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Sex drives change over time but you'll do best to find a person thats aleast in the same zone. If you can go literally everyday and your partner is the biweekly type(assuming everything else is fine). Its never going to work out. One is going to be annoyed by constant advances, while the other will most likely break(cheat) or get into some stuff to compensate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 09:24 PM
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As a guy I love when girls approach me or at least give me a sign(obvious) suggesting they're interested
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 12:20 AM
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Cheers for the tips/advice. I know I've wasted time and such. However after she asked if I wanted to meet up on Tuesday I figured I'd make a move or cut my losses if nothing happens.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:39 PM
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Understandable. Ty for the coherent reply
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:28 PM
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Yep I'm confused now... My replies and updates clearly state that I'm NOT dropping money on her. Am I spending time? Yes, admittedly I could be better about that but I'm still learning trp. Additionally I have other plates that I'm working on sooo yea...
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:22 PM
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Still new to this... Could you elaborate on how I'm getting fucked?
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:11 PM
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Neither are nearby unfortunately. However will keep in mind for future reference
/r/askTRP04/06/18 01:55 PM
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? I haven't paid yet mate. Either we split or she pays. Total investment thus far: $30 and maybe 5hrs(including movie). Agreed should have closed but I have other plates so I'm not really bothered
/r/askTRP04/06/18 01:19 PM
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Fortunately I haven't spent much as dinner has been super low-key (Chipotle). Even then we split or she pays (mommy and daddy must be doing well). My fault I haven't escalated enough. However as I said I plan to close or pass. Will take advice on park/hike most likely. Just wasn't sure where else
/r/askTRP04/06/18 01:17 PM
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Damn this is literally me. College/HS were easy because I was an athlete. However most of them moved away,became bums, too beta/whipped
/r/askTRP04/06/18 01:02 PM
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Been in this scenario and tested the water. Won't lie turned into something purely physical and got bored. However Im not interested in having a fan/worshipper. She wasn't ambitious enough. Shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 01:58 PM
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You need to change your routine. Do something different if you've been consistently having the same results then you've been consistently don't the wrong thing. Sounds like you have a bit of funds. Go travel, join a team, volunteer etc
/r/askTRP02/06/18 03:00 AM
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Yeah tbh I've read alot of posts about going solo (I even tried it and it went decent). However I really enjoy quiet evenings with a book or whatever
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 02:21 AM
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It's funny my hair line is basically an M at the moment but I've been pulling more girls than when I had a perfect hairline. Just own that shit. Keep it low, give up on anything too fancy. Girls will focus more on your body. Honestly perceive it this way. If you approach some girls with a fucked hair cut then you get extra points haha
/r/askTRP01/06/18 10:05 PM
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Interesting, girls always offer to split the tab. Regardless of their age. I tend to stick with girls who have jobs so that could be why.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:55 PM
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I've pulled more since my hairline became an "M" lol
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:59 AM
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As a mid 20s guy. I don't think marriage is going away if anything it's getting better. People no longer are hung up on getting married. They're more than happy to cohab for awhile to make sure they have the right one. So when people do decide to get married it's usually a mutually well thought out decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 04:06 AM
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Referenced the hell out of this. In the adulthood section but all of it is key advice
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 02:31 AM
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Is Chad a personality or state of being ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 02:18 AM
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Most recent girl I was talking to/dating was of this mindset. Ended because of me dropping frame but still proves that if you at least have a good reason/plan/SMV girls won't care
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:42 AM
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Job is good just getting paid low. Finances are improving. Furthermore I'm the type of person who can't grow while I'm at home for various reasons. I've fared better on my own
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:19 AM
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Your comment is exactly my mindset. I can pretty easily have a date almost every weekend but conversation gets tricky when they mention their place and enquire about mine. Really does fuck up my flow. Yeah those are the two I've done the most. However my bank account weeps for the $100 Trying to continue to save/ find a new job to support a new place sooner
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:55 AM
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My parents are very cultural/traditional, additionally it sets a bad example for my sis. The only girls I've brought home were my girlfriends who I dated for at least 3+ months lol.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:51 AM
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Awful how ? U22 tend to be more wild/fun and maybe prone to bullshit. While 22- 25 I've found a good percentage to be hoes attempting (but failing) to reform lol. 25-30 begin to play Lord of the Ring. 30+ are full Gollum hahaha
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:40 AM
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Gonna give this a go. Set to 18-20 for 15mile(I live in a more rural area) Got a new match with 10 mins lol We'll see if more roll in.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 10:54 PM
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I've seen this popping up on a lot of subs. Do you think 5 is too big a spread?
/r/askTRP28/05/18 10:13 PM
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I'd say 26+ tend to be cocky
/r/askTRP28/05/18 09:50 PM
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What dates do you do for girls under 21 ?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 09:08 PM
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I feel in Europe people move out really young. Is this true?
