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Technique: get her drunk
/r/seduction18/10/19 07:12 PM
16

It's true that supply and demand controls the market but it's not the only way to power. Having multiple partners is just one way to show your commodity. I personally like to treat sex as a nice to have but not a necessity. In other words I control my desires for sex and I'm ready to walk away from it at any moment if it becomes a bargaining tool. I also sometimes like to reject my woman from sex if I feel she hasn't been behaving well. If she asks for dick and I feel she hasn't deserved it I'll…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 07:18 AM
3

Great advice. What is she gonna do? Potentially lose all the investment she put into you in order to go for a new guy she knows nothing about. Nah.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 05:26 AM
-2

5x5 just gives you strength in the bigger muscles. So if you're a fat duck it's just going to make you a fatter fuck. You should aim to hit as many muscles groups as possible to really spur your calorie burning.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 03:43 AM
2

Can't believe people are upvoting this. Using technology to manipulate people... Is this what this sub has come to?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 01:14 AM
0

Yeah that's what I thought.
/r/seduction20/06/18 11:31 PM
2

I swear to god sometimes this channel gets so fucking salty and one dimensional. If you say anything remotely not positive towards getting pussy you are seen as someone trying to make "excuses". If you took two seconds to think before knee jerk reacting, you would realise it I was just pointing out a fact about the phsychi of a type of personality. I said nothing about making excuses.
/r/seduction20/06/18 12:57 PM
29

Except If you're an introvert that afternoon of mild disappointment becomes a 3 hour essay in your head when you're trying to go to bed.
/r/seduction20/06/18 10:19 AM
6

Why?
/r/seduction10/06/18 02:31 PM
2

Yeah instead pursue find that will attract girls? That's still pursuing girls.
/r/seduction07/06/18 07:50 AM
106

It's like bill burr says, girls just can't have their own shit. They throw a tantrum until they get included in whatever activity that men are doing and then ruin it from the inside.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 12:12 AM
2

I appreciate this. I've recently broken more than half of these rules and have been extremely attached to someone. This was a refreshing slap of a reminder to get out of my funk!
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 07:44 AM
-8

Because in the latter, you are conceding to her power... Or so it would seem to her. I think op said it the way he did to illustrate that you are also breaking up as well and not just accepting the reality of her break up.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 06:47 AM
3

Yeah... I'm talking about the online version.
/r/seduction11/12/16 12:13 AM
6

Picking her up on first date is not anything bad. I usually wouldn't offer it unless I'M sure i like her. There are cons to it but It has worked out for me in the past.
/r/seduction10/12/16 11:55 PM
1

Talked for 5 hours straight and had good chemistry from the start. I left and didnt ask for her number. Yeah.... Most people don't stick around for 5 hours to talk to someone they just met. Ofcourse she is interested in you if she participated for that long. You obviously intrigued the woman by NOT asking for her number even though you're a dummy for not taking the initiative to get it in the first place. A different girl might have thought you're just not interested or have a gf or even gay. So…
/r/seduction01/10/16 11:21 AM
2

It sounds like in your fwb situation you got comfortable and lost your edge. This could also be why that relationship ended. You may have lost sight of who you are. I think it would be best if you just concentrate on yourself right now. Hit the gym, try new hobbies, read self help books etc. Just forget about females until you get back your mojo.
/r/seduction01/10/16 10:51 AM
1

Good luck with that mate... You're never gonna get a call back from quality women using this 'technique'. Even if they love your guts they probably won't contact you first simply out of the sheer risk that they get rejected... And no woman can handle that.
/r/seduction01/10/16 10:41 AM
1

The point is op was romantically attracted to the girl. He could say he is just doing it to learn or what not but it still doesn't change the fact that he is sexually charged for her but she won't let him have it. Even if he's going to stick around her to meet her friends he is still dependent on her to meet someone which is not an alpha trait. Why not simply try to meet new women on his own? That way he will learn how to actually attract girls all by himself. Also if the girl is of a certain ty…
/r/seduction10/07/16 01:21 PM
3

They complain about that because the guys approaching them are not the type of guys they want to be approached by.
/r/seduction10/07/16 08:20 AM
-1

In other words become an orbiter.
/r/seduction10/07/16 08:19 AM
3

Beautifully said. I tell this to girls and usually it flicks a switch in their heads.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 08:13 AM
1

Or... You could just have an original thought. The key is to compliment on things she has control over e.g. sense of humour, body language, conscious mannerism etc. not things she was born with or she didn't not acquire herself e.g. eyes or smile.
/r/seduction28/06/16 12:19 PM
1

It consists of a lot of try and fail. The important thing is not to give up. Take baby steps. Dopamine is a drug just like nicotine and you are suffering from addiction.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 10:51 AM
7

She takes half as per her training.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 09:13 AM
1

Are you me? I'm in the same boat. I have this struggle between not having friends and yearning to change that and not actually wanting friends due to my introvertedness.
/r/seduction25/01/16 12:27 PM
3

This is the correct answer. It's all about self esteem issues that these whales have which they have to over compensate for by rejecting someone that is out of their league. Secondly it is to secure their status within their clique by showing their perceived worth. In the end they are screwing themselves over.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 05:39 AM
1

