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I would personally recommend appointing a mod dedicated to PR. I'm sure this isn't the first time this has happened.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 04:58 PM
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I would love just a regular old Common Sense for Women sub. I thought that's what this was. If people would be interested in that kind of thing, PM me.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 04:57 PM
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I wish you had been more thorough in your original post so as to avoid confusion, but I'll respond based on what I think you meant. While I completely agree that we should not make direct insults at individual users of TRP, I can't agree with not being able to speak a certain way about that community/subreddit as whole. I personally try not to speak poorly of the TRP because the sidebar was a great help to my SO, but that's not to say that because there are some good ideas there that the managem…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 07:36 AM
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I think there's nothing with the quote in certain interpretations, such as in if your SO can't be there for you during say...losing a job or a death in the family, then he/she probably doesn't deserve all the good things you have to offer when you're not going through such an extreme rough patch. The problem is the quote is often used to justify people who are 80% worst and 20% best. These people tend to have personality disorders or are poorly socialized so they need to find justification for t…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 06:32 AM
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I don't know what circles you travel in, but there are plenty of guys that would fall over themselves to date a decently cute girl who has "nerdy" interests (not so much movies/shows, but anime/video games/tabletop games). Pretty sure every guy gamer's dream is to be able to play with his girlfriend. You'll likely have to search for men within the subset of "nerd" in order to find a good match, but these days it's not hard to find fairly attractive nerds. Just be on the alert for those that have…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/17 11:05 PM
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I don't know if it's possible for you guys to arrange visits, but that is what I highly recommend. Even if it's once every couple of months, knowing you'll see your SO soon enough is a great reassurance in a LDR. My partner and I tried to do once a month, and while it was hard, it worked well enough at the time.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/17 08:51 AM
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From what you've said in your post and the comments, it seems to me that you still haven't fully recovered from whatever damage your ex has done. I'm pretty sure other people can pick up on that too especially if you have an extended conversation with them. The only thing I can think of is that you should focus more on yourself than on dating. You talk extensively about your appearance, but your SMV is only so valuable. Who you are as a person and what you have to offer beyond looks is what will…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 02:30 AM
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Oh haha. I'm always on mobile so I can't actually see the color of the flairs. :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/17 10:47 PM
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My partner wanted to reply to the post using my account and I didn't mind because we generally were saying the same things. AMWF=Asian Male White Female. Just additional context seeing as there have been quite a few posts in the past about cultural misunderstandings in relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/17 06:19 PM
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My partner originally replied to you, but if I may add I recommend going to church if there is one in your area. I have family in South America as well, and many of the girls were able to meet high-quality men at church. Whatever you decide to do, good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/17 06:17 PM
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If i may suggest, from a man's perspective. it seems to me that you want to find a long term relationship soon. The suggestions above already pointed to this, if you want your situation to change, you will have to be willing to do things differently. That might mean forgoing the idea of never approaching men, that might also mean going to new areas away from ur circle of aquaintences, who from the description arent seeing much in the way of success themselves. The old saying u can't expect chang…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/17 08:31 PM
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I still have the message from /u/theScarlettwoman I think she was the one trying to organize it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/17 09:20 AM
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Honestly the older I get and the longer I've been in college charting my life plans, the more I realize 4 yr university isn't for everyone. There are so many options for lifetime careers especially if your goal is to settle down young. There's trade schools, cosmetology, nursing, teaching English abroad, community college, military, etc. I also don't think you need to go to college to be educated and well-rounded as long as you have access to the internet and Kindle. You'd be surprised how much …
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/17 09:27 AM
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You definitely need to tell him. It takes two to tango. Not telling him something like that could ultimately break the relationship in the future, and I'm sure that's not something you want. Some might say you have no obligation to tell him, but that kind of thinking is pretty selfish and cruel, imo. That being said, I wouldn't beat yourself up too much about the birth control mistake. Whether you decide to keep it or not, you'll probably both have learned a valuable lesson about how important i…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 06:15 AM
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Haha same same. Glad you two found each other and you were able to turn things around!
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 06:02 AM
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I would caution against joining a sorority. Even if you don't subscribe to the kind of lifestyle those orgs promote, you may be pressured into doing things you don't agree with. Saw a lot of hazing gone wrong during my time in university, and I can't say I've met a girl in the sorority system that has a healthy outlook on relationships. Just my two cents. Good luck at college!
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 05:55 AM
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Same! It would make sense that women who didn't grow up with good role models end up finding boyfriends that guide them, so to speak.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 05:51 AM
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It's probably more complicated than not being into him. Is this your first sexual relationship? Is it his first? I think you'd be surprised how many factors can affect the female orgasm. Privacy, comfort, state of mind, medical issues, problems in the relationship, stress, etc. Perhaps try a new thing every time to see if its effective or not. I would personally suggest a little alcohol as it really helps me get comfortable and in the right frame of mind. If you still can't orgasm even after try…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 05:48 AM
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Honestly, anytime I hear "I don't want anyone who takes themselves too seriously just like me," I think of someone that wants to mess around. Especially in terms of dating, which is what he's presented in his Tinder profile. Just assume everything a person writes in those bios is not superfluous information. They took the time to write it for a reason. My guess is he's not looking for an LTR, but you also don't know for sure until you ask him, I suppose. Proceed with caution is my advice.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 08:31 PM
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Are you attractive? How's your wardrobe? How's your personality? One problem I find with women in male-dominated fields is that they start to "be one of the guys." Does that resonate with you? I'm not sure what your particularly struggling with but you are only 20 years old. Kind of early to give up and throw caution to the wind.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 04:20 AM
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It might partly be age and partly personal values that are highly dependent on the individual. I met my SO when he was 25 (I was 18), and I don't think it's so much the age difference that makes it work, although that is part of it, but he grew up in a traditional household and held traditional family values even from the young age of 25. In fact I talk to a lot of men through my political activities that strongly believe in the value of a traditional family unit, marriage, religion, not sleepin…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 04:04 AM
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That seems like a needlessly risky experiment. Could there be underlying factors to his behavior? Do you nag him often? Did you gain weight? What have you done for him lately? There's not a whole lot of context to go off of here.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 06:29 AM
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For people to think RPW is somehow controversial is pretty sad. We're just a group of women living our lives the way we think is best. For that reason I don't feel any shame in what we do here. I tell people about this sub all the time. If they don't like that I use it then fine, they're not obligated to keep me in their circle. That being said I don't think I've ever been called out for being a member here or excluded from Discord servers the way you have. That's really unfortunate :/ But in a …
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 08:34 PM
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Every day I see more of these statuses that don't mean anything, but young people eat it up. The death of romance at its finest.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 07:52 PM
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Good luck out there! Dating is hard but I wish you the best.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 07:51 PM
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Yeah I have a handful of problems with this comic, besides the fact that it sounds like whiny feminists at it again to make the world a better place! 1) You're right it encourages women to not step up and communicate because the man should already know what to do (the patriarchy!) 2) This would be less of an issue if the women didn't work after giving birth. Of course this is not an option for every couple, but is ultimately a financial state of living worth striving for. 3) Men aren't clean. If…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 07:45 PM
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I think the most cringe-worthy was the term "monogamous FWB." What are these college freshman Tinder psuedo-relationship statuses. Did he just make that term up? And he's 31? Nexterino. Sorry not exactly constructive critcism, but you already knew he was a lost cause.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 04:22 PM
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Can't beat that reasoning: 10/10
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 06:37 PM
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If he's not your boyfriend, I'm not really sure what's exclusive about it.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 05:46 AM
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The "real" feminists actually talk about this quite a bit. There's a good book by Christina Hoff Summers on the subject called the War Against Boys, but it mainly focuses on the education system. It's a terrible thing that these mothers don't see the value in raising their boys with masculine goals and values. And even the BP fathers don't help their boys grow into real men. I think this is ultimately the reason young men these days are so afraid of responsibility and commitment, because they ha…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 09:36 PM
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The only thing that stands out to me in particular is that you never mention whether you were official with these guys or not. Did you have the relationship talk? It's fine to want to let things progress naturally, but typically natural progression, no titles situations don't work in favor of the woman. I could be wrong about your history, but that's just what I assume based on what you've said.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 06:52 PM
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Oh I wasn't trying to imply that you were looking for responses that fit your situation. Sorry if I wasn't clear on that! :( here's the clip: https://youtu.be/dbGzUqFcHSs it's very interesting insight!
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 06:37 PM
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Kind of unconventional, but he calls me "piggy" lol. Probably gives the impression that I'm fat, but on the contrary I'm a small human being. I find it cute and endearing and every time he says it I get a little flutter of happiness inside :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 04:54 AM
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Jordan Peterson (clinical psychologist) said something interesting about infidelity, I'll try to find the clip if I can, but the gist is that infidelity is so devestating because it not only warps your present, it warps your perception of the past. "Everything was a lie," kind of thing. He says very few events in life can change how you view your past. Probably not the response you were looking for, but yeah...lol
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 04:51 AM
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Yes 100x yes!
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 06:31 PM
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That's so cute that you guys met at a renaissance festival! My partner and I met at a similar kind of thing (anime convention). People usually have a funny reaction to that sort of event lol.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 06:56 PM
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In a purely objective sense, could you have lived up to a higher potential if you'd had a better environment growing up? Yes. Does that mean you can't build yourself up to your highest potential now? No. That kind of mindset will just hold you back in the long run--what could have been, etc. Realistically I could've been a Stanford genius graduate if my parents had stuck together, but this isn't the hand I was dealt. You have to roll with the punches in life, and realize that although you might'…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 04:06 AM
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That pink coat is so gorgeous <3 I've always been a fan of the "cute" look, but don't think I could pull it off lol.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/17 08:00 PM
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Traveling can be a really rewarding experience in terms of understanding the world. It's a wonderful feeling when you can see pelple different than yourself--their customs, culture, language, history all very fascinating stuff. Studying abroad for a year was possibly the best experience of my life and completely changed my way of thinking and even certain parts of my personality and mannerisms. It's an even more beautiful experience when you can come to think of a place as a home away from home.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/17 07:28 PM
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Aw I used to watch her back when they were just boyfriend/girlfriend. Her wedding video is really cute! She seems sweet and genuine.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 11:34 PM
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I think my parents separated when I was 2 or so, definitely not old enough to recall. After that it was live-in boyfriends for my mom and I saw my dad every summer, I think. It fucked me up for awhile because despite the things my mom would tell me about my dad (possible infidelity, for example), she also made me feel guilty about the bad relationship I developed with him. Somehow I'm the bad guy lol. I couldn't make friends for a long time, had horrible self-esteem, got fat and depressed, and r…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/17 09:00 PM
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That's an interesting idea. I definitely would like to be able to find other RPW in my city (: Hopefully those meet-ups one of the mods is working on happens soon!
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/17 07:49 PM
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Same! On some level it's finding someone who is open to change, on another level it's about being the kind of person that's patient enough to wait for the person to change. Disclaimer: it's important to remember that not everyone is willing to change.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/17 06:12 AM
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Yes we just all got so lucky--that's all it could possibly be! Lol I get the lucky comment way more than I'd like.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/17 09:43 PM
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Being rejected is normal, but it's how you handle rejection that counts. If you're a mopey loser about it, it's incredibly noticeable and unattractive. Same with being jaded about interactions with the opposite sex. Had my fair share of guys friends who would get friend zoned by a girl and just stay in the friend zone and worship her at her feet. Super embarassing to watch. Men like that register as gay to me.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/17 09:37 PM
