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What amount of money is 'ideal' to spend on the dating process? I try to strike a balance between displaying value and DGAF attitude with the fact that going out, even if both parties are paying their own way, can turn into a drag on finances if you're doing it often. On the one hand it seems logical that if your appearance and game is on point then yes, you should be able to close the deal even if you take her to the skeeviest dive bar in a 10 mile radius. On the other, I'm not a fan of skeevy …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 01:24 PM
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Moving to the city and going full-on slut mode to land a rich husband is to sexual strategy as blowing all your spare money on scratch-off lottery tickets is to an investment strategy. A 1 in 200 million chance of working out for you so you get to marry Prince Harry. Most likely a way to slowly fritter your funds away from cheap thrills and eventually end up broke. House always wins. Not that the pickings are great *outside* the city.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 01:52 PM
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Jordan Peterson my dude: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lCYxSenyjQg
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 07:22 PM
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Not quite what he said. The reality is that if a girl is hot and not a slut (read: able to pair-bond) she is GUARANTEED to get a man if she chooses. That is what has happened to societal expectations of women. A man used to be able to get a hot, loyal(ish), useful wife. Nowadays she just has to be hot and loyal and he'll just pay someone to cook and clean.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 02:59 PM
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Like you explain women can get mountains of attention now just for having a decent face or knowing how to apply the right filter to look like she has a nice face. I honestly view the advent of the snapchat filter as the signal of the 'end times' for the dating marketplace. Now you don't even have to get fancy with your camera angles or makeup or editing software, your phone will literally make your face look cute at the push of a button. Women are obviously, far and away, the main users of this …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 08:47 PM
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as for marriage, are you kidding?! haven't you realized yet that NO marriage is ok -- you do not need to be married to have kids I'm just illustrating the point. A 23 year old at least offers something in exchange for being chained to a marriage. A 35 year old is almost exclusively downside from here on out. if they are fit you'd be surprised how good a 40 something woman's body can be True, but be careful using people who have tons of professionals working to keep them attractive or whose job d…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 03:44 PM
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The obvious truth is that even if a woman DOES look exceptionally good at 35, she is only going to have 5 or so attractive years left at best. The question isn't just whether you're still attractive, its how much longer can you maintain being attractive. No guy is going to commit to that in a marriage relationship if that is all she'll bring to the table. It'd be like buying a house that looks good but you KNOW has a termite problem... its an asset that will be worthless in short order. Whereas …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 01:24 PM
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Obviously no relationship will be fight free. I dunno, I have run some relationships that are free of any 'fights' by simply being aloof and stoic about any issue that isn't serious (spoiler: 99% of the issues are not that serious). So what are things that are normal, and not normal to argue about? You should not be arguing over things that you don't owe her. How you spend YOUR money, YOUR time, and how you maintain YOUR property should not be the subject of an argument, period. If she wants you…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 04:09 PM
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This. They want a scalp, they want controversy, and they DEFINITELY want this place to go up in arms and either cause internal divisions OR to get it to step over some line so they can ban it. Any response to that effect will show weakness. IMO, all that is warranted is a restatement of the mission here, to give men a place for frank discussion about their issues and the strategies for overcoming them. If other people don't like HOW the discussion is handled or the tone or the words used, then t…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 03:53 PM
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Also, there definitely are young women who prefer to be with older men. It is almost universal, in my experience. Unless you're literally old enough to be their dad. The limit of 'social' appropriateness for dating younger is like 1/2 your age + 7, but the limit on sexual appeal to younger girls is probably around age 50, all else equal. Women are into guys with experience (sexual and otherwise) who aren't immature and can have fun. Having money and being good looking are definite boosters. And …
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 03:08 PM
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Two words, now and forever: Dread Game.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 01:12 PM
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People need a matrix to give their life meaning. Agree with that. Be it religion or career or the glory of battle, people want to have a reason to be, and a reason to do. It's about constructing a more beneficial Matrix not a more realistic one. Same thing. A more realistic matrix is the best way to achieve your goals, as long as the above purpose is properly integrated. And once you realize that there is no inherent reason to do anything... you realize that you can make your own purpose. This w…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 03:27 PM
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Its because her memory of you is based on emotions and womens' emotions are the most volatile substance on the planet. If she is not currently being excited or aroused by your, then she is practically incapable of recalling all those times you made her excited/aroused. The good, nay, GREAT news is that you can use this to your advantage. If you screw up once, you can almost ALWAYS make a comeback as long as you correct the issue that you failed on before. But yes, it is a continuous effort with …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 03:03 PM
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We all construct our own version of reality in our heads based on our interpretation of the sensory information we receives. TRP is about making the version in our heads more closely match the one out there, and in particular to notice the things that we can use to our advantage.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 03:00 PM
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I'm trying to articulate this idea that IN THE WEST attractive, eligible women (just looks-wise, its even worse if you include personality) are not only in increasingly short supply (relative to population), but are being increasingly monopolized/passed around by the top males in soft harems. Like, it actually seems to me that highly-attractive females (talking 9-10s here) might be the most valuable 'resource' on the planet, with men willing to expend huge resources to 'acquire'/control them. Bu…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 02:46 PM
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But yea i do not want to hurt her. That's the 'trap' at this point. Whether it is because you genuinely care about her or because you just have that inborn sense of honor (don't cause pain when you can avoid it, especially to those who haven't wronged you). It means that even if certain factors arise, she gets fatter and less attractive (not a lot, just a little at a time). She demands more of your time and gives less in return. She may start eyeing other dudes and chatting them up behind your b…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 03:54 PM
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I get depressed when I see fit, attractive guys who appear to have their lives in order (not knowing their true background, of course) wandering around with whales on their arm. USUALLY the girl has some kind of redeeming feature, but it is clear that the guy puts work in to his appearance and health and she just does not. I imagine it is a symptom of hypergamy. A guy can either work hard to get a small chance at landing an decent looking or above chick, or just sacrifice his standards a little …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 12:07 AM
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Wanna know my secret? I have three go-to questions that universally work to inspire conversation. I use them IF there are no other obvious topics on hand and/or I'm not thinking clearly enough for various reasons. 1) What is the bravest thing you've ever done? Depending on the answer, you can tease them, act impressed, or if it is some deep, dark sort of thing (I hear rape-related answers to this on occasion) go into a more personal discussion if they're comfortable. Always leads into "well, wha…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 05:13 PM
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Yeah. Question is who is on top when you get there.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 12:43 AM
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There are three and a half billion women on the planet, the vast majority with healthy wombs. I'm not convinced that is true, though. Factoring out the ones that are too old and too young, it might actually be less than a majority. Then factor out the ones that are diseased or otherwise unhealthy. And the ones that aren't suitable for motherhood in general. I will grant that there are plenty of women in an absolute sense, but proportional to the amount of male competition out there, it is not a …
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 12:38 AM
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That seems to be where we're headed, at least. You can fake a lot of signals, but you can't even ACCESS the hottest women because they run in a completely different circle, passed around by the true big hitters. You only get to peep in through their instagram, maybe leave a comment. She only hints at the life she really lives, and us regular joes can do little but slobber over cleavage photos. Like, a woman that hangs around the Yacht Club isn't going to be impressed even if you roll up in a Lam…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 08:22 PM
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There are guys in their 40's or 50's (I think one guy near 70?) at the gym who can beat the piss out of me since they've been training far longer. Only advantages I have are endurance and some agility. Really gives you something to aspire to, and not become that dude that gets a giant spare tire around his gut in middle age and never 'recovers.' One day a week I go from Kickboxing straight to Krav I straight to Krav II, and I walk out of it exhausted as fuck but always fulfilled. Best part is th…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 07:23 PM
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Yep, most 'luxury' items can be obtained pretty easily if you work a decent job and save some money. But men are hardwired to seek out women, and to try and get the highest quality women they can. If you're an alpha male already at the top of the pack with everything ELSE your heart desires, and you have hundreds of women throwing themselves at you, OF COURSE you are going to take the best of them and keep them in rotation. Control over truly stunning women not only fulfills your biological driv…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 07:14 PM
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Plan A is to not go to the ground, yep. Plan B is to get off the ground as fast as possible. My gym trains BJJ too so I'll probably incorporate that down the road.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 06:58 PM
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I trained Krav for almost a year and then added on Boxing/Kickboxing because the MMA instructor kept mocking how much energy I was expending in sparring matches, since Krav teaches you to hit HARD and keep hitting until the fight is over (read: opponent is laying on the ground and not getting up). Trained fighters will let you wear yourself out and then work you over when you can't keep your guard up. Krav is designed more for the layperson to survive if they get ambushed and need to escape. Bes…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 06:01 PM
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The simple confidence of knowing "If this DOES go south I'll be able to come out on top" reduces your need to posture and signal. The guy in the tapout shirt screaming how he can 'kick your ass' is putting on an ostentatious display to hopefully scare you off so he won't have to reveal how he has no ability to back that up. The trained guy is quietly hoping to de-escalate but also sizing up the opponent, his weaknesses and eyeing exits. Also waiting for the other guy to make his clumsy first str…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 05:59 PM
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Probably just confirmation bias, but I can think of a 'lesbian' couple I know of as well that are in a 'committed' relationship, but at least one of them seeks out side dick.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 05:50 PM
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I'm trying to articulate this idea that IN THE WEST attractive, eligible women (just looks-wise, its even worse if you include personality) are not only in increasingly short supply (relative to population), but are being increasingly monopolized/passed around by the top males in soft harems. Like, it actually seems to me that highly-attractive females (talking 9-10s here) might be the most valuable 'resource' on the planet, with men willing to expend huge resources to 'acquire'/control them. Bu…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 05:48 PM
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My whole theory of gift-giving is that I'll only go out of my way to buy a gift for a person if its a gift that I have, through my knowledge and experience of this person, good reason to believe they will appreciate and use and that they might not know about or buy for themselves. Something that will actually have some 'meaning' to them and won't just get tossed in a closet and never looked at again. A gift that shows that I really put some effort in to pick something that would increase their h…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 02:44 PM
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Not even a joke. Biological imperative to reproduce is a strong drive. And unlike, say, eating, it isn't really sated. A man is driven to spread his seed as far and wide as he can achieve. Not too much of a coincidence that some of the most powerful/successful men in HISTORY have also been the most insatiably horny. They fight and win and conquer and build and destroy to maximize the number of women they can impregnate, that their progeny may never pass from the earth. Guy builds a skyscraper in…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 09:36 PM
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Just make the point that it literally DOES NOT MATTER if they still look good at 31-40. The wall is just delayed in that case. Aging is a bitch, and Talulah at 20 IS better than Talulah at 31 because 20 year-old Talulah has AT LEAST 11 years of looks in here whilst 31 year-old Talulah will be lucky for another 5. Men go for the early-20 year olds because its a safe bet they'll keep their looks for a while. Marrying a 30-year-old is gambling that she has really good genes. It is a no-brainer. Tim…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 08:25 PM
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Depends on where you think the SOURCE of that 'regulation' comes from. I bet most TRPers want to see a return to strong, patriarchal families where the father is responsible for both providing a good example of manhood to his daughters AND curbing her worse impulses/chasing off upstart males unworthy of her. One of TRP's key points is that with the Government increasingly taking on the role of 'parent' through social programs and welfare, it is undermining the traditional family and specifically…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 08:21 PM
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It gave me one hell of a shock when I realized WHY Islam puts such tight controls on women, including Burqas. Another, smaller shock when I could see the point and almost agree with it.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 08:17 PM
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Track 2. AWALT was best described to me in terms of gun safety. Rule #1 of Gun safety is that ALL guns are loaded, treat them as such. Does this mean that literally every gun is loaded and will go off if you mishandle it? No. But the cost of an accident is too great. You have to assume the worst to protect yourself. The one time you forget this rule is the time you'll shoot yourself by accident. So, too, the cost of forgetting all women are like that is great. Emotional toll at least, but possib…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 07:42 PM
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Some would say selling out your peers for a buck is exactly what a Jewish person would do, especially if the long run goal is to have a homeland for Jews. I wouldn't say that, but some would.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 04:29 PM
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seems pretty ridiculous to me. What is? That Jews are heavily over-represented in positions of power? That is provably true. Trebly so in the media. And if you look at some of the worst offenders in Blue pill media, the ones that are most degenerate and most propagandistic, 99% chance you'll find Jewish producers, directors, or writers. Example: Mr. Ivan Reitman, one of the producers of the New Ghostbusters movie. Reitman was born in Komárno, Czechoslovakia (now in Slovakia), the son of Klara an…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 04:16 PM
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If you're not taking your life in a direction she approves of, most moms will get passive aggressive as HELL. Doesn't matter if YOU are happy.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 08:38 PM
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They all need comfort, just different amounts at any given time. Some are just perennially needy. IMHO, recognizing comfort tests and responding to them with the appropriate amount of comfort (under or over doing it is easy) is the trickiest part of the whole thing.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 02:48 PM
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Well to put a finer point on it: They have to work harder if they want to even maintain the illusion that they're equals, which is annoying by itself. (of course they've parleyed this into 'women work hard to be perceived as equal to men, ergo that is unfair!"). They have to shoulder far more responsibility than they're actually comfortable with. The stress mounts and they can't handle it but have to work ever harder for the illusion. Being able to let go of that stress and responsibility, even …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 10:01 PM
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I can relate, but my problem is approximately the inverse of yours. By nature I'm a bit of an asshole. Especially I dislike people who are illogical and ignorant and proud of it. But as with you, I was trained, from birth to the age 18 (when I finally left the house) that respect and adoration and "do no harm" was the way to go. And I took that seriously for a long time. It was rough, but I developed the discipline to follow a path that ran against my nature because I wanted to be 'good' and to …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 09:52 PM
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They really don't realize that they are actively defeating their own goals with this. For every competent, stable female you could hire, there are 5+ shrieking harpies who are walking harassment suits. You can walk out into that minefield looking for females to hire, or you can stick with the standard cis white male who will do his job and accept reasonable working conditions even if they don't cater to him. Since you can't discriminate in hiring based on gender, though, I'd go ahead and screen …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 02:31 PM
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Unfortunately most of them will probably make out just find. That 80% of guys who couldn't get laid with these women is going to become their betabux because they'll be so desperate for love and take any attention they can get. The thirst is strong. So I think most of them won't end up being alone, they'll just be stuck in a loveless, sexually stagnant marriage with maybe some kids and they'll just long for their glory days. Maybe if they're lucky the latch on to a wealthier beta and suck him dr…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 03:54 AM
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Throwing out some of my own theories: A) These women are still subject to the instincts that drive them to seek out the fittest possible mate they can find (hypergamy) and to shun discomfort whilst seeking out the most intense emotional experiences possible. B) Social media means that the women who are out partying and fucking chads and portraying a life of carefree frivolity are constantly visible, even to all the little 'good girls' who were ostensibly raised right. C) Social media ALSO means …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 05:06 AM
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Plus a man is going to relish a good competition, and wouldn't necessarily want to eliminate a strong competitor. You need a challenge to keep yourself growing. AND of course, once a man's dominance has been established, he is in the position of strength, he's proved his 'superiority,' he has no need to go any further. Also you really don't want to stir up resentment in other potential competitors.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 04:27 PM
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Daddy issues abound. Attention-seeking through ever-more outlandish acts and validation via sexuality are common. But you can definitely find submissive chicas who are relatively normal. They tend to be the nerdy, quiet, bookish ones. The ones that you have to draw out of their shell. So if you're just looking at the BDSM community, then yeah the most visible ones will be the damaged goods. That's what you see. But keep your eye out for the wallflowers that turn into sluts when they find a guy w…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 04:59 AM
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The level of entitlement among fat women in the BDSM community in general. I mean sure kinksters are more open minded and have broader tastes than the average person, but its still the HB7-9's that are getting the majority of the attention and picking up the hottest/highest quality doms, getting the modelling gigs and basically ruling the roost just by nature of being the hot ones. Of course, the fat ones that have big, shapely tits and decent shape (not blobs) and good skin can still get all th…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 11:26 PM
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They need to do a follow-up video that examines the characteristics that one should look for in a woman to be worthy of marriage. And then examine how many women in the U.S. actually display said characteristics. Should be... ENLIGHTENING. But seriously, it is DANGEROUS to tell men to go out and get married without giving them any tools for picking a decent wife. That is just damn irresponsible.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 10:38 PM
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I have to agree that the culture engendered by social media dating is a time-bomb waiting to explode. Any female who has a SINGLE redeeming physical feature (pretty face, big tits, decent legs/ass) can get multiple men knocking down their door. And since they have access to EVERY eligible male in a 25 mile radius, they run into the 'paradox of choice' where they can't settle on one man because they think they could always find a better one. committing to one is a losing strategy. Back in the day…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 05:32 PM
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And a smaller fraction of those are actually decent-looking. Hypergamy is a bitch. Still, don't give up.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 08:12 PM
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Those who were at the top in college as freshmen were also at the top as seniors. Some guys will stick in longer than others. The ones who are more RP (knowingly or not) have a distinct advantage. The college athletes who were super-popular but didn't break into pro-sports will usually fade because they have no career options. The handsome and tall guy might end up in a career that leaves him no time to maintain his looks or his bad genetics kick in and he starts balding early. And above all, me…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 08:11 PM
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True stuff. The one nice thing is that the top 20% is in constant rotation, you can break in and some guys will fall out as circumstances change.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 06:10 PM
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But lets also be realistic: Only a certain number of those will be within your geographical range. Most of them will be outside the age range for your interest. Many of the ones within that range will be fatties. And a good portion more will be discounted for various reasons. And, of the ones who are truly attractive, they're gunning for the top 20% alpha males. You need abundance mentality, but it needs to be based on actually having women on tap rather than just imagining the abstract concept …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 05:45 PM
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I truly believe that, with rare exception, they have no idea what they actually want or how they actually work. It is all an instinctual function that they cannot resist but also do not understand (and often, don't acknowledge). They know what they are doing, but they have no idea why they are doing it. Ask her to explain it, even inject her with a truth serum, and she'll just tell you "its what I WANT." She doesn't get the underlying reasons.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 08:28 PM
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They know what they're doing, but they don't know why they're doing it. And, by and large, they couldn't choose NOT to do it if they tried. But they can be trained. This is why I don't really blame them for their behavior. Just recognize it, expect it, and account for it.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 07:32 PM
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Yep, my first thought was "he need to change doctors." And who frequents their Doctor's office unless they have some ongoing medical issues? That was also an interesting bit OP glides over.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 02:15 PM
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1% is common enough that you probably meet several in your daily life, and might have a couple in your social circle. The whole reason they're dangerous is they blend right in. And there's a whole lot more people who are not full on sociopaths but have sociopathic tendencies. Women, especially, exhibit such traits, but the ones I am talking about are actively aware of it and smart enough to exploit their lack of empathy.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 11:21 AM
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Its not about fear, its about not letting a literal sociopath into your head. A woman who actively wants to manipulate a man is one thing. One who is smart and knows how to manipulate them without getting noticed is another. You can have supreme self-confidence and they can and will still ferret out your insecurities, play to your weaknesses, and lie to your face. all the while hiding behind a mask of naive innocence, all just to get what they want. And if you piss them off, what they want is to…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 09:35 AM
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Smart, sociopathic, and Daddy issues? TERRIFYING to behold. You can never, ever let your guard down because you never know if what they're showing you is the truth, or just what they want you to think at that given moment. They seem to enjoy seeing which of your buttons they can push and get away with it, and they are experts at weeding out your weaknesses. And they hold that shit in reserve, only to pull it out when you least expect it. In other words, they will mindfuck you and probably leave …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 10:36 PM
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A lot of the rejection of TRP seems to come from some idea that humans are 'special' and don't run on the same base instincts as every other mammal on the planet. Or at least, that we are 'enlightened' and no longer burdened by our base nature. Which is horseshit. We have higher brain functions, but those higher functions are still communicating with the lizard brain. Accepting that we are just animals, its easier to go along with a cold analysis of human behavior as if it were just any other be…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 04:59 PM
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Yep. We aren't throwing our money away at hopeless causes in search of 'salvation,' we aren't praising any messianic figures, we're not devoting ourselves to the service of anyone but ourselves. There is no promise of an afterlife. You're free to leave if you like (although you can never be plugged back in). They just want to point at a group that has an ideology they disagree with and say "Look at those people and the crazy things they believe! CULT!"
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 04:37 PM
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I am less judgmental of women for instance. Before TRP I used to hate sluts, now I just accept the fact women tend to be more sexually promiscuous than men. I mean, fuck, if I was a woman I know I'd take advantage of it. Seriously. TRP is amoral. You don't have to judge women for doing what they do, just recognize that they do it and WHY they do it. It is rational behavior from their perspective. AS IS their attempts to keep men from realizing the nature of the behavior. But just about EVERY wom…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 04:35 PM
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It is interesting that they make very absolute claims over what TRP teaches, but DON'T actually pull up examples of such from the board. If it were that horrible, then they should be able to show highly-upvoted posts that have us saying what they think we say. But if they did that then people might actually READ the posts and come to their own conclusions. On top of that, the few I bother to engage with don't actually have a rebuttal/refutation for the theory, they just want to point and condemn…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 04:03 PM
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You can blame external factors yet still recognize that it is your responsibility to overcome the obstacles because nobody else will do it for you. Recognizing the obstacles is far, far better than pretending they don't exist and that you have control over everything.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 04:02 PM
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I agree, she fucked a guy bareback, he came inside, she had a panic attack at that point, and since this is CLEARLY a woman who has foresight, knew to go and create a cover story in the event things went south. AND she had to get herself liquored up to actually do the deed with him. If she had known she was going to actually get pregnant she wouldn't have done it. That's 9 more months of misery for her.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 01:04 PM
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I'm trying to compose something like that but it pulls in so many different concepts its difficult to keep it brief. Long story short: Lack of masculine figures in their life (father is super-beta or is absent altogether) means no way to judge the character of men they meet (nothing to compare to), and they have no male figure to give them input. So they literally just revert to instinct (mostly) and go for the guys that give them tingles. But since they have SO MANY guys to choose from they als…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 02:58 AM
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There's some instinctual, primal wiring at work. I actually get it. One day I was curious and I tried putting my hand on my own throat, squeezing a bit. Didn't turn me on but I realized to my surprise that my hand felt really strong and I realized that to a smaller, weaker female this would basically feel like a vice grip controlling them that could make them do ANYTHING and they would be all but powerless. There's all this psychological/physiological stuff going on, but it comes down to a hand …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 07:49 PM
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Great post. In my experience many women might need to be 'eased' into their role of submission, but they accept it and love it once they're there. That is, you don't start off telling them what to do, but give very strongly worded 'requests' and if they are obeyed, reward. "I like that dress on you, you should wear it tonight." I've been called 'too aggressive' for issuing commands right out the gate. then if you've kept her around a little while: "Wear that dress tonight. And don't wear any pan…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 06:30 PM
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Looks like somebody may be shadowbanned, as there is a comment listed but nothing visible.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 05:20 AM
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Spare me the condescension. I've dealt with the situation. Girls get 'scared off' because you're too 'aggressive.' They think you're 'too cold' and never 'open up' to them. The solution is recognizing this as the test that it is and providing comfort when necessary, and toning back your approach and not coming on as strong. The idea that you should become 'more beta' is silly. Your frame is your frame, breaking it because a woman asks you to is silly.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 08:13 PM
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Uh, what makes you think that if you gave in and became more 'beta' that she wouldn't just keep demanding more from you? How much are you willing to betafy yourself to hold onto a woman, and when do you say its not worth it and next her? Almost by definition, the more beta you become to please her, the easier you'll given in the next time she demands you becomes more beta. There's no way you can maintain frame in this scenario. What makes you think that any sort of 'sweet spot' in that situation…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 07:08 PM
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Whats consistent with all these posts is that the woman most of the time before branch swinging warns the man in their own female way . IE: You dont give me enough attention ANYMORE, we never go out ANYMORE, sometimes even`` WE DONT FUCK enough ANYMORE. In other words youre not the alpha i knew ANYMORE. They often have a few of these convos but guys treat it as a shit test and neglect what shes saying. A few weeks later when shes fed up of the guy not listening and not filling her female needs s…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:46 PM
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You haven't actually pointed out anything that TRP gets wrong though.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:25 PM
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If you have a mental illness, if you have severe issues, go to a therapist or psychologist. They won't judge you, they'll help you resolve it, and they won't use it to undermine you later. Are you implying that dumping your issues on a woman (especially one you're trying to have sex with) is the best remedy for that sort of issue? There are plenty of outlets for a man to let out his feelings. Women are the worst of them all.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 12:11 AM
12

