please stop. Women should have a say in when, how, and with whom they have sex. The only response that should be coming from you is that you agree. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:32 AM
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Yea what about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:40 AM
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you’re not expected to do anything. you have the freedom to do whatever you’d like. I just think women are allowed to respond to men’s behavior in dating however they’d like too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:37 AM
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Hit the gym dude
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:04 AM
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Good for them 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:03 AM
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I don’t believe in the whole you’re single until you’re married thing but I do believe in reciprocity. Don’t do all that shit for a man who’s not committing to you. Treat a man exceedingly well when he’s behaved and earned it. Same thing the other way around. I have no idea why a woman would act like a wife with a man who doesn’t act like a husband. Treat men how they treat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:02 AM
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Because men don’t think casual sex is bad for them, they think not being able to get what they want at all times is bad so they punish whatever behavior doesn’t serve them. You’re a prude and “not attracted” if you don’t want sex immediately and you’re a whore if you have sex faster and more often. The nice thing about it is when they’re open about they’re self serving, woman hating, hypocritical mindset like this they become easier to identify and you’ll see patterns in men you come across. Any…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:59 AM
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Because she’s the one that has to give birth. Or do you not know how babies are born?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:51 AM
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Men are fucking and dating women all the time. Stop making stuff up to feel better, it’s not doing anything for you. I slept with a guy last week. Not 6’, no six figures, no monster dick. Just a regular dude who showed me a good time on a date. The average dudes that are sleeping with and dating women aren’t going to be the circle jerk guys you criticize women with on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:49 AM
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You can’t be asexual and bisexual. Women are dating men too. I date men all the time, they just need to start being better options and speaking less online. Wasting time doing anything but making themselves more attractive to maximize their options. It’s that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:08 AM
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How can they be hetereosexual, asexual, AND having active sexuality towards women? What are you even on about? Just because women may not have found you or other men attractive doesn’t erase our entire sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:41 AM
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some men do act like man children and some don’t have jobs 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:41 PM
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Don’t push yourself so hard
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:40 PM
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It’s half and half. I can’t be attracted to someone insufferable or hella ugly. Love a happy medium you feel me?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:52 AM
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hahaha that’s hilarious. Sorry it didn’t work, that’s a bummer. Did you have a good work out though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:51 AM
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Convince u of??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:50 AM
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HEY WHAT
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:50 AM
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no I had food so I feel better now no more angry
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:20 AM
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not u <3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:20 AM
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no they’re insufferable and men should be less insufferable so I want to fuck more of them smh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:20 AM
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The men are extra insufferable today. Or maybe I’m just hangry because im not unemployed like the male users here smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:38 PM
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What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:29 PM
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Oh boy. What is all this 🧍🏽‍♀️ No I don’t believe you were mister rainbows and sunshine when you turned to RP. Yes blue pill talks about all of that, they just don’t get all weirdly angry at women for being human beings who are attracted to the same things men are. Barring that women are a bit more flexible than men in terms of their attraction. You dont need to change your flair or your life or whatever. I’m just discussing this with you. I am aware most men aren’t here to get better, this plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:16 PM
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What? This is blue pilled advice extended Have social skills and acknowledge that social skills vary by context lmao. The way a job interview requires skill but not the same skill as making a new friend. Treat women as people, capable of doing good or bad, they have feelings, emotions and aren’t robots. These can vary based on all sorts of factors and women are not perfect and shouldn’t be held to the standard of being perfect. Not to mention, women feel sexual attraction, women can be shallow, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:23 PM
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Real asf 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:00 PM
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I do that. I get dicked down a lot and then just choose one that wants to date me and doesn’t care about bc. Then i just treat him well and problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:59 PM
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hahaha okay got it any man here except for acceptable touch - he’s okay 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:17 PM
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hahaha yea I’m staying clear of her path😆i do agree she’s good at being specific in terms of who she’s addressing. She’s definitely harsh but i like a little fierce push back to the narrative on here 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:08 AM
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What is this effort that most men are putting in that is so difficult it becomes unsustainable? You write about this in several comments but do not say at all what it is you’re actually doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:24 AM
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My pink pill flair just reflects my favorite color tbh I don’t even rly know what it means. Humans are not dogs we have brains and can think for ourselves. Plenty of people are treated badly or grow up in situations where they see or experience bad behavior getting “rewarded” and still don’t turn to it. A man choosing to be evil is doing just that, choosing. There is no one to point fingers at, there’s no blame that is able to be shared. I would always hope women choose good men, sometimes that …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:05 AM
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I didn’t say church women were good I said to stop chasing and paying attention to bad women. Sex is not a treat and humans aren’t dogs. Yes if a woman is seeing a trashy man, she shouldn’t expect better than trashy behavior. Hopefully she gets up and moves on. Same with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:28 PM
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Then why are you chasing trashy women and then complaining they are trash? That doesn’t make any sense. I don’t stalk your comments to know you’re Hispanic. But yes the translation is not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:55 PM
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Are you English as a second language? It’s hard to read your comments. And you realize none of this matters unless you are lying and going after women you find trashy instead of modest prude religious conservative women? I’m from the suburbs. No, no girls were dating ghetto thugs. It wasn’t seen as cool because where I lived that’s not what was popular. And no one gives men sex, it’s not a gift or treat. It’s a mutual act people do and there’s all levels of importance and value and specialness p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:27 PM
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Trashy people fuck trashy people. The annoying part is a bunch of incel losers whining that the trashy women are fucking trashy dudes when they could be pursuing normal average women, who you know..have decent jobs and want to date decent men. It just shows you that incels were never and will never be the good guys. They’re just a bunch of wannabe thugs with too severe of autism to pursue their trashy porno fantasy. It’s embarrassing that they even want to be in my dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:32 AM
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well now you seem more upset :( I don’t want men to die i love fucking them <3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:43 AM
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No you just reminded me to smoke tho 😝i love Lilith frfr
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:42 AM
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Nah, sounds about right to me :) when I see different, I’ll say different. It’s not my fault me portray themselves so poorly if that’s not what they mean🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:20 AM
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I’m sorry you’re so upset about it. Care to debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:18 AM
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I think I outlined some ways men are misogynistic here that goes beyond just disagreeing with me. Don’t take the grain of salt, take my word for it. Because I’m right ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:18 AM
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Yes Lilith is very articulate and strategic. It’s fun to watch!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:17 AM
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Not really, go ahead and fix that grammar mistake for me, same difference. Manosphere is just an umbrella term. Blackpill, redpill meh all the same manosphere shit. Well not really. Redpill originally advocated (and advocates) against marriage. And..you are married. I agree. Manosphere is kind of dumb. Sexist asshole ideology is a much better fit albeit..a bit long.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:16 AM
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hey hey hey lil man. hope ur day was good. So, your project of finding men who want to harm women in some way was too easy so I did you one better and found a comment where you yourself actually criticized a man for wanting to do just that and I quote babe, “Dude you’re actively advocating for finding a random woman and fucking up her life” https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/1i4kD3akTZ Crazy, right? Anyways, look I don’t doubt you love your wife. I just also don’t doubt that anyone who l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:12 AM
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I’ve always wondered…why is that a rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:20 AM
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It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:19 AM
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I wouldn’t say that. I think there are many great men, in fact men that amaze me every day. I think plenty of men make great husbands and some even go above and way beyond. I just don’t think these men are here, if I didn’t make that abundantly clear…those men are not on manosphere subs jealous of a felon because he “got to hit”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:18 AM
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Why do I need to know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:16 AM
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I am sorry this was hard for you to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:16 AM
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Yea when you say this to a man then you can speak to me. Toodles!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:16 AM
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Yea I see that now but still some good info in there for him so🤷🏽‍♀️still applies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:15 AM
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I’m good just tired I have a long commute
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:14 AM
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miss u bae
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:42 PM
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Well actually they weren’t facts and none of what you said was proven. You’re on a sub with men who are openly misogynistic. And then saying that doesn’t exist here or they get reamed by….apparently the blue pilled men that is supposed to be the entire sub? Like bro. Come on. You know I know that’s not true. And then u bring up ur wife who idek exists. And idek how you treat her. So how is that relevant? And how does that make you a good guy? Judging from your comments on here too? Like dude. Of…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:42 PM
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Have u met the people here bro?😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:38 PM
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yea I don’t think she’s misandrist, she more just takes commonly said things by men and flips it, analyzes it and ofc they don’t like it and ofc they have no reasonable response. I get tired of the weak women who post about going on a run to misogynists because they don’t even care if they have rights. I get tired of the other group of women who believe they deserve to get punched in the face because they have a pussy. And I get tired of the men for all sorts of reasons. Lilith is a breath of fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:38 PM
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yay more lilith posts this week :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:07 PM
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Men have had wives and still advocated and participated in the harm of women. What shrinks and expands is where you put yourself. You are all for the redpill when it benefits you and makes you feel better about your experience dating. You are all of a sudden not a part of the manosphere or “never see anything bad!” When it is rightfully criticized. Please keep in mind that this server was created shortly after the original was quarantined for rampant misogyny where women were receiving rape and …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:52 PM
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Sigh. I’m sure you haven’t seen anything bad from a man because I’ve read your comments and you fail to equally and properly criticize men on a consistent basis. You think they do no wrong and you believe in AWALT. Yawn. You’re a stereotype. I’ve seen you draw conclusions about women repeatedly literally saying AWALT today. Abusers have wives. Misogynists have wives. That has been your screaming point for over a year now. So no, it does not matter to me that you love your wife. You also could lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:50 PM
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No, they do not want us to choose better. Men are straightforward. Every day the “lonely men” come online and say they are jealous of men who mistreat women because they want to do the same thing. They ridicule men who treat women well. If a guy has ever complimented you, he is a white knight simp. If a guy is a feminist or kind to women or a good partner, he is a simp. He’s beta buxxed. He hates his life. He’s being mistreated. His partner doesn’t deserve his kindness. They don’t even know thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:44 PM
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Most people prefer clear communication. They also just expect a reasonable amount of tact to be applied. There are many ways to say the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:58 AM
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I didn’t compare them you just got offended. Men who want to be husbands aren’t offended at being called husband material nor do they assume marriage means dead bedroom and wife who’s not sexually attracted to them. Men who want to be husbands will just pick a woman who is sexually interested in them and shows that through her actions. Demonizing marriage and husband material traits is simply men rejecting those thins because they don’t want to be them. Which is totally fine and doesn’t need to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:40 AM
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I don’t know what any of this means but it sounds stupid. Men invest in women with time, money, effort, gifts, and commitment. Women shouldn’t chase a man because that’s not something men value. On the surface level of course they will appreciate attention and getting chased, but men are naturally more inclined towards competition and chasing women. They like to work to achieve things, including your love. It’s somethin they have built into masculinity and until they can give that up, there’s no…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:35 AM
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Most couples show in studies that they believe they will last and have active sex lives. Life happens. Shit happens. Marriages are 20+ years and none are perfect and no one’s perfect. This is the attitude we hold towards everything else and we just do what we want. Men use it as an excuse that something may go wrong because they just don’t want to get married but they don’t know how to get access to sex otherwise. It’s not women’s problem and we shouldn’t be punished for men’s failure to be sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:25 AM
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To be honest I think this is just sugar coating. It’s okay to admit most men are not relationship oriented and sex obsessed. Women just want men to stop lying about it. It’s exhausting constantly being lied to because men want to get in our pants and it’s gross and unethical. I’ve never met a husband or soon to be husband who’s offended by that. Because good husbands love their wives. They love being in love. They love their relationships. Stop trying to take that away from women and make it see…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:22 AM
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Thank you for your honesty. Most men do not want or like relationships. Most men aren’t relationship material and men should accept being treated like sex crazed fiends because that is what they act like. Their tantrums are simply unacceptable. There are no unreasonable criticisms of modern men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:07 AM
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Fat slobs fuck all the time. The men here don’t sleep with anyone because they are weird, off putting, autistic, and shoot above their league. It’s totally fine if sexual validation is at the top of men’s list. Just don’t lie and say you’re looking for a relationship then and don’t lie and say you want marriage. Say that you are looking for hook ups with random varied woman and that sexually validates you. I’m not listening to whining about men’s “loneliness” when it’s just sexual validation the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:05 AM
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oh you’re actually the perfect example. I’ve known you for years now and now you are married to a woman who for basically the rest of her life is tied to a redpiller who has posted terrible misogynistic content about women and has always made it exceptionally clear that sex trumps all. Thanks for proving my point. It’s not a backhanded insult to be given a compliment just because they don’t want to fuck you. Take the fucking compliment, eye roll it if you have to if it’s so bad to have traits pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:02 PM
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Men don’t like being called husband material because they don’t want to be a husband. They want to be a hook up. That’s it. Stop lying to women with all this bullshit. If sex is what you (gen) value, own that and get the fuck up to do the work it requires to have a woman be interested in hooking up with you. Men who want to be husbands are not offended at the fucking idea OF BEING A HUSBAND. That makes no sense. If you do not want to be a husband, do not get married and do the work it takes to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:37 AM
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What you are describing isn’t emotional connection, it’s validation. You just want to feel sexually validated by a woman wanting sex with you regardless of how well you know her, regardless of whether you even know her name. That is not wanting or desiring an emotional connection. That’s having a deflated ego. These are in no way parallels and if you want validation from women, then you need to have something for them to validate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:23 AM
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oh god r u serious? Why exactly do I have to “resist” this man? Is this dude evil or some shit? I don’t believe in purity culture because I’m not some self hating hag. What is the problem? Men are the ones who aren’t “worth something” if sleeping with even one of them, apparently the best of them, is supposed to send me in some depressive suicidal spiral over my self worth… Men can never come crying about women not having self control. At least 5 of you men TODAY have posted that you’re seeing o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:06 AM
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I think if you or any man is going to publicly humiliate women or shame them or constantly share your disdain towards them and dating them, they might not see what you see in terms of a “diamond in the rough” or a “good man after weeding through all his misogynistic comments” I feel that men constantly say the reverse that they don’t approach because of what women said online, that we’re stuck up entitled, obnoxious, superficial and the like because of TikTok’s they watch. So it’s not too far of…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:28 AM
