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| 1 | AlphaSomeone that has what you don't have but what you want to have. Basically someone to envy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:03 PM |
| 3 | AlphaAnd then.. and then.. then he called me not keeeeeeeewlll 😭😭😭😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:02 PM |
| 1 | What is more important than sex, relationships, and family?Yeah buddy I want more money than what a family needs. I like having an income and allocating that income toward future wealth. I'll be able to retire early but I don't want to. I enjoy being busy. I've basically done everything there is to do. Now we just chill and produce You aren't looking for anything but validation, like basically anyone in their late teens and early 20s. It's part of Maslow's pyramid of needs. You need to fulfill the needs at the bottom before you can move upward to other … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 03:26 PM |
| 1 | You’re only a “dancing monkey” if the woman isn’t dancing backDo things that make you attractive and appealing. Don't hunt individuals before they have shown clear interest in you. That's when you can reel them in, if you are attracted to their looks/personality. I've found quite the success in being the gorilla that bangs his chest in a certain social area. It's a bit of advertising. While also not going with the first the best. Pick what you are compatible with. That's how I did it in my early 20s. Now I'm engaged and will likely never require it again. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 03:37 PM |
| – | CMV: Assuming all else equal, looks and neurotypicality are the most important factors in both dating and general lifeAttractive and mildly autistic here. The first because I've been working out for 10 years and the latter was told to me by my psychologist. I have no issue making friends. I just don't do the effort. If I want new people in my life then I have to put in a lot of effort which also makes it incredibly rewarding. I've done this mainly for romantic relationships because these are the most rewarding. I have 2 mates that I know more than 10 years. More than enough. I do not have the interest in puttin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 10:18 AM |
| 1 | What do you make of a woman who regularly dates older men?There are enough humans on this planet. If you're going to find someone, then better make it someone who is top 20% compatible with you. Not in general but for you. I don't wanna date an average woman either Basically become top 20% in something. It's not difficult. For example "Just 28% Of Americans Are Exercising Enough" So me working out 6 times a week puts me in top 20%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 08:20 AM |
| 1 | What do you make of a woman who regularly dates older men?There's as many guys as there are gals. If they have a lot of pickings then that's because someone else lost their pickings. It's more consolidated toward the younger women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:52 AM |
| 2 | What do you make of a woman who regularly dates older men?Nah I pretty much laughed at the girls for being with such an old bastard 👀 Ahhh could be your dad, funny as shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Women are more logical with relationships, men are more emotionalI mean gay guys do pound loose on eachother. It's quite the sex fest over there I can say that I've had more gays approach me than women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Women are more logical with relationships, men are more emotionalQuestion. Why are you going for so many women if you are emotional about one woman? For women to have more men into them than women into men then you as a man must be chasing a lot of women. Why? What's wrong with you? Can't you chill? Just go for one woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 07:06 PM |
| 1 | in which direction do you think your marriage or relationship will go if we went into another lockdown ?Would thrive in lockdown. I've spent a lot of time with my gf of 4 years because we were both unemployed for like 2 years of it and we spent it together 24/7. Think we've spent more time together in 4 years than many in 15 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Are average men really desperate for sex?Since I'm on some meds against depression and anxiety I've been 10 times less frequent horny. I'm quite sure this is how it is to be a woman. Can still get horny but it's more something you have to activate yourself willingly instead of it being shoved onto you every day for several times a day. When I was 10x as often horny I wasn't desperate for sex, I just masturbated a lot more often. Had sex twice a day but I felt like masturbating was just the easier option. Like using hand versus whole bo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Does having regular girlfriends cause a man to have a higher income over time?Having a family costs more than not having one. If I were to cut my dick off and live the monk life then I'd be fine with a 1 bedroom apartment that has kitchen bed bathroom. But if u want kids then u will need to work more to afford a place that they can grow up in and give them inheritance. Now if it's just being with wife and no kids? Eh the apartment is fine but more money for traveling etc. But yeah the real work is for when aiming at having kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 10:31 AM |
| 1 | most men don't want vanilla sex from their wivesUnless you really want children, don't settle for someone that isn't interested in you but just wants security. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to men with social intelligence, which is why you can't understand women's strugglesNone of this matters, you find someone who genuinely likes you. That game is turned on automatically when you're around people that you like and are interested in you. It's like sniffing coke I assume. Remember, monogamy for years and years and who knows decades is with one person. You're not supposed to be academic about it, just live a little and enjoy your time. It's all natural or it's wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Why is the physical act of cheating so devastating to men?Girl submitting their most intimate and vulnerable side of her to someone else sums it up pretty much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 11:37 PM |