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Perhaps one can't be taught the value of a healthy relationship, but being taught to devalue it is certainly a thing--as is what happened in my case. For example, saying "being in a relationship never did anything for me." The implication being that relationships are worthless, because the speaker has never been in a healthy one. How do you find one? That's a complicated question. I think it boils down to finding someone that will love and respect you on the condition that you can provide the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:21 PM
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Just because dad isn't around and there's no positive male role models in your life doesn't mean all men are bad/cheaters/you don't need no man/marriage limits your freedom/etc. If only I had been taught the value of a healthy relationship and how to find one rather than being told the only person I can depend on is myself. Not like it was super detrimental, though. I think I got past that mindset pretty early in life with the help of my SO. Also, take care of your body because one day it can do…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 02:22 AM
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You've articulated exactly what I was thinking, especially the part about insecurities! I hope OP reads your comment.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 04:27 AM
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Jack really does get it
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 04:21 AM
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Yeah...the thing is this sub isn't that popular. Most women would stumble upon TwoX before ever ending up here, and TwoX typically encourages the line of thinking you expressed. My point being, if young women wanted promiscuity they would immediately be turned off by a traditional-minded sub like this. Also it sounds like you were just unhappy in general in your past relationship, regardless of n-count or whatever else. Seems like you resented him for being high n while you were pushed to remain…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 04:15 AM
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I'm kind of curious as to why you would want to be a RPW if you feel that the people here will "guilt and shame you" for your life choices. Don't mean to nit-pick at your wording, but my guess is you do the see the value in the advice offered by this subreddit but you also feel discouraged by not getting the results you wanted when you were saving yourself/keeping n-count low.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 11:44 PM
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Love Sotomayor; he's hilarious. First saw him on Crowder and got hooked.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 11:39 PM
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We discourage members from dating TRP men. Check out the side-bar.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 01:07 AM
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We are strong, independent women who choose to put our trust in our significant others. It's not as complicated as you think.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 10:42 PM
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That's what I was saying yesterday--idc how hot she is, she's a snake at the core lol.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 07:36 PM
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Nah, just a sleazy "journalist."
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 07:34 PM
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The way I see it is you can either become more balanced in your views over time (move center on the spectrum), or double-down on the childish victimology identity politics. Most women here have done the former.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 06:59 PM
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I read some of her other stuff too. It reeks of "No man will ever love me, especially not my dad," and at the same time, "Where have all the good men gone?!"
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 06:56 PM
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I really enjoyed this. It's nice to see a break-down of where she went wrong in her writing and argumentation.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 06:50 PM
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You will definitely find comments on this sub that upset you, as would be the case for any sub, but I hope that doesn't discourage you from using the tools provided by RPW to better your life.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 06:43 PM
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It's interesting to hear your perspective of someone that works in media. It's exactly like an essay from a high school student lol.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 08:09 AM
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That's what bothered me the most, I think. The complete lack of "journalistic" integrity.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 02:39 AM
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I personally don't care how attractive she is, I've already conceded she's attractive enough. Doesn't make up for the fact that she's someone I'd never want to know on a first name basis. I believe that is a very shallow understanding of RPW, but that may have been the view expressed by some users. I wouldn't consider that perspective to be in the general consensus at all. If you're talking about the concept of "SMV," then I can see why you'd think that.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 12:13 AM
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Are you suggesting there are no human beings on this planet more attractive than her? Forgive me if I misunderstood your question. And no that's not what RPW is about. Maybe you should stick around and find out what this subreddit actually is.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 11:59 PM
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Completely disingenuous person. I guess she's perfect for mainstream media.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 09:33 PM
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I don't think they'll bother. TRP is well-known on Reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 08:40 PM
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I remember this tool contacting me awhile back for her article. I'm glad I declined to be interviewed. You should read some of her other stuff. It's equally cringe-inducing.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 08:18 PM
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I don't think a man giving practical gifts means he's not feel romantic or sweet towards you, as the quote implies. On some level they probably assume women enjoy the same kinds of gifts men enjoy (and many women do, I'm sure). I personally prefer cute, useless things like stuffed toys but that doesn't mean I don't appreciate useful gifts all the same. That being said, I treasure all the teddy bears he's gotten me. ❤ I even keep one with me when I sleep when he's not around lol.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 05:56 PM
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I could make a fully comprehensive list of reasons why you should avoid California, but I'll keep it simple: Don't do it! :(
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/17 11:40 PM
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I'm glad that was helpful for you! And yeah I don't think any person likes to be judged for how they "take care of business." That's not to say you don't have a right to be upset--lying isn't okay, but it's also important to keep in mind why he lied. He was obviously on the mark about the possibility of upsetting you if you found out.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 06:26 PM
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A lot of women seem to take this very personally, and it's understandable to feel the way you do about this discovery. I think you need to hear the reasons for masturbating from your guy, but that's not possible if he feels like you'll judge him or if he thinks the truth will hurt you. Most of the time men watching and getting off to porn has nothing to do with their SO's. It could be any number of things that trigger a man's need to have a quick jerk off. From what my guy has told me, sometimes…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 06:41 AM
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She kind of gives off the "there's no good men left" vibe seeing as she's been with every big male celebrity and makes songs complaining about their relationships not working out, going so far as bashing some of them in her work. She used to be RPW I think, but now she seems like a disingenuous snake-lady.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 08:05 PM
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Sorry healthy isn't the right word for it. There's a lot of things that are healthy but can produce inflammation in the body such as gluten and dairy, particularly if you have an allergy that you're not aware of. That's the whole science between GAPS that another user mentioned.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 08:28 PM
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Yes, exactly! I didn't know there was a name for it lol
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 05:51 PM
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On top of seeking professional help, what is your diet like? There are more and more studies suggesting the connection between brain and gut. If your diet is shit, it's very likely your mental state will suffer. I can vouch for this having been a malnourished college student. It felt like death and I cried all the time not knowing wth was wrong with me. It might be helpful to make some positive changes like eating healthy and exercising, if you don't already.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 04:12 PM
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That's very good advice. Men are very sensitive to a woman's pain as long as the girl makes it clear that something is hurtful.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 04:07 PM
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Lol I like the cut of your jib
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 05:54 AM
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True, there is potentially multiple Gregs. > ... if I didn't grow up knowing a woman like this. >OUCH. I just realized it makes it sound like I'm referring to my mother. To be clear, I'm not lol
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 10:10 PM
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I try not to be surprised by anything. When you keep bad company, you'll definitely find people like this regardless of gender.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 08:30 PM
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I read her post first and in the first few lines, "your sexism is showing," I already knew what I'd be getting into. Imo she can't be salvaged. There are people like that. He, on the other hand, had bad vetting to begin with--possibly a beta male. He said it himself that she was trying to gauge his reaction on cheating, and that wasn't enough for him to consider leaving whatever fucked up relationship they were in. Also I wouldn't be surprised if she gets him for domestic abuse. Never hit a woma…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 08:15 PM
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Indoctrinated people will say indoctrinated things. I find it difficult to feel one way or the other on the matter. But on that note, I don't think citing The Red Pill documentary is very relevant to TRP subreddit. The film barely covered TRP or MGTOW; Jaye is referring to a different kind of "red pill."
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/17 06:54 AM
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All very good suggestions! I think this is one of the things women in general struggle with the most, so it's good that you made this post. :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 07:42 AM
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Oh I see so we're like same cross-cultures but gender-swapped haha. Wow that must be really tough not having a language in common. I respect that a lot. (:
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 08:11 PM
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Funny coincidence. English is my bf's second language as well, but he struggles to remember Chinese after being in this country for so long. We met in my country (: How about yours?
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 07:02 PM
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Interesting (: same-ish. I'll be looking out for your comments then, interested in hearing your perspectives.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 06:31 PM
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Sorry completely unrelated, but I noticed your flair haha. Which cultures?
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 04:21 PM
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I don't want to offend, but if every place you go to has the same problem, is it really the places you go or is it you? A lot of people find it difficult to make that distinction.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 01:42 AM
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In a way, I thought I was reading my own story. I was also lonely as a child, only playing video games, never going outside. When I discovered online friends, I completely bought in to it. MMO's were my only source of social interaction (although it never escalated to cybersex, luckily.) and just like you, I was overweight for a good portion of my life. That being said, no one wants to have relationships/friendships with someone that hates themselves. You need to work on yourself instead of seek…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 01:29 AM
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I see you're from California--possibly the most liberal state in this country. I'm also from socal so I think I have a good idea of what the problem is. You can't date in LA; people aren't there looking for cozy marriages. I recommend either going inland or going north. Central California in particular is way more conservative. Also, not to sound strange but certain races are typically more conservative than others. Asians/Indians, for example, are extremely dedicated to LTR's but also more blue…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 08:32 AM
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I think it's the instant gratification culture. Cultivating a loving, respectful relationship forever is too much work. Why not just cheat/be polygamous/have three-somes/etc? You'll be satisfied in that moment and perhaps for a few weeks/months, but those relationships almost never work long-term. Also people want to pressure you into being as miserable as themselves. Misery loves company, as they say. My philosophy is: I don't want person X's advice, but if I do they better have some good shit …
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 01:16 AM
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Only advice I can offer is 1) don't date on Tinder 2) if 3somes are a hard no for you then you need to uphold your boundaries. Why would a man give you legitimate advice? Of course it's in their interest to convince you that you're too extreme.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 01:10 AM
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Yeah the "pretty exclusive" thing jumped out at me too.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 01:07 AM
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I agree with you on a number of points, namely that life isn't so black-and-white. Evolutionary biology is a part of human behavior just as is a number of other things that factor into what makes humans tick. However, broad generalizations are just that--broad generalizations. It's must easier to think in these terms when you're going to deal with the other 50% of the population in your dating life (depending on your sexuality). You don't have to agree with the generalizations, but they are part…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 08:50 AM
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Lol yeah that's it! My partner and I are unattractive, and that's why we've been together so long. She sure showed me.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/17 09:10 PM
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Haha I love that xD "everyone else gets my crust."
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 07:28 PM
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Haha yeah, I realize this isn't very clear. I think in the working world, especially in corporate culture, there is always an attempt to grab at power, or get ahead. It's cutthroat, in other words. One day your co-worker can become your manager or they could get demoted, depends on how the game is played. A relationship doesn't call for that because power dynamics are pre-established; there isn't the same fluidity. You have a captain, and you have a first mate. There isn't a need to compete with…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 07:12 PM
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For a second I thought my boyfriend had replied to my post. You have an oddly similar way of writing online haha. It would be a fair assumption to say that she considers me below her, because there is a 20-some year difference in life experiences, but I don't believe that she necessarily does. Sometimes it feels like a complete role reversal, and that I'm the old woman talking to the young college girl. I think in some ways she sees that too. On some level she has adknowledged the little RP trut…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 03:01 AM
2