She wakes up, kicks me out, says she's sorry, we made a mistake. Sex with her made me like her more (right?) but I was a little hurt by her abrupt change in feelings. I text her later that night, asking to meet up. A long conversation later, we agree to date romantically, but she was pretty insistent it not be sexually exclusive. I guessed that meant she doesn't like monogamy and I was hesitant but also intrigued. I didn't know you needed to have a long conversation to date someone. Sounds like …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 12:22 AM
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Don't go to them... If you do go then make sure it has a courtyard or somewhere away from the music where people go to talk. I would not recommend approaching a girl if there is loud music because you have no choice but to come across as clingy due to the proximity you need to maintain. It is also an environment that has limited or very predictable conversation starters that every other guy has already used. Personally I prefer to play it cool so clubs are not my scene.
/r/seduction24/07/15 08:03 AM
11

Neva
/r/seduction20/05/15 08:25 AM
6

I banged her don't bang her
/r/seduction15/05/15 11:47 AM
-17

That wasn't ballsy.. It was just plain sleazy. There was very little humour in that text for it to come off as a joke and the girl sounds like a crazy lunatic slut what with the hiking first date trip.
/r/seduction06/04/15 11:58 AM
4

Because the weather dictates a murderer's killing patterns... "Oh it's just a splendid day today I think I'll put away my axe"
/r/seduction06/04/15 11:55 AM
11

Found the murderer
/r/seduction06/04/15 11:53 AM
5

OP thought we didn't catch that part. Subliminal messages... Niga please.
/r/seduction06/04/15 11:52 AM
1

It's great that you have found friends that genuinely have your back but I feel like eventually those people will let you down. Every man has his selling price and as soon as they discover that price you will be seconded. I hope it's not true.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 11:43 AM
1

Yeah but the problem is I know why they are bearing the gifts. They are doing it to gain something for themselves so it's not genuine. What's the point of having a life like that? Its like a celebrity who is only popular because of his fame. I simply cannot look past the fakeness of it all. I want something real or nothing at all.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 11:39 AM
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This is what I feel like is the real redpill. Humans in general are fucked up and most will leave you in the lurch at your worst hour but come to you bearing gifts when the world is at your feet. I think society has lost meaning in words such as integrity, honour, and standing by your words/promises. Everybody is looking out for #1 and fuck everyone else.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 08:19 AM
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True but if you don't know why it's working then you're just a trickster that copied a bunch of moves from the internet. There's nothing about it that improves who you are. Everyone can be creative so why don't we come up with our own moves WHEN we are ready? Rather than the bullshit "fake it till you make it motto" that everyone seems to be falling for these days.
/r/seduction26/03/15 08:40 AM
4

what else are you doing besides carving our name in a tree This is too korny so early on. It's better to take it easy at first to at least show her you're normal in the head before dropping lines like that. She could simply take that as "this guy is clingy"
/r/seduction23/03/15 11:07 PM
1

Yeah this is what I always do. Playing pool afterwards or going for a walk is great.
/r/seduction05/02/15 08:31 AM
1

You gotta be pretty pathetic and immature to get bent up about losing in something. I like competition but it's just silly to cry about it. I say KEEP going on dates like this so you can dodge the shitty bullets on first date.
/r/seduction05/02/15 08:28 AM
18

Sit next to that cute guy
/r/seduction21/01/15 12:01 AM
3

THEY TRIED TO KILL MY WIFE
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 02:52 AM
-1

The entire article was rubbish apart from these questions.
/r/seduction11/01/15 03:06 AM
10

That's pretty accurate but read some of the comments in this post and you'll see the red pill bleeding into this sub.
/r/seduction28/12/14 03:05 AM
0

Lol you know you have the option of joining more than one sub right. The majority of guys I'm talking about here are probably subscribed to /r/redpill as well as /r/seduction
/r/seduction28/12/14 02:42 AM
2

You're a disgrace to this community. I can already tell that /u/blueredgreenorage is a far stronger person than you. How often can you claim that today I overpowered my carnal desires because I'm a man of principles? Not many of us can. It takes extreme control and confidence to do this. You're letting pussy run you so you are a slave to it.
/r/seduction28/12/14 01:08 AM
9

Do you really want a woman that ditches her long term partner for a guy she just met and currently finds pleasing? Ofcourse you do, because you're only interested in superficial qualities. But let's flip the sexes, now the girl is your best guy friend and he decided to stab you in the back to get a girl he has been chasing. It's the same thing. Would you accept someone with low character?
/r/seduction28/12/14 12:58 AM
8

Your gf lost out on a great guy and will probably end up settling for a guy that does actually cheat and treat her like shit because that guy would be cunning enough to quell suspicion. This is the sad part.
/r/seduction28/12/14 12:53 AM
6

Most guys here make seduction into one thing: putting your piece of flesh into another persons crease of flesh, by any means necessary. That's what it boils down to. All moral principles go out the window.
/r/seduction28/12/14 12:50 AM
1

Then you need to be your best self. Everyone is capable of magic it's just that certain things in life make you dull. Sharpen yourself.
/r/seduction23/12/14 11:27 PM
9

Yes I agree. I personally approach it from a different perspective, that being - is the girl someone I'm interested in taking out? Rather than can I impress the girl enough to get her number/root etc
/r/seduction23/12/14 02:29 AM
5

I'd say a majority of the people on this sub aren't confident enough to create their own material. As true as this is, there are probably underlying causes for their lack of confidence and they should work on fixing those issues rather than slapping a temporary Band-Aid on it. These cheat sheets may work in the short term but what happens when they meet up with the girl? They will probably bomb hard anyway because they were relying on the pick up lines to get them through and aren't ready to go …
/r/seduction23/12/14 02:24 AM
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These are just canned and korny lines that are mildly fuuny the first time you hear it. I hate posts like this because it just teaches guys to copy and regurgitate material they heard on the internet. This is the reason this sub gets a bad rep. Just be yourself and use your own sense of humour to generate laughter. Also not everyone is going to find this stuff amusing... Everyone is different.
/r/seduction22/12/14 10:37 PM
0