Never ask her to shoulder the burden. Become awesome at everything else. Its part of who you are, and if you can demonstrate that you're dealing with it and not whining about poor ol' you all the time, it can be overcome. Demonstrate that your 'weakness' doesn't hold you back and you won't use her as a crutch. Be this guy. He is doing alright, what is your excuse?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 10:25 PM
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As part of your RP journey you should be scouring for your own weaknesses and eliminating them anyway. I would say you should not bring up your weaknesses with a plate or LTR (or anybody) until you've fixed it enough to no longer truly be a 'weakness' but just a 'work in progress,' and you can actually point towards tangible progress to that effect. Don't count on others for the plan unless they themselves can empathize with your particular issue and thus know how to escape it.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 07:45 PM
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I will echo the advice of NEVER opening up about weakness, trials, or travails to a woman or someone you don't trust. No upside to letting such people in on it at all, tons of downside. Only 'exception' is if you can immediately talk about how you overcame it/are overcoming it. And make it clear that you are going to deal with it yourself. Even better if you can tell it as a rousing story with your ultimate victory as a climax. For instance, I sometimes bring up how I used to be afraid of height…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 06:34 PM
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It is reaching a point where it is literally impossible to ignore. Guys get scorned and rejected by women only to see those same women slavering for the local alpha. Feminism is making it 'acceptable,' social media is putting it on display for all to see. Mainstream Media is doing a really good job obfuscating and misdirecting the truth and the root causes ("where have all the good men gone?") but a man only has so much patience for his 100th 'lets be friends' before he starts to question the sy…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 03:22 AM
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Actually, this is probably the reason a lot of guys are here in TRP. They faced the dating market and realized something was off about the whole thing. Hence, this subreddit and the manosphere. Can confirm. I came here initially to find better advice on how to operate in the cutthroat dating market. Eventually I kept coming because I wanted to figure out WHY the dating market is so goddamn deranged. Now, fuck the dating market, get money.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 02:20 AM
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Even giving them the benefit of the doubt, it is DANGEROUS as fuck to tell guys to get married without also giving them sound advice on finding a good wife. Maybe that would result in them uncovering some truths that are a little too on the nose. "Here are the qualities in a woman that have proven to make for a stable marriage. Statistics show that only about 15% (+/- 5%) of the single female population meet these criteria. Good luck." And they won't make that video because they're too cucked to…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 08:57 PM
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We're talking about a lack of empathy here, if the woman is able to sever the connection quickly and cleanly, they might not even realize that the guy is going to be reeling for days/weeks. Depends on how much awareness you want to credit them with.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 10:37 PM
12