That's definitely true. It wouldn't be totally accurate to say it's a lack of common sense. Some people just willingly let themselves go and don't realize there's a problem until they're far gone.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 02:52 AM
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My take on this is, and it might not totally line up with RPW theory, is that the working world requires you to be harder, whether you're male or female. Being warm and kind and considerate will get you far in your private life, but in any cutthroat profession there isn't a lot of room for those feminine attributes. The only places I could see femininity being a real plus is in medicine or education, but even those sectors require one to have a certain level of...masculinity, put simply. I don't…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 02:48 AM
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Yeah, sorry if that came off as insensitive. I'm sure it's hard giving up on a guy you've liked for a long time, but it's definitely for the best. You should feel good about being so self-aware in this situation. A lot of people aren't.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 08:42 PM
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I think you already know what's what and just need the extra push. Most of the time your gut feeling is right. Look at the warning signs you are aware of and made clear in your post: little contact when you're not together, fucked you shortly after leaving his GF of 10 yrs, and after he had already fucked you he says he's taking it slow. You're looking for confirmation that he's a waste of time, and I'll gladly give you that. He's a waste of time. If you want someone to have fun with and just fo…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 06:46 PM
1

Normally I would, but expressing sentiments like "all men suck," and "women are victims" have real consequences, especially coming from a former educator. I'd hate to think these thoughts are being expressed to other young women in their lives.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 06:19 PM
1