Anyone else think of GTA?
/r/seduction31/08/14 02:00 PM
3

Why don't you suck mine and I'll tell you
/r/seduction30/08/14 10:02 AM
4

That macho try hard look puts you down. Shirtless pics are also a big douche barometer IMO. The last photo is ok.
/r/seduction30/08/14 03:16 AM
2

Wth is an amog?
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:38 AM
1

Pfft everyone knows the best way to cook a baby is in a stew with a couple of taters. Don't even think about dropping a lotr quote.
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:37 AM
1

Nice try T2
/r/seduction23/07/14 10:55 PM
0

It's things like this that makes this community look bad. I mean not the fact that you had a genuine great question to ask someone. What I mean is other guys will probably see this and one liners like these, go out and murder it. Soon enough a good thing is turned into a scripted saying that guys say to impress people. I think if you have a great line like this, keep it to yourself and let other guys come up with their own. That's what makes us all unique.
/r/seduction18/07/14 09:53 AM
4

Would have been amazing if you f closed and took a few of her bikes whole she slept and maybe a dog or two for interest (joking)
/r/seduction10/07/14 12:25 PM
3

Judging a book by its cover is obviously not effective and I guess with women this is something they have to do to effectively manage their time I.e. a guy with girls would have already passed certain qualifications which the observing girl would not have to waste time doing again so her investment would be more wise with that particular guy. This is also emphasised for the more attractive girls because they have so many options and have even less time to waste hence judging a book by the cover.…
/r/seduction18/06/14 01:16 PM
3

I think that there is no hard and fast rule. We live in a purely subjective world and you can't expect one thing to work on everyone. This whole seduction stuff is based on a foundation of adaption. It does however help you to understand why someone has a particular perspective (of which you gave several examples on). BTW I personally would not be particularly more interested in a book if someone recommended it, even if it's recommended by several people. I would however consider it and see if i…
/r/seduction18/06/14 12:44 PM
3

A more important question is why do men NOT react differently to a girl that is with a guy. We don't think of them as more so qualified just because there's a guy with them.
/r/seduction18/06/14 10:00 AM
3

Where/how did you meet her?
/r/seduction17/06/14 06:08 PM
6

Which ones the good looking one?
/r/seduction28/05/14 12:34 AM
2

Extroversion: quantity over quality. Introversion: quality over quantity. The trick for both types is to find a balance just like everything else in life.
/r/seduction25/05/14 05:12 AM
1

I think it's born of potential regret. That's the one thing that is feared by all humans.
/r/seduction22/05/14 10:46 PM
3

Nice try zuckerberg
/r/seduction04/05/14 07:05 AM
0

Newspapers ARE a form of technology. It doesn't have to be a gadget or electronics to be a 'technology'.
/r/seduction04/05/14 07:04 AM
97

Batteries
/r/seduction29/04/14 09:30 AM
18

Because this happens "Hi my name is John what's yours?" "Hi I'm Stacey" "Hi Stacey nice to meet you, I'm John"
/r/seduction28/04/14 10:15 AM
2

Relax man
/r/seduction15/04/14 09:20 AM
2

Dude... You have to include the author. Freaking amateur
/r/seduction09/04/14 05:36 AM
10

Speak for yourself. I'm taking full credit... Even though I didn't do anything
/r/seduction04/04/14 07:28 AM
1

That ending gave me shivers mate
/r/seduction04/04/14 07:26 AM
1

Fool of a took though
/r/seduction04/04/14 07:19 AM
410

Draw 2 circles Now draw the rest if the fucking owl
/r/seduction03/04/14 11:37 AM
4

Why is it then that hot girls are always around unattractive girls at clubs? Less competition for the hot girl in return for status for the fat girl if you ask me.
/r/seduction03/04/14 11:36 AM
1

I had to say hi for I am in love
/r/seduction18/03/14 08:04 AM
1

I think best rule of thumb with these things is if in the moment you FEEL that it is an appropriate thing to say because of the funny banter between you then it should be fine. You can't just pull they old "oh hey you're a wrinkly anorexic" out of no where. This is why PUA gets a bad rap because idiots pull random lines out like these and use them in the wrong contexts.
/r/seduction10/03/14 11:01 AM
38

Sincerely, your mother
/r/seduction23/02/14 04:38 AM
1

I was going to up vote you until I saw point number 6.
/r/seduction19/02/14 09:43 PM
1

Enemies? So your lesbian
/r/seduction19/02/14 09:40 PM
13

You could end up in jail for that shit. I'm sure there are better lines out there for e.g. "one time the zookeeper told me not to feed the animals, but I fed them anyway"
/r/seduction19/02/14 01:46 AM
1

While I don't think your long term goal should be just to get rejected, I think what you're describing is a great way to rid yourself of the fear in getting rejected. Since this is impossible through logical thought, it must be done through experience which is the thing that changes what your sub conscious finds fearful. Like the first roller coaster ride, it is extremely scary but after you realize that you survived, you start enjoying it and the fear turns into joy.
/r/seduction10/02/14 08:14 AM
0

That is the exact opposite of confidence. You cannot cheat your subconscious view of yourself with logic or lies.
/r/seduction09/02/14 01:36 AM
1