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I mean I get that some women choose poorly and some women are immature or never learned how to filter bc of their role models in life or home structure or some women just like the bad boys whatever. All sorts of people exist But what always baffles me is that “good men are being overlooked” and then you take one look at these men’s comment histories and it’s full of terrible shit. This server is full of “overlooked men” and I’m reading comments daily from the “good guys” that women don’t deserve…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:11 PM
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I’m sorry who the hell is saying this? Uh yea money matters that’s why I have a decent paying job and would never date a broke man seriously. Is this a joke orrrrr?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:16 AM
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This is just an emotional rant. You don’t even have the post here. Just because it’s totally fine for men to sexualize and want sex with women when appropriate, doesn’t mean women want to hear it every day. I’m not surprised there’s women who keep complaining that they want to be seen as people when men wanting sex is posted over 10 billion times a day. We never get a break. Ever. Nothing about what these women said implied he should be some worker drone. It seems like a few were just fed up rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:36 PM
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Well that is what is being implied. No I don’t think you’re going to shoot me, but I don’t understand the pressure you are applying to women here and I don’t understand the bitterness from a logical standpoint. Emotionally I understand why men lash out. You all believe you are better than the average woman and each have said in so many words that you wholeheartedly believe you deserve more options. That is why you are lashing out. You believe the women you want are supposed to want you back and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:03 AM
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Actually both men and women tend to date those who are socially and economically similar to each other. Hm I don’t really see regular women rejecting regular men. I see average regular people dating all the time in college, from work, from a bar, dating apps. I don’t see average women only dating above average men and I don’t see above average men only ever dating down. Everyone hates paying bills. That’s why couples split to save themselves some money they can use on other things like vacations…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:53 PM
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Yes I do. It’s purposefully coercive to say that having any standards that have a numerical value attached to it is transactional and therefore you can’t have any of those standards to be in a non transactional, loving relationship. Well that’s not what you’re asking for, you’re asking to not be judged on anything with a numerical value. I can have a loving mutually respectful relationship and still have standards with a numerical value like income height weight etc. and I shouldn’t be made to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 02:44 AM
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Yes thank you. Majority of us women don’t like feeling owned like a dog or property and it’s disgusting to be portrayed like that by that..woman who replied to you. Many men are extremely loving without being controlling, possessive or dictator-like and I appreciate your comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 02:39 AM
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That’s too autistic of analysis. No, women do not have to sleeep with all sorts of men they do not like in order to prove to random incel or manosphere men online that they are not transactional. Building a regular relationship built on love mutual respect and all that jazz is enough not to be transactional. Even if you have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 02:20 AM
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This is psychotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:12 PM
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What the hell are we supposed to do? Newsflash I am not fucking hideous men to get a credit card and bills paid. You should be grateful to live in the least transactional time period in history. Being rejected for not being attractive to some women is doing exactly what you said. They are not feigning interest to extract resources from you because now women can pick who they like. And it’s up to you to not go for the 3% of gold diggers out there who are on sugar dating sites and are insta models…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:06 PM
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You are in the least transactional time period ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:02 PM
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You are not a number. You are a human being and there are other human beings who are not compatible with you. That’s not a woman problem, that’s you needing to be an adult and find someone compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:00 PM
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Not being transactional doesn’t mean forcing yourself to date men you don’t like, find unattractive, or are incompatible with. Women are playful and flirty and have good witty banter all the time. You just need to find a woman who’s like that with YOU. It doesn’t make women transactional because you haven’t been chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:59 PM
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You need to go outside. I’m attracted to more average men than you are average women if this is how you think I keep telling yall to get off social media. It’s ruining men’s brains to the point they don’t find regular women attractive. Yall never listen!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:48 PM
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It’s 80% of women you’re interested in. The rest of us don’t have the free time to run around editing Epstein photos and then dropping to the floor to spiral that this is what women want. The rest of us all have to get up and go to work. The rest of us are living average lives with average people. Don’t put it on me that you pick women who like that shit man idk why you’re attracted to that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:45 PM
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ha yea tell that to the women. im sure all the rapists and abusers think the exact same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:39 AM
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Wdym? A guy can be hot and not hotter than me imo. And he can be hot and hotter than me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:39 AM
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no it’s just psychotic and they will end up with psychotic women and then we all have to deal with them shitting on women and throwing tantrums here when it doesn’t work out. UGH
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:38 AM
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Also I forgot to add that this means 90% of men on here shouldn’t be talking the shit they do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:37 AM
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yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:36 AM
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About what? Can you not read💀the guy implied vaginas being loose isn’t a big topic. I responded and then here u come “PPL CALLED MY PP SMALL!” What does that have to do with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:36 AM
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Then why r u here 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:35 AM
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I think men do if they show up to a date with me looking better than me 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:35 AM
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Wdym evolved to be unattracted to men? I for one think many are very attractive. Not the ones that want to rape me if that’s what you’re implying and encouraging.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:32 AM
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I date how a man does 🤷🏽‍♀️better looking better treatment amirite? 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:31 AM
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wow get a load of this guy 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:30 AM
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oh honey I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:28 AM
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you have yourself so I don’t trust that <3 And you’re an unhealthy bmi according to ur comments
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:27 AM
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and you felt the need to add this irrelevant comment, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:26 AM
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that’s not kind :(
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:25 AM
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hahaha I miss u bb
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:25 AM
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I know this sounds like im a man. Anything for Stacy right? Meanwhile yall overlooking beckys and complaining about a $5 coffee date with them huh… Well right back at ya buddy boy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:18 PM
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You’re discussing it rn and lock and key has been around forever. Loose pussy been a joke forever. You’ve heard 5 jokes and lost it while some have been hearing mean jokes since the beginning of time. You can take what you dish my man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:16 PM
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I’m crying lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:15 PM
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I think he already knew that when he beat/raped his woman into submission and probably figured she wouldn’t want that if she had freedom. But she didn’t so he just forgets about it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:13 PM
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Find a submissive man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:11 PM
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that’s not loneliness that’s just being psychotic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:11 PM
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I only pay for dates when the man’s hotter than me how about that for gender roles? 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:09 PM
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So in order to be a bad person, you have to have been in prison? So Jesse Butler is a good man suitable as a dating option for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:01 AM
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This is precisely it. Well done
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:56 AM
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Dude just answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:38 AM
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And why would that mean they want to come here? Lol US immigrants are mostly from Mexico, India, china and the Philippines. These groups make up over half the percentage of immigrants. They’re pretty cool and offer a lot to our country. No you just spiraled out on me because you couldn’t defend your point. I don’t. I advocate for better healthcare, to uphold civil rights and fair treatment for all, for mental health services. I love people, all sorts of people in this country. We are so amazing …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:29 PM
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Oh of course. How many times do me have to lie in women’s faces before we get it? The me here REPEATEDLY maybe every 30 minutes, talk about trading up average women for hot hookers bc average women are juices not worth the squeeze, they talk about PPB to get barely legal Asian women who are struggling financially in foreign countries, they pay so much money I personally know men here in debt from spending life savings on hookers and OF just to get access to women hotter than them. This post is u…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:22 PM
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Immigrants from anywhere are immigrants. Why would only immigrants from Islamic countries come here? And if they did come here I imagine it’s because they don’t like how things are run at home and they want to live differently. You’re not making any sense. The sky is not falling my dude. Watch a comedy movie and chill out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:18 AM
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What? Can you explain to me how America was founded? You don’t know your history. This is a country of immigrants. No one but native Americans are from here. Idk why you are discriminatory towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:07 AM
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I am a woman so I have enough options to pick a man I find attractive and date him long term. So I do just that. Ive done just that and it was great. I’ve never fucked this celebrity type dude you’ve made up in your head. I messed around with typical average college men and then committed to another typical average dude from college because we liked each other enough for a relationship. It was great, we had a lot of fun constant sex as two average looking people who liked each other. I think a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:03 AM
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So dramatic yet again. Our societies are fine. Thinking ahead, climate change is more dangerous than allowing women rights to divorce her husband. If all women disappeared, no, men could not keep society running because half of all the jobs here would cease to exist. And men are naturally more violent aggressive and would immediately turn on each other. This sexism blindness is causing a spiral beyond reason. Our immediate needs are met because you are fortunate to live in a society with a gover…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:42 AM
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Oh god what is this mess of a comment? I enjoy the fruits of the labor of everyone in this country. I am actually grateful for the opportunity to have freedom of choice to pick someone compatible with me. You are the one complaining we don’t live in a third world country and I can’t even begin with explaining the amount of privilege it takes to whine about that. If either men or women disappeared we’d all suffer. You only exist because your mother chose to have you. Our society is fine. We alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 01:11 PM
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This doesn’t make sense. Can you expand on what benefits society when women are socially coerced into dating men they are not politically aligned with? I don’t find that heathy, i find it a way for men to increase their romantic and sexual options through coercion, laziness, and misogyny. I think everyone deserves to reflect on their political and social values, and feel confident in using their values to help guide them to someone they can have a healthy relationship with. What benefits society…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 09:29 AM
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Okay well I didn’t say that they need to or want to or have to. We all make choices of what we will accept. Many incels are just men who aren’t satisfied with their options and it’s okay for them to not accept what’s available to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:15 AM
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Detector is reading “unattractive”. But that doesn’t matter to you right? So if you want to forego all that, you just need to make yourself physically attractive enough for women who don’t care about personality. And they totally exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:10 AM
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I can totally see that but I’m not sure what the debate here is?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:07 AM
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Then why do men expect women to sacrifice everything for the sake of men without backlash?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:36 AM
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I’m not sure I would call any of this husband material, provider material, or attractive in a personality sense. This is also not sexually attractive and the comment invokes sexual repulsion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:42 AM
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I don’t find that a valid or good reason to be upset at promiscuous women at all. And inexperienced men have trouble attracting women in general, they are not the ones being sought after. I’m not a believer in purity culture and find it harmful so I can’t agree with you that painting women as untouched trophies to try and collect is a proper or healthy mindset. I think men who hold themselves to high standards and do not ever comment, post or engage in sexual behavior should seek similar women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:29 AM
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Hm perhaps you’re not very good at reading how you come off. You said the best way to find out is to take a woman swimming which actually implies you don’t know what “no make up” makeup looks like if you’re having to try and put her in situations where she can’t wear any. Well you are trying to ruin make up for me. Because you’re suggesting it’s going to fuck up my skin so badly when all you really need is to take care of your skin after use. Make up doesn’t ruin your skin with proper care but l…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:22 AM
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On the several different alts that you sexually harassed women on and collected photos of unsuspecting women on, I think this one is the most prevalent. I’m very shocked you think your behavior is okay and that sexual harassment against women is not embarrassing and shameful. I hope you spend the holidays connecting better with loved ones and getting on a better path to not committing sex crimes against women. Maybe sit and have a chat with your mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:36 AM
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Then date natural women who are already so athletic you’re not shit testing like a crazy person. The fact that you had to bring this up means you’re selecting women above your league who are not what you claim to want right? Otherwise why are you shit testing? I think whatever you want is great and good for you. It is your sole responsibility to be attractive to and select for women who are your type. I wish you well and don’t appreciate the insults just because I really enjoy make up. My dates …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:34 AM
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Everyone should decide for themselves what it is they want and just go for that. I’m promiscuous and didn’t have any trouble bonding. Maybe I’m special or something but tbh I just think I’m a normal person who’s had a lot of sex. It doesn’t really affect me, it doesn’t make me hyper compare every dude, it doesn’t make me crazy and insecure. I’m just a random person in a sea of people who had a lot of sex. I think it’s more than fair if a guy doesn’t want to date me because guess what guys? YOU a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:28 AM
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Who goes on a date swimming or working out? That’s clearly not bonding at all and just doing your own thing and clearly a shit test. Stop dating insta models who are all caked up to the point you’re actually trying to ruin their make up or force them not to wear any on a date. If you date regular women wearing normal amounts of make up, she’s not going to look that different. I’ve never had a guy point it out and I wear full face natural make up all the time. No one’s shocked or catfished. Date …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:13 AM
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It truly does...it’s wrong. So why were you doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 07:41 PM
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Damn fr? No way. Sry
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:39 AM
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Speaking of vile behavior what is ur take on collecting pics of women you know and jerking off to them? Seems a bit vile to me no?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:38 AM
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Why is that a human right esp for underperforming males?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:36 AM
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Ah that makes sense but still wth is that 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:36 AM
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😏 sureee, assumptions hehehehe. you know who I am
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:35 AM
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LMAO let’s find all his alts together
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 05:31 AM
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why does he talk like this💀why do men sexualize children so much I genuinely don’t understand it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 05:30 AM
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You better simp for him tf - you just terrified a bunch of people with extremely creepy behavior and have no one. If I were you id suck up to dry and stop antagonizing people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 05:27 AM
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The stigma has led to their murder, so I think it’s great to destigmatize sex workers to keep women and men safer. Also idk how to break it down to a more elementary level but it’s like if I have a friend who gave me a necklace because they wanted to versus their mom paid them to be my friend and give me a gift. It’s superficial consent. I think it’s fair for that to be a negative to most people. How are women encouraged to put men into a position to buy consent? I was under the impression men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 05:23 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:58 AM
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Are you guys going on a date
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:58 AM
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Lovely thank god
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:05 AM
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No please stay with him. In fact do everything you can, even at your expense, to keep him. That keeps other women safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:55 PM
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No they should chase conservative men like their lives depend on them - because they do lol. They all deserve each other 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:54 PM