1/3 chance you will hear from her again. It'll be out of the blue, and she'll act like nothing happened or changed. Up to you how you would deal with that.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 09:51 PM
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Guess that's true. She could be waffling on it for a long while, and then the emotional punch of trauma finally pushes her into action... She doesn't feel the right emotional weight until the surrounding events bring the emotional context to an apex, THEN she feels strongly enough to act.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 09:47 PM
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I really would hate to believe that, for sure. I usually chalk it up to them wanting to either recenter attention on themselves and their emotions or to cover up their act with other events, rather than a desire to knock him down further. Although I am sure that there exist women who maliciously plan the breakup weeks or months in advance to cause the largest impact possible.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 06:47 PM
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Took me three times. I was good at rationalizing.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 06:40 PM
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They can, but it requires an even GREATER showing of strength, as well as some time between the initial display of weakness to blunt the memory. I should also add the women will sometimes interpret the weirdest things as 'weakness.'
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 06:39 PM
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I used to think that I just had a knack for choosing unempathetic women. HAH! Sums up my early dating life. "Man, I just happen to keep picking women without souls. I need to keep looking because I know the princess for me is out there! My mom is an example so I know they exist!" My mom divorcing my dad (after cheating on him and then, in the wake of the divorce, bouncing around on several different cocks) and the revelation that SHE wasn't a princess... well that managed to shake me out of the …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 06:33 PM
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Seriously. I've seen men dumped on their birthdays, in the wake one of their parents dying, and of course when they're recovering from an injury or suffering from some grievous disease. They've made the decision to pull the eject lever, they're not going to time it for your convenience, even though it would just require the barest amount of patience. Can't put her life on hold to help someone else out, no sireeeeeee! You can maybe argue that she doesn't realize how much impact her leaving has, b…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 06:26 PM
5

