yaksha_uk Archive

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2	Does anyone have a go-to guided meditation for confidence? You could try some Shae Matthews from The Natural Lifestyles: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AFqwULzGXCk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rrr1UFyfYV4	/r/seduction	08/05/19 10:30 AM
3	What to do if you enthusiastically explain what you love doing and she says 'Do not take it as personal/offense but I don't care' "then I explain a little" Don't go into autistic detail about it. State your passion, what interests you about it. Connect to universal experiences. Why does it appeal to you? Why might it appeal to someone else? Give them something they can connect to. Don't get caught up in the technical side. Because honestly, most people don't care. About this passion, about other passions. Not in detail. Not unless it was a rare case of something they previously wanted to investigate. But they do care about…	/r/seduction	28/04/19 04:35 AM
1	I Blew A Wide-Open Chance This question betrays your sticking point; you are looking for a sure thing. Otherwise, you wouldn't even ask. You don't need it to be a sure thing. You don't even need it to be a likely thing. You are attracted to her, you express that attraction in as calibrated a way as you can. Let her decide what she wants to do with it, and then respond to that decision smoothly and gracefully. Then move on or move forward.	/r/seduction	17/03/19 10:48 PM
1	Should I assume not interested if tinder matches want daytime coffee dates over evening/night dates? It’s not so much about the WHERE the date happens, as HOW you are communicating with her. Make sure you are sitting in good proximity to engage in touch, flirting verbally and non-verbally, and have some logistical options pre-planned for what to do after depending on how well things are going - back to your place, or on to somewhere else. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=WhSTfv8Lbw0 https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=V3Z4Nq0OrrM	/r/seduction	11/03/19 02:28 AM
1	Becoming too comfortable and overconfident Forgive yourself your failures (you are only human), and don’t beat yourself up about it - remember that even if the cycle is happening, you are no doubt improving with each cycle - and learning lessons about what works and what doesn’t work along the way - so going through a cyclical process is not necessarily something bad. However, it’s natural to want to make that cycle more productive and efficient. Mindfulness is your tool here. Flood yourself with awareness over what state you are at and …	/r/seduction	11/03/19 02:16 AM
1	Girl called me bro? When you call a male friend your bro, are you implying that you share the same parents? No, it's just a slang term of endearment. I've been called bro, mate, friend, and all sorts by girls who I've later ended up sleeping with. And of course, by some who I haven't. It's utterly irrelevant. What matters is the rest of your behaviour. A lot of advice given is very paranoid about things like this, like if you don't break out and do the New Zealand Haka dance right at that moment she is going to for…	/r/seduction	26/02/19 07:39 PM
1	Frustration: When your guy friend tell you you're imagining things when you say girls seem interested - "I think she likes me" - "naaaaaah you trippin' man" - "OK then - let's find out" Be the man you want to be, and when you start getting results, watch your friend's chin drop.	/r/seduction	26/02/19 06:54 PM
2	How should I[22] ask her[23] for a second date? From the sounds of it she was expecting or hoping for something more intimate (like staying over), and felt awkward about being shuffled out the door. Hence the “I don’t usually do this” justification - her trying to resist being put into that one-night-stand box in your mind. I think you are projecting your own insecurities onto her. Her reply to your text suggests she was herself feeling awkward, and blaming herself. An hour of sex with her cumming twice is not nevessarily a bad thing, especia…	/r/seduction	26/02/19 12:47 AM
1	I had lunch with a friend yesterday and behind us sat two pretty women 5 seconds? What sort of pleasurable experience are you going to give in 5 seconds? I’m guessing you’re doing the “wham, bam, thank you ma’am!” school of seduction... just opening and immediately closing. It’s better than nothing... but... Try now having a conversation with them in the middle. Show interest in them as human beings, find out what they are doing, what their story is. Flirt, tease. Build and release tension. Leave them thinking “who is this breath of fresh air that just burst into m…	/r/seduction	11/02/19 09:37 PM
–	Asked a girl on Instagram out on a date. Things went pretty great, but I couldn't get a kiss. Should I go for a second date or move on? The best advice I have heard on this comes from James Marshall of The Natural Lifestyles (https://www.youtube.com/user/thenaturaltv). He calls it the Response Rule: It doesn’t matter what you say or do, or how she reacts. It’s how you respond to her reaction that counts. You missed some opportunities to kiss her. Probably because you were looking for the perfect infallible moment, and not realising that even a failed attempt to kiss her demonstrates that you are the type of man that takes positi…	/r/seduction	11/02/19 11:06 AM
1	Im Tired of books and theory. What are some routine habits I can do weekly to get better with women? You say you are tired of theory. But you are asking for advice, and all advice is theory until you put it into practice. So: 1) There is theory, and there is effective theory. I strongly recommend The Natural Lifestyles’ material (https://www.youtube.com/user/thenaturaltv) for great advice on seduction. 2) Yes, you know yourself that the first major flaw is that you are not approaching enough women. You don’t need to spend four hours in a bar to approach a girl. Just walk up and say hello. It so…	/r/seduction	11/02/19 10:31 AM
1	First date with a friend If the dinner is at her house, bring a bottle of wine, if you both drink. It’s common courtesy. [Don’t get so drunk you make an arse of yourself, don’t aim to get her drunk to take advantage of her]. If the dinner is out, bring along some ideas about (a) how you might smoothly escalate with physical touch etc [e.g. https://youtu.be/V3Z4Nq0OrrMand - don’t hitch on the “rapid” part, don’t put pressure or expectations, particularly as you’ve known her a while; just understand sensible escalation te…	/r/seduction	07/02/19 02:34 AM
2	Way more attention at school when I start dating a girl. Well, yes, “social proof”/“pre-selection” (being assumed to be more attractive because someone else wants you) is a thing, as you’ll see mentioned in most of the other comments. Let me take a different angle on this. If you choose to interpret this all as social proof, then you make yourself 100% the victim of circumstance. You will fear losing the relationship, because then you will lose the positive reactions. Try seeing it this way: in order to get the relationship, you took action. Whether t…	/r/seduction	07/02/19 02:09 AM
1	Do girls ever make a move for guys, or do guys have to do ALL the work while woman sit back and do nothing? This is “fruitless use of the mind”. You are asking the wrong questions. Yes, of course, women will approach... sometimes. Not every woman (some are conditioned against it by their upbringing), not every guy is attractive at first sight to them (them’s the breaks), and not every guy gives off the right balance of openness to make her feel secure in asking, while not looking like he is needy and desperate. But yes... sometimes, girls will create some excuse to come talk to you. Sometimes... they …	/r/seduction	07/02/19 01:15 AM