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Yes I think that’s common sense for most normal decent women. However there are conservative women who are just as horrible as the men and are self hating idiots. I disagree they shouldn’t be with conservative or right wing men. I think they are doing liberal women a favor by taking conservative men off the market and suffering their abuse so the rest of us don’t have to. I personally think it’s obvious not to date men who put ur human rights, wellbeing, safety, and life on a ballot but clearly …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:52 PM
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I don’t think most men find most women attractive. I think they would just have sex with most women including women they find ugly and unattractive. Men just want women to think it’s a compliment to be found repulsive looking and still fuckable. But that’s just not our take on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:39 PM
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You should go for your looksmatch
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:36 PM
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People perceive selling your own consent differently than buying someone else’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:35 PM
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Girl are you just taking everything at face value or actually dissecting what this means? It sounds great for them but what exactly are they even doing to help with dating? As a woman, tell me what YOU think men are learning with a bunch of sex workers who are free use for the weekend, that would be beneficial in dating. Because I read there are sex workers to create a “relaxed environment where men don’t feel they will be shut down”. That men can explore all types of sexual experiences and not …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:23 AM
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It was men here who said he was average so🤷🏽‍♀️ he has a cutie face, average height, was a valet driver when we met. We’re both average people who just really liked each other. We still hang out. I think ur idea of average is a sub 4 man and that’s why you’re confused. Men having no standards is not my problem. I generally go for looksmatched-ish men. I think they’re attractive - I just have a type which makes things a little harder sometimes. The hard part too is average men tend to have a few …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:04 PM
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I’m agreeing with you. I see virtually no point in low body count men for dating prospects. They’re usually vile towards me. My prior relationship was a high body count average guy. (I’ve posted him and people here think he is average looking. I think he’s attractive) It was a great relationship and I don’t think a low body count male would make a great boyfriend for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:34 PM
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Sigh. No, as a woman I do not think it is helpful to have a bunch of horned up men learning that women are free use sex workers in dating. If it’s a great sexual outlet for men, okay. To be expected. I’m not so against it. But that is not the kind of mindset to have even more men engaging in when dating women. We want romance, confidence, respectful assertiveness, and intentional, fast commitment. None of this is taught and ofc women’s wants desires needs and requirements are never at the forefr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:31 PM
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I’ll use your body 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:32 PM
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Lmao 100+?? Dude. Relax. You clearly have no idea what you’re talking about who has 100+? You just said the average man always gets rejected and essentially there are no average men having casual sex or even relationships. So what is the truth here? Forget what men want, it’s always just sex. They’re fiends for it. How should low body count and high body count women vet THEIR options? It seems like low body count men are bad horrific options for both honestly but especially high bc women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 02:24 PM
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Why would I do that if they have such a horrible attitude towards me? I can have casual sex with high body count men who aren’t resentful of me and don’t hate me for existing and don’t punish me for relationships because I liked to have sex and fun. So why
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 02:21 PM
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Because you just said he can’t? Dude you’re spiraling. Relax and think out your replies you’re not making sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 02:15 PM
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So as a promiscuous woman, should I avoid low body count men so I’m not “manipulative”? Should promiscuous women remove low body count men from their dating pool? It sounds like low body count men especially are terrible partners and extremely resentful/toxic and should be with low body count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 02:13 PM
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Was this an attempt to be funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:02 AM
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Please do not kill women for not fucking you. Please do not use fear and violence as a means of “enticing” us aka forcing us into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:39 AM
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Did you even go to college?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:38 AM
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What do you mean “tend to men” and in what ways have men ever “tended” to women??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:37 AM
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How tf did they get scammed?💀
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:44 PM
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Ugly and fat women are more desperate for relationships. Demonizing them for once isn’t a smart move and also is unattractive to good women who aren’t ugly and fat who don’t like seeing other women put down. Every day I am shocked that men claim they want the dating world to be better for them because all of their rhetoric and behavior consistently shows that they are actively pushing women away as far as possible and want to be hated by women. It makes no sense. Dating must not be hard for men …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:27 PM
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Going to ignore the whole made up skit about average men not dating because that’s statistically not true and if you go outside, you can easily disprove that for yourself. Next tbh it’s really just that men need to find their own place in society. They are bugging out because they don’t have a script to follow which used to be, get a job that can afford a decent-ish life and a woman will fall in ur lap bc she has no money. Now they are running like chickens without heads because they don’t have …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:24 PM
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It’s very sad average men continue to choose such high maintenance women, overlooking average women who just want a nice relationship and a good connection. Men are putting in this amount of work because they are hypergamous in looks. This is the consequence of that choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:09 PM
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I’m not exactly sure how this would work out but yes. I have a lot of the traits socially that men lack and which contribute to their displeasure of how they’re treated. Think I’d have a good time tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 08:26 AM
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What traumatic phase are you and other men in if you know so much about accountability? If you’re comfortable pointing fingers, let’s move it back to you. What have you taken accountability for in your dating life?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:43 PM
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They do - that’s the polite way of saying it. He is paying for the date which is time spent getting to know each other. I always offer to go 50/50 and in my experience a man who really likes me and spending time with me operates that way as well. If they really like me, they will pay for the date because they enjoyed spending time with me. Every man who’s wanted to split didn’t like me. Just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:17 PM
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It’s not hypocritical. Traditionally, women did not put out because the man paid for a single date. Traditional men are paying for a date because they are paying the woman for her time. That is how that works lol. It seems that you are confusing traditional with transactional relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:09 PM
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Yes because forcing sex is illegal. You very clearly want the transaction of paying and receiving sex. Why are you not just seeing prostitutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:57 PM
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You are applying the Madonna whore complex and specifically choosing women who are less sexually adventurous and promiscuous for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:32 PM
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Poor in money not in looks. Also stats do show rich men actually don’t usually marry down in finances either. Most people end up with people similar to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:57 PM
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You can openly want whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:56 PM
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This is a 15 year old mindset. Just live your life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:22 PM
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No, just like any other trait about you, you’ll just have to find your crowd. I’m white collar and want a white collar man because it’s more relatable. For example, you went off on white collar people and corporate jobs and after a long day at work, that is not the type of rhetoric I’d want to hear. Blue collar men are usually against white collar jobs so it just doesn’t make sense for me to date one. I have before too and we just don’t have much in common either. I want to live in a city and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:21 PM
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Why r u yelling? Relax. Men and women want to date and there are a ton of factors influencing things. Ultimately tho the people who want to pair up and socialize will. It can just be hard to get started.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:52 AM
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Relax lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:51 AM
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No im reflecting the studies - you just don’t want to believe it due to deeeeep deep hatred and anger. Most likely from a very hurt place and I’m very curious what that is. This behavior is unusual and interesting to me because you refuse to acknowledge data even by men. Tbh idk if I will reproduce. My goal is to adopt all of my children. I worked in family services and I think it’s a great way to contribute to society while also having a family. Still a long way for me to go as I really want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:24 AM
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I dont need you to find me classy. I have enough options of decent men that the ones fucking drug addicts don’t need to be considered. I am okay with the college educated, respectful, kind, ethical men I choose finding me classy. I have had some great options and there are many many great men out there! I think Gen z men are unfortunately very undersocialized. It’s so expensive to meet people. It’s so hard to find third spaces. Many men also focus on their academics and even more don’t prioritiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:21 AM
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And over half are women paying or couples splitting. I think that’s a great number and hopefully to increase as time goes on. I linked a study that male researchers conducted. So you should criticize male math not girl math ;). It is about 10% difference where men are the household providers meaning over 60% of household income (but does not imply spending 60% or more of bills). It’s 45 v 55. And of the 48%, 16% have women as the primary breadwinner which is impressive considering they have more…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:17 AM
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I think this rant is fueled by some anger and not reality. The majority of couples are splitting finances and chores, no matter how much you want to angrily comment to me that is not the case. Most women are not rad fem. Most men are not in the manosphere. I think egalitarian couples do fairly well at splitting their chores and expenses. See data below. It appears that even though some egalitarian couples have tasks that one partner does more sometimes, overall they try pretty hard to split thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:11 AM
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No, you have not. You have said yourself you go for particularly young women who fuck in sheds and roadside motels. Honey, that is not reflective of the average woman let alone college educated. You like these degenerate often drug abusing women. And that’s totally okay! But then it becomes inaccurate when you’re trying to generalize. Not really statistically people have up to like 10 lifetime partners. You’ve chosen a specific lifestyle and that is why women who are more normal are refusing to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:03 AM
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Hahaha no. I don’t understand it better than lawyers but I did actually work on divorces in family court! I do not plan to divorce nor do I have 40k in debt. I am a college educated woman who now works at a law firm (actually just got a new job!). I have a car I am paying off and no student loans because I was blessed by my parents who really valued education. My point isn’t even that you can’t fuck these women or that it’s the most terrible thing in the universe. Whatever, it’s not like this ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:58 AM
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Okay see data that I have pulled through studies. No, women are not just throwing in a few dollars for mortgages and household expenses. Couples seek different avenues to pay their bills but most are income proportionate or split evenly. Many households also have women who are solely responsible for bills or are paying more. So yes, couples are splitting the mortgage among other household expenses. Men are not sole breadwinners the majority of the time. “Academic work often measures “who pays bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:52 AM
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He is fucking homeless women in sheds. He has no idea what a regular couple does with their finances. He goes for women who are druggies and give roadside blowjobs. Absolute nightmare dating life. Avoid!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:31 AM
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You know what’s interesting? I also took the time today to look through your comment history. I see exactly why you’ve had so many poor experiences with women and think so poorly of them. You’ve been completely unable to attract the decent ones. You detailed fucking a woman in a shed like a crackhead. Getting sucked off on roadside motel rooms with multiple girls in the rooms like cheap prostitutes you found on the street. You have zero options of regular, normal, decent women with good jobs and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:29 AM
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I’m not going to argue confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:21 AM
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Everyone has their perspective. I think this is valid it just doesn’t compute to me. If a guy isn’t considering a part about me, it’s because he doesn’t care. Things I don’t consider in a man are because I don’t care. My experience is that my dating life goes better with accomplished men. They are on the same level so they appreciate my hard work. Men lower than that or on an alternative path or who aren’t “on my level” in terms of like degree or salary will make dating them uncomfortable or don…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:16 AM
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How come for women feminism means men demand women do more ie provide financially but for men, they want to be able to do less? They don’t want to provide, okay. They also still have lower standards of cleanliness and organization than women, so domestic role is out of question. Doctors can’t even rely on fathers for basic medical condition and have moms on speed dial so child rearing out the question. I’m curious - what exactly do men want out of relationships and what role do they want to play…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:07 AM
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Yea I like to pop out every now and then with long ass comments. You must be new. No I’ve found a man before who totally adored me for my accomplishments and career. It was really nice to have someone supportive and who admired me for my hard work. I wish everyone to find the same. My comment was just to answer the prompt. He asked why women get mad when men don’t care about these things and I responded it’s because women were lied to and told all these lonely desperate men are sitting and waiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:30 PM
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Oh I absolutely agree - I’ve found one before who was just fantastic and ADORED me for my accomplishments and supported me through my career. I am so blessed to have met a man like that and I 100% believe more are out there. I simply was responding to the post. He asked why women get mad that men don’t care about aspects of their lives and I just highlighted where the disconnect is. I was told many men are waiting to adore a lot of different things about me and are lonely waiting for women to gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:26 PM
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Idk why you comment like I care about what you have to say. I am not interested in men with your beliefs because you encourage traits I find to be incompatible with a healthy relationship. I am also not interested in men with the mindset of a sociopath or a man with ASPD. I wholeheartedly disagree and don’t want to talk to you any further given the content you write. Happy thanksgiving
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:24 PM
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It is resorting to a lower option otherwise they would find a woman in their own country that isn’t transactional. You’re allowed to do whatever you’d like. By all means, I am happy for you if you leave to find a wife overseas.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:20 PM
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I’m sorry you’re rage baiting yourself so hard on a holiday.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:18 PM
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You must not live in America. The majority of couples are splitting a mortgage. In my last relationship. You don’t need to explain at all. You’re living in a fantasy world. I split bills in my last relationship and I pay my own way. It’s not my fault you chose freeloaders. I’ll tell you what men say all the time: pick better 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:17 PM
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Because men have told us there is this group of wonderful single men who are nothing like evil chad who will use me. Because men have told us this group of men are seeking relationships that go beyond just looks and these men are ecstatic to date a woman for who she is and is wanting a woman to love and cherish. And this group of men will care about their partners, will support them, and are these amazing options who are getting overlooked because they aren’t an 8/10 or higher. And then the firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:11 PM
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I’m not leaving this sub because some man is throwing a tantrum in the comments. I proved my point. Why don’t you take the day to cool off and enjoy the holiday?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:04 PM
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Yes it is unsurprising this group of men will resort to transactional relationships when they clearly are refusing to offer literally anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:03 PM
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Enough with this whining. You’ve proven my point, thank you very much! Goodnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:29 AM
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Oh good lord what a mess of a comment. Dude, ya got called out. I don’t need this whole college essay as some explanation. My point was that there are different standards that most people hold for different kinds of relationships. I think that’s normal and totally fine. I find a comment of where you say that these two things are different - which is all I needed to prove my point. If it was fine to treat them the same, if it was fine to your own highlight do both at the same time, I wouldn’t be …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:28 AM
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Look man, I don’t need your justifications or reasons why you do what you do. Do whatever you want. But I don’t get men acting all surprised that dating is hard. That women are low effort in the beginning and are generally uninterested in the majority of men. Thousands of men each day come on here like you with the same complaint that they hardly even want to have to use words on a date with a woman. It’s discouraging and extremely unattractive. And tbh it’s fine if everyone wants to drop out an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:23 AM
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I dont know how to respond to your complaint that you have to use words and talk to people in dating….as in I don’t understand how this is related to my point. I specifically said that you’re more than welcome to lie, and that means you actively want men to be hated for that. You are admitting you want dating to be harder. Besides that, Yes you have to use words on a date. Yes women expect to be physically attracted to a man they are dating. Yes, you still have to talk to them. What a perfect ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:59 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:50 PM
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Actually you do say yourself that “dating seriously and dating casually are different” I’ve attached a screenshot here. <image> So even you mister “I hate casual sex and therefore and superior than everyone else”, can acknowledge that people hold different standards for different relationships. You even defend that by highlighting their differences. Lmao. And just FYI - virgin women (who you also wrote you think are all lying that they are virgins) are not attracted to men who spend all their ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:49 PM