I'm realizing this more every day :(
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 06:15 PM
1

You're right, people like that don't want to get better. I can only watch and learn.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 06:15 PM
1

That's a nice sentiment. I feel less inadequate for having read it. It's a good reminder that we're all struggling to better ourselves.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 06:14 PM
2

That sounds frustrating considering she was someone you respected. From the outside, however, I have to say I find that kind of behavior funny. Reading these is a good laugh. It reminds me that the world is crazier than I can see from my little bubble. I hope you find good friends to hang around. Maybe RPW hang-outs will be a thing in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 06:12 PM
0

You are right. If it's something that bothers me enough I should be able to face it head-on. That is something I need to work on--being more willing to tackle problems with others face-to-face.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/17 07:30 PM
2

It might be too early to invite them here. They're both still in that third wave feminism "Men are evil," phase, so a place like this would be "triggering". I do realize it may be harder for older women to find men, but the least an older woman can do is take care of herself. No sense in worsening your own odds by gaining weight and dressing in an unflattering way. My own mother is the same age as her but still puts a lot of effort into her appearance despite being in a LTR. I feel like that sho…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/17 07:20 PM
1

Lol! Well thank goodness for that.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/17 07:15 PM
2

A part of me feels sorry for them too, but I cannot stand the willful ignorance at times. I've tried doing the same when asked "what are you doing for Valentine's Day?" and the like, but it's usually met with indifference. Or when I offer to help with things it's usually returned with excuses. Lead by example only works with certain types of people, I'm noticing. I'm glad it worked out a bit for your roommate. Perhaps because she's younger and still open to learning. I'll keep pushing, I guess. …
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/17 07:15 PM
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You do have a point, perhaps I underestimate their common sense. A part of me would like to believe that people just don't know rather than people are willfully hurting themselves. The latter is what's really happening here, sadly.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/17 07:09 PM
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Poor choice of words, I suppose. A moment of peace after a long day is definitely restorative. I agree that nagging your partner after he's already had a particularly long day is a shitty thing to do, but then again, nagging in general is pretty shitty.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/17 08:49 PM
1

My boyfriend is in a similar situation with one of his acquaintances. His approach was to show the guy that he's truly concerned about his well-being and slowly leak him relevant redpill material that was easily digestable for beginners. There's also a certain level of "leading by example." If you show him that you're living life to the fullest in your redpill ways, he may eventually recognize that there's a better way. Hope that helps.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/17 06:12 PM
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It's nice to hear the male perspective. I'd never really considered that silence might be something a man needs. I'll be sure to keep that in mind for the future. Thanks for this post!
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/17 06:05 PM
3

Yes! Eggs are definitely a super-food. I tell people all the time always have eggs in your fridge.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/17 03:12 AM
2

That's actually a real sweet anectdote. I haven't seen anyone apply their roles in a relationship to how they conduct themselves in the virtual world. You seem like a sweet couple, and I wish you the best. (:
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 10:46 PM
3

I don't think TRP is any different from any other male-dominated space on the internet. You can call it degrading or whatever word you like, but whether you are on TRP or PUA, at the end of the day you are there to learn how to better yourself as man. I'm not saying TRP is beyond criticism, but I don't think it's so bad that it warrants an attempt by male PUA's to distinguish themselves from TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 10:42 PM
4

Most accurate list I've seen. If I was gay she would definitely be wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 07:59 PM
4

I'm not sure if that was helpful for you or not, but I think you see what I mean about new perspectives on TRP (x
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 06:13 PM
3

I read their stuff from time to time, but I don't let it get to me. If anything, it can provide a lot of insight into some of the bad habits I have that I wouldn't have become aware of on my own (hamstering/AWALT). I think it's important to remember that TRP is an important resource for men that have fallen on hard times; it shouldn't be reflective of the larger majority of men. My SO started out on that sub when he was younger, and I'm grateful that he did because it helped mold him into the wo…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 06:04 PM
1

That's so sweet (: it's nice to be able to game together with your SO. I dabbled in FF14 for a bit, but that monthly membership was killing me lol.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 05:53 PM
3

Sorry this is completely unrelated, but what online game was that?
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 05:58 AM
1

Number 3, though. I've never said that to people because it'll inevitably be met by "why would you WANT to cry?" Good to know someone else is equally into sad shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 10:56 PM
1

Thanks! I'll take a look at these (:
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 06:10 PM
1

I've never heard about the sleeping/walking around nude as being good for self-esteem. Did you read that somewhere? That's a very interesting theory, and I'd love to read more. (:
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 07:23 PM
2

Totally agree! A good captain would be able to lead his first mate in that way, provided she's willing to learn as well.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 07:19 PM
2

It probably is true, but it really wasn't pertinent advice to what I was looking for at the time (x
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 07:18 PM
1

I'm almost embarassed to admit that as an 18-yr-old, naive virgin that I crammed the hell out of those stupid magazines before having sex with my boyfriend for the first time. I figured surely these adult women writers would know what's what. I skimmed through a bunch of articles ranging from "wear socks to orgasm easier" to "hymens are a myth." Little did I realize that my boyfriend wasn't expecting me to know what I was doing lol. How surprising that in a monogamous, long-term relationship we …
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 04:30 AM
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This whole thing is concerning. 1) You've never met him. It's one thing to try to make an LDR work once you've already established an intimate relationship close distance, but this is just a train-wreck waiting to happen. There's also the fact that you won't REALLY know what he looks like until you meet him in person. It's possible to only show your best face/body angles during Skype calls. The Tinder effect. 2) Do you have plans to close the distance in the future? Real, tangible plans? If this…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 04:30 AM
3

Are jokes the only example of "rape culture?"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 05:24 PM
1

That's actually a very interesting perspective. I'd never thought of that.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 02:57 AM
4

I think most people here would agree the new feminist/Tumblr looks are simply trashy. Piercings in every opening, weird hair colors, butch hair cuts, all terrible. If the intention is to express individuality why does everyone have the same grotesque green hair color? That being said, there are some wonderful trends. Contouring for pale skin, highlighting, wing liner, bodycon dresses. I watch so many of the gay make-up guru Youtubers, and this seems to be a newish trend in the Youtube community.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 11:10 PM
1