/r/askTRP28/05/18 02:27 PM
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This depends honestly. I dated a reformed slut. The sex was AMAZING. However she inevitably got bored and said she wanted to started dating(hoeing) around again. I was fine though because I knew h-day would come eventually. I don't shame any girl because of their hoe tendencies however don't act innocent either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:02 AM
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Pretty much this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 09:12 PM
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Bruh, just sit back and await this shit to blow up in Beta Billy's face. Grab some other action on the side
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 09:06 PM
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Vented to a girl I was dating about why I wasn't able to move out. Which was basically because my fam is cash strapped, and my stepdad doesn't work. She said she really liked that I was a family guy. Two weeks later she said she wants to start dating other guys
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 03:51 AM
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What should I refer to her as then ?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 04:06 PM
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Yeah never lower your standards but you shouldn't always expect everything to be amazing. Just be open to whatever. It's a subtle difference but makes a huge difference imo
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 03:00 PM
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Yeah in hindsight I could've used my time more wisely but the ball was rolling and I went with it lol cheers for the props! It's a process for sure! Still getting used to lone wolfing it. Although in the long run I'd like to have a group to kick it with
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 02:26 PM
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Kinda, I get it from my Dad who is British lol. Idk people seemed shocked/laughed about it. Not in the "I pitty you" kinda way either
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 01:02 PM
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Thanks bruh. Currently doing monk mode whilst attempting to grow a squad. Keep grinding !
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 11:20 PM
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I'm not saying there aren't fugly people out there, I'm saying that even a fugly dude can pull someone "out of his league" if he's got other factors. Source: 5/10 guy with a 9
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 12:41 AM
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This week I started talking to random people I saw throughout the day. Nothing major, just little comments or quick exchanges. Built up to going to a major concert in my area solo. Once there I didn't quite succeed in talking to chicks but did manage to strike up so decent conversation with some other people Progress... SUNDAY UPDATE: So I planned a date with a 6 from Tinder last night. We texted a bit beforehand, not much though. It ended with me asking a question and her not responding. So I f…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 07:49 PM
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I agree mate, with you first point at least. As for your second, nah. I'm too paranoid about STDs and stuff. I usually only have one partner at a time but I'm also confident that if things go south I can recover (find a new FWB or whatever) in a few days. Im out enough I've got a few numbers in my "In case of emergency" roladex lol
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 07:40 PM
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Being poly is to fucking expensive and also who the fuck wants to share lol
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 06:18 PM
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Bars have always had high ROI for me if I'm in a red pill mood( red pill is more of phase than a lifestyle for me)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 06:15 PM
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This nonsense of dating in your "league" is annoying. Just be a confident ,interesting, social ,non manchild and you'll have a chance at most girls. However I will say guys sometimes go after girls with different values than they have. Ie They'll go for this gold digger even though they just want to have a simple low-key life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:19 AM
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Disclosing that I couldn't move out just yet because I had to stay home to TEMPORARILY support my family. One week prior she was saying how much she liked my connection and dedication to my family and likes me even more. Next week she wants to see other people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 02:48 AM
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So I can agree there, quality over quantity for me. Initially you made it seem the opposite. What you said here says a guy should have quality friends not a lot of friends. Big difference. That's what I like about my SO she really only has 2 friends but they're amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 03:39 AM
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And you're funny lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 03:29 AM
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I feel like I need to show that to my friend haha. He's getting better though like we went out awhile back and he was able to be part of the conversation. Confidence is a funny thing, for some people it pops up in all areas of life. However for others it's very circumstantial. How did you go about changing? 5 is my number currently so that's why I was curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 03:11 AM
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I like your response the most thus far. Not so much about seeking validation from others more so about having their own life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 03:06 AM
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I never understood that tbh. Perhaps because I never feel the need to be at the center of attention. So let's say you meet a guy in a rural area, hes cool with his family and best friend but that's it. Is he not attractive just because he doesn't know the whole town?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 03:01 AM
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Where did you get 5 from ,that's very specific? Interesting, you sound more extroverted than a classic introvert. What do you mean by perform? Perhaps I should ask the question whats the difference between a shy guy and a introverted guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 02:57 AM
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Temporary meaning that it can fluctuate. Idk I've seen people go from being top of the world with a gazillion friends in college to begging enemies to grab a drink during real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 02:54 AM
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Interesting so what if he has maybe 5 friends total but he only sees 1/month
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 02:52 AM
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Why prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 02:50 AM
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Who needs friends when you've got mates
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 02:46 AM
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Yeah it's kinda sad actually because social status is such a temporary thing. I'm glad my current gf is not an attention seeker like many girls I know
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 02:44 AM
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He has me and my other 2 friends though. So it's not like he doesn't have any friends
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 02:42 AM
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I think because he's kinda quiet/reserved around most new people. After like the 2nd or 3rd time he's cool. Hes aware of it and basically said it's just because he just kinda sits back and listens/learns about people. 1 on 1 he's fine but more than like 5 he gets lost if it isn't the normal crew. Idk I find it kinda bogus and shallow he gets blown off so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 02:40 AM
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It all depends on the amount of users that they can get to actually use it. There are many Tinder clones that are in my opinion better than Tinder. However they don't have the user base to be worthwhile. This is a good gap to enter however. I'm at the age where I would never touch Match.com because it's too old and Tinder can be hectic. So having a "Match.com" that's newer and fresher could be a power play. Side note we're seeing Zuckerberg's greatest strength which is to copy something entirely…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 02:26 PM