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And this is why I support women going on foodie dates. If men won’t be honest, I don’t expect women to. Make him pay and dip if he isn’t mature enough to use words to say what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:54 PM
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You are not all for this because you have not done it before and would fail at it. You do not treat each girlfriend better than the last and have a post up demeaning one of your exes. Your statements are all hypocritical and nothing you’ve posted or written show any truth to what you just said to me here. You lied and your post is simply self serving and you are not putting in effort into your relationship. The woman who “treated you like a king” just had a shit ton of trauma. Just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:43 PM
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I read your weird comments about requiring sexual favors. Men like this are easy to break because they never want to do the equivalent. I would never let a man like this near me because it’s coercive and insecure behavior… but in the event this happened, my response to him is below. I will simply do the same thing. Baseline requirement will be a list or spreadsheet itemized by every gift, payment, and date he’s spent money on for every woman he’s ever dated or seen or paid for online (including …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:59 PM
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No. Why is it MY job to convince a bunch of lying coercive sex obsessed men not to try and manipulate me? If men are struggling with their moral compass and it’s so hard not to be a piece of shit, he should call his mother. Maybe a pastor. Men have different standards too. How many times do we hear men dumpster dive for sex but not for relationships? Gatekeepers of relationships and not for sex because THEIR STANDARDS are literally higher for commitment. I’m tired of this stupid bullshit. Everyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 11:34 AM
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Plenty of men value relationships. Just usually not incels because they have a hyper fixation on sex. Plenty of men operate the same and fuck crazy women who are hot and then settle down using more criteria with another woman for a relationship. Any normal and well adjusted man isn’t freaking out because women take more into consideration in a situation that requires more consideration. Incels just need to admit their sex obsession. That we can work with but pointing fingers at people for having…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 11:29 AM
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Well I hate to break it to you - but that’s not really improving.. is it? Not to mention with as many foul hair cuts as I’ve seen - I’m wary of the self improvement line. The manosphere was created to push women away. So no, none of these men actually care about getting attention from women. Because all of the posts would be about how to self improve. I’m surprised you even tried to defend that when it’s clear that the manosphere has made things worse and made women resent or feel repulsed by mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:43 PM
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No it’s good for my body to release stress, which is why I also run and do yoga. I do deserve more positive emotions and men are responsible for all my negative ones. I suggest that you tell men to behave better. Also follow suit and take care of your body like I take care of mine. I’ve been reading your comments and…. 😬 Hope u had a good weekend too!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:19 PM
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I agree. It’s even crazier that they think giving themselves this reputation of being terrible that we would want their validation more… It simply makes me want to work harder for better men. I’d rather compete for a good guy than settle for one of these
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:07 PM
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Probably a good amount. For one, many men talk about not being able to pick up on women’s interest. And two, I think if they spent more time looking for ways to be attractive versus joining the women suck hate train, they’d already be doing better. Men chose the manosphere over becoming more attractive. I don’t even think they care about getting about getting attention if im being real with you. They care about being offended they have the “losing deal in dating”. If these men wanted a woman, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:06 PM
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the manosphere makes me laugh. men: here’s all the ways women suck and why we hate them and will never commit to them bc our dicks crave variety. also lets add shame if a woman gets a career and “acts masculine”, lets tell them we don’t care about their passions or degrees, lets tell them their personalities matter less than their cup size, lets tell them we hate them exercising their sexual freedom too, lets tell them we want them to be more traditional but are unable to provide our end of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:42 PM
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It’s great that you apply this to women as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:25 PM
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Exactly. Which is why i also want an experienced man. I just read from a sexually/romantically unsuccessful man that he would date and fuck robots and aliens if he could. Another man said he wouldn’t care if these were sentient or conscious beings, he just wants someone to do his chores and do exactly what he says. I’d rather have a man with experience who would actually pick me, not just anyone. And I’d want a man who views me the same. Way more special than being desperate or having no experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:24 PM
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I don’t care enough to contest it and it’s a very slow process. It’s just obvi you gave a warning for no reason. Have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:31 PM
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grammar is not personal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:25 PM
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What is men safes the woman???? Why can men complain so much like this but can’t even use proper grammar ?? Someone help! The modern man can’t spell and actually thinks he’s in a place to complain about women in any capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:42 PM
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You are a grown man who can’t use words to appreciate a partner? And you think you’re actually deserving..of a submissive partner?? The modern man can’t do anything right fr. Terrible generation of men for potential partners. Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 07:55 PM
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Soldiers get benefits for submission. They get to feel proud of what they do. People celebrate them and their superiors praise and reward them. Men do not do any of the above at all in any capacity for women who submit to them which is why most women have set submission aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:28 AM
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Hmm several things wrong with this. Men already tried and failed to treat women as sexual commodities and maintain respect and human decency towards them. Men still remain very stuck in their ability to respect women and consistently fail at it societally. We shall see if this changes in the coming years. Men who are bitter about not getting sexual attention up front from women will just become more bitter. I know men who pay for sex from this sub and IRL and they are not better men in fact they…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:18 AM
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That’s the thing like what the hell else do they want me to do??? I go to work, I pay my rent, I cook my food, I clean my apartment. When I was in a relationship, I went to work, I paid my rent, I cooked our food, and I cleaned his apartment. When it got too much, I asked him to help out and he did for the most part. I asked him not to have me have to ask him so much and he slowly got it. It’s just tiring like bro I’m exhausted too. I’m saving up for a house and future too. I’m trying too. I jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:07 AM
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Genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:00 AM
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Yay for 21k steps!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:52 AM
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I am not encouraging people not to drink water they should just also moisturize their skin. I think you just have good genetics. Good on u for drinking water man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:50 AM
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First i dont agree with puritanical values and find them harmful so cannot appreciate that point for men or women. Second that actually didnt prove your point it proved mine. Scenario one, the woman proved she is special and better. Scenario two, the man does the same thing. The only difference is men lead with sex and women don’t. Wanting women to lead with sex simply means you value sex more is all. Which is fine but it’s not something to punish women for, it’s just a difference in how much yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:49 AM
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It’s also genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:41 AM
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I agree. It’s really strange and exhausting to deal with though. I just wish men were normal and we all just looked to date to enjoy company with another person and see where it goes. I feel like most men are so not genuine nowadays and forgot how to have fun. I just want to enjoy my life but men ruin dating a lot in that regard. It’s just not fun anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:41 AM
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It’s just genetics ;) call ur mom and say thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:37 AM
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Men talk like this and claim they put effort into being socially normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:35 AM
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That’s statistically not true lmao. Drying out your skin and not taking care of it isn’t good. You should be thankful to your parents that you just got good genetics and luck. Lmao. You’ve never worked for your skin that’s why you think skincare doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:34 AM
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You don’t moisturize or put on sunscreen? bruh. This is why I don’t believe men saying they put effort into dating and failed. Yall don’t even wear lotion.😭😭 Let me guess deodorant is too harsh and it’s better to smell bad too? Sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:33 AM
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I think you just don’t really pay attention or dismiss women’s experiences then. Which is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:30 AM
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ty!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:44 AM
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I find many things interesting about this. For one, it’s interesting that my criticism of hypersexuality in a relationship context leads you to believe I don’t want sex. That tells me there is a notion among men that people who place higher emphasis on other things about a potential partner are those who exclude sex altogether. Two, it’s odd to flaunt your options to me like that when you have complained that your options are not even attractive to you. It’s weird to flaunt that when it is quite…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:44 AM
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I think this brings up a very interesting point then. If men date women that they find unattractive relationship-wise for sex, and they have more requirements/factors considered for compatibility/expectations of the women they take seriously…. Why are women then punished for “riding the cc” when they are young and then requiring more stability/etc of a long term partner? Because it’s one thing to be a man and wanting to ensure sexual attraction exists in both your serious and casual relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:15 AM
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Seriously like time flies 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:24 PM
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I know 6 years feels crazy to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:23 PM
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yea so hyper sexual is not a positive. A big dick is not a positive. This is incel sex obsessed chronically online behavior that actually pushes away normal women who don’t have severe mental illness. Tbh you sound exhausting. Not to mention you’ve been disrespectful and sleeping with women you don’t even like and everyone can clearly see the negative impact it’s had on you. I feel sorry for you in that you have pedestalized sex so much you haven’t been able to connect or love deeply. I feel thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:22 PM
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what exactly are men going thru that warrants this to be considered an extremely minor inconvenience. Elaborate, this is an odd response.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:51 AM
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What are these positives
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:48 AM
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aww it’s my cake day im old 🍰
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:47 AM
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It’s hard to understand because this isn’t reality. This is what the manosphere tells women so that they think they are aiming too high and should do with an ugly NEET man with a bad attitude. Most of unsuccessful dudes wouldn’t even be pleasant and fun for a woman to date! Show me one man who would be a slave for me. In fact, just try and show me ONE not taken, single man in his 20s who you confidently think could show me a good time on a date from this sub. I would take you up on it and litera…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 08:08 PM
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Because you never make this an issue to men. You save up your negativity and unleash on women SOLELY. It’s not surprising that women do not have a good reaction to you blaming them for ruining men’s lives because they do not want sex with them. It’s extremely uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:29 PM
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And what are these important logical details?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 11:01 PM
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How terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:24 PM
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It does when they are allowed to use your “findings” to excuse and absolve the behavior. In what ways would you address sexual repression to stop and prevent sex crimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:21 PM
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I don’t blame you it’s scary out there…I wouldn’t feel comfortable being around half the men on the main thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 05:25 PM
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Why did I just read from yet another mentally ill user that men commit sex crimes because they are sexually repressed? Why do you guys let men say these things if you feel that men do not get enough empathy and men are demonized for their sexuality? …and he mentioned that it’s wrong and demonizing for a dad to protect his daughter from a pervert because he just wants romance? Why let so many creeps say these things and represent you? Why do you guys never stand up to sexual predators on this sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 05:13 PM
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Yes. I am a recruiter for a living. I do think the average person is able and most of the time, successful at being able to come across charming and confident. Maybe not to the highest degree, sure, but yes most people are able to come across favorably to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:05 AM
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This is actually 86/57 lmao. Almost 60% of men are sleeping with the majority of women over 2 years within the limitations of the amount of people in the study. Half of the 40% of men are probably fuckable if they self improved aka hit the gym, groomed facial hair, funny/sociable/flirty. The other half are probably jaded, extremely anti social, severely autistic and off putting, don’t go outside, fat, and overall have nothing to offer. I’d also reckon a huge portion live at home too. It’s not th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:04 AM
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Thats totally fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:11 PM
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yes these are skills. No one is telling you how to behave. Confidence is something you can build with time and intention and choice. So is being charming. Confident is not a personality trait. An introverted, antisocial person who is generally shy can build skills in confidence to make a good first impression. It’s unacceptable for grown men not to know this and those that do not should expect dating to be hard and be content with their choice. If they are not, I expect that they are developing …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:10 PM
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It’s baffling. I have been doing public speaking projects since middle school! It’s as if these men have not paid attention to any social interaction or any social skills their entire lives. Not even paying attention in school! They spend all this time here in these dating and gender spaces and somehow don’t know they need to know how to talk to someone. They need to know how to relay information. They need to know how to relate to people, how to charm people and make a good first impression. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:04 PM
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These are skills you are supposed to be gaining over time. You should be practicing generally in school, in social settings with friends, on presentations, job interviews, parties. Unless you are telling me you have spent your entire life refusing to engage in any of what I listed above, yes, these are basic social skills. There are a significant amount of opportunities to practice these things. It takes intention to miss out and be unable to make a good first impression most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:54 PM
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She could find someone easier than you could. She has the choice, you don’t. The bitter replies aren’t helping you or any man to be frank.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:25 PM
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Yes select an autistic woman who doesn’t select for basic social skills and wants to talk to a boring wall all day. Seriously. The rest of people in general want to date attractive, pleasant, and fun people. For average men who are not autistic which is a valid social disorder, there shouldn’t be complaints that this is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:24 PM
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Sorry but this is exceptionally autistic. Social skills are ..skills. Autistic men who refuse to make themselves likeable should date other autistic women who want a man who is not socially competent. They should not complain about a lack of options in dating if they refuse to do the most basic of work in being likeable to people. In any other part of life, people understand having to put effort. But both men and women refuse nowadays to put effort in dating. Perhaps Gen z is more severely autis…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:22 PM
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Maybe 30% ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:45 AM
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So the average guy I give a chance to even though he has no options and should be desperate for me…is now somehow looking at me thinking “she’ll do?”. All you guys do is give me more and more reasons to encourage women to improve themselves and chad chase. 💀 Why do average men want women to hate them? At least learn to lie but if ur not going to, why would you publicly post and upvote something so extremely unattractive? No, women do not want to hear from their fucking partners that they “will d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:20 AM
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What? I’m confused. My privilege is how I know these women are in a worse position. Lmao. That’s how I know they’re not being saved. I don’t have to do the sex work they have to in order to survive. Especially with the most undesirable, transactional, woman-hating men from the west…this post has to satire or a joke. There’s no way any man with a brain would ever believe this. Also, being forced into sex work to survive has catastrophic negative effects. Consistent unwanted sex with an unattracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:57 PM
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Then you have to become hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:28 PM
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Get a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:17 PM
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Okay but then those people refusing to go out and socialize cannot complain they are lonely. It is a choice to not work on your social skills, it is a choice to refuse to meet people. I understand the fear and the anxiety and all the negative thoughts you could possibly feel. But at some point you have to start living your life or acknowledge that you are content with being alone and stop being bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:12 PM
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This is just black pilled doomerism. Yes there are mean bitches at bars and in public sometimes. Men have made fun of my acne for approaching me or told me I was the ugly one in the group and to literally “go get my friend”. You have to get used to knowing there are bad people in the world and that you can’t let them stop you from living your life. Seriously if a woman calls you a creep, just walk away. I don’t think every man is evil simply because men have been evil to me before. And you are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:10 PM