| 7 | How were you treated differently when you got fit? (men and women)Malnuritioned teen: invisible Fit adult: high pitched voices | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: what do you mean by submission?It's a sexual thing, I believe most guys have a fetish of being dominant during sex. Outside of sex, the pros of being submissive for the receiver is that it will be far less toxic environment for that person. The danger of being submissive is that the other person can abuse it and be toxic. But either way I would redirect it all to the sexual part which is rooted deep into us. But now I get to think of it, I grew up in a family where the women often yelled non stop at their husbands and the hus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: We always hear about 50/50 vs men paying 100% but what about 80/20?So what's the plan here? Marriage without prenup? To me marriage is exactly the same as girlfriend. There's literally no difference. It's not the Philippines, divorce is a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: We always hear about 50/50 vs men paying 100% but what about 80/20?Now it's been some years that I visited that subreddit, but back then it was just plain emotional abusive people and nothing else. 100% take 0% give. Idk how such a strategy would ever work on anyone that has slightest bit of self respect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Do you think the same thing as in Japan is gonna happen to the entire world when western lifestyle/values/culture spreads everywhere?At 34 I hope they are doing kangooroo living style like in many Eastern European countries, perhaps also Italy and countries like China. Like my mate's parents who came from Afghanistan want to sell their house, have their son get a mortgage for a larger house and then live there together with him and his soon to be Muslim wife. My mate doesn't want to do this, he grew up in the west and wants to live a western lifestyle like everyone else here. But the issues spoken in this sub is about western… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 03:40 PM |
| 7 | Do you think the same thing as in Japan is gonna happen to the entire world when western lifestyle/values/culture spreads everywhere?Never had an issue with that in my 20s, the vast majority of people in college lived at their parents and then a few years for some income. Both male and female. This variates greatly on country. My parental home is valued more than a million by now because of insane housing market and renting isn't that attractive. Everyone wants to own a place because it will appreciate in value, which together with the low interests and the banks being allowed to offer whatever, causes the insane housing pric… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 02:56 PM |
| 0 | Do you think the same thing as in Japan is gonna happen to the entire world when western lifestyle/values/culture spreads everywhere?Any corporation is inherently exploitative. They'll have to unionise like all the rest did. There are benefits to corporations and that's why many people sell their labour there, but they need to stick together to prevent the exploitation as corporations are far more powerful than the individual. People selling sex individually take the risk of being murdered, there needs to be security. Either through having their identities (invoices) and the income wholesomely being taxed at 20% and later on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the same thing as in Japan is gonna happen to the entire world when western lifestyle/values/culture spreads everywhere?18 year olds and 25 year olds are vastly different. It's at 25 that our brains are fully developed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 02:29 PM |
| 16 | Do you think the same thing as in Japan is gonna happen to the entire world when western lifestyle/values/culture spreads everywhere?Are fewer female singles living with their parents than male singles, and is this because females showed more issue with parental authority while males showed more issues with workplace authority? Most people don't move out until they have someone to move out with, paying rent with no extra benefit is a financial mistake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Why is a successful man attractive?I don't care if that goal gets succeeded or not, it makes little difference to the future. Guys in general I'd say really don't care if their partner is succesful. It would rather mean they have less time to spend with you and later on the kids. It's like just not.. Important 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Dating is dying because Men’s historical value is negatedJust find someone that prefers u to spend time with them rather than work You can get resources with two, it's far easier than alone. Now you have more time together. You can't get to know someone without having time and you don't need some materialistic person either unless you are one yourself, a lid for every pot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: In honor of Father’s Day, would you act as a father to children that weren’t yours? Why or why not?It's an annoying situation. My animal instincts say no, my guilt makes me say yes. So that's for wrong reasons, so definitely no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 03:33 AM |
