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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-3	3 dates and won’t do anything more than kiss If there's no sex by date 5 loose her. It wont get any better.	/r/seduction	18/07/26 06:07 PM
1	Is reading women written fanfics a good way to learn seduction? A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the Internet Tells Us About Sexual Relationships Kindle Edition by Ogi Ogas (Author), Sai Gaddam (Author) Format: Kindle Edition	/r/seduction	04/04/26 01:54 PM
1	35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start? Dont quit your job, moving to where there are more women might be a good option. This book is a bit dated but its still good advice: Mate: Become the Man Women Want Book by Geoffrey Miller and Tucker Max. Add in the standard forum advice to read 'No more Mr Nice Guy'.	/r/seduction	23/11/25 03:16 PM
1	Is money/status as attractive for a female as a nice waist to hip ratio for a male? There was a study of this. Women were shown pictures of men and there was a short biography on each picture. The women were asked to rate the men's attractiveness on a scale of 1-10. The only variable that was changed was the description of the mans job. The ratings increased when the job was high dollar vs average money.	/r/seduction	03/03/25 08:13 PM
1	Looking for flings, hookups; but all the women i meet want a relationship. They all want a relationship but once they are comfortable with you they will settle for other options.	/r/seduction	24/08/24 02:58 PM
1	Would a women date a man, in a lower income bracket? No unless you are a musician or some kind of artist. At that point your shelf life is six months to a year.	/r/seduction	01/08/24 07:17 PM
0	Should I tell a woman I’m dating my body count if it’s low? Less history more mystery.	/r/seduction	26/06/24 06:29 PM
2	Where to meet singles if you don’t go to bars and clubs? volunteer for charity events, if you dont meet up with anybody single chances are you will connect with people that do know singles.	/r/seduction	31/03/24 07:21 PM
27	Besides porn, what job do you think would get you laid the most? Fashion Photographer	/r/seduction	09/02/24 07:38 PM
3	First date ideas for a language barrier situation I'll throw out the zoo if you have access to one. Ours has signs done in multiple languages. If things are going well then ice cream afterwards or a wine bar.	/r/seduction	23/03/22 07:16 PM
1	No kissing, no sex, but she wants dry humping Work it for what you can but I'd start looking for a replacement(s).	/r/seduction	23/03/22 07:05 PM
1	Anyone else feel resentful of how they were brought up to view sex? Ditch your family. I did and it was one of the best decisions I ever made.	/r/seduction	28/02/22 08:20 PM
1	Podcasts you'd recommend Dr Glover author of 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' https://www.drglover.com/podcasts.html	/r/seduction	03/11/21 06:27 PM
1	What do I do when a woman is ranting about her ex's on first date? My limited experience has been that she is just looking for a reason to go back to the old BF. Get her in bed quickly cause in six weeks or so you will never hear from her again. As far as changing the subject I'd start talking about things I was planning on doing in the future to see if you get any interest.	/r/seduction	31/10/21 02:11 PM
5	I think a girl is playing with my feelings Move on.	/r/seduction	31/10/21 02:05 PM
6	Turn down sex and watch her go crazy I did this once. She dumped me for somebody else.	/r/seduction	27/09/21 12:17 AM
14	How To Have Sex When You Live With Your Parents Rent a hotel room locally or take the girl on a three day trip somewhere.	/r/seduction	25/09/21 05:55 PM
1	How do you go to bars solo without looking like a loser/weirdo? Become a regular. Go to the bar on a weeknight when its not crowded, have a couple drinks. Chat briefly with the staff/bartender. Tip good. If you do this on a regular basis you will develop a 'I belong here attitude'.	/r/seduction	24/09/21 10:04 PM
1	Be a Man! by Pook There is a reddit forum called the book of pook that covers it. Here is an online source: https://bookofpook.com/	/r/seduction	19/09/21 02:15 PM
1	Be a Man! by Pook The whole pook series is great.	/r/seduction	17/09/21 06:41 PM
1	Fashion is a big part of the seduction. So who do you follow for men fashion ? A professional clothes buyer/dresser told me to check out the January issue of GQ. It will give you an idea of where the style trend is going.	/r/seduction	12/09/21 01:51 PM
