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Yes banter with everyone. Let them give you their numbers and only try to hit on someone once your shift is over.
/r/seduction03/10/24 04:51 PM
5

If you can't control yourself, don't be friends with people you find attractive. Proposition them for dating, take it slow if need be, but don't creep into the friend zone and hope they will love you the way you love them. It doesn't work. Even if you get them, it won't work.
/r/seduction03/10/24 02:16 PM
5

Interesting that he had a topless beach shot in there. Perhaps even more for older men, showing that you are not out of shape is important. Pay attention to what they do, not what they say.
/r/seduction30/09/24 08:42 AM
1

Of course it does. And you aren't being cocky. Dating can be tough, a barrage of rejection for some theoretical goal you have to keep faith in. What I am suggesting is not only supposed to help your social skills but also your self esteem. If you can make friends and have good times with them, you will be more confident about yourself. Perhaps consider dating less. Maybe match and text but take more time in setting up a date. You can even tell your matches at some point "I'm taking some time to …
/r/seduction25/09/24 09:03 AM
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That's your mental health problem talking. People can't do that. You are doing something weird you don't think is weird. You are young and a classic mistake the young make is thinking that being 5 years older is forever and you will be basically dead. A lot of players are 30. A lot of 28 year olds get a girlfriend and realise they don't want to be players. Bottom line, giving up would be giving in to your mental health problems and letting them consume you. You have plenty of time to work on you…
/r/seduction25/09/24 08:48 AM
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That's the problem you have to work on before it devours your life. You are getting depressed and will give up. Objectively you are doing better than most. You get the dates, they show up. You are so close to being a player and you don't even know it. But you have to aim lower for now and accept a long hard road. Fixing mental health problems is the work of years. You can still date as you do, but try to just not completely repel the woman. If she thinks you are nice but boring that's a huge imp…
/r/seduction25/09/24 08:30 AM
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Don't. Go on non-dates and become basically functional socially. Go to therapy. Accept it will be a long hard road to become a guy who gets a second date. Put out of your head that you will ever be a player. There are limits for us all. Aim a little higher than you are. One step up the staircase, then onto the next.
/r/seduction25/09/24 07:24 AM
1

Thanks.
/r/seduction25/09/24 04:07 AM
1

Can you explain your abbreviations? I'm not sure I follow.
/r/seduction24/09/24 08:40 PM
1

That might be genius.
/r/seduction24/09/24 09:12 AM
2

Buuuuuulllshit. And also, take it elsewhere.
/r/seduction23/09/24 04:45 AM
2

This is a sub Reddit to discuss how to seduce people you find attractive. You are looking for $5 on cashapp to show your nudes. Take it elsewhere.
/r/seduction23/09/24 03:44 AM
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They give you the number because they’d rather avoid confrontation and know you will go away without insisting if they just give it to you. Then all they have to do is ghosting or blocking your number. This is the cold hard truth. You thought you were succeeding but you were actually failing. Maaaaybe they were interested, gave their number to several people and prioritised them, but ask yourself, did you get many women refusing to give you their number?
/r/seduction23/09/24 03:01 AM
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That emoji is wide eyed and generally not positive. It's a minefield because anything romantic/sexual is creepy if unwelcome. But imagine a hillbilly mutant from the hills have eyes drawling "I want to touch your skin and feel how soft it is" to a teenager chained up in a shack. That's how I interpret her taking the comment. She stopped responding right after. She didn't appreciate the escalation.
/r/seduction22/09/24 10:45 AM
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Thanks. And what part of the world is this?
/r/seduction20/09/24 08:48 AM
1

I want to know which city you are in and how it works out for you.
/r/seduction20/09/24 08:19 AM
1