Keep notes and a record of shit for this purpose. Text messages are a godsend in this regard.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 06:36 PM
8

Effect, meet cause. The black family unit was doing extremely well until the '60s. Which shows some great irony.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 02:22 PM
1

I'm not talking about 'gamer girls.' I'm talking about the ones who are actually into the nerd stuff, read Fantasy lit constantly, and go to Cons out of actual interest and not to dress up and be hit on. There's no such thing as genetically gifted. Now YOU'RE sounding like a BP pamphlet.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 12:55 PM
1

Depending on how you play that off, it can actually work in your favor.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 12:50 PM
3

Economics is the study and practice of allocating scarce resources, usually with the intention of finding ideal allocations. Everything in life is a scarce resource, so economics applies to everything. No joke, learn some basic econ principles, learn some game theory (which, I must add, is COMPLETELY unrelated to PUA 'game') and suddenly you can find yourself making better decisions.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 12:49 PM
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It's not worth it, even if you eventually "win her over" This is the sore truth if you're suffering from oneitis. Yes, if you apply RP teachings and actually improve your SMV and game and apply them to this girl, she CAN be made into a plate, or at the very least you'll get a fuck out of her. And once that's achieved... well you might suddenly snap to your senses and realize she was never worth it all along, and you wasted your time. Or in worst case: you manage to turn her into an LTR and you s…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 09:06 PM
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their profiles are essentially identical. Yep, back when I was using it after about five minutes of swiping they all started to blend together in my head. Like, every woman looked about the same. Their bios invariably include "Netflix, food, laughter, "popular series of some media," music festivals, nursing school, wine..." etc. etc. etc. are all they do. All homogenized into the cookie-cutter basic bitch because that strategy is proven to work as long as you're pretty. Although learning to see …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 07:05 PM
1

But girls with truly bad social skills will not be out around guys (definitely not alphas) enough to get the type of attention that actually induces tingles. They learn quickly, but they have to get that initial exposure first.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 06:56 PM
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even did our first mushroom trips and skydives together. But none were "dates", she didn't doll herself up for me, no physicality beyond the FriendHug, etc. I didn't even try to kiss her for 3 years and when I did she freaked out but still wanted my company and cool things to do. Owwww. Meantime, I would see her out on Dates looking hot....yeah, bad. FUuuuuuuUUuuck. The worst part is that she saw you too, most likely. And did not care that it would rip you apart to think of some other dude rippi…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 06:52 PM
3

The ones with social anxiety are still women, the moment they put up a dating profile they get a message a minute for a few days from all the men pouncing on them. Bingo. I've seen it happen in real time. A few of them will immediately shut down from all the positive attention, but usually it feeds into their longing for validation and, well, they learn that validation is cheap and they don't have to settle for the few betas they have in their social circle. And if they figure out that it is pos…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 06:28 PM
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There are the actual introverts who are smart enough to care about their appearance but are still the type who usually sit inside reading/gaming and almost never venture out to the places where they would be approached by Alphas. The true nerd girls who happen to be genetically gifted or have parents who discipline them enough to keep them from going full hambeast. Thing is, though, if they ever break out of their shell and start getting positive male attention from actual alphas... they learn R…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 06:21 PM
3

I've known, but never dated the type (to my knowledge). It is a little terrifying, but they are so, SO damn good at the act, that it is legitimately as simple as slipping on a mask and acting exactly how you would expect an innocent, pure girl to act. Its impenetrable if you don't have direct information as to the truth. I mean, they're smart enough to play the 'naive young thing' act and pull it off. They're smart enough to cover up or otherwise separate their various plates, keeping informatio…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 04:52 PM
3

You'll always have the advantage of manhood (strength, calmness, and rationality), so it's ok if she's on parity intellectually. But DO NOT underestimate their pure deviousness. Traps laid in place well in advance, and little secrets (either yours or theirs) squirreled away for later use. I've had to get creative to overcome their tendency to withhold information about themselves, and more importantly keeping them from knowing that I am getting the information. You stay one step ahead by always …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 03:28 PM
3

Seriously. I thought this was just standard escalation strategy. You turn the conversation/interaction sexual to get her reaction out immediately, and to ensure that she knows where your ultimate intentions lie. It is a well written summary but its not ground-breaking.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 02:41 PM
1

You need to know a girl to find these out but parental issues are HUGE indicators of a redflag. Parental issues are THE red flag of red flags. Especially daddy issues. ESPECIALLY daddy being abusive issues. ESPECIALLY daddy being sexually abusive issues. You usually do have to know a girl to get to that level, though, if only because many of them are good at putting on the outward appearance of sanity.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 12:06 PM
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Personally I like my broads to be a standard deviation or so above the mean when it comes to brains. More interesting games. But fuck is it exhausting. They will actively seek out your weaknesses and rage buttons and exploit them when you least expect it. On the OTHER hand, its a good way to figure out your own rage buttons and weaknesses and cover them up/fix them. They WILL play down their natural AWALT tendencies. I very briefly dated one who was ridiculously strict about not letting any 'lew…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 12:36 AM
3

You are not emotionally mature. The quickest way at this point is to HINT that you might go hook up with one of those other girls if she doesn't put out for you. Dread game, as mentioned. And you have to be willing to follow through. If you follow TRP, you'll learn that you can have three girls at once as 'plates' and thus be getting sex on the regular.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 03:30 PM
3

I'm an emotionally mature guy and have been very good to her, and she knows that and loves me for it...but I honestly just wanted a bitch to fuck and take to prom because my first 3 years of high school have been consumed with weed and gaming. Simple question: would you be able to walk away from the relationship and having almost NO emotional attachment left? I mean, literally walking up to her, saying 'we're through, pack your shit and get out' out of the blue, and not having to choke back tear…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 02:14 PM
1

Seems like it should be obvious. Although her external appearance is shinier, she's still running the same "Woman 1.0" software. What works on 7's will work on 10's, as long as attraction is there. The ONLY difference is that she has access to the highest quality men so you have to compete on a higher SMV level.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 07:02 PM
5

The essence of swallowing the Red Pill is that you are no longer sacrificing your own happiness for others, and you are rationally pursuing your own interests based on the goals you have set for yourself. What this implies about your 'platonic' friendships: A) Make friends who will bolster your own efforts at self-improvement. Either those who can share in your burden, who can guide you on your journey (mentors) or at the very least can be useful to you at the given stage of your life. Networkin…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 05:50 PM
2

he only ones who are really happy at the end of the day (most times) are the ones with kids and a stable relationship. Even then, you have women like Casey Anthony who just aren't happy being a homemaker.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 04:57 PM
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No, see, the porn she did is what precluded her from the opportunity to be an RN and have kids. This is definitely the most common feature I observe with women as they get older, depending on the path they choose. Women who party and slut it up for years look back and regret that they didn't get to develop a career and have a stable relationship with kids. Women who get married and start a family early will look back and regret that they didn't get a chance to party and slut it up or build a car…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 01:00 PM
3

Spent one summer working there, loved everything about it except for the fucking traffic. My goal is to get there within the next year. I'm close, just need to secure some kind of stable job. My buddy lives out there, has an nice house in a great location for a good price, and although he's married w/kids, he gets out and about often. Plenty of shit to do all year round, and Orlando is an easy jaunt to visit. Gas is cheap being right on the Gulf, and they've got professional sports teams to foll…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 04:38 PM
2

I KNOW I'll be fine in my thirties (barring some unforeseen catastrophe ruining me or societal collapse) but I sure wish I had gotten redpilled ~5 years earlier so I could have jump-started the process of maxing out SMV. I might actually have a house by now if I'd been saving properly.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 12:34 PM
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There is more than enough resources for everyone, There really aren't, unless you want the entire population of the planet to revert to a primitive, third-world lifestyle. We can't provide everyone with a home, car, flatscreen tv and swimming pool at our current tech and resource levels.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 07:19 PM
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i'm curious to how things will play out after the collapse. In a general sense, probably like it always has. If a man has guns, ammo, food, and followers, women will flock to his protection no matter how much of a sadistic dictator he is (and in this environment, sadistic dictators have distinct advantages) and he will have his pick of them whilst likely distributing the rest to his followers to keep them sated and obedient. Or maybe the collapse doesn't bring us down that far and we see a situa…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 12:47 PM
1