Aren't you implicitly seeking the approval of your peers by saying these kinds of things? I don't see how you expect to have a fruitful discussion/debate with that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 05:44 PM
1

Yeah the people I'm referring to made nowhere near that much /year
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 03:04 AM
1

$400 is still not as bad. From what I've seen it's usually $800/mo but ofc that depends on the father's income bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 08:42 PM
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Lol $250. If it was $250 there would be far less complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 01:26 AM
2

If we're speaking from personal experience here, then you and your friend group have preferences that aren't "normal." Dating guys your own age? That's so weird /s
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 10:49 PM
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I think most women here know the why and when. It's the technique that's important lol
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 03:58 AM
9

Please share your wisdom! lol
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 07:49 PM
3

Exactly lol !
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 07:43 PM
2

That is so nice! He's a keeper, for sure. Also SV is awesome (:
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 05:40 PM
1

Which video game?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 05:22 PM
14

He was going to get us matching MAGA hats, but decided the safer option is matching American flag beanies. I love them (:
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 05:21 PM
2

I'm sincerely surprised to see Milo mentioned here. Love it ^
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 06:57 AM
2

Depends on why you think it will make you "happier." Happier in comparison to what? You wouldn't know, because you've never actually had sex. At this point being with one person could make you the happiest, or being with 20 could make you the happiest; you have absolutely no way of knowing. But speaking from the perspective of a college woman with a high sex drive as well, I'm incredibly grateful to have waited for the right person and not "trying all the models" or whatever you'd prefer to call…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 06:54 AM
3

There was no mention of sons, as far as I can see. They should be equally concerned about their sons fucking people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 05:30 AM
2

I wish more fathers had a "weird puritanical fascination with his daughter's sex life."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 05:05 AM
1

Being lonely/horny is an excuse, and a terrible one at that. You shouldn't bring people into your life just because you're lonely. That's called using people. I don't think self-esteem is the issue here; I think it's self-control.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 09:22 PM
1

Graduating next year with a BA in political science. Hoping to take that into teaching at the high school level. I definitely want to pursue higher degrees after paying off some student debt, but am also open to the idea of law school (SO has suggested the same.)
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 04:59 PM
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I don't believe that to be a fair diagnosis. Some men genuinely don't care as long as you fit in a certain weight range and attractiveness level. I'm sure if she asked him "hey should I gain 50 pounds?" then he would have more to say.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 01:28 AM
1

I've seen a lot of that as well. Upholding the modern American feminist as an ideal--as something to strive for. I can only imagine how difficult it must be to come to a foreign country where one might not know the language or other cultural context, and to suddenly be swept up by American girls claiming "your culture is oppresive to women." How can anyone refute that? Especially a young girl. It's a damn shame, and I'm glad women on this sub are seeing this new culture for what it is.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 10:12 PM
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Just an off-shoot of that first point but a lot of the American-raised Asian men I've talked to have expressed dissatisfaction with American-raised Asian women for the same reasons American men are dissatisfied with white/latina/black women. I'm inclined to believe it's just an American values problem.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/17 09:16 PM
1

I highly recommend it! It's a Chinese dish of tofu, spicy chili tomato sauce, green onions, and also typically includes some type of ground meat (however I've yet to find a place in California that serves it the "right" way,) you can also add shredded ginger for an extra kick and it's best served over white rice. Although I've experimented with it and udon/soba/ramen works just as well (: It's a very simple dish if you need something warm and spicy and protein-packed during the winter. Also grea…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 04:12 AM
1

Had a chaotic week last week so was eating out a lot. This week I've been pretty good with eating vegetable stir-frys and made mapo tofu yesterday (added mushroom and chinese eggplant for extra substance). Looking forward to making egg tarts this week as a Valentine's Day treat for my SO. (:
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 12:15 AM
2

My SO is about 8 years older than me (I, 21 and him, 28 going on 29). It's not a HUGE difference, but there are conflicts that arise from a maturity gap. Obviously he's at a different place mentally than I am as a young college junior. As long as there's a mutual understanding that those kinds of issues are going to crop up, I don't see why it couldn't work out. I'd say it's even a good thing if you let your captain guide you through what he's already no doubt experienced at your age (if you've …
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 06:45 PM
2

I'm reminded of a video by Gavin Mcinnes in which he talks about the 1-10 scale, and how celebrities measure up to the average person on it. It's a bit crude, but I'll link it if you're curious. https://youtu.be/Cr1caAuCEnM
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 06:34 PM
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Being submissive with a little sass is close to the right balance, which is what you've probably discovered. You don't want to be overly sassy, but you don't want to be overly sheepish either.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 05:50 PM
1

This is such a great idea! Putting our flaws into words might be a good self-reflection moment. Procrastination: especially as a student this is a big one. I keep thinking I can get away with it because I get good grades, but I can't keep it up forever. Body fat: also a fairly small/skinny human being with low BMI but stomach flab is something I've always struggled with. Need to put some effort into it. Confrontation is scary: I've always been deathly terrified of people who yell/get really angr…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 05:01 AM
2

No problem! I hope you two have a fantastic Valentine's Day. (:
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 05:07 AM
1

Unfortunately I don't. I don't believe she linked it in her post.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 05:55 PM
1

I'm afraid I just don't agree with you. I get why you might think that way, but agree to disagree.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 05:38 PM
1

I just don't see BC pill being the solution, personally. It would be harmful to have a bunch of women walking around that can't afford medical care regularly on BC due to the averse effects associated with the pill (blood clots, depression, hormonal imbalances.)
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 04:01 PM
2

You might be right. I highly doubt she's an extremist with ties to Isis organizing campaigns in broad daylight, as articles have claimed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 03:57 PM
1

He's basically Chad. That shouldn't surprise anyone here. I don't think making an off-handed comment in a private conversation with "the boys" is akin to advocating for something.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 03:45 PM
2

Yep. The March is gospel in my circle too.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 05:33 AM
2

Like I said, if they're going to date low-value men like that, reproductive safety nets aren't probably much of concern...Besides that, those women would probably be catching STD's left and right from men that refuse to wrap it up.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 11:11 PM
1

We're probably going to see Fifty Shades Darker for a good laugh lol. Other than that maybe dinner at a restaurant? Or at home would be nice too. He makes the best steaks and I make pretty good American side dishes.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 09:25 PM
2

Actually, the male contraceptive test was halted because not only were male participants becoming depressed (one even offed himself, even though it was deemed unrelated), some of the men were not recovering fertility. I would consider that pretty dangerous. http://edition.cnn.com/2016/10/30/health/male-birth-control/
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 08:53 PM
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The problem is that quite a few women in the U.S. rightly feel that problems being presented in the march don't exist in this country. It doesn't make the march invalid, by any sense, but there are legitimate criticisms to be made for it, and that's what /u/vajeni was referring to.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 08:49 PM
2

That's a lovely idea as well. (: Nothing says loving, supportive GF than home-made cookies.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 08:15 PM
2

Weren't they piggy-backing off of U.S. issues? Cheerleading, in a sense? I'm just curious if there were countries like Iran marching for their own local issues.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 08:14 PM
1

I think it'd be better to have subsidized condoms, if anything. At least condoms have the added bonus of preventing STD's. If men are refusing to wear them and women are going along with it, they probably weren't going to use the pill anyway. You can't cure stupid with BC. In the big picture sense, yes, there should be some easy to access form of BC, but it doesn't need to be/shouldn't be the pill. I'd gladly pay into a system that helps adults get access to free condoms.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 08:12 PM
3