Yeah.. Those dudes took leadership by taking them to another bar
/r/seduction05/02/14 08:50 AM
1

Just remember you don't own or control the girl only your own emotions.
/r/seduction05/02/14 08:50 AM
6

Wow that's really manipulative. But yeah the guy was naive like op and fucked up by letting another guy into the bubble - literally.
/r/seduction05/02/14 08:48 AM
1

100% this. At one point I think he was wing manned by one of the two guys while his girl was outside with the other dude
/r/seduction05/02/14 08:45 AM
3

Party pooper? You make it sound like the only fun to be had was with those guys. You were having a great time with her before all that business
/r/seduction05/02/14 08:42 AM
7

Can you please chop your pony tail thing off?
/r/seduction29/01/14 07:02 AM
1

I didn't get the memo
/r/seduction28/01/14 02:03 PM
2

When she kissed you on the neck and said happy birthday.. What did that mean to you in your mind?
/r/seduction26/01/14 04:43 AM
10

I saw you looking at my post and yawn... Dinner?
/r/seduction24/01/14 12:01 AM
1

I vote for the slow drip method. Like you said it's more natural. We are humans after all and not robots. I think that along with the texting you should throw in a short call as well. I think girls have the same concern about not being able to have a continuous conversation in person. Giving her a call for like 10mins and having a smooth conversation will give her some hope/confidence for the actual date and reduce flaking.
/r/seduction23/01/14 01:37 AM
1

Yep I use the same approach with same results and later I'm glad I did. Give her another chance and I'm sure she won't do it again but if she does just break all communication.
/r/seduction21/01/14 07:31 AM
0

Absolutely agree with your last point of clearly cutting it off when they flake. Not having any of that shit! I usually do this when they take too long to reply to a message. I say "looks like you're not that interested. Should I delete your number?" After that they usually come up with an bs apology of how they were busy and the delay will stop after that.
/r/seduction21/01/14 07:29 AM
3

Ahh yes my mistake. Trojan was what I was thinking of
/r/seduction14/01/14 10:21 AM
-3

Magnum is just a brand. They have both large and small condoms.
/r/seduction14/01/14 10:01 AM
2

What was the Paul walker joke?
/r/seduction13/12/13 02:56 AM
11

3 messages in seems a bit superficial. I would rather communicate to her that I've actually judged her based on our messages rather than her looks which any girl could have. It makes you seem more selective.
/r/seduction13/12/13 12:38 AM
1

I don't know about that second pause on your example. In my head it feels retarded coming out. What about "...I think you look cute and [pause] I had to come meet you" Alternatively you could just elongate a word which would be the same as pausing "I think you look cute andddd i had to come meet you"
/r/seduction09/12/13 07:23 AM
1

I find texting useful to drop subtle yet direct messages (pun intended) of your motives to her using sexually oriented innuendos. Apps like whatsapp are really useful for playful banter.
/r/seduction29/11/13 05:09 AM
1

I think the text game doesn't have a long life time. The most crucial part of it is just after you meet the girl because she doesn't really know you and if you're relying on text then it needs to be extremely effective at enforcing the value you have already displayed to her. It's critical at this stage due to the lack of physical expression and body language.
/r/seduction29/11/13 02:53 AM
2

Honey moon?? That escalated quickly.
/r/seduction29/11/13 12:41 AM
2

What do you mean by "how to text at different stages"?
/r/seduction28/11/13 09:40 PM
5

that was like 10 bullet points man
/r/seduction07/11/13 07:50 AM
5

This is the best advice for life in general. I still have regrets that haunt me... But those times I tried and failed don't even matter.
/r/seduction25/10/13 07:52 AM
5

Shhhh Don't take this moment away from op.
/r/seduction25/10/13 07:49 AM
1

*admition
/r/seduction17/10/13 08:40 AM
-1

Which website did you order the baby from?
/r/seduction17/10/13 08:36 AM
-5

Well that's a bit shallow...
/r/seduction06/10/13 01:10 AM
1

You should join the /nofap community or do some research on this topic. When you wank, the chemicals that your brain releases is equivalent to a heroin addict. Ask yourself why it's so hard not to do it? If you don't want to do something and your body makes you do it anyway, then that is an addiction. Saying "why shouldn't I do it" is just an excuse that your brain uses to justify it. Why do you think boxers and other athletes stay away from sexual deeds before a performance? Just do some readin…
/r/seduction16/09/13 04:45 AM
-1

If you have to bite your fist to stop yourself then that means it is an addiction. A man that can control his addictions is more of a man and less a slave. Also, doing it after a workout is not a good idea because you're draining precious nutrients that would have been used for your fitness.
/r/seduction15/09/13 10:35 PM
1

A good movie that reveals the fallacy of this thinking is "revolver". Your perceived enemy is external but your actual enemy is internal.
/r/seduction28/08/13 09:38 AM
4

To most alpha means being a leader and taking charge of people. To me alpha means being your own leader and being in control of yourself.
/r/seduction28/08/13 09:36 AM
3

But if she stayed with you she may have regretted not chasing her dream. It's just one of those fateful things. Similar thing happened to me recently.
/r/seduction26/08/13 08:32 AM
4

The winky face was too much IMO. If i was her now I'd be thinking that there was some sort of agenda behind it.
/r/seduction25/08/13 02:36 PM
1

Aww I guess it's just me :(
/r/seduction19/08/13 12:51 PM
0

I love you :)
/r/seduction19/08/13 12:23 PM
1

As with anything you have to gauge where you are in the relationship - like the guy says in the post. Saying "i love you" in the first night isnt gonna go down well no matter how good the sex is. Its all about timing and momentum.
/r/seduction19/08/13 12:08 PM
1