1	How to approach this girl at the gym? The women at the gyms I've gone to are serious about their workouts and dont want to be bothered. See if there is a smoothie shop near by you could start frequenting then after you see her there a few times introduce yourself.	/r/seduction	01/09/21 08:27 PM
1	I think I friend zone myself Getting to 'NO' quickly is a win.	/r/seduction	31/08/21 02:47 PM
1	The inner Nice Guy never completely dies. You must constantly destroy him, or he’ll start taking over again. The difference between nice and kind. I listen to Dr Glovers podcasts every now and then to reinforce myself. Here is a favorite: https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/episode-dr-robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy/	/r/seduction	08/08/21 05:36 PM
2	Is there any way to win a guy back, after he’s sent you a text basically ending things? Not really. Move on. Worst case is he keeps you as his back-up girl when he is having a dry spell.	/r/seduction	05/08/21 02:04 PM
1	I wasted my teens and 20s focusing narrowly on savings money. I did not enjoy the process or experience much in life. I am socially a hermit and have never even flirted with a girl. How do I unscrew my situation? I can only offer that the older you get you run into fewer women that want to play games.	/r/seduction	04/08/21 02:39 PM
1	Literally can not get a girlfriend... I'll throw my advice out for a time if we ever get past Covid. Look for sports leagues, volleyball, softball, darts. They all have single moms looking to connect with people. Take charge of something. Organize a raft trip, ski trip, wine tour for a group you belong to. Where I'm at we have a social club that has been around for 60 years they are always looking for somebody to run an event. Sometimes bars or large company's do this sort of thing. Look for charities that have fundraisers that need…	/r/seduction	24/07/21 05:52 PM
5	To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college): Travel now. The longer you wait the more responsibility you collect and that just weighs you down.	/r/seduction	12/07/21 04:24 PM
1	Online dating as an attractive male The last stats I saw said that of all the interactions only 10% result in a response and only 1% turn into a face to face meeting.	/r/seduction	23/06/21 05:34 PM
1	I’ve given up on searching for hookups and getting laid because it is so damn hard. Instead I’ll be going to brothels from now on lol They re-open 5/1 in Nevada.	/r/seduction	28/04/21 01:27 PM
54	What topics should you talk about with a girl? Try FORD. FORD stands for "Family," "Occupation," "Recreation" and "Dreams." Use the FORD method in conversations by asking questions about these topics when talking to others. This technique can be used in settings ranging from blind dates to business dinners, to help others feel comfortable talking about themselves.	/r/seduction	06/10/20 05:26 PM
1	I'm reading "No more Mr. Nice Guy" and I am deeply offended. Check out Dr Glovers website also. He has podcasts and Q&A sessions that are helpful.	/r/seduction	06/10/20 02:39 PM
-1	How do you guys pickup highly sarcastic women that seem bitchy when approached? Why bother.	/r/seduction	03/10/20 07:05 PM
20	Any guys who had to resort to prostitutes to have sex, did you manage to get sex the normal way? Did it and did not regret it, wished I'd done it sooner. Started being more relaxed with real women and was able to develop a relationship with some. After a dry spell I'd repeat usually with a new prostitute.	/r/seduction	06/08/20 03:59 PM
1	I always thrived from starting off in the friend zone Friend zone = quicksand.	/r/seduction	15/07/20 02:21 PM
-1	Newbies Should Do Whatever it Takes to Get Laid Before the shutdown there were roughly 20 brothels in Nevada. Safe. Most expensive ones are in Pharump county (outside Vegas) and the Moonlight Bunny ranch near Reno. Others are more flexible. Prices are all negotiable depending on the worker and when you show up. Website with info here: http://sex-in-nevada.net/smforum/index.php?PHPSESSID=1mab5dk11bmgkq2rcepa4o3sn1&	/r/seduction	03/06/20 02:48 PM
1	How to stop being seen as a friend and become more attractive? My standard recommendation read "No more Mr Nice Guy"	/r/seduction	15/02/20 03:00 PM
1	What advice would you give a virgin? Go get laid. If your old enough go to a brothel.	/r/seduction	27/10/19 09:22 PM
2	Do nice guys tend to be sensitive when the girl doesn't reciprocate their compliments? Hint: Dont be a nice guy.	/r/seduction	28/09/19 01:15 PM