| 9 | Men struggle with dating and sex. So, what women struggle with?This also happens with guys saying they will kill themselves if she leaves him. Just toxic relationship stuff. The opposite of love is indifference and once that happens then cutting out a toxic person will be rather easy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 12:19 AM |
| 10 | Men struggle with dating and sex. So, what women struggle with?Forced into staying with them? How do they accomplish such a task of coercion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Straight women are not attracted to men, they are attracted to certain men.I have a type of girl that I find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that deep down men are seeking wholesome relationships while women are looking for unpredictable and drama-filled relationships?Let's say there's this partner and you don't really say anything to eachother, just exist together. Pretty much forgot all the memories of eachother, dead bedroom, no kids, no pets, not even mutual friends. No mutual interests. No change in financial situation. You are mentally stable and don't depend on someone being there. What bloody moron would stay in this relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that deep down men are seeking wholesome relationships while women are looking for unpredictable and drama-filled relationships?That's pretty ideological and vague so I can see people lying to themselves that others cannot do it unlike themselves. So it's very possible to say one gender (the self) can do it and the other gender cannot. Let's see. Ah yes, you're in love. All those hormones in ur system forever, as you love this person forever. That's quite a good deal. So the condition is that you feel love for the person. But let's get rid of all the ideological bullshit. Both people provide in a relationship or it won't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that deep down men are seeking wholesome relationships while women are looking for unpredictable and drama-filled relationships?Why would i be with someone that doesn't provide anything? Why are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 12:40 PM |
| 5 | Is it true that deep down men are seeking wholesome relationships while women are looking for unpredictable and drama-filled relationships?I couldn't stay interested for more than 2 weeks when I was 18 to 21. Inexperienced young people seek novelty and someone to entertain them. It wasn't until I was 24 that I wanted something with less drama and stability. Same backstory for my fiancée. Probably being the same age makes things a lot easier. My mate for some reason dates girls in their early 20s when he's already silently longing to settle down. Yeh well, that's a risk you'll have to be willing to take then dum dum 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 11:02 AM |
| 4 | Is it true that deep down men are seeking wholesome relationships while women are looking for unpredictable and drama-filled relationships?Same applies to guys. To everything if you don't have the responsibility to make it unconditional like having kids. We all are dating adults, there are conditions. Turn into a lifeless sack of potatoes for 2 years and nobody is staying for that. Unless once again it affects the lives of ur kids who u have a responsibility for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 10:52 AM |
| 2 | At what age does it become weird to not have lost your virginity as a man?Body dysmorphia vibes in this sub. Just workout and eat normal. I was solely talking about being able to perform cardio | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 10:21 AM |
| 7 | At what age does it become weird to not have lost your virginity as a man?It's not about gym body, just that you can do cardio for a half hour | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 12:19 AM |
| 10 | At what age does it become weird to not have lost your virginity as a man?Sex isn't difficult if you workout, literally and absolutely nobody ever has to know that you're a virgin. If you sense that they are fine with it then you can tell them. Either way you can just say first time was a bit off because you had to explore eachother's bodies first. Like really it's no big deal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Is being a woman in a first world country today "life on easy mode"?Your life is as easy as how little you are coerced into doing for financial reasons and how few wrinkles you get on your forehead from stress | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Is being a woman in a first world country today "life on easy mode"?Just depends on how many hours a day u have as free time, how little you worry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 02:42 PM |
| 2 | I (25F) sometimes find the "I've never been in a relationship before" guys more attractive than the rest, am I just a major anomaly??Utility graph economics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Women and men have different strengths. Guns makes it more even.Yeah I can see that happen, it would reduce rape and I'm sure there are statistics that back that up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:50 PM |
| 3 | Women and men have different strengths. Guns makes it more even.The death penalty doesn't deter violence, your cops kill far more people than in countries without guns. If I were to be a criminal and I know I'd be risking death penalty or that the person is armed, then I would kill that person at sight to reduce the risk. There are countries where rape has the death penalty, which results in the victim being murdered to get rid of the witness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Women and men have different strengths. Guns makes it more even.Just get pepperspray, spray it in the eyes and in the mouth then run away. Also way fewer consequences for the person doing it. Guns won't be legalised where I live unless there's another war. From which afterwards guns will be slowly illegal over the years again. Peaceful times decayed gun ownership | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:28 PM |