If you can get hard for porn, you can get hard when a naked girl is in front of you. The whole post was full of gold except this thing.. hence r/nofap. Porn can make you less sensitive to real women.
/r/seduction19/08/13 12:05 PM
1

In the non virtual world, a woman that is being approached a lot will have her defences up but at least you can approach her and try to get her shield down. But online, If she is filtering it's not based on how your approach goes I.e. message/profile but solely on what picture you have set up and how much it appeals to her. So basically she doesn't even see your approach. Remember she doesn't have time to read every message she gets. Also it would take an investment of a few back and forth messa…
/r/seduction04/08/13 10:30 PM
3

It shows that women have more unrealistic expectations when they are looking online. The messages they reply to are from guys that are very good looking. I believe this is simply because of the sheer amount of availability they recieve from men (even if they aren't extremely attractive) and this distorts their value. As a result men aren't getting a decent chance to seduce the woman. Ofcourse this may not be true in all demographics but I find it to be true for my location.
/r/seduction04/08/13 03:18 PM
4

Well actually I had a great profile with interesting pics and I'm a good looking guy that works out so I'm at least a 7. Also my photos were getting an average rating of over 6.5 (on badoo) The problem is that the women get flooded with hundreds of messages a day so even the slightest thing can make them reject your message. They have to filter their over abundant inbox and because they have so much options it's easy for them to do so without putting much thought into it. I have had success onli…
/r/seduction04/08/13 03:02 PM
2

Women is already a fkn plural lol it's gotta be stalk
/r/seduction04/08/13 05:33 AM
7

say anything that comes to mind. That's pretty much like saying "be an extrovert". when people do small talk and act so interested whilst doing it, it seems so fake and acted.. Not to mention robotic. Can't stand it.
/r/seduction03/08/13 04:19 AM
41

An introverts worst nightmare: - hi how are you? - good yourself? - great you? - not too bad. - how is your day going? - -_-
/r/seduction03/08/13 12:51 AM
1

Don't get.... Me.... wrong ....I love.... Gold plated things... As much as the next person.... :) ...
/r/seduction26/07/13 07:35 AM
1

Ohh yeah I also know about Google translate
/r/seduction25/07/13 10:53 PM
1

So an expensive stripper then lol. Pics or it didn't happen
/r/seduction25/07/13 10:25 PM
1

I believe you're referring to a sex toy -_-'
/r/seduction25/07/13 12:35 PM
2

Please be careful not to puncture someones back doing a boob smoosh with that pointy ass necklace.
/r/seduction25/07/13 08:56 AM
1

I think we can all agree that you please don't stop with the dick jokes.
/r/seduction25/07/13 08:49 AM
4

Nothing says "you're a stripper" more than gold plated heels.
/r/seduction25/07/13 08:42 AM
2

she gives but not one fuck I beg to differ.
/r/seduction22/07/13 08:02 AM
1

This is genius. I shall try it. It probably works because of the mystery and directness it creates.
/r/seduction09/07/13 11:05 AM
7

That's solid gold.
/r/seduction08/07/13 02:17 AM
1

I'm trying badoo at the moment. Some woman asked to see my "snake" because i have a picture with a Snake around my arm lol. Didn't know women could be sleezy too.
/r/seduction01/07/13 10:30 PM
2

Well there's no shortage of girls my age but i think they aren't really serious about it. Or they may just be seeking attention. The other thing is half the people i message haven't accessed their profile in a year which you can only find out after you messaged them. This is the case on pof. I might try rsvp though.
/r/seduction01/07/13 08:14 AM
1

I don't want to call you a liar but that seems quite exaggerated in my humble opinion.. What site do you use?
/r/seduction01/07/13 05:54 AM
1

The example i posted was hypothetical and not within a certain time period. I myself am pretty choosey... Sometimes i don't message the girl if they have a boring profile even if they are a 9.
/r/seduction01/07/13 05:52 AM
3

Not by a long shot Buddy. I'm about to give up on online dating all together. Response rates range around 10% and that's of you are really good looking. What's the point of sending 200 messages only to get 10% replies and 1% that will lead to some sort of close? In my experience its a real waste of time and also addictive.
/r/seduction01/07/13 04:02 AM
1

Yeah i was thinking results would differ from place to place. I'm 26 from Sydney. I've also tried tweaking my profile several times. I also customise my messages based on the targets profile. It gets really frustrating sometimes when they delete your message without Reading it or visiting your profile. This leads me to believe that they simply have too many requests that the simplest thing will turn them off. Btw I've used okcupid and pof. Wbu? Also, when i say it used to work i mean in the gene…
/r/seduction01/07/13 03:59 AM
9

It is interesting.. Especially since dating sites don't work anymore (for me at least). I've had more success with Facebook! Dating sites completely disrupt the power balance giving the women total control. I'm a pretty good looking guy and in great shape and I've had alot of failure online. Its so much easier for them to shut you down for the pettiest of things. Men don't really get a good chance online.
/r/seduction01/07/13 01:33 AM
7

I thought it was all relevant.. Besides sometimes you need a segway to give you a break between points.
/r/seduction29/06/13 11:09 AM
8