1	Talking for a month, def had a good connection, had sex, texted too much she said better off as friends. Can I get out of friend zone? Friend zone is like quicksand. You never get out.	/r/seduction	27/09/19 01:16 PM
1	I ask a girl out and got rejected You got rejected good for you, call it success. Now try another one.	/r/seduction	21/09/19 01:47 PM
1	Advice request for a genuinely nice guy (M19) Listen to this podcast: https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/episode-dr-robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy/ And read his book.	/r/seduction	11/09/19 07:57 PM
1	What is the meaning of this? Get a number and make a date for Saturday or Sunday. If she puts you off you can move on.	/r/seduction	26/08/19 01:44 PM
1	Easy guide for building status in college...Especially all you incoming freshman. I'll throw this out too. Pick the right school. If its a commuter college with 75% of the student population working full time and/or married your prospects will be limited.	/r/seduction	21/08/19 01:40 PM
2	27 year old virgin, just moved out of the parents house Consider getting laid at a legal brothel in Nevada. This forum can help http://sex-in-nevada.net/smforum/index.php	/r/seduction	15/08/19 01:23 PM
3	What do you think about a girl grabbing a guy's ass while making out? love it.	/r/seduction	14/08/19 03:31 PM
3	What to do when a girl shows interest at the poker table Its poker take her down anyway.	/r/seduction	02/08/19 12:59 PM
1	Asked girl out. Said she has a boyfriend, but would still go out for a drink? This is a high friend zone chance here, she may just want to find out more about your country. Take notes and maybe it will work out for the next tourist you meet.	/r/seduction	31/07/19 02:19 PM
3	Why do women stop talking to you suddenly without any reason . She has moved on. You do the same. Who knows why.	/r/seduction	31/07/19 02:12 PM
1	After 12 years of marriage back on the dating scene. Look at this post: https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/b4oaj9/at_age_30_these_are_my_gems_of_knowledge_along/ Also get on Dr Glover's email list to get discounts on some of his podcasts. He has been where you are a couple of times. His book is good too. https://www.drglover.com/ Not sure what the demographics are where you live but you might have to move to find a bigger dating pool.	/r/seduction	19/07/19 02:49 PM
6	What to do when she's at your place? Wine and some apps from Trader Joes	/r/seduction	04/06/19 01:56 PM
5	I need help breaking through the friend barrier with women. My standard recommendation to read 'No More Mr Nice Guy'. I think Dr Glovers website is still active also, good information there also.	/r/seduction	15/05/19 03:26 PM
2	I work in a night club and I’m working on a approaching girls as man instead of a worker if you catch my drift. Can I get some advice? Become a bartender.	/r/seduction	11/05/19 01:14 PM
27	The following books changed my life. I would recommend everyone to read this books. I'll throw out my usual recommend for 'No more Mr Nice Guy' also.	/r/seduction	11/01/19 02:34 PM
3	What are some good seduction podcasts out there? Art of Charm #145 with Robert Glover.	/r/seduction	27/08/18 01:02 PM
3	How to tell if you’re the side guy I remember an old Masters & Johnson study done at east coast colleges. If you haven't had sex by the 5th date its not going to happen.	/r/seduction	10/07/18 01:50 PM
1	Going on a date for the first time in a year, any tips? Agree with both of these answers. Go for something with lots of face time.	/r/seduction	30/06/18 03:54 PM
5	What’s a good way to approach women at the gym? Dont approach at the gym, people are there for a serious workout. If there is a smoothie shop or something like that close by try to run into her there.	/r/seduction	30/06/18 03:52 PM
1	Getting laid in Vegas - Everything you need to know Get in your car and drive to Pahrump.	/r/seduction	30/06/18 03:43 PM
4	Girl texts me all the time, but somehow won't visit me Hi welcome to the friendzone.	/r/seduction	07/05/18 12:56 PM
2	Girl left her boyfriend just because I invited her to walk the dog with me? Teen girl so who knows what reality is. Older, she would have already made a decision to dump him, all her girlfriends have know this for weeks if not months. She would just be looking for an excuse to make a move.	/r/seduction	07/04/18 01:53 PM
1	Sexually charged jokes - when? By the end of the 2nd date. 1st date is more of a job interview.	/r/seduction	28/03/18 01:28 PM
1	3 dates and hook ups later, she wants to "just be friends" Game over, move on.	/r/seduction	27/02/18 11:38 PM