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Elaborate please
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 06:14 PM
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Umm orrrrrr Women can think for themselves...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 03:50 PM
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I'm glad the feeling is mutual lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 03:49 PM
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Bruhhh I feel this. My relationships with white girls tend to revolve around me being the stereotype which I'm not. Once they realize that I don't match this fetish/fantasy things begin to fade rather quickly. I'm nerdy but can swap between sub and dom. So that means I pull alot of fetish seekers initially but fall off in the long. Its can be hard to discern the difference between the two. Was seeing a girl who was really chill and active in supporting the minority community. However I also foun…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 03:11 PM
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_^ lmao thanks for that laugh. Needed that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 02:39 PM
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I like balance. Don't mind being sub here and there but mainly Dom
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 02:38 PM
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No I don't think all women are bi, I said the average. The title was a bit click bait lol. Anyways I'll also grant that distinction between recognizing/appreciating beauty of something and attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 12:39 PM
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No I think if you remove sexual orientation you'll find that more people find the average female body to be more attractive. However if you segment it out, it would be interesting to see how the degree to which each sample differs i.e. Do gay men/ hetro women not think the female body is attractive to the same degree lesbians/ hetro dudes think the male body is not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 12:16 PM
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I'm weak hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 12:03 PM
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Now there's an interesting data point, I feel like that isn't true. Or at least pop culture seems to idolize the female body (although not the average female body) while the male body isn't as much. I've always focused more on my partner than my own needs. I guess cause I know it doesn't take much but with ladies it's more of complex process. I'm just asking on behalf of the average hetero dude because most girls say they suck lol I'll look into that book though, I'm always up for improvement lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 12:02 PM
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Interesting, solid source. However it doesn't say how results were collected other than taking a test. Furthermore one could argue that those results are more indicative of the UK population as opposed to America or on a global level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:44 AM
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Point taken. Most girls are shocked when I go down on them(across all races too). It's actually interesting how you tell this subtle change in music as well if you listen to rap lyrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:39 AM
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Could you please provide an example of this research you mentioned?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 10:15 AM
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Lol I'm doing it to cater to the audience. I like to be inclusive where possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 10:13 AM
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Wow wow my friend please don't speak for black people. I'm a black dude that loves to eat pussy. Most of my friends do as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 10:04 AM
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You never said why I'm wrong ... If you take 5 seconds to read others comments then you'll see that there have been studies done that support my theory. Furthermore it's just that, a theory. Personal attacks are the weakest form of rebuttal.. Perhaps you are the ignorant one ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 10:00 AM
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Yeah I've read that data but just curious to see if it matches popular opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 03:05 AM
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Oh okay gotcha. At first I was going to disagree, I know a lot of girls who are basically porn connoisseurs lol. I hate when a girl fakes it, I've actually gone limp in one session because of it. Obviously that was after I could tell when my partner was being real
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 03:04 AM
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Yeah it puts me in an awkward spot. When it comes up, cause while I'm supportive of people choosing that lifestyle. It wouldn't work for me. Yeah I would love to hear from peeps if its easier to come out to friends/fam/society as gay as a female or male. My guess is that is maybe it's easier to come out as a girl as opposed to guy. But hey what do I know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 03:01 AM
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I see , thanks for clarifying. So what they watch it for tips lol ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 02:55 AM
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Also for example girls will kiss each other at clubs and think nothing of it. Most cis guys would have ptsd or be afraid they're gay
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 02:54 AM
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I think I can agree with you here. I know more open minded woman than open minded dudes. Open minded being sexually attracted to both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 02:53 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly. I usually tell my partners that I want to do what makes them feel good/explore their bodies. I think porn is horrible because it puts pressure on people to perform instead of just learning about their individual partners preferences I don't get part 3 I think some try too hard or attempt to match what they see in porn which they know guys like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 02:51 AM
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Im saying the average guy so perhaps you and I are not average guy's lol I never said it worked the other way. Just in my experience most woman have been more sexually open minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 02:48 AM
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Slightly triggered I see lol. However I disagree that just because I'm a cis dude I think the female body is more attractive. Also on point three I put that there after some more recent experiences. Perhaps it's my age (24) and the age range I seem to attract (22 - 26) but my dates and SOs have been more bi curious and even poly- curious and want to explore that side. Which is fine but they also expect me to be excited about including another person/woman in our sexual activities
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 02:43 AM
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Interesting, so do you think women are just more vocal about their interests or something else ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 02:27 AM
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Hell yes! However while most of my partners have become increasingly vocal about what they like, some are still afraid of being judged. I enjoy making my partner feel good, it turns me on. However on the flip side some girls think this is submissive and eventually get turned off
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 02:24 AM
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Patience. Relationships take time and some work. After the initial phase of physical attraction wears off ,and the cracks begin to show people begin to update their profile. It's easier than ever to find a replacement SO. Which is great because it means everyone has an opportunity to meet more people. However it also makes people unwilling to stick with someone who is going through a rough patch. People just think I hate to leave them so soon but I'm sure they'll find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 01:55 AM
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