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| 1 | In need of advice against demoralisationI'm not an expert but the only things really measurable (it seems to me) are throughput and success rate. The first is almost entirely under your control: if you aren't approaching enough women, well, approach more. Rate is harder to control, but if it's low, I would say, try some variant of 5Ys. Analyze each encounter for how it might have gone wrong. You've already mentioned one: the woman raised objections (boyfriend, age difference). Now those might be real objections or they might be shit-t… | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 03:45 PM |
| 2 | In need of advice against demoralisationWouldn't a success is having intimate experience with the girl? Well, that would be a complete success, yes — but getting shot down complete 9 times out of 10 is perfectly expected. I still can't imagine how one can do 20 approaches a day. How about five then? If you spend 10 minutes on each (unsuccessful) one, that's less than an hour a day — and it's a 15x improvement on your current rate. | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 02:44 PM |
| 4 | In need of advice against demoralisationWait, you're seeing a 13% success rate and you're "demoralised"? Man, anything above 5% and you're golden. Let's say you are Brad Pitt. You try to get a girl to go out with you, rich handsome movie star, some girls are lesbians, some girls are married or whatever, some girls are just stubborn or really don't like you. You're Brad Pitt, and maybe you are hitting 30%. But you aren't Brad Pitt, you're just some guy. 13% is great. Your friend is going to clubs, interacting with 20, 30, 40 girls, hit… | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 02:16 PM |
| 8 | Cold approached a girl for the first timeYeah, here's the thing: women like men who are bold. If you are 18 and she's 25 or 30, then you automatically get points just for having the stones to talk to her. "How about I take you to dinner tonight?" "You're too young." "Then tomorrow night." | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 02:05 PM |
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