1	What is the optimum kind of movie to watch on a first date? Dont watch a movie on the first date, do something with lots of talk and face time.	/r/seduction	01/02/18 11:32 PM
5	Picking up girls at the gym? Most of the women I run into at the gym are focused on their workout, probably not a good idea.	/r/seduction	20/01/18 06:12 PM
3	I'm a beginner. The vast amount of information on the sidebar (and the internet) is overwhelming. Does anyone have a tl;dr? If you seem to get friend-zoned a lot read 'No more Mr Nice Guy'.	/r/seduction	13/01/18 03:22 PM
1	Lots of girls attracted to me but I always blow the opportunity I'd suggest you take a look at some of the recommended readings, if they are not in the FAQ you should be able to search for them.	/r/seduction	10/09/17 03:38 PM
1	What are your beliefs about sex? As much safe sex as possible.	/r/seduction	10/09/17 03:35 PM
19	She accepted a date, and then went silent. What? Find another one.	/r/seduction	27/08/17 02:10 PM
4	Girl with boyfriend has finally told me "it's probably best we don't talk anymore"... You are permanently friend zoned move on.	/r/seduction	24/08/17 01:30 PM
2	First date ever... Ideas, advice? First date is like a job interview, so coffee and if it seems like its going well move up to ice cream. I'd set up the geocaching for #2.	/r/seduction	22/08/17 02:01 PM
1	Would you rather date a 9 or a girl with personality ? If the girl with a personality is a 6 or 7 then yes.	/r/seduction	09/08/17 11:15 PM
4	Doesn't being INDIFFERENT make you lose a lot of girls? It make you loose the ones that are not interested in the first place.	/r/seduction	26/07/17 12:46 PM
1	At what body fat level do things like cheekbones etc show up? yes	/r/seduction	15/07/17 01:38 PM
1	At what body fat level do things like cheekbones etc show up? Those scales are known for being wrong on BF. Look for a bodpod near you or something similar. Should cost around $50.	/r/seduction	14/07/17 02:11 PM
2	Hey guys, when she wants the D but doesnt want to meet? Yup. Reading 'No more Mr Nice Guy' made a difference.	/r/seduction	11/07/17 10:26 PM
3	Hey guys, when she wants the D but doesnt want to meet? Flirting and running away is entertainment for women.	/r/seduction	11/07/17 01:41 PM
1	Paid to have sex for my first time and feel sleezy Wish I had done this. It would have removed the constant need to get laid so I could concentrate on finding women to have a relationship with and given me the ability to just walk away if they got to hard to deal with.	/r/seduction	29/06/17 12:03 AM
13	Six Ways To Eliminate Flakes Before They Happen (Science-Based) Agree with everything but #3. You just set yourself up for friend zone.	/r/seduction	11/05/17 12:33 PM
9	What's your view on sex with coworkers? (Minimum wage jobs) If its a summer job or something you can walk away from sure otherwise no.	/r/seduction	28/04/17 08:49 PM
2	Denied relationship due to absence of religious views... Help for the future? Might want to change schools.	/r/seduction	27/03/17 10:26 PM
1	Stop trying to convince girls you are a "good guy" This is mostly 'No more mister nice guy'	/r/seduction	19/03/17 05:16 PM
-1	Depressed. Need to change mindset. Help me. Get a gym membership and start working out. Does wonders.	/r/seduction	07/03/17 02:02 PM
2	How can I overcome my fear of rejection? Rejection is great, that means you dont have to waste any more time on this girl. Move on the the next one.	/r/seduction	03/03/17 03:02 PM
1	Can deleting your Facebook have a significant impact on how women view you? I've been told by multiple women that not having a Facebook page is just strange.	/r/seduction	23/02/17 02:23 PM
2	Understanding No More Mr. Nice Guy (Book by Dr. Robert Glover) go to his website and sign up. He has podcasts that go into more detail. http://www.drglover.com/ He periodically has specials usually around holidays, so you can get the podcasts cheep.	/r/seduction	10/01/17 03:47 PM
2	Ex wants to see me a few days after we broke up Up-vote on all the comments here also consider she may need a warm body to show up with at a family holiday function.	/r/seduction	27/12/16 04:47 PM
0	Should I tell her she's not the only one? No	/r/seduction	29/11/16 02:49 PM
2	About being a nice guy versus being a ''Nice Guy''. Good free podcast by Dr Glover with the Art of Charm guys on PodcastOne. Just check the back episodes.	/r/seduction	27/08/16 12:52 PM