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What is confusing or hard about going to the bars? You literally are served alcohol to make socializing easier. What’s the problem and why are you asking “wdym?”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:54 PM
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Bisexual women tend to have less attractive unconventional boyfriends imo. I feel like even I will have higher standards for men as a straight woman sometimes. Bisexual women seem less picky in terms of looks imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:13 PM
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Oh come on - can’t handle a little sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 09:13 PM
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Idk what this disorder is. Pls seek therapy 🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 05:39 AM
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no anime😫
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 10:10 PM
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This level of dedication you had to making me the bad guy over a hypothetical preferential question is actually insane. You do realize IRL I have a lot of options and I don’t have to go for performative men? And the link shows the life spans of animals in zoos not that any specific performative action by human males is shortening their life span.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:34 PM
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I’m already in ur stupid bmi range it’s ur turn to hit the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:47 AM
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I can do that!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:45 AM
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keep it - next!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:45 AM
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Awww that’s cute - I will try my best 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:32 AM
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hey heyyyy - got an answer for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:28 AM
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I weighed my options between two types of men and came out deciding the performative man. It’s not my fault you didn’t like the premise and didn’t want me to respond. No, I am not interested in dating hateful incels and no, that’s not a good reason to lash out at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:27 AM
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What can I do as an average woman in the dating world to make dating better for men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:19 AM
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It’s not a good look that you used yourself and your father as evidence against this while portraying exactly the traits she is explaining to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 08:31 PM
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True it’s strange though and won’t bring about the desired result
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:46 PM
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That doesn’t mean they are toxic?? Get a grip
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:43 PM
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Yes that’s insane, truly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:42 PM
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Male dating strategy. It would be smarter if men would shut up but as we all know men suffering in silence is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:46 AM
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Huh? Then you sir have never been in a relationship. What an odd thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:45 AM
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I’m asking you why you don’t like those decisions. The more people date the more I think they learn and become less stupid. To me inexperienced teenagers getting pregnant and committing to the first person they see and feeling shame for having sex is the worst possible outcome and contributes to terrible parenting, terrible home lives, abuse, neglect bc teens don’t want to be together. People think it’s so degenerate to sleep around but have yall see teen moms and dads? I’d rather people post po…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:44 AM
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Yes tbh it’s just strange and evil. Stop fantasizing about raping women and ruining the country. And don’t act like you’re a good person turned bad for having those fantasies - you’re just an evil cunt (general). If men were just more honest at least we can do something about it but they keep playing both the good and bad guy. It gets old. I see why women are opting out of dating even I’ve slowed down but I can’t figure out why men want to ruin their entire social worlds. They’re asking for wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:41 AM
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Tbh we’re doing okay
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:39 AM
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My body count would be 100000+ if men were all good romantic kind and honest. They purposefully choose to ruin things for themselves but luckily they’ve created a system to push things in their favor. It would be really smart of them to give up the manosphere stuff so that women think more positively of them and are less bitter/wary/scared/angry but that is their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:38 AM
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Men are predictable they also just put everything in their favor
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:36 AM
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are you joking
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:18 AM
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Well no, women are learning and that’s why men are mad. Female dating strategy is cool but men set up an entire system based on benefitting themselves. It’s insane to see play out tbh. I mean shit talk about life on easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:04 AM
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No it’s what I say when I see word vomit. Yes you could but men around here aren’t known for being…academic. I can totally see big picture I just also value individuality and the fact that generalizing too much causes harm - you don’t see it because it would benefit you most as a man. it’s not you who would have to change in any significant way. I think that if you pay attention to family dynamics and care about children, keeping them with parents who hate each other or should be apart would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 05:53 AM
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I think falling is a bit dramatic tbh lowkey first world issues sometimes esp in terms of like dating but is crazy for men to threaten acting psycho and hateful over women choosing who they want to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 05:46 AM
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male dating strategy is actually insane 💀it’s so strategic that I wish I thought of it first. maybe these are just high thoughts but it’s actually baffling when you see true male nature and dating strategy and just how simple but impactful it is. lowkey foul as fuck but that’s how the game goes. you have to find your way to get ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 05:44 AM
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Yeah hundreds of years ago and they also terrorized and killed people. The point isn’t to go back the point is to grow. Well actually I don’t need to take responsibility for other people’s actions. It’s their life. Not mine. I need to take responsibility for my own actions and that has made my life better, not running around telling people to change who have entirely different experiences than me. You have to explain yourself because this is just a bunch of word vomit. What do we need to control…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:58 PM
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Why is it not appropriate with freedom to then be free to make the decision to have casual sex? And why do you not associate with promiscuous people?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:47 PM
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Sure. My ex is not misogynistic and we are on good terms. We still talk and sometimes hang out. I’m chill on dating unless I meet someone I really like. Yes there are weird women out there who have severe issues. They’ll have to make a decision to continue to accept that treatment and chase those dudes or not. I don’t surround myself with women like that so that’s foreign to me. But that’s a bad look for them. They’re probably low quality tho 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:46 PM
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I’m far from a traditional woman. A misogynistic man would hate me as I would him. I have found that men who are not misogynistic are very attractive and we have far better interactions and relationships than I would have with misogynists. Men are very pleasant when they don’t hate me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:17 PM
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Why do they have to do what you want them to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:15 PM
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Why would women’s liberation ruin civilization? What is going on with men lately? Such strange harmful ideas. I wish men were prosocial and put even a little bit of emphasis on self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:12 PM
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Yet the majority of misogynists here are undesirable and the misogyny did not improve their case…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:11 PM
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I disagree. I think we tried controlling everyone and forcing women to live their lives a certain way and it caused irreparable serious extensive harm and damage to people, especially women. Hence why they moved towards more freedom. I think the issue is that with more freedom comes more personal responsibility to understand the world and pursue what you want. There are plenty of people who keep their word, who are kind and respectable and respectFUL, who value loyalty, etc etc. But it is YOUR c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:07 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:00 PM
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No I’ve had sex a lot and so have other women. Desire and arousal go hand in hand for most. I’m sorry you have experienced that women did not desire you or did not appear aroused when you had sex with them. That’s probably feeding into this strange idea of rape being pleasurable and a positive experience. No it actually causes shame, disgust and even suicidal thoughts in victims. It is terribly tormenting for them and you should not further that psychological torture by claiming they were experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:59 PM
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This is a rapist’s take. Where is your evidence that orgasms from rape are more common than orgasm through consent? That is not true. An involuntary response of orgasm does not equal pleasure or pleasant arousal. It’s just a response. Orgasms from consensual encounters include pleasure which you’ve made clear is unimportant to you when women orgasm. Another rapist take. You’ve erased and ignored women having hook ups and relationships where they orgasm. That’s why your numbers are skewed. You ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:14 AM
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Okay so you don’t claim either side but you must lean towards the incel side if you have a bunch of ugly trp beliefs…. See to me, I’d rather a performative male and avoid those ugly beliefs. Men are upset here that that’s my choice but if I’m going to choose better - I don’t see the upside of incel men esp ppd men. No one has told me a reason either why the incel type would be better than a performative type…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:58 AM
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Who is losing their mind lmao The premise was weighing my options based on two types of men. My answer was I’d rather a performative man than an incel especially the incel types here that I know too well lmao. I’m confused why my answer upset you. Do you think I’d have better luck choosing incel men over performative men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:55 AM
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no i wouldn’t date a guy I wouldn’t hook up with. I want sex in my relationship lmao a lot of it. I just also want my partner to like be in love with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:05 AM
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I didn’t say all that but most men here are certainly toxic and angry which is uncomfortable for me, obviously. I’d rather a guy playing into something he thinks I like than a guy who believes I deserve nothing and am a gold digging slut not worth effort or investment. 😭incels are mean dude
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:48 AM
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because I don’t want someone performative or an incel woman hater type. I want someone who I genuinely click with. But if I had to choose I’d pick a performative male over someone who literally hates me. Not to mention I’m a promiscuous woman 💀 I feel like this is obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:46 AM
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In what regard? Usually college educated dudes who are not terrible looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:54 AM
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so what should women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:54 AM
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Okay but what structure? What exactly do you think should be put in place to control the “chaos?”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:51 AM
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What exactly do you want me to give the benefit of the doubt?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:47 AM
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Then you should tell men to stop pushing this idea and threatening men and go back to the original redpill idea of teaching men to self improve. The problem is that men don’t want to improve and women don’t want to have to fuck and date for years on end men they don’t find attractive. I’m too tired to show incrls what to do. I’d rather just pick a man who is decent and kind and cute and go from there. If some random internet dude wants to shove sex robots in my face, cool. I’ll just block him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:43 AM
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I don’t need a work horse though. I have a job like most women I know. I’m truly okay just paying for myself. It’s healthy to be independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:40 AM
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I agree. I’m sure they do want someone to miss them. The problem is you have to invest in others for them to care about you a majority of the time. Incels have made it extremely hard to care about them. Men yelling at me all day that I am a useless gold digging whore doesn’t make me feel sympathy or that I would miss out if they left the dating pool. In fact I feel safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:37 AM
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Okay what are we supposed to do then? Let’s say I’m a woman and now I’m concerned that mean incels who hate me now want to fuck robots. What do I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:35 AM
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I’m being sarcastic. If the only women he pays attention to are literal models who can profit off of existing, it makes sense he may struggle to date or view the dating world as completely one sided. I don’t think people should date those they are not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:33 AM
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It’s just the truth🤷🏽‍♀️I like dating and having sex with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:32 AM
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What argument do you have that we should want the opposite and go for misogynistic incels who want us to suffer and be mistreated? If I dated a dude from here, he’d probably physically harm me. At least a performative male is like…safe.🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:29 AM
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The age makes the correlation to you. The age changes the perception of qualities to you. The age matters to you. Which is okay. But if you want to die on the hill that you have no bias, please by all means do so. I get it, it can be hard for men to admit. But it’s not a bad thing to be honest. It helps women to make more informed decisions about men and see them for who they are. It’s a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:09 AM
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Could you please show me some? I would like one for myself very badly. I am very attracted to those men and want to have relationships and sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:06 AM
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Oh, most men don’t die at 20 years old. Just thought you should know. No I quoted you accurately. But I am sorry it upset you to the point of pretending that you didn’t say what you did… Yes I am free to do that. It’s very nice. You should meet more young men who are good guys and attractive. They are very pleasant to be around. A good young attractive man is alluring. I like them a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:05 AM
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Hm perhaps that is true. It’s just that I heard from incels that they are not satisfied with being thrown porn as a replacement for women and would like to date and have sex. But if that is enough for them, maybe that is good. We should tell men that they should be happy with being alone with media content forever and dismiss their desire for relationships and sex? For me, I personally would like to date and have sex IRL with more men and wish there were more viable options close to me. There ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:03 AM
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I’m not sarcastic I am sorry I didn’t include that because I am aware men don’t get the nuance and speaking in general. So that’s on me. Yeah I forgot I just assumed you guys would get it because that’s how you speak about women without ever questioning a man who generalizes. I forgot that men are incapable of understanding that in a comment from a woman. True. I like younger men and find them more attractive (esp physically too) and more suitable for relationships. I do have that bias and was h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:00 AM
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What benefit do instagram likes give? Idek who liked my instagram posts. What benefits me is my job at a law firm that pays my bills and allows me to afford all the shit I want. While we’re on that topic, another thing that would benefit me is if men started working on their social skills and emotional intelligence and honesty about their intentions and humor and hairstyles and bodies and careers. I would benefit from having more viable dating options. I would like to date more but am discourage…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:57 AM
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The age does matter. You just said that. The age dictates the likelihood of the traits you value. So age matters actually….like a significant amount to you. It’s okay to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:53 AM
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So now men can only treat women well for 20 years? Well in that case, women are right to do what men fear and trade them out every so often for a better version. No? I just pointed out the fact that you’re an older man speaking for older men and claiming that if you and your wife split you would pursue young women for casual relationships and not more. I used your own words and then you tried to back track. I think it’s best to just be honest. Women can make their own decisions from there. My de…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:50 AM
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I’m not too sure about that… Well are men not getting any attention from women and that’s why they want the sex robot or are they getting lots of attention from women and they are superficial connections? Aka foodie dates. I’m confused now. I thought men were lonely and wanting to date. Now they are all being used for foodie dates or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:47 AM
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oh I’m sorry I didn’t include the obligatory “not all men” line that allows men to have critical thinking. My apologies, sincerely. I do not think it is all older men. Just a lot of them. Enough to be a notable trend to pay attention to. Huh? Well I think that makes sense. Older men are only offering money and not long term relationships like women want. Therefore, I said take the money? The point is not to be serious with him and meet him where he’s at. In fact all men should be treated like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:45 AM
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“Why plan for the long term if I’m already 3/4 of the way?”. Shit if you can find young women that dumb by all means, don’t let me stop you. Just don’t stop me from stating the obvious that significantly older men are poor partners. Especially for younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:40 AM
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No, you just said that qualities are more attractive in women in their 20s (an…age) and less in their 30s (another…age). Is that then not caring about age? If you didn’t care, I would assume you would find whatever attractive qualities you are talking about in…all legal ages?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:29 AM
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Wait what? You said it was a weird take. I explained to you how it is not weird but completely accurate because he said word for word he wouldn’t be interested in long term. I’m confused why you are upset at me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:27 AM
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But in general, women are not on OF. I’m very concerned about your online habits and this lack of exposure to the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:26 AM
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your comments are really creepy. I wouldn’t say that is good loving or caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:25 AM
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Well yeah it’s my life ofc it’s up to me. I don’t really have any qualms about dating besides running into weird men. I’m fairly simple. I keep it casual with men until I find one I want to date who wants to date me. But I do think it is interesting and good for women to know how little men value relationships so that they vet harder in more strategic ways to find men who do. I think that’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:23 AM