Are you referring to this article? https://medium.com/@dinachka82/about-your-poem-1f26a7585a6f#.3egt2vuyn I was utterly disgusted upon reading it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 08:07 PM
3

One of the problems with ACA as a plan is that people were being charged outrageous fees for not having issurance. Also universal healthcare is great in theory, as another person mentioned, but the problem becomes that most universal health care systems are mediocre at best, and people that can afford better treatment will seek it elsewhere.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 08:05 PM
4

Thank god we live in the time of Skype. My SO and I have spent anniversaries apart due to distance, but we always make it a point to celebrate the best we can! There are things you can do together on a special day such as screenshare movies or TV shows that you'd like to watch together. You can also have some intimate times over video call (or regular voice call, if that's better for you.) I particularly enjoy sharing a meal together over skype, because I feel like that's just a normal date kind…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 08:39 AM
4

What about this particular march was global? I'm genuinely curious.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 06:35 AM
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I can understand your frustration. I haven't personally seen the anti-Arab rhetoric, but I don't doubt there is some. However, I don't think the above poster was referring to Muslims as bad people, rather that Sharia is bad, and typically non-Muslims don't advocate for Sharia (although western white feminists have been doing so lately.)
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 03:17 AM
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Advocating for Sharia Law doesn't exactly make her an upstanding individual
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 02:14 AM
10

It's just kind of convoluted when they say it's a womens' march, but it's also an anti-Trump march? Even though Trump isn't some great enemy to women like they claim. Seems like most people are just going with it because it's exciting.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 11:30 PM
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From what I could gather the march was primarily about reproductive rights/birth control? I get that those things are important to most women (including myself), but: 1) the pill doesn't need to be free, use a condom 2) Trump doesn't care about abortion; he many times said leave it to the states. Abortions also aren't a right, nor is easy access to them. If a woman wants an abortion, I have no qualms with that, but what I do have a problem with is demanding that there should be more clinics that…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 10:54 PM
1

I hope it helps with this whole confusing thing called female friendship (: I know how difficult it can be.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 03:12 AM
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I don't think that's necessarily a problem unless they outright make a move on your SO. I honestly see it as a challenge in some ways when I see my friends might be attracted to my SO. It just gives me another reason to strive to be the most high-value woman in the group. You might be expecting too much from your companions. If you bring a high-value man around, women are going to get tingles; it's inevitable. It's just up to you to decide what crosses the line i.e. flirting, physical touch, etc…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 08:55 PM
2

I think it depends on your overall appearance. For extremely pale individuals (like myself) blonde hair is the way to go, because darker colors can make a pale person look frigid and unapproachable. On a more tan individual blonde hair may look a bit out of place. There's also factors like face shape, body shape, etc to take into consideration. Blonde hair isn't a good match for everyone, but I'm sure there is some degree of preference by men for warmer tones, especially reds.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 08:47 PM
4

Oh a college LDR! I'm in that same boat. It's nice to see another junior in college that it's in a committed LDR. (:
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 08:39 PM
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I definitely believe there's some kind of aura women in loving, committed relationships give off. I think you hit the nail on the head there.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 08:29 AM
1

Of course! Good luck to you, and I hope you learn a lot from this sub (:
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 11:12 PM
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Welcome! It's very easy to default to the programming your parents set for you, but I assure you breaking those "masculine" habits is worthwhile! (: however, I don't think there's anything inherently unfeminine about those things that you mention (i.e. ambition, humor, etc.) You can have all those traits as well because they're better for you in the long run, but bare in mind that those are things men tend to overlook in the dating world.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 09:05 PM
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That doesn't seem unreasonable. You have a certain set of expectations for your partner, and one such expectation is low n-count. The problem here might be your vetting process. Have you known his sexual history all along or has it just been revealed to you?
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 06:33 AM
2

In general, I caution against picking up men at bars.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 06:16 AM
3

I personally think Tinder for any reason is a bad idea, although others may disagree. I realize it's marketed as being something different now, but the demographic using the app is mostly the same. The only bonus of using Tinder is plausible deniability. Girls can sleep around and get free dinner dates using the app but claim, "I really was looking for a relationship. Tinder is different now." That is just my feelings on the subject, in a nutshell. I could really write a whole dissertation on Ti…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 12:03 AM
5

Good to see another college-age poster (: I've personally been in an LTR for awhile, but I can give you what I know based on what I've seen from colleagues and friends. The best thing you can do is fully utilize your free time to better yourself. In college you should have a considerable amount of free time assuming you're not working as well. Take that time to hit the gym, experiment with make-up and wardrobe, meet people, take interesting classes that you can learn a skill from (ie cooking, sa…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 10:29 PM
2

Definitely agree with watch and learn from your peers
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 10:14 PM
2

Well then the question is can you be yourself while also contributing to the conversation? You might naturally be a quiet person, but I wouldn't call sitting back and watching "being yourself," because you aren't effectively contributing any part of yourself to the conversation. You don't need to be loud or outspoken to do that. Perhaps it is a self-confidence issue, in which case you won't find answers in social settings. If anything, monk mode is the way to go if you're second-guessing yoursel…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 09:21 PM
3

I think it depends on what you mean by "confidence" in this case. Do you mean being confident in yourself to the extent that you're comfortable being alone, or the confidence to go out and pursue friendships/relationships--i.e. being an extrovert? I think you're leaning towards the latter, but the problem is you might not be an outgoing, extroverted person and you don't need to be. I guess I'm not quite sure what your goals are for social interaction so that makes things difficult. You might be …
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 06:05 PM
1

I'm never on Reddit when these crazies post :/ too bad SO and I are pretty excited to get our Youtube channel up and going. We even put together a DIY green screen for it. A few colleagues and I have also set up the local GOP chapter for my university, so I'm looking forward to making it great. (:
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 05:08 PM
1

I had almost forgotten that name (almost), but I'm glad to see we've all moved forward in our own ways. It seems the majority of us are doing well, or are certainly on the right track. That's a relief considering the women here will be raising the next generation.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 03:48 AM
1

Bought my SO a sous vide for Christmas, and we both loooove it! Struggling to get vegetables cooked all the way through though without leaving it in the pot for hours and hours. Anyone have sous vide tips? Much appreciated. (:
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 05:45 PM
1

I was that exceptionally reclusive/chubby nerd that people never talked to but when test-taking time rolled around suddenly everyone was my "friend." Guys never gave me the time of day. It wasn't until I finally lost a lot of the baby weight senior year or so that men started approaching me. Especially being in the anime/gaming community, the petite girl with huge boobs and a baby face is a popular trope. I guess I could consider myself RP'd now, and I do partly owe that to my ugly duckling phas…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 04:35 AM
2

Those look so lovely!
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/16 06:53 AM
1