That's fairly promising. But you are going to have to give them something. Buy them drinks, pay them attention, sleep with them, whatever to keep it fun. If they don't enjoy being arm candy they will probably get shitty about pulling other women right in front of them.
/r/seduction20/09/24 06:51 AM
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I'm not sure that you can attract a serious woman by being surrounded with paid skanks. That said, I can see how it can change a male only group into a mixed party. You are almost proposing a paid wing woman.
/r/seduction20/09/24 06:37 AM
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Can also smash these party girls pretty easily if you have any game. I assume this is where the scepticism comes in. If you can't sleep with these party girls you are going to be paying them to hang around you in the hope that this will attract women to you. If that doesn't work you are just simping. If you can sleep with these party girls then why not just do that?. It's not a bad idea to put yourself at the centre of a social whirl. The key thing is whether you will be getting laid or just buy…
/r/seduction19/09/24 11:54 PM
7

Honestly I would look for Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Thought Challenging. You are basically trying to attenuate a compulsive thought and replace it with an affirming one. In essence, every time you think it is unlikely that someone will find you attractive, you mentally fight with yourself along the lines of "while not literally everyone finds me attractive, lots of people do, what about X, Y & Z? I got complimented spontaneously just this-morning/yesterday/whenever". Make a habit of this…
/r/seduction14/09/24 05:21 PM
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This reads like you are over applying what you have learned from a single course to everything and being quite obnoxious. Why not observe and engage successfully with people rather than calling them out and being "right" all the time? And consider that if you are ever wrong, since you are making judgements about other people's subconscious desires it will difficult to detect it. Scientific ideas are supposed to be falsifiable; to imply clearly what observations contradict them being true. If you…
/r/seduction13/09/24 01:37 PM
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So what? He's hitting on adults who can make their own choices. I knew a 19 year old at university who fucked a 50 year old. A large age gap might make for an unstable marriage but it doesn't make for rape for fuck's sake. It's an oddly increasing strain of puritanism that says men aren't allowed to pursue youth and beauty even among fully legal adults. Take your hang ups elsewhere. EDIT: Blocked me (lol) before I could post the following: My point is that some 19 year old women want to sleep wi…
/r/seduction12/09/24 05:53 AM
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I look forward to the day when people 8 years apart in their 30s can't get together as some judgy prude considers it "weird and creepy" for consenting adults to exercise their free choices.
/r/seduction12/09/24 05:45 AM
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According to this new special personal definition of adult that ignores that they are fully legal adults? Very cool and fair.
/r/seduction12/09/24 05:41 AM
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Colleges almost exclusively enroll adults.
/r/seduction12/09/24 05:26 AM
10

Happy Cake Day; he's right. The kind of hot guy who gets hit on by women while minding his own business can go to a coffee shop and find a barista who is just dying for him to give her his number. For anyone less than magnetic to women, she's almost certainly just being nice because it is her job.
/r/seduction06/09/24 07:15 AM
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The difference is that if you can get the hot girl into bed and show her a good time, chances are she will want that relationship. The hot guy will fuck an average woman and dump her. The hot girl will fuck and average guy then reveal all the red flags that make him think "ohhhh that's why she can't do better... how do I escape this crazy freak".
/r/seduction05/09/24 09:44 PM
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Do it. Try to find a university with some kind of subsidised city centre accommodation if you can. Your own place so long as it's central and clean could be a little crash pad.
/r/seduction05/09/24 06:43 AM
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I know.
/r/seduction04/09/24 11:17 AM
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Yes but inside those groups people fuck each other as casually as arranging a dinner party or sharing a bag of chips. "Oh hey! Good to see you again, didn't know you were coming to this orgy too... care to partake of my genitals?"
/r/seduction04/09/24 09:52 AM
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And many men react violently to rejection.
/r/seduction04/09/24 09:48 AM
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You might be dyslexic. You should get assessed. But here you have the opportunity to rewrite and repost an EDIT.
/r/seduction02/09/24 08:51 PM
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No, he's reading. And if you look closer, you'll see he's right. The comment is scrambled.
/r/seduction02/09/24 07:59 PM
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This but unironically.
/r/seduction02/09/24 04:44 PM
1

