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1 and 2 literally talk about reflecting and introspecting :) I did not encourage repressing. In fact, I discourage repressing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 06:23 AM
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I dated a French guy recently. Boring experience. Cheap, arrogant, selfish and lacks class.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 09:34 AM
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Thank you 😊 A more mature way of doing this would have been to DM me rather than aggressively messaging on here. I get it though. Have a good one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 07:47 AM
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I have ignored him since ❤️ I’m sorry you are butt hurt but don’t come on here with no compassion to help me understand. I’m here to talk to sisters not frenemies. Thx. 🎉 I feel like you’re a pain in the ass and difficult to love. 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 11:24 AM
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Cool - good for you 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 11:20 AM
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Okay :) Despite my behavior it doesn’t give him the okay to put his hands on me :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 06:10 AM
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But thank you :) I realized men are unpredictable and I should stay away from them all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 01:20 AM
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I didn’t think I was playing a game. I really wanted to show that I care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 01:20 AM
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When did I lash out? He is the one that lashed out :) I was kind and tried to console him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 01:19 AM
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I don’t think it was creepy. I chased after him when he walked out the door but I walked with him, trying to tell him I did care. No need to be a judgmental bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 01:16 AM
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Do you think he feels bad or makes the excuse that I chased him to his apt? Ugh fml. I don’t want to be with him ever after that but I do want him to suffer emotionally now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 04:05 PM
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Ugh. This outcome makes me so disappointed. He was the dreamy sweet boy in my eyes and now he is just another fuck boy who puts his hands on me ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 03:58 PM
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Well, he put his hands on me last week after I ended it so I guess he didn’t like me that much. He doesn’t like to talk about feelings and bottles everything up. I couldn’t take that. I think he is just all fragile ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 03:51 PM
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Update: I let him go after a nice weekend together. It hurts but I have to think about what I need and want. I didn’t want to like him any further right now. It was giving me massive anxiety and distracting me from getting work done☹️ Maybe I am selfish. Maybe I am cold. Idk. I’ve been through this and it doesn’t work out. If he wants me truly, then he can reach out to me later and do the things he knows will make me happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 07:42 PM
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Thanks <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 08:07 AM
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Thank you <3 One of my goals this year has been to trust my gut more :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 08:06 AM
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Yeah, there are fuckboys at every age!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 08:05 AM
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<3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 08:04 AM
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Haha - yeah I know. Really lame. He just got divorced and I was his first date after like 20 years of marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 08:04 AM
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You're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 07:59 AM
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The check was like $680 or something. I did see it. The wine was over $300. We thought it said $65/bottle but it was per glass...oops!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 07:58 AM
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It was a French restaurant started by a famous chef :) The food wasn't that great but we had an appetizer, 4 shared main dishes, and several dessert dishes because I couldn't decide (he insisted). Me: "oh - these both sound so lovely! This one sounds great because of X and the other one is Y. What do you think?" Him: "Get both." The wine was what was really expensive - $65 a glass. We actually thought it was $65 a bottle...oops! He was understandably pissed about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 07:55 AM
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First and foremost, exude confidence. Secondly, if you want that kind of money dropped on you, dress classy yet sexy. I actually had everything covered; a black dress that wasn't form-fitting, black tights, and a blazer. I would say my personality during first impressions are a 10/10 95% of the time. I won't rate myself out of 10 but I would say I'm pretty sexy, which I think many can achieve. Every time you walk into a room, remember that you are a Queen, but stand out. Be genuine, and show you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 07:51 AM
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Yes, you are right. Tbh, I just thought he’d be a one night stand. His penis didn’t work though until a month later when he started getting closer emotionally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 12:07 PM
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He takes the train to see me, which is probably $12 in total. I wouldn’t mind going to McDonalds where he spends $10 in total. It’s really just the gesture I like. It’s not about needing a guy to pay, it’s about what I generally like and have always wanted during dating, so that is why I am conflicted. I do appreciate his time. 🤷‍♀️ It’s just my love language, you should read the book! There was a guy I dated long distance in college who flew to me a lot and fully expensed the trips we took toge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 10:26 AM
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I generally think this as well. Ah, why did I have to like this guy! I need to figure out what I am going to say this weekend. I will see how he treats me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 06:44 AM
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Yes, he'll get a great job :) he is very dedicated and smart. However, his stress consumes him and he doesn't know how to be present when we are together sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 06:42 AM
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He is French and is automatically exclusive bc that's normal in France, but he's just a broke college student.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 02:40 AM
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