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Well I mean he said it right there. He won’t care about compatibility or building a life, he will just want them young….he literally said “why plan long term with someone?”. You men ask women to choose better and you yourself can’t even identify a man who’s not suitable for a relationship after he says to your face “I won’t go for a long term relationship with someone”…. I don’t even know what to say to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:19 AM
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This is an example of caring about age….sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:15 AM
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He has no idea what he’s talking about. Men are bizarre, idk why they don’t just act normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:15 AM
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The majority of women you know are on OF?? Most women don’t profit off of their looks online like that. I think this actually raises a real concern in men and why they are turning to the manosphere if they pay so little attention to average women that they think most of us are sex content creators…. Please lower your standards!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:14 AM
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It’s just an analogy. It simply means that undesirable men are…undesirable. Them leaving wouldn’t affect the dating pool because technically they already failed to be a part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:52 AM
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Hmm I do find it hard to believe that the most undesirable men are the men advocating for ai, robot, and paid sex…and are also the men who are claiming that women will miss them when they are removed from the dating pool. It doesn’t make much sense. It’s like a sports player with no fans in the bleachers claiming that there will be an uproar if they are benched. But…there’s no one there to even notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:34 AM
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Wow - what a fantastic thing to read because it confirms what I’ve noticed. The older a man gets, especially after a divorce, he is less suitable for a relationship. He becomes obsessed with reliving his youth, he is no longer looking for long term qualities, and he becomes significantly more superficial. You’re absolutely right - if he’s built something entirely with someone else and now loses interest in long term compatibility, women should remove them from the long term dating pool. Meaning …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:29 AM
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I was a sugar baby which imo is basically sex work. That’s why I don’t like those men. Usually bad people and poor moral compass/don’t respect women. I can judge I know them personally. Men who do not see sex workers are better overall, it’s not even a competition. If a guy sees a sex worker and wants to date you, he will probs mistreat you tbh and most seem to end up cheaters too. I wouldn’t encourage women to get into sex worker but if they want to, it’s okay, whatever. I’m glad if seeing sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:56 PM
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Yes they do 🤣 These men have an uncontrollable and insidious anger they cannot rid themselves of. It’s really sad. I’ve seen dudes on here that I personally would probably have sex with if they just chilled tf out. But once they join places like this and engage, they go down a rabbit hole and then become distanced from normal behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 08:21 PM
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A man who is busy or lives at home is not a creep. A man who implies women should have unwanted sex as a form of “helping out” because men out there want sex is a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:33 PM
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Wait that was disgusting. Why is it on me to “help men out” and have disgusting unwanted sex with them? You fuck them and suck their dicks. You help them out. Sexless men are creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:03 PM
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I don’t give a fuck. Can they chill for 5 minutes? Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 03:58 PM
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Well the thing is, liberal men who are fairly sex positive don’t view me as an object that is used by other men. They don’t sit around claiming I had all my fun years with someone else, they just have fun with me in the moment. I think sometimes you men forget yourselves that men are not a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:16 PM
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I think them hearing confirmation of things they don’t like makes them even more upset. Calling me a disingenuous female as some sort of insult is odd. Just stick to the topic. This sub is proof that no matter what women say, incels/rp/bp unfortunately are not at the emotional level where they will just accept something because a woman “confirmed” it. They are angry lonely and sad and take every opportunity to lash out at women because they are hurt deeply.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:55 PM
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I’m a promiscuous woman and so virgin men aren’t compatible with me 99% of the time. The more inexperienced a man is, the more I have seen judgmental behavior and incompatibility. I would be willing to work it out with an inexperienced dude if he isn’t hung up on sex fomo, body count, or judging obviously women like me. I do find that very few inexperienced men exist who are not judgmental about women’s sex lives and therefore will probably never date a dude like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:53 PM
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lol guys like that women should just say okay and then ask him to pay up front the same amount he has spent on every woman before her. He’ll shut up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:45 PM
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Ew what a loser. And totally not in any capacity a dead bedroom. She should dump him and find a normal guy who isn’t trying to hump every 5 seconds or every time he touches her. They exist and are so much better as boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:42 PM
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Going to the least strict parents’ home. Though I am glad I will never have to deal with this because I just got a job after college and got a place with my best friend. I just couldn’t imagine living at home, and my parents wouldn’t allow it except for special circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:35 PM
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Going to the least strict parents’ home. Though I am glad I will never have to deal with this because I just got a job after college and got a place with my best friend. I just couldn’t imagine living at home, and my parents wouldn’t allow it except for special circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:35 PM
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you’re right perhaps if men don’t want the help there really is no reason for women to waste time trying to offer insight or light at the end of the tunnel. I agree. Men do ask, a lot. It’s hard to answer a question where the desired answer is “I’ll fuck you!” And your answer differs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:39 AM
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No, all women. Incels have never cared if you say “it is easy for me as a woman to get sex”. They do not care and they hate you more for saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 08:54 PM
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You tell me right way. What do you imagine is a good way for an angry incel who hates women to live life? Let’s say he has seen comments of women acknowledging they attract men easier than vice versa and he is still not getting laid and undesirable. What should he do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 08:54 PM
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Yes actually. I think it would be counterintuitive and mean to tel someone to extensively focus on what has harmed them. I think it is helpful to remind them of other joys in life so they don’t stay bitter and angry and resentful, missing out on the things they could be experiencing. I’m unsure why that offends you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:24 PM
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I am in favor of letting unsuccessful men suffer in silence so they do not take their anger out on people. But a lot of people are going to give advice even if it isn’t well received online.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:23 PM
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I feel like you’re not listening to me. It’s okay for men to be upset about not getting sex whenever, I just also think it’s valid to shift your focus when you can’t get what you want. It baffles me that that is insulting to men like you. I never expected men to care about my issues. They caused a lot of them and hurt me extensively before. If anything, I’ve learned to expect the opposite from men. A man who cares about women and their experiences is a rarity who should be cherished.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:21 PM
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They have no reason to lash out at you. They lash out at women instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:19 PM
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That’s not a better way though. The women who accept and acknowledge their “better experience” are then shit on. The goal post moves. It’s something men just say to misplace anger they have. If women acted perfectly how men wanted, men would have an issue. Where men had total control over women, they treated them even worse even though they were controlling their entire lives. What reduces misogyny is when men shift their focus to prosocial and healthy behaviors. Shaming women for not constantly…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:34 AM
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But they’re only telling them that because they can’t get sex. Women are not in the same situation therefore can’t practice what they preach. They are simply saying if you can’t get sex, it makes sense to shift your focus. You are welcome not to though and hate women and hate dating and hate sex and spend the rest of your celibate time in misery. But I think it makes sense that some people would imagine in that situation, it would be more fulfilling and positive to shift your focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:03 AM
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I value friendships a lot. I am not friends with many women who are super closed off like that. Working in social services too, there’s a lot of people who would be better off having closer friends they can talk to as well. For me, my friends and I don’t need to gossip about like comparing dick sizes, it’s not entertaining and feels mean. But overall I’ve found and seen productivity in having healthy conversations about sexual health and birth control, pain/discomfort/pleasure, and overall the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:18 AM
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No idea But I just feel like the consequences of crying versus lashing out in anger is much less in severity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 03:37 AM
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You definitely hold the views on race from the 1960s and picked a very fitting man! <3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 03:10 AM
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Crying is a much better reaction to negativity than anger imo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 03:07 AM
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I think that’s interesting. I think men who struggle just hate these women because they are jealous and make up the fact that there are zero men who just don’t really care or are high n themselves and aren’t hypocritical, etc etc. I feel like the most misogynistic men who care the most about women’s sex lives (even if they are easy desperate whores as men lol and would take any woman) are the men who no one sleeps with. It seems like many normal men aren’t frothing at the mouth because a woman h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:03 PM
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No its just misogyny. Men aren’t mad that it’s easy for women and some women partake, they just are mad it’s not easy for them. It’s like a poor person coming up with every excuse that a successful person is bad. “They must’ve had everything handed to them!”. No, you’re just poor and upset about it. Which is valid. Be upset that it’s not easy for you, that you as a man will never be desired in the same way. Just stop making it everyone else’s problem🤷🏽‍♀️ because there’s no reason to care, even …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:58 PM
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It’s called misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:57 PM
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That doesn’t mean he needs to devalue that effort?? But hey you said it not me. Since im not misandrist, I think men are capable of having loving relationships without thinking that they hate putting effort into their partner.🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:36 AM
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Its not about being victimized it’s about choosing a good partner who loves you. I wouldn’t even entertain a juvenile “marry v hookup” convo because I wouldn’t date someone I wouldn’t hook up with, which my past relationship proves as we hooked up immediately. But I also don’t want a man who thinks it’s insulting/less valuable/irritating/more UNWANTED work/less pride/burdensome/worse position to date me versus hook up with me. I think that’s valid and I think you demonizing me for that means you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:09 PM
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Yes I can understand being offended that they wouldn’t even hook up bc what does that mean. But it’s still a dealbreaker for me for a guy to get offended at the idea of dating/marrying me. We can literally just hook up. Please do not convince me you love me when you are more concerned with being a hot hookup and nothing else. I’m not even against hook ups 😭just dont lie to me and be honest about your intention. It’s my biggest fear to be in a relationship with a guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:30 PM
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Maybe if he was like sad and asked why he can’t also be hook up material. But anger at me for wanting to date and marry him is not okay. I would dump. There’s so many men in the world imo that could love me and never be insulted at the idea of being my partner ,.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:05 PM
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If he’s that upset it’s both. I understand wanting to also be called hook up material I guess but if a man got insulted by being called relationship or marriage material, he will never call me his partner again. I can’t ever imagine being with a guy who is not just openly but publicly upset at “having to be with me”. I have feelings too... and I’d rather a guy be happy at the idea of being my partner and husband. There’s seriously no need for any guy to commit to me if he hates the idea of marry…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:04 PM
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I don’t want a guy who thinks that loving me is being a mistreated intern who has to work for free. I just want to have a partner who’s not humiliated to be in a relationship with me💀. Like ayo, dude we can just hook up then, that’s fine. Please don’t waste my time resenting me because you never wanted to commit to me and hate me that much. I’d rather just be alone!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:48 PM
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These always make me 😨 damn near sick. I cannot imagine a man being upset I called him relationship or marriage material. That’s humiliating and means he hates your fucking guts. Like if someone is insulted to be and be called your partner, if someone is embarrassed of committing to you, they hate you! I would dump a man who even remotely acted upset by this. No way am I embarrassing myself dating a dude who hates me so much and hates the idea of being wanted by me for commitment. Humiliating. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:40 PM
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I’m shocked. I thought this would be easy for men to answer considering how much they complain and talk about how good they are of partners/people vs chad….?? Men of this server who are redpilled confuse me. Are you the good men overlooked because of physical attraction or are you just like Chad but with no options? What pill would a good man be anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:12 AM
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blue pill is what people in healthy successful relationships follow. it's as simple as that. if you showed me good men in black/red/purple/etc pills, i would change my answer. i just haven't seen that really in pills other than blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:46 AM
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finally one guy who’s not outright lying 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:30 AM
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didn’t he also say he believes in the great replacement theory 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:03 PM
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Ahh you’re just being rebellious. It’s funny most ppd dudes aren’t making any revelations ever they just had a bad experience and spiral off of that. Look, your family choosing poorly and not having the skills for a healthy marriage is unfortunate and disappointing. Many people in my family including my parents have been t together 20+ years. Marriage is hard. You shouldn’t expect it to be a walk in the park just because the wedding was fun. My prom was fun too but guess what? I still had school…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:31 PM
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Why doesn’t he just speak up tho and say “I don’t want to get married. You will switch up afterwards and we will get divorced and have a dead bedroom. I do not want to get married to you and want you to be a forever girlfriend and stay at that level for the rest of our lives”. Like I don’t understand why men do it for women. Just stop lying for once “to get the girl” and just be an honest and genuine adult. If she’s not down, you can find your forever girlfriend in someone else. Is that not fair…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:15 PM
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Yea now ur just like them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:36 PM
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So you don’t know. Why are you speaking?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:41 PM
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Oh my god seriously. Ik ur a troll but this is how i feel. They all believe they are very attractive and should have above average women it’s 💀💀 too much
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:30 PM
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Ew oh my god.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:26 PM
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Are you new? Personal insults will get you banned here. Take the woman hating incel talk elsewhere. You’re not cool, you’re not edgy. You’re upset and lashing out because you’re alone. And that’s not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:28 PM
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Why r u sharing this with us and why do u feel bad for her husband? men will cry about wanting attractive women and then also act like it’s a bad thing we are found attractive. do you want to hit on her too but can’t bc ur stuck with ur gf you dislike?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:13 PM
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You have confirmation bias and are unable to see things objectively. This woman isn’t dating some thug or explaining why these dudes are “misunderstood”. She just explained the very true reality that you can go to jail or prison even if you didn’t run a gang or smuggle drugs or kill someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:30 PM
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I would suggest it naturally but don’t worry we’re just getting ice cream for now 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:25 AM
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well define poor..im doing okay imo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:25 AM
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oh it hasn’t been ages 🙄 good to know 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:24 AM
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im going out for ice cream with a guy soon😋 anyways do rich men like it when women are low maintenance or do they not care? If i know a guy has money, should i ask for a nicer date or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:13 AM
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Yes but why compare urself to Chad? Chill with the chronically online behavior and just look for women who treat you well. Be reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:12 AM
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Bro just find a woman who likes you idk why yall trippin so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:11 AM
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You’re no fun
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:10 AM
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It’s not for me personally!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:56 PM
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I would feel that if im unhappy with Arby’s and car sex, i am a woman and therefore have dozens of options who would happily treat me better! To me comparison doesn’t really do me any good. I either should accept the treatment a guy is offering or pick someone else🤷🏽‍♀️it doesn’t matter how girl number 1 got treated because she’s not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:51 PM
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I got the point I just don’t know why anyone would self inflict Arby’s and car sex on themselves 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:49 PM
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What do you mean? It seems more like men are expecting treatment from women because they have predetermined looksmatches for themselves. I think men should just enter in relationships where they like how they are treated. The jealousy of Chad is a waste of time. I mean imagine if I wrote a rant as an average woman of how I demand my looksmatch treats me like a sugar baby stacy and pays my rent, my car payment, and buys me Chanel every birthday. Like I just sound jealous and bitter. I might as we…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:32 PM
0