Good luck. I'm curious how it turns out.
/r/seduction01/09/24 07:45 PM
2

The friendzone is real. But it is more a result of convincing her there is no possibility or need to sleep with you. It's quite different if you are tantalisingly out of reach. But it is your call whether making something happen is more important than ensuring the collaboration is effective and lasting. I'd probably go for it and look to have a fling/collaboration at the same time. You just have to be good to her while you work together and at least part on good terms if not be fully committed t…
/r/seduction01/09/24 06:45 PM
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Unlikely to be many who have done this often enough to be able to advise on what works and what doesn't. My view is that you should stick to the basics; be groomed, have all logistics figured out if something happens (clean room etc). Bring something that makes the work more fun (bottle of wine to share?) but while you should try to charm her, don't try to be too obviously into her. Ideally you want her to have a great time collaborating with this hot funny guy she wishes something would happen …
/r/seduction01/09/24 02:13 PM
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Cultivate a life a woman might want to be a part of, become a better version of yourself and enjoy that. Wank. Seriously, if you aren't horny and live a pretty cool life, being single is more "their loss" and it is more plausible that you might just head out on a night out with a bunch of friends, have a great time and flirt the cutest girl in the place.
/r/seduction01/09/24 12:30 PM
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You misunderstood.
/r/seduction01/09/24 06:35 AM
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Most likely you will experience the slog of being single and struggling to find anyone else you get on with half as well. But I would advise you to break up. Why? The kids thing is huge. I'm divorcing right now and it all went sideways when my ex fell pregnant (planned) with our perfect beautiful, previously smart, sleep through the night baby girl. We've parented on easy mode and still she wished she'd remained child free and couldn't get over my preference for having more kids. Let me be clear…
/r/seduction30/08/24 05:43 AM
1

I still don't think approaching women at their work is OK.
/r/seduction28/08/24 03:45 AM
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I have done; met as part of group, met with her friend, went on date, banged, relationship. I would be open to hanging out with both of them so long as you aren't paying for the friend and you aren't ignoring actual dates to hang out platonically.
/r/seduction28/08/24 03:32 AM
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Yeah, there’s a few misconceptions in your answer. plenty of women DON’T give a definite no - which would be appreciated by most men - simply because they want to keep the These are women who basically never talk to you again.
/r/seduction27/08/24 07:11 PM
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Remember that women are just like you but inhabit a different world. Casual sex is readily available but often disappointing. Romantic partners can quickly turn dangerous. You want to know what "Let's Just Be Friends" means? Well, have you ever actually hung out with them afterwards as friends? No. It means "I want to reject you but have found/been told this is a safe way to do it." She's giving you a sliver of hope so you don't behave like a dickhead there and then. She doesn't want you to feel…
/r/seduction27/08/24 01:51 PM
1

Fake it till you make it but applied to your own psychology?
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:09 PM
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Before you leave your room, dress in clean clothes that fit. Groom your face and hair. Then at least once a day as you pass a hot girl simply smile and compliment her on something specific. "Nice shades", "Your hair looks awesome today". At first just do it drive by style. If your body language makes it clear you are passing by they won't perceive a threat and you can just practice judging the moment, spotting what to talk about (look for something they put some effort into and want to be notice…
/r/seduction26/08/24 05:23 PM
0

That's a little different to what I meant. Rather than act differently, change to be different. Then act naturally.
/r/seduction26/08/24 04:40 PM
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Yourself is not a static concept. They are advising you not to lie (even though that can work if you do it well), urging you to avoid an unethical and high risk strategy. What almost no one says is "improve yourself and then showcase the better version of yourself".
/r/seduction26/08/24 11:40 AM
1

Move where you live.
/r/seduction23/08/24 01:34 PM
8

If this is true, consider working on becoming a better human being and having a better marriage. Play the game on hard mode; confess and beg for a second chance.
/r/seduction22/08/24 12:42 PM
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Unhelpful ad hominem nonsense. Consider the post.
/r/seduction20/08/24 06:29 PM
8