| 0 | One of the biggest reasons men will continue to struggle with women.Experience being the main necessity just would mean that women are lazy, as inexperienced women wouldn't bother with inexperienced men. It's also not true, because if it was true, then nobody would get any experience. Just be on the same level I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 08:50 PM |
| – | How do you deal with your bf/hubby's bad hygiene or lack of cleanlinessWhen you see them, they are showered. Doesn't mean that happens when there are no consequences to it. Except health issues of course, always consequences, just not social. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Do women you’re not attracted to you mean anything to you at all? Do you look up to or admire any women?I don't look up to or admire any man or woman. Maybe a lil bit, some Korean dude in Indonesian hotel was the only one wearing a suit on the island. The mom of someone on 90 days fiancé is so German she doesn't even know it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women?Nah I'm good, it's not like getting attention is worth all too much. Just like anything there's the utility curve where every extra added attention loses value compared to the last attention. So even 10 to 15% of the attention is pretty good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 06:54 AM |
| – | Relationships are the greatest predictor of happiness and women are much more likely to be in relationshipshttps://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ How would you explain the large gap between men and women age 18 to 49 in favour of women. While the difference between 50 and 64 is a small margin. Then a very large difference 65+ in favour of men Who are these 18 to 49 women dating? Ghosts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 03:09 AM |
| – | Relationships are the greatest predictor of happiness and women are much more likely to be in relationshipsIndeed, that's a part of it. Other part of it is that women date older men. Every relationship requires 2 people. If there's a gap in the young brackets, then that's explained by the older brackets. How else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are the greatest predictor of happiness and women are much more likely to be in relationships21% of males vs 49% of females single when 65+ 💪🏻😎 Grandpa more active than young fit men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are the greatest predictor of happiness and women are much more likely to be in relationshipsAccording to your logic. Women die single and men die while in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 07:26 AM |
| 2 | Do men enjoy being desired more?It's sexual thing for men too. People love having their egos stroked, that's normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 08:07 PM |
| 3 | What are you not willing to change about yourself that would otherwise improve your RMV or SMV?Ah yes, depressing to read. This is why I'm here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenWe'd just use better technology or flee. Last war was 1945, we've seriously diminished our thirst for military. We've given up colony after colony. The fuck you think we're the fighting generation Ideology, leadership, desire, rewards. It's psychological, the taliban are seriously motivated. While us? We've been abiding laws our whole lives. We're not on the same level. Without the technological advantage, we'd be nothing in the current day and age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 08:21 PM |
| 9 | Does this figure appear plausible to you: “The research, conducted by Jay Teachman, found that women with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce.”It's part of the religion. When you think you married for religion, instead of for the person then you won't divorce as easily unless it's a horrible marriage. Makes sense right? Heard an orthodox jew say that marrying for love is the same as marrying for money. When the love or money is gone, then divorce. So when you marry for religion, it's the religion that needs to stay to stay being married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Women Don't Have it Easier Than Men, Attractive Women DoHmmm Let's try and make sense of this. Average guys can become top tier easily through effort. Average girls can become top tier through effort as well. Going with the career route is too slow for something as petty as this sub aims for. So let's go with looks. Guys have to workout a few years and hope that they don't have a messed up face. Know which clothes to wear. Girls need to be skinny and know how to apply cosmetics, know which clothes to wear. To be fair we're quite a genius species beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 01:05 PM |
| 2 | The belief that women’s lives are much easier is exaggeratedThat Onlyfans twitter gives 25 000 usd at its lowest to look at income for the past 30 days. That's not useful. Every graph looks like that when u add ridiculous numbers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 12:25 PM |
| 3 | Crux of young men’s anger towards dating market and women comes from different prices of admissions for sex for different men and the disinformation women put out about what they are attracted to.It does seem to be the case that there is quite an uneven demand between the genders. I could go and sell my body and I'm quite certain that the market of gay men would be bigger than the market of aunties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 10:18 AM |
| 3 | Why are single women happier than married women? If so, why do women even bother with men?Are you perhaps, just describing what you yourself wear? For example work cloth that doesn't look like they are used for work is quite sad to look at. And after work you take off the work cloth and put on your civil clothes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 09:21 AM |
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