I feel you. On $45k a year (assuming minimal debt) you COULD spend beyond your means and take a shot at competing with mister movie theater, but you'd be unable to put away anything for your future and it STILL wouldn't guarantee success. And it is entirely possible that that guy is living completely beyond his means too and is actually deep in debt with alimony sucking him dry, but it doesn't matter to the women since he projects the right image. Hypergamy is a BITCH. And with the western world…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 02:07 AM
4

I don't envy the guys who have to pull some cost estimate for a hugely complex multi-stage project out of the nether.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 08:19 PM
1

Building them is far cheaper than buying them. Well, maybe not from a 'time-invested' point of view.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 08:09 PM
20

Related: Planning Fallacy Humans make plans based on the most optimistic estimate they can imagine, and that simply means that if ONE thing goes wrong, you blow your deadlines and things fall behind schedule. Best case you are late for an interview because you forgot to check to see if traffic was clear. Worst case, you build the Sydney Opera House. You think it will take you 6 months to ripped? Well you're forgetting that you're going to get injured and unable to go to the gym for a month, or t…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 07:23 PM
2

Examples: spinning plates doesn't work for me. I require some sort of depth to be interested in someone; a LTR is the only way I can end up fucking anyone. You should probably try spinning anyway. It is not impossible to turn a plate into an LTR once you get to know them. With that said, I find it nearly impossible to do the ONS thing as well because it feels like a waste of time. I guess I'm not sex-driven enough to go for a woman for the sole purpose of getting a notch on the headboard. OR I p…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 04:31 PM
2

Out of sheer curiosity: how does your sadism express itself? A) I like pointing out to people who aren't reaching their potential all the things they could have done better or differently and how helpless they are to change things now, and that they probably couldn't have the life they dream of even if they started trying now. I'm good at picking up on people's emotional weaknesses and attacking them with laser-like precision. But as you say, this doesn't move me forward. I don't need to destroy…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 02:54 PM
5

but you don't so much need prayer as the guts to stand in the cold, harsh light of reality and stare the truth in the face. Pretty much it. Gaze into that abyss and don't blink. After a while it becomes routine. it's knowing that if I don't keep myself in check I will wreck others for no damn good reason. Because I can. Because that form of sadism is gratifying to me. I can actually relate to this to a certain degree. My sadism comes out in a different form though. The nasty truth is everyone wa…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 01:55 PM
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If you're younger than 25 and this is pissing you off it's because your SMV has a WAYS to go. I cut them some slack. It is really frustrating to see the already saturated, cutthroat dating market being 'monopolized' by late 20's early 30's men who have had years to build SMV taking the most attractive (and hell, even the less attractive) women out of the pool and turning them into bigger whores than they were before. It feels like unfair competition, and to an extent it is. The early-twenties gu…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 01:37 PM
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I'm seeing some crazy signs here bud: She lives out of state Like, she has to take a flight or drive more than like 5 hours to see you? Don't expect that to turn into anything unless she is willing to relocate. but we communicate almost daily I think you're making yourself way too available for what you're getting, especially if you're only talking about personal shit. At first blush it seems like you're in emotional tampon territory. I visited her once before You. visited. her. Just consider a …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 01:06 PM
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Text her tomorrow to confirm the meeting. If she is still meeting you, then NO, you did not go too far, and you can perhaps investigate at the meeting itself. Radio silence should remain in place, and don't text anything that could be taken as an apology. IF you must talk to her, say that you'll 'answer that question when we speak in person' or something to that effect. Also, "I love trolling" is kinda weird to say, and not exactly 'playful' in the sense it intrigues her or amuses her. Might hav…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 12:49 PM
2

Innocence is an attractive trait in women. Experience is an attractive trait in men. Conversely, innocence is not attractive in men, experience is not attractive in women. These two traits are almost mutually exclusive, particularly in the sexual context. The more one increases their experience, the less they maintain their innocence. The woman who has been fucked up and down and every which way by dozens of men, who has done the most depraved sex acts before she turns 24, who has literally had …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 06:16 PM
4

If you succeed in making her hate you, you aren't very far away from making her fall in love with you. True, but depends on WHY she feels such hate. To wit: "I hate you because you take me out on wonderful dates and fuck me silly then ignore me for weeks and I see you with other women on social media." NOT "I hate you because you make me disgusted by your very presence." Wives who hate their husbands are usually in the latter camp. It is silly, but if you can inspire a woman to hate you, she'll …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 05:42 PM
11

Yeah, if you're smart you can definitely grok the teachings, but you have to apply it and see it work (and fail!) a lot to begin to integrate it. It'd be nice if you could just read all the material, think about it for a while, then go out and win... but it is a discipline like any other. It is not acquired overnight.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 05:11 PM
14

I think we need some posts on this topic. The message from most posts seems to be: ALPHA ALPHA ALPHA all the time and less about identifying the signs for when comfort is needed, and importantly responding correctly to them. It seems like it would need to be attuned to the woman and the actual relationship you have with her. ONS wouldn't need comfort, Plates probably need it on occasion, and LTRs, well you have to be prepared for it at any time. Not gonna lie, this part of TPR teaching seems lik…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 09:06 PM
12

I like the text game. When she said she had work until 10ish and said 'maybe' she was challenging you to be interesting enough to monopolize her night, and the 'adventure' line was a great way to pique that interest.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 01:43 PM
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I won't say that it wasn't wasted time, but at least you got something out of it during that time. The memories will end up being pleasant, but only AFTER you've stopped associating them with your feelings for her. I'm honestly just shocked how casually girls can end a relationship and act as if they never knew you. Recent post on here pointed out that however a woman feels about you at a given moment, that is how she believes she always felt about you. She constructs her memories based on emoti…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 09:02 PM
2

Hmm. How long did he work on her? I get that persistence works, but it smells almost like oneitis if he was focused on her and her alone for very long. Doubly so since he started mate-guarding. Also if she's a decent looking girl it would be strange if she was single for very long so as to give him the chance to work his way into her graces. Did she consider/fuck any other guys in that time, I wonder?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 07:36 PM
6

And nowadays we have women choosing mates to either get back at daddy or to replace an absentee daddy. Sometimes both at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 06:59 PM
2

No, you're right. I'm only using "asshole" in this context as a compare-and-contrast to 'nice.' To wit: "Nice" never gets you out of the friendzone, 'asshole' might get you out, and at least ensures you don't get put in. I said something like, "No. There's no way I can be friends with an attractive girl like you." Later that day we fucked. Cheesy, but that works. I suspect it ONLY worked because you were already FWB so the attraction was established, it was just a matter of smashing the shit tes…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 04:23 PM
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Breathe this in, because this is the cold truth of women's 'rationality' when picking a mate. Even if they have the basic intelligence to see that a man has desirable traits, even if they recognize that they themselves actually want those traits in a man, they can't override the basic instinctual desire that is attraction. No matter how educated and 'independent' they are, basic instincts rule the day. They can't deny it any more than they can deny themselves food when they're hungry. Now, this …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 04:08 PM
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Lets be fair, this is her recounting of the situation, coming through her lens. We can't be completely sure WHAT it was that didn't inspire attraction, all we know is that he didn't inspire attraction.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 03:57 PM
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Pump and dump destroys women. And they love destroying themselves. I liken it to adrenalin junkies who keep doing riskier and riskier stunts to get that rush, even though the danger of injury or death keeps increasing. As she gets more and more dead inside from the CC, she seeks it ever more doggedly to try and maintain the high. Not a perfect analogy, but it hits on the point that women want to FEEL things, and they go by the INTENSITY of the feeling more than anything else, not whether it is p…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 03:55 PM
2

Not sure how that disputes anything in this post. It seemed to mostly talk about current (not historical) societies.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 03:49 PM
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On the occasion you get to meet a given woman's mother, you are getting a valuable glimpse into said woman's psyche and what she will look and behave like in the future. Whatever neuroses, quirks, insecurities, and mannerisms the mother presents, you better bet the daughter has them too. Do with that as you will. Of course this is also strongly related to the presence of the father. A father who keeps his wife sufficiently in line will present a similar source of discipline to the daughter. And …
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 06:50 PM
4

One problem is that most of the events I could weave into stories didn't last all that long. I can embellish, of course, but ultimately its hard to stretch an experience that lasted maybe an hour into a rousing epic tale. Yes, I need to go out and do more interesting things, have more interesting experiences. With that said, I've gotten really good at capturing the emotion of a given event, and describing it in vivid enough terms that it sounds more intense to the listener.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 09:57 PM
9

It is great advice to everyone from their perspective because it encourages you to let down your guard and means they have to do less work discovering your flaws and using them to discount you. Less effort for them to make their selection.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 03:24 PM
1

How long did it take to get the date after that? Sounds like it might have taken a month or more. I only ask because you kept her in mind even after the LJBF and you didn't just move on and forget her. Wondering if there was anything in particular that made her worth retrying.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 05:19 PM
2

I've had best results not even acknowledging the statement. That is easier over text though. Most of the time they don't follow up and demand an answer, which I kind of take as a tacit admission of attraction. So in a sense, the LJBF line is a very specialized shit test.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 02:44 PM
10