This is a solid question. It's like the gym only with hundreds of people you can meet and a more social vibe than "don't bother me I am at the gym" but how to open? How to close? Where are the gurus?
/r/seduction20/08/24 09:02 AM
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This is what comes under the rubric of inner game. Read more, work out more, seek out new and interesting information. Go to places to learn. Talk to men, try to be funny and interesting. Try making new friends and see if you can become the awesome new guy they met. Approach a girl with a massive pile of data at your back that you are interesting, that people do like you and think "if she won't give me a chance, she's going to miss out". Don't become an egotist but do ground your confidence in b…
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:50 AM
1

Interesting observation.
/r/seduction16/08/24 08:44 AM
0

I'm not. Have you found that girls on that site are open to being seduced as opposed to just paid?
/r/seduction16/08/24 08:17 AM
0

We're young Who is we? Do you work for them?
/r/seduction16/08/24 08:15 AM
0

I've never heard of it. Tell me about it.
/r/seduction16/08/24 08:09 AM
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If you are being rejected for not replying then you are sabotaging your own success. You need to come at this happy and excited. Being sullen and ignoring your prospects gets you what you are getting. Do you want to change or not?
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:54 AM
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A lot of different motives but it seems reasonable to think she isn't looking for a committed long term relationship. Should be fairly obvious pretty quick if she means platonic friendships or subtly looking so NSA. The thing to remember is the gender imbalance and the shotgun approach most men are taking that women often will get an unmanageable number of matches from any bio. Those looking for a one night stand quickly learn that they will get unsolicited dick pics if they advertise that fact …
/r/seduction09/08/24 09:23 AM
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Not at all. My ex's friend was literally just looking for dick but wanted several days of chat and at least one sexless meeting with a Tinder match to screen out weirdos before wild catting them all night. Plenty of horny women have looked in the mirror and told themselves "don't fuck him on the first date, be disciplined, scratch his back up to shit on the second date but for the love of god stop diving into bed with men before you know if they are safe". If you have no patience you will miss o…
/r/seduction07/08/24 05:27 AM
1

This is the right answer.
/r/seduction05/08/24 04:22 AM
3

No, it's just self serving. A psychological device to avoid the hard work of change when it doesn't feel necessary. To give in to the comforting lure of depressive self pity. The truth is that with women the bar is on the floor because so few men make an effort but you have to be willing to put yourself out there and repeatedly make an effort. And somewhere in your ape brain a circuit is saying "nah... We're well fed, warm and dry and regularly see naked ladies and cum, just wallow in porn and s…
/r/seduction05/08/24 04:03 AM
1

AFC?
/r/seduction28/07/24 08:29 AM
0

Call her, say "I want to get that coffee date in my diary before the damn thing fills up, you free [optimal day/time]?" She told you to call. Everyone texts, everyone gets bored. Be the man she's looking for.
/r/seduction20/07/24 08:50 PM
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The whole PUA movement is toxic in my opinion but it does contain nuggets of truth about human psychology. You want to raise your self esteem? You can. Affirmations, thought challenging and improving your lifestyle and being proud of yourself all get recommended by therapists and "inner game" advocates. What is generally not mentioned by therapists is gaining experience with women you aren't into. It isn't evil to flirt to pass the time. Women do it every day. So go to a bar, find an average loo…
/r/seduction20/07/24 09:22 AM
2

Whether you care or not it is really common lingo here. The concept is that women find someone more attractive if someone else has confirmed they are worth being attracted to. Pre-selection is a dumb term for it, in my opinion. And it is absolutely potentially something that simply jealousy and competitiveness can be mistaken for. (Arguably it seeks to rationalise them). But the concept is commonplace.
/r/seduction19/07/24 09:28 PM
1

Dude did this to you?
/r/seduction17/07/24 03:13 PM
1

I guessed that. Although God calls himself "the Alpha and Omega" so I am not offended.
/r/seduction04/07/24 04:04 PM
14

OK, you're a troll.
/r/seduction04/07/24 01:31 PM
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Nobody with any success with women is remotely interested in what the fuck any of that is. Either explain the classification without reference to itself or be ignored.
/r/seduction04/07/24 01:00 PM
1