Nothing wrong with that. (: Those are the best kind of gifts and opening when you really need them is the best
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/16 06:48 AM
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We aren't obligated to have children because we live in a first-world country. That kind of mindset is how we get families of six on welfare. You're placing a lot of emphasis on the fact that Americans have privilege and entitlement, and thus should do X, Y, and Z. I completely disagree with that sentiment. That places far too much moral judgement on the individual who simply wants to exercise their own agency. And while a man that wants to abort might not be father material right now, doesn't m…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 08:53 PM
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It's no doubt a difficult discussion to have, and people will no doubt change their plans once shit hits the fan. But I don't see it being possible to stay with someone that has a different view on abortion from the get-go.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 08:30 PM
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I think this is one of those fundamental discussions everyone should have with their SO before the fact (in this case, before any pregnancies happen.) I personally would abort at this time, but I know it would be emotionally difficult to do so.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 10:28 AM
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I honestly can't think of any lol. You may be right about that. Although I think there's some mutual reinforcement there. It's more of "I like this thing and this guy also likes this thing so we're probably a good match." All of my hobbies I had before my current SO are reinforced by my SO that shares the same hobbies. I think the amount of women that are really into something just because their SO is is very marginal.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 10:48 PM
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Did you cuddle all those times and he didn't make a move? Because I can only assume he either was getting it elsewhere or he just wasn't that into you afterall.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 10:44 PM
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Seems like a tough situation :( hopefully your friends can find it in themselves to accept you for who you are. (:
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 10:26 PM
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1)You should always be yourself. If others don't like what that entails then they were't friends to begin with. I wasn't trying to suggest being a different person, sorry if my phrasing might came off that way. 2) Is your husband good at making friends? Maybe you could make friend-making a team effort? I'm sure you'd find many like-minded people if you search for people in stable relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 09:34 PM
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Yeah I think his humor is too crude for a lot of people lol
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 09:26 PM
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Wow that sucks :( I didn't know he had a book tbh. I'm going to look it up thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 09:25 PM
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I'd say a good percentage of them IME, with the exception of widows and rape victims. Granted I grew up in a single mother household and she works in an industry with an unbelievable amount of other single mothers, so my perceptions may be skewed. The problem with arguing that she was "in a committed, long-term relationship" is that there are shitty committed, long-term relationships. A couple can be together for ten years with no visible problems, but that doesn't mean they should be. More impo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 04:36 PM
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You have to consider the men that propose because girlfriend kept hinting even though the relationship wasn't ready for it. Also men that that marry the girl despite having a shitty relationship, or just because the girl got knocked up. Not all marriages are created equal. Not all men are that cucked, of course, but considering the amount of failed marriages, I'd say it's not uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 04:14 PM
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I know a lot of people don't like him, but I personally think he's hilarious lol. An unapologetically masculine individual.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 03:59 PM
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Yeah you got a weird one there. Looks like whatever plan he had worked though.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 07:18 AM
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This might not be the most useful advice but my approach is to not take things too seriously. Yeah I'm conservative and love RPW, but I don't think everyone around me necessarily has to act or think the way I do. I might talk about those aspects of myself, but in an extremely light-hearted way. I know people want to come to me for advice because while I may say some very sensible things, everything is a joke to me. A lot of times they actually do end up taking my advice because while it might be…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 01:40 AM
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There's nothing wrong with it. (: If you are young and beautiful, you should take pride in it. But I also hope you recognize some of your wonderful intrinsic values.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 06:07 AM
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I'm still very young, so I do derive some of my self-worth from my looks, but there are other aspects. Fertility is also a big part of what I perceive my value to be, oddly enough. Intrinsically speaking, women have a lot to offer. Women are kind and nurturing by nature, and those are wonderful qualities; I'm sure society agrees. Women are also have an inherent social intelligence that men lack unless they actively train their minds for it. These are mostly stereotypes, of course, but I personal…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 09:44 PM
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I personally don't agree with this. If the attraction is real you should know immediately that you've crossed beyond the boundaries of platonic friendships. Entirely anectdotal, but I knew my SO wasn't going to be just my friend the second I met him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 09:54 AM
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Why are we dictating how men should act? That seems like a useless exercise unless you're saying men shouldn't murder or steal, but that also applies to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 09:47 AM
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Monogamy is definitely a social construct. I agree with that; however, I don't understand this mindset of "we need to one-up men." It's not a competition. A lot of men may like polygamy, but that doesn't mean an equal amount of women need to like it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 09:38 AM
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I don't know that I agree with this "favorite" perspective. Of course whoever you're committed to is your "favorite," but there's the inevitability that a person's needs will change over time. I'm sure the second guy was the favorite too until she met the third guy, and then the fourth, and then the fifth. It's just like kid that thinks his/her new toy is the best until they get the newest best toy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 09:15 AM
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You kind of made the same post a couple days ago. No, you shouldn't sleep around to "gain experience." Your friends probably haven't gained anything from sleeping with 10+ guys except maybe they can suck dick a little better. If you REALLY want something useful to do that can translate to the bedroom try yoga, gymnastics, pole-dancing class. For most men obtaining a virgin is a conquest, it has been that way for centuries, so forget the peer pressure for a second and think logically.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 06:45 PM
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The prettiest (:
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 04:44 PM
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Same, OP, I looooove East Asian men. I generally prefer short hair unless they can pull off longish hair. Facial hair is also great, but not to the extent of beard. Skinny-fit with glasses is the best. Personality-wise I really love nerds/intellectuals, because they can understand and participate in my lifestyle. My SO fits the above description pretty well, minus the glasses. If I had to cite my ideal type right now in celebrity terms it'd be Kang ha-neul (kdrama star).
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 04:16 AM
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You've made a good point as well. I hadn't considered that she might still be radfem and thus throw the term privilege around. If she's the one calling him privileged all the time, then it only makes sense that he would lash out like that.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/16 07:20 PM
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I almost thought I was reading my own story in your post lol. Glad we both found this sub. (:
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/16 05:17 AM
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I'm going to have to disagree with it not being a personal attack. There is a negative intention when someone makes a statement like "you are x, therefore priviliged, and ignorant as y." At that point I don't even see how it could be a conversation or healthy debate. It's not even a constructive criticism because what is the solution implied here, for her to stop being attractive? Or stop being a woman? No solution is offered in that statement, and it comes off as something a bitter beta would s…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/16 04:51 AM
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Fair enough. All claims to privilege are superficial in nature.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/16 04:34 AM
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Glad to see a teacher here (:
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/16 11:10 PM
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I'd like to assume that most women on this subreddit feel that way, including myself. Like another commenter mentioned I don't think I could be a SAHM unless I felt my family really required me to do so, but I completely respect the choice to become a SAHM. To me preparing the next generations for the real world through teaching is equally as valuable as homemaking. Then again teaching is also a traditionally feminine occupation.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/16 05:23 PM
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It's definitely something you can choose. Othewise there wouldn't be so many atheists now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 05:06 PM
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I'm sure there's a good amount of women that use their vaginas to climb the corporate ladder, and that's a shame. Again, I don't think that was a whopping 90% of her campaign. Being a career politician, being liberal, being well-educated, being anti-Trump, being backed by Bernie, and more, all these only account for 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 09:02 AM
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If he really makes unprovoked personal attacks at you, then he's not the kind of guy you want to continue pursuing, assuming this is the full story. And just in general anyone that tries to attack you for having "privilege" based on some superficial aspect of your person is not the kind of person you want to associate with.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/16 06:39 AM
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I never said allow. Moreso that men have the courage and leeway to be men again. Brash, rough, rude, unapologetically men. Those aspects that distinguish men from the fairer sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 10:14 PM