I've said it a few times: you can escape the friendzone as long as you don't let them put you in the box in the first place. You either reject the offer or you ignore it, so they can never point towards your acceptance as a means to shut down your advances. You can easily view the LJBF approach as a specialized shit test, designed to test your willingness to be an orbiter. Basically, she can't friendzone you without your consent. And she can't/won't psychologically view you as a friend when you …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 02:28 PM
11

Well, if nothing else you inspired me to get my ass out of bed and go to the gym this morning. I was lying here feeling like sleeping in and blowing off responsibilities (just for today, I tell myself). But that ain't discipline. I CAN get shit done today! Good post. I would add that it is important to get enough sleep and take periods to recharge in general. Discipline takes far more mental effort than laziness, and depleting your store of mental energy makes you vulnerable. Schedule in time to…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 01:07 PM
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Biggest lesson I have learned/am learning: When you are dealing with a woman who has already shown interest in you (key point!), and you aren't sure whether to play it as 'nice' or 'asshole,' (not that those are the only options), 9/10 you should default to 'asshole.' I myself ALWAYS, ALWAYS defaulted to 'nice' when faced with an ambiguous statement/question from a woman. Oh, I can be a cynical, sarcastic jerk easily, but only when I felt that she was already receptive to it. I ALWAYS volunteere…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 09:02 PM
1

Dread game is just the subtle but clear demonstration that you have options and can walk away if you choose. You can do that by just doing your normal routine of getting into/staying in shape, keeping your finances in order, and keep up a social life outside of her. Things you should be doing anyway. And that simply means that if she DOES cheat, you can and DO walk away. If you've gone so far as to actually marry the girl (against all advice) you may as well try and keep her in line.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 08:31 PM
9

I even loaned $600 to the land whale to get a third trimester abortion fathered by a man she cheating with during her own marriage!! And the cow never paid me back! Wow. I mean, is there a word that goes beyond 'shameless' because that right there is what I would call her behavior.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 07:09 PM
22

Jesus Fuck. Can't trust your wife to go out with her friends? These friends who know she is married? The PI has seen it dozens, hundreds of times evidently, or else he wouldn't call it out on the spot like that. Dread game needs to be a constant factor, apparently. Only other option is keeping her indoors at night or sending out a trusted male chaperone for constant supervision.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 04:28 PM
31

There was a time when many women weren’t sluts. They would save sex for men that they were truly interested in marrying, without having fun little casual flings between those guys. They would marry a good man at a young age, even though they were still pretty and could have played the field a little longer, had some fun, and met some other guys. They would spend these young, pretty years – the best years of their life – with the man they chose to marry. They would have his children, care for the…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 04:09 PM
15

No mention of this but the big one I observed: Suddenly finding religion and being real devout about it. This might depend on your area, but it was eye-opening to me when I saw women in my peer group that I knew had been all-out partiers in college and beyond suddenly start posting about finding Jesus and how thankful they are that all that sin in their past is forgiven. It is like a cheat code for getting a 'clean break' from their prior behavior and signalling just how mature and good they are…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 03:42 PM
4

Good FR, but was it really a "mistake" to escalate via text? I'm not clear on the alternative, if you had already established dominance. I'm dealing with a submissive chick now and while I absolutely get that it takes in person contact to build attraction, I have been periodically texting her the things I want her to do and that I might do to her, and she seems super responsive. Dates Tuesday. Im saving the real vile stuff for the actual meeting but I see benefits to keeping her on edge in the m…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 02:26 AM
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I just can't respect her enough to have a relationship. Because I consider women to be a shitty investment of time in general. I'm seeing that you have some level of conflict in your goals here. IF you are in fact looking for a relationship, then you ought to be considering other factors than the sex. If you generally consider women a waste of time, then why are you seeking a relationship. If you are looking for relationships, then have a few other boxes that need to be checked other than "has s…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 08:52 PM
19

Less. Is more. That means: Fewer words in your texts Less reaction to her in general: Laugh less at her jokes. React less to her stories. Less interest in her affairs: Don't ask about her life. Don't make callbacks to things you've talked about before. It helps to realize that there is NOT any magical phrase or set of words that, if said in the right combination with the right cadence and timing, will open up her legs. That magic spell does not exist. If you're trying THAT approach it is like tr…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 06:44 PM
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FUUUUUUCK. This is exactly the tactic I needed. I've had difficulty getting them into my place and I needed some what to get them to meet at my place first. This seems terribly effective and efficient.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 02:02 PM
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Weird cycle it is, the younger guys get angry about having to compete with older guys for women their own age, then when they get older they compete with younger guys for the girls they were 'deprived' of when they were that age. It is 'fair' in a sense. Frustrating, but at least younger guys can count on their SMV peaking in their early 30's if they plan and work for it. But as one of those younger guys... FUCK YOUUUUUU.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 03:37 PM
1

I assume you were also exchanging photos as well, maybe the occasional call. Which is to say, there were definite demonstrations of value being made above and beyond the artful texting you pulled off.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 01:54 AM
7

Viagra. Get really good at eating pussy. NoFap.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 06:14 PM
7

I've been kinky for years now, but it always felt like a part I was playing and not who I was until I integrated TRP teachings to actually become dominant. Now that I am inhabiting the role (or trying to) and really getting into the psychology of submission, its a far more intriguing, complex world than it might seem. Basic rules still apply to be sure, but negotiating actual behavior is a sensitive dance. You can get into some complex shit when you're pushing a girl to her limits and beyond. Th…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 03:34 PM
2

That and he's giving her all the validation she seeks without her actually putting out. It is about making her actually STRIVE for your approval, not letting it flow freely. Being stoic and silent beats gushing so it's better to start saying nothing and then work into more complimentary statements.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 03:12 PM
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unless she is a very shy and insecure girl. Probably an important caveat. The girl with self-esteem issues does need to be drawn out of her shell and made to feel good enough.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 12:44 PM
3

Yep, I definitely have had that 'problem' arise where a woman complains that I didn't appreciate her effort to look good. That is a shit test on it's own, but something you can head off. My current strategy is to use a handful of scattered minor compliments about various aspects of her appearance, and then drop one big one ("you look fucking amazing tonight") at the opportune time. If all else fails, drop it on her as the date is drawing to a close so at least it is there. MAYBE not complimentin…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 12:42 PM
4

Just the stupid ones, personally. If only they weren't so numerous.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 04:52 PM
24

Stefan Molyneux's Story of Your Enslavement nails it pretty well. Humans, their labor and creativity and intelligence, are the most valuable resource on the planet (I'd argue that fertile, fit females are literally the most valuable resource on the planet, but that's not relevant atm) and it is way easier to harness them as a resource if they are docile, compliant, and superficially 'happy'. Exactly like farm animals. BP programming is just society's way of producing good cattle to fuel the syst…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 12:36 PM
1

I'm tall and lean, so at least I got that going for me. But I'm not "hot" to the point where I drown in pussy. I barely have a few matches here and there on Tinder. Then it sounds like you got extremely lucky, to tell the truth. If you get the chance you should probably ask her why she picked you out of the dozens or hundreds of other matches she had. Or not, it doesn't matter and don't look a gift horse in the mouth. All that matters is you got her. So I just pretended I was still doing what I …
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 05:53 PM
3

End of the day, it is better to be happy to have fucked a HB9-10 than it is to be depressed that your previous LTR dumped you. This is only a step forward from where he was.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 04:40 PM
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After telling the bad news to my GF, she dumped me within 48h. Brutal, cold, but not surprising. Good FR, man. I'm actually amazed it went so well given the constraints and mental stress/distraction you were operating under. I assume you are a really good looking dude to pick up a HB10 on your first foray into Tinder. Also, why would you give up on Kino just because couches weren't available? I don't think picking the right place is all that important overall. The best advice I've heard is to ju…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 03:22 PM
8

Definitely. I should clarify that I actually went on a date with a girl that fits this description, we still talk. She was raised by a strong father who provided a formidable presence and kept her in line. Alas he died when she was in high school. She is 'different' in that she knows her role. She acknowledges fully that men have the hard job, that men have to do all the seducing, and she is openly admitting that she needs an alpha, manly man to keep her in line. She is still crazy as fuck, but …
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 06:58 PM
8

When a woman isn't attracted to you, it doesn't matter what you do or say Yep. The exact same words or behavior from a guy she's attracted to will be instantly rejected if she doesn't find you attractive. Which is why frame is so damn important. No matter how well you play your cards, the only way it means anything is if she keeps finding you attractive. Attraction is necessary, words are never sufficient. If the light-switch is currently 'off,' then nothing you say can turn it back on.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 06:56 PM
6

Props on getting her early and stuff, clearly you're doing a lot of things right, but you must have a lot in your favor to keep her around that long.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 06:47 PM
13

At the bottom line women just want to bask in good and extreme feelz because that's what makes their lives worthwhile. The rest is just bullshit exposition. Women are kinda like adrenaline junkies in that sense. Constantly seeking out the biggest rush or sensation they can find, then leaving once it subsides and they grow a tolerance.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 05:31 PM
23

I think that a woman brought up in a household with sufficient boundaries and discipline can turn out alright. Still crazy, but able to recognize that she is and limit herself. But we are in a time period where there are no boundaries or discipline for the vast majority of women...
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 05:30 PM
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The plus side (for us) is that this works in reverse. Even if you've had a negative experience with a particular woman, you still have some time to turn it around and 'erase' her past negative feelings... well 'erase' isn't quite right, she'll remember them when she switches back. If she currently feels attraction towards you then she will believe she was always attracted to you. It is also why (among other reasons) women will stick with abusive, manipulative assholes (real ones, not the TRP boo…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 05:24 PM
8

