yearsagotheytriedto Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	CMV: Most cuckold relationships are initiated by the man and something the man wants Do you still consider it cheating if a guy tries to live his cuckold fantasy in real life (like in the r/confessions post linked in the OP)? Because that's what I thought the OP was about. I don't see it talking about cheating anywhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/16 12:57 AM
1	Can Bluepill explain these rising issues? So you're asking old people about their lives and pasts and expecting them to not aggrandize it? That's what old people do. Who wants to be approaching death going, "the whole thing sucked." It's much easier to look at the positives from your past when you're very distanced from them. The true test would be to wait until the people your age are a bunch of old farts and watch how they glorify their youths in comparison to all the modern changes they can't understand or adapt to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/16 03:15 PM
1	Q4ALL: What "duties" do men and women have wrt flirting and/or dating? By carry himself, I mean the way a guy behaves. The way he moves, the way he talks, his attitude. Women need a chance to evaluate these things in order to get a general idea of a guy's character/persona (i.e. the way he carries himself). Tinder is a different monster that I think is going to be seriously harsh on the average-looking male because he can't properly convey the way he carries himself online. With online dating, looks are really the only thing women have to go off of. It makes things…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/16 10:13 PM
3	Q4ALL: What "duties" do men and women have wrt flirting and/or dating? If a woman flirts with a man she is indicating she finds him sexually attractive. So why not have sex? I don't need to flirt with a girl to see if I am interested in having sex with her. Same goes for women. I disagree that the same goes for women and I think the whole idea of her knowing within 5 minutes is a myth (although if it were true, it would still entail 5 minutes worth of flirting to find out). But really, I think this might be solipsism on your part, where you're projecting how male a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/16 06:37 PM
1	There is nothing wrong with being Beta Bux (as TRP understands it). If you read through my top posts its pretty clear that I am intellectualy stimulating. I must be doing something right to be at the top of TRP. Watch as the Alpha monkey puffs his chest and asserts his dominant status on the irrelevant forums of the manosphere. Honestly no one even knows who the fuck you are Lots of people don't know me, I haven't met everyone. Is that something that's important to you, being well-known on reddit? and what is known is that your an offended beta boy. You know not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/15 05:25 PM
-2	There is nothing wrong with being Beta Bux (as TRP understands it). Yeah, see, this is my point. You're a guy, you're douchey (trolling?), not intellectually stimulating, who sucks. Definitely not representative of some better demographic. Everyone sucks. Some people suck with a God-complex. SJWs are kind of on the opposite end of suckiness with a martyr-complex---but that's just as fucking bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/15 06:03 AM
8	There is nothing wrong with being Beta Bux (as TRP understands it). Lol, why do you think men are so much better. Most people suck, most people are sheep, their sex organs have nothing to do with it. For every dumb bimbo you can point out, I'll show you a douchebag. Guys are not more intellectually stimulating or free-thinking as a whole. It'd actually be nice if that was an inherent gender trait or something, because then we'd have guaranteed smart people on the planet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/15 01:31 PM
1	Blue Pillers what do you think of /r/TumblrInAction Maybe, but that doesn't mean it doesn't fit this bill minus that one small, insignificant detail. It's about: Making yourself feel important? Check. Trying to show I'm right, they're wrong, and I'm better? Check. Self-aggrandizing? Couldn't check hard enough. "Calling out" someone (womenz) and thinking you've accomplished something? Sorta, yeah. Have some self-awareness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/15 12:32 PM
3	Blue Pillers what do you think of /r/TumblrInAction That's how I feel about TRP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/15 02:32 AM
1	Question for TRPers: why do you try to justify men cheating but condemn women when they do it? You don't have to reply if you don't want to. But apparently you do want to speak your piece and so do I. Let's compare suffering scores and see who won! You're silly. I never said it was worse, but it is a problem for him. And he's the one asking for advice. And the one trying to make it work anyway. And the one that is missing out on things that he used to love about his wife. Trying to justify cheating as the solution to his "problem" is putting the responsibility of his problem on her proble…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/15 03:52 AM
4	Question for TRPers: why do you try to justify men cheating but condemn women when they do it? They were fucking when they first started seeing each other. I imagine that's how the kids happened I'm talking about the frequency, not whether or not they ever did it. She must have come out and told him at some point that she was molested. She must have had some issues with sex all along, otherwise her just wanting to stop altogether sounds very strange. I think cheating as a last resort in this case is fine. But it's not a last resort, because he still hasn't asked his wife about having an o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/15 02:47 AM
2	Question for TRPers: why do you try to justify men cheating but condemn women when they do it? I'm not saying there isn't any desperation for him in this situation, but how was this not an issue when their relationship started? I'm sure it wasn't this bad at first, but he still had to have some idea what he was signing up for. Regardless, he should just get his shit together and fucking talk to her about having an open-relationship then. The fact that he can't isn't an excuse for him to cheat. He's at fault for his stagnation at this point. He can either talk to her, continue to suffer, o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/15 01:28 AM
15	Question for TRPers: why do you try to justify men cheating but condemn women when they do it? This sounds like terrible advice. Cheating is the easiest option for someone like him because he is a wimp if he's incapable of talking to his own partner of 25+ years. That's on him, not her. And suggesting he cheat is an attempt to put the responsibility on her (i.e. you wouldn't fuck me since you went and got molested, so somebody had to). It's really not an attempt to save a marriage; it's just as likely to end it as divorce would, but he's really going to hurt his wife in the process. I don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/15 11:34 PM
2	Question for TRPers: why do you try to justify men cheating but condemn women when they do it? There are many (I'd argue most) occasions where actually cheating isn't in the mans best interest. So, are there some situations that you'd deem okay because it's in the man's best interest?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/15 10:30 PM