really? That sounds dramatic to me. Feeling motivated to date more to find a partner you like and can live with seems reasonable. I don’t think the relationship rate is sky rocketing in NY because everyone is grabbing a person off the street to split rent with. Most people just get roommates!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:29 PM
4

Yes haha I don’t know any woman actually who likes Arby’s either LMAO. I think women should enter in relationships where they like how they are treated and if they don’t, they should leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:28 PM
3

It sounds like you spent too much on the first woman and regretted it and got bitter? You shouldn’t spend outside your means hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:27 PM
-2

I just feel like there’s no real difference between treatment from Chad and average dudes..therefore I just don’t have the incentive to treat either of them super well. The way I operate is I find a guy irl or on the apps and we go out and if it goes well usually I don’t mind having sex, as in I don’t withhold sex or anything. It just depends how good the chemistry is. But im more inclined to hot guys because it will be the same experience with average guys. I don’t really see how that’s wrong. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:25 PM
1

Why would you have sex in the parking lot? And why Arby’s? I mean I get feeling burned and wanting revenge on women for whatever happened with your ex But even just for yourself those are low standards lmao. Idek anyone who likes Arby’s and prefers car sex. That’s not low effort that’s just a low quality life🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:21 PM
9

I don’t think this means people settle. I think it’s just a clear and significant benefit of seeking and obtaining a partner. I don’t think when people are dating in NYC that they choose a random based on whether they can pay the rent. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:15 PM
1

What
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:35 PM
13

So doing their hobbies, compromising so unattractive men get attention, hearing a story, and being open to him touching me is supposed to make me more attracted to him? That sounds horrible and one sided towards him only.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:27 PM
8

Which is what
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:48 PM
4

Incel became more of a mindset/attitude/online perception vs the actual definition, because incels did a poor job of differentiating themselves from misogynists. Many view misogynistic rhetoric as normal or just venting, even if they are threatening rape or promoting AWA(insert any negative characteristic). Many people know incels that were famous for crimes too like Elliot Rogers and associate most of them with men like him. And we can’t sit and act like murderers and violence from incels would…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:56 PM
1

Incel became more of a mindset/attitude/online perception vs the actual definition, because incels did a poor job of differentiating themselves from misogynists. Many view misogynistic rhetoric as normal or just venting, even if they are threatening rape or promoting AWA(insert any negative characteristic). Many people know incels that were famous for crimes too like Elliot Rogers and associate most of them with men like him. And we can’t sit and act like murderers and violence from incels would…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:56 PM
8

Someone said something similar to me! They were like why aren’t you grateful for rape?? It’s not that bad and many men wish they could be raped too. At least you got sexual attention. Like if you think incel and pill spaces are not misogynistic it just means you see hatred of women/rape/misogyny as normal or a positive….
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:51 PM
1

Talk to your girlfriend Zair
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:35 AM
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If he wanted to, he would. Your gf has a man who intentionally chooses not to. Maybe she needs someone who would. and..I forgot. When are you guys getting engaged again?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:40 PM
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You could use the time you spend complaining about her and your relationship on ppd to write the letter! Sounds like a good idea to me, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:34 PM
1