Dam you have allot of insecurities
/r/seduction29/06/13 11:08 AM
7

I look like the terminator if i force a smile....
/r/seduction25/06/13 11:02 AM
1

not on a 2 inch screen. What is this 1990?
/r/seduction20/06/13 01:30 AM
1

I think the reason why girls complain on fb about guys trying to talk to them is not because they don't want to be approached, rather they don't want to be approached unsuccessfully i.e. waste their time. Which women (that's single) doesn't want to be swept off her feet?
/r/seduction18/06/13 03:03 AM
3

Either i didn't understand the post or you didn't understand it. Its not about how much you get rejected or not. More about who has more bargaining power/options. I think the post wanted to illustrate that our perspective is not correct about her having all the control.
/r/seduction18/06/13 02:59 AM
2

-Michael Scott
/r/seduction03/06/13 03:22 AM
2

Nice try zuckerberg
/r/seduction03/06/13 03:19 AM
1

Bartender: " ohhh hey its roofie"
/r/seduction02/06/13 03:54 AM
6

Fucking French cuffs?
/r/seduction28/05/13 03:05 AM
2

other girls in the restaurant.< You mean the ones on dates
/r/seduction10/05/13 02:25 PM
1

Bad luck Brian. Does exercise to impress a girl.. Picks up an overly attached gay guy.
/r/seduction25/04/13 06:31 AM
2

Not really.. I did this to a girl while walking past her car in traffic and she ended up smiling. It was more of a staring challenge, and we both knew that neither of us would quit. I should have actually walked onto the road and asked for her number straight up.
/r/seduction25/04/13 06:29 AM
3

Spear tackle her, they love it
/r/seduction16/04/13 09:29 AM
6

Where do you work chicken Lady
/r/seduction16/04/13 09:26 AM
1

Important lesson... Regrets are always regretful
/r/seduction21/03/13 09:06 AM
2

Hmmm i guess its not so much the response itself but the manner of your response that really matters i.e. tone of voice etc
/r/seduction16/03/13 09:06 AM
5

I don't get the response answer to when she says no.. It doesn't make sense or maybe IM reading it wrong... but it IS a no answer so how can one say "i didn't say you could kiss me"?? Wouldn't it be better to respond with " not yet you don't" or " your eyes tell me a different story"
/r/seduction16/03/13 03:10 AM
5

I don't mind approaching anywhere else.. But a crowded train is a huge threat to me. Even talking on the Phone makes me self conscious
/r/seduction13/03/13 09:37 AM
9

Yes, we'll just believe it was the 'phone' you pulled out
/r/seduction13/03/13 01:25 AM
29

Did you bang all of them
/r/seduction12/03/13 07:31 AM
4

Its a double edge sword i think. It could also mean she doesn't wasn't to be bothered for whatever reason. Why eye contact is so important
/r/seduction12/03/13 07:29 AM
6

you understood correctly, heres your reward ;P
/r/seduction05/03/13 12:08 PM
4

Sarcasm frown or reward frown?
/r/seduction05/03/13 08:16 AM
5

We must go deeper.. Rule 3...
/r/seduction05/03/13 08:07 AM
11

You wore bright green pants and jewellery? Sure she want lesb?
/r/seduction04/03/13 08:49 AM
5

Why would it be weird? its a pretty standard question, even in business
/r/seduction02/03/13 09:50 AM
1

I think its more a state of mind than a position or title but i agree with your comment.
/r/seduction01/03/13 11:36 PM
6

I think it would be better if just before you ask her number to say "would it be better to call you or text you for setting up our date?" Since results may vary this let's her decide reducing flakage and at the same time showing confidence.
/r/seduction01/03/13 11:31 PM
1

I have a problem with forcing a smile.. I can only do it when its natch
/r/seduction27/02/13 07:57 AM
8

Don't this with infants please
/r/seduction27/02/13 07:56 AM
0

Like George kastanza...
/r/seduction20/02/13 10:36 PM
1

After getting a number close, when is the best time to text/call and which method is most effective i.e calling or texting?
/r/seduction20/02/13 08:23 AM
-6

Maybe throw against the wall is a bit violent. Try throw you on my bed next time... Or if you're really into walls try press you against my wall. Other than that the rest sounds good.
/r/seduction20/02/13 08:18 AM
4

Keep it light at first. Talk about stupid things instead of work and regular shit. You could talk about how your vampire for 20 minutes if you milk it right. This kind of keeps the mystery of who you really are. If she tries to get serious and pleaded you to tell her stuff about you, say you'll tell her over dinner (if u just met). Even then keep joking around and this would just make her more eager to know you.
/r/seduction18/02/13 10:23 AM
1

But flakiness is irrelevant to who has the number because if you call or text her she can just as easily ignore your communication... And that's happened to me allot even though there was severe attraction. I agree you give away power when u give the girl your number but at least that way if she really does like you she can premeditate to contract you. But i guess either way has its pros and cons.
/r/seduction17/02/13 12:19 AM
5

Yah getting her comfortable is the key. I have even done this through cam chat to a girl i met on fb. When i met her i hugged her and picked her up off the floor to break the touch barrier straight away then went for diner and came back to my place. I guess it comes down to your gut feel of when it's time.
/r/seduction11/02/13 08:01 AM
15

"That's perfect because my balls are wrinkly as fuck"
/r/seduction11/02/13 07:56 AM
4

Maybe you have a small dick? Just kidding ;) the best policy is not to try and get inside the head of a woman.. Because as soon as you try you will lose. That's why they give us shit tests so that we get phased and lose our focus/power. If you think you did everything right just write it off as an "act of God" outcome and move on.
/r/seduction11/02/13 07:52 AM
-1