I think the lesson to pull from this (and one I've experienced as well): IF you lose face with her, do what is necessary to regain it immediately.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 07:30 PM
3

Bingo. I've done it twice, made out with one of them at a bar the day after she gave me the 'lets be friends' talk. You have to displace the memory and ignite desire. Whatever you did or were before, if you improve on it and show that you DGAF, it can get you out of the friendzone. First step: don't acknowledge the offer of 'friendship' or brush it off. She can't put you in that box if you never assent. And if you do acknowledge and accept it, then she has a ready excuse if you try moves on her.…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 07:04 PM
3

If she friendzones you, then you are basically done: you can only later get into her pants as a beta provider or second banana (so to speak). It can happen, but you've got to displace the memory that led her to friendzone you with attraction again. Its an uphill battle, and probably not worth the effort because the prize is not going to be particularly special. You can just go out and approach a chick that hasn't friendzoned you and get the same outcome without having to paper over the beta you …
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 03:22 PM
2

Its not just a TV show, it is basically every TV show, movie, magazine, and book that they consume that is normalizing a and glamorizing a particular lifestyle. There is no facet of media that isn't pushing the narrative. They're saturated in it. It is why I think one (unlikely) solution is to set up a society that is cut off from that culture as much as possible. But yes, women are easily influenced by media. Big surprise.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 09:01 PM
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I haven't lived in big cities much of my life, but I have to assume you're correct, the social pressure both from immediate peers and media (Sex in the City, basically any show with attractive young people in New York) to get out and bang would make it nigh-impossible to resist. Women take their cues from the herd, if everyone in the herd is slutting it up, it is what she'll view as normal. But if you get out of big cities you will actually have to work to even find the women you would consider …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 03:19 PM
2

Feminism and the shift of public values never would have happened without this. Now they're like a child alone in a candy shop and just can't help themselves. Not quite that simple. Men gave up the helm of society, too. Having a legal system that at least acknowledged that women were too undisciplined to truly be responsible for their actions and that they were likewise the key to a society's long-term success would help. But we gave women the vote way back when, and required absolutely nothing …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 02:43 PM
17

That has always been the issue, at least of late. Between the fatties, feminists, single mothers, post-wall, and the sluts (theres some overlap) I'm willing to bet that only 5-7% of the eligible female population is really fit for marriage. Might be a bit more than that, but any guy who is seriously looking for an LTR and wants kids down the line is basically looking for buried treasure in a minefield.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 02:32 PM
7

Not questioning the veracity of the story, but what kind of chick are we talking about? Does not sound like a serious hottie. No judgment, but it would explain why she was so willing to go after so little action on your part.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 08:23 PM
1

For all of these reasons, if your pride wouldn't be enough, women who are repulsed / unmoved / indifferent to you should just be left alone... Yes, however if you are truly improving yourself and working on your game and SMV, then it should be completely possible to overcome the repulsion and make her feel something... assuming you did not severely screw up the first time such that your very name is tainted in her memory. The goal isn't so much about wearing down the repulsion as it is displacin…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 02:12 PM
7

The issue is finding such a worthy woman in today's environment, then confirming sufficiently that she is worthy before locking yourself to her. I don't think the statistics are in favor of guys seeking LTRs finding them before: A) They are snatched up by some other guy B) They become crazy cat-ladies C) HE screws up and marries a hoe, and misses his shot at a decent LTR, maybe gets divorce-raped down the line. If only about 10% of the female population is viable LTR material (just throwing out …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 01:56 PM
0

There is an unholy tendency in all of us to fall in love of people "outside our reach" (it applies to men and women as well). We see power in the one who belittles us (via "too great to be mine" mentality)... That I have to agree with. I always have the urge when the "Lets be friends" talk hits to think "well this is just an even better challenge to overcome. Sounds fun!" And fool myself into devoting extra energy just to see if I can win. And there is the reward of reversing the power dynamic. …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 03:01 PM
1

Because I could have taken the Kino WAY further than I did, and she would have been into it for sure. You don't find girls that freaky too often, want to capitalize when you do.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 08:12 PM
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Persistence is really important, but be careful about putting your target on a pedestal/getting mild oneitis. Balance it with patience and abundance mentality. And don't ever take a 'no' for an answer unless it is, as mentioned above, backed by actions. If she rejects your approach but continues giving attention, then understand that she IS interested, but needs you to either rehabilitate yourself or try again under better circumstances. This ALSO applies to the dreaded 'can we be friends' line.…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 06:12 PM
3

I just wish this had been made apparent before the first date.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 07:25 PM
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Adding to that, I realized that when they say this they are basically saying "Give us as many excuses not to fuck you as possible." They want you to be relaxed and open and revealing the tiny defects they can use to reject you, so they don't risk giving it up for a subpar man. That's literally what this advice boils down to: "advertise your flaws so we don't have to do work uncovering them."
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 05:53 PM
3

I had to do this recently. I'm chatting with a girl who I've had one date with and she likes, nay LOVES to drop lines about the sexual things her previous boyfriends have done to her while they were in public. She's a freak in that regard. So basically I'm going to have to up the ante at our next encounter so that somewhere down the line I'll be the one she's spewing about.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 05:50 PM
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I feel you man. It triggers that instant competitive instinct in me. "This guy is on her mind right now, what do I have to do or say to make her think about me?" And when I get caught up on that, it throws off my other thought processes too, which makes it harder to focus on the task at hand. Actually, my whole issue right now is the "How do I stop my inner mind from being a turmoil of emotions and doubt and pain even as I have a solid and stoic facade?" I can take the hardest verbal hit without…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 05:33 PM
2

Yeah, that was a stupid line. The beta thing would be to panic, run around like a headless chicken and take no decisive action, instead letting others act. The only thing he could have done better is somehow tend to the wound himself and treat it sufficiently to forgo a trip to the hospital entirely, and he'd have to be a doctor himself to justify that.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 01:11 AM
5

But you're getting the girls, and you presumably did some work to get them?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 06:39 PM
4

Only if you don't see improving/fixing the social problems identified in the OP as a worthy goal.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 05:16 PM
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Omegas are the completely passive bystanders. Not even trying (lack of will, lack of resources, apathy) to play the game so they can't even be said to be playing the game 'badly.' Betas are the ones who are trying to play the game but are completely misguided as to the rules and their own role. They play the game badly and get pissed off when they aren't winning. The only people they have to take that rage out on are omegas.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 05:16 PM
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Holy SHIT do I empathize with this. The statistics are morbidly fascinating in how they show how the average male (and female, but they're not, as a gender, cognizant enough to be responsible for their actions) is completely screwed out of any sort of shot at fulfillment. HOWEVER Well the reality is it is physically impossible for every male to be in the top 10% because by definition if we all improved together, they're would still be a top 10% among any division of people, even the best have a …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 05:12 PM
3

"wtf happened I was out there making decisions for like 2 seconds and they all took dicks while we weren't looking!" That is seriously how it felt/feels talking with some women I know personally, of various ages. Girls in early 20's who have already done the foulest shit. 18-20 year olds already practicing open hypergamy and seeking sugar daddies. As a simple numbers game, the odds of finding a woman who is actually worth settling with is absurdly low. There are steps you can take to improve cha…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 12:54 AM
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You got me there. I plan too much and depend on spontaneity too little. I have to knock a few drinks into me before I let the id take control from the superego. Although the kiss was specifically because she was a submissive and she wanted to be taken in that manner. It might be overkill with an average girl, but this was a scenario where I knew it would be accepted. Not going to put much more thought to it at this point. I have two other girls, one who is 99% DTF although not as hot as this one…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 04:24 AM
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Yep. I was being too wiling to cow to her needs, not follow up on my own. I do think the chess game was important. But when it became clear she had something else on her mind I should have taken the exit as offered. I wonte spend much time on repairs, and enjoy what I did get out of it.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 09:18 PM
2

All good points. Im tied too much into empathizing. I definitely made myself too open, but to my credit I waited a full hour before acknowledgimg her good morning text. I fucked up opening the door, but I honestly did not expect the torrent I recieved. Lesson learned. Shut her out. I did feel great after the date, would prefer to see her again but I won't burn too much effort. lessons learned.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 07:55 PM
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Buckle down for a long post, I'm spilling guts on this one for my own edification. This one is a doozy for me, probably good that I had the experience. Been on the RP for about 6 months, This year I vowed to devote to self-improvement, and it is going well so far. I'm now serious about meeting women, so I actually put in effort. Result: 3 girls I've got texting me at once. 1 I met at bachelor party, she lives 2 1/2 hours away so not a priority. Other two I met through a particular dating site, b…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 05:05 PM
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Congrats! You're in the 10%. If you get caught on a minor infraction and you don't want to make yourself look suspicious, answer their direct questions, but don't feel the need to fall over yourself explaining your actions. The cops are looking for a reason to arrest you. Trespassing on public land isn't enough (unless you look suspicious, then it's fair game bro) to be worth the hassle, but your mouth can only get you in trouble.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 02:29 AM
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And I would much, MUCH rather get to suppress all the evidence found during an unlawful search than have to go to trial and deal with all the evidence they collected because your dumb ass consented to the search. Again, NOT saying anything means you DON'T waive any of your rights. The law is clear on at least one point: choosing to remain silent CANNOT be used against you. Your lawyer can work miracles as long as you didn't consent to the Police searching shit.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 02:27 AM
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Criminal Defense attorney here: can confirm. Unless the cops catch you directly in the act of doing something and have it on camera (and even then) the single best thing you can do to protect yourself down the line is to shut the fuck up. Don't admit to it and try and reason/weasel your way out, don't pretend to be confused as to what you did or didn't do, and DO NOT try and ingratiate yourself to the cop and appeal to his better nature. There's a 10% chance that the above methods will work, but…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 06:51 PM
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Might need to work them up to that. Get them into a strip club and show them how far $50 takes them, and at the same time help them remove women from the pedestal. Might also help to point out that there is nothing really honorable about giving a woman gifts in exchange for attention, nor is there anything particularly dishonorable about giving one money in exchange for sex directly. The nature of each transaction is the same, but one is actually open about it and will actually get you something…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 06:11 PM
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I don't doubt that this feeds their self-esteem in some shallow, inconsequential way, but it is still irrational since they could be getting much more fulfillment putting that money to other uses. And whatever the benefits, the drive that is causing them to do this is one that is tuned to achieve reproduction. If they aren't getting that, they are inherently going to be unfulfilled no matter how they rationalize it. Whether they admit it to themselves or not, their brain is doing this as a (horr…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 06:04 PM
1

