| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | DON'T DATE SIGNIFICANTLY OLDER MEN.Threw up in my mouth a little reading this. Men are absolute fucking pigs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 09:45 PM |
| 2 | So I tend to be a pickmeisha. I’m not proud of it and I’m working on improving. This guy showed me why I need to work on my independence. I turned down a date because the pandemic & then quickly got sick after. Here’s how he reacted after finally asking how I’m doing (two weeks later)This guy is bragging about hanging out with people when you just told him you’re sick AND while everyone should be in isolation.. wtf. I’d block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 02:37 AM |
| 4 | During this time...100% needed this. Thank you for the reminder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 06:14 PM |
| 1 | 27f wants to know if she is being too needy by expecting her 46 yo cokehead drug addict boyfriend to communicate with her when he claims he’s “busy”. He left her to deal with the symptoms resulting from using emergency contraceptive by herself.Yikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 01:30 AM |
| 24 | are typos a deal breaker? how to bring it up in a kind way?Typos and grammar mistakes are two different things. When a guy has a typo/grammar more than a few times it’s definitely a turn off for me because it shows either lack of intelligence or lack of care, which are both revolting in my book, especially if I’m obviously speaking in an educated manner to him. You should talk to him about it, and reevaluate being exclusive if it really bothers you that much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 01:28 AM |
| 8 | Experienced FDSers - translation requestThis right here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Let's play a game! ☆ Describe your exes in 10 words or fewer ☆Your #2 describes my ex perfectly. If only he had ambition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:00 AM |
| 142 | "Sexual compatibility" is a load of shitAgreed. It’s also pretty easy to detect sexual compatibility early on without having sex. There are other ways (I.e. kissing, romantic touching, personality, chemistry) that can determine this and anyone who says otherwise is just trying to get in your pants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 11:11 PM |
| 10 | Social media questionThis is probably the most solid advice. I see people on Instagram with a new boyfriend every 2 months and it’s just tacky and embarrassing on their part. You don’t know a person well enough after only one month of exclusivity to know they’ll be sticking around for the long run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 02:50 AM |
| 9 | Pickme’s at it again with their nonsenseSis needs to delete this post. I’m feeling second hand embarrassment on her behalf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 04:02 AM |
| 6 | I(21F) need help deciding if I should stay in a relationship with my fiance(28M) or if he's not really committed to meDo it NOW. Stop thinking about what’s best for him. Do what’s BEST FOR YOU. Get out. He doesn’t deserve anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 07:02 PM |
| 5 | I(21F) need help deciding if I should stay in a relationship with my fiance(28M) or if he's not really committed to meGirl. You are letting him manipulate you into thinking what he’s doing is okay. You need to put your foot down and get out this relationship before he does something to hurt you even worse. You obviously have a lot of insecurity issues you need to deal with, and being in a relationship with a man that’s gaslights you is going to continue to lead down a very dark path. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 07:01 PM |
| 17 | GOOD MORNING TO EVERYONE EXCEPT ROBGo 👏🏼 off 👏🏼 sis 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 05:51 PM |
| 2 | I think I found a HVM but I’m not catching feelingsIt’s still pretty early. I would just feel it out and see if you have a connection with time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Should I just unmatch?Girl... you’re giving him all the cards to play you. You need to unmatch and block. Also as a new rule of thumb, don’t match someone again that previously ignored you. They aren’t going to change just because you matched them again. If he was a HVM, he would’ve asked you out from the very beginning and never done all of this on and off shit with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 02:07 PM |
| 8 | LEAVE THESE MEN IN 2019I would’ve started flirting and conversing with other men if a dude pulled some shit like that on me. If he’s single he’s going home alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 03:55 PM |
| 10 | Don’t be like me and fall for the bait but anger, frustration and confusion and my broken heart got the better of me. This guy left me bc he didn’t want to date anyone and wanted time to his kids. FF 2 months and he tries to match me and I respond like a dumbo 😭told him to go F himself tho🤷🏽♀️Block him everywhere. Fuck that dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 08:24 PM |
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