Your name leads me to believe you are gay.
/r/seduction11/02/13 07:47 AM
5

Where they all first dates? I would imagine chances of the date flaking would be higher if it was a first date indoors.
/r/seduction11/02/13 07:28 AM
2

Kill her..... With my D
/r/seduction11/02/13 06:48 AM
2

That was the joke, you sicko.
/r/seduction11/02/13 06:42 AM
8

I thought you were going to say undress her skin, you sicko.
/r/seduction11/02/13 12:30 AM
1

...On top of the 2 friends he greeted
/r/seduction09/02/13 01:19 AM
-7

Why show her the D when you can show her the O face. That way it becomes KO
/r/seduction09/02/13 01:19 AM
39

Trip to the ER
/r/seduction08/02/13 12:12 PM
50

So your saying i should touch her lungs?
/r/seduction08/02/13 08:21 AM
10

Yes that's what i do too.. I slightly look away from her and when i notice her looking at my direction I'll catch and hold. It looks more creepy if she sees you and your engaged in looking at her already
/r/seduction05/02/13 07:57 AM
20

Props for using props after he bent her over
/r/seduction03/02/13 11:02 AM
5

RASENGAN!
/r/seduction03/02/13 12:59 AM
1

Even better to set a date on the spot, get her number because you JUST set a date, and tell her "you'll call on the day"
/r/seduction01/02/13 10:54 AM
1

her: you should get a new phone
/r/seduction01/02/13 10:52 AM
2

this doesnt have to be the case. Its all about tone of voice. you could say CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER! as if you are robbing a bank and it wouldnt do any good.
/r/seduction01/02/13 10:51 AM
1

true dat. "whats your number" with the an indifferent tone is also quite good because its polite and technically its a request but at the same time its a command due to voice tone.
/r/seduction01/02/13 10:49 AM
3

yepp.. this method works and shows great confidence. A Simple "here you go" while handing your phone to them. what are they gonna do hand it back?
/r/seduction01/02/13 10:47 AM
1

KISS - keep it simple stupid. You come up with what you think is a creative idea but actually its more common than you think.
/r/seduction01/02/13 10:44 AM
2

Well i think girls have a lot more to lose in approaching.. Its a cultural mentality thing. For example women who sleep with allot of guys are seen as sluts but the opposite is not true for guys.
/r/seduction29/01/13 02:28 AM
1

Yeah but even that requires some pre connection
/r/seduction28/01/13 05:42 AM
7

You can't get rid of AA using logic. This is because it taps into your primal emotions and releases fight or flight chemicals in your body. The only way to get over it is to become desensitized to it. To do that you need to simply grow man balls and start approaching.. Sure you will be a nervous wreck but the more you do it, the more you realise that nothing bad happens if you approach a woman. This over time will reprogram you so that those primal instincts don't kick in. Just remember, a woman…
/r/seduction28/01/13 05:37 AM
17

He probably has tolerance
/r/seduction28/01/13 12:58 AM
1

I'm from Australia, your lingo means nothing to me
/r/seduction28/01/13 12:53 AM
1

Then you come across a hotty allergic to smoke
/r/seduction27/01/13 08:19 AM
1

Alcohol relaxes your vessels so more blood flow.. But too much will desensitize you
/r/seduction27/01/13 08:17 AM
1

Actually a Small amount can help with that
/r/seduction27/01/13 08:16 AM
1

Soda water?? So ... just water then
/r/seduction27/01/13 08:15 AM
3

Step 3. Claw an ugly Chick
/r/seduction27/01/13 07:31 AM
4

It is high risk high reward. Can you imagine some fat Bald guy doing the claw on a 9? Dangerous. IOIs are key to approaching.
/r/seduction27/01/13 02:22 AM
20

I think people need to get priorities straight in a club. The first should be to have fun not to pick up. Clubs are the worst place to pick up.. If you happen to make a connection with a girl then dance with her then take her outside to talk. Otherwise just have fun.
/r/seduction27/01/13 12:17 AM
3

These techniques.. Especially the claw are incredibly stupid especially in the club environment. Yeah its confident or whatever but no girl wants to be touched like that out of the blue and when she blows you off the rest of the girls there will be sure to see your stupid ass getting rejected.
/r/seduction27/01/13 12:12 AM
8

More elaboration in general.. Unless she was just physically attracted to him from the get go, it seems unlikely that she gave him the number on the second question. Seems fake from the description but that may be because he's leaving details out.
/r/seduction21/01/13 09:36 PM
2

Hi there IM John, let me brush that snot off your nose... Now where did i put that condom??
/r/seduction21/01/13 07:28 AM
1

Don't you think it would be harder to engage her if she's watching a movie she hasn't seen? All her attention is diverted... I mean movies in general are not really pro interaction. Wouldn't it be better to play a card game or other face to face engaging activity? Then when your done having sex you can watch the movie ;)
/r/seduction18/01/13 12:00 AM
1

What are the top favorite movie picks?
/r/seduction17/01/13 09:22 PM
0

I think guys do it only because girls started the shit first. It really seems to be a culture for women to flake on the first date... If they don't its like they have less value or something.
/r/seduction14/01/13 08:00 AM
0

But if you think about it, the person who is rattled is actually that bitch that flaked because the game was THAT good that she felt insecure and couldn't handle it. Shit man i actually flaked on this model once because i thought she was for sure gonna flake.. Turns out i was the BITCH and missed out on the date. Fukn bitches man..lool
/r/seduction14/01/13 07:58 AM
3

