yayareaballer Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Fail Harder - applies to everything, including the game		yayareaballer	/r/seduction	27/09/14 09:49 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	A few pieces of seddit conventional wisdom I disagree with Good post, really like it. I honestly think the reason why people do 1, 2 and 3 in the first place is because, originally, they were: 1) giving way too many fucks 2) texting way too much 3) never listening to the girl at all So these trends are actually a kind of over correction in the other direction. Remember, a lot of the people on this sub began as hopeless womenless nerds (myself included, not trying to be an ass). It seems to me like the "beginner" level is just getting to these first 1,2 …	/r/seduction	11/03/14 05:41 AM
2	My dating experience from tinder. Please fill in the blanks and add your own tricks. Where is the dating site where you got rated? I feel like that's a really good idea for screening pictures.	/r/seduction	10/03/14 07:12 AM
2	"Hide" your anxiety in the conversation. Don't be so quick to agree. And choose the more rich conversational path. Like this post, thanks for sharing	/r/seduction	09/12/13 09:29 PM
5	How do you find your total social confidence? I share a lot of your experience I do sales for a living, and am generally very social. I should have no anxiety, and yet, I do If you're like me it's probably because you're simply not used to talking to hit girls with the intent of hitting on them. I never did in high school and rarely even in college (I usually had girlfriends). So this is a sticking point for me What has helped me so far is to say to myself, "I'm not hitting on this girl. I'm just meeting someone new and seeing where it goes…	/r/seduction	09/12/13 09:03 PM
1	How to talk to women about sex My only regret is that I have but one up vote to give. One of the best posts I've read on this sub.	/r/seduction	06/12/13 06:13 PM
30	You have a girl over to "hang out" who there is obviously a fair amount of sexual tension with. What is your go-to move to get things started? Ah the old corny-move-but-still-gonna-do-it switcheroo. Works really well actually	/r/seduction	29/11/13 09:16 PM
3	Don't let your interest get noticed Vs. Stating your intentions from the beginning. Makes sense. Can you give me an example though? That'd help me visualize what you're talking about if you don't mind	/r/seduction	29/11/13 04:50 AM
6	Don't let your interest get noticed Vs. Stating your intentions from the beginning. I'd love it if you could elaborate here. You said you're straightforward and that works for you. But also "making yourself too available" is one of the worst things you can do. How do you balance this?	/r/seduction	29/11/13 04:22 AM
1	An evolutionary biology approach to eliminating approach anxiety I was basically going to write this but you said it well. Great post.	/r/seduction	28/11/13 10:34 PM
16	How to join a conversation without being "that guy"? This used to be a big problem for me as well. However I learned two things are key to breaking into a group ("approaching") and then it's easy. They are 1) Attitude 2) An opener If you have the right attitude, ie "I'm a cool guy and these girls want to talk to me", that's roughly 90% of it right there. You've heard it all before on this sub, inner game etc etc, but after experiencing it myself I can say that this is in fact the most important thing. An opening line is just a great way to 'get yo…	/r/seduction	28/11/13 12:21 AM
1	How do you recognize the flaws in your game? Messed up a free lay and a free threesome TBH buddy the boner thing is due to nervousness. It happens to everyone from time to time. There's basically two ways to fix the problem 1) Don't be nervous by being more confident. Yeah, easy to say, but "in the moment" this means talking yourself up in your head (silently, to yourself). 2) Laughter or humor. If you just laugh at the problem and make a joke about it, suddenly its something you can all acknowledge and talk about. That's /way/ better than having it be an awkward, awkward problem.…	/r/seduction	26/11/13 01:37 AM
1	Reservations about pickup No worries, I understand	/r/seduction	15/11/13 11:52 PM
2	Reservations about pickup Yeah I think it boils down to lack of confidence / "I don't deserve this" mentality. Like you said, if they were into it, then they already gave me my answer :)	/r/seduction	15/11/13 10:57 PM
1	A Beginners Guide for What to Say Dude this sounds like a great game	/r/seduction	12/11/13 08:38 AM