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I sincerely doubt that most 40 or 50 yr old women have the same amount of options as most of their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 10:12 PM
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Angst isn't age-exclusive. I concede to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 10:10 PM
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1) Yes more women can and should pay for second and third dates (see below). 2) If he "forgot his wallet," there would be no second date. Bs is bs no matter how attractive he may be. Splitting the check is entirely reasonable for a first date, however. 3) I've personally not paid for a first date (only had one first date with a man), but I wouldn't be against paying for a first date. I, however, do very much respect a man who "takes the lead" in that sense, and would most likely pursue him over …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 10:08 PM
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It was all good until you started using words like misogynist and bigoted to describe something you clearly don't like. I also agree that a lot of men go into TRP and get completely absorbed by it without critically thinking about their words and actions; however, the same can be said for BP'ers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 09:51 PM
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I voted for Trump, so I completely understand where you're coming from, but your argument is rooted in your feelings. Objectively speaking, half the electorate didn't vote for Hillary just because she is a woman. There are a number of contributing factors such as anti-Trump sentiment, leftist ideology, etc. You using that kind of strawman is equally as counterproductive as those leftists that suggest that all Trump supporters are racist. The only other critique I have is that you really seem to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 09:41 PM
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It depends on how you define "successful." I'd say the RP men I know are more likely to have successful long-term relationships without the possibility of the girl cheating or leaving for another man. The BP men get sex and hook-ups, sure, but their relationships are always an embarassment. In this case I consider success to be LTR, so my opinion is skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 09:11 PM
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That's just objectively not true considering a huge part of a woman's value lies in her fertility. A woman can still have kids post-wall but the pregnancy risk just increases as the years go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 09:06 PM
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You mean like a majority of men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 09:03 PM
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Wanting is inherently selfish. It has nothing to do with the reality around a person, only what one seflishly desires. Not saying having desires are wrong, but the fall under "selfish reasons." Belief is also entirely within one's agency, so yes abortion might be against a woman's belief, but she chooses what to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 08:50 PM
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I can see why you'd get that impression. I read TRP subreddit on the regular and most posts are from angsty young men who are struggling to find their way. You can really compare it to any ideology in which the tenets of the ideology don't reflect well on its followers. You can cite any ideology having a similar outcome, like socialism or feminism. My problem with your post is that you fail to recognize the basic stages of TRP, in which the first or second step (can't recall which) is the anger …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 08:41 PM
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It's not so much a matter of dealing with it or not. I just accept it. We don't typically hang out with groups of friends unless it's a special occasion in which case most people are willing to put their differences aside. If they couldn't even manage that much, I would probably dump those friends.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/16 01:05 AM
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I'm in a similar position as you. I've never been the type that naturally makes friends. I can keep friendships, but not very successful at making them. What I find to be useful is that the smallest interactions help to maintain relationships. For example, I spend a lot of time online and when I find something potentially funny or useful that a specific friend would like, I send it to them. It's the little things like "hey this made me think of you." It also doesn't hurt to invite them out to do…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/16 09:36 PM
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I don't believe you should be weary of his age necessarily. As long as you can vet a man properly, age shouldn't really be an issue. (unless he's specifically made odd comments about your age.) I've not personally met anyone through Tinder, but I wish you luck. Read the useful articles and threads on the sidebar and enjoy your date!
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/16 07:46 PM
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Yes I'm grateful! ^
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/16 04:41 AM
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Likewise! (:
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/16 04:37 AM
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I can't really say I started on the right footing. My SO really helped steer me in the right direction when I started falling into the feminism trap. ; I'm glad this subreddit exists for all the young women that are lost and confused.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/16 10:51 PM
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Hi! Kind of a lurker. I'm 21, my captain is 28 together little over three years. I think this sub has really helped our relationship become much stronger, and I'm really grateful for it. It brings me an immense amount of joy to see how happy my SO is when I do small things for him like cooking a nice meal or folding his laundry. We don't live together yet, but I hope utilizing the skills I've learned here will make our cohabitation go much smoother when we eventually decide it's time to take tha…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/16 09:25 PM
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Yeah that's the calculator I use. I have 10 lbs before I'm underweight which is a lot if you think about. Even on the regular BMI scale I'm in healthy range.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/16 07:16 PM
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While I sincerely appreciate your concern, the last time I checked I was not underweight. I've also been to the doctor plenty of times and they've shown no concern for my weight. I am by no means anorexic. I'm not quite sure why you've jumped to that conclusion. As you mentioned in the post, in perhaps different wording, every body is different and the scale/BMI doesn't always apply equally to all body types. I apologize if it seemed as though I was asking for advice on harming myself, but that'…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/16 01:14 AM
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Thank you that is some very helpful advice. No matter what the scale might say I definitely have some unnecessary fluff because 0 muscle definition. Getting toned should help me reach my goals more than anything.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/16 01:09 AM
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Do you think there's such a thing as a plateau? I'm 5'1 105 lbs and without exercise I don't think it'd be possible to get under 100. I guess I mean do you think there's a limit to how much you can lose with diet alone as opposed to diet and exercise?
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 11:28 PM
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I think it's good to keep an open-mind and consider men outside your own race, but it's also important to consider cultural incompatibilities as many have mentioned. For my SO and I we are culturally morning and night. He is Chinese and I'm mixed white/hispanic. I love celebrating holidays/ he generally never celebrated western holidays or birthdays until we started dating. I'm very vocal about my affection and say "I love you" A LOT/ he doesn't believe in using such an important word for every …
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 12:53 AM
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I think in your case it's important to keep in mind that degree=\=intelligence. You don't have to go to school to learn. While it is important to stay healthy and fit, as well as maintain your feminine hobbies, you shouldn't let your mental endeavors be lacking. Seeing as you're a SAHM it would be beneficial to add reading to your list of free time activities. Find intellectually stimulating books or even e-books to spark inspiration for conversation starters you can have with your SO. Tell him …
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/16 08:41 AM
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My bf first introduced it to me. I was way more "feminist" at the time, essentially brainwashed. I was really shocked by what I read on the sub. The users seemed unapologetically crass and cruel, which are still things that shock me, but I've learned to except that men just talk like that. I found RPW to be a breath of fresh air in terms of delicacy with wording. I'm glad I'm at least slightly more self-aware after reading a lot of the material, but there's plenty of room for self-improvement.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 09:02 AM
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I was raised by a single mom so I always dreamed of having a happy intact family of my own. Never thought that would be possible for me, but I'm glad I'm mostly over the feminist brainwashing. I'd like to eventually settle down with my SO at whatever pace he feels is best. I'm in no rush at this age. I'm working towards becoming a teacher currently. I feel like it's the best career for someone that doesn't necessarily want to be a SAHM, but also wants time for husband and children. Having the su…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 11:45 PM
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I've personally never tried these remedies. I also have stretch marks, but I stay very pale and they are mostly unnoticeable. Some well known remedies are olive oil, aloe vera, cocoa butter is very popular. There's also skin rejuvenating foods and supplements you can try. If all else fails, you can always save up some money for laser and be done with those marks. I'm sure your boyfriend has his preferances, but all men appreciate having a woman that dolls up for them every now and then. Even if …
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/16 11:28 PM
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The thing about fear is that we often subconsciously do everything in our power to make our fears a reality. By allowing the fear of losing your boyfriend to take over, you are pushing him away. The only thing you can do to keep him happy is to better yourself. Do you use make-up? Do you dress for your body? Have you considered working out those areas that sag? There are many remedies to stretch marks that don't call for laser or anything drastic. Most importantly your mindset is weighing you do…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/16 10:24 PM
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I feel this way a lot of the time as well, but when he's already giving you a lot of his time it's important to recognize that. What I've been trying to do is dedicate more and more time to my hobbies and interests. Sure I'd rather have that time with my SO, but I'm learning to feel less and less clingy every day. I hope you can find renewed interest in your own hobbies as well or pick up a new hobby. Good luck to you! (:
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/16 06:47 AM
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Good luck to you! I also suffer from digestive problems so I sympathize. I hope you make a full recovery!
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 10:06 AM
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