IMO negging doesn't have to be non fiction. It can be used very effectively if it is done playfully and where both parties know that the neg claim is unbelievably absurd. It doesn't have to be a direct insult, i think that method is just abusive and ungentleman like. Shit testing is about testing the Man's character to see if he is bullshitting his confidence etc or if he is the real deal.
/r/seduction12/01/13 11:14 PM
1

Girls do kino too.. In the form of hitting or poking. Its interesting how they get away with it.
/r/seduction12/01/13 11:02 PM
1

Umm they are talking about sex.. A.k.a screwing. Secondly, the transmission of STDs was mentioned which also implies getting screwed.
/r/seduction07/01/13 07:42 AM
2

You want to glue back the pieces of vase that is her life.
/r/seduction07/01/13 07:21 AM
0

Irony. SCREW driver.
/r/seduction07/01/13 07:17 AM
6

I honestly think you should be friends with her.. The best kind. I know this is against seduction and all but you should be there for her as much as she needs. This will not only make her happier (probably) but it will make you a better person and you may learn allot from her. It would not be wise f closing then dumping. On the flip side it may scar you both if you get emotionally attached.
/r/seduction07/01/13 07:12 AM
15

Ask to see his Phone then put your number in it and say " call me tiger"
/r/seduction06/01/13 11:34 AM
1

I can confirm that the donkey routine doesn't work
/r/seduction03/01/13 09:36 AM
4

You have good points but can't you present it in a constructive manner? Its ironic that you referred to one of the points as immature when your whole reply is immature. Just take the points you think are worthy, criticize constructively and move on.. There's no need to make someone feel bad when they were trying to spread knowledge. Everyone is at a different level of learning.
/r/seduction22/12/12 10:26 AM
2

Women in melbourne are allot easier and relaxed whereas in Sydney where i live there seems to be more men here to women so they put you through alot more shit tests. Dw about your accent, they will like that.
/r/seduction13/12/12 10:22 PM
0

Pussys made of straw.. Lol
/r/seduction13/12/12 10:20 PM
2

As an introvert I'd like to be more social and your advice helped thanks man. I usually don't like being asked predictable things like how are you? The reason being its one of those questions that has an automatic GOOD THANKS in society even if they have cancer.... Did you used to feel that way?
/r/seduction12/12/12 07:28 AM
0

Suck a guys Dick and if you like it then you're a faggot. If not then you're still a faggot.
/r/seduction11/12/12 12:12 AM
1

The question is what type of tail...
/r/seduction11/12/12 12:10 AM
-2

It's weird that gay people find it discusting to stick their dick somewhere where life comes from and find it enjoyable to stick it somewhere where SHIT comes out. I will probably get downvoted crazy but THERE IS DEFINITELY SOMETHING WRONG WITH THAT.
/r/seduction11/12/12 12:09 AM
1

She's probably keeping you as a friend so when things don't work out with her current she would have you there. But for the time being a wing. Not a bad deal.
/r/seduction10/12/12 09:46 PM
14

You mean yelling while peeing is not normal ?
/r/seduction10/12/12 08:01 AM
4

I don't know how you can afford paying for more than one night. Just kidding.
/r/seduction08/12/12 01:13 PM
1

Ahhhh the old Snake charmer routine
/r/seduction05/12/12 09:53 PM
3

He wants her to say I DO DECLARE.
/r/seduction05/12/12 09:50 PM
2

I did not understand that reference.
/r/seduction04/12/12 11:05 PM
1

The last Rambo
/r/seduction04/12/12 11:04 PM
1

The least Rambo
/r/seduction04/12/12 11:04 PM
2

Rambo did this and he's fine. Live for nothing or die for something!
/r/seduction04/12/12 09:48 PM
3

One does not simply throw away money.. it is folly, not with ten thousand men could you do this.
/r/seduction04/12/12 09:45 PM
1

Depends what value coin.. that's why they want to introduce the dollar coin in the U.S.A.
/r/seduction04/12/12 09:44 PM
3

The only thing cold showers do is reduce my penis size yo
/r/seduction26/11/12 05:02 AM
3

I don't like that never change ending. Maybe instead "think about it" or even "now have a great night" so it implies your not planning on seeing her again and didn't want anything from her but to cheer her up.
/r/seduction20/11/12 09:38 AM
1

Yeah prostitutes
/r/seduction19/11/12 10:54 PM
-7

Smart sluts.
/r/seduction19/11/12 10:53 PM
-4

If you just met a girl and you say something like that it will come off as arrogant, because she wont know if you are being funny or serious. But on a personal level to me it feels a bit douchey to say - even though i am good looking. Sometimes its good to use humility.
/r/seduction13/11/12 03:14 PM
1

Yes I agree, but im not talking about SMS compliments. You can use your body language to get across the compliment. For example look at her dress when saying it etc..
/r/seduction13/11/12 01:52 PM
1

You have to mix it up. It's even fine to say they are beautiful IF you do it casually and in a straight forward tone like as if you are not doing it to get favors.
/r/seduction13/11/12 04:31 AM
1

That line is more on the cocky side.
/r/seduction13/11/12 04:29 AM
-1

That's not suited for everyone, especially if you're good looking. Comes off as a real luvo. Whereas the other way you are jokingly complimenting her AND showing confidence.
/r/seduction13/11/12 04:27 AM
2

Without escalation, you're just friends. It doesn't have to be sex. It could be add simple as eye contact escalating to a pat on the shoulder.
/r/seduction13/11/12 04:22 AM
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