1	How to be more sexual and less "friend-like"? If she starts off on a long rant about something that happened in her family or something one of her friends did, cut her off and ask for the 30 second version.	/r/seduction	19/08/16 05:18 PM
1	How do you guys get girls before knowing game? A lot like a blind pig finding an acorn.	/r/seduction	20/06/16 01:38 PM
1	School Of Life posted a new video about NICE Guys, If you are one, you must read the comments. Check out the 'art of charm' podcast on podcast one, episode #145 with Dr Glover.	/r/seduction	17/06/16 01:48 PM
6	Kino out of the friendzone. Is it possible? Friendzone is like quicksand. Apply your energy someplace else.	/r/seduction	05/06/16 07:54 PM
3	How to turn sexual jokes into women thinking in sex with you? I agree it has to be a 'cute' sex joke. Old example: 'How can you tell if a girl likes Moosehead' ? 'Antler marks on her thighs'. If they stay with you then they are interested.	/r/seduction	21/05/16 01:22 PM
1	I didn't walk her to the train. Should I apologize? Never apologize. Dont even bring this up again go on like nothing happened. If you dont hear from her find another one.	/r/seduction	12/05/16 12:16 AM
1	I'm starting to think girls don't like good guys Do your self a favor and pick up Dr Glover's 'No more Mr Nice Guy' and check out his website.	/r/seduction	27/04/16 11:07 PM
1	Date Ideas Skip board games, after you get to know her maybe a bar league trivia night. You might also check for wine tasting's where I'm at a couple of the wine bars sponsor wine tastings with a donation to a charity of the month.	/r/seduction	15/04/16 07:10 PM
1	Life in Order but no Sexual Drive Get a testosterone test.	/r/seduction	19/02/16 04:16 PM
0	Where do I start? read no more Mr nice guy.	/r/seduction	11/02/16 01:55 PM
2	How do you not be "nice"? I cant up vote this too much. Also check out his website.	/r/seduction	21/11/15 03:08 PM
2	The ''nice guy'' status. There is also lots of good content on his website: http://www.drglover.com/	/r/seduction	11/11/15 02:58 PM
3	How to deal with a girl who wants to take things slow? Make sure she is not the only one.	/r/seduction	05/07/15 01:49 PM
0	Tips for Facebook? Dont have a Facebook account. The less they can find out about you the more interested they are in meeting up.	/r/seduction	24/04/15 01:45 PM
-2	What to do when the girl is willing to meet but has a boyfriend? Is it rejection? She's setting you up to be friend-zoned. You'll become her girlfriend with a cock. Expect lots of call every time she has a fight with the BF.	/r/seduction	21/04/15 03:09 PM
5	Tips for my nice guy friend? Get him a copy of 'No more Mr Nice Guy'	/r/seduction	19/03/15 11:10 PM
0	Have this mentality when talking to Chicks. got a virus warning from this link	/r/seduction	06/02/15 03:48 PM
3	Best way to respond to a girl saying she is busy/rejecting you via text? Ignore her and move onto the next one.	/r/seduction	09/01/15 02:49 PM
19	I'm starting everything from scratch. Where do I start? I'd add 'No more mister nice guy' to the list.	/r/seduction	27/12/14 03:13 PM
1	How can I man up? You might read 'No More Mister Nice Guy' and check some of the podcasts on Dr Glovers forum. The Book of Pook is also a good read.	/r/seduction	18/11/14 02:14 PM
1	How do I stop living in the past? I got the Power of Now as an audio book.	/r/seduction	04/10/14 02:31 PM
1	Going to BUDAPEST - anyone have any tips or knowledge about gaming eastern european girls .... Good advice. Search the general forums for scams, this is detailed there.	/r/seduction	22/07/14 01:42 PM
3	How to handle the stigma of working in IT? I never say I work in IT. I do contract work so if I'm working on a medical app I say that I do hospital administration. If its a bank I say I do finance. Then I change to subject to travel because I travel a lot.	/r/seduction	14/05/14 01:15 PM
3	Looking for a No More Mr. Nice Guy Support Group online Check Dr Glover;s website.	/r/seduction	22/01/14 02:14 PM
1	How To Tell If You’re A “Nice Guy” (And How To Stop Being One, Because They’re Awful) I got the book, think its worth it. The author also has a series of podcasts on dateing at his website but but the target audience seems to be 30+ men. Most of that information can be found here on Seddit.	/r/seduction	07/06/13 01:59 PM
2	The nice guy Get a book called 'No more Mr Nice Guy' by Robert Glover.	/r/seduction	16/02/13 03:10 PM
4	Hey fellow older guys (I'm 35). What did you do to improve your life in this area? Check out some books by R Don Steele, you can find them used on the internet. Also read No more Mr Nice Guy.	/r/seduction	07/10/12 04:26 PM