I would suggest the initiator was not actually 100% straight...
/r/seduction26/06/24 01:15 PM
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One night stands are spontaneous events. Having a long car/train ride home from a fun date can seriously reduce the number of "fuck it, let's do this" moments. A common question is "is your place nearby?". Ideal is to rent a place above a city centre bar. But far more practical is to scope out the spots around your home. If you have a date, where will you go? What are the late night options if she wants the night to continue but doesn't yet want to come home with you? You want to think about all…
/r/seduction14/06/24 05:43 PM
1

Yeah, where is that?
/r/seduction14/06/24 03:39 PM
13

Do both. You also need to practice your charisma, logistics etc.
/r/seduction14/06/24 03:30 PM
4

There are a lot of subs that allow kinky Redditors to commune. This isn't one. You are either very naive or a catfish who thinks the people here are untapped thirsty mugs.
/r/seduction11/06/24 11:43 PM
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I can see this being the most likely answer. A big part of that dynamic is looking pathetic and meek in the eyes of a woman who otherwise likes your personality.
/r/seduction11/06/24 10:39 AM
6

Did that ever work for you? I just don't get how this breaks someone out of the friendzone.
/r/seduction11/06/24 09:33 AM
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Gal 1: "Come back to my place (subtext; for sex)". Gal 2: "Come with me to a secluded location (subtext; for sex)". You have genuine charisma, I'm not knocking it, but your examples are of when you have already seduced them. If you had said to Gal 1 "sure I love parties" you still would have got laid. If you had just given your number to Gal 2 you would have gotten laid. At most these are examples of keeping a good vibe going by being playful/escalating. The Gals were already trying to seduce yo…
/r/seduction11/06/24 06:28 AM
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Hey, can you explain a little about how or why it worked? I don't quite understand. So you had a male friend you were kinda sorta but not really into and they "jokingly" introduced you to people as their lover? And then you became open to them actually seducing you?
/r/seduction11/06/24 06:19 AM
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Her-Well I love sucking dicks while in a car.... ME-Ehhhhhhh I didnt need to know that (and duly noted this moment isn't special anymore/shes already done it several times....EYEROLL). OK, you're as weird as OP.
/r/seduction09/06/24 10:22 PM
2

That clearly changed or changes. Just don't think that's fixed for forever. She might not sleep with you if you proposition her cold. But if you two are in a sexy conversation and she's clearly getting turned on and you have the logistics figured out so you two can slip away and fuck somewhere close... she'll probably do it.
/r/seduction24/05/24 05:40 PM
1

And they are fundamentally inundated with offers. When I experience that even a little I start ranking screening people. Looks and behaviour. It makes sense they are doing the same. Honestly I wouldn't consider someone who is always up at 4am and never seems busy future wife material. And they aren't struggling to get laid, they are struggling to find a man who has his shit together. Also shows the wisdom of "inner game" approaches. Become the best version of yourself and people notice in a thou…
/r/seduction20/05/24 02:16 PM
1

You are giving them too little credit. It might not necessarily mean something even if it is 99 times out of 100. They are generally way more experienced in the early part of dating than us men. They get flirted with all the time, go on dates almost whenever they want and for them, and the peers they talk to, it's all about spotting the lower grade cuts of meat dressed up like prime. That's their entire challenge and focus. And the most useful tells? Things men don't think to hide or change. Thi…
/r/seduction20/05/24 07:10 AM
1

I haven't dived in a while but fuck yes you are right.
/r/seduction17/05/24 11:57 AM
29

Every sub on Reddit is a potentially interesting discussion derailed by people swooping in to say "well actually..." to force an uninformed opinion upon the narrative. Lots of terminally online people, some of whom have lost the humility that prevents the rest of us acting like experts on what happens in the outside.
/r/seduction29/04/24 08:25 PM
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Some women cheat. Some move on from a relationship only when they have found a new one. You can decide how to play it with them. I'd advise against becoming their boyfriend.
/r/seduction22/04/24 10:59 AM
2

I can't decide if I love or hate this, but I am sure you were wearing a fedora when you typed it.
/r/seduction03/04/24 10:42 AM
17