That holds true until it doesn't. The emasculated men won't fight... but they can't fight BACK either. It only takes a few men who are willing to fight to completely run them over.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 04:33 PM
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Yeah, I'm of two minds about it. On the one hand it reduces competition for sex. On the other hand, it does in fact encourage shitty behavior from females because the feedback rewards them for exploiting their looks. It might even decrease everyone else' chance of getting sex since the women learn that they don't have to give it up for goodies. And its rational to do so, so I can't even fault them for doing it. I have a solid rule to just NEVER do favors for a female who isn't in my immediate ci…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 03:39 PM
7

Better to be overprepared than under. Avoid abject alarmism but don't act like things can't get bad.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 04:28 PM
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Good formula for an armed, angry upheaval as well. Wonder what contingency plans the government has in place for when the men get pissed enough to actually do something? It is literally insane to me that we see these government willfully throwing their citizens, who they ostensibly are elected to represent, under the bus for people from outside who don't actually care for the country and it's history. There is no good way out of the situation, that much must be accepted.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 04:24 PM
2

There's a whole lot of biological and cultural programming to overcome. The marriage concept itself is sound. It is a romantic notion that has social utility. But the current reality of 'marriage' is nothing like the cultural ideal that people believe in. People think 'getting married' is great, and the actual consequences in the real world get left for later.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 05:29 PM
8

Have to be careful with that, though. People can afford to be nice nowadays because we live in a prosperous time. There is no reason to think that we've magically evolved away from the roots that drive us to violence. If things take a serious downturn, if life is no longer as comfortable, if food and other necessities actually become hard to come by, you can fully expect people will revert to evil acts to keep themselves alive. You'll never go wrong assuming that the only thing that keeps people…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 05:25 PM
2

That seems to be how the world works now. In your 20's unless you're fabulously lucky, you work your arse off for whatever pickings you can get and jack off to porn most of the time. You see all the prime picks going for older, established men, and you curse and resent said men for being unfair competition for the already scarce number of fuckable women. Then, if you don't fuck up too badly, you get into a career, take care of yourself, and make it into your 30s with a decent job, savings, and g…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 11:55 PM
24

One of the awesome things about the tech industries is that the barriers to entry are naturally high enough that it keeps out the people who aren't going to hack it, and those who manage to make it through can't just fake their way to success or otherwise disguise a basic lack of competency. The fact that women aren't getting in is NOT something you can paper over by setting hiring quotas, since you can't just hire someone on and then let them piggyback off others while they learn the job. So th…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 02:08 PM
21

I think you're confusing being nice with being respectful. Nobody gets anything by being nice alone. If you don't have their respect, being nice won't get it. Being nice won't get you anything by itself, so people who have to be nice are people who have nothing else to go on. I never said being nice is bad, only that for some people it is a hedge because they have nothing else.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 08:18 PM
15

Yup. That guy has been out there swinging away for years and usually striking out. Then he finally hits a home run, and NOW the feminists show up and say "GIVE US SOME OF YOUR SUCCESS!" SHOO. Go create and pitch your own shows, maybe you can get some yourself! I also bet that Justin, who is a geeky looking dude, lets be honest get's laid way more easily now.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 03:31 PM
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The best quote from Season 2 came from the finale (no spoilers): Rick is an asshole, and he acknowledges it, but he states that is because he's the smartest person in the room, so he has no need to be nice because Being nice is something stupid people do to hedge their bets. Really hits on a fundamental social truth. You can interpret this a few ways, but for RP relevance, it states that Betas are 'nice guys' because their SMV is so low that they would drive people away if they exhibited 'alpha'…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 02:56 PM
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Also should note that this pressure didn't kick in until it was clear that the show was a big hit. There are a ton of others shows on adult swim that are (as far as I know) written only by men, but they don't have the mainstream appeal so they never enter into the consciousness of feminists, since they do not offer anything they want (exposure and attention). So they're literally focusing on trying to jump on and ride coattails of a show that two men have already pushed to popularity.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 02:43 PM
10

I daresay that if all the women disappeared, ALL of the scientific research on the planet would immediately be turned to engineering a replacement for the women. Since we already know that sex is one of male's primary motivators, they'd all be on board with bringing back our main outlet for sex. And with luck, they'd successfully make one with all the upsides and few if any of the downsides.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 01:52 AM
3

On the nose. Its born out of a theory that is specifically engineered to generate and thrive off of conflict and the rage it produces. Its designed so that attempts to resist it produce more rage and fuel for the inferno and are thus consumed. It taps into the worst of tribalistic, self-serving, "other" fearing emotional instincts that drive humans. The literal only way to effectively combat it is to not give a fuck and to become an immovable object in terms of its ability to criticize you. Anyt…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 11:57 PM
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My buddy who graduated law school a year and some odd months ago is strongly considering this path simply because its a guaranteed paycheck and you don't have to feel bad about ruining someone's life... if they come to you they're already pretty fucking ruined, just trying to figure out a path forward. I just told him to make sure he mainly represents husbands.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 06:00 AM
6

Most likely its got a lot to do with the increasing ability to compare yourself to your neighbors. The other poster actually said it. "The grass is always greener." Whatever position a woman is in in the world, she can check her instragram and facebook feed and see another woman doing something which she envies. I mean consider: If a woman is a stay-at-home mom with a stable, supportive hubby she'll see a lot of her friends out constantly partying or taking exotic trips and basically appearing t…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 02:22 PM
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Yeah, essentially men were taught the rules of the game growing up, but then the actual game they entered was run completely differently. The objectives remain: fulfill your biological imperatives, find a partner, pass on genes, and extract as much happiness as you can with your time. The rules we were taught were: respect and cherish all women in your life, be a gentleman and keep your nose to the grindstone, eventually you'll find a pretty young lady in a cute dress, she'll take a fancy to you…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 03:54 AM
2

Ever watched "Justified?" Raylan Givens, Boyd Crowder,, and Tim Gutterson all demonstrate slightly different takes on the Alpha male identity, particularly towards the women in their life. Also I guess I need to watch High Plains Drifter.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:31 PM
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That made me go 'holy shit' for two reasons. 1) It has a bunch of big name actors right before they went big (fuckin' Chris Pratt, Chris Evans, Martin Freeman) and Tripp from Agents of Shield. 2) It almost insulting how they play out that story. Every dude she wants (successful and handsome) is gay or taken, and the ones that are available ain't good enough for her. Sorry hon, that's about how it works. And its not like they could have telegraphed the ending any more.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 01:49 PM
8

You're using signaling for the opposite effect. "This car has nothing in it worth stealing, this car is not worth the trouble to steal." All else being equal the thief will pick the expensive looking car over the beater, even if you keep a bag full of cash in the trunk of your car, since they have to choose based on what they can see. Is it really worth spending the extra cash? All else being equal, the woman you're eying up will probably choose the guy with the nice car too. For similar reasons…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 08:15 AM
80

Its simply a form of signalling. For guys, a built up body can signal things like: I have an abundance of food (indicating some level of wealth) and enough free time to devote to fitness, yet I also have the discipline and drive to keep up this physique. I value my own health. I take pride in my appearance, and I am not the type to cut corners to succeed. I have a lot of energy and stamina. AND that he's aware that he is sending this message to others and takes care about cultivating a good imag…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 06:05 PM
1

I'll tell you why I did: you convince yourself that if you keep pretending the rules are different, acting like the rules are different, eventually people will see that its better and the rules will change. I thought my way was better and that it would be adopted by others once they see how superior it was. But eventually I realized that you only get one chance at the game, and you can't get back all the time you waste complaining about the rules, so you may as well start winning based on the ru…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 12:10 AM
2

Perhaps slightly more accurate: they know the rules of the game and think they should be changed to their own benefit (which is rational) and expect the rules to change by ignoring the reality and stubbornly adhering to the rules they prefer as if that will inspire others. At least, I remember being that way. "If I act like a gentleman in public and treat all ladies with respect, eventually people will see the superiority of this method and emulate it it themselves!" If I'm honest, I still feel …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 05:50 AM
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