Bro im dead is that whatsapp? You just called me a rude bitch?? I’m actually cackling rn 🤣🤣you cannot be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 09:09 PM
1

I’m not a rude bitch lmao, im repeating to you what you said yourself. No one was there for you so you go around posting that men shouldn’t be there for their own partners. It simply seems like projection based on your own experiences choosing people who didn’t have your back. You can’t say that as if you didn’t just cuss at me? I’m totally fine. I’ve been lucky to find people who put effort into me and would protect me therefore I would them. You don’t seem understanding you just appear angry t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:59 PM
1

Ahhhh okay so this whole post was just bitterness because no one was there for you before. I recommend picking better friends and family to be in your life, specifically those who have your best interest at heart. Then you’ll understand it’s a natural feeling to be protective of those you love. It must be miserable not to have loved ones in your life who would do the same for you. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:27 PM
2

Why are men stupid like this? Pick a woman that would have your back the way you have hers. Dont become an asshole that wouldn’t even protect your own friends/family/partner? What is wrong with people like you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:10 AM
1

She looks fine she’s just not put together. Nowhere near a butter face considering most people can’t even stay in shape nowadays and even back then.. I don’t like though that modern men do not know what average women look like. I want to date average men and I don’t want to be competing against insta models because they can’t handle acne scars
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:20 PM
2

Awww I want one! show me where pls
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:40 PM
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Says the guy who acted like eating vegetables was foreign
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 08:58 PM
12

Men of all attractiveness levels have the capacity to act up. I’m tired of hearing “just date ugly” and magically the guy will be Prince Charming. There are plenty of both hot and ugly people who are foul af.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 04:32 PM
3

What is this supposed to explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 04:26 PM
1

hi bae
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:01 AM
41

I don’t know how common this is. I think most women (who are jaded) are more jaded from a previous terrible bf than a random hook up. There’s more emotional investment. Most women don’t like dating apps and don’t use them frequently let alone consistently. Also, can someone please explain to me why the uglier guys I’ve dated and fucked (NOT CHAD AT ALL) acted up? Currently there’s no reason to even chase less attractive men because the treatment is not any better. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I think a lot of women wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:04 AM
1

this is actually scary
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:37 AM
2

yea I think it was easier to judge based on looks when I was hella sheltered but since coming here and just in the time I’ve been here, you learn a lot about all sorts of people. You really can’t guess what people have been through or how they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:20 AM
0

Looks do not determine character
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:10 PM
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Spineless women end up abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:08 AM
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Stop defending revenge porn. If calling out revenge porn is bad in your opinion, go take it up with the judge and see what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:04 AM
-1

There’s an imbalance of in execution of trad roles. Women who want men to be trad will be trad themselves. Men who want trad women are not interested in being traditional and actively disrespect the role.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:45 AM
4

No, I think what I said. There are hundreds of crazy entitled women I roll my eyes at on a daily basis. But I do feel like on a general level, trad women actually like the role and therefore want trad men whereas non trad men simply just like telling women what to do while not being trad themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:32 AM
5

Those women are more likely to actually be trad though. The men who tell women what to do aren’t traditional. Like fresh and fit. All talk about women’s role and fail in every single way to be a traditional man. The entitlement is actually astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:17 AM
0

this is not a flex 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:58 AM
1

Like 70%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:37 AM
0

I always think it’s funny when men bring up that women “want criminals”. What the hell kinda women are men chasing nowadays???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:44 AM
2

4 maybe? His hair cut is foul. He’s also bigger but unflatteringly like his legs are rly small…. She’s really pretty, insta model level and has a cute, flattering style and great smile which rly pushes the disparity. But whatever makes people happy!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:41 AM
1

Where are all the baddie maneaters 😔😔im aloneeee
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:02 AM
1

We aren’t interested
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 07:31 PM
1

Let’s use basic elementary level critical thinking. Regardless of this happening in a relationship or one night stand, an experience like this is traumatizing and would put anyone off of dating or sex. Absolutely anyone with a brain could deduct that women could get turned off of dating because of a terrible one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 07:30 PM
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There’s something so ironic about bottom of the barrel western men going to mistreat women in other countries and boasting about it…after begging for attention for years and complaining about high standards from western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:50 AM
1

It’s not men’s job to make things better for women but if they’re worried about their reputation and how society views them, yes, they should aim to act better. I think that’s common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:36 AM
-1

He’s gorgeous and lying for views. He doesn’t struggle with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 10:19 PM
1

It’s like anything else…some things I can think is totally fine or empowering for people to do and I don’t want it in my relationship. A lot of people like UFC and I think it’s cool and more power to the fighters. Would I date one? Hell no. This isn’t the gotcha you think it is. Some men think hey I’ve met amazing fat women, wouldn’t date one. We all have our things. Women are also not a hive mind and not all Think sex work is good. I’m like 50/50, I’ve dabbled in it and that led to me thinking …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:34 PM
1

I don’t need your protection. I simply expect men to follow the law
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:57 AM
1

Men don’t protect shit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:55 AM
1

Are you having a rough day or something? That’s not what I said. Plenty of women are batshir crazy mean violent bitches. Obviously if you go outside. But they’re not presenting nearly the levels of danger men do. That’s just a fact, not bias or hatred. Men will receive less fault for women’s suffering when they stop making women suffer. It’s simple!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 04:51 PM
2

Obviously since men have failed for decades to do either of those💀. Women have only ever “needed” protection from men….because of men. Crazy how that works
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 04:49 PM
1

I just don’t know how I feel about the username being SpreadEmPlz… I feel the ick coming on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:26 PM
1

Idk what it’s like in Texas maybe it’s more ghetto there 🤷🏽‍♀️but the women I knew who went to HBCUs like the “black excellence” kind of guys, the scholars. They are also nerds pursuing a stem degree lmao. I think it’s weird that guys outright ignore women who pursue good guys and chase women who want bad men. Go where you’re appreciated!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:25 PM
1

I know, im glad😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:02 PM
4

Eugh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:29 AM
1

Oh good lord
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:28 AM
1

yea ur telling me 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:22 AM
1

eugh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:22 AM
1

Well that’s bleak
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:22 AM
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I don’t like church…or organized religion in general. Those people don’t think for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:21 AM
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that indeed!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:20 AM
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Hii
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:16 AM
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who’s under 30 and male? 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:48 AM
1

Idk what you have against promiscuous women. No, I’m not jealous of them, as a promiscuous woman. Relating back to the original comment before this stupid word vomit I just read, men who date and marry women they don’t love/like/value/appreciate are pieces of shit who I hope bad things happen to. You can bring money into it or keep it out, doesn’t really matter either way who’s more expensive. Those men are shitty and if they don’t like that then they should stop being fucking shitty. Especially…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:34 PM
1

Sure she was lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:46 PM
3

I miss the days where men had jobs and real purpose 😔 And please, just get a journal man😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:45 PM
2

Yea I wonder why…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:44 PM
2

Why do we have to know that 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:42 PM
2

Why do you feel comfortable saying this? Us “sluts” don’t want weirdos who fantasize about mentally damaged women. We are normal and just like sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:39 PM
2

Ew what
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:38 PM
1

Sure. I just think a lot of people think putting a label on making yourself look good is kind of cringy. I don’t think that people are mad at men for improving themselves, it’s more just like confusion on how looksmaxxing is such a big thing. For most people, it’s part of their daily routine to look good or put together. If that makes any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:36 PM
0

What would be an appropriate amount or an appropriate response? Why does it have to be frequent? And what constitutes frequent?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:34 PM
-1

Maybe view them from a non-sympathetic or relatable standpoint, I think it’s really odd to not understand why women/people are put off by incel rhetoric online….or feel a little fear. There’s a lot of anger there and for people who can’t relate, it can be scary. https://counterhate.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/CCDH-The-Incelosphere-FINAL.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:25 PM
1

We don’t call it looksmaxxing, we just go on about our day and do our make up and hair and make outfits because we like it, it’s fun and makes us feel good. I don’t announce my skin care routine as looksmaxxing I’m just taking care of myself…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:02 PM
1

Don’t marry them then or date rhem. Why is the modern man behaving like this? I hope I never encounter a guy like this, what a hateful way to view women tf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:57 PM
1

Then he can control himself and be happy with once a week. Every day is too much for many people. I’m hella promiscuous and I didn’t sleep with people that often. Not even consistent fwbs. Once or twice a week was great. Maybe 3 times Then he needs to do his research and find less experienced or cheaper sugar babies. But wasting a woman’s life is terrible and men should feel guilty and shameful about that imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:56 PM
4

Watch your mouth. There’s no difference and you know it, and you like it. That’s just terrible…at least own up to it instead of trying to frame rapists positively. “Give yourself to me or you die” is rape. And they just murdered their husbands and families. There’s nothing noble about that. But men are too privileged I guess to understand that kind of suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:53 PM
3

By raping them and killing their families? The benefit of that is…not being killed and “genes”?? Men: why are women so hard to date and picky and unforgiving? Also men: omg back in the day women were grateful for rape because they got to have kids and become female slaves! Isn’t that cool? It’s so lame we have to restrict the natural advantage of being murderwrs and rapists. PPD men are fucking mentally ill. God.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:23 PM
2

And that’s an advantage, how?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:51 PM
1

Bro get a savings account or something 😭don’t waste someone’s life what the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:34 AM
3

Well that’s sad and terrible..maybe men should not get married to have sex with women they don’t like and just hire a sex worker??…big oof
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:32 AM
1

Well adjusted women aren’t going for criminals and violent thugs. Try a college campus and see who those women are dating, especially the ones who are actually going to class and getting good grades. Women who go for violent criminals often grew up in that kind of environment. Violent criminals are usually that way because they also grew up in that environment. I really don’t understand the issue with “look what women say!” Because women aren’t saying they are asexual beings who do not feel phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:15 AM
1

What women? And what is the problem then? Criminals are attractive sometimes. If men can’t handle that idea, I don’t even know what to tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:21 AM
4

What natural advantage are you restraining??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:13 AM
1

But it’s just like yes some hot people do bad things…I don’t think that’s like shocking or revealing “true nature”. I’ve seen mugshots of women and been like damn she’s sooo pretty. Doesn’t mean id be her friend lmao. I wouldn’t fuck a criminal but yea I can acknowledge one is attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:06 AM
4

Men were more obsessed with than women it was so weird. Yes he’s attractive…and the world still spun and women moved on. Idk why men fell out because one criminal happened to be good looking??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:47 PM
1

What point are you trying to make here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:17 AM
1

Everyone does this. Men settle down with women with the same socioeconomic status as them. It’s not really shocking people want to settle down with those similar to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:54 PM
0

Ayyye represent!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:56 AM
1

Yes I’m aware men like me and what a lot of men say here is just stupid shit. Yes I know I am a woman. The joke was that my being promiscuous is supposed to be sooooo repulsive to men and such an obstacle that I could never be loved or have a healthy relationship with a good man. Yet, I did. That’s not what men say. Apparently I’m worthless and will continuously be treated like shit my entire life until I age out and have cats instead of a man or both LMFAOOO. My options are supposed to be zero …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:42 AM
1

I’ve said it a million times and they don’t listen 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:36 AM
1

whatever that means bro. but don’t come at me and then not be able to debate 🤷🏽‍♀️I’m just being real with ya
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:58 AM
-1

Yes “no one else struggles or they would have my exact experience” is common. They’re never the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:58 AM
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I’m sorry I can’t listen to complaints about other subs when someone posted that rape jokes are funny yesterday on the main sub in all seriousness. If we don’t take blue pillers seriously because of random assumptions youve never verified, black and redpillers are all just as full of shit 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:57 AM
1

Thank you for proving my point that average/below average and even autistic and struggling men are shooting out of their league and are experiencing difficulties for that reason :) Have a good day!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:51 AM
1

Yes you do. If you don’t, tell me an example of people you’ve chosen to be around where looks is only part of the equation. If you can’t, you’re simply telling me that your dating pool and social life is filled with people who are shallow🤷🏽‍♀️ Many people overlook bad traits for looks. Attractive people have the halo effect. But it’s not strong enough to overpower the brain :) so those who value personality traits or maturity blah blah blah, will 100% with no excuses, know people in relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:50 AM
0

I can’t help the fact that you can’t acknowledge the truth man😔 But I get it, it’s not the truth you want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:04 AM
1

Idk if that’s enough :( she’s hot and really feminine and has lots of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:03 AM
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