In all seriousness, if you are contemplating moving there try travelling there and arranging dates beforehand. Don't change your life based on app matches. Get a real feel for the situation before you make a potential mistake.
/r/seduction27/03/24 01:27 AM
0

Not sure you are better attuned to the social cues they are giving off than me. But we can't settle it.
/r/seduction26/03/24 08:50 PM
1

Are you high? My point is that just because they don't say "fuck off" doesn't mean they are enjoying it. Listen to their voices, their responses. They are trying to find a way out of the conversation.
/r/seduction26/03/24 06:43 PM
3

Or they don't show it with aggression towards men in case he responds in kind?
/r/seduction26/03/24 05:39 PM
4

I am not sure he did. And I think several of them were trying to politely get rid of him. Of course I can't argue with the point that annoying several women to find the one who wants you works. But even she just didn't seem like someone who had been seduced on the street for real.
/r/seduction26/03/24 05:23 PM
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This looked like he was just annoying a bunch of women who wanted to get rid of him. The one that he showed accepting his date and agreeing to sleep with him (and how creepy is it to film that surreptitiously if it is real?) sounded wooden, jaded and just looking for anonymous sex. Either she's a poor actress (in both senses) and this whole thing is useless "advice" or he just hit lamely on women trying to go about their day until he found someone who was actually down to fuck anything that move…
/r/seduction26/03/24 05:04 PM
4

I suspect they wouldn't make him look as good.
/r/seduction26/03/24 05:00 PM
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The only example of a threesome strategy I know of is from The Game and involves massages. Everyone I know of has involved people getting drunk/high on stuff that leaves them horny and things just devolving into sex. Try keeping it fun and flirty as inhibitions lower but they steer to encouraging them to compliment each other. If you can escalate mutual touching between them do so. Strauss would recommend that you try to get the one you have been with to massage the one you haven't been with (yo…
/r/seduction19/03/24 09:58 AM
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Is this actually a good strategy?
/r/seduction19/03/24 09:54 AM
1

I must say some of these traits are very rare and developing them is not guarantee even with years upon years of effort. This is where we disagree. I believe far more of us simply refuse the hard work of change.
/r/seduction15/03/24 09:07 PM
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Countless examples abound of stunning women with mid-looking dudes. We can debate why, I believe it's because of other qualities, chiefly personality but the existence of such couples should be sufficient to dispel the fixation you have on the idea of there being a fixed level of attractiveness each of us can possibly end up with. If you are carrying this thought it is likely impacting how you act, whether you recognise it or not.
/r/seduction15/03/24 06:22 AM
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Not really. Another way to frame this is you have to empathise with them. They matched with ten guys that day, most of them are weird, dull, worthless or some combination of the former. So are you going to join the seemingly endless queue of people who ask job interview type questions (which are perfectly valid questions, but got old a hundred matches ago) or are you going to make her laugh? Your personality isn't a generic question set. Your personality is your sense of humour, your fun ideas f…
/r/seduction20/02/24 02:11 AM
-1

What happened to "take a walk... it's all good". You are alternating between telling me to relax and calling me a pedo. Maybe work on your social skills?
/r/seduction08/02/24 03:05 PM
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Like writing that comment? It took seconds to make the discovery and sharing it with you helped you. Why are you being so passive aggressive about it?
/r/seduction08/02/24 03:01 PM
-9

I resent you calling it creeping to see someone has a photo for an icon, clicking on their profile and seeing them discuss their age/sex/location on the first page's thumbnails. You probably wouldn't call it creeping if she'd turned out to be a 72 year old man.
/r/seduction08/02/24 02:55 PM
5

She appears to be a 19 year old girl.
/r/seduction08/02/24 08:01 AM
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And you are being downvoted for being right. Dancing is a skill men will work incredibly hard to avoid having to learn or deploy but women respond to. It's physical, fun and involves touching with obvious opportunity for escalation. It's been a traditional way to attract women for millennia and still a great way to differentiate yourself from others. Learn to dance guys.
/r/seduction01/02/24 01:05 PM
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